I am a girl. So, to completely not care is not accurate. I would say, care some what. Show that you're attracted to me, but not to the point that it creeps me out. "play it by ear" If I show signs that I like you back, green night. If I don't, yellow light." If I show no interest at all.. "red light" turn around, walk away, I'll be nice about it. I don't mean to sound mean about it. But I don't want to lie either. I am also not generalizing, I know not all women are like this.
don't stare!!! imagine you're a woman and someone keeps staring after you've given them the brush off, you could say you'll beat em up but men have that whole upper body thing going on...and unwanted staring makes you feel violated, it's not like you can file a complaint for eye path assault
Wow. One of my friends told me to try not to care. I didn't really get his point. But now I totally understand and now im definitely gonna use this tip. Thanks Ryan! :D
it happened to me with attractive girls that I really REAAALLY didn't like when I stop caring!!!! Suddendly they started to pick me up with pick up lines with eye contact etc.. it was crazy but honestly it didn't worked on me cause they weren't that interesting to me they were more superficial honestly but hell yeah women can feel you'r energy
Why do women demand confidence all the time from men?
We dont with them. Do they still need an arrogant arsehole to 'take care of them'?
I thought womens lib should have put a stop to that mentality by now.
Women you cant have things both ways if you go for a guy because he is confident he probably wont treat you right. Its the quieter, less confident men who make better partners in general as they tend to be kind and crucially lack a giant ego. No alpha male bullshit.
all the right things to attract women. Stop caring fellas just be you be up front from the gate and if she doesn't like it there's millions of other girls out ther.
This guy is right on. When I used to not care i attracted females that every guy in my school who tried to get with couldn't get with. I didn't have money a car and only had enough clothes to last two weeks before i was wearing the same thing again and I still got them lol. Funny I was such an a**hole too sometimes. Unfortunately the last one I pulled back when I didn't care was my first love and she made me care again now i'm back at f***king square one lol. Stop caring fellas you tend to do
I was in my Zen today which is what I call it when I am in that state of absolute not caring, its pure freedom, anyway I ran into some hot girl and after like 5 seconds it was like she was in love with me and I was like wtf?
At when when i got rejected i would be dissapointed but now i dont even care because i realize that there are alot of females out their and 1000 might reject you but there will always be one that will want you.
i want to see a video with u trying this out on girls.but sounds like gr8 advice. i'm trying to attract a girl that I work with at a pizza hut and i don't think it's working yet.I have started a conversation with her but i some times i cant think of what to say and just glance and smile at her.i havn't told her how i feel about her.
This is genius. All of the stuff he says makes me think about the way I act around girls that want me, and the way I act around girls that don't want me.
Pure indifference. It's worth a try. I have to say I could have got somewhere with a girl 2 weeks ago. I really didn't care and was somewhat disinterested. This provoked a great interest for the girl, however, because I didn't care I never realised any signs, and only when she had left did I fully realise that something might have happened. I don't look on this as a bad thing, it's nice to know that women find you attractive in the first place.
i did the exact same thing dude in my freshman year of high school i acted like I didn't care and was on the fence about her.I didnt see any signs either and then she moved to a different state and I realized something might have happened but i looked at it in a constructive way and moved. i just realized i have to adapt and mix it up.
Yeah that is the oldest advice I ever got but it's true. Just not being uptight is kinda hard not to do when you are trying. Just going out there and putting yourself out without any concern about outcome will breed success.
Life is too short....stop caring.
crazyrj14 2 weeks ago
What if we care too much about not caring?
00great226 3 weeks ago
dude u are a genuis
ITSFORFREE400 1 month ago
100% true. I would get lots of girls like that then I started to care and everything went to shit.
MRBLACKPEARL04 6 months ago
I am a girl. So, to completely not care is not accurate. I would say, care some what. Show that you're attracted to me, but not to the point that it creeps me out. "play it by ear" If I show signs that I like you back, green night. If I don't, yellow light." If I show no interest at all.. "red light" turn around, walk away, I'll be nice about it. I don't mean to sound mean about it. But I don't want to lie either. I am also not generalizing, I know not all women are like this.
Pockets777 7 months ago
Embrace the awkwardness. That's awesome!
Statuskuo75 7 months ago
when i stop caring and thinking infort ova wmen i fall over ,,
rudeboywaz 8 months ago
don't stare!!! imagine you're a woman and someone keeps staring after you've given them the brush off, you could say you'll beat em up but men have that whole upper body thing going on...and unwanted staring makes you feel violated, it's not like you can file a complaint for eye path assault
TXejas19 8 months ago
if you truly do not care about women, you will never get them because you truly dont want them.
TheShootTruth10 1 year ago
"she can sense that you want her and it will turn her off" <-- that just proves that women are bitches and deserve no respect
Aleque 1 year ago
@Aleque women only feel good when they are spending money or have a dick in them. 35 years old and less.
TheShootTruth10 1 year ago
YES UR NAME IS SAM HALL!
hunnikay 1 year ago
Wow. One of my friends told me to try not to care. I didn't really get his point. But now I totally understand and now im definitely gonna use this tip. Thanks Ryan! :D
Limie316 1 year ago
rejection is fun? Rejection is grounds for a homicide! I'll kill a bitch! >:o
SSlimTim 1 year ago
it happened to me with attractive girls that I really REAAALLY didn't like when I stop caring!!!! Suddendly they started to pick me up with pick up lines with eye contact etc.. it was crazy but honestly it didn't worked on me cause they weren't that interesting to me they were more superficial honestly but hell yeah women can feel you'r energy
Macnavor 1 year ago
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sdsafdassafasf 1 year ago
Why do women demand confidence all the time from men?
We dont with them. Do they still need an arrogant arsehole to 'take care of them'?
I thought womens lib should have put a stop to that mentality by now.
Women you cant have things both ways if you go for a guy because he is confident he probably wont treat you right. Its the quieter, less confident men who make better partners in general as they tend to be kind and crucially lack a giant ego. No alpha male bullshit.
anonomousous 1 year ago
for more on not caring see Office Space
3rdEigenState 1 year ago
all the right things to attract women. Stop caring fellas just be you be up front from the gate and if she doesn't like it there's millions of other girls out ther.
datlancboi018 1 year ago
This guy is right on. When I used to not care i attracted females that every guy in my school who tried to get with couldn't get with. I didn't have money a car and only had enough clothes to last two weeks before i was wearing the same thing again and I still got them lol. Funny I was such an a**hole too sometimes. Unfortunately the last one I pulled back when I didn't care was my first love and she made me care again now i'm back at f***king square one lol. Stop caring fellas you tend to do
datlancboi018 1 year ago
I was in my Zen today which is what I call it when I am in that state of absolute not caring, its pure freedom, anyway I ran into some hot girl and after like 5 seconds it was like she was in love with me and I was like wtf?
umadcuzimstylin 1 year ago
stopgivingafuck(dot)com
awefuckit 1 year ago
@lp143 so true man
awefuckit 1 year ago
At when when i got rejected i would be dissapointed but now i dont even care because i realize that there are alot of females out their and 1000 might reject you but there will always be one that will want you.
kambridge967 2 years ago
damn your eyes are piercing
DONTCLICKMYPROFILE 2 years ago
He's staring straight into your SOUL!
oXGenesisXo 2 years ago
i want to see a video with u trying this out on girls.but sounds like gr8 advice. i'm trying to attract a girl that I work with at a pizza hut and i don't think it's working yet.I have started a conversation with her but i some times i cant think of what to say and just glance and smile at her.i havn't told her how i feel about her.
muchopsycho 2 years ago
run the Cube on her, then ask for her number.
b29349 2 years ago
lol 1:16
qwertasdfgzxcvbq 2 years ago
and yes, this is definitely what works
samthedoor 2 years ago
This is genius. All of the stuff he says makes me think about the way I act around girls that want me, and the way I act around girls that don't want me.
samthedoor 2 years ago
you give good tips, thats true chicks like dudes who are not shy, 2 bottles of budwiser will help me over come the shyness.
VODKAGOCRAZY1991 2 years ago 3
i go for Jagermeister it does the trick quite well also.
muchopsycho 2 years ago
Pure indifference. It's worth a try. I have to say I could have got somewhere with a girl 2 weeks ago. I really didn't care and was somewhat disinterested. This provoked a great interest for the girl, however, because I didn't care I never realised any signs, and only when she had left did I fully realise that something might have happened. I don't look on this as a bad thing, it's nice to know that women find you attractive in the first place.
Satie3 2 years ago
i did the exact same thing dude in my freshman year of high school i acted like I didn't care and was on the fence about her.I didnt see any signs either and then she moved to a different state and I realized something might have happened but i looked at it in a constructive way and moved. i just realized i have to adapt and mix it up.
muchopsycho 2 years ago
Do you really put this much time into getting women? Are you kidding?
mfreye79 2 years ago
ur such a legend
HornetUK1 3 years ago 12
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crazycompassion 3 years ago
man i dont care, i mean i just really dont care, thats why im gonna jump off da bridge coz a just dont care man.
goldmine332 3 years ago 22
lol
wizorenzo 2 years ago
@goldmine332 LOL
00great226 3 weeks ago
i'm just gonna walk around with my hammer hanging out
alldayubum 3 years ago
How can you start the process of not caring? The reason one would attempt to not care is because they really do care. It's kind of a paradox
ScotchTapeWorm 3 years ago 3
Change your focus. What you concentrate on you feel. Can't go into detail but it's very possible.
ListenActAttract 3 years ago
In this video i tried it and the not cazreing thing actuallt works.
kambridge967 2 years ago
i have to disagree i approached a girl who i knew was out of my leagure and probably wouldn't get and she still didn't seem to be in to me.
metallegion501 8 months ago
be desireless. be excellent. be gone.
Jazz1313 3 years ago
"be desireless. be excellent. be gone"
great partial tao of steve reference. lol
truthspeaks01 2 years ago
@ScotchTapeWorm exactly for example every rapper...
CODsMODs 3 months ago
Fuck the world.... just be nice about it
thesananncrew 3 years ago
I'm still trying to reach that stage, where I "embrace rejection". I'm getting there.
ArAncalime 3 years ago
How do you just stop caring?
soggysandwich123 3 years ago
Couple ways buy if you do it over and over again, and it will happen naturally
ListenActAttract 3 years ago
Yeah that is the oldest advice I ever got but it's true. Just not being uptight is kinda hard not to do when you are trying. Just going out there and putting yourself out without any concern about outcome will breed success.
KingofZona 3 years ago
Great tip. Classic "me" story
GregtheGaijin 3 years ago