i pray you and you black husband stays together for life. i am black myself but i have not seen alot of asian women with black men. im glad your video brightened up my day and may be think different. your parents were wrong for mistrusting you and not being happy for who you chose to be in your life. they need to get to know him better and see he and many other black people are great to be around.
The world we live in is a fucked up place when such a sweet young lady has to go through this...when she's in love.
I've watched some of her videos so far chronologically and she has actually found happiness with that...can can actually see the change on her face...how she went from being a South Korean ID number to a fulfilled and joyful person...almost as if oxygen started flowing through her lungs.
But she has to go through this shit hole that we've carved and called "society".
You're happily married now, and there's still a long road ahead. A long, long, exciting road that you'll walk side by side, into a future and a place where acceptance will eventually be the rule, rather than the exception. At least amongst those with hearts and minds. The others will always be around, but they'll just become really faded, worn out and limp, like discarded cleaning rags consigned to the bottom of the trash can of obscurity. Best wishes for you two!
The good thing is that our families can be the positive example for the people who do not seem to understand. And I'm so glad that things worked out so that you and James are now married! <3<3....You affect many lives in the best way with the love story you share here @ Youtube. :oD
Damn i'm so sorry it had to go down like that. I understand how your feeling. Cause i'm a black man that's about to marry my girlfriend who is white. My family didn't quite accept my girl. I even had a family member ask me. Why do I have to date them. I was so surprised what that person said that I couldn't even give an answer. But now after 4 years and two kids, my family is starting to come around. So both of your hang in there. It will get better.
Ah yes, the good old "we're afraid for the kids" non-defense. The same thing that Louisiana justice of the peace used when he refused to marry that BM/WW couple last year. Good thing to know that that "defense" is crap.
The moral of lily's story is: you have to STAY STRONG and be willing to FIGHT FOR YOUR WOMAN/MAN despite what ANYONE says, if he/she is truly The One.
damn she's pretty, i'm a blackman and i really don't know many Asians, i hate that many of them are going through this,we should be able to love who we want regardless it's 2009.i wish people would open their minds and hearts
it will be okay lily....god is with you and james, you dont have to let anyone put you down because of the man u choose to be with and the love you have for eachother...keep your head up baby
Your an awesome and brave woman to continue to" go through it" not many people can take that kind of pressure.. You're both very very lucky, stay strong
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yeah i agree...ive seen some of her videos and theres somethin weird about em...like its all for attention or something...i dunno...maybe its for real...but i dont really understand why u would post this stuff on youtube, unless it was for attention...maybe she wants to learn english or something...wateva
I actually shed a tear when you said "We'll get through it. " People will ALWAYS fear and ridicule what they do not understand.. Just stay strong and teach your kids to love themselves and who they are from an early age and you guys will be fine.
I don't know about the rest of the world, but here in California, interracial children are loved dearly. They live happy, healthy, well adjusted lives, and people don't even take a second look at the fact that their mixed.
hi lily! be STRONG...all of us 'youtubers' watching your video know that everything will be fine...you have to live your life not your parents' lives.
Hey! I understand your pain but you have to ignor what people are saying to you. Your family isn't always right. I'm Black and have loved Asian women all my life. The rest of my family looks at that and tells me things I no is wrong. As long as you and him love each other with passion nothing or no-one can not and will not stand in your way. If you were moved by everything that people say,you whould be living life the way they want you to. It wouldn't be your life.You love him,thats what matters
u're a discrace to ur race and obviously dont give a shit about your own heritage.i am korean also and grew up in a korean home.ive seen ur situation happen to more than one person and of different races. im not racist but i do believe in keeping your own heritage pure.i know what will happen if u remain in ur current relationship.all u are is an asian piece of ass.then ull get pregnant have a black baby and no other man will want u.and ur man wont pay child support after he leaves.
Lily, you have to just take one day at a time. I feel that everything will be just fine for the both of you as long as you continue to love each other and support each other. Your children will feel that love and won't be hurt no matter what others say. I'll pray for you =)
Hi Lily, your kids will be just fine. They will be able to make it through anything with their parents helping them along. I hope things will get easier for you two soon and I hope you feel better.
You just have to know Lily that the people that matter will never frown upon you and the relationship that you have.The people that really matter won't ever judge you and will smile at the true love that you have with your boyfriend.and your parents are jusy trying to look out for you and protect your from the many ignorant people out there,but I believe that once they truly see and realize how happy you are they will come around.Lily,keep your head up.Always know that things will get better
Love is powerful. Do not forget that. It comes from Yahweh. The fear you have about discrimination is NOT from him. Look toward the source of love and not to the source of fear.
Many people have been infected with racism. But many people are getting over it. They will love your children and your children will be surrounded by a whole lot of friends and coworkers of all types. Do NOT let this affect you in such a negative way.
Lily, don't let that bring you down, you're kids will be fine I promise. You and your Boyfriend should stay and stand strong. Don't let discrimination dictate your life. I've been there but I've gotten through it. You shouldn't be afraid of what people think they don't even know you and they don't have any common sense. You shouldn't be scared of people like that and it's not a sin to fall in love.
i know that its hard but you must stay strong, as long as you love each other and got each others back then no one will bring you guys down. my mom was in a situation like yours. they told her that her children will never be excepted in life and her life will be ruined, but thats all lies. i'm mixed with mexican and black and i am excepted by people and my mom still stands strong.of course people do look at you weird by your apperience, but that is what makes you unique. so keep your chin up ok.
I know where you are coming from personal experience and want you to know that you can make it, and that others have done what you are doing and succeeded. You are a pioneer. One recent book, "the color of water" is an uplifting story of a jewish woman who married a black man in the 60's. Personally, my mom was jewish and father black, and i have dated several east asian women. I've been lucky w/ family support. Your parents love you. Later they may support you. Make sure you truly love him.
Oh sweetheart, my heart goes out to you.. My step father has the same concerns when I told him that I am inlove with a white man.. It is great to have parents who care about us and want nothing but the best for us.
It is so beautiful to be in love and proudly say "I will go though it" regardless of the hardship. Go with your heart sweetie you will reap nothing but the best... We all see the love you both share. It is hard to fine that these days.
Hey Lily, I just wanted to say, don't give up. Love is not an easy thing to find so it should never be given up willingly. No matter what race. Stay stong.
Lilly...you know that I care very much about you. You will make it work because your kids will be fine. They will come from strong parents and when any negativity comes their way, they will know how to defeat it at the core. I sent you a message...I hope you feel alot better.
Lily, my heart goes out to you. And you are so fortunate to have parents that actually speak to you about it RATIONALLY and at least truly want the best for you. It's true, depending on where you live, discrimination is likely.
I live in France at the moment and it's a very homogeneous society (though they do have their problems); most people here are in interracial relationships and it's not frowned upon at all like in the US, for example. When I was in the US, difficult was an understatement.
But, you can make it work! I've found that it's really about insulating yourself from those that can have a negative impact on your relationship in that way. I've surrounded myself with people that understand that love without limit is normal and knows no color. Your love for one another is precious and deserves to be protected. Shield it from those that are hateful, angry, or otherwise. People that are miserable and lonely will try to drag you down with them in their despair. Don't let them.
Hey Lily, I know this story all to well. My wife and I are a recently married couple and we have gone through some rough times.. thankfully things are all well between us and the parents.... anyhow check your inbox...
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i pray you and you black husband stays together for life. i am black myself but i have not seen alot of asian women with black men. im glad your video brightened up my day and may be think different. your parents were wrong for mistrusting you and not being happy for who you chose to be in your life. they need to get to know him better and see he and many other black people are great to be around.
Gen3ralGrimReaper 9 months ago
The world we live in is a fucked up place when such a sweet young lady has to go through this...when she's in love.
I've watched some of her videos so far chronologically and she has actually found happiness with that...can can actually see the change on her face...how she went from being a South Korean ID number to a fulfilled and joyful person...almost as if oxygen started flowing through her lungs.
But she has to go through this shit hole that we've carved and called "society".
RainMan52 1 year ago
stay strong
kagome304 1 year ago
You're happily married now, and there's still a long road ahead. A long, long, exciting road that you'll walk side by side, into a future and a place where acceptance will eventually be the rule, rather than the exception. At least amongst those with hearts and minds. The others will always be around, but they'll just become really faded, worn out and limp, like discarded cleaning rags consigned to the bottom of the trash can of obscurity. Best wishes for you two!
bobmikmak88 1 year ago
The good thing is that our families can be the positive example for the people who do not seem to understand. And I'm so glad that things worked out so that you and James are now married! <3<3....You affect many lives in the best way with the love story you share here @ Youtube. :oD
roxanneworld11 1 year ago
I think you should go to the police !
kvjnr5348dcewi 1 year ago
Damn i'm so sorry it had to go down like that. I understand how your feeling. Cause i'm a black man that's about to marry my girlfriend who is white. My family didn't quite accept my girl. I even had a family member ask me. Why do I have to date them. I was so surprised what that person said that I couldn't even give an answer. But now after 4 years and two kids, my family is starting to come around. So both of your hang in there. It will get better.
nsanejester07 1 year ago
fucking disgusting enjoy your babbon babies eew
cmiller8789 1 year ago
Ah yes, the good old "we're afraid for the kids" non-defense. The same thing that Louisiana justice of the peace used when he refused to marry that BM/WW couple last year. Good thing to know that that "defense" is crap.
The moral of lily's story is: you have to STAY STRONG and be willing to FIGHT FOR YOUR WOMAN/MAN despite what ANYONE says, if he/she is truly The One.
jalabi99 2 years ago 5
Nothing Comes easy in this life!
Just keep your head up and be strong!
sign1991 2 years ago 2
FIRST OF ALL, were u seriously thinking of marrying him at that point?
lusciousphilippa 2 years ago
@lusciousphilippa - they are married now - they had two weddings. :oD
roxanneworld11 1 year ago
Hey don't cry it's gonna be ok i'm sure of it your parents will get use to him ok
Cashm231 2 years ago 4
Nevermind! LOL! I am glad it worked out for you. congrats.
MrTeltel06 2 years ago 3
I am writng you a yr later. I am curious as to how things worked out for you and your boyfriend
MrTeltel06 2 years ago
I think they just got married last September.
Thudothwacker 2 years ago
KEEP YA HEAD UP!!! ;-D
simonpheenix 2 years ago
i agree who care's your kids will look pretty as long as you love them =]
candykitty305 2 years ago
damn she's pretty, i'm a blackman and i really don't know many Asians, i hate that many of them are going through this,we should be able to love who we want regardless it's 2009.i wish people would open their minds and hearts
mnlkthms 2 years ago 3
it will be okay lily....god is with you and james, you dont have to let anyone put you down because of the man u choose to be with and the love you have for eachother...keep your head up baby
kevinjermaine 2 years ago 4
at least your parents care about you
if they didnt care, you wouldnt care =/
ogat11 2 years ago
Your an awesome and brave woman to continue to" go through it" not many people can take that kind of pressure.. You're both very very lucky, stay strong
shinonyx 2 years ago 9
Glad that this stuff makes people turn inward instead of breaking who they are and not loving who they truly care for.
stunnaonflyrims 2 years ago
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fake video if you pay attention to it more
lol0932 3 years ago
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yeah i agree...ive seen some of her videos and theres somethin weird about em...like its all for attention or something...i dunno...maybe its for real...but i dont really understand why u would post this stuff on youtube, unless it was for attention...maybe she wants to learn english or something...wateva
koala8 3 years ago
I actually shed a tear when you said "We'll get through it. " People will ALWAYS fear and ridicule what they do not understand.. Just stay strong and teach your kids to love themselves and who they are from an early age and you guys will be fine.
mickel1470 3 years ago 11
I don't know about the rest of the world, but here in California, interracial children are loved dearly. They live happy, healthy, well adjusted lives, and people don't even take a second look at the fact that their mixed.
americanbeauty415 3 years ago
when you said "but we'll go through it" , i just burst into tears
hathwell 3 years ago 2
hi lily! be STRONG...all of us 'youtubers' watching your video know that everything will be fine...you have to live your life not your parents' lives.
camilledbrown 3 years ago
tradition and heritage is for losers, thinking outside the box is the 2008+ strategy!!! and moto i would say...
i look forward to you telling your parents, i have black kids HAH, that should be fun!
TaphasSaidSo 3 years ago
Hey! I understand your pain but you have to ignor what people are saying to you. Your family isn't always right. I'm Black and have loved Asian women all my life. The rest of my family looks at that and tells me things I no is wrong. As long as you and him love each other with passion nothing or no-one can not and will not stand in your way. If you were moved by everything that people say,you whould be living life the way they want you to. It wouldn't be your life.You love him,thats what matters
SparksBY1992 3 years ago
Stay strong
Hikaru2g 3 years ago
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u're a discrace to ur race and obviously dont give a shit about your own heritage.i am korean also and grew up in a korean home.ive seen ur situation happen to more than one person and of different races. im not racist but i do believe in keeping your own heritage pure.i know what will happen if u remain in ur current relationship.all u are is an asian piece of ass.then ull get pregnant have a black baby and no other man will want u.and ur man wont pay child support after he leaves.
ITSME00707 3 years ago
Lily, you have to just take one day at a time. I feel that everything will be just fine for the both of you as long as you continue to love each other and support each other. Your children will feel that love and won't be hurt no matter what others say. I'll pray for you =)
starrynightgogh 3 years ago
Hi Lily, your kids will be just fine. They will be able to make it through anything with their parents helping them along. I hope things will get easier for you two soon and I hope you feel better.
music3chick 3 years ago
You just have to know Lily that the people that matter will never frown upon you and the relationship that you have.The people that really matter won't ever judge you and will smile at the true love that you have with your boyfriend.and your parents are jusy trying to look out for you and protect your from the many ignorant people out there,but I believe that once they truly see and realize how happy you are they will come around.Lily,keep your head up.Always know that things will get better
librafiris 3 years ago 3
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....why dont u just date an asian guy??
merhawi567 3 years ago
Love is powerful. Do not forget that. It comes from Yahweh. The fear you have about discrimination is NOT from him. Look toward the source of love and not to the source of fear.
Many people have been infected with racism. But many people are getting over it. They will love your children and your children will be surrounded by a whole lot of friends and coworkers of all types. Do NOT let this affect you in such a negative way.
sistalinda 3 years ago 4
Lily, don't let that bring you down, you're kids will be fine I promise. You and your Boyfriend should stay and stand strong. Don't let discrimination dictate your life. I've been there but I've gotten through it. You shouldn't be afraid of what people think they don't even know you and they don't have any common sense. You shouldn't be scared of people like that and it's not a sin to fall in love.
Hikaru2g 3 years ago
i know that its hard but you must stay strong, as long as you love each other and got each others back then no one will bring you guys down. my mom was in a situation like yours. they told her that her children will never be excepted in life and her life will be ruined, but thats all lies. i'm mixed with mexican and black and i am excepted by people and my mom still stands strong.of course people do look at you weird by your apperience, but that is what makes you unique. so keep your chin up ok.
unimawilliams 3 years ago
If the feeling is'nt right don't do it but if the HEART is saying otherwise then do it.
Go for it and
Keep Rock'n!
xboxstrike 3 years ago
I know where you are coming from personal experience and want you to know that you can make it, and that others have done what you are doing and succeeded. You are a pioneer. One recent book, "the color of water" is an uplifting story of a jewish woman who married a black man in the 60's. Personally, my mom was jewish and father black, and i have dated several east asian women. I've been lucky w/ family support. Your parents love you. Later they may support you. Make sure you truly love him.
lopearzz 3 years ago 2
Oh sweetheart, my heart goes out to you.. My step father has the same concerns when I told him that I am inlove with a white man.. It is great to have parents who care about us and want nothing but the best for us.
It is so beautiful to be in love and proudly say "I will go though it" regardless of the hardship. Go with your heart sweetie you will reap nothing but the best... We all see the love you both share. It is hard to fine that these days.
love
smiley
smileyousee 3 years ago 2
What doesnt kill you only makes you stronger
=)
Oli3TB76 3 years ago
you look shaken up a little, but still calm
MUN7001 3 years ago
Hey Lily, I just wanted to say, don't give up. Love is not an easy thing to find so it should never be given up willingly. No matter what race. Stay stong.
LadyFlameSniper 3 years ago
Lilly...you know that I care very much about you. You will make it work because your kids will be fine. They will come from strong parents and when any negativity comes their way, they will know how to defeat it at the core. I sent you a message...I hope you feel alot better.
EssenceOfTruth 3 years ago 4
Lily, my heart goes out to you. And you are so fortunate to have parents that actually speak to you about it RATIONALLY and at least truly want the best for you. It's true, depending on where you live, discrimination is likely.
I live in France at the moment and it's a very homogeneous society (though they do have their problems); most people here are in interracial relationships and it's not frowned upon at all like in the US, for example. When I was in the US, difficult was an understatement.
DreamsInPixels 3 years ago
But, you can make it work! I've found that it's really about insulating yourself from those that can have a negative impact on your relationship in that way. I've surrounded myself with people that understand that love without limit is normal and knows no color. Your love for one another is precious and deserves to be protected. Shield it from those that are hateful, angry, or otherwise. People that are miserable and lonely will try to drag you down with them in their despair. Don't let them.
DreamsInPixels 3 years ago
Hey Lily, I know this story all to well. My wife and I are a recently married couple and we have gone through some rough times.. thankfully things are all well between us and the parents.... anyhow check your inbox...
fapplejuice 3 years ago