My coming out experience with advice and tips

[zombrexpainter]

My problem is that im not sure if I like guys. And if I come out will people treat me the same?

[pjyourbgs]

queer bag go die

[SmartGirl134579]

Thanks for the advice. :)

[gamecraze13]

I love you.... You were my insperation to tell my family and well it didnt go well but you still were in the back of my mind when i did. Thank  you (:

[Huntersvoice]

@gamecraze13 I'm glad I could inspire you, thank you for your warm, loving and open comment! <3

[gamecraze13]

@Huntersvoice lol <3 thank you there hun lol



[MrAkihiros]

hot.

[maternalheart66]

You have the most beautiful eyes. :)

[octogarden72]

Beautifully done .Congrats from Australia. xxx

[Hector947]

Why did you have to put those songs?! I cant hear you :[

[MyTruns]

So far I've came out to my best trusted friends and two friends and my gay friend who came out to me at the same time as I camout to him it was so funny

[renerdrat]

dude the music in the background is annoying, too loud.

But cool story 

[MegaWisefool]

thank you for sharing this warm and hearfelt story. You truly seem to have it together. Stay strong and always remain true to yourself.

[lilkoolkid315]

@Huntersvoice well im not judgemental unlike others... besides, they are people too :|

[Huntersvoice]

@cuppycake5075 Don't give up, just because your not accepted. So many people have been in your situation, you're not alone. There are so many kids help phones you can contact, gay youth chatrooms you can go on and I'm positive your school will provide you with a councilor (everything you say to them is by law confidential). You have to push for what you want, GOOD THINGS NEVER COME EASILY ! <3 I'm here for you xo

[lilkoolkid315]

damnnnnn thats a huge step to come out to parents... i'm straight but have a few friends that are gay and i support their decision cuz: 1.) its not my right to just judge ppl cuz they are, 2.) it makes no difference to me in either direction and 3.) gays and bi's are the ones that needs the most support ever since society has been discriminating on them and i don't like to see any discrimination. one of my frends dat is actualy likes me in d way but it didn't change anything and wer stil frends

[Huntersvoice]

@lilkoolkid315 I'm so glad that you're accepting to gay/lesbian/bisexual people. Good for you <3 :)

[nick18110]

@gaylolful I'm not gonna come out to my parents like you and huntersvoice did. bt good for you guys and huntersvoice you are still hot show off you body to us.,,. DAM!!

[smurfit24]

Wow! super personality and totally drop-dead gorgeous! i thought the video was terrific! dude, you definitely have alot going for you! i'm pretty darn confident that you're going to have an awesome life! :-)

May the FORCE be with you young Luke Skywalker! :-)

[nick18110]

Your brave and hot! I would never tell my parents I'm gay

[gaylolful]

@nick18110 I figured I would tell my parents that I was gay in college...I used to be like you, but then I realized that until I tell them I can't be who I want to be...and I know it's going to be hard(I'm black and they are really conservative) BUT! I have to be freeeeeeeeee.....someday......­.

[CELLOLOVER2011]

what is that songs name??? I really like it.

[jumbobobcleo]

hmmm.....you have to look twice. this kid is artistically beautiful. better yet, he

is a goddam sweetheart. how could you not love this guy? the music smothers

most of what he is saying unfortunately....

[Huntersvoice]

@jumbobobcleo :D THANK YOU <3

& I know I know I'm sorry, I have bad luck with Audio.

[jumbobobcleo]

@Huntersvoice hahhahaha. listen kid, bad luck with audio is hopefully your

only problem.. because you are just finnnnnne other wise. stay sweet guy,....

[emocional90]

that's so cool brother. lucky you that came out to ur family that's a big step. me i told 4 of my ''friends'' 1 of them told my other friends and ppl that told me they were my friends (mostly males) some of them just go away from me, others wanted to fight me. and others just talked shit about me and 2 st8gh friends told me that they supported me and my friendship with girls just make it more strong and i felt like i was free but unfortunately with my family only one of my sisters knows

[Huntersvoice]

@emocional90 awe, babe! The experience is so different for everyone! Usually it's not best to tell guys unless their your BEST FRIEND. What I learned was only to tell girls because girls like gays so much more and you can talk to girls about your feelings and such. As for your family, take it slow and make sure you have a support net!

XO<3

keep going strong

[emocional90]

@Huntersvoice well baby think it about this way they made me a favor after all i ended accepting myself and i felt more comfortable and all those ppl that turned and stab my back come to me asked me for help because i was the smarted one in class and yes i did help them because i always though that a person shouldnt be judged by their preference but their actions and that's why i look normal just like anyone because i can be like anyone or better or the best

[Huntersvoice]

@emocional90 Awe, well I'm so glad everything worked out for you ! :D :D :D <3

[austyisgangsta]

how did you tell them you wanted to wear makeup?

[Huntersvoice]

@austyisgangsta I didn't tell them I wanted to wear makeup actually. My friend got me into wearing it. About four months after I was just open to my family about my makeup and stuff.

& I started telling my best friends about me wearing makeup during winter of last year

and by summer of this year everyone in my school and stuff knew.

[otterpop1138]

A million years ago when I was in high school, being gay usually walked hand in hand (so to speak) with being lonely and alone and the courage to come out was but for a few. It is so nice that things have radically changed so that young people can come out on YouTube and other mediums and have a vast social network and resources to be who they are. Peace & Happiness

[emokniet]

what were the two songs that were in the vid?

[DarkChoclatewithtop]

I love you sexy ass, it hot man

[LukeTraveller92]

I cried after I've watched your video... :'( U should be very proud...

Great Job dude!!!

[Huntersvoice]

@LukeTraveller92 awee, thank you so much that means so much to me !

[MsCrzyBoy]

This video made me cry, litterally! You are amazing!

[Huntersvoice]

@MsCrzyBoy really? I hope you were crying because you were happy.

Thank you very much for your lovely comment, your amazing too <3

[Elvemageowns]

Can't beleive that this has 1400 views, im so jelly, and im so proud of my brother :)

[Huntersvoice]

@Elvemageowns xoxoox

thankssss channniiieeee

[niagpbpro]

Nice story but what the f are you playing in the back ground....and are you trying to be like that other guy Carlkr on here?

Anyways, see you at coffee culture!!! :P

[Huntersvoice]

@niagpbpro ahah nooo !

I just thought I'd do my coming out story !

Who is this?

[alarmboy01]

The most important thing is not to make other peoples problems yours. Coming out is never easy just because of the fear of being judged. When I came out of the closet it was a different time 35 yrs ago Homosexuality was seen as a mental condition .

Thank you for taking the time to tell your story . Examples like this are very supportive .

[Huntersvoice]

@alarmboy01 I think it's really important to do videos like this so other gay/bi/lesbians can see what it was like for me and if their situation is similar to mine, they can feel comfortable enough to follow and take some of my advice.

:) thanks again!

[dudeboobs15]

Your gorgeous:))

[corcor44]

love your video and tips! and even more i love your tatse in music and hair! hahaha what are the names of the songs? xx hopefully you will make more vids soon

[Huntersvoice]

@corcor44 heyy! I'm so sorry I haven't been on to reply, so much has come up the past months with everything and I had to take off, but I'm back now and will defiantly

be making videos all the time!

this song is called Miserable at best by: mayday parade

[magent15]

whats the song called?

[Huntersvoice]

@magent15 Miserable at best

by mayday parade

:) <3

[ab0kanal]

This is a great video, if only the music weren't so loud. It's really hard to understand what you are saying. It's a pity, because you're giving very good tips, which I never heard before. At least the last tips weren't covered by the music.

BTW, you don't need any background music, because you have a very pleasant, dark, and calming voice.

Just a second hint: The background colour of your profile page makes some texts invisible with the Internet Explorer (white text on white background).

[Huntersvoice]

@ab0kanal Thank you so much for your words, it means a lot to me!

I'm so sorry that you weren't able to hear what I was saying clearly,

I've taken into consideration what you said and your completely right, my voice is enough. Please keep in contact and hopefully we can talk again soon!

thank you for everything <3 and sorry I havent been on to answer your post, I've gotten tied up in so much that I didn't have any time at all to make anytthing new. hopefully new vids almost every day now!

[gswimfrk]

Awesome!! Ur amazing !! <3

[Huntersvoice]

@gswimfrk Thank you so much,

<3

[gaykernow]

Hello from England.

A great video and I'm glad that your family was so accepting. but you said you did things "normal guys didn't do" my friend your as normal as they are ! Be proud , be happy !

[Huntersvoice]

@gaykernow Hello, I'm certainly happy!

I love myself and respect myself and have learned so much over the last year!

I'm so sorry it's taken me forever to reply, I've been so busy and caught up with too many things, I know excuses are excuses but I'm truly sorry!

please keep in contact, I'm love talking to people who understand a day in the life!

[BjarkiA1991]

I'm 18 years old (gay) male from Iceland. I really liked your Vlog and nice tips although it was pretty hard to hear you :P

Anyway Merry Christmas, take care :)

[Huntersvoice]

@BjarkiA1991 heyy you!

I'm so sorry I haven't gotten to post you back,

I've been way too busy and have gotten into a lot of school work ect

I hope you stay in contact

& thank you for your kind words<3

[mrandrew89]

Awesome video, I'm tempted to one myself.

I still have trouble just looking into the mirror, or saying to myself "i'm gay" still sounds weird, and this is like 8 months after i've told people.

Hopefully its only upwards from here, gl mate!

[Huntersvoice]

It's actually so hard sometimes but you just have to rock with it and learn as you go.

No one can make you feel any different than the way you feel now and the most part you need to have confidence or else your naked to the world.

[Huntersvoice]

Hey! Sure :) that would be great!

thanks

[thefiremancoming]

Haha ya I noticed how new your videos are right after I sent that comment. Btw I'm 16 and gay, but have only come out to some friends from summer camp and only one person where I actually live. I think i'm going to send you a message, because I'd prefer to not let everyone read into my life.

[Huntersvoice]

okay sure!

:)

whatever you'd like!

[thefiremancoming]

Hey, keep making videos. You have actually helped me. Don't get distracted with the number of views you have, the Internet only smears someones impact by showing views. If you were face to face with every single person who watched your videos, you would love the impact you have. It's just you can't see our reactions, but realize that you are helping people.

[Huntersvoice]

Hey! The point in making my videos are just to give advice, I haven't stopped I'm just starting!

If you want any specific advice or video made don't hessitate to ask :)

Thanks for the complements, your so nice!

[fo30stm]

Don't think that straight guys are "Normal" normal does not exist.

[Huntersvoice]

Your absolutely right, no one out there is exactly "normal" per say.

[rockbandexpertcreep]

the is no normal Hunter :)

[qjest1993]

your story is soo touching you such a strong person for coming out