FTM: Dealing With Dysphoria

[KYNG428]

Wow! Just what I needed to hear...

[alexhaney100]

Totally dude.

[idc1993]

"and it starts Now".Thanks man I needed to hear that.

[callmealexmakklovin]

Thanks man.

[iliveinacubicle]

this really helped me a lot 

[laidbaqq]

@iliveinacubicle glad it did. 

[jaylen0409]

Thanks for this video....

[TheZxy2010]

A very good video about an important topic. Thanks.

[ChadwickJohnson12]

is it sad that every time i see your video on my tl i have to watch...wow i feel sprung...LOL!

[mrmaxanthony]

I specially like the relationship part

[Whitedoggy24]

thank you

[d3monicferret]

Thanks for this video. I'm wondering if you could share some links to the Tumblrs you follow that you mentioned.

[laidbaqq]

@d3monicferret I actually dont have them anymore since ending and restarting my blog. But I will def. try to relocate them for you all.

[d3monicferret]

@laidbaqq Cool. Thanks man!

[laidbaqq]

@d3monicferret hey, here are a two I found. These are both from tumblr, so just add the tumblr.[com]

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[Isaacthekid]

Thanks for making this video :) I needed to hear that. My dysphoria comes in once in a while but I tried to keep it in control by expressing my self through mostly in writing and drawing. I'm beginning to use this site to express what I feel about stuff related to this and talk to other trans*.

You are really great at bringing the right words and all :)

I'm terrible at verbally expressing myself, but I know I'll get better soon!

[boiwyatt]

to answer your question yes i do see that as my future. i realize for me transitioning will never be good enough. like i said for ME. i hate being trans. if given the opportunity to die and come back as a trans person or die and stay dead i would choose not to exist. ill say transition is medically necessary and helps most feel ok. partners can help. so can parents. there have been days i was about to kill myself and someone called me son or brother. the small support can save a life. good vid.

[poetrytolive]

Thanks! I love your videos and your insight. I will def take what you said into consideration.

PS. I've been needing to say this. Although I am a girl and a little lighter than you, we look A LOT alike. I am black with locks about the same length, I have black, rectangular- framed glasses, and we kinda dress similarly. It's interesting to me.

[flyiiboi]

Thanks ... Great info... one thing tho wat happened to your fun side ? It seems like you are more serious now than in your previous vids... Just a observation

[romanrazors]

Thanks so much. You really gave me some great tips. I've been feeling so extremely dysphoric for the past few months and this has really given me some hope.

[Choco2485]

I think you would be a great psychotherapist for people who have had BDD overhaul their life.

[laidbaqq]

@Choco2485 I am actuallyinterested in the idea of being a therapist. Will see where life takes me.

[edwardlov21]

thank you your words are a god send. just last nite i thought that i had reached the end, but hearing ur words made me realize that one day i to can be the man i know i was born to be. thank you for your words

[AadrianBrennen]

I love everything you say, you just take the words right out my mouth :)

[itsvinie]

your videos are amazing! i'm a big fan of yours.

[ChadwickJohnson12]

your voice sends tings down my spine! I love how open you are. Im learning so much from you and @nochokin

[7BLUNTS7]

how ironic.

[laidbaqq]

@7BLUNTS7 how so

[7BLUNTS7]

@laidbaqq same message. a gOOd one. yea i know i say it how i wanna say it - but the ultimate message is 2 tell ppl 2 "make the choices from your heart & mind. dont do anything just 2 fit in." stop being so quik 2 think somebody dissing you. i know none of you so agreeing or disagreeing - its all conversation 2 me.

[laidbaqq]

@7BLUNTS7 Like I said in the video, how you say it does alter the message and how people receive it. Your message seemed like more of an attack, not a genuine attempt at helping people. What you said and how you said it was no different than others who actually are attacking us or trying to dissuade us.

[betwixt01]

Thanks for sharing, this is some good advice. I've noticed myself become more and more depressed as I started transitioning because of not "passing" but allowing myself to get depressed is messing up the mental side of transition. And i totally believe in our thoughts manifesting themselves.