BREAKUPS are lame!

[aldearsene]

@Altinget it's the saudi law. we had to wait for 5-10 years to get the approval from the country. it's a long story. simply said, we're not strong enough to face the challenge. and he just gave up.

[Clairegalla11]

I'm going through the end of a crush type break up as we weren't actually together, I feel stupid and sad as I'm over 30! But hey this video is inspiring, kind and warm :) just what u need when in emotional pain...thanks xx

[aldearsene]

I watched this video 3 years back. At that time, I had a break up. I moved on because of this video and had another boyfriend. Totally awesome relationship. We got engaged and just a week ago, he broke up the engagement due to some ridiculous laws. I wanted to move on and be strong. But the wound is too fresh. So, I decided to watch again this video. But I forgot the title and even the youtuber's name. I googled "marianne breakup".. then "isabella break up"... nope and nope.. at last, found it!

[ysabellabravetalk]

@aldearsene

lol I have used my own video

[urbanoak]

@ysabellabravetalk Men have broken up with you? What's wrong with them?

[Altinget]

@aldearsene You wrote: "he broke up the engagement due to some ridiculous laws"

If i may ask: What law was that? Never heard about breaking up due to law before!?

[SanEverett]

The cutest girl in internet land!

[buscolaluna]

Aww. I remember coming across this video when a relationship ended about 3 years ago. And feeling so much better after having watched. And now, here I am, years later, with another failed relationship...more intense. And I was feeling sooo...like all of the things you described. But once again, you have given me some perspective. Thank you for your kind words and warm heart.

[turnuintoart]

thanks sweetheart again you are such a dear this touched me a lot I guess i needed to hear it especially the part that it will be nice again, Its been so long i almost forgot that part of it and it gave me hope your such a dear i hope you are ok hun and happy you are an inspiration to so many folks. I heard U say on one of your talks about how tough U R and what you have lived through and I thought who would do this to such a sweet wonderful lady . I am glad you are here and U are Great xoxo NEO

[Felorad]

You are a gifted speaker Marrianne!

[ysabellabravetalk]

@Felorad  Thank you!

[wildredrose99]

I remember watching this video so long ago, years ago, well a month ago my boyfriend and I broke up after a 2 1/2 yr. relationship, it is mutual, and it is so painful, I just don't know what to do with myself sometimes. This video helps, thank you Mary Anne, I hope you are doing well, the Lord is merciful!!!

[ysabellabravetalk]

@wildredrose99

YES HE IS!

[SaveTheSara]

This has been in my favorite videos for years.

[gamblinman23]

i wish you was my GF!!!

[romans52345]

This Girl looks like one of Jack Tripper's Girlfriends...

[IdaSputum]

YOU are an angel of light in a this often messed up world. THANKS

[bradleyvoorheesjams]

Awe, thanx for posting this to my myspace. You speak all of the things I've already thought about, true... But you speak them in such a warm and loving way. Just wanted to say thanks for having taken time out of your day to send it to me! I'm for sure a subscriber now~!

[LizbethDuran]

the sun will be back! & i can't wait! :) Thank you sooo much for the videos! Your videos are amazing.

[texmexguy88]

My girlfriend dumped me 2 weeks ago after a 3 year relationship. She's even dating someone else already. I am devastated but this video makes me feel better, thank you Mary Anne.

[ysabellabravetalk]

I'm sorry to hear that. Been there, it's too awful to articulate. I'm glad you feel better and thank you for letting me know!

[jnthnnixon]

@ysabellabravetalk how old are you sweetheart?or should i say how young are you?

[riffroof]

Thank you for being a softiee, MaryAnne! It's softness and gentleness, praise God, that let the flowers break through the hard cement in our lives.

[Mounzia]

when you get married thats a different story.. but i styll wonder why almost all maried couples have problems and divorce :p

thank you

[Mounzia]

who da fuck is dis GIRL ?:S

lol what a softiee

grow up , ders no such thing as love..

i can tell u, your gud at acting and yu shuld become an actor.. but don't come up with that shyt guy lmfao like u've gotten ur heart broken so learn from it lmfao .. u noe ur gonna break up again and again and again .. even if it takes 10 years. cuz love is temporary :)

and bitchz dont want no love :p

[edyken77]

In addition to Ysabella's advice, I'd say the best way to handle a break up is to get really hot (thru safe methods of diet + workin' out). It's seriously the best cure.

[FenAllo1]

You know, I've come back to this video so many times. In fact, this has been the staple of my break up remedy for a while now.

Thank you so much for making this videos ,Ysabella. You've helped me and made me laugh when I feel so sad I could just curl into a ball forever.

<3 thank you

[ysabellabravetalk]

yay! Thank you for letting me know!

[olternaut]

You mean you actually read posts from videos you posted two years ago? =/

Cool.

[ysabellabravetalk]

of course! I care :)

[16welshgirl]

I'm going through a break up now and this video has really touched me. your an amazing person xxx

[xoxcourtney03]

i love love loved your flower analogy.. it makes so much sense!

[sonotyou]

gosh its been 2 years i come back to this vid everytime i go through i break-up. its 3 am at nigt and i feelll soo much better. thnx for the fifth ime! ol

[TomaaatoZo]

Thank you, Hun. That was gorgeous.  Even the dirt part. : D

[kurohyou07]

You should maybe consider doing a clip of a fairly prominent and scary concern for a surprisingly LARGE group of people that have to 'run' from a relationship due to stalking and violence. You cannot simply be honest with this kind of man. You have to 'run' or hide from them.

I know you are referring to the average individual who has heart break over the need to move on. But the numbers of the 'break ups' between couples at ANY age... nets a serious 'notice' amoung us all...

[kurohyou07]

Ysabella... you speak the words that help more people than you may think. EVERY thing you said on this topic is true, and should be considered. HOWEVER, I'm guessing you are referring to a 'normal break up'... on this topic. Where the 'typically male partner' will just be bummed out, sad and even pissed off... but accepts this new twist of the relationship...

[clarklesparkle]

Thank you so much for posting this. I parted ways with my boyfriend (mutually, I guess, it was a confusing break-up), not too long ago and it hit me a lot harder than I expected it to. I'm a month out now, but I'm still struggling and this really helped. Thank you!

[cchamade]

I love you ! Thanks for posting this.

[UnionMetalhead]

I dont see the major need for women to rejoice when they have a date as opposed to when a man has a good date. Reason being that men have it much harder to be able to attract a date in the 1st place. Men also fiercely have to compete against other males for mate value. It's an unexplained phenomenon that many people arent aware of but when you assess the actual differences you will see how true that is. Plus women are designed to want "alpha" men so other men really have to struggle sadly.

[impingdoing]

I've never heard of MaryAnne before tonight nor do I know her history. I am one who never recovered from a breakup years ago. Do I see the look of someone who is deeply troubled in her? Although quite beautiful and talented she looks so sad that I could cry. Not trying to be a guru and I hope I'm wrong.

[Booze100]

aww your so pretty :)

[LOVERLYSUGARBABY]

you made me cry, but it was helpfull

[sickmazing4ever]

So true. This is really nice, and very genuine. :]

[icemeup2go]

AARR....You made me cry!I suppose cause deep deep deep down, I know your right.

But still....yes,it sucks..

[morninglory112]

she how happy she is now? i hope to be that happy again some time. my break up was like2 months ago, i think theres just something wrong wit me

[galnamedmal]

i don't think there's something wrong with you. it always takes me a long time to get over break-ups. i still think back to past ones from time to time. i got broken up with by who i thought was an amazing person for me, a month and a half ago. all i keep trying to remind myself is that i've felt this before, and eventually found someone else who made me happy again. i just hope one of these days i find someone who doesn't go away on me.. haha. we'll be okay :)

i don't know you, but... *e-hug*

[morninglory112]

haha, e-hug! never heard of them but thanx! :)

[tonybalony87]

wow you an eye candy. and wow, thanks for uploading this vid..helps a lot.

[wishshewoulddome]

Im going through a break up less then 24 hours into it actually..your video helped

thanks

[sweetchewykisses]

i have had two great break ups, but ysabellabrave, i would like to hear your opinions on girls who are pure and innocent that act and dress like a bad ass and or skanky at times to get a guys attention. I think if thats the extent you have to go just to get their attention then they aren't even worth it...

[ysabellabravetalk]

I think there's a period of self-discovery in clothing for everyone. It obviously sounds like it could be low self-esteem; that's a problem getting a date or attention won't solve.

[mommyfunk]

I really liked the advice from the Russian Teacher. Your delivery of it was great!

[mugencivic88]

I just got dumped after a four year long relationship. Its excruciating, but I like what you said.

[galnamedmal]

I'm sooooo glad I discovered your channel. You know how to turn ANYTHING around and show the positive side of it. You have such a glowing personality and you say everything in such a soothing, comforting way... there are people out there, paying "professionals" $75 an hour to listen to their problems, yet here you are just sharing your wisdom and insight for anyone who wants to hear it.

A big thanks to you!!! You have really helped me to see things in a better light. :)

[iK8lyn]

i was just recently dumped by my first love of a year and a half, which yeah, isn't the best, but your advice helped me relize that there will be bigger&better things for me, thank you soo much(:

[Sarah7661]

I just got dumped..

you helped me so much.

I wish you were my big sister, aunt, anything.

[EkyoSky]

Thank you. <3

[hippiechick909]

so i posted this question on yahoo answers about how to get over a breakup and someone gave me this

thank you so much, helped a lot.

[thopkin12000]

I think I love you. Seriously though, thanks for the advice.

[tranquilbluesky]

thanks :)

[tranquilbluesky]

i just got divorced. it is hard. i like your videos. theyre really good. :)

[ysabellabravetalk]

I'm sorry to hear about your divorce. I hope things get a little better each day +YB

[heartlikemetronomes]

Oh my god. Thank you, so much. I can't put it into words how much I appreciate your words right now. I just came home after a day out absolutely distraught. One of the "manure" days, most definitely. One of many, many manure days. I'm so glad I stumbled onto this vid, I'm going to watch this lots. This may have helped me get over him just a bit more.. thank you again.

[elbeny909]

thnk u soo much...

[rojurand]

You can not even imaging how much this words means to me. You are my angel. I wish you the best in life. Thank you!

[Shorty20122012]

LMAO @ if your husband never broke up he could never marry you. hilarious

[kelseyandmolly]

that is nice that is how my boyfriend did it

[em072791]

Oh my god, thanks so much.

[morninglory112]

my girlfriend and i are over after 3 years. she was my 1st and im absolutely heartbroken. she says she is over me. i dont know what the hell im gonna do. and wer in the same college if i saw her with someone else id wanna just curl up and die. iv been feeling like this for the last week, 2nite is her 21st and i just cant go, wouldnt be able for it. when will it end?

[ysabellabravetalk]

When it ends. It takes longer than we'd like, but it does get better, I promise.

[morninglory112]

thanks, just hope your right, cos der aint much more of this i can take. but thanks

[morninglory112]

and oya, pardon me for saying this but your hot!

[LisaJMoore]

I am so glad my first loves went by the wayside. I was too young to know better that they were not the right people for me to spend my life with. They were not right for me at all. Then I found out how many people there are out there..wow...and they like me! Just remember to give love to get some love!

[morninglory112]

i hope your right. iv so many questions to ask like what if she was the one and iv messed things up forever, or what will i do if i see her with someone else, more importantly will i ever get over her. it just goes on and on!

[Volf99]

My first love just broke with me. It was only a month and when I asked her, she said it was partlly a rebound relationship. Makes me question if she really liked me at all. Our breakup was peaceful, I want to be with her but she said she liked spending time with me but didn't love me. I miss her, but I feel like there isn't much I can do

[hvmf123]

thank you so much, your a beautiful soul.

[RawWithRosalie]

A very beautiful video. Great message!

I enjoyed watching. Thanks!

[kangakong]

I loved the part about flowers...I'm going to write it dowm. You have a very calming effect on me when I am distraught. Thank you. =)

[CurtisLN00]

I watch this video everytime I get Low and it always helps me make sense of things.......thank you mary-anne........

[jadeluvsmanny]

I ADORE YOU!

[ysabellabravetalk]

oh yay!!!!! thank you :)

[Rolodextra]

You look like a porn star or something.

[ysabellabravetalk]

Well thank you for telling us the kind of stuff you like to watch.

[Rolodextra]

Don't shoot the messenger. You have interesting things to say, but everything that I could say has already been posted... so... there you go.

And yeah porn is pretty great.

[MagneticPortal]

Can I assume that you told your date tonight that you were breaking up with him out of respect for your future husband?

[BabyAmiii]

well i partly agree withchu but the thing iz in some cases of break ups someone has had a ral shitty relationship and when they break up its like a breatch of fresh air lloll

[reeisvanity]

thank you so much

you've really helped me alot

i had a bad breakup,i still feel horrible

he was a total asshole and all

but you just made it all better

[halfbrokenheart123]

Thank you i'm just trying to get over a three year relationship.We had a son together. I'm soo sad... Your video helped me.

[aonewomancrowd]

MaryAnne, this felt more like reading a poem. That too an extremely good one. Love&Peace!

[IAmFreeIAmMe]

I just broke up with someone a few days ago, I wanted to die inside, I felt so bad

[abercrombiebabe1212]

aww i love your laugh<3

[like8you]

This is all beautiful!

:)

[K4Norge]

Your smily face and truthful words light up my day.. I decided to watch your videos often to meditate on and be encouraged, at least once a day..

[ysabellabravetalk]

I appreciate that very much!

[pixiedus]

here here.. i do the same!

[FashionFreak2000]

thank you so much for putting this out there. I just got dumped last night and I have been crying so much, but now that I heard this it really gets me thinking. I don't know why i even looked this up but it actually helped so thanks.

[buckeyegirl78]

thank you for this great video. im getting over a breakup right now.

[LanaJoyceee123]

Im 14 and I just got out of a relationship and every1s like just get over it its been a while and by a while i meen 4 or so weeks but they dont really get that it does take time.

I found yur vid and watched it n i feel soooo much better so i thank u alot! :)

xoxo

[ysabellabravetalk]

I'm glad you feel a lil better! :D

[oriong8]

haha... your sunglasses joke is refreshing!!! i enjoyed your storytelling, you tell stories that bring life, energy and enthusiasm to which your words bring comfort, which I have not seen anyone else match... nice metaphor at the end...

[DulingMalgur]

Pretty much that, yeah :). The difference is that some words have a multiple translation I can't bring to english. It's always better to let the reader interpret it the way he/she wants ;). But that's really pretty close yes.

[DulingMalgur]

I am sorry for this, but you'll have to translate the following (it's not a curse, it's just my native language).

Em lágrimas lavadas sem sal ou salgadas, correm memórias em ondas, ferozes ou lânguidas, corridas ou saltadas. É uma brisa que não fica e aquieta a saltura que toma o meu coração. E de novo a lágrima lava, e sem secar escorre, e sem secar corre, lento, aos poucos, uma nova batida no meu coração.

Hugs.

PS: It's portuguese.

[noahsstarship]

Translation ?

In shed tears washed without salt, they run life story in waves, fierce or easygoing, stress or soar. It is a puff of air that is not and it quiets the caring that takes my heart. It is again that tear washes, and without drying it is soft, and without drying she runs, slow, little by little, a new beat in my heart :)

[lirawm]

thank you so much for you wise words. Just had a break up like half hour ago and I feel like the bottom of the sack but now well it doesn't look that bad

[bluntzzz]

youtube sucks

[awsomedude234]

lmfao that was random

[blablawhatev1]

this video is awesome!!

[FenAllo1]

thank you, you've made me feel better

[dmcghie1984]

she's pretty.

[aberkrombie8139]

i love your voice!!! I hope the date went well!!!!!!

[JinXuanJun]

hey you have great wisdom.

[DarthVadderr]

this made me feel so much better!!! my girlfriend (was my girlfriend)JUST broke up with me like 5 minutes ago and this makes me feel like she didnt even hurt me. thanks so much for making this video!!

[justjuggalo]

man your cute

[il9a7ib]

nice

and thanks

[sexygreeneyez92]

this video made me feel sssooo much better

=]

[ipesina]

youre so beautiful. and your voice is so 20's. and 40's.

you should get some type of record deal with someone and you could be the best 40's singer in this time.

[productoffifties]

What a great talk on break ups. Very inspiring. I can see a young teenager right now being comforted by your kind words and those of us not so young who go through break ups, too. Loved what your teacher told you, too. Thanks for posting this.

[iChikaw]

zomgg i lovee youuu.

SUBSCRIBED!

[razorbladekiss200621]

Your amazing, that helped :)

[VictorPross]

hey, blackberry, shut your fucking hole. She rocks.

[OmgItsKaren]

Thank you so much i was crying all day=[

[Opt1on]

She's kinda cute ^^

[actyme]

.... no ms, YOU are lame :D but thanks for the newest advice in the book >.O

[7chris77]

i would never break up with u!

i would make u a queen and u would love to be with me. :) this is true.

[PARTAAAAAY]

I agree with this video! Break-ups sucks, I have had lot of break-ups that I just avoid going out with a girl 2 avoid a break-up. I've been single for 4 years and am loving it!

Being single is freedom, I can flirt with anyone without a girl getting mad at me, it's alot better, trust me.

[angryamerican]

Your advice is so amazing, articulate and insightful!

I am positive these heart-felt videos help many many people.

[Rayg003]

I really like this, because it seems really sincere, but personally I give up, You made sense about one note not making sense until the melody is heard,, but is seems thats all I hear.. one note thats piercing..break up sucks

[sunlionness2007]

nice.

[ysabellabravetalk]

yup.

[blackberryjuice1]

Are you stuck in the '50s? You're a human time capsule.

[ysabellabravetalk]

would you like fries with that?

[whatthedickins]

your face is lame

[ysabellabravetalk]

rock and roll :)

[sterlingsir]

i like what youv said, just broke up with the pefect norwegian girl and this could help. Thankyou

[steph32588]

the russian lady is true! im going to try to not be sad anymore :)

[darkblaze45]

you're cool :)

[talktothehand79]

god damn i'm glad im single...

[CplStam]

Good for you

[Savanna8580]

You are so right. Me and my boyfriend Jake broke you today at 4:47 P.m. OMG I am so sad!!.. But you really helped me. Thanks.

xoxo

~savanna~

[fablan6]

You recorder the exact time?

[Savanna8580]

Yea! So i always need to known!lol Idk why i did it but i really cared about him!! But not anymore never... He is going out with my x bff. Then he is brakeing up with her to go out with this small littal retared. I hate her she was my friend!!

[fablan6]

interesting...

[roxersboxers1337]

cool thing you made me see it from a whole diffrent way, now I'll dirtch my girl friend shave my beard and go get a new one alot more cuz they dont gonna feel sad when I'm ditching them :D

[Chris2thaC]

You are beautiful. You look like Marilyn Monroe. Thank You. i am going through an end of the world break up now.

[hjjohnston907]

you really made me look at things in a different way, your inspiring to me, thank you!

[hjjohnston907]

you really made me look at things differently thank you so much. your inspiring!

[skatergir1]

BRAKEUPS SUX!

[3dmodelpilot]

This irritated me in the first 5 secs ... why did you post this.. >.> Not like we all don't know how this works.. Jeez

[kevindelgado20]

k i realized that was a lil mean..but i was jk! like seriously...nice video...even though i didnt watch it..

[Pr3ci0usBaBy]

i think i had a good break-up..the last thing that we said to eachother was "i love u".. we never wanted to brake-up but we were forced to do it..its a long and sad story..but one thing is sure: is that i wont give up and i will fight for him ..i just hope that i will be strong enough to fight against all those obstacles that are between us...anyway..ur video helps a lot of people..God bless u:)

[funktabulous]

thanks

[AboveTheFreeway]

I will be watching this video over and over till I can finally get over him.

[Bronigal]

That helped me so much... God Bless you x

[sassychartermonkey94]

your cheesy but your funny!!!~~~Good job!!!

[YellowConstalation]

Very nice :)

[shyshu]

aw my God! you´re the best...

[GIUGIK1]

you're brilliant ! Nice job.

[pickaboo18]

u are sooo pretty...and i fell u on everything your saying thx

[feedangelo]

oh my...Thank you so much ma'am...i mean thanks...really

[danscene]

that was a beautiful video, it made me smile, thank you

[thisgirlisacowboy]

i love you..i oficially love you because you are better than oprah, and dr. phil and my mother all put together

[ysabellabravetalk]

Heyyy nobody is better than your mother! Only one good enough to have you, you know!

[brianaj22]

I just wanna let you know that this video helped me alot through my last break up. So thanks =)

[ysabellabravetalk]

Thanks for letting me know!

[thonulve]

you are so beautiful and so smart and bright u should be a tv host or a radio personality ill be ur biggest fan!!!

[MiszJ3sst3r]

Gosh this woman is so spectacular. and she really is because i think thats the first time i've ever really spelled that word. She can talk about the most horrible things, yet make them sound so much easier than they really are. shes very beautiful and her smile and the way she talks is so warm and comforting. =]

its a good thing shes not some big mean witch when it comes to giving advice.

[ltmashka]

You're so cute and and light and bubbly. =)

[yeahimjoey]

Oh, I almost forgot..... You are pretty.

[yeahimjoey]

Sigh......... Sigh. I wish I had someone to break up with. Wait no I dont. I just wish I had someone..... Nobody likes old Eore :(

[nsl11a]

for flowers to grow they need a lot of crap, and that i can relate to :)

[naturalgirl32]

Thank you.

[matchlaine]

i have no break ups to talk about. i just happened to search the word lame. but i truly tgin that this was a nice video. i'm glad theres people like you out there trying to help. so... nice job.

[nsl11a]

funny that's how i found it too, just searching the word lame.

and you're right, ysabella is a nice gal.

[TwilightObsession19]

I want to thank you too.

My boyfriend just recently broke up with me, and watching this video really helped me to put things in perspective.

[drunkonblood5]

thanks so much...im bi and i just broke up with my boyfriend but thinking about it like this is very helpfull

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!

[saphira0117]

i might have to break up with my boyfriend because my bestfriend likes him and it feels wierd when my bf and me and my friend are hanging out... =*<

[thisgirlisacowboy]

then dump your best friend because he is yours and only yours and you dont have to share him.

[coco7456]

nice analogies..

[patricktullius]

wow i just broke up with my bf and i didn't want to but had to bc he doesn't show any love towards me.

that video has really helped me :) thank you !

<3

[xCYN116]

This is what I needed to hear. Thank you for making this video. It's very helpful. =D

[hozzi12]

wow... rou are really beutiful : /