I used to be just like you, not feeling good enough for anyone or asking myself why am i here, who would notice if i'm gone. But then i reconnected with God and he helped me get out of my situation. I used to try to starve myself, i had depression, and i used cut because i thought i deserved. But that all is behind me. I hope he too can help you with your struggles. You are not alone.
Maybe you should get some help from a professional rather than posting a video up on Youtube hoping that everyone will feel sorry for you. I know what you're going through... but by putting this on Youtube just makes you look like an attention seeker. I may sound harsh, but when I was at that low point in my life I had to pull myself out of it.. I saw many doctors and they all told me the same thing, you have to help yourself or, you can live your life feeling sorry for yourself x
ok seriously people this is a terrible video..and to the maker..its disturbing and gross that u put pictures of your self destruction up for everyone to see..life isnt that damn bad no matter what the situation..stop trying to get attentio and go see a damn therapist
because it reminded me of what I went through last year. I felt the same exact way.. I know it seems like everythings crashing down on your shoulders but its not. just remember millions of other people are experiencing the same thing. You are not alone.
I know exactly what you are saying... but your not bad or selfish...your coping...
I like this song..especially the part about everyone going and shutting their mouths...it's so easy for a-holes to run their mouths and tell us what or who we should be when they can't walk 2 steps in our shoes... B-strong..
I really like the video. Im sorry u feel that way but i hear teenage life is the hardest to live, i know because im living it too, and in some way i kinda know wat u feel , but keep hope its all we've got in times like these.
People everyday use music to express their feelings... Theres nothing wrong with that. Alot of songs even an album can describe a persons life weather they are into Emotive Haredcore OR NOT... It can be anything from Metal to Jazz (Jazz is full of emotion MMM the sax.
You probably didn't even study enough about the damn word. Wich comes to my conclusion that you are nothing but one of the misunderstood. A fucking hater. GTFO
Emo is a music Genre that started in to late 70's o_o... It was NEVER a person .... It was fashion and music. You shouldn't be ashamed of who you are... And by the way? It never had ANY correlation to cutting....
I am NOT emo and I hate emos, because they play it, its their lifestyle, this is not my lifestyle. I wish it would change and I am trying hard to change it. I never heard about emo until few months ago. Its stupid. And I realy dont want enbody think that I am one of this shit.
Uhh...I know I really should'nt say anything...but emo stands fo emotional and is also a music genre...And really,the people who are called emo, are called it unfairly like you just were. I think one day somebody pointed at one kid,called them emo,it caught on and then people starting making up stuff.
but that's not the only thing you and me have in common, I just typed "falling apart", I just wanted a song that would match what I'm feeling, and there it was, and I read the Power Point and I couldn't help but just cry... Don't worry about those people labeling you, they don't know anything... I hope you can find the strength to change your life... maybe then I'll find the strength to change mine.
Like i was saying. Music can be related to alot of peoples emotions and sometimes there entire life. Music is a beautiful thing. As for hi2426.
No. It was always about the music. It wasn't just lyrics it was about expressions during play on stage. 'Emo', 'Emotive Hardcore', or 'Emocore, NEVER stood for emotional until the LATE 90's Almost 2000. Basically because a pyschiatrist named people that 'Self Harm' emotional because of there Analysis from their diagnosis.
this is slowly happening to me i notice it after watching this video my girlfriend dumped me 2 days ago... i really loved her, i am slowly falling apart my life and me i have thought of killing myself actaully im kinda thinking of doing it tommorrow night... my family doesn't even love me anymore
I feel like you, I try to puss my feelings away and concentrate on other thing, like get skinny, people like skinny people even that it's not pretty, I try to get clever in school, I don't like people calling me stupid..
I know I need help and I want it, but I don't want to ask for it! The last time I did I puss my true love away.. :'(
I used to be like that. Then I went to Valle Vista got on strong meds I'm so so mad and sad anymore, but It didn't help my feelings about my self. AKA I still have an Ed. But I love it, its my sence of hope.
PLEASE DONT READ THIS. YOU WILL GET KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE. TOMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. HOWEVER IF YOU DONT POST THIS COMMENT TO AT LEAST 3 VIDEOS YOU WILL DIE WITHIN 2 DAYS. NOW UV STARTED READIN DIS DUNT STOP THIS IS SO SCARY. SEND THIS OVER TO 5 VIDEOS IN 143 MINUTES WHEN UR DONE PRESS F6 AND UR CRUSHES NAME WILL APPEAR ON THE SCREEN IN BIG LETTERS. THIS IS SO SCARY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKs
To be a woman is not an easy task, nowadays, here. - Be a Woman of Wisdom. - Don't be a (neo-)Manichean. Respect your body ! Don't damage it ! Honour yourself !- You say "I'm sitting alone...": very well, then, learn how to sit (ZaZen) alone with others ! - "What am I dong here ?": very well ! This is a deep philosophical question ! Congratulations ! -
You want to change last years, but they are gone, they are no more existent, so, why don't try to set yourself serenely in the present, so you can face your future ? Don't let an imagined past cast a shadow over your present life ! -
You say: "I'm slowly falling apart": than, "When Things Fall Apart. Heart Advice for Difficult
Times", by Pema Chodron, Shambhala Publications,
and "Going to Pieces Without Falling Apart", by Mark Epstein, Broadway Books, and "When You're Falling, Dive. Acceptance, Freedom and Responsibility", by Cheri Huber, Keep it simple books, could be helpful. -
You say: "I don't want to be here ... with me anymore". But " Our habitual tendency to fly into ungrounded, intellectual spirituality can only be countered by reconnectiong with body and feelings. When we are willing to incarnate into the body and relate to our feelings, rather than wanting to be elsewhere, it enables us to acknowledge the value of our humanness with compassion and acceptance. ...
Come on ! You are not bad ! You are not worse than me, I bet ! - You say "I am selfish": I am selfish, too. To a certain extent, everyone is somehow selfish, unless one is a highly realized being; but the simple fact that you recognized it (and have had the courage and honesty to declare it publicly) is already a remarkably good thing that proves that you are certainly not so selfish as you might think !
You say: "I am full of hate. Because it is easier to hate than to love." But you recognize that there is hate in you, and this means that there is something else in you other than hate.
You seem to be a person with a very demanding moral sense. It is easier to do what you are more accustomed to do. There is much hatred in (nearly) everyone.-
- You write: "I can't even believe this is my life", but Thich Nhat Hanh writes "Dear reader, ... you are not enclose in your small shell of you body or the small shell of your lifespan." ('Breathe ! You are alive', p.75).
You write: "I know you hate me so": this is not true: I don't hate you.- I don't think it is easy to be you, as I wrote in the first message of this series. Don't think it is easy to be me, too ...-
You write: "no hope", and that 's ... wonderful, amazing, because hope is always, unescapably coupled with fear. (See Chogyam Trungpa, The Lion's roar, § 2: 'Hopelessness', and passim). But be careful not to mistake hopelessness for despair ... (see pp.24-25).
You write: "no will", and this I can't believe, because if you want to die you have still at least one will, the will to die, and this is a nihilistic will. And I am sure you have fortunately may other wills and many good and beautiful aspirations !
About anxiety:'Painfully Shy.How to overcome social anxiety and reclaim your life',by Barbara G.& Gregory P.Markaway, both Ph.D.,Thomas Dunne Books and 'The shiness & social anxiety workbook.Proven techniques for overcoming your fears', by Martin M.Antony Ph.D.and Richard P.Swinson, M.D., New Harbinger Publications
This last bibliographic advice is wrong. Please, ignore it. (Your anxiety was related to food, and is not the kind of anxiety these books deal with.) Sorry.
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I used to be just like you, not feeling good enough for anyone or asking myself why am i here, who would notice if i'm gone. But then i reconnected with God and he helped me get out of my situation. I used to try to starve myself, i had depression, and i used cut because i thought i deserved. But that all is behind me. I hope he too can help you with your struggles. You are not alone.
amber301132 8 months ago
Psycho :D
thejalband 2 years ago
Maybe you should get some help from a professional rather than posting a video up on Youtube hoping that everyone will feel sorry for you. I know what you're going through... but by putting this on Youtube just makes you look like an attention seeker. I may sound harsh, but when I was at that low point in my life I had to pull myself out of it.. I saw many doctors and they all told me the same thing, you have to help yourself or, you can live your life feeling sorry for yourself x
loopehlubell 2 years ago
ok seriously people this is a terrible video..and to the maker..its disturbing and gross that u put pictures of your self destruction up for everyone to see..life isnt that damn bad no matter what the situation..stop trying to get attentio and go see a damn therapist
things1013 2 years ago
stand still look pretty by the wreckers
LayLaNuhLynn 2 years ago
WHO IS THIS BY
mcaie 2 years ago
my life story.
PeBbLeS0o0 3 years ago
this is soo good..
Mookbabe23 3 years ago
This vid made me cry..
because it reminded me of what I went through last year. I felt the same exact way.. I know it seems like everythings crashing down on your shoulders but its not. just remember millions of other people are experiencing the same thing. You are not alone.
I hope you start feel better.
Ilovefonzy 3 years ago
keith call me ok?? need to talk right now
Justinyo1994 3 years ago
jesus christ, cry me a river
ericl33t 3 years ago
I know exactly what you are saying... but your not bad or selfish...your coping...
I like this song..especially the part about everyone going and shutting their mouths...it's so easy for a-holes to run their mouths and tell us what or who we should be when they can't walk 2 steps in our shoes... B-strong..
watermagick1 3 years ago 2
i hope u get through it i went threw the same thing when i was 11 when my mother died.
allenmoses 3 years ago
I really like the video. Im sorry u feel that way but i hear teenage life is the hardest to live, i know because im living it too, and in some way i kinda know wat u feel , but keep hope its all we've got in times like these.
I HOPE u realize that soon.:)
perilvamp09 3 years ago
luv this song !
loal17 3 years ago
Who sings this?
xskittlesriotx 3 years ago
The Wreckers, the song is stand still look pretty
SabresPrincess 3 years ago
That's such a fantastic video & song. I can relate to it a lot honey. I hope you are feeling brighter & your health improves soon. x
lolliedollie1986 3 years ago
People everyday use music to express their feelings... Theres nothing wrong with that. Alot of songs even an album can describe a persons life weather they are into Emotive Haredcore OR NOT... It can be anything from Metal to Jazz (Jazz is full of emotion MMM the sax.
You probably didn't even study enough about the damn word. Wich comes to my conclusion that you are nothing but one of the misunderstood. A fucking hater. GTFO
RavexAxLicious 3 years ago
Emo is a music Genre that started in to late 70's o_o... It was NEVER a person .... It was fashion and music. You shouldn't be ashamed of who you are... And by the way? It never had ANY correlation to cutting....
RavexAxLicious 3 years ago
sounds like shes depressed =p
runejade3 3 years ago
story of my life.
freckleforce93 3 years ago 2
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EMO
fleego17 3 years ago
I am NOT emo and I hate emos, because they play it, its their lifestyle, this is not my lifestyle. I wish it would change and I am trying hard to change it. I never heard about emo until few months ago. Its stupid. And I realy dont want enbody think that I am one of this shit.
thinspirace 3 years ago
Uhh...I know I really should'nt say anything...but emo stands fo emotional and is also a music genre...And really,the people who are called emo, are called it unfairly like you just were. I think one day somebody pointed at one kid,called them emo,it caught on and then people starting making up stuff.
hi2426 3 years ago
my name is Ana too.
but that's not the only thing you and me have in common, I just typed "falling apart", I just wanted a song that would match what I'm feeling, and there it was, and I read the Power Point and I couldn't help but just cry... Don't worry about those people labeling you, they don't know anything... I hope you can find the strength to change your life... maybe then I'll find the strength to change mine.
Hainera08 3 years ago
Like i was saying. Music can be related to alot of peoples emotions and sometimes there entire life. Music is a beautiful thing. As for hi2426.
No. It was always about the music. It wasn't just lyrics it was about expressions during play on stage. 'Emo', 'Emotive Hardcore', or 'Emocore, NEVER stood for emotional until the LATE 90's Almost 2000. Basically because a pyschiatrist named people that 'Self Harm' emotional because of there Analysis from their diagnosis.
STUDY! STUDY! STUDY!
RavexAxLicious 3 years ago
Sorry, sorry. I knew that. I was being rushed and forgot to include it. Next time I'll make sure I'm clearer while explaing these things.
hi2426 3 years ago
who sings this
justinandjaimie4ever 3 years ago
wreckers sing this.
Hainera08 3 years ago
really good video
NoScreamingAloud 3 years ago
this song is me
.......
BlaxCha 3 years ago
Ergh, scars take ages to go away, if they even do... I made mine a year ago and there they are still... :(
8Uberz8 3 years ago
The wreckers,
thats who sings this.
KaraokeFromKayraah 3 years ago
who sings this song? does any one know?
Soulbeliever666 3 years ago
This is my whole Life story.
Like I cant belive how stupid i am for comparing my own life to this.
I can watch this over and over again just thinking how worthless I am
CalesOwens15 3 years ago
i dont do that and i nvr want 2 but i feel so bad for the ppl that do im srry guys
chrisdeprimo231 3 years ago
i wish they would understand.............
imacitygurl702 3 years ago
this is slowly happening to me i notice it after watching this video my girlfriend dumped me 2 days ago... i really loved her, i am slowly falling apart my life and me i have thought of killing myself actaully im kinda thinking of doing it tommorrow night... my family doesn't even love me anymore
courtlove123 3 years ago
iv been there
altoids18ROX 3 years ago
what's the name of the song?
chocolatehotxy 3 years ago
Stand Still, Look Pretty by The Wreckers
EDslave789 3 years ago
The song discribes me so well. Especially the part where it says "And you'll might think it's easy being me
You just stand still, look pretty."
ZombiieDoll 3 years ago
It's the first song who made me cry...
Apsperma 4 years ago
i don't know what to say...
Upgradedrebel 4 years ago
..Story of my life..
Darkpixie10 4 years ago
I feel like you, I try to puss my feelings away and concentrate on other thing, like get skinny, people like skinny people even that it's not pretty, I try to get clever in school, I don't like people calling me stupid..
I know I need help and I want it, but I don't want to ask for it! The last time I did I puss my true love away.. :'(
Racerwheelchairgirl 4 years ago 2
o love this song..it actually discribes me...great video=)
animegenie17 4 years ago
oo.... Souds abt ike me,,
b ivehad lk ova the past yea.
violent &swexal abuse
insomnia D.P pnik disoreder ..
n i fequal s.h
im ging insane ..n i dno o to stop it.
xxxxx
XGangstaxHannieX 4 years ago
you scary me
toyebah357 4 years ago
I used to be like that. Then I went to Valle Vista got on strong meds I'm so so mad and sad anymore, but It didn't help my feelings about my self. AKA I still have an Ed. But I love it, its my sence of hope.
Jordancoreysmith 4 years ago
im sorry
ash172091 4 years ago
i still do that:me crying:
ash172091 4 years ago
I`m crying, i feel the same... none will ever help us... we are all alone...
Pandorasoul 4 years ago 2
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PLEASE DONT READ THIS. YOU WILL GET KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE. TOMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. HOWEVER IF YOU DONT POST THIS COMMENT TO AT LEAST 3 VIDEOS YOU WILL DIE WITHIN 2 DAYS. NOW UV STARTED READIN DIS DUNT STOP THIS IS SO SCARY. SEND THIS OVER TO 5 VIDEOS IN 143 MINUTES WHEN UR DONE PRESS F6 AND UR CRUSHES NAME WILL APPEAR ON THE SCREEN IN BIG LETTERS. THIS IS SO SCARY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKs
Isaysno 4 years ago
who sings this song?
IllAlwaysWantYou 4 years ago
Wreckers: Stand Still,Look Pretty
terezarsm 4 years ago
Suicide is NEVER a solution.
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago
I know... believe me i know... luckily i am still here and i am going to live, but just dont know HOW...
thinspirace 4 years ago
To be a woman is not an easy task, nowadays, here. - Be a Woman of Wisdom. - Don't be a (neo-)Manichean. Respect your body ! Don't damage it ! Honour yourself !- You say "I'm sitting alone...": very well, then, learn how to sit (ZaZen) alone with others ! - "What am I dong here ?": very well ! This is a deep philosophical question ! Congratulations ! -
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago
You want to change last years, but they are gone, they are no more existent, so, why don't try to set yourself serenely in the present, so you can face your future ? Don't let an imagined past cast a shadow over your present life ! -
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago 2
You say: "I'm slowly falling apart": than, "When Things Fall Apart. Heart Advice for Difficult
Times", by Pema Chodron, Shambhala Publications,
and "Going to Pieces Without Falling Apart", by Mark Epstein, Broadway Books, and "When You're Falling, Dive. Acceptance, Freedom and Responsibility", by Cheri Huber, Keep it simple books, could be helpful. -
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago
You say: "I don't want to be here ... with me anymore". But " Our habitual tendency to fly into ungrounded, intellectual spirituality can only be countered by reconnectiong with body and feelings. When we are willing to incarnate into the body and relate to our feelings, rather than wanting to be elsewhere, it enables us to acknowledge the value of our humanness with compassion and acceptance. ...
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago
... We can begin to fee and heal the dis-ease that is held in our bodies, liberating its energy as a source of vitality, love, and joy."
Rob Preece, The Psychology of Buddhist Tantra, Snow Lion Publications, p. 81.
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago
Come on ! You are not bad ! You are not worse than me, I bet ! - You say "I am selfish": I am selfish, too. To a certain extent, everyone is somehow selfish, unless one is a highly realized being; but the simple fact that you recognized it (and have had the courage and honesty to declare it publicly) is already a remarkably good thing that proves that you are certainly not so selfish as you might think !
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago
You say: "I am full of hate. Because it is easier to hate than to love." But you recognize that there is hate in you, and this means that there is something else in you other than hate.
You seem to be a person with a very demanding moral sense. It is easier to do what you are more accustomed to do. There is much hatred in (nearly) everyone.-
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago
- You write: "I can't even believe this is my life", but Thich Nhat Hanh writes "Dear reader, ... you are not enclose in your small shell of you body or the small shell of your lifespan." ('Breathe ! You are alive', p.75).
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago
You write: "I know you hate me so": this is not true: I don't hate you.- I don't think it is easy to be you, as I wrote in the first message of this series. Don't think it is easy to be me, too ...-
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago
You write: "no hope", and that 's ... wonderful, amazing, because hope is always, unescapably coupled with fear. (See Chogyam Trungpa, The Lion's roar, § 2: 'Hopelessness', and passim). But be careful not to mistake hopelessness for despair ... (see pp.24-25).
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago
You write: "no will", and this I can't believe, because if you want to die you have still at least one will, the will to die, and this is a nihilistic will. And I am sure you have fortunately may other wills and many good and beautiful aspirations !
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago
You write: "no power", but you have a great power, the power transform your mind.
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago
About anxiety:'Painfully Shy.How to overcome social anxiety and reclaim your life',by Barbara G.& Gregory P.Markaway, both Ph.D.,Thomas Dunne Books and 'The shiness & social anxiety workbook.Proven techniques for overcoming your fears', by Martin M.Antony Ph.D.and Richard P.Swinson, M.D., New Harbinger Publications
could be helpful.
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago
Keep in contact - if you like - send me a message.
Bye.
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago
This last bibliographic advice is wrong. Please, ignore it. (Your anxiety was related to food, and is not the kind of anxiety these books deal with.) Sorry.
letzteErinnerung 4 years ago
it was not about food, I have anxiety disorder... long time before my ED (i am not ed related but you know what i mean)
thinspirace 4 years ago