"The Forum" with Mel Hall~Episode 1: "y are black women @ the bottom of the dating pool?"

[MlleButterfly]

I can't hear over the background noise and music.

[sheismelhall]

Thanks for your great comments!

[2thDoc2009]

Okay...the last part of my apparent 3 part comment!.. I, like many other independent black women refuse to give up our indpendance and dominance for somebody who isn't worthy. SOMETIMES the dominance is a subconscious test. If a guy can manage to understand that, and still stick around, he'll reap the benifits of the walls coming down and a massive outpouring of love I'm sure. HOWEVER, there are those just plain ole drama filled ones...and well, you just gotta be smart enough to know!

[2thDoc2009]

(I ran out of space...so Now I'll finish) (by the way Mel..it's Veronica from Victoria's Secret! LOL... ANyway, if that guy wants to date us, he has to be strong enough to deal with the dominance and be caring enough and patient enough to let us grow to trust him enough to be dominant for US. The roles can shift IF he is proven to be that. Other wise, why would I- a single, truly independant woman get with a guy who ISN'T just as driven as me? (I got more to say!)

[2thDoc2009]

Hmmm Interesting Mel...

Although I wasn't ASKED why, I'll give my spill...

We are picked last a lot of the times because of our dominance. This is true- but neccessary. I'm sure we're not the only race with dominant women, but we, African American women have had to shoulder sooo much responsibility. We don't always know HOW to NOT be so dominant. I think if a man wants to date us and is serious about it he needs to understand that we WILL NOT go from being dominant to submissive fast.

[sheismelhall]

it seems as though all 3 men had the same overall opinion on african american women, more dramma, too independent, intimidating! give me ya comments!!

[aceofspade28]

Loved the first episode keep it up. My brother and I show coming soon