How to make it very easy for him to ask you out

[TashaNom]

What Happens If Your Not Sure If He Likes You Back ?

[serenecelene]

im confused, so there is this guy i liked at first site. I asked him twice to hang out outside of school, and he basically turned me down. The first time I said I would take him out to eat as thanks, and he was like, "its too special" then the second time i asked him to the beach and hes like, "its too far is all" and now hes like, "Hey, lets go here together. Also, lets go here together too!"

Weve known eachother one month o.o do u think he actually likes me or i am not his 1st choice?

[MultiSilver6]

"How to get him to ask u out", coming from the guy who sounds completly strait... :P

[SparkzMxzXZ]

would it seem desperate if you give him your number and ask him to call you for a drink? I really like this guy who seems to be interested ):

[vitalcoaching]

@SparkzMxzXZ no, that's perfect! - simply give him a card with your number, look at him straight in the eyes, smile and say "Call me!"

[Honey7586]

@SparkzMxzXZ Of course!!!! Never ever give him his number unless he asks himself. Let him do the chasing thing. Do not be humiliated. Keep yourself out of it.

[rose43ful]

mmmm it workd but it went a little to far i liked it if u wanna no wat happend reply this message

[MrHitler6488]

What if someone Dated this boy and then dumped him for his twin brother????

Creepy

[Sagefrakrobatik]

I wonder if I post a video with "energy" and an "ambigious European accent" i could get 35,000 hits

[Maria72594]

u r hilarious..

[aquariousonwater]

Why don't guys ever have a plan? when asking me out?

A lot of guys are like, "hey what's up...you wanna do something?

We'll damn! let me just plan my own date that sounds wonderful. If you want to go out with me, ask me to do something that I might actually enjoy doing or at least make the decision where to start!

[paigemorgan90]

"if you were to ask me out, I would say yes" - great line!!

[ScatteredBrains321]

guys are complicated =(

[vyrgo84]

@ScatteredBrains321 hell no!! just try talking nice to me and it would be a great motivation for me to go further!! (i say me because i'm unique) lol

[ScatteredBrains321]

@vyrgo84 well there needs to be more unique guys out there lol. Whenever I go up to a guy I feel like they give me a "I stare at you but that didnt mean I wanted to talk to you" kinda look/vibe. So I dont talk to guys anymore..and they sure as hell never talk to me. But they stare ALOT. Guys are complicated in general -_-

[bksprite87]

I like your accent. It's cute. :)

And your advice is good. Thanks for making these vids!

[pinkfluffykatt]

PLEASE DONT READ THIS. YOU WILL GET KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE. TOMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. HOWEVER IF YOU DONT POST THIS COMMENT TO AT LEAST 3 VIDEOS YOU WILL DIE WITHIN 2 DAYS. NOW UV STARTED READIN DIS DUNT STOP THIS IS SO SCARY. SEND THIS OVER TO 5 VIDEOS IN 143 MINUTES WHEN UR DONE PRESS F6 AND UR CRUSHES NAME WILL APPEAR ON THE SCREEN IN BIG LETTERS. THIS IS SO SCARY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS.. so sorry

[Tooflute4u]

So I really like this guy, and he is super shy. I am shy too, and we sort of just "dance" around each other instead of actually asking each other out. Is there any way to know for sure if the reason he is not asking is strictly because he is shy? I want to know so that I do not end up being the one who asks, and then gets turned down.

[Tooflute4u]

So I really like this guy, and he is super shy. I am shy too, and we sort of just "dance" around each other instead of actually asking each other out. Is there any way to know for sure if the reason he is not asking is strictly because he is shy? I want to know so that I do not end up being the one who asks, and then gets turned down.

[iamabove18youknow]

there's this guy i've been dating. he seemed really interested in me in the beginning. but then i found out his ex was still kinda hoping to be with him.. and he wasn't exactly pushing her away. i confronted him about it, and he did make it clear to her.. but after that. he seems to have either lost interest in me, or something-cos he never texts or IMs me anymore. he is very busy with school, so i understand if hes preoccupied.

but. how do i make him ask me out again? =( or did i piss him off?

[monsterrock2]

what do i do if me and my boyfriend broke up and im starting to have feelings for his best friend :O

[vitalcoaching]

@monsterrock2 you are free and so is his best friend

[monsterrock2]

@vitalcoaching yes

[vitalcoaching]

@monsterrock2 then what happens from now on has do ONLY with you and this new guy, What your ex feels or thinks is no longer any of your concern - You are BOTH free to date whoever you want

[claire0rockz]

@vitalcoaching I here some say that, but still... My best friend started dating my ex, who she is still with. It absolutely kills me to see them together, also because she asked if it was alright with me and I told her how I would feel :(

[xiaoli26]

can I be a racist even sometimes???

ahem...

when TheMimicicu commented his/her comment that...he/she said he/she likes yar smile lol you said thanks AT THE SAME MONTH!

well that was fast....

anyways...will you talk slower pls?

I kinda...hard to understand english...

maybe you could do a EXAMPLE ROLEPLAY...

O_O (that's hard)

[1God1Martyr]

Ok, this is weird. I did not know girls need help bagging guys. P/S i dont agree with him when he said a guy ask 5 girls out and 4 may say no.. Its more like 1 outta 10 lol

[pocketmc]

0:06 Wii MEN!

[playfuncheck]

good advice - thankyou !

[Amber1752]

haha he talks funny!!

SAY MORE WORDS

[WhoaSamIam]

Okay so me and this guy have been hanging out alot lately. We've kissed and he knows I like him. He never comes out and says he likes me but he hints at it. I told him I didn't want to be friends with benefits, that we either date or we just have to be friends. He told me he's made his decision but he doesn't want to tell me at school. So I have to wait until we hang out this weekend, which it sounds like we won't be able to according to him. Does that mean the answer is no? :(

[LovMeMuch]

I hav a problem

i hav a bf but he mad shy

wat do i doo

[Lodka35]

what if he already has a gf?

[xiaoli26]

@Lodka35 just a little secret my friend....

ALL OF MY CRUSHES HAVE GFs!!!!!!!!!!

[vitalcoaching]

thanks!

[WhiffyKardd]

i hang out with guys a lot.

i have a lot of friends that are guys, but i wanna be more than friends with one of them. i dont know how to show him that i like HIM not any other guy. because i kind of think he likes me back but he might not think that i like him even though i flirt with him. what should i do? /:

[sitara2007]

Excellent advice !!

Thank you :)

[vitalcoaching]

you're welcome sitara

[marshmallowygoodness]

I don't know if he likes me. I catch him looking at me occasionally and I know that he likes a girl who was in our school musical, which i was. Should I ask him who he likes? Also, he has never had a girlfriend before.

[vitalcoaching]

who he likes can change almost overnight! feelings are NOT fixed! - simply approach him, be flirty and fun, that's how he will start to realize you are great girl and someone he wants to date

[0YesxItsxMe0]

Theres a guy i really like in my class. We're good friends and we have been for a while. Although, i want to be more than just friends. He flirts wiht me alot but i dont know if hes just messing around because hes a bit of a joker. Thing is I had liked him a few months ago and told him and he rejected me and now my confidence is crushed. I dont know what i should do? I dont know if he does really look at me or if im imagining it cos i want him to.. ,but he defo flirts. Please help me .

[tony48219IsLegendary]

i love girls like you, i wish there were more girls like you around, I wish the girl that is talking to me would tell me she likes men. You should never tell a guy you like them up front. show him you like him by flirting and your actions. I don't mind a girl telling me she likes me. I wish girls were more direct and ask men out for once.

[0YesxItsxMe0]

Haha thankk yoou x) I ended up telling the guy i liked i liked him, and we're now going out and are really happy x) x

[vitalcoaching]

excellent! - well done!

[xstar95]

my ex dumped me about 3 weeks ago...but i still really like him, when i see him he seems to look at me alot as if he still likes me.. i really want to go back out with him but im too nervous to say anything..if im near him he usually talks about other girls and i get quite jealous but i dont show it.. do you think he still likes me and what should i do?? x

[13vlee]

well there can be 2 options. everyone thinks that wen someone looks at them they probably like u. but it could be maybe he still likes u or maybe hes seeing how ur handling the breakup situation if u need more help just message me

[josshinator]

i love how he says HI! and that smile he looks like he just smoked a whole bunch of crack!

[vitalcoaching]

I don't do drugs ;)

[melindahj]

ROFL!!!! :D

[lulu12345d]

hey, so theres this guy in my music and english class and i sort of like him and i know hes single now. but he keeps getting back with his on off girlfriend, even though theyre not together right now. and i think he might like me since we talk alot and all but i dont know if he just thinks im a friend? can i go after him?

[vitalcoaching]

of course you can - try to invite him casually for something fun - That's the best way to go

[01sonamyfan]

There is a guy that i really like in my class. I want to go out with him but i don't know if he'll say no. But i think he likes me because he stares at me alot, Talks to mealot, nicer to me than all people in school alot. I NEED HELP!

[evince123]

this is in a guy's point of view

its usually scary asking someone out unless i know them pritty well...however i know im a lot more comfortable talking with them if when i make eye contact, i get a little smile.

just a heads up.. lol

[aussiechickloveslife]

well I like this guy and he likes me back but he is confident but is very shy about asking me out... he got his friend to ask me if I'd go out with him [if he asked me] and I said NO which i know i shouldn't of but it was the moment... and now its been about 3 weeks since that happened and I don't know what to do... because I'm afraid its too late to do anything! can someone plz help?

[vitalcoaching]

well, go to him and let him know that if he would ask you again, you would now say yes

[aussiechickloveslife]

Ok update:

it was last week that his friend asked me out for him (with my crush) standing next to him and then he ran away and his friend is like "would you??" and im like "umm yeah" and then he ran up and told my crush and I THOUGHT WE WERE GOING OUT but then later on my crush said "___ was joking we aren't going out" and i got so upset! so much for that!!

im over him pretty much now thank god... (btw his friend wasnt even joking.. but my crush must of thought he was or somethin =/)

[Cail51]

i really like this guy that i hang out with and every single friend that i know at my school says he likes me, but apperently hes to shy to ask me out, we hang out every day and sometimes its just me and him, but he always has an excuse to why its just me and him, he doesnt seem to be showing to many signs but he smiles alot, he laughs at my stupid jokes but it seems like hes trying to make it look like he doesnt like me, so im kinda confused. :S can you help me?

[vitalcoaching]

I think he likes you - try to invite him for something fun like the movies - without making it formal though...

[arockinthatcowboyhat]

well there is a guy we have been friends for 2 years and at the fair he make his move we held hands he sucked my finger played with my boob and after i texted him and he said im leaving for work talk to you later and never texted back well i found out he is grounded so what do i do next i will see him in 3 days and dont know weither or not to go for it and how to let him know how i feel

[ravenrocsmysocs]

there is this guy at school i've liked for quite awhile now, recently we have been texting quite often, and he invited me to watch his baseball game, but when i got there he didn't say 2 words to me. What's going on here? Was he just shy because his friends were there?

[vitalcoaching]

yes, probably

[x3xdiamond]

:) i like your voice :DDD

[vitalcoaching]

thank YOU!

[Shikato699]

i really like this guy from my club...... he smile and look ay me a lot but he doesnt seem to be blushing and he doesnt often talk to me...... i wan to talk to him but he is always with his fren, ALWAYS!!! wah should i do??? my fren is it will be too late if i dont do something soon!!!

[vitalcoaching]

watch my vid on how to tease guys ;) - A good place to start

[Annabanana1901]

There's this really nice guy in my classes, and we've recently begun talking properly. He asked for my number of a friend. At first I thought it meant he liked me, but it was apparently because of my piano playing (I'm in his music class). He's dropped a few hints, wich may be accidental, smiling at me in class, and texting me to ask how I am.

Does he like me? And how do I let him know I'm interested without seeming pushy?

[vitalcoaching]

sure, if he texts you and is superkind, it shows he likes you

how to show him you like him? when he smiles, look at him in the eyes and smile back. If he textx you, text back...

[WishingOfAStar]

i have a question this guy i really like at school

always walks by the table im eating lunch at

and tries not to look or smile but i always see him smiling and blushing when he walks by

and he always says HI!!!

to me :)

does he like me?

[vitalcoaching]

sure he does ;)

[888simone888]

Obviously YEESSS!! u r soo lucky that the guy u like, likes u back<3

[humianwali]

duh.

u lucky one. :) thats a no-brainer

[McGannp]

What is the difference between a guy flirting with you or hitting on you? This might be a dumb question.

Can a guy flirt with you and not want to get with you romantically?

[vitalcoaching]

Hitting on you? Flirting? - They are almost the same - Hitting you might sound slightly more directive

Yes! guys can flirt with you without having any intention to date you - Watch my vid on "why does he flirt with you" on my channel ;)

[emmabee11]

uhuh yep the guy i like says he is busy with saving up for his house right now and with other things so yeh thanks again this helped too, he is a little shy too like me and it's hard for me to talk to people i'm really confident when i'm by myself in my room you know but when i'm around people i go all shy is there ways i can bring that confidence out in front of him and everyone?.

[vitalcoaching]

Simply do what I say in the vid - Confidence builds up quickly when you practice a lot connecting with people

[Topdisbong]

pretty good advice

[vitalcoaching]

thanks ;)

[julia2334]

pretty good tips, thanks!

Do you think that it's okay for a guy to be asked out by a girl? If yes, would the e-mail do it or would he just ignore you the next day?

[vitalcoaching]

'f course it's okay - email, text, face to face, anything works as long as it is a casual invitation, not some form of request for commitment ;) - check the vid on how to ask him out - it's on my channel as well

[vitalcoaching]

'f course it's okay - email, text, face to face, anything works as long as it is a casual invitation, not some form of request for commitment ;) - check the vid on how to ask him out - it's on my channel as well

[kittylitter1128]

do a video to help like middle school or high school girls

[betonjen]

Thanks for the tips!! very helpful!!keep it up!

[vitalcoaching]

You're welcome

[muffintopgirl]

Great Video!! :)

[vitalcoaching]

Thanks girl!

[agirl234]

is your name Francisco vagina?

im jp. but you are very helpful! thanks!

[vitalcoaching]

Anywhere else you see hidden genitals? ;)

[agirl234]

lol...cant say that i have.

[silkyspice]

me again..just a quick question..do you believe in the saying 'what is for you will no pass bye you'?or do we really have to work on it?i personally believe that if it so complicated then it means it will not work out or its not right for you,love and relationships should come and be natural and the only thing that lasts and matters is respect and good memories.

[vitalcoaching]

Excellent question! Spot on! Should flirting just happen? Of course that would be great and yes! Flirting is first instinctual. The trick is that through shame and misconceptions, people usually don't use it because they theink it is not appropriate behavior. So you need to "relearn" a bit the skills.

[vitalcoaching]

Yes! That's a common misconception; because it has to do with love or romance, it should just happen, right? ... And what about cooking, dancing the salsa, conversation skills, all sorts of professional skills, singing and music, etc? All these are part learned, part instinctual, right? Even when you flirt in a very natural way without effort, it is still often a learned behavior you picked up from a movie or from a girl you saw doing it.

[vitalcoaching]

Yes! It has to be natural and the best way to make it so is to flirt a lot, easily without shame. You become better at it by doing it. Makes sense, right?

[silkyspice]

ur a cool guy, thanks for the advice i just made a complete fool of myself flirting with this guy, i acted like i was a teenager again was so nervous and said all the wrong things and feel so stupid!!lool,maybe i should practice flirting with u!!:-) je plaisante,bisous xx

[vitalcoaching]

Thanks :) - Yes! practice with anyone - The more you do it, the better you become, of course! You're on the right track even if sometimes you feel stupid. Guys probably think you actually look very sexy, right? :) Enjoy!

[fionathatsme]

excelent advice!

its fab that you answer all your compliments! :)

[vitalcoaching]

Thanks! :) I enjoy that

[Twisterfreak06]

This video is a kind of a help for my messed up head right now. To bad it takes for ever to watch these with my dial up. But it was very good.

[vitalcoaching]

Messed up? What's wrong?

[Gergullishious12]

OMG, a person who speaks the truth!

[vitalcoaching]

Thanks!

[pandabear322]

are you french?

[vitalcoaching]

swiss :-)

[yusefsobky]

Good effort, surprised your vids havnt had more views"!

[vitalcoaching]

thanks!

[Galuschka]

You are very handsome:)

I love your accent!

[vitalcoaching]

Thanks! Galushka... Chinese?

[Galuschka]

Russian :)

[2010117]

well done

[vitalcoaching]

Thanks!