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  • Well, that brings back memories... except I let mine cry a lot of the time due to the fact that I was nursing 1 twin and the other just had to wait. They're almost 18 now.

  • Love the older brother and his cheerful background commentary @ 0:29, "NOW look [what] happens..." Sound like it had almost become a game in the household. Mom's gotta set down the babies - put in the earplugs! :-)

    Those babies are too cute, obviously very well loved, and thankfully well past the 'crying unless being held' stage. Best to you and yours!

  • Heathier attachments my ass! Spoiled babies need to lay on the floor cry it out and then pay attention to child otherwise everytime they scream momma comes running. They have her trained well!! Your back is going to hurt so bad in another year! Not worth it. They will work it out.

  • @21shasiti 21shasiti AKA TheShasiti you again. You make me sick. You go all threw youtube baby videos saying kids need ''ass whoopings''. You lie and pretend you're in CPS then urge parents you dont even no, telling them to hit there kid. You tell parents to throw there babies into rooms/cribs when they're showing emotion (tantrums, crying). You deep down hate kids yet love to watch these videos and spew your nonsense. You're a sick old woman who needs to stay away from any contact w.babies.

  • that aint cute, that's just bad habits, picking up babies is alright as long as its not habit-forming that the babies can't stop crying unless they're held....

    but these babies are pretty cute so who cares xD

  • @AShelf -- Well, honestly, as a mama with a degree in Child Psychology & Development I have to tell you that you are wrong. These babies were about 8 months old when I filmed this video; they will be four years old in ten days and are perfectly adjusted (read: non-spoiled) pre-schoolers. Babies whose needs for closeness are met will grow up to be well-adjusted children and teenagers, less apt to beg for attention in ways that are less than desirable. I'm glad I held them when they wanted.

  • @sduszynski Its not that the babies will grow up to be spoiled simply if they are held but shouldnt there be other ways to interact than picking them up if they cry? Not that mothers shouldnt if the baby's crying, its better for the baby, but while you might have your own reasons for doing things, isnt motherhood most of the time trial and error? I'll repeat that holding children is fine as long as it isnt habit forming 24/7. I dont have a degree that you have, yes its good, but does it matter?

  • @AShelf - In a word, yes. I'm trained in the psychological development of children as well as their biological and even anthropological development. Human babies are meant to be held close; we are not a species born ready to fend for ourselves. Evolutionarily, babies whose mothers didn't hold them and tend to their constant needs would die; this is why mothers have the instinctual negative reaction (it was an actual physical reaction for me) to the sound of a crying infant.

  • Furthermore, numerous studies show that infants who are held more frequently form healthier attachments and actually develop INCREASED independence as they've learned to be confident that their needs are always met. This has ramifications on an individual for his/her entire life - in his/her relationships with parents, teachers, friends and eventually spouses or significant others. The psychology of interpersonal relationships is a science; don't worry about spoiling your babies. Impossible.

  • @sduszynski

    i agree with you I think it's best to hold on to them close while you can. that's what we're suppose to do love them discipline them and love them some more. keep up the good work love. Be Blessed and remember Jesus loves you.

  • @sduszynski I so agree. I no some people who were neglected somewhat as children with little attention and they grew up and formed an addiction to 'relationships and always wanting attention from guys or lying compulsively, etc.

  • OMG!!!! you my dear are the real supermom.

  • "And down again..." "AAAAAAAHHHHHH!!" 

  • my identical twin boys are 6 months old and i have a son who is 2 yrs old

  • omg...put them down and put ear plugs in...they'll get over it. :D

  • they love mommy!

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