I'm gay? I Know...

[MrsMrva92]

Its very interesting...why do thay allways ask men are thay gay 0_o? No one ever asked me (female) that question :). And i feel a little offended seeing how gay people are treated :/

Any way, i like the way you refuse tham :).

[BodybuilderSponsor]

You may not be gay. Hundreds of men who thought they were gay have slept with me and then decided they prefer women. You may want to try this before you make a final decision. LMK.

[MrMusiclover41]

I think homophobes feel they HAVE to make statements like that. They are so stupid, they think that might hurt you! I do wish that if they are going to make stupid statements like that, they would at least learn to spell them correctly! You and I apparently think a lot alike. I enjoy your channel.

[ExtraChapstick]

@TheMortalSlayer Thanks! :] 

[grinfcked]

Maybe they thought you were really forgetful (or had Alzheimer's) and therefor needed to be reminded of your sexual orientation. Or they're just total dicks.

[ExtraChapstick]

@grinfcked Lol... probably the latter.

[tattooedboy04]

You think you have probs with being near Roseville with stupid comments? Try being in Grass Valley...Geez!!!

[ExtraChapstick]

@tattooedboy04 Haha, people have problems with comments everywhere. :]

[Alexisme1001]

Quirky- I've had plenty of exposure to the Gay Male world, and know it in depth - believe me. I can't comment on the dysfunctionality of the the Lesbian, Trans-, or straight worlds, not being part of them. It's possible that my cynicism is not far-reaching enough. My experience with the Gay Hierarchy has been that most Gay men are shallow, treacherous, unstable, unreliable, and dishonest.

[megaskozme]

you are gay wow serious?

[MiMamisBlnkito]

....you're cute...did you know that too? Haha just thought I should reinforce it if you already knew :)

[ExtraChapstick]

@MiMamisBlnkito Lol, thanks. I appreciate it.

[Mamberuon]

A friend asked me one time, "Are you gay?" I said, "I'm not gay but my Boyfriend is." He got a bit confused when I said that. "So are you gay?" he asked. "I dont know, what do you think? Am I gay?"

Yes I am :o)

[ExtraChapstick]

@Mamberuon Great answer! Lol.

[Mamberuon]

@ExtraChapstick Thanks, I thought it was. Needless to say he didnt bother asking me that again lol

[Alexisme1001]

Having lived mostly in liberal metropolitan areas in Blue States (DC area right now), I don't have much experience with homophobia. What I have experienced, and something that very few people wish to discuss, is the generally shitty way that gay men treat one another. In my experience, there is no "gay community", but rather a "gay hierarchy", with a few men temporarily at the top of the pyramid, and everyone else stepping on one another to move higher.

[quirkyeccentric64]

@Alexisme1001 Then you need some exposure! Your experiences don't seem very correctly informative (sorry if that doesn't make sense :/ ). I myself may not be homosexual, but I know that a "Gay hierarchy" is not what is the case.

And that kind of treatment might be prominent in some, but it really isn't overall, from what I've seen and who I've met. Besides: Aren't there many more straight couples in which that is the same or worse a case?

PS: The gay/LGBTQ community isn't all males!!

[sweetberries111]

ur gAY

[jamiregray]

OMg i give you soo much respect i feel the same and i love your videos btw

[ExtraChapstick]

@jamiregray Thank you! :] I apologize that it took 7 months to respond!

[jamiregray]

@ExtraChapstick Tis Fine :)

[justcallmegrayson]

gay ppl are the best lol

[MusicNjunkDesign]

I love Gay people,

but i dont like to have sex with them

i just like to shop with them.

[piano160]

Looooooool smart 

[Megz493]

your gawgus :) xx x

[ExtraChapstick]

@paulnguyen2187 Aww. Thanks! [^_^]

[Toshflow]

Oh dear. I thought you were straight. Looks like my sense of perception is too stereotypical.

[ExtraChapstick]

@Toshflow I'm glad to have shattered a stereotype. :]

[Constellashun]

ok you're gay but why are you SOO gay?

[ExtraChapstick]

@Constellashun Why am I soo gay? Because I am. :]

[Constellashun]

@ExtraChapstick alright that clears everything up.

[ExtraChapstick]

@Constellashun You're asking me to explain why I'm gay... That's like me asking you to explain why the world is here... it just is...

[Constellashun]

@ExtraChapstick Well because God created it cant say the same about gays though.

[ExtraChapstick]

@Constellashun Oh really? The bible says god created man... So yes, he did create gays too. If you have a problem with my sexuality I suggest you take it up with god, because he's the one who will be judging you when the time comes... He's not going to judge me for being honest or for being the person he created me to be. He will condemn you, however, for going out of your way to pass judgment on me. You might want to think before you pull the God card again...

[Constellashun]

@ExtraChapstick sorry didnt read any of that too long most likely already thought out if you're gay you're gay what the fuck ever but God has nothing to do with homosexuality that's inspired by satan remain in the dark if you like i have my flaws as well.

[ExtraChapstick]

@Constellashun You didn't read it? Ok. You just proved your ignorance... Thanks. Bye! :]

[kitson464]

omg your gay wow you are just like perfect now. your hot, you can sing, you are gay and you are open about it and dont care what people say.

your the one that i want. you are the one i want ooh ooh oooh ;D

[ExtraChapstick]

@kitson464 Lol, Thanks! I'm glad you appreciate me for who I am. 

[Beanz920]

i would love to screw u from ur head to your toes you big sexy hunk UUUGGGHHH!!! it looks like you want my big juicy cock in and around your mouth and up ur ass plus vise versa. COME TO ME BIG HOT TWINKY MASCULINE TEEN BOY. AAAHH YES

[ExtraChapstick]

@Beanz920 Um... Lol. I'll take that as a compliment.

[jhumphrey9485]

You're so gay.

:P

Honey i understand this soooo much! I get it all the time in person. I don't have videos on here but... I understand. lol

[ExtraChapstick]

@jhumphrey9485 Lol. People are so judgmental...

[alpo702]

YOU ARE FUCKIN GAY!!!!

[ExtraChapstick]

@alpo702 spelling...

[paulkuijpers]

hahah your funny!

[ExtraChapstick]

@paulkuijpers Lol. Thanks!

[jesusluvsme12345]

Jesus loves your sexy ass!!!

[ExtraChapstick]

@jesusluvsme12345 Lol. Does he...?

[KitkatGalaxy12]

I'm sorry but everyone who is calling him gay has the nerve! To be honest @ExtraChapstick i never new you were gay! I think you are really talented your great at singing! And if you are really gay i just wanna say you have the guts to tell people i bet they havent bothered you now! You are really talented and you have guts unlike some people well done :) xx

[ExtraChapstick]

@KitkatGalaxy12 Thank you Kitkat! I appreciate the support! Means a lot!

[KitkatGalaxy12]

@ExtraChapstick No problem :) Its true tho :)

[MCP2012]

You're cute & adorable! Rock on!

[ExtraChapstick]

@MCP2012 Haha. Thanks!

[berryflavors1]

i'm glad you know what you like :)

your an awesome guy. and no matter what they say

you still keep your head up high and you dont let it bring you down :)

i like that.

[ExtraChapstick]

@berryflavors1 Exactly! I appreciate that you're able to notice that. I don't let anyone bring me down.

[flexiboy08]

great video :)

[ExtraChapstick]

@flexiboy08 Thanks! :]

[clanofchaya]

you are so funny XD

i like your videos :D

[blinddecker]

Your my favorite YouTuber. You know why? Whatever, I'll tell you. Okay so:

1. You have a great voice

2. You have humor

3. You except/admit

4. You don't care what other people say

5. Your videos have helped me

=)

[ExtraChapstick]

@blinddecker Thank you so much! I'm glad to have been such a positive influence!

[blinddecker]

No Problem! Can I Personal Message You A Problem I Have. And Give Me Some Advice?

[xmissemiliax]

i like your videos. especially this one

[ExtraChapstick]

@xmissemiliax Thanks! (^_^) Means a lot that people actually pay attention to the content of the videos.

[howdoiquityou2006]

i say i know ... and your point is ??

[ExtraChapstick]

@howdoiquityou2006 I'm confused...

[howdoiquityou2006]

when some says your gay in condescending way

[abqskinhead]

Open sexuality now is so much easier than when I was a kid back in the 80's. If you dare comeout you might get beaten up by most guys. No one would even associate with you for fear of being tagged as gay or getting AIDS. No one would defend you. The fears are still the same, but again it is so much better now.

[ExtraChapstick]

@abqskinhead Yes, it is easier. It's because of the past that it's so much easier today, but there are places in the world where it's even harder than we could imagine.

[abqskinhead]

No joke. I have a few friends from Iraq and they had told me about it. There is a video on youtube about two younger men being hung for being gay.

[ExtraChapstick]

@abqskinhead It happens.... ;( It's ignorance.

[allandy4u]

no honey, it's not ignorance, it's stupidity. Ignorance is if they don't know. If they're smart enough to know how to type, know how to log on onto an internet account and type a message saying that you're gay when you mad it clear that you are? and still insult you? That's stupid. you're wonderful, keep being you.

[ExtraChapstick]

@allandy4u I appreciate the support. I still call it ignorance though because even if people know better they ignore the fact and pretend things should be their way. Stupid? Yes. Ignorant? Yes. It's a bit of both, but either way it doesn't bother me because they only make themselves look bad. (^_^)

[JambaJoy]

This a totally candid comment but: Your youtube name just reminded me to go to the drug store and buy chapstick...no joke.haha

[ExtraChapstick]

@JambaJoy Haha! That's good! My videos serve dual purposes.

[GleamOfTheDevil]

Saying "you're gay" to a gay person is like saying "you're black" to a . . . well you viewers get my point :-) in other words, it's a pointless, well, point :-) just saying

[ExtraChapstick]

@GleamOfTheDevil Haha, exactly! (^_^)

[ExtraChapstick]

@GleamOfTheDevil Haha! Exactly! (^_^)

[thedaboss1990]

i like this video

[ExtraChapstick]

@thedaboss1990 That makes me happy (^_^)

[maderblood]

you are good looking dude, you aren't gay screw the haters... they just waste time for fun lol

[Mr89Nef]

@maderblood

what does looking good has to do with being gay?

He's pretty gorgeous and gay, I'm gay and all the girls hit on me all the time my friends get jealous. it's not how you look it's how you feel.

[maderblood]

@Mr89Nef lol whatever, i don't know man.. okay fine he is gay then xD

[ExtraChapstick]

Nor do I (^_^) It's only a small part of who I am.

[chaddallas09]

Be glad you're gay. All that "soul" for lack of a better word, in your voice is attributable to, at least in part, to being gay. You can hear what you've been through. That experience makes you a better singer... hopefully that makes some kinda sense. It did in my head.... Chad in Dallas TX

[ExtraChapstick]

I guess it made some sense (^_^) However, I know plenty of gay men with no soul in their voice. I attribute it to what I've been through as well as to the type of music I listen to (R&B/Soul). Also, I'm 1/4 black. It's partially in my blood.

[gtech20]

You tell them man!

[ExtraChapstick]

Thanks (^_^)

[kittenless]

So you are...At first, I thought they were just teasing you.. But that's awesome! I totally agree with you, and how you feel about it.

[ExtraChapstick]

Yes I am (^_^) Thanks for the support!

[Madonnaboy83]

Well said! :)

[ExtraChapstick]

Thanks! (^_^)

[et800223]

Me too =D

[supercyberollie]

you are awesome! i'm 11 and i think you're great!

[ExtraChapstick]

Thanks! Glad this video meant something to you! It's always nice to hear I'm reaching new people!

[chelsealouise1996]

:) you are so cute!

lol i love it when people tell me something i already know.

'point out something that i dont know' :)

[ExtraChapstick]

Haha! I love it! (^_^)

[justTwilight13]

lol.. you make me laugh.. this was kinda funny.. anyways.. you are gorgeous!

[ExtraChapstick]

Aww, thanks (^_^)

[ExtraChapstick]

@justTwilight13 Thank you very much! (^_^) I'm very sorry it took so long to respond! I've just been busy with work and school.

[justTwilight13]

@ExtraChapstick You're welcome, darling! There is no need to apologize for not responding right away, it's quite alright! Hope you have an amazing school year and good luck with everything! Take it easy sweetheart!

[ExtraChapstick]

@justTwilight13 Thanks! I'm almost done with this semester. :]

[mypokerface14]

this is a very good video. i agree with what you are saying. i am bisexual. half gay. =D

[gamerdudepunk]

Haha me too =D xD

[ExtraChapstick]

Thanks so much for watching! (^_^)

[Anatariel]

LOL

My friend learn me one thing: if someone disturb you - say Vafanculo (italian) to them.

[sexyhotpeppe]

"Vaffanculo": with double f.

I'm italian!XD

[Anatariel]

Sorry, I'm not italian :)))

[StraightActingGayGuy]

you have a very pleasant speaking voice

=)

Erik

[ExtraChapstick]

Thank you very much (^_^) I've heard that a lot before but I don't quite know what to do with it other than keep talking... haha

[EgoPutt]

I think it's so sad that you're gay, because I'm a girl and I would love to know a boy like you

you're adorable !

[ExtraChapstick]

Sad? I don't think so (^_^) I'm being myself.

[EgoPutt]

I'm sorry, I should express myself differently: It's a huge loss for us women !

[ExtraChapstick]

@EgoPutt I don't think it's a loss at all. There are plenty of men out there who like women. (^_^)

[EgoPutt]

@ExtraChapstick yes, but they're not as cute as you are!

[ExtraChapstick]

@EgoPutt Haha... I don't know. I'm just me.... If people think I'm cute that's nice, but I can't let it go to my head.

[mrchocolateshoes]

Your sarcasim is shit.

[nathanbcarl]

good tht ur being u

[ExtraChapstick]

Thanks!

[0kami1]

I have 10 brownie points

[ExtraChapstick]

Congratulations! Haha (^_^)

[yamahaking91]

Ima guy but i am straight but peoplethat call u gay are gay lol they just think there cool but there not man but well done ur a cool guy!

[ExtraChapstick]

Thanks for watching! (^_^)

[ramsdenrik]

Well done for this great video love the sarcasm!!

[ExtraChapstick]

Thanks!

[ariannajanelle]

i love your sarcasm. you're so awesome:)

[ExtraChapstick]

Haha! Glad you liked it!

[6660cody]

You are very cute and haha you tell me boy! Don't ever let anyone even try to put you down

[ExtraChapstick]

I won't! Thanks (^_^)

[OhSnapItsGaby]

Your fucking cute :)

[ExtraChapstick]

Haha. Thanks (^_^)

[imaovaheredumdum]

I love this video because i am a receptionist and someone on the phone started to get upset at me, and he said in a rude way "ARE YOU GAY" in the beginning I was startled he pulled this card. I replied back "UM YES" and just like a fast car speeding, this person just crash into a brick. He said "Oh, I was just asking" then I said "Oh ok, well have a nice day." then :::click::: hung up on him.

Good Video :)

[ExtraChapstick]

Haha. Interesting.

[zubi289]

yeah screw them

[Icstitch]

yes it is very hard to come out I know even when your mom is a bitch and wont accept them.

[AnaaCunhaa]

Dude, well.. Thats the first time that I am seeing you..

and.. wow, congratulations!

I dont know what's really going on but I kinda understand what you said.. so..

I loved your attitude!

Really.. go ahead! never give up

[ExtraChapstick]

Haha! Was any part of the video confusing?

[Toolravn]

die gay fuk

[JamieIsBattleGay]

Why are there so many homophobic people? I mean, seriously. What's wrong with gay people? They're just ordinary people. Like race. It's personality that counts. I hate idiots who just think that all gay people, or anyone who isn't white all have the same personality. I mean, how retarded is that? :Head explodes:

[ExtraChapstick]

There are a lot of homophobic people because they're scared.

[princessphabieo333]

Wow!!! You are soo amazing. Way to go!! :)

[ExtraChapstick]

Thanks for watching! (^_^)

[funnygirl33199]

wow... i saw your other vid and i agree i dont know y ppl have to feel different bout gay ppl...... its not like u r any diff kinda person then i am.. dont listen to ppl that say your diff or anything like that. so i am happy that u made this vid.

[ExtraChapstick]

People are afraid of gay people. I don't know why.

[Jacob1176]

LOL!!! That gets so annoying!!! DUDE! YOUR NOT THE ONLY ONE!!! Lol There is nothin' wrong with being gay either.

[ExtraChapstick]

No, there isn't. (^_^)

[GAPfilmsanddocos]

what they are really saying is they are jealous.

At least you are man enough and comfortable about who you are to be open about it.

If they don't like it then that is "there" problem.

[ExtraChapstick]

Lol, yes, it is "there" problem.

[ihateboys44]

oh yess they must be jealous of his sexuality.

[firstjohn47and8]

Calling someone "gay" as if it's an insult is very remedial to say the least. I think these people don't realize that gay people accept who they are and like it.

[ExtraChapstick]

Lol, no they don't realize. (^_^)

[MisanthropistPro]

Haha. You're funny, and cute. (=

[ExtraChapstick]

Aww, thanks! (^_^) Glad you liked the video!

[MisanthropistPro]

Mhm. They're all pretty great. (=

[adebukola84]

cool... i will be waiting!!

[Goshous]

lmao, "What am I going to do? They reminded me I'm gay!"

Fuck them, Chap. They ain't nobody. You keep doing what you're doing.

[ExtraChapstick]

Lol, thanks! (^_^)

[ExtraChapstick]

Lol! Thanks! (^_^)

[adebukola84]

gay or not, it dont bother me.... i think u ve a great voice and u seem like a genuine and nice guy... ur sexuality is ur business... can u please sing Irreplacable by beyounce?

[ExtraChapstick]

I think I just might have to! (^_^) I'll probably sing it on my other channel (MrUmberella). I'll let you know if and when i do put that video up. Thanks for the support!

[ExtraChapstick]

Lol! (^_^)

[dancer4life287]

It's good to stand up for urself cuz people like tht have nothing better to do so live ur life the way tht you want to!! By the way me and my two sisters think ur HOT!!!

[ExtraChapstick]

Lol, thanks!

[weeshey123]

seriously who should care about this guy sexuality and about the way this guy looks he proberly looks way better than the people that are dissing him yea so think about like that if ur gonna comment that this guys ugly take a good hard look at ur self u never no what u might realise

[ExtraChapstick]

Thanks for making this point! (^_^) Even attractive people are ugly when all they can do is hate.

[AWriterOfSorts]

Lol you nailed that. Good vid

[ExtraChapstick]

Lol! Thanks (^_^) I'm not sure what classifies as "nailing it" as far as this video goes, but I'm glad you liked it! (^_^)

[jay15kz]

good 4 u dude lmao this was fucking hilarious man

[ExtraChapstick]

Thanks! (^_^)

[gary42484]

people don't make any sense. who cares if you're gay?? really?? i see the comments on your SINGING videos...and you being gay has WHAT to do with your TALENT? i'm sorry but people on the internet have some poor ass sorry excuses for parents to be shit talking someone's sexuality. and again if you're gay and you take....or whatever....yeah...and? that makes you not talented? people really are retards. i think their mothers drank and smoked weed while pregnant. ignore the HATERS man!

[ExtraChapstick]

Lol, I love haters. They strengthen my resolve and dedication (^_^)

[gary42484]

LOL You also gotta love their stupidity. half the time they can't even spell 4 letter words yet they talk shit? lol fucktards

[sponcer16]

good for you im gay too and ur gorgeous as fuck

[ExtraChapstick]

Lol, thanks. (^_^)

[DPXxana]

wohoo u go. personaly im bi so wohoo XD lol. an dont lissten to the idiots who r putting u down caus eu r a good singer //_^

[ExtraChapstick]

Thanks so much for the compliment and the support! (^_^)

[DPXxana]

your so welcome XDDDDD

[08KEEPITREAL09]

You are sooo hot!! And u sing so beautifully, it don't matter what people say about you they are just haters that wish they were as sexy as you!

[ExtraChapstick]

Lol, sexy? Haha! Thanks (^_^)