pt.1 Dowry deaths, a curse that lives on (In Hindi/Urdu)

[martepena]

is there one in english I need it for my project please

[xgotfiveonitx]

@martepena sorry there isnt.

[mrsWELCOME008]

I hate those bastards who do this and those bastards who marry someone just to get a visa to settle in a foreign nation. What I will say is this, I do not mind Indian women (oh I have the same blood) but with the men all I will say is that is it is Quality not Quantity which matters.

The men are wimpy and should earn more themselves instead of acting like low grade gigolos.

[99hotty]

m supprised tht girl tht woman's husband helped

[VerdugoCityRider]

People who do this should get boiled to death as punishment. People would never commit that crime if the punishment was that harsh.

[mysonoo]

ye indian musalmano ko bura kahte hain look mirror indians ye sab pakistan mani nahi hota humare releigion main ye haram hain hota bhi hai hai to minimum

[gmalvika]

@mysonoo how can you even say that? It has never been about hindus or muslims...are you trying to tell me that the condition of women in pakistan is better than in india?! no, freakin no.....women are ill-treated everywhere..its a shame that we are in the so-called 21st century where women are supposed to stand shoulder-to-shoulder with men......this sickens me....hats off to paradoxical equality!

[xgotfiveonitx]

@gmalvika women ill treated everywhere? you know this whole 'i am a victim' role gets tired after a while. women abuse men too lets not forget that instead of making this about gender, let's focus more on the INDIVIDUALS who choose to abuse, be it male or female.

[gmalvika]

@xgotfiveonitx 'i am victim' role for women should have been over ages ago but it hasn't. If your trying to tell me that men are equally as harassed as women then why is there not a single case in this whole series that talks about men being killed or burnt to death for dowry? If it had been another issue then your point about focusing on individuals would have been valid but dowry is very much gender-related.

[xgotfiveonitx]

@gmalvika if you are talking about dowery thats a different issue. in your custom the brides family pays the dowery. in my communities custom, its the groom's family who pays the dowery and many men do get harassed over it too.

[gmalvika]

@xgotfiveonitx ok men get harassed too. But this is where the numbers come in. If really men had been as tortured regarding this issue as women are then the dowry death will not be officially termed as "Bride Burning". According to 304-B of the IPC if a "bride" is killed within 7 years of her marriage it will be considered a dowry death. Nowhere does it mention men. Now do you have something to say about men being equally harassed when the govt itself denotes this term to brides?

[xgotfiveonitx]

@gmalvika and yet in your country you have laws that are passed that are supposed to prevent it, yet they end up being abused by women with false complaints and innocent men and their mothers are thrown into jail. what about that? i dont condone abuse, but i think feminists be it in india or here in the west need to tone it down a bit.

[cdilJ]

She was making money and she was independent. she could have run away. this is so sad

[TearsintheAshes]

The most heinous and the most cruel crimes of which history has recorded have been committed under the cover of religion or equally noble motives. ~Mahatma Gandhi