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  • Beautiful family God bless

  • I remember doing this same thing with both of my children who are now 23 and 15 respectively. I now sing with my niece, who is 4. She loves it and sings along just like your daughter does. We sing two of the same songs you do "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star" and "You are My Sunshine". This is beautiful!

  • I really want to say thank you.

  • I saw this movie a couple of times and it made me cry each time I did.

    It remembers me the few times my dad sang with my little brother and me b4 bedtime.

    Your kids can be so lucky and blessed to have not only one - but two dads like you.

    I wished I have had a such loving family when I was a child.

    Be proud of what you have and I keep you in my prayers.

    Thanks for sharing your life with others.

    Greetings from Germany.

  • WTF? Youtube??? Why are all the related video family sex and incest porn???????? Someone needs to fix this IMMEDIATELY. It's been a while since I've seen this video but I don't think it was like that last time. Anyway I just wanted to say that I'm so proud of Jay and Bryan this was the first video of theirs I stumbled across almost a year ago. I can't wait for R2L to come out.

  • @misachan92 When I first saw that the videos attached were adult porn related I got a little mad also....But then I thought about it...If someone is looking for those videos and happen to come across ours maybe it will make them think and change.

  • @depfox Very true. What a good way to think about. Ok youtube i forgive you. :) And PS when I saw that you replied to my comment I jumped out of my chair and did a lil happy dance. You guys are so inspiring. I can't express how much your videos have meant to me this past year. They've given me a light to hold on to and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Whenever I do come out to my family I'll definitely show them your videos to help them understand that family and love is universal.

  • @misachan92 Blush :O)

  • That's a very lucky little girl to have become a member of your lovng family. Blessings to you all! :-)

  • @longbeachlt Thanks God you know what's right or wrong.

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  • this brought tears to my eyes..because THIS is how a family SHOULD be...sadly, America has lost its family value. Oh they can preach how it should be..but no one steps up and actually does it. Good job men!...your children are going to grow up and be intelligent, involved citizens and make excellent choices because you are teaching them self worth!

  • My parents never sang me before bed and they´re straight. I wish i had that experience, even with two daddies or two mommies. That girl is so lucky to have you both guys, congratulations!!!

  • PS To myself: Why am I singing with them lol...

  • thats sweet,,,

  • You two are such great parents. You're children are lucky to have you.

  • Cutest family!

  • This is the cutest, most adorable video. What a great set of dads. Congratulations!

  • Me and my same sex partner have a son and take my word, our son is more normal than many straight parented kids. Kids need love, attention, guidance, trust and positive energy around them. It does not matter if this comes from two moms, two dads, one mum, one dad or from one mum and one dad.

  • @kerimhann how about this; children need DISCIPLINE, I see a lot of spoiled children with no manners nowadays

  • Can't see how kids can be 100% "normal" with 2 dads. I don't mean to sound ignorant and I know that is what you are thinking as you read this but it has to change something in the subconscious. Im not prejudiced but even my 6 year old has made comments like "eeeewwww" when she sees same sex affection. I have never conveyed any negativity on the subject in her presence. Only time will tell I guess.

  • @CIREM3 There are many books you can read to gain valuable insight into the "normalcy" of children of gay and lesbian parents. In fact, most children of gay and lesbian parents are better adjusted or just as well adjusted in relation to children of heterosexual parents. The key is in loving the children and not the sexuality of of the parents.

  • @CIREM3 well, take the time and educate your daughter and maybe she will go..."ohhhh" instead...show her the love that is given to others whether it is opposite sex, same sex, or single sex...you will be the winner for making your daughter a better person! Please do it!

  • I hope one day me and my partner can have a beautiful family, such as yours.

  • This reminds me so much of my own childhood!!! I wasn't raised in a gay family, though... But I wish I was. My mother is driving me crazy!

  • ho of you guys had the babies or you adoptet them

  • This is really sweet :)

  • This is beautiful, two men have probably had to go through quite a lot of shit to get to where they want to be.

  • @souljaboi7898 Thanks;O) lol

  • I just wanted to say, this video actually has me in tears. Of all the nursery rhymes I was sung to as a child, You Are My Sunshine holds the most meaning for me. My Aunt Jane sang that to me all the time and she sadly passed away when I was in 2nd grade. It's great the memories you're creating with your family, and I wish you guys the best.

  • Hello, you look amazing!

    It seems like you're doing everything for your kids, this something that other families don't do actually all around the world!

    After hearing the news all about child abuse, violence, hatred etc I really felt like there is still hope in this world after seeing you!

    Wish you the best!

    and happy new year from a very far country!

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  • By the way. I love your channel!!!!!

    Just discovered it and I'm now going through all of you videos.

    There are so many ways to change the world, and I commend you for this amazing way.

    I'm sure this will change many of the minds of those who are who don't really know what it really means to be gay and break down many of the prejudices.

    I want to thank you for the amazing work you do.

  • This reminds me of my childhood. My mother used to sing me to sleep too.

    Now as an adult I tease her about it, saying that she scared me to sleep. The faster I whent to sleep the sooner she would stop singing.

    Those were good times:O)

  • @trekker114 Can I ask you why...This is my families nighty rutine...We sing to our daughter every night b4 bed. Why is it weird?

  • @depfox What does ur daughter call u? Daddy #1 and 2?

  • @antlantis7 Daddy Jay And Daddy Bryan when we are alone with her its Dad

  • @trekker114 What's weird?

  • @trekker114 What exactly is weird about it?

  • @trekker114 I wish I had had somebody who had loved me this much. I missed out, I'm just glad these two kids have such a close family.

  • @trekker114

    No it's not weird, it's just you.

  • @trekker114 Not at all! It was beautiful!

  • @trekker114 No actually it makes me jealous - I wish my dad had done this for me!

  • @trekker114 Why is it weird???? it is a tradition in my family to sing my daughter to bed at night??? She is loved and catred for and is the light in my heart...I wish all kids had this in their life

  • beautiful :)

  • Beautiful family!!! :D

  • @hansonfan97 thank you

  • this isnt gay. its not like there singing to each other. it reminds me other that 1 movie when theres a girl and she has a mom and 3 other KIND guys live with them cause there like family and they help out. this reminds me of the scene when 2 guys are tucking the girl in

  • What a lovely family you have. May you continue to be blessed in life xx

  • @UNholyScop3 Lmao, the only messed up thing here is you.

  • Inspirational parents! Great job! Not enough dads take the time to sing with their children. Awesome!

  • @warhawklive, are you threatened by gay people and gay families? You shouldn't be.

  • You are the most amazing family I have ever seen.. and you are such young too parents too! Keep up the amazing work. The world would be such a better place if people were half as understanding and loving as you two are.

  • Im a friend of a gay couple that raised a boy and a girl in Gran Canaria,they are now the most stable and smart heterosexual young adults i seen in years ! You are wonderful family! xx

  • @Rachara1769 My daughter does have a mother...We try and include her in my daughters life as much as we can. Sadly her mother has chosen drugs over her kids.

  • @depfox If the mother is still into drugs themn let her stay away. tough love.

  • @depfox

    I think we've heard everything here, a mother who uses drugs makes men become homosexuals.

  • @depfox I think its great you're taking care of your daughter. Her mother is terrible for taking drugs over her. Shes a beautiful child.

  • @Rachara1769 well, she wouldn't have a parent if she wasn't adopted!

  • @Rachara1769 How many children don't have a mother or father. How many children are in foster care in california alone. over 100,000. You can clearly see these two guys love their daughter. She is a lucky girl.

  • @Rachara1769 You'd much rather her have no parents at all than two fathers? You're an idiot.

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  • god this is like so cute !

    i think you are great parents , it´s amazing how adoroble yous are treating you daughter !

    i really think that she will be proud of having you as her parents

    keep on posting nice videos like this please :D

  • that is just simply loving! gosh you guys made a great parents. cheers ;)

  • You´ve made me really happy sharing this video. Me and my b/f want to get married after college and maybe have a child as well. We do want to create a family together like you both did.

    I hope you guys stay together forever with your daughter and never break up.

    Cheers from Brazil

  • I want to be tucked in and have a bedtime story. There is a particular person at my college that I adore (old enough to be my mother) and I would love to have her put me to bed like this. I hope your little girl will still enjoy this ritual when she's my age.

  • well is she g** does not seem it

  • This is honestly so cute!

  • this is just adorable!!!!!!!!!! I wish all the hapiness to your family!!!!

  • so cute.

  • This is so sweet!

  • shes adorable =]

  • You just tuoch my heart : )

  • ohh look there is the next american idole lol HaHaHa THAT WAS SO CUT E THOUGH!!! AWW

  • adurable

  • This video is very touching! You guys have an amazing family!

  • hahahahahahahaha aaaaaaaaaa hahaha

  • This is very touching!!!!!!! I wanna see more vids like this

  • Leffew Family, you guys are cute, I've never seen a father singing to their daugther. (;

  • I think your idea to showcase your family has been courageous, ground-breaking, and inspirational. I can't say as much as I want to in each comment due to the character count limits, but it's ok because you guys have plenty of videos for me to rate and comment in lol. Anyways, while I knew gay families existed, I've never actually seen any until you guys. Having a visible model of a gay family is huge. And having good gay family role-models moreso. Thank you so much for your videos!

  • So heart warming. Got a little teary eyed watching this. I wish you all the very best. Thank you for your work. God Bless you.

  • Thanks for the comment. Yes we could go to Canada but unfortunately the state we live in does not recognize out of state or out of countries marriages of same sex couples...sad. I hope it changes in our lifetime...better hurry though!!!!

  • I'm pro-marriage, bi, and all. But the truth is there hasn't been enough gay parents for a long length of time for us to determine whether or not it is harmful to a child even if we hope it's not. However, the key thing is it CAN'T be worse than the millions of us with single moms, deadbeat dads and etc... Having both parents is better than a single mom, but I had one, and it was fun. We can't all live in white picket fences. And I bet any child in foster care would prefer having 2 dads.

  • I suppose it can sometimes be a little uncomfortable to show your very private family moments to the world on YouTube, but i think you have made the right decision to do so. You look so natural and organic as a family, and although it may seem strange to some people, i can't even imagine how someone could stay anti-marriage equality after watching you.

  • Selina is SOOO cute. You guys are so lucky to have such a wonderful family.

  • A wonderful way to conclude the day in love. Keep smiling!

  • You guys are awesome!

    My partner and I live in Ohio which has no marriage or civil unions. We have been together for 18 years now. The evangelicals put it on the ballot when Bush ran for his second term. I just don't understand how "the majority" can put the "minorities" rights on the ballot and then just "vote" them away?? I am not a constitutional scholar but that just seems wrong!

    Thanks to people like you people can see that we are not crazies.

    All the best for you!! Thanks!

  • God you live with your partner for 18 years,,, you should go to canada and have your marriage.

  • SO SWEET!!!

    I think that you are very good fathers.

    Great video!!!

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  • You guys are such a beautiful family!

  • that almost put me 2 sleep 2

  • Great video!!!!!!!

  • I want to find hypothetical Mr. Right and mary and raise my future children as well as your doing, Good Job!, :)

  • So sweet,

    i am growing up with no parents'

    mom died,

    my dad walked out on my family

    and i live with my brother who beats me ]:

  • very nice... great parents..

  • I never had a dad growing up. my gram raised me...im almost a little jealous lol...i think that it is absolutely adorable that you guys sing to your daughter. this was so cute

  • I am sory about your dad

  • sooooooooooo cute!!!!!

  • sweet video..:)

  • this is very inspiring. i have 2 friends who have dads as parents and they are the most loving people i know.

    thank you for putting this video up. it is truly touching and i wish the best for your daughter.

  • Thank you some of my fav times of the day is at night time when the kids get ready to go to bed :O)

  • haha yeah i have 3 little sisters under the age of 5 and i sometimes tuck them into bed. it's a lot of fun.

  • Beautiful family. For you haters, does this little girl seem to have a problem with her fathers? No... you are the ones with the problem, so get over yourselves.

  • clown

  • i would adore 2 dads i'v alwaysstruglled

    with me an my mums relationship but i do love her, the more that gay marriage is introcued the more normal it will be come i wish that thse lovley georgeouse people wouldnt ever feel hit ortargatd i wish u a happy life guys xxx

  • it is excellent what you do for your child. gay or straight it doesn't matter as long as your happy

  • This little girl is getting so much love, she will be spoiled rotten! But what's the use of having children if you can love them to pieces! I grew up beaten and miserable thanks to my straight parents. Without my beloved grandparents I would not have known any happiness. It would have thrilled ME to death to have parents like this!

  • it is so nice to see such a loving family. :-)

  • I watch this and just think how lucky that girl is to have parents like you ... thats all ... :)

  • hmm im sory you see the world from your view. The truth is my daughters mother gave up her rights when she chose drugs over her kids. I dont play dress up unless my daughter asks me two like any good father would.

  • depfox, i see a girl who has 2 loving parents and is happy and safe.

    your good fathers and not many people can say they have parents like you!

    i wonder if doorman thinks single parents are narcissistic too? hypocritical homophobia~!

  • doorman0doorman,

    it's pathetic that you'd take something as beautiful as this scene and turn it into something ugly. this little girl is clearly loved by two fantastic parents. you are incapable of ever seeing that because it is two men.

    that is very sad and i feel sorry for you.

    and depfox,

    it's sad that you have to actually defend yourself from people like this. it is someone like doorman0doorman that is hurting these children...not you. your children are absolutely lucky to have you guys!

  • Yeah, that's the thing... People try to say that a child raised by two male or two female parents is more likely to be "screwed up in the head", that's a quote from some user a long time ago... but it's people like doorman who are the cause of it! The bullies in school who are taught by their parents to hate others for who they are... They're the cause of it, and it's wrong.

  • She has the love of two parents. Why does it matter if one doesn't have a vagina? A body is just a body... Love is so much more than that.

  • Why don't you go and feel sorry for the kids whose mothers have died, or were murdered, or left them, etc. Are you not going to be disgusted that those kids have no mother to love them?

  • Funny because I had a mother and never knew love from her. Especially once she learned I was gay. I think of this child as being extremely fortunate.

  • to doorman

    Religious hypocrisy is what I call this kind of comment ... people claiming to have higher standards when their lives are filled with loathing and hatred. So truly pathetic.

  • What twisted prejudice and ignorance is shown by your baseless, bigoted, meaningless, nonsensical, worthless comment.

  • So you think this girl leave two loving parents and go back to her broken home?

  • i don't think anybody would make that connection

  • By the time their kids are teens it won't be an issue, in fact depending on the location it isn't right now. I knew someone with a gay parent, I don't remember any negativity, we (as 11 year old children) were clearly much more mature than you are now.

    Its just a card, geez. A ton of kids live with single parents and I don't see that a massive greetings card dilema has ever risen to cause strife in society, honestly!

    Its not like these kids won't know any women

    The problem here lies with you

  • Listen...

    You're pathetic, manipulative, & scum of this earth.

    You think you're fighting for a cause that will better this world, but you're not. What are you trying to prove? Other than you're a closed-minded individual who is too damn stupid & ignorant to recognize it?

    It's not your life to make decisions for.

    Focus on your own miserable life. Get out of your Grandma's basement. Shove something in your pie hole... & basically just fuck off. You're retarded.

  • You nearly made me tear up because of how adorable that moment was. I bet many children in unhappy families or in care would kill to have a loving family like this.

  • I love your videos. Ignore the bigots and keep focusing on your beautiful family.

  • We always do. Thanks for the nice coments

  • I can't even begin to say how freaking adorable this is.

  • I went to your page and there is a big fuzzy bunny. :O) so if you think my videos are freaking adorable I take that as a huge compliment thanks.

  • I need to keep track of my favorite bigot.

    You talk to kids about sex when they are older. You talk to your kids about graphic sex when they are toddlers. Then you claim that we are pushing our agenda on kids, while you are teaching her words like faggot and ass burglar.

    These two men are wonderful examples of what a loving gay family is like. No matter how much hate speech you teach your daughter, it will never counter-act the love of this family.

  • Why would you even tell a young kid about sex anyways?

    You were telling your three year old daughter what butt pirates and dicks are.

    This video shows REAL family values.

  • You guys are very good parents :)

  • "thus the fallacy of a "natural right" cannot exist."

    It's a civil liberty rights issue. Marriage isn't natural, I agree. However it exist in humanity, and holds significant implications with most of us. There's no reason why homosexuals shouldn't be allowed to legally wed their same sex companion, if heterosexuals are allowed to wed their opposite sex companion.

  • "Marriage equals a union between a man and a woman as of now"

    But it doesn't, because there are states that have legalized gay marriage.

    "That reflects a current SOCIETAL consensus, not any force by any political/religious parties whatsoever"

    You keep telling yourself that. The main reason people use as being heterosexist is that it's their religious beliefs. Being anti-gay marriage certainly doesn't stem from a logical reason.

  • "The gay lobby doesn't have a "right" to suddenly change society's definition of the word "marriage""

    The definition of marriage has changed before in this country, and it WILL change again for the better. You say that we have no right to change the definition of marriage, without even bothering to prove why or how changing the definition of marriage will be detrimental to society. Being a coward of change doesn't cut it. Also Webster's dictionary now has gay marriage as a def. of marriage.

  • i have to admit, this made me laugh a little on the inside. it sheds insight into how you feel about morality.

    a conservative libertarian, for example, might argue that morality should not be dictated by the state. and certainly, the morality of the state should not be dictated by a church.

    but that is simply a point of view you are free to agree or disagree with.

  • you ask important questions. if you meditate on them with an open mind, i am sure you will find an answer.

  • I am not against morality on the crontrary people like you forcing us to live in the dark not allowing us to form families that we can value are the ones trying to make us live in sin. I am a cristian and a very moral person. the rec statistics are 10% of people are gay not 2%. and last we as Americans have vcertian gurantess under our constitution and bill of rights that give us The "Minority" protections from the tereony of your "Majority" try reading the constituiton and the bill of rights.

  • MStoneManiac, when one talks of stigmatization, I believe that a society marked by those ignorant and prejudiced against gay people should bear the blame for stigmatizing others. Think of a couple of bullies harassing a student only to turn around to pretend in front of the teacher that the student is bothering them and cause the student to go to the dean's office. We all bear responsibility for how we treating everyone else in our lives.

    You need to leave gay people alone, it's not worth it.

  • You're absolutely right MStoneManiac, how dare gay people be so selfish to want to find romance, to find their one true love, to be able to get married to that one true love, and possibly start a family, and raise some children. How dare gay people to want to live normal lives, as a couple, who loves, cherishes, and provides for children. Tell me, how many heterosexuals would be willing to forsake love and family life? You're blinded by your hatred Maniac. Therapy should be good for you.

  • "re they so content in their narcisissim and selfiness"

    Right because there's nothing narcissistic or selfish about a group of people (heterosexist), who think that their heterosexuality is God ordained, nature ordained, and the only acceptable sexual orientation period; who try to brainwash ppl into thinking that only heterosexual couples can or should raise children, get married, and have one of those little 'insignificant' things called an everlasting, loving, committed relationship.

  • "Do gays even think about the long term affects their stigmatized unions have on children"

    If our unions weren't stigmatized by hateful people in the first place, then children of same sex coupled families wouldn't have to worry about being ridiculed because of their home life right? So doesn't logically mean that the blame lies with the stigmatizers instead of the stigmatized?

  • ""My parents are fags?""

    I'm pretty sure that she can't claim that her parents are pieces of wood used for burning, which is actually what the definition of fag or fagot is. Anyone who applies a word that means a piece of wood towards gay people are drastically intellectually inferior, and should probably spend more time reading a book, then worrying about the family context of other people's lives. Just saying.

  • "How will she not be ridculed in her teen years when asked about her mother and father and she has to reply, "I have two dads!""

    It's not because of these two men, or their daughter that she could possibly be ridiculed because of her family. It's because of ignorant and vile human beings such as yourself, that she could possibly be ridiculed. Such disgusting homophobes are beneath normal people such as the people that make up this family.

  • "Who does she give a mother's day card to...or a fathers day card?"

    Why does that matter? Are people really this scared when it comes to a breach of 'tradition'. It's like being afraid non-existent phantoms.

    " How will they teach her the identity of womanhood when they've never been with a woman? "

    You act as if 1. They've never been around real woman. 2. You act as if she won't ever be around real woman who are adult figures. 3. You can't teach someone how to be a gender. That's ridiculous.

  • My kids give bolth fathers day cards to there two fathers also we send a balloon with words to my kids biological parents on special holidays. My daughter will learn womenhood as you call it from grandmothers aunts cousins and friends. Not sure how old you are but kids today get what it means to be gay and guess what they arnt scared of it as you are. I guess you would have rather my kids been left in foster homes the rest of their lifes instead of being raised by us fags.

    God Bless

  • LOL awesome :)

  • omg!!!

    this is so cute!!!

  • What difference does it make?

    My Father abandoned me, my Brother, & my Mother. It was just the three of us growing up, from my whole childhood, & I'm surviving.

    So, you can choke on your comment because it was absolutely stupid. It's "TOO bad" you couldn't make a comment WORTH READING.

    Jerrii

  • May God almighty bless you and your family, May God show the world how much we care and love our family and appreciate our lives. This is a very moving compassionate and emotionally honest video blog, Please keep sharing and let the world know that we are safe, we are sane, we are real. God bless you, Rev Jide Macaulay, Lagos Nigeria

  • Touching, thanks for sharing. You have a beautiful family.