We all grieve differently. There is never a time when u don't stop feeling the pain. It sometimes lighten up but u never lose the feeling. There is no perfect formula to getting over the hurt. Losing my mother was not easy at all. I was numb for a while, I didn't cry or nothing. It was nt until I jst let my self open up the feelings did I feel better. So its good that u cry on camera becuz it shows how human u really are. Sometimes grieving takes forever and sometimes it takes no time. l lve ya.
Sometimes the best we can do is cry. Grief is a temporary emotion, loss is permanent. You make it better everyday by remembering you can't do it alone. If you have to cry, cry---scream, scream, pray, pray--but don't curl up with it. Yes, it will get to a point where you feel that you can't cry NAM (from yall with southern grandma's you know what that word is and means), is the beginning to healing from it. Be enouraged love---be encouraged.
I know this video is old, and I hope you see my reply.. It helps to know that your loved ones are in a much better place than this. I tell myself that and I feel better. They are not suffering anymore. We must go on until it is time for us to go too.
Ive sen this video before but i never new how u were filling until April 10 2010 when my mom passed my bestfriend in the whole wide world.. it hurts like hell, My name is Rianne an im 20, i was the one that took care of her when she was sick an we talked about everything an to get that call in the middle of the nite that your mother is dead i thought i was gone die, All i do is focus on my music an make her proud of me, u do the same witcha sis love ya lots...
I feel for you because I'm grieving my brother, I don't know how long I'm going to feel miserable but I do know a light has gone out inside me. Thank you for sharing.
I feel for you because I'm grieving my brother, I don't know how long I'm going to feel miserable but I do know a light has gone out inside me. Thank you for sharing.
B Scott...you're not grieving for her, you're too positive of a person. Your love and your light shine so brightly that this will certainly pass. You're grieving for yourself because you need her in your life. She's always with you spiritually...remember that. You will meet again...
B.Scott. Just pray. For a grief so deep I'm sure can give you the power to heal the wound in your heart. I'm sure as the sky is blue that He can do this. And just know that your sister's spirit is always around you B. You may not be able to interact with her conventionally but she is there. When you need to ask her a question B. just ask and you will recieve your answer. I promise you will. Just let yourself know that her spirit will be with you the rest of your days. love and peace.
I am so sorry for your loss B! Death is hard and it's hard for people around us to understand, and your sister is still with you. She is part of the reason why you have achieved your goals. Jesus is our connection to God, and when you're not strong enough to go to Jesus during the hard times, your sister will always be your connection to Jesus. I pray for your continued strength!
Hold on and remember the good memories that you two shared. I know about lost, it's painful. I just cling on to what that family member and I shared sometimes I rather not think too much that the person is gone. Just feel the spirit of the past individual around you and know they're talking to you in times when you a memory of them comes to mind in an instant or even in a dream. That's her talking to you in those moments.
Wow, we alwasys see you cutting up and making us laugh. We forget that you are just like us. Your sister sees you, she is with you. I understand that she was probably the only person on earth who knew that you are beautiful inside and outside (God knows you are prettier than most naturally born women). I say that because you have such a sweet spirit. You will be sent someone who will appreciate you for who you are. Double kisses from N.C.
I lost one of my older brothers 5 years ago in a motorcycle accident, and I am sadder now as time goes by because I am now older than he was at his death (he was 19 years old). Looking back at the situation, I see that he was a just a kid. Every milestone I pass, I am grieved because my brother is suppose to be here too and experience growing up. I think about him daily and hope he is happy in peace.
B.scott youve made me feel so much better when im sad or hurting and you know what i want to tell you that what works for me is writing a journal about how i feel and in your case when your done take it to your sister. poor baby i hate to see people hurt because ive been there ! here is a rose for your sister ------<--(()
Me too I lost my sis 8months ago,, Im only a child and when ever I hear the funeral song it makes me cry is this normal? You feel so bad and you wish you had more time with her.. don't worry yur sis will always be with you. That keeps me going.
last year i lost my first child and thats something that will stick with me for the rest of my life. but its ok. God allows things for a reason. think of the condition the world is in. she doesnt have to go thru anything. no struggles, no heartache, no pain, no cryin, and no dyin. she wouldnt want you to cry over her. she wants to see you happy so live and b happy. she is in a better place. stay strong and keep your head up. it does get better. luv ya b!
Hi sweetie! I know this is an old video but I have been looking for an answer for you for a long time now. I was listening to Dr. Phil this evening and he was talking about this subject. He told this couple who lost their son that they have to let him go. Do you think perhaps that maybe you should just let your sister go? That is how I was able to live with the loss of my Father. I felt that God was saying to me "let him go" he kept repeating it to me "let him go". It helps sweetheart.
I hope I dont spook you, but I also have to tell you that the love between you and her is overwhelming. Has it acured to you that you and your sister have been though many lives and the parting has always been bitter sweet. that love has grown over the lives. not the years.
she will always be there and will always see you never doubt that as long as you remember her she is never be gone her spirit will always be with you. Talk to her spirit trust me it helps. Love you B double kisses muah! muah!
The pain will never go away but we grow stronger and we are able to deal with the it as time passes... My father pased 9years ago this August... I do have my moments and I fall but the memories and thought of him picks me up and helps me to stand strong each and every day.. we all have those moments from time to time... There is no defined definition when dealing wtih the emotions of loosing a loved one... just keep on living B. Scott and keep thier memories alive and the stories going!!
I can't compare in the loss of a human family member, but I loss my dog who was named polo. He died about 5 years ago supposedly by my aunt who poisoned his food and I never got over it every time I see something that reminds me of him I just cry. He always made me feel better and make me smile. I've never been really close with my family. Now I'm kinda depressed and I don't have anyone to turn to . In the end you just have to turn and face your demons, grieving is just one of many steps.
you know b I was in the same boat you're in but it was my mom who passed OH I was angry with God wondering why he took her 25yrs I still miss her but the pain has eased for the simple fact God spoke 2 me and he said I WOULDN'T PUT MORE ON YOU THEN YOU CAN BARE! See i've been taking care of my mother since I was 13 then I got married and had kids then I was taking care of my sis kids all of this at the same time so what God told me fit. I know she's happy in heaven and living without pain.
I kno how u feel on this very particular problem or issue.....I lost my grandmother in 98 and I still think about her and I still miss her and I think when I first found out I waz mostly hurt and confused. but with everyday I guess it started 2 get a lil better and I had my way of coping by stayin 2 myself alot and not lettin anyone in 2 help me grieve so it waz really rough.
I lose my favorite cousin in Febuary this year. I talked to him a month for he died, he he was in the hospital. I called weeks after, but he never called back. I cried when i heard about him. It hurts because he was the good cousin, and that when i go to his house he wont be there. All i have to say is , Love the people around you now, cause you never know when you might not see them again.
srry, kno this probably isn't real, just need closure
in 1908 a lady named sally rusa was in the woods looking for a dog until a ghost came and killed her so if ur reading? this u will find a bloody body in your closet hanging there haunting you and will kill you and ur family and if u want to stop this just sends this to 6 videos in 30 mins or this will happen good luck!! and i only did this because it freaked me out o.o
Wow, someone whom feels what I feel. It does not get better in time. It hurts more and more everyday. Not a day goes by that I dont burst into tears for my husband. He suffered and held on for me. I was selfish not to let him go. I know I must stay for our children, but not a day goes by that I dont want to leave this place and be with him. If I could just see him one more time and he tells me, Hey Baby, I'm ok and I will be waiting for you, How ever long it takes my pain will stop!
OMG, it's 37 seconds into your video and I know just how you feel. I lost my big brother @ the age of 25 in 1991. Even though we are 14 years apart, I still can remember all of out good times including the last christmas we spent together and the last time I saw him alive. I still sometimes sit in a corner and cry or cry myself to sleep thinking of him. I don't know if I'll ever stop grieving. I understand your pain.
this may be a bit late(playing catch-up you're awesome by the way)anyway although i've never lost someone as close as a sister but when I lost a close friend, what helped me get better was the realization that time wouldn't make it all bette and I just started living with the fact that I would grieve for the rest of my life but I told myself I won't let it consume me. It's like I put my grief in its proper place to where it fit best into my life and my being so i could move on without forgetting
No one can replace that void in your spirit. But please no that she is there with you in spirit, even though she is not there in body. You can speak with her through prayer, she will hear you, B.
I think we all have an energy. And energy can't be created or uncreated. What is, has always been. And what has been, will always be.
So even when people pass away. Just knowing that their energy is still there. That not just spiritually but literally it still exists, forever. And that it's in that energy we're all connected, is what helps me grieve. Love you B. Scott. xoxoxo
hello B. Today is the 9th anniversary of my brothers death, so I know quite a bit about how you feel.
I dont think you will ever feel "better" per se, but work on feeling "different". The harsh pain fades, but their will always be a dull ache. But we can learn to live with it. I encourage you to share your grief with loved ones you trust, don't bottle it up. Or if you feel really bottled up, dont hesitate to ask for professional help. Peace to you.
b im very sorry to hear that my fam is currently going thru watchin our great grandma slowly pass n its scary n it hurts more than anything. losing sum1 so close will neva fully go away but u do need to grieve properly n do wat comes natural if u feel u need to cry yell wateva then do it. faith faith is 100% important knwin shes with god n is watching u become da wonderful sweet kind funny driven sccessful person she always knew u could b n jus rememba wat yall shared. ill pray for u sweetie
I lost my father in Jan 2007. That next month I was deployed to Iraq. Since the day I found out about his death, I never really had the chance to truly grieve. There was only a few people in my unit who even said anything to me about his death, but mostly I had no response or help from my unit. My family took it very hard, and to this day I havent been physically or emotionally capable of finishing the grieving process. I wish I could help you BSCOTT, but honestly I havent been able to either.
When it comes to someone leaving you through death it never really gets better. The only thing that makes it better is allowing your memory to focus on the time that your sister was with you in body and know that she is still with you in spirit. If you listen real closely you will hear her. Go to nature for inspiration, hope and healing. Sit among the trees, listen to the wind, and hear the birds sing their songs. You will find her there.
you just pray on it, stay positive and think of the good times with her, and just let it all out. i mean i still grieve over the death of my grandfather who died in his sleep, he went out very peacefully, so i know how it feels and just be happy that she is with god. my heart goes to you love muffin double kisses
One thing I believe you have to do at times is just let it out. I know it is so hard but just know that God is watching over you and your sister is looking down at you and smiling knowing that she has affected your life in such a positive way. Of course she is not physically there with you but you have to know that she is in such a better place and is at peace with herself which, in time, will bring peace to your life. You may have your moments but you have to stay strong. God Bless honey.
There is nothing you can do but allow the grieving to take its natural course. Cry when you feel like crying. Scream get angry that she is gone. Grief will not be denied. Don't hold your feelings inside it doesn't matter how long your sister has been gone. Your feelings are real and honor your sister by living a life that would maker her proud.
well u know i love u but its little hard to help u if i dont know how she passed i understand its personal so u dont need to tell me but i want to let u know grieving is a life long process. It is something that will always occur throughout your life.u think of what in ur sister brought out the best in u and what in u brought out the best in her and build on that i got more advice trust me.comment, message me or whatever u need to do but i will help u whenever u need it hun
=( I am so sorry. I just lost my cousin three weeks ago and people are so insensitive to the fact. People ask me what happened and about her even though I tell them I don't want to talk about it and then they want to watch zombie movies with me. People are assholes
i know how you feel, i'm experiencing the same thing! the answer is: GOD! Seriously, read the word & things will fall into place! take care, GOD Bless!
You cannot explain or write down grief, Grief can only be experienced by feeling it. Your grief for your sister will end one day, and you have to believe it. I lost both my parents at a young age and became an orphan. And I grieved over them for so many years, but I have slowly learned to accept that they are gone and slowly day by day the grieving process gets lesser and living in this world will become easy as well.
I understand your pain so much on so many levels. My mom lost her mother going on four years now and I know it is still affecting her and it still stays on her mind daily. The best thing to do man is pray and give it to the lord and just talk to him and ask him for the help that youneed to get through. Something i find myself needing to do these days
My dad died 12 years ago-and it never gets better. We just get used to the pain i think. I will always miss and love him and wish he was here. B, it won't get better. This is a shitty situation that can't be fixed. Pop, I miss ya and love ya, and would sell my soul to satan himself to just have ya back for a day. Sagapo
when i say i know how u feel i really do, this past year from nov 08-jan 09 i lost 4 ppl my cousin my grandma my aunty and my ex, and im strong but it has caused me to be bitter, when i saw how mean i became i had to sit and think, grievein for me is hard i try to just be happy all the time and thats doesnt work all the time.. so i sit every morning & think of the good times and write them down and when ever im sad i go to it for comfort well that and i pray keep ur head up love :)
hey b.scott i know how it feels i lost my grandfather that i loved dearly about 6 or 7 years ago i still deal with it now but just like u i understand that i cant change the past and even though i wish he was here with me now i cant do anything about it except know that he loves me and he is watchung ova me jus like im sure ur sister is doing right now we all luv u b. scott double kiss mwah mwah bye bye
I lost my sister who was my best friend 2 and a half years ago, there are times when something happens in my life and I will actually go to pick up the phone and call her, whew I miss my sister so much. She was unique and in a lot of ways she was my other half. No one on this earth and I mean no one can ever take her place, from my heart to yours B Scott, we get you, we do understand, maybe not as well as your sister understood, but inside all of us is a little bit of B Scott.
Honey, I know what it's like 2 greive deeply. I was in abusive realtionship 4 over a year. I finally left him.
I greived 4 lost time, the person I thought he was and 4 the hurt he caused me. It may not b the same as losing a person but I was very, very broken inside.
I'm a little better now but I'm still dealing w/ the fear of getting into another realtionship and the whole thing starting again.
i lost my brother this past April. Sometimes you dont get over it.....i think about him all the time,i've cried so much at times i felt dehydrated...you have to know that its true that it gets easier with time but take YOUR time..dont worrry about what nobody has to say. Keep your head up and remember her life,not her death. xoxo
Thank You Brucealmighty1989, I may have not written what I was trying to say if you think I was comparing my grief for my cat to a human being. I was trying to convey what my cat taught me, which was that it's possible to connect with someone on the other side. This has helped me immensley when dealing with grief on all levels, even the passing over of my human family. Thank for pointing out if I did anything less express care. BScott is a dear person that matters to me.
One more thing...grieving can be healthy here is the rule: WHEN U GRIEVE, ALLOW 3 DAYS & THEN STAND UP BABY. JESUS ROSE IN 3 DAYS. You may grieve for the remainder of your life...but only in 3 days MAXIMUM ...then u probably will go another month or so full throttle...then it hits u again....3 day maximum -period. Try it. It's OK cuz her love carries u thru. She's ur Angel by ur side. Know that luv muffin. PEACE.
Allow nobody to tell you how to grieve. It is such a PERSONAL matter. 10 years or 10 months...I have done extensive research on grieving (Psych Major) & all major studies point to so many different answers/theories. In a nutshell....Live your life fully, grieve if you must, get up & keep living because our loved ones actually see us & are very much with us. Just not physically. Praying 4 u my love.
I share that with you because just maybe if you got in a state of inviting your sister's presence she would come to you and let you know that we are all eternal and always connected. Do I still miss my beloved cat? Yes, I do. I miss hime physically but I am connected with him spiritually forever and that is a great source of comfort to me. I hope that helps. You are so beautiful. Thank You for being you.
One of the questions I asked him, was why did he have to pass over and leave me. His response was, "So I can teach you how to feel the invisible world as well as you now feel the tangible." (or maybe 3 parts) ha
B.Scott you touch me deeply. I know grief well and here is what my beloved cat told me when he passed over. One night I was driving home and crying because I missed him so much when suddenly I felt his presence in the car with me. At first i thought I was just imagining it but decided to go along with it and see what would happen. (seems I need to do this in 2 parts)
Your tears anre thoughts remind me of my Mom, who was the only person who loved me unconditionally in this world. I miss her so much, so I can truly relate to your pain.
b, im soo sorry for ur loss. My heart goes out to you and you're in my prayers. It hurts me to say that it won't get better, because the pain will always be there, but it will become more bearable. In order to grieve "properly", you just have to let it out. Whenever you need to cry, do it. Whenver you need to talk to someone, do it. Just don't bottle up your feelings because I know from experience that it will not end well and you won't be the wonderful splendiferous b scott we know and love
i goin through the same thing right now wit me i just lost my mother dec 3 ,08 and the way i Grieve is MUSIC! When it comes 2 music its as if the artist understand the feelin i feel its the beat of the music its the fact that i can feel the pain n the happyness that com wit the music. So that how i get over it but its also gonna take time cuz ur sista mean a lot 2 u my mother mean a lot 2 me but that just wat i do
I went through the same thing with my grandpa. He died September 12, 2008. It was so hard for me to deal with and I'm still in high school so it's not helping me in that department. All I can say is that you will always remember her but you also have to remember she's in a better place and that she loved you. Just remember she sees everything you do. She's watching over you. AN ANGEL IN THE SKY!!
Ur sister is in a better place...what i wanna say is, if u feel like crying..then cry...if u feel like screaming, then scream...my uncle died right before i graduated in the year 2000of H.I.V. and everytime i celebrate a milestone in my life or if anything significant happens(even w/ Obama Bcoming president) i always wonder what he wud think, i wonder if he wud proud of me 4 being openly gay and living the life that i am living...i've found peace through Prayer and talking it out. GOD Bless!
Hey B.scott! this is such a sad video. I lost my mother 5 years ago so I know what it's like. All I have to say is that, you never get over it. No matter how much time has passed, you just learn to deal with it a little more each day.. There's nothing wrong with still grieving about it now & then. Got lots of love going out to you B.scott! Took alot of courage to post a video so personal like this.
b i saw your video and i am sorry. i lost both of my grandmothers. the thing that helps me grieve is 2 sit and write down all the good times i had w/ them. i put on a cd and i cry. i wnt get over their deaths but it is one way i can let my feelings out without keeping them in. when my grandmother died, a lady blamed it on me. i was only 6 yrs old. i hope these word of advice will help your grieving process. just know that your sister is watching over you and that she is proud of you & ur work.
hello B i just saw this video I lost my mother and father in 1992 back to back! wow what I can tell you is a process of time. Im not over their deaths. But here is one thing that I can truly say to you! God don't put more on us than we can bear sweety, just know that your sweet sister is in a better place and she sees all of your accomplishments and her spirit is there with you each and every day.
How sad for you to have lost someone who meant so much to you. Watching this video broke my heart. Keep her memory alive by talking about her. Talk about the things that she did, her beliefs, etc. Alot of times, we make the mistake of locking away memories of lost loved ones. Also, cry when you need to. There is no shame in crying. If all else fails, get counseling. There is no shame in that either. In some ways, we never stop grieving for a lost loved one. I hope you feel better soon.
Sometimes what I do... is I look at the situation like they are not gone. Yes, that isn't so easy to do... but I believe in spirit the people you love continuously watch you. They watch you fail, succeed, grow. You are reminding yourself over and over again that she's not there. That she's gone forever. Imagine how that may feel to someone that watches over you everyday. Talk to her. You'll know in your heart whether she can hear you.
I'm sorry that you are going through this and it breaks my heart. I think first you have to realize that it is ok to grieve and cry when you need to. The second thing is that just because your sister is not here physically, she is always with you looking over you and helping you make decisions just like she always was. I hope this helps.
i wish i had a definite answer, all i can say is grieving is a process, it takes time and life has a way of always bringing the memories back...but one thing for sure, you sister is with you, seeing you as you accomplish your goals and routing for you every step of the way, she never really left, he physical presence is gone but her essence, he spirit, her soul is here and will remain with you always...she is with you//
I totally undertsnad how you feel ,B. I lost my mother 7/21/06 and on todays like today (thankgiving ) nd everyday I say the sme excats things, she will never see me ccomplish my dreams , see me get married or see her grandchildren.. Most of the time I feel so alone ..because I am...when you find out how to greive please let me know
you dont ever stop grieving i guess you try to push the pain away but at times you get reminded of that loved one or when you need them..it doesnt get better it just gets easier to push out of your mind but when u think about it it stll hurts maybe eventually when u look back on the good times you had with her then itll make u feel just a little bit better you can try writing a later to her saying how you miss her just release all your feelings keep your head up sweety
I know that this video has been up for awhile, but I thought I would comment anyway. I lost my mother six years ago and it still hurts so bad. I don't think you ever get over it or it will get any easier, but you just have to learn how to live through it. Grieving to me is like having a big wound on your body, that wound will heal but the scar remains. I am not good at giving advice because I always need it, but I hope this helps. God Bless!
it will be okay...when i grieve i just go in my room and cry. but if i ever lost my dad i don't know what i would do cuz my dad raised me my whole life. you'll see her again , but until then do the "PAW PAW " and start laughing at something dumb like your ethiopian neighbor..lol i am pretty sure she will make you laugh when she is "hoe strolling" down the street.
B. Scott, I feel the same way you do. My little brother died 3 1/2 years ago when he was 9 months old. Really B. Scott, you should never stop grieving, you should just find a way to deal with your sister's death. For example, I look at the bright side and think about how it will be when I get to see my little brother again. I can't wait for that day to come. I think about him every second, minute, hour, day, week, month, year. He never gets off my mind, but I know one day I'll see him again.
I can definitely relate. I lost my father three months ago and I thought it would get better, but it isn't like I thought it would be. Hang in there, you're not alone in how you feel <3
I lost a brother to suicide and i deal with his death by making a conscious decision to never treat people the way he was treated. Also, u have to know your sister is still there for u.When ever a fond memory pops out of nowhere and you smile , that is her.
Just don't forget her and who she was. I haven't lost a sister so I can't really put myself in your shoes but must go forward with or without your concent and hopefully the pain will ease. Just my opinion
That pain will always be there. I have lost my mother and father, and I honestly cannot think of one "right" way to grieve. But you have to believe in God and know that they are in a better place. My grandma keeps telling me that I should rejoice because my parents are in the house of the Lord, and in some ways that keeps me grounded. But, if you have to cry, scream, or even be angry, allow your physical being to go through it, because it will make your spirit stronger. Love U and God Bless U!
you ever thought about being a volunteer to help with groups of children who have lost loved ones??? Oh my God Bscott, it's what has helped me after I lost my brother and my sister. It was an amazing experience for me.
Hey B Scott, I dont know if you are still grieving for your sister, but i would like to ask you a question. Do you think that the death of your loving sister made yo who u r and made you come out of hiding from the world to be the beautiful person that the whole world would love to see????
you got me crying. time. some have the strength to get dragged over rocks and some don't. YOU GOT IT. cry and scream at the air. then dance. then cry again. then laugh. sweetheart, have you ever watched your own videos? you are a delight. if you bring crazy smailes to thousands, you will bring a crazy smile to yourself!!!!!
For me, my Mom is the best person to talk to. She understands what I'm going through the most & I find her words to be of such comfort. I try not to break-down too much in front of her though as it makes her sad to see me in that way & it also reminds her of her own grief. She & my Dad had been married for many years. They were very loving to each other & were each other's best friend.
B. Scott, I know exactly what you are going through. Your video brought me to tears to see your pain & it brought my own pain to the fore because I lost my Dad in 2005...3 years ago. It was a bitter blow to my entire family. We are all very close in my family. The pain of losing a loved one is not something that I think we can overcome but I think we cope with it in our own way.
honestly i dont know the answer. My dad died when i was 10 and we didnt end on the best of terms so its still an open wound. But, i remember the good times and im grateful, it's better to have loved and lost. Some people will never experience such love. EVen though you can't see them, no one it ever truly gone, you carry them with you all day, in your heart
you never stop hurting but when you think about her tell her how you feel i know it seems stupid for me to say that but on some level i belive she hears you you cant keep that energy bottled up let it out and if you absolutley have to scream.
I have to tell you I lost my great-grandmother when I was like 7, almost 8yrs old. We were extremely close, how do you get over it you ask? Scott You don't get over it, you just get on with it!!!!
oh b. sweetie. when u truly love someone i dont think u EVER stop mourning or grieving for them. i lost my fiance and itll be a year in less than a month and i still cry for him EVERYDAY and EVERY night. like u said about ur sister, there some questions that only they can answer. and the fact that ull never get those answers hurt so bad. b. scott i could talk and cry about this for days but im out of character space. lol. ;) stay strong babylove and FULLY RELY ON GOD. he gets me thru
oh B, y u making me cry? I feel that same way about my grandfather, and i was still a little youngn' when he died but i still cry all the time whenever i look at his camera which i now use because he was a photographer, and i cry when i see how lonely my grandmother is without him and i cry when i see my favourite pic of him with his huge smile. but at the end of the day it's not always a sad cry,it's not always mournful because i know he was a great man and lived a great life and i love him
Thank you for being you....keep you faith & trust in God....Be bless & know she would want you celebrating her life & your dreams coming true without sorrow....
I lost my father 5 yrs ago he was 45. I consider myself to be a strong person also and there is not a day that goes or a new song that I know he would love or a outfit that I would have him dressed fly in that doesn't take me to a place of sorrow. But B Scott my peace comes quickly when I think of how good God is. The season that he allowed me to share and time that I will see my father again in heaven.
There is no right way but one way is to accept God's plan. He NEVER makes a mistake and He loves you more than anyone ever can. The harsh reality of death is painfully but the peace comes from know that if your life is right with GOD there is a place for you in heaven.
in all reality u might dont wanna let go of her death cause in ur mind it might b as if u r forgetting about her... grieving over her might b the only thing to do to show that u still care or think about her everyday. all i can say is Live life and if that means cryin when u think about her "Then cry" theirs nothing wrong with it, but out all those tears one day will come a "SMILE" and then that day u will kno ur heart is FREE.. im 19 and it happen 2 my parents so i feel ya. Hit me back
um ye B hit me up cus i wanted to send u a message but i have to be ur frineds n i dont want to post it on here so please just either approved da request or hit me up on here...thanks
With time the pain subsides but doesn't actually go. it also depends on their importance in your life. for up to 4 years after my grandfather died, i cried a lot. now, 12 years later, i don't cry, but i do wish he was around, but at the same time i am glad that he escaped the pain that he was dealing with(cancer). So now i just say that anyone that dies is in a better place. your sister is probably looking down on you, and if you imagine her hugging you then the pain won't be so bad. xoxo
I think honestly you never have to stop grieving but what you have to do is find someone who fills the void so that way you can rejoice instead of grieve.
B, 12 years ago I lost the love of my life, my partner of 11 years. I,somewhat like you, have extenuating circumstances. I'm not androgenous but I am a lesbian. People like us have an additional component to our grieving. B.,I grieve daily to this day. I, like you, never get better. The only thing that helps me is remembering I don't "get over" grief I "get through" it. The tunnel to the light is long. Remember,YOU WERE AND ARE LOVED! Your sister is still around just more difficult to reach.
i lost my friend almost 1 month ago she got killed by a train it's hard for me to let go i know i have my life and i have to move on but its so hard because you wish you could have called them more its hard
Riku1135,yes it is really hard even more harder when you see your friend's parents crying their heart out..but we have to remeber that we have to move on with our lives but never forget them.. it's hard to let my dear friend go she was 1 in a million if you'd like message me i fell your pain as well :(
...to remember the happy times, and allow the pain of grief to evaporate. On a practical note; perhaps some grief counselling or group therapy might be of help, if you haven't tried this before now. It has helped me a lot. I wish you all the very best on your journey.
Your video moved me deeply, as I too have grief issues that I am dealing with. I think that grief is unique to each person, as is the way that one deals with grief. It is good that you can cry and have the courage to be seen to be crying; that is so important. However, what is also important is that at some point, you can complete your grieving enough so that you are able to move on from this state, without ever forgetting your sister...
b baby it's no way to get over grieving it has to come from within i lost a friend whom i didn't get a chance to apologize to and it weighs heavy on my heart. its okay to grieve baby cry let it out but know shes with god whom you love so much and he needs he now. shes there with you you just don't know it.
hay flo , you look pretty queer too . To bad you didnt live where I do , the cops would do the bashing for me . Theyve been known to curb stomp a few of you disgusting animals from time to time .
YOU SHOULD GREIVE OVER THE FACT THAT YOUR A FAGGOT WITH AIDS . Your sister is burning in the flames of hell , her face is crimson red from the flames torching her skin . Shes wailing in agony and she isnt in a place of happiness and peace . Shes burning in hell because she loved her faggot brother instead of banishing him out of her life . Bravo QUEER , you sent your sister to enternal damnation
I can't believe what you wrote there. Even the fact that you wrote "a gay with AIDS" shows how ignorant and stupid you are. Not every gay has AIDS. AIDS is also not a disease which only exists for gays. Anyone can get AIDS.
I don't understand how you can talk that bad about a deceased person. Can you imagine how much you hurt other people when you speak in this way? It's just inconceivable that there are still homophobic people.
Aids is a disease brought onto our population by the deviant behaviors of nasty fuckin faggots . Black women all of the world are given aids and not even aware because of their down low husbands sucking cock at a glory hole in an adult arcade booth . So fuck you , get your stats right ,AIDS IS A GAY DISEASE .
And on the days you are longing the most for her is the days you have to remamber that she is whatching down on you and holding her hand over you , in the best way that she posible can ..
i lost my father about 2 months ago and i know how you feel like some times im like i should ask dad about this or about that but then my heart broken because i can't but i keep in mind that one day i will ask and he will answer i don't know what it is but i just have a strong feeling we will talk again one day. stay strong B.
B. Scott you should ask your sister the questions u want answers to. She will answer them, maybe not straight away, but the answer will come to you from her. i have never greaved fortunately and for that i am truly thankful. You do what makes you feel better. and still feel the love for your sister
I lost my grandmother a year ago and till this day I dont know how to cope with it. I just keep most of the pain to myself. I had a blue notebook that I write poems in about or for her, which helps at times. I have pushed God out of my life as I am full of so much hate and sadness. But your sister is watching you daily..smiling and helping u in ways that you dont know. Keep your head up and stay strong.
I cant do that. I dont have the strength to do that.I have found myself too run away from the things that hurt me. he cant do anything..I feel like he is not real just just ppl say the easter bunny n all that.
Chocolate that is really unfortunate because Jesus died for us... we can lay all of our burdens on him and he willingly takes them. I truly pray that God continues to give you strength (even if you feel you don't have it) and reveal Himself to you. Just please reconsider giving up on God because he NEVER gives up on you. Much, much Peace, Love, and Strength!!!
because there will always be that loss in your heart, but, As time goes on, i think you start ti have a better feeling towards the death, rather than a deep sadness
my grandmother died 17 years ago and I still to this day cry sometimes when I achieve a goal or have a proud moment in my life. It gets easier, but it will never go away because the love never dies.
i'll tell you what my moms pastor told her about my brothers passing. you have to let your sister rest in peace baby! if she sees you crying and grieving she wont rest! its been hard for me letting my brother rest, but i know i need to let him finally be at peace! you can pull thru it baby!
Its been 19 years in July since I lost my stepfather. Time does heal most wounds...but I write and remember the good times. Your sister would be proud of you and amazed at all of the lives that you touch every video. :D I write my poems and my prose, I sit and try to learn my guitar...things that would remember those that I have lost. Keep up all that you do...Your awesome B!
Wow B.Scott you really brought some emotions up in me. I lost my mother in 2003 and I grieve for her every day but what helps me is I think about the good times and the good memories and what she would think of what and how I am doing now in my daily life. Also doing hard times I talk to my mommie. No I am not crazy but it makes me feel beeter to literally talk out loud to her. I will pray that God will give you peace concerning your sister's passing. Be strong boo boo. Love Ya!
B.Scott...When ur grieving over a loved one that was really close to u...sometimesz itsz hard to not cry...but when u cry let those tearsz be tearsz of joy b/c u kno that she is in a better place...everthing will be fine...and all u have to do is ask God for peace nd understanding so that u can deal with her passing away better. God bless u nd Keep u!
I feel the same way about my grandpa that you feel about your sister. This video really touched me. but you can be sure of one thing!she DOES see you, and is still there! I'm a Chrsitian and I know you are too! and I always think about it this way if there wasnt times where we grieve would we really take the time out of our lives to truly devote 2 minsor 2 hours of our busy schedules every once in a while to remember the ones we love that had to pass on?I dont thinkso. stay strong!
B.Scott, I'm 32 years old and my oldest daughter Brianna past away 13 years ago. She will be 14 Dec 29th this year. I would love to say it gets better to deal with but I won't, because as my other children get older and her cousins the same age as her get older, I go through the "she would have been doing this" phase. What helps keep some kind of control is talking about her, not only to other people, but out loud in prayer to her and GOD...
b.scott i know you will always miss her..don't look for a way to stop missing her or to stop feeling the pain. talk to her as if she is in your living room with you.think about it like this. if she were here she would have to see what a mess this world has become. sometimes i feel selfish for wishing my grandmother was still here. She had cancer so her being here would only hurt her more.i'm happy she doesn't have to suffer anymore
B.Scott, My father passed away in 1997 and till this second, I have been missing him like how I missed him the day he went away.Me and my late father were/are very good friends, not just father and daughter and nobody understands me like how he understands me. I grieve by letting myself cry and at the same time I have always have this vision of Mother Mary with Jesus on her lap when Jesus died and just being brought down from the cross after he was crucified.I am with you on this feeling dear...
Only think of the good times. It is ok to cry. It is ok to talk about it. I just lost my sister only a month ago. we were so close she's only 28, just graduated law school at the prime of her life and she dies! colon cancer took her. But I find comfort in the fact that she is in a better place. Stay strong boo boo. From One love muffin to another. Everything is gonna be alright
Your sister IS here to see you achieve your goals and believe me you are achieving them right now. She is watching down on you and is proud to have a brother like no other <_ That rhymes :). How do you grieve? Smile. Your sister doesn't want to see you crying and neither do your love muffins. Please Smile. She is.
Your sister IS here to see you achieve your goals and believe me you are achieving them right now. She is watching down on you and is proud to have a brother like no other <_ That rhymes :). How do you grieve? Smile. Your sister doesn't want to see you crying and neither do your love muffins. Please Smile. She is.
I see from your videos that your christian, so read John 11:11-14 please it will help just believe and have faith in GOD that everything will be ok. The verse explains that she is not dead but asleep until Jesus comes so dont worry you will see her again. I love you keep doing you, I will pray for you tonight. God Bless!!!
I see from your videos that your christian, so read John 11:11-14 please it will help just believe and have faith in GOD that everything will be ok. The verse explains that she is not dead but asleep until Jesus comes so dont worry you will see her again. I love you keep doing you, I will pray for you tonight. God Bless!!!
I will keep you in my praysB . We all love you .Your sister loves you and she see you and she is really proud of you
sharronlove222 5 months ago
We all grieve differently. There is never a time when u don't stop feeling the pain. It sometimes lighten up but u never lose the feeling. There is no perfect formula to getting over the hurt. Losing my mother was not easy at all. I was numb for a while, I didn't cry or nothing. It was nt until I jst let my self open up the feelings did I feel better. So its good that u cry on camera becuz it shows how human u really are. Sometimes grieving takes forever and sometimes it takes no time. l lve ya.
shanlle101 6 months ago
Sometimes the best we can do is cry. Grief is a temporary emotion, loss is permanent. You make it better everyday by remembering you can't do it alone. If you have to cry, cry---scream, scream, pray, pray--but don't curl up with it. Yes, it will get to a point where you feel that you can't cry NAM (from yall with southern grandma's you know what that word is and means), is the beginning to healing from it. Be enouraged love---be encouraged.
LaSenoraG 1 year ago
I know this video is old, and I hope you see my reply.. It helps to know that your loved ones are in a much better place than this. I tell myself that and I feel better. They are not suffering anymore. We must go on until it is time for us to go too.
whisperingdragon33 1 year ago
Ive sen this video before but i never new how u were filling until April 10 2010 when my mom passed my bestfriend in the whole wide world.. it hurts like hell, My name is Rianne an im 20, i was the one that took care of her when she was sick an we talked about everything an to get that call in the middle of the nite that your mother is dead i thought i was gone die, All i do is focus on my music an make her proud of me, u do the same witcha sis love ya lots...
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I feel for you because I'm grieving my brother, I don't know how long I'm going to feel miserable but I do know a light has gone out inside me. Thank you for sharing.
eliminatethenegative 1 year ago
I feel for you because I'm grieving my brother, I don't know how long I'm going to feel miserable but I do know a light has gone out inside me. Thank you for sharing.
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angelface190081 2 years ago
B Scott...you're not grieving for her, you're too positive of a person. Your love and your light shine so brightly that this will certainly pass. You're grieving for yourself because you need her in your life. She's always with you spiritually...remember that. You will meet again...
earthlyescapes 2 years ago 2
B.Scott. Just pray. For a grief so deep I'm sure can give you the power to heal the wound in your heart. I'm sure as the sky is blue that He can do this. And just know that your sister's spirit is always around you B. You may not be able to interact with her conventionally but she is there. When you need to ask her a question B. just ask and you will recieve your answer. I promise you will. Just let yourself know that her spirit will be with you the rest of your days. love and peace.
Jenny
islandmystic2 2 years ago
I am so sorry for your loss B! Death is hard and it's hard for people around us to understand, and your sister is still with you. She is part of the reason why you have achieved your goals. Jesus is our connection to God, and when you're not strong enough to go to Jesus during the hard times, your sister will always be your connection to Jesus. I pray for your continued strength!
GRLNXTDR06 2 years ago
Hold on and remember the good memories that you two shared. I know about lost, it's painful. I just cling on to what that family member and I shared sometimes I rather not think too much that the person is gone. Just feel the spirit of the past individual around you and know they're talking to you in times when you a memory of them comes to mind in an instant or even in a dream. That's her talking to you in those moments.
hugandkissme33 2 years ago
Wow, we alwasys see you cutting up and making us laugh. We forget that you are just like us. Your sister sees you, she is with you. I understand that she was probably the only person on earth who knew that you are beautiful inside and outside (God knows you are prettier than most naturally born women). I say that because you have such a sweet spirit. You will be sent someone who will appreciate you for who you are. Double kisses from N.C.
nikkiesalsa 2 years ago 10
I wrote that long comment to say, stay strong and know that one day you will see your sister again.
Hyun3Sook 2 years ago
I lost one of my older brothers 5 years ago in a motorcycle accident, and I am sadder now as time goes by because I am now older than he was at his death (he was 19 years old). Looking back at the situation, I see that he was a just a kid. Every milestone I pass, I am grieved because my brother is suppose to be here too and experience growing up. I think about him daily and hope he is happy in peace.
Hyun3Sook 2 years ago
B.scott youve made me feel so much better when im sad or hurting and you know what i want to tell you that what works for me is writing a journal about how i feel and in your case when your done take it to your sister. poor baby i hate to see people hurt because ive been there ! here is a rose for your sister ------<--(()
dwightluffer 2 years ago
pray to God this will be the best resource that you can recieve!!!! i love u b scott!!!
belizeanmami29 2 years ago 2
i love you b.scott
martize2 2 years ago 2
i love you b!!! keep ya head up baby
ummthebaddestontube 2 years ago 2
Me too I lost my sis 8months ago,, Im only a child and when ever I hear the funeral song it makes me cry is this normal? You feel so bad and you wish you had more time with her.. don't worry yur sis will always be with you. That keeps me going.
dancinmadcow 2 years ago 2
last year i lost my first child and thats something that will stick with me for the rest of my life. but its ok. God allows things for a reason. think of the condition the world is in. she doesnt have to go thru anything. no struggles, no heartache, no pain, no cryin, and no dyin. she wouldnt want you to cry over her. she wants to see you happy so live and b happy. she is in a better place. stay strong and keep your head up. it does get better. luv ya b!
Kscottreal 2 years ago 2
Hi sweetie! I know this is an old video but I have been looking for an answer for you for a long time now. I was listening to Dr. Phil this evening and he was talking about this subject. He told this couple who lost their son that they have to let him go. Do you think perhaps that maybe you should just let your sister go? That is how I was able to live with the loss of my Father. I felt that God was saying to me "let him go" he kept repeating it to me "let him go". It helps sweetheart.
mjbgifts 2 years ago
I hope I dont spook you, but I also have to tell you that the love between you and her is overwhelming. Has it acured to you that you and your sister have been though many lives and the parting has always been bitter sweet. that love has grown over the lives. not the years.
Dreaya18 2 years ago
she will always be there and will always see you never doubt that as long as you remember her she is never be gone her spirit will always be with you. Talk to her spirit trust me it helps. Love you B double kisses muah! muah!
Bluemula 2 years ago
The pain will never go away but we grow stronger and we are able to deal with the it as time passes... My father pased 9years ago this August... I do have my moments and I fall but the memories and thought of him picks me up and helps me to stand strong each and every day.. we all have those moments from time to time... There is no defined definition when dealing wtih the emotions of loosing a loved one... just keep on living B. Scott and keep thier memories alive and the stories going!!
"Q"
missqc3333 2 years ago
I can't compare in the loss of a human family member, but I loss my dog who was named polo. He died about 5 years ago supposedly by my aunt who poisoned his food and I never got over it every time I see something that reminds me of him I just cry. He always made me feel better and make me smile. I've never been really close with my family. Now I'm kinda depressed and I don't have anyone to turn to . In the end you just have to turn and face your demons, grieving is just one of many steps.
SailorPerson 2 years ago
you know b I was in the same boat you're in but it was my mom who passed OH I was angry with God wondering why he took her 25yrs I still miss her but the pain has eased for the simple fact God spoke 2 me and he said I WOULDN'T PUT MORE ON YOU THEN YOU CAN BARE! See i've been taking care of my mother since I was 13 then I got married and had kids then I was taking care of my sis kids all of this at the same time so what God told me fit. I know she's happy in heaven and living without pain.
tennesseeown 2 years ago
man i kno how it is to lose someoneclose
ma sister passed away
ricofresh22 2 years ago
I kno how u feel on this very particular problem or issue.....I lost my grandmother in 98 and I still think about her and I still miss her and I think when I first found out I waz mostly hurt and confused. but with everyday I guess it started 2 get a lil better and I had my way of coping by stayin 2 myself alot and not lettin anyone in 2 help me grieve so it waz really rough.
missshorty2real 2 years ago
I lose my favorite cousin in Febuary this year. I talked to him a month for he died, he he was in the hospital. I called weeks after, but he never called back. I cried when i heard about him. It hurts because he was the good cousin, and that when i go to his house he wont be there. All i have to say is , Love the people around you now, cause you never know when you might not see them again.
shoppingmakesmehappy 2 years ago
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in 1908 a lady named sally rusa was in the woods looking for a dog until a ghost came and killed her so if ur reading? this u will find a bloody body in your closet hanging there haunting you and will kill you and ur family and if u want to stop this just sends this to 6 videos in 30 mins or this will happen good luck!! and i only did this because it freaked me out o.o
makepeacenotwar1234 2 years ago
Wow, someone whom feels what I feel. It does not get better in time. It hurts more and more everyday. Not a day goes by that I dont burst into tears for my husband. He suffered and held on for me. I was selfish not to let him go. I know I must stay for our children, but not a day goes by that I dont want to leave this place and be with him. If I could just see him one more time and he tells me, Hey Baby, I'm ok and I will be waiting for you, How ever long it takes my pain will stop!
sharonalexus 2 years ago
OMG, it's 37 seconds into your video and I know just how you feel. I lost my big brother @ the age of 25 in 1991. Even though we are 14 years apart, I still can remember all of out good times including the last christmas we spent together and the last time I saw him alive. I still sometimes sit in a corner and cry or cry myself to sleep thinking of him. I don't know if I'll ever stop grieving. I understand your pain.
blacdymond01 2 years ago
this may be a bit late(playing catch-up you're awesome by the way)anyway although i've never lost someone as close as a sister but when I lost a close friend, what helped me get better was the realization that time wouldn't make it all bette and I just started living with the fact that I would grieve for the rest of my life but I told myself I won't let it consume me. It's like I put my grief in its proper place to where it fit best into my life and my being so i could move on without forgetting
EllsBellzz 2 years ago
aw i just started watchin and i love b scott so all i have to say dont cry love muffing everything will be ok when u cry i cry
mookie2fly1307 2 years ago
No one can replace that void in your spirit. But please no that she is there with you in spirit, even though she is not there in body. You can speak with her through prayer, she will hear you, B.
DreamMecca5 2 years ago
I think we all have an energy. And energy can't be created or uncreated. What is, has always been. And what has been, will always be.
So even when people pass away. Just knowing that their energy is still there. That not just spiritually but literally it still exists, forever. And that it's in that energy we're all connected, is what helps me grieve. Love you B. Scott. xoxoxo
LaJemo 2 years ago
hello B. Today is the 9th anniversary of my brothers death, so I know quite a bit about how you feel.
I dont think you will ever feel "better" per se, but work on feeling "different". The harsh pain fades, but their will always be a dull ache. But we can learn to live with it. I encourage you to share your grief with loved ones you trust, don't bottle it up. Or if you feel really bottled up, dont hesitate to ask for professional help. Peace to you.
astrolabe1976 2 years ago
b im very sorry to hear that my fam is currently going thru watchin our great grandma slowly pass n its scary n it hurts more than anything. losing sum1 so close will neva fully go away but u do need to grieve properly n do wat comes natural if u feel u need to cry yell wateva then do it. faith faith is 100% important knwin shes with god n is watching u become da wonderful sweet kind funny driven sccessful person she always knew u could b n jus rememba wat yall shared. ill pray for u sweetie
prettyladya87 2 years ago
I lost my father in Jan 2007. That next month I was deployed to Iraq. Since the day I found out about his death, I never really had the chance to truly grieve. There was only a few people in my unit who even said anything to me about his death, but mostly I had no response or help from my unit. My family took it very hard, and to this day I havent been physically or emotionally capable of finishing the grieving process. I wish I could help you BSCOTT, but honestly I havent been able to either.
minimogul88 2 years ago
I started to Cry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IPODmv 2 years ago
When it comes to someone leaving you through death it never really gets better. The only thing that makes it better is allowing your memory to focus on the time that your sister was with you in body and know that she is still with you in spirit. If you listen real closely you will hear her. Go to nature for inspiration, hope and healing. Sit among the trees, listen to the wind, and hear the birds sing their songs. You will find her there.
Love, Peace & Soul
Candi/Hekima
Hekima4u 2 years ago
you just pray on it, stay positive and think of the good times with her, and just let it all out. i mean i still grieve over the death of my grandfather who died in his sleep, he went out very peacefully, so i know how it feels and just be happy that she is with god. my heart goes to you love muffin double kisses
porchesinn1 2 years ago
One thing I believe you have to do at times is just let it out. I know it is so hard but just know that God is watching over you and your sister is looking down at you and smiling knowing that she has affected your life in such a positive way. Of course she is not physically there with you but you have to know that she is in such a better place and is at peace with herself which, in time, will bring peace to your life. You may have your moments but you have to stay strong. God Bless honey.
xoxtamisha 2 years ago
There is nothing you can do but allow the grieving to take its natural course. Cry when you feel like crying. Scream get angry that she is gone. Grief will not be denied. Don't hold your feelings inside it doesn't matter how long your sister has been gone. Your feelings are real and honor your sister by living a life that would maker her proud.
majormoviestar2008 2 years ago
Only God can do it for you honey. I know you hear this alot. Talk to God they way you talk to us.
mjbgifts 2 years ago
well u know i love u but its little hard to help u if i dont know how she passed i understand its personal so u dont need to tell me but i want to let u know grieving is a life long process. It is something that will always occur throughout your life.u think of what in ur sister brought out the best in u and what in u brought out the best in her and build on that i got more advice trust me.comment, message me or whatever u need to do but i will help u whenever u need it hun
kaclueless 2 years ago
=( I am so sorry. I just lost my cousin three weeks ago and people are so insensitive to the fact. People ask me what happened and about her even though I tell them I don't want to talk about it and then they want to watch zombie movies with me. People are assholes
backpacc 2 years ago
So sorry for your loss and my you continue to know that you are special.
prayupblessings 2 years ago
i know how you feel, i'm experiencing the same thing! the answer is: GOD! Seriously, read the word & things will fall into place! take care, GOD Bless!
airykahl 2 years ago
You cannot explain or write down grief, Grief can only be experienced by feeling it. Your grief for your sister will end one day, and you have to believe it. I lost both my parents at a young age and became an orphan. And I grieved over them for so many years, but I have slowly learned to accept that they are gone and slowly day by day the grieving process gets lesser and living in this world will become easy as well.
stormisblue 2 years ago
I understand your pain so much on so many levels. My mom lost her mother going on four years now and I know it is still affecting her and it still stays on her mind daily. The best thing to do man is pray and give it to the lord and just talk to him and ask him for the help that youneed to get through. Something i find myself needing to do these days
cryptotech2004 3 years ago
My dad died 12 years ago-and it never gets better. We just get used to the pain i think. I will always miss and love him and wish he was here. B, it won't get better. This is a shitty situation that can't be fixed. Pop, I miss ya and love ya, and would sell my soul to satan himself to just have ya back for a day. Sagapo
ISIDORA919 3 years ago
when i say i know how u feel i really do, this past year from nov 08-jan 09 i lost 4 ppl my cousin my grandma my aunty and my ex, and im strong but it has caused me to be bitter, when i saw how mean i became i had to sit and think, grievein for me is hard i try to just be happy all the time and thats doesnt work all the time.. so i sit every morning & think of the good times and write them down and when ever im sad i go to it for comfort well that and i pray keep ur head up love :)
quantrell08 3 years ago
hey b.scott i know how it feels i lost my grandfather that i loved dearly about 6 or 7 years ago i still deal with it now but just like u i understand that i cant change the past and even though i wish he was here with me now i cant do anything about it except know that he loves me and he is watchung ova me jus like im sure ur sister is doing right now we all luv u b. scott double kiss mwah mwah bye bye
khyra904 3 years ago
I lost my sister who was my best friend 2 and a half years ago, there are times when something happens in my life and I will actually go to pick up the phone and call her, whew I miss my sister so much. She was unique and in a lot of ways she was my other half. No one on this earth and I mean no one can ever take her place, from my heart to yours B Scott, we get you, we do understand, maybe not as well as your sister understood, but inside all of us is a little bit of B Scott.
scarletngold 3 years ago
Honey, I know what it's like 2 greive deeply. I was in abusive realtionship 4 over a year. I finally left him.
I greived 4 lost time, the person I thought he was and 4 the hurt he caused me. It may not b the same as losing a person but I was very, very broken inside.
I'm a little better now but I'm still dealing w/ the fear of getting into another realtionship and the whole thing starting again.
XOXO
Gahuki44 3 years ago
i lost my brother this past April. Sometimes you dont get over it.....i think about him all the time,i've cried so much at times i felt dehydrated...you have to know that its true that it gets easier with time but take YOUR time..dont worrry about what nobody has to say. Keep your head up and remember her life,not her death. xoxo
LadyScotia 3 years ago
sometimes you can never get over it if you loved them deeply
kenji387 3 years ago
Thank You Brucealmighty1989, I may have not written what I was trying to say if you think I was comparing my grief for my cat to a human being. I was trying to convey what my cat taught me, which was that it's possible to connect with someone on the other side. This has helped me immensley when dealing with grief on all levels, even the passing over of my human family. Thank for pointing out if I did anything less express care. BScott is a dear person that matters to me.
kickingwater 3 years ago
One more thing...grieving can be healthy here is the rule: WHEN U GRIEVE, ALLOW 3 DAYS & THEN STAND UP BABY. JESUS ROSE IN 3 DAYS. You may grieve for the remainder of your life...but only in 3 days MAXIMUM ...then u probably will go another month or so full throttle...then it hits u again....3 day maximum -period. Try it. It's OK cuz her love carries u thru. She's ur Angel by ur side. Know that luv muffin. PEACE.
Lady1rydah 3 years ago
Allow nobody to tell you how to grieve. It is such a PERSONAL matter. 10 years or 10 months...I have done extensive research on grieving (Psych Major) & all major studies point to so many different answers/theories. In a nutshell....Live your life fully, grieve if you must, get up & keep living because our loved ones actually see us & are very much with us. Just not physically. Praying 4 u my love.
Lady1rydah 3 years ago
I share that with you because just maybe if you got in a state of inviting your sister's presence she would come to you and let you know that we are all eternal and always connected. Do I still miss my beloved cat? Yes, I do. I miss hime physically but I am connected with him spiritually forever and that is a great source of comfort to me. I hope that helps. You are so beautiful. Thank You for being you.
kickingwater 3 years ago
One of the questions I asked him, was why did he have to pass over and leave me. His response was, "So I can teach you how to feel the invisible world as well as you now feel the tangible." (or maybe 3 parts) ha
kickingwater 3 years ago
a cat is nothing like a sister or a family member thought id let u know
brucealmighty1989 3 years ago
B.Scott you touch me deeply. I know grief well and here is what my beloved cat told me when he passed over. One night I was driving home and crying because I missed him so much when suddenly I felt his presence in the car with me. At first i thought I was just imagining it but decided to go along with it and see what would happen. (seems I need to do this in 2 parts)
kickingwater 3 years ago
Your tears anre thoughts remind me of my Mom, who was the only person who loved me unconditionally in this world. I miss her so much, so I can truly relate to your pain.
tinkerDbell 3 years ago
b, im soo sorry for ur loss. My heart goes out to you and you're in my prayers. It hurts me to say that it won't get better, because the pain will always be there, but it will become more bearable. In order to grieve "properly", you just have to let it out. Whenever you need to cry, do it. Whenver you need to talk to someone, do it. Just don't bottle up your feelings because I know from experience that it will not end well and you won't be the wonderful splendiferous b scott we know and love
lalaemylatina 3 years ago
I love u soooo much....u make me wanna be a better person.......
uninhibitedluv 3 years ago
i goin through the same thing right now wit me i just lost my mother dec 3 ,08 and the way i Grieve is MUSIC! When it comes 2 music its as if the artist understand the feelin i feel its the beat of the music its the fact that i can feel the pain n the happyness that com wit the music. So that how i get over it but its also gonna take time cuz ur sista mean a lot 2 u my mother mean a lot 2 me but that just wat i do
namelessRaven01 3 years ago
I went through the same thing with my grandpa. He died September 12, 2008. It was so hard for me to deal with and I'm still in high school so it's not helping me in that department. All I can say is that you will always remember her but you also have to remember she's in a better place and that she loved you. Just remember she sees everything you do. She's watching over you. AN ANGEL IN THE SKY!!
19LilAngel91 3 years ago
Ur sister is in a better place...what i wanna say is, if u feel like crying..then cry...if u feel like screaming, then scream...my uncle died right before i graduated in the year 2000of H.I.V. and everytime i celebrate a milestone in my life or if anything significant happens(even w/ Obama Bcoming president) i always wonder what he wud think, i wonder if he wud proud of me 4 being openly gay and living the life that i am living...i've found peace through Prayer and talking it out. GOD Bless!
PoetryIzMe 3 years ago
Hey B.scott! this is such a sad video. I lost my mother 5 years ago so I know what it's like. All I have to say is that, you never get over it. No matter how much time has passed, you just learn to deal with it a little more each day.. There's nothing wrong with still grieving about it now & then. Got lots of love going out to you B.scott! Took alot of courage to post a video so personal like this.
Mackpati 3 years ago
b i saw your video and i am sorry. i lost both of my grandmothers. the thing that helps me grieve is 2 sit and write down all the good times i had w/ them. i put on a cd and i cry. i wnt get over their deaths but it is one way i can let my feelings out without keeping them in. when my grandmother died, a lady blamed it on me. i was only 6 yrs old. i hope these word of advice will help your grieving process. just know that your sister is watching over you and that she is proud of you & ur work.
TWiiXxBAbii507 3 years ago
hello B i just saw this video I lost my mother and father in 1992 back to back! wow what I can tell you is a process of time. Im not over their deaths. But here is one thing that I can truly say to you! God don't put more on us than we can bear sweety, just know that your sweet sister is in a better place and she sees all of your accomplishments and her spirit is there with you each and every day.
DarkExtsy42 3 years ago
How sad for you to have lost someone who meant so much to you. Watching this video broke my heart. Keep her memory alive by talking about her. Talk about the things that she did, her beliefs, etc. Alot of times, we make the mistake of locking away memories of lost loved ones. Also, cry when you need to. There is no shame in crying. If all else fails, get counseling. There is no shame in that either. In some ways, we never stop grieving for a lost loved one. I hope you feel better soon.
4DECO1 3 years ago
Sometimes what I do... is I look at the situation like they are not gone. Yes, that isn't so easy to do... but I believe in spirit the people you love continuously watch you. They watch you fail, succeed, grow. You are reminding yourself over and over again that she's not there. That she's gone forever. Imagine how that may feel to someone that watches over you everyday. Talk to her. You'll know in your heart whether she can hear you.
WifeOfTheBeast 3 years ago
I'm sorry that you are going through this and it breaks my heart. I think first you have to realize that it is ok to grieve and cry when you need to. The second thing is that just because your sister is not here physically, she is always with you looking over you and helping you make decisions just like she always was. I hope this helps.
brownsugerkiss 3 years ago
i wish i had a definite answer, all i can say is grieving is a process, it takes time and life has a way of always bringing the memories back...but one thing for sure, you sister is with you, seeing you as you accomplish your goals and routing for you every step of the way, she never really left, he physical presence is gone but her essence, he spirit, her soul is here and will remain with you always...she is with you//
pink2fifi 3 years ago
Its okay b scott you grieve as long as you want just know she is there with you everyday watchin over you and seein you accomplish your goals
admnp 3 years ago
I totally undertsnad how you feel ,B. I lost my mother 7/21/06 and on todays like today (thankgiving ) nd everyday I say the sme excats things, she will never see me ccomplish my dreams , see me get married or see her grandchildren.. Most of the time I feel so alone ..because I am...when you find out how to greive please let me know
DaSocialButterfly 3 years ago
you dont ever stop grieving i guess you try to push the pain away but at times you get reminded of that loved one or when you need them..it doesnt get better it just gets easier to push out of your mind but when u think about it it stll hurts maybe eventually when u look back on the good times you had with her then itll make u feel just a little bit better you can try writing a later to her saying how you miss her just release all your feelings keep your head up sweety
mwahs!
justycebaby 3 years ago
I know that this video has been up for awhile, but I thought I would comment anyway. I lost my mother six years ago and it still hurts so bad. I don't think you ever get over it or it will get any easier, but you just have to learn how to live through it. Grieving to me is like having a big wound on your body, that wound will heal but the scar remains. I am not good at giving advice because I always need it, but I hope this helps. God Bless!
idunno25 3 years ago
it will be okay...when i grieve i just go in my room and cry. but if i ever lost my dad i don't know what i would do cuz my dad raised me my whole life. you'll see her again , but until then do the "PAW PAW " and start laughing at something dumb like your ethiopian neighbor..lol i am pretty sure she will make you laugh when she is "hoe strolling" down the street.
0112008 3 years ago
B. Scott, I feel the same way you do. My little brother died 3 1/2 years ago when he was 9 months old. Really B. Scott, you should never stop grieving, you should just find a way to deal with your sister's death. For example, I look at the bright side and think about how it will be when I get to see my little brother again. I can't wait for that day to come. I think about him every second, minute, hour, day, week, month, year. He never gets off my mind, but I know one day I'll see him again.
DJChrisJaMusic 3 years ago
I totally understand you... My mother died two months ago and it just gets worse each day, but hopefully I will survive this and become stronger
rebekka86 3 years ago
I can definitely relate. I lost my father three months ago and I thought it would get better, but it isn't like I thought it would be. Hang in there, you're not alone in how you feel <3
rocksister101 3 years ago
I lost a brother to suicide and i deal with his death by making a conscious decision to never treat people the way he was treated. Also, u have to know your sister is still there for u.When ever a fond memory pops out of nowhere and you smile , that is her.
the2coreys 3 years ago
Just don't forget her and who she was. I haven't lost a sister so I can't really put myself in your shoes but must go forward with or without your concent and hopefully the pain will ease. Just my opinion
vivian0000000 3 years ago
That pain will always be there. I have lost my mother and father, and I honestly cannot think of one "right" way to grieve. But you have to believe in God and know that they are in a better place. My grandma keeps telling me that I should rejoice because my parents are in the house of the Lord, and in some ways that keeps me grounded. But, if you have to cry, scream, or even be angry, allow your physical being to go through it, because it will make your spirit stronger. Love U and God Bless U!
cymphonee6 3 years ago
that touched me...i do think it gets worse.. u think of all tha what ifs. and it does hurt
nalawest 3 years ago
you ever thought about being a volunteer to help with groups of children who have lost loved ones??? Oh my God Bscott, it's what has helped me after I lost my brother and my sister. It was an amazing experience for me.
sereeen7 3 years ago
wow that was the most moving thing i have ever seen. i lost a friend 20 years ago and i still think of him take care
jamesahu3 3 years ago 2
Hey B Scott, I dont know if you are still grieving for your sister, but i would like to ask you a question. Do you think that the death of your loving sister made yo who u r and made you come out of hiding from the world to be the beautiful person that the whole world would love to see????
hateorloveteree 3 years ago
damn, this is my first time seein' this video.
you got me crying. time. some have the strength to get dragged over rocks and some don't. YOU GOT IT. cry and scream at the air. then dance. then cry again. then laugh. sweetheart, have you ever watched your own videos? you are a delight. if you bring crazy smailes to thousands, you will bring a crazy smile to yourself!!!!!
longleanleggy 3 years ago
PART TWO:
For me, my Mom is the best person to talk to. She understands what I'm going through the most & I find her words to be of such comfort. I try not to break-down too much in front of her though as it makes her sad to see me in that way & it also reminds her of her own grief. She & my Dad had been married for many years. They were very loving to each other & were each other's best friend.
chelleb68 3 years ago
PART ONE:
B. Scott, I know exactly what you are going through. Your video brought me to tears to see your pain & it brought my own pain to the fore because I lost my Dad in 2005...3 years ago. It was a bitter blow to my entire family. We are all very close in my family. The pain of losing a loved one is not something that I think we can overcome but I think we cope with it in our own way.
chelleb68 3 years ago
Trust me, she can see all of your success, she loves you, and she is always with you.
leahcimtooms 3 years ago
honestly i dont know the answer. My dad died when i was 10 and we didnt end on the best of terms so its still an open wound. But, i remember the good times and im grateful, it's better to have loved and lost. Some people will never experience such love. EVen though you can't see them, no one it ever truly gone, you carry them with you all day, in your heart
kandibee 3 years ago 2
you never stop hurting but when you think about her tell her how you feel i know it seems stupid for me to say that but on some level i belive she hears you you cant keep that energy bottled up let it out and if you absolutley have to scream.
dericbaby08 3 years ago
I have to tell you I lost my great-grandmother when I was like 7, almost 8yrs old. We were extremely close, how do you get over it you ask? Scott You don't get over it, you just get on with it!!!!
gemini2476 3 years ago 2
aw b. scott =[[[[
402mem 3 years ago 2
oh b. sweetie. when u truly love someone i dont think u EVER stop mourning or grieving for them. i lost my fiance and itll be a year in less than a month and i still cry for him EVERYDAY and EVERY night. like u said about ur sister, there some questions that only they can answer. and the fact that ull never get those answers hurt so bad. b. scott i could talk and cry about this for days but im out of character space. lol. ;) stay strong babylove and FULLY RELY ON GOD. he gets me thru
avisnssp 3 years ago
P1
oh B, y u making me cry? I feel that same way about my grandfather, and i was still a little youngn' when he died but i still cry all the time whenever i look at his camera which i now use because he was a photographer, and i cry when i see how lonely my grandmother is without him and i cry when i see my favourite pic of him with his huge smile. but at the end of the day it's not always a sad cry,it's not always mournful because i know he was a great man and lived a great life and i love him
hellasexyhobbit 3 years ago
PART 4
Thank you for being you....keep you faith & trust in God....Be bless & know she would want you celebrating her life & your dreams coming true without sorrow....
IG20T 3 years ago
PART 3
I lost my father 5 yrs ago he was 45. I consider myself to be a strong person also and there is not a day that goes or a new song that I know he would love or a outfit that I would have him dressed fly in that doesn't take me to a place of sorrow. But B Scott my peace comes quickly when I think of how good God is. The season that he allowed me to share and time that I will see my father again in heaven.
IG20T 3 years ago 2
PART 2
Your sister is a part of you and when you think of her allow yourself to think of her for who she is to you and not for what she is not (absent).
IG20T 3 years ago 2
PART 1
There is no right way but one way is to accept God's plan. He NEVER makes a mistake and He loves you more than anyone ever can. The harsh reality of death is painfully but the peace comes from know that if your life is right with GOD there is a place for you in heaven.
IG20T 3 years ago 2
in all reality u might dont wanna let go of her death cause in ur mind it might b as if u r forgetting about her... grieving over her might b the only thing to do to show that u still care or think about her everyday. all i can say is Live life and if that means cryin when u think about her "Then cry" theirs nothing wrong with it, but out all those tears one day will come a "SMILE" and then that day u will kno ur heart is FREE.. im 19 and it happen 2 my parents so i feel ya. Hit me back
Kevla09 3 years ago
um ye B hit me up cus i wanted to send u a message but i have to be ur frineds n i dont want to post it on here so please just either approved da request or hit me up on here...thanks
kwj11282000 3 years ago
With time the pain subsides but doesn't actually go. it also depends on their importance in your life. for up to 4 years after my grandfather died, i cried a lot. now, 12 years later, i don't cry, but i do wish he was around, but at the same time i am glad that he escaped the pain that he was dealing with(cancer). So now i just say that anyone that dies is in a better place. your sister is probably looking down on you, and if you imagine her hugging you then the pain won't be so bad. xoxo
renkitty1984 3 years ago
How did your sister die?
Codycole80 3 years ago
I think honestly you never have to stop grieving but what you have to do is find someone who fills the void so that way you can rejoice instead of grieve.
thelostgirl007 3 years ago
B, 12 years ago I lost the love of my life, my partner of 11 years. I,somewhat like you, have extenuating circumstances. I'm not androgenous but I am a lesbian. People like us have an additional component to our grieving. B.,I grieve daily to this day. I, like you, never get better. The only thing that helps me is remembering I don't "get over" grief I "get through" it. The tunnel to the light is long. Remember,YOU WERE AND ARE LOVED! Your sister is still around just more difficult to reach.
Tunes8863 3 years ago 6
i lost my friend almost 1 month ago she got killed by a train it's hard for me to let go i know i have my life and i have to move on but its so hard because you wish you could have called them more its hard
chutubeme 3 years ago
I just lost a really good friend about a month ago as well in an ATV rollover.
It has been hard to deal with, but I have been healing thus far
Riku1135 3 years ago
Riku1135,yes it is really hard even more harder when you see your friend's parents crying their heart out..but we have to remeber that we have to move on with our lives but never forget them.. it's hard to let my dear friend go she was 1 in a million if you'd like message me i fell your pain as well :(
chutubeme 3 years ago
ok will do
Riku1135 3 years ago
...to remember the happy times, and allow the pain of grief to evaporate. On a practical note; perhaps some grief counselling or group therapy might be of help, if you haven't tried this before now. It has helped me a lot. I wish you all the very best on your journey.
JamesLiverpool76 3 years ago
Your video moved me deeply, as I too have grief issues that I am dealing with. I think that grief is unique to each person, as is the way that one deals with grief. It is good that you can cry and have the courage to be seen to be crying; that is so important. However, what is also important is that at some point, you can complete your grieving enough so that you are able to move on from this state, without ever forgetting your sister...
JamesLiverpool76 3 years ago
b baby it's no way to get over grieving it has to come from within i lost a friend whom i didn't get a chance to apologize to and it weighs heavy on my heart. its okay to grieve baby cry let it out but know shes with god whom you love so much and he needs he now. shes there with you you just don't know it.
fystykia 3 years ago
Fuck all you haters! I love you B Scott! So many of us do. Screw these e-ballers. They suck and know nothing. You own it, boo!
missdivinestalls 3 years ago
Oh, I forgot to say, that my last post is a comment to "gqprophet99".
TheFlo90 3 years ago
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hay flo , you look pretty queer too . To bad you didnt live where I do , the cops would do the bashing for me . Theyve been known to curb stomp a few of you disgusting animals from time to time .
gqprophet99 3 years ago
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YOU SHOULD GREIVE OVER THE FACT THAT YOUR A FAGGOT WITH AIDS . Your sister is burning in the flames of hell , her face is crimson red from the flames torching her skin . Shes wailing in agony and she isnt in a place of happiness and peace . Shes burning in hell because she loved her faggot brother instead of banishing him out of her life . Bravo QUEER , you sent your sister to enternal damnation
gqprophet99 3 years ago
I can't believe what you wrote there. Even the fact that you wrote "a gay with AIDS" shows how ignorant and stupid you are. Not every gay has AIDS. AIDS is also not a disease which only exists for gays. Anyone can get AIDS.
I don't understand how you can talk that bad about a deceased person. Can you imagine how much you hurt other people when you speak in this way? It's just inconceivable that there are still homophobic people.
TheFlo90 3 years ago
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Aids is a disease brought onto our population by the deviant behaviors of nasty fuckin faggots . Black women all of the world are given aids and not even aware because of their down low husbands sucking cock at a glory hole in an adult arcade booth . So fuck you , get your stats right ,AIDS IS A GAY DISEASE .
gqprophet99 3 years ago
Hey B, be encouraged and know that your sister is always with you. She's been there with you, guiding you, giving you surport all along.
LCSALL 3 years ago
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You should kill yourself , its the best way to let it all go .
gqprophet99 3 years ago
how can u say that
Chocolatelover922 3 years ago
And she might be there when you need her -
when you feel a little chill on you cheak or neak when you are lying in your bead - you will know that it's just her kissing you goodnight ..
RavneLoort 3 years ago
Time does not allways heal everything -
And on the days you are longing the most for her is the days you have to remamber that she is whatching down on you and holding her hand over you , in the best way that she posible can ..
RavneLoort 3 years ago
Maybe it never will get better. There are two things in life you never forget, one is happies and the other is pain. God Bless you
diamondmcc 3 years ago
it will get better and u will prosper!
FASHIONSFLYEST 3 years ago
i lost my father about 2 months ago and i know how you feel like some times im like i should ask dad about this or about that but then my heart broken because i can't but i keep in mind that one day i will ask and he will answer i don't know what it is but i just have a strong feeling we will talk again one day. stay strong B.
made024 3 years ago
B. Scott you should ask your sister the questions u want answers to. She will answer them, maybe not straight away, but the answer will come to you from her. i have never greaved fortunately and for that i am truly thankful. You do what makes you feel better. and still feel the love for your sister
gjones1986 3 years ago
I lost my grandmother a year ago and till this day I dont know how to cope with it. I just keep most of the pain to myself. I had a blue notebook that I write poems in about or for her, which helps at times. I have pushed God out of my life as I am full of so much hate and sadness. But your sister is watching you daily..smiling and helping u in ways that you dont know. Keep your head up and stay strong.
Chocolatelover922 3 years ago
Ummm you pushed God out of your life? You need to draw closer to God in your times of grief and sorrow... he will take your heavy burdens. God Bless!
scj816 3 years ago
I cant do that. I dont have the strength to do that.I have found myself too run away from the things that hurt me. he cant do anything..I feel like he is not real just just ppl say the easter bunny n all that.
Chocolatelover922 3 years ago
Chocolate that is really unfortunate because Jesus died for us... we can lay all of our burdens on him and he willingly takes them. I truly pray that God continues to give you strength (even if you feel you don't have it) and reveal Himself to you. Just please reconsider giving up on God because he NEVER gives up on you. Much, much Peace, Love, and Strength!!!
scj816 3 years ago
Your sister will be with you always in mind, body, heart & soul. Love you B.
HoneyDip127 3 years ago
U are a inspiration. I think that ur sister is looking up in heaven and is proud of you for being who ur truly r.
NgApUhIzPhYnEsT 3 years ago
Grieving i think will always stay the same
because there will always be that loss in your heart, but, As time goes on, i think you start ti have a better feeling towards the death, rather than a deep sadness
Bored1071 3 years ago
im crying .. b scott .. you are so beautiful and real .. i know wut it feels like .. i know
foolishmistakez 3 years ago
my grandmother died 17 years ago and I still to this day cry sometimes when I achieve a goal or have a proud moment in my life. It gets easier, but it will never go away because the love never dies.
PoeticJustice727 3 years ago 2
Oh baby. She is with you always!!! *hugs*
nikiluv73 3 years ago
i'll tell you what my moms pastor told her about my brothers passing. you have to let your sister rest in peace baby! if she sees you crying and grieving she wont rest! its been hard for me letting my brother rest, but i know i need to let him finally be at peace! you can pull thru it baby!
PDMGtv 3 years ago 2
Its been 19 years in July since I lost my stepfather. Time does heal most wounds...but I write and remember the good times. Your sister would be proud of you and amazed at all of the lives that you touch every video. :D I write my poems and my prose, I sit and try to learn my guitar...things that would remember those that I have lost. Keep up all that you do...Your awesome B!
Ashley
AnastaziaNicoli 3 years ago
B. Scott, we love you no matter what!
fabulouslyfablous 3 years ago
Wow B.Scott you really brought some emotions up in me. I lost my mother in 2003 and I grieve for her every day but what helps me is I think about the good times and the good memories and what she would think of what and how I am doing now in my daily life. Also doing hard times I talk to my mommie. No I am not crazy but it makes me feel beeter to literally talk out loud to her. I will pray that God will give you peace concerning your sister's passing. Be strong boo boo. Love Ya!
msave73 3 years ago
Time doesn't heal all things. It just isn't enough to keep living and hope the pain goes away. I wish I could say I knew the answer, but I don't. =(
jeannypoo 3 years ago
B.Scott...When ur grieving over a loved one that was really close to u...sometimesz itsz hard to not cry...but when u cry let those tearsz be tearsz of joy b/c u kno that she is in a better place...everthing will be fine...and all u have to do is ask God for peace nd understanding so that u can deal with her passing away better. God bless u nd Keep u!
she2much4u 3 years ago
I feel the same way about my grandpa that you feel about your sister. This video really touched me. but you can be sure of one thing!she DOES see you, and is still there! I'm a Chrsitian and I know you are too! and I always think about it this way if there wasnt times where we grieve would we really take the time out of our lives to truly devote 2 minsor 2 hours of our busy schedules every once in a while to remember the ones we love that had to pass on?I dont thinkso. stay strong!
forensicsupernerd 3 years ago
B.Scott, I'm 32 years old and my oldest daughter Brianna past away 13 years ago. She will be 14 Dec 29th this year. I would love to say it gets better to deal with but I won't, because as my other children get older and her cousins the same age as her get older, I go through the "she would have been doing this" phase. What helps keep some kind of control is talking about her, not only to other people, but out loud in prayer to her and GOD...
txlfowler 3 years ago
b.scott i know you will always miss her..don't look for a way to stop missing her or to stop feeling the pain. talk to her as if she is in your living room with you.think about it like this. if she were here she would have to see what a mess this world has become. sometimes i feel selfish for wishing my grandmother was still here. She had cancer so her being here would only hurt her more.i'm happy she doesn't have to suffer anymore
crtnyevans 3 years ago
B.Scott, My father passed away in 1997 and till this second, I have been missing him like how I missed him the day he went away.Me and my late father were/are very good friends, not just father and daughter and nobody understands me like how he understands me. I grieve by letting myself cry and at the same time I have always have this vision of Mother Mary with Jesus on her lap when Jesus died and just being brought down from the cross after he was crucified.I am with you on this feeling dear...
andthisgirlislara 3 years ago
I dont think you will really ever stop grieving but i do think with time it will get much easier for you.....
R.I.P to ur sister !
Nilo1992 3 years ago
Only think of the good times. It is ok to cry. It is ok to talk about it. I just lost my sister only a month ago. we were so close she's only 28, just graduated law school at the prime of her life and she dies! colon cancer took her. But I find comfort in the fact that she is in a better place. Stay strong boo boo. From One love muffin to another. Everything is gonna be alright
jasonbond81 3 years ago
Your sister IS here to see you achieve your goals and believe me you are achieving them right now. She is watching down on you and is proud to have a brother like no other <_ That rhymes :). How do you grieve? Smile. Your sister doesn't want to see you crying and neither do your love muffins. Please Smile. She is.
quar10143 3 years ago 2
Your sister IS here to see you achieve your goals and believe me you are achieving them right now. She is watching down on you and is proud to have a brother like no other <_ That rhymes :). How do you grieve? Smile. Your sister doesn't want to see you crying and neither do your love muffins. Please Smile. She is.
quar10143 3 years ago
I see from your videos that your christian, so read John 11:11-14 please it will help just believe and have faith in GOD that everything will be ok. The verse explains that she is not dead but asleep until Jesus comes so dont worry you will see her again. I love you keep doing you, I will pray for you tonight. God Bless!!!
derekandkeyasha 3 years ago
I see from your videos that your christian, so read John 11:11-14 please it will help just believe and have faith in GOD that everything will be ok. The verse explains that she is not dead but asleep until Jesus comes so dont worry you will see her again. I love you keep doing you, I will pray for you tonight. God Bless!!!
derekandkeyasha 3 years ago
I love you :) i hope you'll always find more strength each day..
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