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  • Why her Corey James ??????

  • he left me for a bad body lil girl dat go to his school jamonte jackson hope u inlove wit the bitch bt 1 question y her?????

  • I LOVE LOVE LOVE This Song..Story Of My Life :(

  • I play this song a fall foe hid lies buy no more IM DONE

  • Great!

  • This song makes me cry everytime I gave him all I had and I never came first in his life....

  • I love this song... Happened to me!! Cause Monica knows what us females go through!! Nice to know someone understands! I`m not gonna hate!! Cause I been there too!!

  • why do yall come on youtube and tell ya business, ah who cares.

  • @swaggthruroof why u worried about what some people wanna off they chest shit don't get mad b/c don't nobody give a damn about your comment or conversation.

  • He wasn't worth my tears or my time, now i'm back to be and mine!!!

  • This is thrw bck I LOVE IT

  • how could you have chose that fuckin' ditzy/fat/druken/dumb/bitch/bl­ond

  • CRYIN TO THIS ON REPEATTTT

  • this song is makn me cry.. i wonder y her? wat du she have dat i dnt? evrybodi take note.. luv hurt. bad

  • i am in love with this song. goin through this at the moment :(

  • eish! why her! thats a dificult one hey! its a sad song though

  • THIS SONG IS THE FUCKING TRUTH~~~~~~~~~WHY? WHY HER?

  • This song is the fucking truth ~~~~WHY ?

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  • wow i phucked up

  • - This Song Straight Use To Have Me In My Feelings , Especially Ovr The Summer . LMAOOO !

  • these songs can really get to you

  • how could he leave me for an ugly bitch

  • this true men dont care who they hurt they could have a gurl that would give their all and still work on their career. they never know what they had till it was gone. so they leave us askin what did me we wut does she have over me

  • did u knw this was based off a poem monica wrote herself

  • so many thoughts come to mind!

  • diSz GO hARd it SPEAkS dAh TRUTh Nd iTSz REAL i FElT likE THiSZ bEfORE

  • Damn it's like she made this song just for me

  • livin this... it reallyhurts. ): and in the end, she didnt even wanna talk to him.... so WE went to waste for nothing.

  • this is song !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • wow dis song is lik so reall2♥

  • I LOVE THIS JAM!!!!!

  • I love this song man! real talk

  • Man I love this song...! Monica is Inspiring....

  • i like this song

  • I don't understand why a man would cheat!! If he don't want you then have them tell us. Cheating hurts worse then a break up!!

    I love this song. <3

  • I'm fresh out of a relationship where my fiancé had another woman and his whole family knew about her long before I did..everytime i listen to this song I cry because all I can think is "why her" n still dnt have the answer

  • @fa0661 awww the same thing happened to me my ex had another girlfriend and she was supposedly pregnant and his whole family knew and didnt tell me i know how you feel girl..then they try to call you and make things work between you to and him saying how sorry he is but you dont want to hear what he has to say

  • @xohoneybunnyxo and the exact same thing happened to me. my ex got a girl pregnant and i found out when she was 3months. ALL DAT SORRY SHIT AINT GONNA WORK. THAT SHIT HURTS

  • men cheat, most, by nature. we cheat but, most of us arent dumb, we know who the main chick is and after time we will grow bored with that life and wanna settle down. jsut let a man be a man. that doesnt mean take his shit. men do shit to women because they aloow it. dont... he'll miss u once u leave and maybe even change.

  • I love diz song

  • good son

  • im relatin to this song rite na i've listened to it about 30 times already...!

  • this my song

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  • Aayyyeeeee.! Luv Dis Song.!

  • this is how i feel right now...why dudes gotta cheat with these bummy lookin hoes.... that wont last.

  • wow.....im goin thru this right now

  • i ask mi self why her a lot bkut then i just start sayin f*cc it cuz i no im bketter so why hym cuz he gonna want me bkacc duh dats always

  • A Heartache..=(

  • I think every woman can relate to this song...becouse their aint a man out their that hasnt cheated...you give them everything and they think they gonna find something better in a nother woman but realize they didnt then come running back...Good song.

  • is song is my shit.,

  • i was thinking that da sex had his love

  • omg i love this song so much everytime i listen to it i cry

  • I JUST OFFICIALLY BECAME A FAN OF MONCA AFTER THIS SONG! SHE SAID EVERYTHING IVE EVER FELT AND EVERYTHING I NEEDED TO HEAR NOW I KNOW THERE ARE OTHER REAL WOMEN OUT THERE THAT FEEL WHERE IM COMIN FROM! THANKZ MONICA I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS

  • love this song tha moment I said it..real talk and proof Monica a real woman and know whats up..Dont know why us women dont see we hold all the power if we would respect each others feelings alittle more

  • dont ask why her its not about her its about him he knew what he was doing and a man only going to do what you let him do i know i had to learn the hard way experience

  • I am going throw this right now and this song just says everything that I am felling. how could he be with her before we where married and still after? what did I do wrong? a year with her just took your lifetime away with me and your kids. it hurts but I have to go after 8yrs. I love this song.

  • i love this song

  • you are sooo right ornyea

  • I felt like this. Why boy??? I loved you.

  • You ask em why her an they dont kno wat to say!!!

  • @TheSpgGurl U SOOO RITE THEY WANNA ACT DUMB I CANT STAND THAT!!!!

  • FUCk Men =)

    where's them Barbie's @ lol !

  • i had a boyfriend and he was fine butt then left me for this ugly chick and everytime he come back i say why her and dont kno what to say.

  • @maald11 cause he know if he say sum he gone look more stupid than he already is

  • @maald11

    so true man by bf did the same and i was very insecure for a while bc i thought she was better than me but when i saw her OMGEEEEEEE that hoe was uglyyyyy a damn grenade !!! i was like wtf y her??? instead of upgading men downgrade!!!

  • i love this song lol it made me cry the first time i heard this song.... powerful song!!

  • she can sing good

  • Omq Ily Moni ( Monica ) Favv Sonq

  • memories.........( tears )

  • wow dis mii first tim hearin dis song an i love it

  • i love this song...makes me cry everytimme i hear this song..it hurts when the one u sacrifice everything for mistreats u then u wonder how come u cant find no one to seattle dwn with....cause all the good ones are gone or torn apart

  • i felt this one cuz it describes me in the past lls

  • I think everyone I know has asked this at one point and now its my turn.

    Why Her?

    What makes her so right?

  • -x- You did what you did it is what it is -x-

    He hurt me bad why her?

    cause shes just a sketty sl*g?

    shes welcome to him cause i deserve better

    -x- ive learned not to worry about them cause that shit was built on a lie-x-

    why him? cause i dont want him now : )

    Hope he hurts her as bad as he hurt me ...

    be strong girls : ) cant get through anything you want if you be strong

    im finally getting over

  • I listen to this song when my boy friend started to like this other gurl I thought to myself and asked him why her? and well he didnt really know, it hurt so bad because I fell for him, and I loved him and love him still...

  • @azaingurl12 man i feel ya forreal

  • why her why her..!! yu culd of told yu wasnt happy yu wasnt satisfied wwe culd of work it out mayb we culd of tries but yu didnt say nothin..!! luv dhis song..!!!

  • i told myself im a stop crying over niggas like jay z said on 2 the next one

  • dis reminds me of wat im going through now...i dont c y people even cheat on sumone dey claim their in love wit and y would dey give up sum dey had 4 at least a year and then let sumone they jus met mess up sum good...and they realise wat they had and then try to get it back ....like they say.... DONT LEAVE THE ONE U LOVE FOR THE ONE YOU LIKE CUZ THE ONE U LIKE GONE LEAVE YOU FOR THE ONE THEY LOVE

  • @BlackBarbi3dol OMG, IM GOIN THRU THE EXACT THING RITE NOW GIRL, WE BEEN OFF & ON 4 LIKE 2 YRS..DEN HE WENT OUT OF TOWN & HE BEEN THERE 4 A MONTH, & HIS GIRL CUZN HAD A FRIEND DAT LIKED HIM, & ALL OF SUDDEN THINGS WENT DOWN HILL. I MEAN U JUS MET HER, DNT 4GET WAT U GOT AT HOME!!!

  • Aww!! I dedicate this song to what i am goin thru right now:((

  • Damn Some Real Ass Shit!

  • i luv your video monica

  • Im not going to say all men cheat,but I dont understand why do they cheat and once the main female move on and get a man that do treat them right they get upset like their feelings are so much more important than ours....Its crazy but its the truth sum men dont want a woman that can do for herself and that is down 4 him they want those weak minded females that they can have control of

  • @ornyea LIKE THEY SAY U DON'T MISS A GOOD THANG UNTIL IT'S GONE.

  • @ornyea thats so real

  • @ornyea that is so true girl! i think they just like the idea of being in control when my bf was mad at me one time he told this girl that i really couldnt make it without him..it taught me alot about how he view me..im still with him but if he eva push me too far or cheat on me imma leave his ass and show him that yea i luv him to death and its that i just want him in my life i dnt need him! i let him think that tho so he can keep givin me everythin i want tho.

  • @ornyea preach gurl that is so true !

  • AH NiqqA qONE BE AH NiqqA yU JUX qOTTA KEEP yO HEAD UP && DO yU BUT DEN AqAiN ALl NiqqAS AiNT DAWqS yU qOT SUM qUDD ONES DATS qONE KEEP iT REAL && AiNT BOUT qAMES!

  • DZ reminds me of me.haha but i wasint heart broken..but i fink he was....well he told me go owa tew his house..i was lyk k.we were awguds the days before but then when i gt there he had anada chik n da room.wat d fuk???so i walked owt n his brother just flew bk frm aussie...sitn n da siting room...so i fuked him and ma x walked in..da nxtt dae....goin mad.hahahahahaha take dat kunt........so yea he was shadod.........lolz.......so wat i sae do it ryt bak....it hurts them worser.str8 up..

  • well i cant relate just yet....but i like the song just heard it yesterday i luv the hook why her!

  • "i wipedd ya tears. i was there andd that's y this is hurtin mehh".. i love monicaa

  • U did wat u did!!!.... I can relate to this!!! they always put them first instead of thinking of us and our feelings!!! WHY HER??

  • A friend once told me "girl don't leave your man... cause all men cheat".. I didn't want to believe her. Now I know better... now I just date and won' t get serious... what's the point?

  • not all guys cheat...

    my dad never cheated on my mum,

    my brother never cheated on his girlfriend... don't get that impression.

  • yeah my bro-in-law is extremely faithful to my sister, and my uncle has never cheated on my auntie in ALL THE YEARS that they've been together, so yeah don't think like that. mayeb your friends is just choosing all the worng guys...

  • fuck every cheatn/lien ass guy!...dey can kiss our ass.. cuuz were to good for them...move on theres plenty of guys out there :] fuckk him

  • I really love dis song its so personal I feel every word

  • WHY HER? I felt like dis once. Why do men feel dey don't have 2 tell a woman how they feel but seem to find comfort with another breaking hearts along da way? This is sum TRUE SHIT!! I love dis song!

  • @Juicy2306 yea ii feel it

  • @Juicy2306 Good Question...Wish I knew the answer... They expect women to pour out their hearts.... BUT KARMA is a bad mother...you get what ya give in this life... I LOVE THIS SONG TOO!!!

  • @Juicy2306 OMG U R SO RITE....

  • @Juicy2306 guh u know this izz TRUE dizz my lil black 100000 boo

  • i agree they always wanna go for those ones that they can control and have them do watever they.

  • Oh, I can relate.

  • I LOVE THIS SONG

  • i ask my boy friend why her

  • damn.... so many memories i love dis song!

  • U Stole My Name.! im Glad Im Named After A Celeberty.! That Can Sing.!

  • ooo this brinqs back memories hmm i love this sonq!

  • love it

  • dhiz mii s0nq.

  • u can tell this song came from da heart. she spoke sum true shit...

  • very smart.msfalisa. I agree. I found a more reliable and 100% more honest man after heart breakt.

  • this that crying song....

  • really looove this song yo

  • so right aint gonna last what goes around comes around fellows

  • im lookin at this bitch n im still wondering y her.... thank god for monica u take the words rite outta my mouth

  • This is one song that I can jus listen to over n over again because I have been threw it before but I really love this song she put her foot n this one

  • If there is anyone out there going through a situation where your man left you 4 another, I know you're hurting, but step outside of yourself and look within and accept the situation for what it is, and do what you got to do to move on. Please don't sleep with him, or ask him back. Cut off all communication with him if possible. Try not to focus on the good times you had, but think of what he's doing to you now. YOU ARE NOT WHO OR WHAT HE WANTS TO BE WITH. Find love and peace within.

  • DATZ SO TRU

  • love dis song!! dont blame yourself if you gave your all then fuck them, in the end they will want you back when they realize what they had

  • why does everybody have to put their life story on these comments? lol

  • @TootieBadess its alot of people out there hurting and maybe it makes them feel better to talk about there story. and you could be the one to offer some good advice to them. I must admit I put my story out there and somone gave me some blunt but heipful advice.

  • ughhhh so in love with this song!!!!!!!! SO TRUE!!!!!

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  • i love this song. I had to play if for my best friend b/c i couldnt understand why was with his baby mama when she was so cheating on him. he was cheating too but I couldnt understand y he didnt leave. to this day he still with her and i've moved on and couldnt have made a better move.

  • beautiful song

  • this how i feel!

  • ooh im feeling this

  • great song!!!!!

  • Use 2 relate to this song but i thnk i stl can.... Always use to make me cry...

  • I think a lot of people can relate to this song

  • man i was wid my ex for a year and 6months and he cheated on and off for most of it the final straw was when he got another girl pregnant on me now he wants me back and i would never go back becuz i have to much resentment towards him and he would never change i was jus eye candy!!!

  • i feel ya! its crazyy when you love and hate someone at the same time.

  • ive been with my babys daddy foralmost 2 yrs.. den wen i had our kid he start fukn around on me.. n i gave him so many chances n yeht i tok him bak.. now we dont even talk r nething.. fukk whut a waste of my TIME...i wish my true love hunter wulda never moved away n shit wulda been different...hate my babys daddy for choosn a ho over me n his kid... :(

  • i guess i am learning alot just by reading ur comment bc my boyfriend has been begging me to give him a son and i want to bc i tell myself maybe he will do rite then but i see now that hell he is cheatin now he will definitely cheat then bc i will be completely occupied...im glad i havent had a child for him..we have always planned to get married in about 5 yrs but its so funny bc i am having 2nd thoughts now about my middle and high school sweetheart......

  • Its is so true they Have sum thing good but rather leave it all for the trashes girls and then want to come back when it didn't work!!!!!!!!!!!!! After they had they fun and left you in the cold...............But they always come back thou. So its your turn to leave them in the cold.

  • you are so rite..my bf left me for his ex which still really hurts everytime i see his face bc out of all females i keep asking myself why her hell?out of all bitches why her?we are back 2getha tho i love that boy and i just couldnt be w/out him..everybody deserve a 2nd chance tho u kno...

  • @DADDYBOOGUL is he doing better now. No more cheating?

  • not that i know of..we actually spend so much time together like crazy it irritates me sometimes but it could just be a cover up dont really know you know i can just only hope its not

  • they always end up leaving an 80 for a 20 its never worth it in the end :)

  • i feel u

  • def can relate 2 dis song...

  • ii MeaN ii FeLL FoR HiiZ TRiiCKz N DiiDNT eVeN ReaLiiZ iiT........iiT HurT...BuT ii HaD Ta TaKe iiT LiiK a G!!!!

  • they just always kno the rite things to say to always get us back too.

  • YuH aiiNT NeVa LyiiN

  • i Really like this song

  • Favorite Song off that album.

  • oh em gee it mad me cry

  • this song is therapeutic. its really helping me to move on with my life. i dated a cheater too.

  • smh..me too..took me a year to get pass my ex..but like a wise friend told me..either u forget 3 years..or waste 3 more...=)

  • i want to move on but i just dont think i can we have been 2getha 2 long

  • i feel ya!! but time does not stand still and before you know it your youth will be gone and you still will have nothing but woulda, shoulda, couldassss REGRET!!

  • @DADDYBOOGUL you can never say what you dont think you cant do have faith and believe in yourself

  • This song helps. He still can't answer why he chose her. he still tells me that he don't feel the things wit her that he did wit me. well that's his loss

  • i know i will mack it with out u even if it do hurt me but u wonted her and not me so this song goes 2 u u know who u is

  • i was with her for 2yrs and she just left me n couldnt tell me y she had left me soooooooooooooooo i move on n now she wonts me back but it not gone happen

  • <33

  • this is actually funny... i never heard this song... until my lil sister thats 14 said listen to this song.. it will help u get thru it... lol.. its just crazy my lil sister gave me a song that spoke to me...... thanks lil sis

    just wanna say to the guy.. u know who u r.. u chose her.. now live it up.. cuz im movin on.. n thru the pain n thru the tears ill come out on top..

  • Its funny how a man leaves u when things are bad . Then, wants to come back when you have fought through all the hell an shit peachy again, WHY?

  • beautiful and real song......a toutes les femmes ki l on vecu et ki on souffert.

  • i luvv dis song

  • i lub dis song

  • man i gave him 7yrs and a son and i continued to get cheated on

  • hey love hurts and then you heal and when you do you become strong.

  • I can relate to this song soo much!

  • after 2 years together my ex left me for some chick he just met. This song helped me get through it. Love this song. Everytime i hear i it remember that pain

  • This song is so real i helped my daughter father so much and he left me for another woman who wasnt there when he had nothing his family even turned on me and lied on me for this girl he been with for 2 months and me and him got years