I love this song... Happened to me!! Cause Monica knows what us females go through!! Nice to know someone understands! I`m not gonna hate!! Cause I been there too!!
@swaggthruroof why u worried about what some people wanna off they chest shit don't get mad b/c don't nobody give a damn about your comment or conversation.
we were not together but I was getting to know this guy, he seemed sooo perfect, everything that I could ever ask for in a man, I thought for real that god had answered my prayers, soon tho he found out that his ex had a baby that might be his, so he called things off between us saying that he was just confused and that he needed some time, that it would be unfair to start anything between us with what was going on, just yesterday I see he is dating my ex husbands ex girlfriend.........why her?
this true men dont care who they hurt they could have a gurl that would give their all and still work on their career. they never know what they had till it was gone. so they leave us askin what did me we wut does she have over me
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I'm fresh out of a relationship where my fiancé had another woman and his whole family knew about her long before I did..everytime i listen to this song I cry because all I can think is "why her" n still dnt have the answer
@fa0661 awww the same thing happened to me my ex had another girlfriend and she was supposedly pregnant and his whole family knew and didnt tell me i know how you feel girl..then they try to call you and make things work between you to and him saying how sorry he is but you dont want to hear what he has to say
@xohoneybunnyxo and the exact same thing happened to me. my ex got a girl pregnant and i found out when she was 3months. ALL DAT SORRY SHIT AINT GONNA WORK. THAT SHIT HURTS
men cheat, most, by nature. we cheat but, most of us arent dumb, we know who the main chick is and after time we will grow bored with that life and wanna settle down. jsut let a man be a man. that doesnt mean take his shit. men do shit to women because they aloow it. dont... he'll miss u once u leave and maybe even change.
I think every woman can relate to this song...becouse their aint a man out their that hasnt cheated...you give them everything and they think they gonna find something better in a nother woman but realize they didnt then come running back...Good song.
I JUST OFFICIALLY BECAME A FAN OF MONCA AFTER THIS SONG! SHE SAID EVERYTHING IVE EVER FELT AND EVERYTHING I NEEDED TO HEAR NOW I KNOW THERE ARE OTHER REAL WOMEN OUT THERE THAT FEEL WHERE IM COMIN FROM! THANKZ MONICA I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS
love this song tha moment I said it..real talk and proof Monica a real woman and know whats up..Dont know why us women dont see we hold all the power if we would respect each others feelings alittle more
dont ask why her its not about her its about him he knew what he was doing and a man only going to do what you let him do i know i had to learn the hard way experience
I am going throw this right now and this song just says everything that I am felling. how could he be with her before we where married and still after? what did I do wrong? a year with her just took your lifetime away with me and your kids. it hurts but I have to go after 8yrs. I love this song.
so true man by bf did the same and i was very insecure for a while bc i thought she was better than me but when i saw her OMGEEEEEEE that hoe was uglyyyyy a damn grenade !!! i was like wtf y her??? instead of upgading men downgrade!!!
i love this song...makes me cry everytimme i hear this song..it hurts when the one u sacrifice everything for mistreats u then u wonder how come u cant find no one to seattle dwn with....cause all the good ones are gone or torn apart
I listen to this song when my boy friend started to like this other gurl I thought to myself and asked him why her? and well he didnt really know, it hurt so bad because I fell for him, and I loved him and love him still...
why her why her..!! yu culd of told yu wasnt happy yu wasnt satisfied wwe culd of work it out mayb we culd of tries but yu didnt say nothin..!! luv dhis song..!!!
dis reminds me of wat im going through now...i dont c y people even cheat on sumone dey claim their in love wit and y would dey give up sum dey had 4 at least a year and then let sumone they jus met mess up sum good...and they realise wat they had and then try to get it back ....like they say.... DONT LEAVE THE ONE U LOVE FOR THE ONE YOU LIKE CUZ THE ONE U LIKE GONE LEAVE YOU FOR THE ONE THEY LOVE
@BlackBarbi3dol OMG, IM GOIN THRU THE EXACT THING RITE NOW GIRL, WE BEEN OFF & ON 4 LIKE 2 YRS..DEN HE WENT OUT OF TOWN & HE BEEN THERE 4 A MONTH, & HIS GIRL CUZN HAD A FRIEND DAT LIKED HIM, & ALL OF SUDDEN THINGS WENT DOWN HILL. I MEAN U JUS MET HER, DNT 4GET WAT U GOT AT HOME!!!
Im not going to say all men cheat,but I dont understand why do they cheat and once the main female move on and get a man that do treat them right they get upset like their feelings are so much more important than ours....Its crazy but its the truth sum men dont want a woman that can do for herself and that is down 4 him they want those weak minded females that they can have control of
@ornyea that is so true girl! i think they just like the idea of being in control when my bf was mad at me one time he told this girl that i really couldnt make it without him..it taught me alot about how he view me..im still with him but if he eva push me too far or cheat on me imma leave his ass and show him that yea i luv him to death and its that i just want him in my life i dnt need him! i let him think that tho so he can keep givin me everythin i want tho.
AH NiqqA qONE BE AH NiqqA yU JUX qOTTA KEEP yO HEAD UP && DO yU BUT DEN AqAiN ALl NiqqAS AiNT DAWqS yU qOT SUM qUDD ONES DATS qONE KEEP iT REAL && AiNT BOUT qAMES!
DZ reminds me of me.haha but i wasint heart broken..but i fink he was....well he told me go owa tew his house..i was lyk k.we were awguds the days before but then when i gt there he had anada chik n da room.wat d fuk???so i walked owt n his brother just flew bk frm aussie...sitn n da siting room...so i fuked him and ma x walked in..da nxtt dae....goin mad.hahahahahaha take dat kunt........so yea he was shadod.........lolz.......so wat i sae do it ryt bak....it hurts them worser.str8 up..
A friend once told me "girl don't leave your man... cause all men cheat".. I didn't want to believe her. Now I know better... now I just date and won' t get serious... what's the point?
yeah my bro-in-law is extremely faithful to my sister, and my uncle has never cheated on my auntie in ALL THE YEARS that they've been together, so yeah don't think like that. mayeb your friends is just choosing all the worng guys...
WHY HER? I felt like dis once. Why do men feel dey don't have 2 tell a woman how they feel but seem to find comfort with another breaking hearts along da way? This is sum TRUE SHIT!! I love dis song!
@Juicy2306 Good Question...Wish I knew the answer... They expect women to pour out their hearts.... BUT KARMA is a bad mother...you get what ya give in this life... I LOVE THIS SONG TOO!!!
This is one song that I can jus listen to over n over again because I have been threw it before but I really love this song she put her foot n this one
If there is anyone out there going through a situation where your man left you 4 another, I know you're hurting, but step outside of yourself and look within and accept the situation for what it is, and do what you got to do to move on. Please don't sleep with him, or ask him back. Cut off all communication with him if possible. Try not to focus on the good times you had, but think of what he's doing to you now. YOU ARE NOT WHO OR WHAT HE WANTS TO BE WITH. Find love and peace within.
@TootieBadess its alot of people out there hurting and maybe it makes them feel better to talk about there story. and you could be the one to offer some good advice to them. I must admit I put my story out there and somone gave me some blunt but heipful advice.
i love this song. I had to play if for my best friend b/c i couldnt understand why was with his baby mama when she was so cheating on him. he was cheating too but I couldnt understand y he didnt leave. to this day he still with her and i've moved on and couldnt have made a better move.
man i was wid my ex for a year and 6months and he cheated on and off for most of it the final straw was when he got another girl pregnant on me now he wants me back and i would never go back becuz i have to much resentment towards him and he would never change i was jus eye candy!!!
ive been with my babys daddy foralmost 2 yrs.. den wen i had our kid he start fukn around on me.. n i gave him so many chances n yeht i tok him bak.. now we dont even talk r nething.. fukk whut a waste of my TIME...i wish my true love hunter wulda never moved away n shit wulda been different...hate my babys daddy for choosn a ho over me n his kid... :(
i guess i am learning alot just by reading ur comment bc my boyfriend has been begging me to give him a son and i want to bc i tell myself maybe he will do rite then but i see now that hell he is cheatin now he will definitely cheat then bc i will be completely occupied...im glad i havent had a child for him..we have always planned to get married in about 5 yrs but its so funny bc i am having 2nd thoughts now about my middle and high school sweetheart......
Its is so true they Have sum thing good but rather leave it all for the trashes girls and then want to come back when it didn't work!!!!!!!!!!!!! After they had they fun and left you in the cold...............But they always come back thou. So its your turn to leave them in the cold.
you are so rite..my bf left me for his ex which still really hurts everytime i see his face bc out of all females i keep asking myself why her hell?out of all bitches why her?we are back 2getha tho i love that boy and i just couldnt be w/out him..everybody deserve a 2nd chance tho u kno...
not that i know of..we actually spend so much time together like crazy it irritates me sometimes but it could just be a cover up dont really know you know i can just only hope its not
i feel ya!! but time does not stand still and before you know it your youth will be gone and you still will have nothing but woulda, shoulda, couldassss REGRET!!
This song helps. He still can't answer why he chose her. he still tells me that he don't feel the things wit her that he did wit me. well that's his loss
i was with her for 2yrs and she just left me n couldnt tell me y she had left me soooooooooooooooo i move on n now she wonts me back but it not gone happen
this is actually funny... i never heard this song... until my lil sister thats 14 said listen to this song.. it will help u get thru it... lol.. its just crazy my lil sister gave me a song that spoke to me...... thanks lil sis
just wanna say to the guy.. u know who u r.. u chose her.. now live it up.. cuz im movin on.. n thru the pain n thru the tears ill come out on top..
after 2 years together my ex left me for some chick he just met. This song helped me get through it. Love this song. Everytime i hear i it remember that pain
This song is so real i helped my daughter father so much and he left me for another woman who wasnt there when he had nothing his family even turned on me and lied on me for this girl he been with for 2 months and me and him got years
Why her Corey James ??????
MsStarwberry08 21 hours ago
he left me for a bad body lil girl dat go to his school jamonte jackson hope u inlove wit the bitch bt 1 question y her?????
SuperKittykat69 3 days ago
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I love this song
Cov3rGirl100 1 week ago in playlist More videos from jazzyjay011
I LOVE LOVE LOVE This Song..Story Of My Life :(
OverTheREINBEAU87 1 month ago
I play this song a fall foe hid lies buy no more IM DONE
missluvable24 2 months ago
Great!
SuperCHAS15 2 months ago
This song makes me cry everytime I gave him all I had and I never came first in his life....
mzkidd09 2 months ago
I love this song... Happened to me!! Cause Monica knows what us females go through!! Nice to know someone understands! I`m not gonna hate!! Cause I been there too!!
emyo98 2 months ago
why do yall come on youtube and tell ya business, ah who cares.
swaggthruroof 2 months ago
@swaggthruroof why u worried about what some people wanna off they chest shit don't get mad b/c don't nobody give a damn about your comment or conversation.
whiteandblackqueen 4 weeks ago
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He wasn't worth my tears or my time, now i'm back to be and mine!!! lol
FavoredScorpian 2 months ago
He wasn't worth my tears or my time, now i'm back to be and mine!!!
FavoredScorpian 2 months ago
This is thrw bck I LOVE IT
Teisheema 2 months ago
how could you have chose that fuckin' ditzy/fat/druken/dumb/bitch/blond
SurferBabe4Ever 2 months ago
CRYIN TO THIS ON REPEATTTT
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we were not together but I was getting to know this guy, he seemed sooo perfect, everything that I could ever ask for in a man, I thought for real that god had answered my prayers, soon tho he found out that his ex had a baby that might be his, so he called things off between us saying that he was just confused and that he needed some time, that it would be unfair to start anything between us with what was going on, just yesterday I see he is dating my ex husbands ex girlfriend.........why her?
nativeladynd10 4 months ago
this song is makn me cry.. i wonder y her? wat du she have dat i dnt? evrybodi take note.. luv hurt. bad
retard406 1 year ago
i am in love with this song. goin through this at the moment :(
chxunk 1 year ago
eish! why her! thats a dificult one hey! its a sad song though
TebzaTshoshi 1 year ago
THIS SONG IS THE FUCKING TRUTH~~~~~~~~~WHY? WHY HER?
crho78 1 year ago
This song is the fucking truth ~~~~WHY ?
crho78 1 year ago
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LaSoniaLa 1 year ago
wow i phucked up
iliveinapineapple1 1 year ago
- This Song Straight Use To Have Me In My Feelings , Especially Ovr The Summer . LMAOOO !
sydddakidd 1 year ago
these songs can really get to you
KiDdRoCk961 1 year ago
how could he leave me for an ugly bitch
measia2010 1 year ago 17
this true men dont care who they hurt they could have a gurl that would give their all and still work on their career. they never know what they had till it was gone. so they leave us askin what did me we wut does she have over me
Bosslady83117 1 year ago
did u knw this was based off a poem monica wrote herself
meboobrat 1 year ago 6
so many thoughts come to mind!
LADYQ1216 1 year ago 2
diSz GO hARd it SPEAkS dAh TRUTh Nd iTSz REAL i FElT likE THiSZ bEfORE
MsHobbs25 1 year ago
Damn it's like she made this song just for me
sleazerteaser 1 year ago
livin this... it reallyhurts. ): and in the end, she didnt even wanna talk to him.... so WE went to waste for nothing.
13f0urteen27 1 year ago 2
this is song !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
101dimepiece 1 year ago
wow dis song is lik so reall2♥
ladyk1020 1 year ago
I LOVE THIS JAM!!!!!
GREWESTATUS 1 year ago
I love this song man! real talk
TheSilvadollar 1 year ago
Man I love this song...! Monica is Inspiring....
BornYounger2010 1 year ago
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iamLILkayla 1 year ago
i like this song
chelsy9460 1 year ago
I don't understand why a man would cheat!! If he don't want you then have them tell us. Cheating hurts worse then a break up!!
I love this song. <3
IloveKylers84 1 year ago 3
I'm fresh out of a relationship where my fiancé had another woman and his whole family knew about her long before I did..everytime i listen to this song I cry because all I can think is "why her" n still dnt have the answer
fa0661 1 year ago 4
@fa0661 awww the same thing happened to me my ex had another girlfriend and she was supposedly pregnant and his whole family knew and didnt tell me i know how you feel girl..then they try to call you and make things work between you to and him saying how sorry he is but you dont want to hear what he has to say
xohoneybunnyxo 1 year ago
@xohoneybunnyxo and the exact same thing happened to me. my ex got a girl pregnant and i found out when she was 3months. ALL DAT SORRY SHIT AINT GONNA WORK. THAT SHIT HURTS
23natosha 1 year ago
men cheat, most, by nature. we cheat but, most of us arent dumb, we know who the main chick is and after time we will grow bored with that life and wanna settle down. jsut let a man be a man. that doesnt mean take his shit. men do shit to women because they aloow it. dont... he'll miss u once u leave and maybe even change.
superkells12 1 year ago
I love diz song
Mzbabie0428 1 year ago
good son
djyfin 1 year ago
im relatin to this song rite na i've listened to it about 30 times already...!
brandi0941 1 year ago
this my song
dasiamoo 1 year ago
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dasiamoo 1 year ago
Aayyyeeeee.! Luv Dis Song.!
Legacy777GP 1 year ago
this is how i feel right now...why dudes gotta cheat with these bummy lookin hoes.... that wont last.
mz1pointoh 1 year ago
wow.....im goin thru this right now
freakygurl1114 1 year ago
i ask mi self why her a lot bkut then i just start sayin f*cc it cuz i no im bketter so why hym cuz he gonna want me bkacc duh dats always
dinkabut1 1 year ago
A Heartache..=(
pinksex18 1 year ago
I think every woman can relate to this song...becouse their aint a man out their that hasnt cheated...you give them everything and they think they gonna find something better in a nother woman but realize they didnt then come running back...Good song.
MrsNatalieWhite 1 year ago
is song is my shit.,
kinzelcole72 1 year ago
i was thinking that da sex had his love
23natosha 1 year ago
omg i love this song so much everytime i listen to it i cry
sexyslimpersonal 1 year ago
I JUST OFFICIALLY BECAME A FAN OF MONCA AFTER THIS SONG! SHE SAID EVERYTHING IVE EVER FELT AND EVERYTHING I NEEDED TO HEAR NOW I KNOW THERE ARE OTHER REAL WOMEN OUT THERE THAT FEEL WHERE IM COMIN FROM! THANKZ MONICA I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS
shantaye22 1 year ago
love this song tha moment I said it..real talk and proof Monica a real woman and know whats up..Dont know why us women dont see we hold all the power if we would respect each others feelings alittle more
iamme1ify 1 year ago
dont ask why her its not about her its about him he knew what he was doing and a man only going to do what you let him do i know i had to learn the hard way experience
tinaslimm 1 year ago
I am going throw this right now and this song just says everything that I am felling. how could he be with her before we where married and still after? what did I do wrong? a year with her just took your lifetime away with me and your kids. it hurts but I have to go after 8yrs. I love this song.
Dyzire1 1 year ago 4
i love this song
racksetshay16 1 year ago
you are sooo right ornyea
MzSarahJessica 1 year ago
I felt like this. Why boy??? I loved you.
TheBrittany1586 1 year ago
You ask em why her an they dont kno wat to say!!!
TheSpgGurl 1 year ago
@TheSpgGurl U SOOO RITE THEY WANNA ACT DUMB I CANT STAND THAT!!!!
tweety18queen 1 year ago
FUCk Men =)
where's them Barbie's @ lol !
liddulNinaah 1 year ago
i had a boyfriend and he was fine butt then left me for this ugly chick and everytime he come back i say why her and dont kno what to say.
maald11 1 year ago
@maald11 cause he know if he say sum he gone look more stupid than he already is
DADDYBOOGUL 1 year ago
@maald11
so true man by bf did the same and i was very insecure for a while bc i thought she was better than me but when i saw her OMGEEEEEEE that hoe was uglyyyyy a damn grenade !!! i was like wtf y her??? instead of upgading men downgrade!!!
angi8456 1 year ago 2
i love this song lol it made me cry the first time i heard this song.... powerful song!!
MelRockzHerSockzxxx 1 year ago
she can sing good
DEZABRE 1 year ago
Omq Ily Moni ( Monica ) Favv Sonq
godschildsinger 1 year ago
memories.........( tears )
boobee75 1 year ago
wow dis mii first tim hearin dis song an i love it
TheLatayia 1 year ago
i love this song...makes me cry everytimme i hear this song..it hurts when the one u sacrifice everything for mistreats u then u wonder how come u cant find no one to seattle dwn with....cause all the good ones are gone or torn apart
sparkle6092 1 year ago 2
i felt this one cuz it describes me in the past lls
2008kalima 1 year ago
I think everyone I know has asked this at one point and now its my turn.
Why Her?
What makes her so right?
LuvLiMi 1 year ago 2
-x- You did what you did it is what it is -x-
He hurt me bad why her?
cause shes just a sketty sl*g?
shes welcome to him cause i deserve better
-x- ive learned not to worry about them cause that shit was built on a lie-x-
why him? cause i dont want him now : )
Hope he hurts her as bad as he hurt me ...
be strong girls : ) cant get through anything you want if you be strong
im finally getting over
itsmoix 1 year ago
I listen to this song when my boy friend started to like this other gurl I thought to myself and asked him why her? and well he didnt really know, it hurt so bad because I fell for him, and I loved him and love him still...
azaingurl12 1 year ago 5
@azaingurl12 man i feel ya forreal
DADDYBOOGUL 1 year ago
why her why her..!! yu culd of told yu wasnt happy yu wasnt satisfied wwe culd of work it out mayb we culd of tries but yu didnt say nothin..!! luv dhis song..!!!
babygoon16 1 year ago
i told myself im a stop crying over niggas like jay z said on 2 the next one
kymheartschris 1 year ago
dis reminds me of wat im going through now...i dont c y people even cheat on sumone dey claim their in love wit and y would dey give up sum dey had 4 at least a year and then let sumone they jus met mess up sum good...and they realise wat they had and then try to get it back ....like they say.... DONT LEAVE THE ONE U LOVE FOR THE ONE YOU LIKE CUZ THE ONE U LIKE GONE LEAVE YOU FOR THE ONE THEY LOVE
BlackBarbi3dol 1 year ago 5
@BlackBarbi3dol OMG, IM GOIN THRU THE EXACT THING RITE NOW GIRL, WE BEEN OFF & ON 4 LIKE 2 YRS..DEN HE WENT OUT OF TOWN & HE BEEN THERE 4 A MONTH, & HIS GIRL CUZN HAD A FRIEND DAT LIKED HIM, & ALL OF SUDDEN THINGS WENT DOWN HILL. I MEAN U JUS MET HER, DNT 4GET WAT U GOT AT HOME!!!
mzred2424 1 year ago 3
Aww!! I dedicate this song to what i am goin thru right now:((
MzGhettoGrl 1 year ago
Damn Some Real Ass Shit!
MacDaddyJayNigga 1 year ago
i luv your video monica
aquarius2817 1 year ago
Im not going to say all men cheat,but I dont understand why do they cheat and once the main female move on and get a man that do treat them right they get upset like their feelings are so much more important than ours....Its crazy but its the truth sum men dont want a woman that can do for herself and that is down 4 him they want those weak minded females that they can have control of
ornyea 1 year ago 51
@ornyea LIKE THEY SAY U DON'T MISS A GOOD THANG UNTIL IT'S GONE.
196832007 1 year ago
@ornyea thats so real
tbabyslim16 1 year ago
@ornyea that is so true girl! i think they just like the idea of being in control when my bf was mad at me one time he told this girl that i really couldnt make it without him..it taught me alot about how he view me..im still with him but if he eva push me too far or cheat on me imma leave his ass and show him that yea i luv him to death and its that i just want him in my life i dnt need him! i let him think that tho so he can keep givin me everythin i want tho.
DADDYBOOGUL 1 year ago
@ornyea preach gurl that is so true !
601toya 1 year ago
AH NiqqA qONE BE AH NiqqA yU JUX qOTTA KEEP yO HEAD UP && DO yU BUT DEN AqAiN ALl NiqqAS AiNT DAWqS yU qOT SUM qUDD ONES DATS qONE KEEP iT REAL && AiNT BOUT qAMES!
teeteel123 1 year ago
DZ reminds me of me.haha but i wasint heart broken..but i fink he was....well he told me go owa tew his house..i was lyk k.we were awguds the days before but then when i gt there he had anada chik n da room.wat d fuk???so i walked owt n his brother just flew bk frm aussie...sitn n da siting room...so i fuked him and ma x walked in..da nxtt dae....goin mad.hahahahahaha take dat kunt........so yea he was shadod.........lolz.......so wat i sae do it ryt bak....it hurts them worser.str8 up..
backseatbanner 1 year ago
well i cant relate just yet....but i like the song just heard it yesterday i luv the hook why her!
brooklynzbestgirl 1 year ago
"i wipedd ya tears. i was there andd that's y this is hurtin mehh".. i love monicaa
10lightskin 1 year ago 6
U did wat u did!!!.... I can relate to this!!! they always put them first instead of thinking of us and our feelings!!! WHY HER??
janet2914 1 year ago 5
A friend once told me "girl don't leave your man... cause all men cheat".. I didn't want to believe her. Now I know better... now I just date and won' t get serious... what's the point?
spiceychef16 1 year ago 6
not all guys cheat...
my dad never cheated on my mum,
my brother never cheated on his girlfriend... don't get that impression.
aussiechickloveslife 1 year ago 8
yeah my bro-in-law is extremely faithful to my sister, and my uncle has never cheated on my auntie in ALL THE YEARS that they've been together, so yeah don't think like that. mayeb your friends is just choosing all the worng guys...
lollipop2992 1 year ago 4
fuck every cheatn/lien ass guy!...dey can kiss our ass.. cuuz were to good for them...move on theres plenty of guys out there :] fuckk him
n8tivegerl 1 year ago 5
I really love dis song its so personal I feel every word
qeshia7 1 year ago 7
WHY HER? I felt like dis once. Why do men feel dey don't have 2 tell a woman how they feel but seem to find comfort with another breaking hearts along da way? This is sum TRUE SHIT!! I love dis song!
Juicy2306 1 year ago 82
@Juicy2306 yea ii feel it
90sbabyokay 1 year ago
@Juicy2306 Good Question...Wish I knew the answer... They expect women to pour out their hearts.... BUT KARMA is a bad mother...you get what ya give in this life... I LOVE THIS SONG TOO!!!
MsCupCake1980 1 year ago
@Juicy2306 OMG U R SO RITE....
mzred2424 1 year ago
@Juicy2306 guh u know this izz TRUE dizz my lil black 100000 boo
KickSquad2929 1 year ago
i agree they always wanna go for those ones that they can control and have them do watever they.
jaydaj2010 1 year ago
Oh, I can relate.
domleah1987 1 year ago 5
I LOVE THIS SONG
HYDEIA4 2 years ago 3
i ask my boy friend why her
TheKANAYA09 2 years ago 6
damn.... so many memories i love dis song!
24thick 2 years ago 5
U Stole My Name.! im Glad Im Named After A Celeberty.! That Can Sing.!
1998lovablegirl 2 years ago
ooo this brinqs back memories hmm i love this sonq!
ShaeEasy74k 2 years ago
love it
shadaye0429 2 years ago 4
dhiz mii s0nq.
kishaunaboo13 2 years ago 2
u can tell this song came from da heart. she spoke sum true shit...
shygirl325 2 years ago 4
very smart.msfalisa. I agree. I found a more reliable and 100% more honest man after heart breakt.
Iamlovelee 2 years ago
this that crying song....
gypie88 2 years ago 4
really looove this song yo
ushergrl 2 years ago
so right aint gonna last what goes around comes around fellows
rodymaxin 2 years ago 2
im lookin at this bitch n im still wondering y her.... thank god for monica u take the words rite outta my mouth
ddmfg25 2 years ago 5
This is one song that I can jus listen to over n over again because I have been threw it before but I really love this song she put her foot n this one
Tkearney1986 2 years ago
If there is anyone out there going through a situation where your man left you 4 another, I know you're hurting, but step outside of yourself and look within and accept the situation for what it is, and do what you got to do to move on. Please don't sleep with him, or ask him back. Cut off all communication with him if possible. Try not to focus on the good times you had, but think of what he's doing to you now. YOU ARE NOT WHO OR WHAT HE WANTS TO BE WITH. Find love and peace within.
msfalisa 2 years ago 5
DATZ SO TRU
SmashingHeadz 2 years ago
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love this songgg!! =)
Lovebugg130 2 years ago
love dis song!! dont blame yourself if you gave your all then fuck them, in the end they will want you back when they realize what they had
dwat2043 2 years ago 7
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rashard418 2 years ago
why does everybody have to put their life story on these comments? lol
TootieBadess 2 years ago 6
@TootieBadess its alot of people out there hurting and maybe it makes them feel better to talk about there story. and you could be the one to offer some good advice to them. I must admit I put my story out there and somone gave me some blunt but heipful advice.
msfalisa 2 years ago
ughhhh so in love with this song!!!!!!!! SO TRUE!!!!!
msVsecRet09 2 years ago
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ICANDIGUOUT 2 years ago
i love this song. I had to play if for my best friend b/c i couldnt understand why was with his baby mama when she was so cheating on him. he was cheating too but I couldnt understand y he didnt leave. to this day he still with her and i've moved on and couldnt have made a better move.
RoyaleTrouble 2 years ago
beautiful song
ICANDIGUOUT 2 years ago 2
this how i feel!
yANAB0o 2 years ago
ooh im feeling this
tranesegotit 2 years ago 2
great song!!!!!
pinkygirlX 2 years ago 2
Use 2 relate to this song but i thnk i stl can.... Always use to make me cry...
crazyrena07 2 years ago 2
I think a lot of people can relate to this song
Prettyeyez412 2 years ago 5
man i was wid my ex for a year and 6months and he cheated on and off for most of it the final straw was when he got another girl pregnant on me now he wants me back and i would never go back becuz i have to much resentment towards him and he would never change i was jus eye candy!!!
amlsco05 2 years ago 8
i feel ya! its crazyy when you love and hate someone at the same time.
kaybaby112 2 years ago
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i really like this video
beaniefantini 2 years ago
ive been with my babys daddy foralmost 2 yrs.. den wen i had our kid he start fukn around on me.. n i gave him so many chances n yeht i tok him bak.. now we dont even talk r nething.. fukk whut a waste of my TIME...i wish my true love hunter wulda never moved away n shit wulda been different...hate my babys daddy for choosn a ho over me n his kid... :(
n8tivegerl 2 years ago 6
i guess i am learning alot just by reading ur comment bc my boyfriend has been begging me to give him a son and i want to bc i tell myself maybe he will do rite then but i see now that hell he is cheatin now he will definitely cheat then bc i will be completely occupied...im glad i havent had a child for him..we have always planned to get married in about 5 yrs but its so funny bc i am having 2nd thoughts now about my middle and high school sweetheart......
DADDYBOOGUL 2 years ago 3
Its is so true they Have sum thing good but rather leave it all for the trashes girls and then want to come back when it didn't work!!!!!!!!!!!!! After they had they fun and left you in the cold...............But they always come back thou. So its your turn to leave them in the cold.
Pradagirl245 2 years ago 2
you are so rite..my bf left me for his ex which still really hurts everytime i see his face bc out of all females i keep asking myself why her hell?out of all bitches why her?we are back 2getha tho i love that boy and i just couldnt be w/out him..everybody deserve a 2nd chance tho u kno...
DADDYBOOGUL 2 years ago
@DADDYBOOGUL is he doing better now. No more cheating?
msfalisa 2 years ago
not that i know of..we actually spend so much time together like crazy it irritates me sometimes but it could just be a cover up dont really know you know i can just only hope its not
DADDYBOOGUL 2 years ago 3
they always end up leaving an 80 for a 20 its never worth it in the end :)
valshower 2 years ago 11
i feel u
aquarius2817 1 year ago
def can relate 2 dis song...
MszOutstanding425 2 years ago 3
ii MeaN ii FeLL FoR HiiZ TRiiCKz N DiiDNT eVeN ReaLiiZ iiT........iiT HurT...BuT ii HaD Ta TaKe iiT LiiK a G!!!!
DASHIAHARDY560574 2 years ago 4
they just always kno the rite things to say to always get us back too.
DADDYBOOGUL 2 years ago
YuH aiiNT NeVa LyiiN
DASHIAHARDY560574 2 years ago
i Really like this song
Molly4902 2 years ago 2
Favorite Song off that album.
Lilmomma3119 2 years ago
oh em gee it mad me cry
shanyanna 2 years ago 3
this song is therapeutic. its really helping me to move on with my life. i dated a cheater too.
MsNekky 2 years ago 10
smh..me too..took me a year to get pass my ex..but like a wise friend told me..either u forget 3 years..or waste 3 more...=)
brittshanae 2 years ago 3
i want to move on but i just dont think i can we have been 2getha 2 long
DADDYBOOGUL 2 years ago 4
i feel ya!! but time does not stand still and before you know it your youth will be gone and you still will have nothing but woulda, shoulda, couldassss REGRET!!
fnlmjl1 2 years ago
@DADDYBOOGUL you can never say what you dont think you cant do have faith and believe in yourself
tbabyslim16 1 year ago
This song helps. He still can't answer why he chose her. he still tells me that he don't feel the things wit her that he did wit me. well that's his loss
ReeseBaby06 2 years ago 5
i know i will mack it with out u even if it do hurt me but u wonted her and not me so this song goes 2 u u know who u is
deja11ful 2 years ago 2
i was with her for 2yrs and she just left me n couldnt tell me y she had left me soooooooooooooooo i move on n now she wonts me back but it not gone happen
mzrainbowgurl 2 years ago 5
<33
x3MiSSMiNNDAA 2 years ago
this is actually funny... i never heard this song... until my lil sister thats 14 said listen to this song.. it will help u get thru it... lol.. its just crazy my lil sister gave me a song that spoke to me...... thanks lil sis
just wanna say to the guy.. u know who u r.. u chose her.. now live it up.. cuz im movin on.. n thru the pain n thru the tears ill come out on top..
MizKnown08 2 years ago 5
Its funny how a man leaves u when things are bad . Then, wants to come back when you have fought through all the hell an shit peachy again, WHY?
plutark77 2 years ago 2
beautiful and real song......a toutes les femmes ki l on vecu et ki on souffert.
ciumesxm 2 years ago
i luvv dis song
kojdesgirlz 2 years ago
i lub dis song
erikaxxx 2 years ago
man i gave him 7yrs and a son and i continued to get cheated on
dmarion3 2 years ago 3
hey love hurts and then you heal and when you do you become strong.
juicyfriut2poohbear 2 years ago 4
I can relate to this song soo much!
1breakfastattiffanys 2 years ago
after 2 years together my ex left me for some chick he just met. This song helped me get through it. Love this song. Everytime i hear i it remember that pain
ReeseBaby06 2 years ago
This song is so real i helped my daughter father so much and he left me for another woman who wasnt there when he had nothing his family even turned on me and lied on me for this girl he been with for 2 months and me and him got years
Lina1693 2 years ago 3