i have lied about things like when my fiends inite me to pictures or to goo out for a night out isay im ill or im away not all the ime but i will do anything to avoid the phobia i think they know i lie sometimes and to be honest the dont care and thats true so why m i even saying this when no one cares really
@BigK5041 No you can't prevent it, most likely shes had it since childhood and its somewhat of a addiction and you can't just stop. She would need to first admit she has a probably and go to a theropist and it would be hard work to stop. Compulsive liars lie about so many things no matter how big or small. If she was in traffic for a hour she would tell you she was in it for 3 hours, she'd lie about what she ate that day, etc.. There somewhat mentally ill.
I do it all the time to. When I'm around my friends I make up people and places I've seen, or things I've done or things I own. Around my family I actually make up stuff about my friends, or what I've been talking to them about. Just to extend a conversation and make myself seem interesting. I have confessed once, to a guy I really like...he hates lying so things are weird between us now...I don't know what to do. Telling them (or him) the truth hurts, but lying makes it worse. So, any advice?
@TheAnimeExpert93 Chances are they no or suspect it. Family/friends or people who are around u enough catch on to the 'lies/exagerrations. I had a ''friend'' She has been lieing for as long as i can remember and soo many people know, not just myself and i've humored her lies no matter how big/small they were. confronting a friend whos a compulsive liar would be awkward for the both of us lol, i stopped being friend w.her cuz i dont see her getting help anytime soon and i cant deal anymore.
@OrrzieProductions Most people white lie so others don't worry about yourself. This is OK. When you lie constantly about nothing then it shows you are not trustworthy.
I recently became friends with my best friend and just because we didn't hang out before he made up an entire life story, saying he's from Austrailia and he has kids, and his age/grade/family/life/ everything, idk what to do, he's a good kid but I can't stand the lies.
I lie and make up stories to my boyfriend...probably since I'm afraid of him leaving or forgetting about me. I've been doing it for months and he hasn't found out yet..which makes it even more tempting. Last night I called him crying because I told him that I had a nightmare where I was drowning because someone was holding me underwater (which never happened) so I got him to stop his paper and comfort me..and now I feel bad
What I did its made a paper of every lie i remember, and then write 1 or two pluses depending on how serious it was, 2 at the most. Then i bought a spiked wristband and wrote on the inside "never lie again" to remind me not to compulsively lie. I dont want to add more to that list so I think this works. lol and this is actually true.
my buddy at work is a complusive liar, he says stuff about the places he's been and the things he's done but i feel bad when ever i question him about it cuz he's my friend and all. :(
@circusfreak777 i had a friendd like that...now hes in the past..i will never tollerate lieing again.he bullshits about everything and anything even to his friend that has known him for years...i ended being a friend with that person...good luck to u!
@MizzDevina06 I'm tring to change to. check out hyptalk on youtube. She talks about being your word. It'll scare you into changing your ways. Everything you say is recorded. Everything.
im a Compulsive Lying i don't know why i do it i jst catch my self doing it all the time n sometimes i dont even remember what was i lying about.. my life its jst a lye.. n i didnt know i had a problem
The first step is facing up to it. Compulsive lying can develop into a habit and all habits can be changed. The next step is to do something about it so my advice is to go and find someone experienced in dealing with this. Hypnotherapy is one option, but there are others. Do a local Google search and see what you come up with.
@JustBeWell i am a very compulsive liar and i am tired oof hurting every one around me and im tierd of lying to my the people i love it needs to stop i need ur help
Yes, very funny BobbySue, and in fact it is important to treat things lightly, as well as seriously, but getting someone to stop compulsive lying can be one of the most important changes in their life. There are many trained therapists worldwide who can help people get back in control of their thinking and feeling. We do NLP and hypnotherapy but many approaches can work. The important thing is to find someone with loads of experience to help you. Best Wishes
i have lied about things like when my fiends inite me to pictures or to goo out for a night out isay im ill or im away not all the ime but i will do anything to avoid the phobia i think they know i lie sometimes and to be honest the dont care and thats true so why m i even saying this when no one cares really
marc09676 2 months ago in playlist More videos from JustBeWell
My Ex-GF was an compulsive liar that why i'm watching this video today to see if I could have prevented this in our relationship.
BigK5041 4 months ago
@BigK5041 No you can't prevent it, most likely shes had it since childhood and its somewhat of a addiction and you can't just stop. She would need to first admit she has a probably and go to a theropist and it would be hard work to stop. Compulsive liars lie about so many things no matter how big or small. If she was in traffic for a hour she would tell you she was in it for 3 hours, she'd lie about what she ate that day, etc.. There somewhat mentally ill.
YelimRay 3 months ago
I do it all the time to. When I'm around my friends I make up people and places I've seen, or things I've done or things I own. Around my family I actually make up stuff about my friends, or what I've been talking to them about. Just to extend a conversation and make myself seem interesting. I have confessed once, to a guy I really like...he hates lying so things are weird between us now...I don't know what to do. Telling them (or him) the truth hurts, but lying makes it worse. So, any advice?
TheAnimeExpert93 4 months ago
@TheAnimeExpert93 Chances are they no or suspect it. Family/friends or people who are around u enough catch on to the 'lies/exagerrations. I had a ''friend'' She has been lieing for as long as i can remember and soo many people know, not just myself and i've humored her lies no matter how big/small they were. confronting a friend whos a compulsive liar would be awkward for the both of us lol, i stopped being friend w.her cuz i dont see her getting help anytime soon and i cant deal anymore.
YelimRay 3 months ago
bethesda does this well
borgtrek7 5 months ago
@OrrzieProductions Most people white lie so others don't worry about yourself. This is OK. When you lie constantly about nothing then it shows you are not trustworthy.
marvelous211 6 months ago
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marvelous211 6 months ago
I recently became friends with my best friend and just because we didn't hang out before he made up an entire life story, saying he's from Austrailia and he has kids, and his age/grade/family/life/ everything, idk what to do, he's a good kid but I can't stand the lies.
xCoD4z 8 months ago
I know two people like this they are very anoying
DHREVOLUTION 9 months ago
if this can help then people should get it done being cheated on and lied to can be soul destroying and mess up lifes
GGGD123 9 months ago
what if they way i look is a lie,what do i do then? [plastic surgery]
TheProductofsociety 10 months ago
I lie and make up stories to my boyfriend...probably since I'm afraid of him leaving or forgetting about me. I've been doing it for months and he hasn't found out yet..which makes it even more tempting. Last night I called him crying because I told him that I had a nightmare where I was drowning because someone was holding me underwater (which never happened) so I got him to stop his paper and comfort me..and now I feel bad
12ewatki 11 months ago
stopy lying sir.
willem161 1 year ago
What I did its made a paper of every lie i remember, and then write 1 or two pluses depending on how serious it was, 2 at the most. Then i bought a spiked wristband and wrote on the inside "never lie again" to remind me not to compulsively lie. I dont want to add more to that list so I think this works. lol and this is actually true.
N64N64N64 1 year ago
How is one person sure that they are a Compulsive lair?
xxfersurebabexx 2 years ago
my buddy at work is a complusive liar, he says stuff about the places he's been and the things he's done but i feel bad when ever i question him about it cuz he's my friend and all. :(
circusfreak777 2 years ago
@circusfreak777 i had a friendd like that...now hes in the past..i will never tollerate lieing again.he bullshits about everything and anything even to his friend that has known him for years...i ended being a friend with that person...good luck to u!
TTkraazy 1 year ago
thanks! i work with him 3 days a week and thats all the further i see him but he's still at it.
circusfreak777 1 year ago
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MizzDevina06 2 years ago 2
@MizzDevina06 I'm tring to change to. check out hyptalk on youtube. She talks about being your word. It'll scare you into changing your ways. Everything you say is recorded. Everything.
FreeMobileNetwork 2 years ago
@MizzDevina06 Your a liar.
csrtitus 1 year ago
My former best friend and me got into a fight and now she keeps lying to get people on her side.
Like saying that I called her mom fat and saying that she's stupid and I swear to god himself I never said that.
I just dont know what to do.
Help me, Doc?
littlelezlo123456789 2 years ago
im a Compulsive Lying i don't know why i do it i jst catch my self doing it all the time n sometimes i dont even remember what was i lying about.. my life its jst a lye.. n i didnt know i had a problem
01jassi 2 years ago 3
The first step is facing up to it. Compulsive lying can develop into a habit and all habits can be changed. The next step is to do something about it so my advice is to go and find someone experienced in dealing with this. Hypnotherapy is one option, but there are others. Do a local Google search and see what you come up with.
JustBeWell 2 years ago 2
@JustBeWell i am a very compulsive liar and i am tired oof hurting every one around me and im tierd of lying to my the people i love it needs to stop i need ur help
MrJoshua69ist 1 year ago
same with me.
XxXxlovexXxX132 2 years ago
@01jassi can you plz tell me how it happen the first place?
Msmmyeahmm 1 year ago
If I say I think this is great will anyone really believe me??
bobbysue1zx 3 years ago 5
Yes, very funny BobbySue, and in fact it is important to treat things lightly, as well as seriously, but getting someone to stop compulsive lying can be one of the most important changes in their life. There are many trained therapists worldwide who can help people get back in control of their thinking and feeling. We do NLP and hypnotherapy but many approaches can work. The important thing is to find someone with loads of experience to help you. Best Wishes
JustBeWell 3 years ago