How to Get Over a Relationship - 7 Tips for Getting Over a Relationship

[Theman0711]

Your good

[bobflipinHHH]

a little after i completed my two year anniversary with my boyfriend, i had to find out on my that he was cheating on me with a much attractive female for the last 5 months. She confronted me and made me feel totally humiliated, by bragging about how they met, what they are going to do with their lives like getting married and starting a family.I tried to handle the situation in a grown up manner,but this girl just practically threw it in my face.i feel awful,my hope of him coming back died.

[Kabiroff1]

Thank you so much for posting this. You have brought my spirits up.

[ManiSingMusic]

u talk to Much Dude.

[CelticReject]

In your 2 different ways of handling a partners habits that annoy you. I understand them both. However, there is another way in which people 'cope' with these things. Some people, bury it all. They don't do a) talk and discuss, and they don't do b) lash out and shout. They do c) Bury it deep, never talk about it and get really really resentful! Just my 2 cents worth ;-)

[CelticReject]

@CelticReject This was my way with my most recent relationship.... which is now in its death throes. This suggests that I avoid confrontation, dislike/fear arguments, Lack proper communication skills, Have little faith in a relationships inherent strength to bear the weight of criticism, I'm very critical and unforgiving of others idiosyncrasies, I have anger issues. In fact I'm pretty screwed up! lol

[HowToGetOverYourEx]

@CelticReject - lol well i'm glad you're having all these realizations. i don't think you're screwed up. you just have unsupportive patterns that screw up relationships. youre now becoming aware of these patterns and now its up to you to change them. check out my video on anger too, i think that may be helpful for you.

[HowToGetOverYourEx]

@CelticReject - thats definitely true. i didnt mention that one in this video, though i talk about it in 1 of the chapters in my book. suppression is one of the worst because it eats you alive until you finally end it and you never even really brought it to the surface and gave it a chance to work. your partner ends up being confused and driving themselves nuts about why it ended and how it got all just fall apart overnight out of the blue when in reality it was a long time coming.

[CelticReject]

@HowToGetOverYourEx Very true.

[chadmathias]

my girlfriends just split up with me after a few months over a text, she's just totally shut me out of her life, wants nothing to do with me, it's soo hard to just try and forget and to move on, if anyone could give me some advice I'd really appreciate it, thanks x

[CheerboyHEAT]

@chadmathias If she ever talks to you dont reply. Give it a few months until you talk again. being friends after a break up is never a good idea.

[Loopysquish]

What if you only blame yourself for your break up and you can't find a way to forgive yourself for the mistakes you made? =.(

I'm analysed my break up from every which way and I'm trying to learn from it. But I still can't forgive myself. =.(

[bitchkick]

You're so right, im always need to stalk him on facebook. Its like a drug but the truth is that i just can't get over him... i don't know what to do, i feeling crazy! Im just frustrated, he moved on faster than me and me i still there... its hard!

[1980sas1]

@bitchkick look i can really help u out hear trust me

[bitchkick]

You're so right, im always need to stalk him on facebook. Its like a drug but the truth is that i just can't get over him... i don't know what to do, i feeling crazy!

[blingblang1988]

thanks bro

[xCTaylor7x]

@johnniefive80 dang man thats lousy. Four years is alot of time put into a relationship and for her to just back out that has to suck. Well I'm over my ex now so it isnt even a big deal anymore I realize that I have better things to do then try to talk to her. Keep your head up

[xCTaylor7x]

@HowToGetOverYourEx so like my girl tried to tell me i didnt love her when it was her tht didnt like me. After she broke up with me in a text, i was mad but now i am beginning to miss her. All i wanna do is get over this girl what shud i do?

[johnniefive80]

@xCTaylor7x we're in the same bought dawg....i envy you though, mine ignored me for two days then she cried and begged me not to go, but i had to, my family was excited to see me again, told her i'd come back in a month or sooner...she told me every day for a week she just wanted me to come home, then she changed her mind and this was after four years of being together. i know exactly how you feel.

[Mortile1]

Aiight u know if she likes me as much as her friends tell me she does than if I get her jealous by goin out wit her best friend she might come and don't worry I know u gonna be like that's messed up but ima wait til she breaks up wit me

[HowToGetOverYourEx]

unfortunately, i can't read her mind & tell you what she wants you to do. you said your friend asked her out... is he dating her now? either way, i recommend you move on, focus on your own life & date other women. shes involved with someone else & wont be open to anything while shes in a relationship. and if she is, thats not the type of woman youd want to be with anyways. save yourself the stress and drama of trying to figure this girl out and move on. if anything, itll make her want you more.

[Mortile1]

Actin cooler * anyway I don't know what's goin on she is going like nothin happened she been staring at me often she been playin 2 many games with me I just wanna know wats going on if she is waiting for me to fight for her or something pls help me

[Mortile1]

So I liked this girl in school once my best friend found out he asked her out than the next day when I went to ask her out unaware he did it she said "sorry I gotta boyfriend" after that she been akin cooler around me knowing I like her

[Mortile1]

What I'm about to ask u is not involving breakups I just need advise