@cheeseisniceable nonsence , some people stay attractive , some people get ugly but it completly depends on so many things , Diet , Sleep routine , Stress , How often you drink and excersize , the hot and cold enviroments they can both affect your skin , smoking makes you wrinkled , the list could go on and on :D
u know what, plain n straight ..god bought u in this world for a reason and that is why he made you .. so dont curse around live like der is no tomorow cuz u only got one life .. so iv u know what ur worth of then go get what ur worth of..
The blonde girl doesn't realize how good she's got it. When the shit hits the fan one day and her entire face gets burned up, THEN she will realize she had it made and was a beautiful woman all this time and by that time it'll be too late (I hate to say this). By the way I've approached women that were less attracted then her so she definitely at least average to above average looking.
This last girl is actually really pretty! What do people do this to themselves? It's so sad!
If you feel good about yourself then others will feel good about you! Trust me! I'm an average looking girl and there are certain days that I hate the way I look but I have embraced my flaws and now people like me for what I am! It's THAT simple! I wish all people could see it this way... life is too small to worry about things like an average appearance! Live your life!
Well if she looks like a man i must say its a special beautiful man- not someone i have seen before. The girl is beautiful even so beautiful she could be a model. No you are not ugly at all thats for sure. It is all in your mind its a physcological aspect.
i don't mean to offend, but when i saw this girls face i shouted "OH F-CK YOU" she's SO pretty! what the hell if i was half as pretty as most of the people on here I'd be happy
I've been reading these comments for the past 3 parts and I think people could be a little insensetive, it's a PSYCHOLOGICAL DISORDER for crying out loud, you can actually be the most physically beautiful person in the world but your mind won't make that connection.
I'm a thai guy, i'm just love the way you guys are (western), and i love how you guys have such natural beautifulness; and i don't see anyone here ugly at all. ; )
Use your energy towards curing cancer or helping a child who doesn't have a mum instead of wasting it on the superficial pursuit of looking like a super model. What if you really were ugly??!!? SO WHAT. You can still make meaningful contributions to the world no matter what you look like. You're terrified that other people are going to judge you for how you look but you are doing EXACTLY what you don't want others to do. Rise above the superficiality and get a life please.
@acoolbean1 These people aren't being vain. They have a disorder. Part of the reason they feel so ashamed and often don't seek help is because they know they will be judged for being 'superficial' when it's really the opposite. This girl doesn't want to look like a supermodel, she has a mental illness that causes her to see a skewed image of herself, leading to intense feelings of worthlessness and self hatred. Once again, it's an illness. Not vanity.
A quick question.. Or two.. Can this illness get cured?and did i have it? I felt so uggly that i didnt go out for 3years.. I mean those friends i had,mostly guys, told me i was pretty. But i actually just saw that fat uggly girl in the mirror. Putting make up on didnt help. I pushed away my friends by refuse to go to parties or restaurants,or coffeeplaces or well out at all. I only was outside the door when my dog needed to go. But my parent had to walk him, bc i couldnt. But i also have posttds
This gets me pissed!! There is actual people with this disorder who actually refused to been seen ((I actually know someone with this disorder)).. While this desperate fame seeker wants the whole world to see her!!
@AliceBoceanu4Yaoi well said.some people have real problems and others cry because they think they are ugly. something about the girl tells me she just wants attention
@ashleyhat You are a TROLL!! This is the 2nd nasty comment of yours on this series. I don't know what you look like on the outside but you're extremely ugly INSIDE!!! take your disgusting nasty comments elswhere!! Bully!!!
People. This is a serious mental illness, not just people whining thinking they're ugly. You can even loosely tell a difference between people with bad self-esteem and BDD by whether they think they're even fit to be a part of society. Hiding yourself away every day and having no life and no job and no friends? Nobody would choose that just because they're sad about their looks. This is serious.
this im ugly thing is just an excuse, they just have bog standard anxiety imo. the im ugly crap is just an extra barrier between themselves and dealing with the issue
They're all so beautiful, with blue or green eyes and blonde. I'm so ugly with brown dirt colored eyes and brown ugly hair with ugly white skin and ugly EVERYTHING. I wish I could just go to sleep and never wake up again.
It's funny how the first thing she says is "I hate my eyes" because the first thing I thought when she popped up on the screen was "oh my god she has the prettiest eyes!"
Lol, as a person who is genuinely ugly, and who has been told to my face many times that I am, I understand what these people are going through. But, the problem I'm having here is that I know these people are NOT ugly. they're not perfect but who is? And I think people place too much emphasis on such things in this day and age, it's caused people to consider themselves to be human garbage because they never feel they measure up, they never feel worth anything in the realm of human sexuality.
I did go through a time where it effected my school. I not only felt I had to conceal myself but also that I felt this way about myself because I knew the frame of mind itself was unattractive. It was totally nutso...I was an empty person then.
I'm pretty sure I had this in high school. I remember it being hellish but knowing it was out of control narcissism. I had to force myself to stop wearing makeup. It was very hard at first. But now I'm 26 and I think I look better with a natural look. I don't wear any makeup at all because I like the way my bare face looks. It's a persons countenance that makes them attractive more than physical beauty anyway
How do you think someone with BDD would react if a large group of people told her that they were ugly? They seem to fear social situations because they're scared that people will treat them like the elephant man, so what would happen if people did overreact to that extent?
some people don't understand what it is like for the sufferer. The psychological pain is very real and unless you are in that person's shoes, you can't actually give a negative comment. Yes, she is very pretty but the issue is actually more to do with her mental state and self-esteem, not just the image everyone sees in front of us. The mind is powerful and strong. Just because we can't 'see it' and it isn't '3rd world stuff' doesn't mean this is less significant. Takes experience to understand.
I can totally identify with that girl, I could sit for hours putting on makeup and It's probably the best feeling I get all day when I cover everything up
@1jadeddoll she sees herself in the mirror differently than any of us does. a person does not see with their eyes, but with their brains interpreting the information. everything we see is colored by our past experiences and our brains. that applies to absolutely everything, not just to this rather superficial problem here but to important wordly matters as well.
LOOK AT THE SHOP KEEPER! POOR LAD! IF HE HAD BDD he would go in to the doctors office and be like ' i am really ugly' and the the doctor would go...'errrrrrrrrr'.....
As interesting as I find this, I can't help but notice how selfish these people are and how little concern they have on what is going on in the world around them that does not directly involve them thinking about people looking at them. It's a disease that's really a form of narcissism.
@CMR1188 It seems to be one of those things where you just have to be in their shoes in order to understand. I am sure they are concerned about how their situation affects others, but are helpless to break free of the control this disorder has over them. I imagine the negative affect this has on the people around them just ads to their feelings of guilt. I think using judgmental words like "selfish" is a mistake when referring to people with mental disorders.
@MissyJD94 Big ditto Miss. You're dead on. Someone once said if you really were in another's shoes, you'd do exactly as they have done because you are in their shoes. It's helped me not to judge because after all who am I to say anything? It also creates compassion. Something to teach our children so they can be sweeter people.
@MissyJD94 I think I can understand these people cause I went through the same thing for an extended period of my life. I didn't leave my room and I tried killing myself. I get over all that without help and that's why I think I can comment on this. These people choose everyday to keep living like this or just get over it. There's no other choice and I'm glad I was so disgusted at my self-pity that it helped me to get over it. This is a psychological issue, not an illness
@user37818 I think it is very nice that you got over your problems without help. I totally commend your personal strength. One thing though, everyone is different. What will help you won't necessarily help someone else. I don't understand how you can say you went through the same thing. Obviously you don't have BDD. You don't even believe it's a real illness. There are people who may be reading this who have BDD and I don't think you should sneeze at their problems.
Why don't we stop trying to convince them that they are normal looking? If that's not what they see then that's not what they see. You need to help them accept them for who and what they believe they are and make them realize that there is more to life than their appearance. Take away those magazines, remove the mirrors out of their homes, and teach them to embrace another aspect of their life.
@MrShake77 HA! xD well, I've lived in England for 8 years, and I must say I strongly disagree. Geez... that's such an overstatement. Come live here for a while and you'll soon see what I'm talking about. :P
I hate going through tunnels on trains too, the lighting always makes everyone look really ill and odd looking, so i guess if you feel like this about yourself anyway it makes it worse.
@CannibalJeri i don't think they do.You see other people as they are- it's how u think THEY see YOU that's the problem.i say this coz i went through something similar when i was a kid.it wasn't about wanting to look like someone in a glossy magazine, but thinking that when people saw me they are repelled.you hide away because you don't want to deal with that rejection.I'm in my 20s n even though i do not consider myself unattractive now,I can still see it from their perspective
@upcycle shit man thats nothing its the imperfections that make people perfect, they give people character and a unique look and thats what is beautiful
@MrNellodee I think you have a valid point. I just think it is important to be truthful about the reality of what is seen. instead of pretending it doesn't exist, like what the host of this show does and even how the therapist does. It is about being honest about our bodies.. and what they are like.. good stuff and stuff that is not as attractive or however you want to call it. And with that, a person can either grow to accept it.. or make changes to it, like make up or even cosmetic surgery.
@eezysqueezy The emotional charge, IMHO, is probably from unresolved traumatic events that have emotionally embedded in the brain/mind and show as kind of PTSD symptoms like displayed in this doc.
@rinaXtokyo I think that sometimes what happens is that people have had an unresolved trauma which has become embedded in their emotional sensory memory banks of the brain/mind, which come in what I think is a kind of PTSD response to stimuli,
@MDCCCXCIV Definately the best way.. but the hardest. If you are scared to go out of your house, the best thing is to just get out there. The longer you stay inside the harder it is to go out.
@MDCCCXCIV I agree with you completly, but I think when someone is as deep as these people and as convinced as they are about their apperances, it would be incredibly difficult to simply stop worrying and get on with life.
@MDCCCXCIV well said there. u found early cure. and u're so damn right also. it's because how we see ourselves is by reflecting through other people. if you were the only person in the whole world you'd never bother to even comb your hair. it's not true that we do things to look good for ourselves, no matter how nice a silly concept that sounds like. too bad some people do not share such strong will and mind and let things escalate until there's no escape without a qualified psychiatrist
@upcycle she may or may not be amazing with or without make up.. except we did not see her without make up in this video.or without here hear covering her face or having her hair colored artificially etc.
i have been diagnosed with this. but, I thinkshe is absolutely GORGEOUS! I, myself,......am SSSSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO fucking ugly! i envy those with confidence. i cry everytime i have to look in the mirror (which is very rare) i don't think i have this. because i KNOW that I am actually HIDEOUS. she has it though.
Oh i was exactly the same when i was a teenager. but I guess it was just a phase I was going through because of puberty. So glad I'm through this. It's hard to learn love yourself
What's the reverse of this condition? You know, people who are butt fugly but think they're dead sexy? Is there such a thing, or is just an act born of insecurity or similar?
what is this amazing piano track?
pikul10 8 hours ago
LOL, I suffer from this disorder and the public transportation is SPOT ON for me as well.
idontloveducks 12 hours ago
I've heard people say that really pretty people get ugly when they're older and vise versa.
cheeseisniceable 1 day ago
@cheeseisniceable nonsence , some people stay attractive , some people get ugly but it completly depends on so many things , Diet , Sleep routine , Stress , How often you drink and excersize , the hot and cold enviroments they can both affect your skin , smoking makes you wrinkled , the list could go on and on :D
Mastah589 1 day ago
that girl is pretty
supercalifragilis18 1 day ago
okay that guy was fine
supercalifragilis18 1 day ago
the blonde girl is fucking hot! omg
RalphMuskinyaar 1 day ago
u know what, plain n straight ..god bought u in this world for a reason and that is why he made you .. so dont curse around live like der is no tomorow cuz u only got one life .. so iv u know what ur worth of then go get what ur worth of..
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The blonde girl doesn't realize how good she's got it. When the shit hits the fan one day and her entire face gets burned up, THEN she will realize she had it made and was a beautiful woman all this time and by that time it'll be too late (I hate to say this). By the way I've approached women that were less attracted then her so she definitely at least average to above average looking.
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This last girl is actually really pretty! What do people do this to themselves? It's so sad!
If you feel good about yourself then others will feel good about you! Trust me! I'm an average looking girl and there are certain days that I hate the way I look but I have embraced my flaws and now people like me for what I am! It's THAT simple! I wish all people could see it this way... life is too small to worry about things like an average appearance! Live your life!
Sho0tm3 5 days ago
I wished I looked like the last girl.
yvonneost12 5 days ago 3
I love her eyes
ShinyLunaToneLover 5 days ago 6
I have friends that would die for a gorgeous face like hers!
LittleRainbowMiss 5 days ago 2
Girl, don't you understand that there are ASIANS out there getting surgery to look like you?
rikuzxbf 5 days ago 2
That dr is hot!
MsPhoenixeyes 5 days ago
My god Ruth is so beautiful :)
lizvandort666 6 days ago 2
Attention whore.
gomunkul 1 week ago
shes gorgeous!
NinjaGinga636 1 week ago 4
Ruth is actually hot. I hope she sees this comment.
gadgetmanjay 1 week ago
I'll marry this girl. Make her feel beautiful everyday.
polengsantiago 1 week ago 3
@polengsantiago even if you did I doubt it would help much because it is a mental disorder
safenders 1 week ago
I love his voice.
polengsantiago 1 week ago
she's gorgeous even without the makeup ! :\ i wish i looked like her omg.
xashxbabex 1 week ago 2
But she's so so so so so pretty. Anyone else agree?
mollyislovely 1 week ago 2
She's actually really pretty.I wish she could realize that. :)
SandyInspired95 1 week ago in playlist Uploaded videos
I'd much rather look like her. I feel like the ugliest person alive and id take her looks over mine any day, I think she's stunning!
imanmjfanforever 2 weeks ago 3
Well if she looks like a man i must say its a special beautiful man- not someone i have seen before. The girl is beautiful even so beautiful she could be a model. No you are not ugly at all thats for sure. It is all in your mind its a physcological aspect.
globe255 2 weeks ago
Dear young man you are totally normal looking if you just would get rid of the marble on your chin -:)
globe255 2 weeks ago
she is beautiful
tatyades 2 weeks ago
FIRST WORLD PROBLEMS... That's all I have to say...
karlaecisneros 2 weeks ago 3
wtf, she's beautiful.
TheBgoz 2 weeks ago
that blonde girl is one of the most gorgeous people ive ever seen !
her eyes are stunning, jesus if i could look half as good as her. holy
GIRLSECKS 2 weeks ago
i don't mean to offend, but when i saw this girls face i shouted "OH F-CK YOU" she's SO pretty! what the hell if i was half as pretty as most of the people on here I'd be happy
LuvSasukeOrElse13 2 weeks ago
I've been reading these comments for the past 3 parts and I think people could be a little insensetive, it's a PSYCHOLOGICAL DISORDER for crying out loud, you can actually be the most physically beautiful person in the world but your mind won't make that connection.
horrorvictim 2 weeks ago 32
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Yeah... I'm not sure most understand that bit. The self portraits are so interesting, especially hers.
lavinder11 2 weeks ago
Ruth has the most amazing eyes. I wish *I* had eyes that shade and shape. I'd kill to look like her.
puff222001 2 weeks ago
That girl's eyes are so pretty though!
Breerox108 2 weeks ago
The blonde one is well fit to put it like a teenager
IsaacDeanMusic 2 weeks ago
I'm a thai guy, i'm just love the way you guys are (western), and i love how you guys have such natural beautifulness; and i don't see anyone here ugly at all. ; )
letsallgather 3 weeks ago
concealer can lessen the appearance of dark circles.
leekymkween 3 weeks ago
Use your energy towards curing cancer or helping a child who doesn't have a mum instead of wasting it on the superficial pursuit of looking like a super model. What if you really were ugly??!!? SO WHAT. You can still make meaningful contributions to the world no matter what you look like. You're terrified that other people are going to judge you for how you look but you are doing EXACTLY what you don't want others to do. Rise above the superficiality and get a life please.
acoolbean1 3 weeks ago
@acoolbean1 These people aren't being vain. They have a disorder. Part of the reason they feel so ashamed and often don't seek help is because they know they will be judged for being 'superficial' when it's really the opposite. This girl doesn't want to look like a supermodel, she has a mental illness that causes her to see a skewed image of herself, leading to intense feelings of worthlessness and self hatred. Once again, it's an illness. Not vanity.
Z12400 3 weeks ago 2
A quick question.. Or two.. Can this illness get cured?and did i have it? I felt so uggly that i didnt go out for 3years.. I mean those friends i had,mostly guys, told me i was pretty. But i actually just saw that fat uggly girl in the mirror. Putting make up on didnt help. I pushed away my friends by refuse to go to parties or restaurants,or coffeeplaces or well out at all. I only was outside the door when my dog needed to go. But my parent had to walk him, bc i couldnt. But i also have posttds
vera8611 3 weeks ago
if those eyes look like boys eyes then every boy in the world has really nice, really good shaped eyes :D
TiaRae101 3 weeks ago
Bullshit that blonde thinks she is ugly!!!
I bet she knows how pretty she is!@##$#@$
This gets me pissed!! There is actual people with this disorder who actually refused to been seen ((I actually know someone with this disorder)).. While this desperate fame seeker wants the whole world to see her!!
AliceBoceanu4Yaoi 3 weeks ago
@AliceBoceanu4Yaoi well said.some people have real problems and others cry because they think they are ugly. something about the girl tells me she just wants attention
touriaification 3 weeks ago
nevermind your eyes those teeth lol
ashleyhat 3 weeks ago
@ashleyhat You are a TROLL!! This is the 2nd nasty comment of yours on this series. I don't know what you look like on the outside but you're extremely ugly INSIDE!!! take your disgusting nasty comments elswhere!! Bully!!!
nopseudosleft56 3 weeks ago 2
I have BDD, and it really is like being imprisoned in your own body.
Petrasex 3 weeks ago
This blonde girl is well above average looking. Lovely skin, pouty lips, big blue eyes. It's just a shame she doesn't see it
CatLovesMakeup 3 weeks ago
she' so pretty! her boyfriend is a lucky guy ;)
wintertrine 3 weeks ago
@wintertrine ooh i dunno about that.if she were ur girlfriend and cried like that every day, eventually u would make a dash for it
touriaification 3 weeks ago
i feel like the last girl i cant leave my house without makeup, i refuse im ugly with out it i know it.
mysticnekoji 4 weeks ago
@mysticnekoji i dont see it as heavy makup either
mysticnekoji 4 weeks ago
But she's so gorgeous! ):
AprilEXTC 1 month ago
the blonde is a quite good actress ;)
Sprockification 1 month ago 2
She is one of the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. What happened to your heart? There is nothing to worry.
greenandsheep 1 month ago
People. This is a serious mental illness, not just people whining thinking they're ugly. You can even loosely tell a difference between people with bad self-esteem and BDD by whether they think they're even fit to be a part of society. Hiding yourself away every day and having no life and no job and no friends? Nobody would choose that just because they're sad about their looks. This is serious.
lotusfae 1 month ago 2
this im ugly thing is just an excuse, they just have bog standard anxiety imo. the im ugly crap is just an extra barrier between themselves and dealing with the issue
mikesomething 1 month ago
wtf this is SO sad. the blonde girl is so beautiful! :o
AMAZINGbabies 1 month ago
I'm actually jealous of that blond girl ....
kisskissink 1 month ago
I just learned something today. BDD's a bitch! All these people look more than fine! Thank god I don't have BDD.
donwooss 1 month ago
@donwooss Same here man. These ppl arent even ugly. too bad they have this disease.
Nagol98 1 month ago
She's gorgeous. It almost makes you want to slap her back to reality.
robthetreble23 1 month ago
my god, she looks like a model without her mascara! Very classy~ ^_^
hbanana7 1 month ago
They're all so beautiful, with blue or green eyes and blonde. I'm so ugly with brown dirt colored eyes and brown ugly hair with ugly white skin and ugly EVERYTHING. I wish I could just go to sleep and never wake up again.
PinkEyeliner353 1 month ago
this woman is beautiful. She has beautiful eyes, and shes got beautiful hair.
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degentrified 1 month ago
the blonde womans eyes are nice
bensimps123 1 month ago
It's funny how the first thing she says is "I hate my eyes" because the first thing I thought when she popped up on the screen was "oh my god she has the prettiest eyes!"
bmy8459 1 month ago
Jesus....I cant even use makeup to cover my face. These people have coping mechanisms, I do not.
CassieAnnaCary 1 month ago
dude..how cute is that guy??
marter2006 1 month ago
Lol, as a person who is genuinely ugly, and who has been told to my face many times that I am, I understand what these people are going through. But, the problem I'm having here is that I know these people are NOT ugly. they're not perfect but who is? And I think people place too much emphasis on such things in this day and age, it's caused people to consider themselves to be human garbage because they never feel they measure up, they never feel worth anything in the realm of human sexuality.
IsolationInstigation 1 month ago 33
Okay, these people are gorgeous. Man, I wish they'd see that.
XOSiren18XO 1 month ago
O___O The blonde girl is so hot. Wtf.
seventhsheaven 1 month ago
his pock marks prob look worse than his circles - no offense.
stevieVantanna 1 month ago
she's gorgeous!
LunaRebane 1 month ago
That blonde girl is pretty hot.
stevostevie 1 month ago
Obviously, they're all serious. They have an illness and my thoughts go out to them for their bravery!
TonjeMariEngen 1 month ago 3
I remember I knew it was starting to happen and I had to fight it tooth and nail or I would become something awful inside
hend6475 1 month ago 2
I did go through a time where it effected my school. I not only felt I had to conceal myself but also that I felt this way about myself because I knew the frame of mind itself was unattractive. It was totally nutso...I was an empty person then.
hend6475 1 month ago
I'm pretty sure I had this in high school. I remember it being hellish but knowing it was out of control narcissism. I had to force myself to stop wearing makeup. It was very hard at first. But now I'm 26 and I think I look better with a natural look. I don't wear any makeup at all because I like the way my bare face looks. It's a persons countenance that makes them attractive more than physical beauty anyway
hend6475 1 month ago 2
The blonde is genuinely PRETTY wthhhhh!
hypnotic26 1 month ago
The blond girl is so pretty wtf is she thinking!!!!!
rastabrains1995 1 month ago
Why don't they give these people some benzodiazepines?
OrthodoxDarwinist 1 month ago
she is soooooooo not ugly. shes actually pretty
missicecream1001 1 month ago
Ruth is so pretty! Her eyes are to die for!
Vermundorr 1 month ago
How do you think someone with BDD would react if a large group of people told her that they were ugly? They seem to fear social situations because they're scared that people will treat them like the elephant man, so what would happen if people did overreact to that extent?
HumanoidSparky 1 month ago
WTF?? I haven't seen ugly so far. These people haven't seen me. I'm ugly as a mutherfucker and I'm proud of it!
Chuckjagerdiver 1 month ago 99
@Chuckjagerdiver That's the point, they see themselves in a totally warped manner from normal people.
grace317 3 weeks ago
@Chuckjagerdiver that's why it is a disorder... it is not BDD if you are actually ugly..
BUKOPIE78 3 weeks ago
some people don't understand what it is like for the sufferer. The psychological pain is very real and unless you are in that person's shoes, you can't actually give a negative comment. Yes, she is very pretty but the issue is actually more to do with her mental state and self-esteem, not just the image everyone sees in front of us. The mind is powerful and strong. Just because we can't 'see it' and it isn't '3rd world stuff' doesn't mean this is less significant. Takes experience to understand.
CandyFros 1 month ago
I can totally identify with that girl, I could sit for hours putting on makeup and It's probably the best feeling I get all day when I cover everything up
TheCookiiesx 2 months ago
This blonde girl is beautiful, I wish she could see it!!!
MyBarbaricYAWP22 2 months ago
She is gorgeous! Absolutely gorgeous. It's sad that she can't see it.
MeyTheSkunk 2 months ago
OMG is this blonde girl serious???! She's very pretty!
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@1jadeddoll she sees herself in the mirror differently than any of us does. a person does not see with their eyes, but with their brains interpreting the information. everything we see is colored by our past experiences and our brains. that applies to absolutely everything, not just to this rather superficial problem here but to important wordly matters as well.
DonMega187 1 month ago
Oh my god, she's so beautiful. I'm not even lying..wow. HER EYES. I wanna give this girl a hug and....how can she think she's hideous?
imanmjfanforever 2 months ago
Wow, that girl has no clue, she's friggin gorgeous
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NorwegianMuslimGirl 2 months ago
@TheFinlandnator actually ive seen a lot of really ugly people who display confidence to the highest level.
watchWorld100 2 months ago in playlist 5h44h5
OMG!! she's absolutely gorgeous; if i met her at the street she would totally think i'm a frog..i kinda understand her feelings. It sucks
Fireblazer 2 months ago
dis so sooo funny dis ppl think theire ugly, but theire fuc*ing beautiful
thesomebody3 2 months ago
Her eyes are so beautiful! Such an amazing shade of green as well, like gems
xXAliceOpalXx 2 months ago
He actually looks like a guy I used to like.
user37818 2 months ago
LOOK AT THE SHOP KEEPER! POOR LAD! IF HE HAD BDD he would go in to the doctors office and be like ' i am really ugly' and the the doctor would go...'errrrrrrrrr'.....
timemastro 2 months ago
women having a phobia of not wearing makeup, who knew? lol
benjiboy111111 2 months ago
As interesting as I find this, I can't help but notice how selfish these people are and how little concern they have on what is going on in the world around them that does not directly involve them thinking about people looking at them. It's a disease that's really a form of narcissism.
CMR1188 2 months ago
@CMR1188 It seems to be one of those things where you just have to be in their shoes in order to understand. I am sure they are concerned about how their situation affects others, but are helpless to break free of the control this disorder has over them. I imagine the negative affect this has on the people around them just ads to their feelings of guilt. I think using judgmental words like "selfish" is a mistake when referring to people with mental disorders.
MissyJD94 2 months ago
@MissyJD94 Big ditto Miss. You're dead on. Someone once said if you really were in another's shoes, you'd do exactly as they have done because you are in their shoes. It's helped me not to judge because after all who am I to say anything? It also creates compassion. Something to teach our children so they can be sweeter people.
Songsmirth 2 months ago
@Songsmirth Voice of reason, there you are! Nice to hear from you. :)
MissyJD94 1 month ago
@MissyJD94 :) Thanks Missy. Songs
Songsmirth 1 month ago
@MissyJD94 I think I can understand these people cause I went through the same thing for an extended period of my life. I didn't leave my room and I tried killing myself. I get over all that without help and that's why I think I can comment on this. These people choose everyday to keep living like this or just get over it. There's no other choice and I'm glad I was so disgusted at my self-pity that it helped me to get over it. This is a psychological issue, not an illness
user37818 2 months ago
@user37818 I think it is very nice that you got over your problems without help. I totally commend your personal strength. One thing though, everyone is different. What will help you won't necessarily help someone else. I don't understand how you can say you went through the same thing. Obviously you don't have BDD. You don't even believe it's a real illness. There are people who may be reading this who have BDD and I don't think you should sneeze at their problems.
MissyJD94 1 month ago
Why don't we stop trying to convince them that they are normal looking? If that's not what they see then that's not what they see. You need to help them accept them for who and what they believe they are and make them realize that there is more to life than their appearance. Take away those magazines, remove the mirrors out of their homes, and teach them to embrace another aspect of their life.
CMR1188 2 months ago
She looks like a living doll. What would make someone so pretty believe they're not?
smrglblf 2 months ago
My goodness, this woman is a babe! Anyone who thinks this isn't a mental illness should look a this woman.
misstinwhistle1 2 months ago 3
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misstinwhistle1 2 months ago
I believe this issue is much worse in America...I always thought England was a more educated and open minded location...I believe it is...
MrShake77 2 months ago
@MrShake77 It has nothing to do with education or open mindedness. It's mental illness.
NeverDoubt1 2 months ago
@MrShake77 HA! xD well, I've lived in England for 8 years, and I must say I strongly disagree. Geez... that's such an overstatement. Come live here for a while and you'll soon see what I'm talking about. :P
xXSnowflakezXx 2 months ago
I hate going through tunnels on trains too, the lighting always makes everyone look really ill and odd looking, so i guess if you feel like this about yourself anyway it makes it worse.
TomK2k9 2 months ago
She's really very pretty.
WhiteN0iz 2 months ago
wow she is stunning absolutely gorgeous!
hoppyfingers 2 months ago 2
i can't help but consider that this illness may be a product of the high gloss marketing oriented photoshopped supermodel culture.
stopthesoftkill 2 months ago 5
she's so cute .___.
081294100 3 months ago
Its easier to pick out imperfections when your close to perfect.
anitawee 3 months ago
So thats how I can get a get a good looking gf......get one that thinks shes fugly
anitawee 3 months ago
she's beautiful, but i understand where she's coming from.
xchamitaxpunx38 3 months ago
What I wonder is if these people think average people are ugly ??
CannibalJeri 3 months ago
@CannibalJeri i don't think they do.You see other people as they are- it's how u think THEY see YOU that's the problem.i say this coz i went through something similar when i was a kid.it wasn't about wanting to look like someone in a glossy magazine, but thinking that when people saw me they are repelled.you hide away because you don't want to deal with that rejection.I'm in my 20s n even though i do not consider myself unattractive now,I can still see it from their perspective
vroxxzz 4 weeks ago
She's ADORABLE.
AvocadoAtrocity 3 months ago 2
She should thank God that she has a face. Some poor bastards have had it reconstructed after being shot in the face.
pelicanus11 3 months ago
holy shit id try so hard to be wit her
electronicchronic 4 months ago
@upcycle shit man thats nothing its the imperfections that make people perfect, they give people character and a unique look and thats what is beautiful
MrNellodee 4 months ago
@MrNellodee I think you have a valid point. I just think it is important to be truthful about the reality of what is seen. instead of pretending it doesn't exist, like what the host of this show does and even how the therapist does. It is about being honest about our bodies.. and what they are like.. good stuff and stuff that is not as attractive or however you want to call it. And with that, a person can either grow to accept it.. or make changes to it, like make up or even cosmetic surgery.
upcycle 4 months ago
@upcycle The problem with that is they may not actually need cosmetic surgery and yet will become obsessed with it, causing risks to their lives.
NeverDoubt1 2 months ago
She's gorgeous
HatersGonnaHate1000 4 months ago
attention seeking
yadayadaetcetc 4 months ago
@eezysqueezy The emotional charge, IMHO, is probably from unresolved traumatic events that have emotionally embedded in the brain/mind and show as kind of PTSD symptoms like displayed in this doc.
upcycle 4 months ago
@rinaXtokyo I think that sometimes what happens is that people have had an unresolved trauma which has become embedded in their emotional sensory memory banks of the brain/mind, which come in what I think is a kind of PTSD response to stimuli,
upcycle 4 months ago
i used to apparently have a "social phobia" but how i dealt with it was just be myself and not give a fuck about what others say
MDCCCXCIV 4 months ago 39
@MDCCCXCIV Definately the best way.. but the hardest. If you are scared to go out of your house, the best thing is to just get out there. The longer you stay inside the harder it is to go out.
Izahdnb 2 months ago
@MDCCCXCIV I agree with you completly, but I think when someone is as deep as these people and as convinced as they are about their apperances, it would be incredibly difficult to simply stop worrying and get on with life.
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DonMega187 1 month ago
@MDCCCXCIV well said there. u found early cure. and u're so damn right also. it's because how we see ourselves is by reflecting through other people. if you were the only person in the whole world you'd never bother to even comb your hair. it's not true that we do things to look good for ourselves, no matter how nice a silly concept that sounds like. too bad some people do not share such strong will and mind and let things escalate until there's no escape without a qualified psychiatrist
DonMega187 1 month ago
@DonMega187 yeah people should accept you for who you are not if you wear expensive clothes or have a fancy haircut.
MDCCCXCIV 1 month ago
ooh I like the Blonde one..
wisesatyr72 4 months ago
I have to wonder to what extent the celebrity culture is to blame for this disorder.
BumperMorgan 4 months ago
WOW she is soo beautiful and has amazing eyes
MrNellodee 4 months ago
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upcycle 4 months ago
@MrNellodee It's called make up. AKA as a "mask".
upcycle 4 months ago
@upcycle even without make up shes amazing
MrNellodee 4 months ago
@upcycle she may or may not be amazing with or without make up.. except we did not see her without make up in this video.or without here hear covering her face or having her hair colored artificially etc.
upcycle 4 months ago
@upcycle we do see her without make up in a later part.
MrNellodee 4 months ago
if she thinks that she looks ugly i wonder what she would think i look like
audveltadmuna 4 months ago
wow she is incredibly pretty!
cospi212 4 months ago
@cospi212 anyone that spends a few hours putting on make up or a "mask" can be made to look pretty.
upcycle 4 months ago
if there ugly i must look like a dead animal
Lara5995 4 months ago
they are all so beautiful inside and out
Lara5995 4 months ago
I wonder, if they had an artist draw them, as opposed to looking at photos or mirrors, would it give them a better insight to how others see them?
fragmentedbeauty 4 months ago
i have been diagnosed with this. but, I thinkshe is absolutely GORGEOUS! I, myself,......am SSSSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO fucking ugly! i envy those with confidence. i cry everytime i have to look in the mirror (which is very rare) i don't think i have this. because i KNOW that I am actually HIDEOUS. she has it though.
charleechafiare90 4 months ago
Oh i was exactly the same when i was a teenager. but I guess it was just a phase I was going through because of puberty. So glad I'm through this. It's hard to learn love yourself
iiCHiiMAN 4 months ago
What's the reverse of this condition? You know, people who are butt fugly but think they're dead sexy? Is there such a thing, or is just an act born of insecurity or similar?
mcdonsan 4 months ago
The only unattractive thing about these girls is all the whining and their self- pity.
68secretgarden 4 months ago
4:15 she is so beautiful!
aliSina47 5 months ago 3
@aliSina47 so so so beautiful! sorry, I had to get that out.... :p
aliSina47 5 months ago
@aliSina47 she is average and probably has some trauma(s) in the past that have not been dealt with which have perverted into this.
upcycle 4 months ago