Friends With Benefits Relationships! NSA Sex Buddies, Booty Calls or Not?

[datingadult101]

Awsome Short Video

[baggagequeen]

I think FWB is degrading. I shudder when I hear the words... Its not natural. Its equivalent to rejection. Not for me, no thanks. If a guy I thought was my man referred to me as a fuck buddy I would be so outta there.

[runtodahills]

@baggagequeen

it depends on the guy. if the guy is very attractive, then women consider such arrangements. also when they guy is beyond your league and you might not be able to get to him to commit you might consider a NSA relationship. its an advantage to women.

[MissObesityRehab]

I've never had a FWB, don't think it's beneficial if you're only attrated to interesting men. Hence attracted to men you wouldn't mind a relationship with...

[runtodahills]

@MissObesityRehab

FWB is something thats done with very goodlooking guys who wont easily commit. a woman can be ordinary looking but still have attractive men for FWS's.

[loveyoumillions]

IM SO CONFUSED

we r like bffs and bf gf but without the label............ with benefits

[misterpantybuns]

You look gorgeous. i have a couple of friends nut haven't done the benefits part in decades. How do people overcome their nervousness if they do want to get a little closer? i'd be really afraid of getting my feelings badly hurt when it ended. Is it okay to just be an incorrigible flirt?

[MegaSAUI]

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[aguteempasil]

omg, hot much?!?!

[TheSELFShow]

You my girl still!!!!.....lol

MO Stegall

[DivorcedDaniel]

There is no such thing as a "No Strings" relationship. There is always a cost

[Blackspott]

OMG!! x

[storysayer26]

NIce boobs. Got Milk?

[LostPlum]

great video with some great advise sexy! xo

[mixityourself]

you talk 2 damn much..i bet you cock sucking skills are horrible....

yeeah, yeeah,yeeah......

[Geezyone]

You are a gorgeous woman Abiola

[EXTRABLK]

You are simply a beautiful lady ;-)

[Whistlerrr]

I think this answers the question: can men & women be friends?

By the way, I like you whether you're chocolate or vanilla!

[kimhessdivorceguru]

my policy use to be just like yours: Yeah, yeah, yeah! and now like yours it's no, no, no!!! love that line!

[Pirate7X]

Nah, mama Abiola is always stunning, make-up or not!

FWB should be adhered with full disclosure. It's likely that one may eventually be more sensitive but it does not have to problematic if there is complete honesty and understanding. It makes sense to be sexually involved with you are friendly with and know well (personality, health, history, etc.) than a virtual stranger if you're not in a relationship in my opinion.

[PhuckHue2]

I would tap that

[DrewRicketts]

Abiola is a true media goddess. Capable, radiant and insightful. Keep up the good work!

[deandrakixx1]

hey miss hotness, i agree with you but i don't know if i could pull it off...lol

[PlanetAbiola]

@deandrakixx1 I feel you, Deadra!!

[LuvemOrLeavem]

I'm glad these relationships are not for you. If we want to goddesses we need to be worshiped, and FWB does not encourage that.

Love that dress. If I get out to New York you have got to show me where to shop:)

[PlanetAbiola]

@LuvemOrLeavem Exactly. No, no, no FWB for me!

[bebbbalicious]

Girll, I love you soo muchhh <3 You always make me happy somehow =) God bless you <3

[PlanetAbiola]

@bebbbalicious YAY - wishing you, love, cupcakes and so much happiness! xo

[matezo]

you look awsome abiola!!! so beautiful, i would marry u lol kiddin, xoxo VIZZLE

[evilangel19891]

friends with benifits is confuseing for me. my heart gets into it after a while and then they get into a relationship and yeah thats a no no for me

[PlanetAbiola]

@evilangel19891 I agree!! How can our beautiful hearts not be involved? Thanks for commenting. xo

[veranasti]

FWB just says u r good enuf 4 a shag but not to be with... that will mess wit any1's self esteem!!

[veranasti]

@veranasti at the long run

[PlanetAbiola]

@veranasti YES! You are absolutely right. I agree.

[RealGurl920]

good topic abiola!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!

[PlanetAbiola]

@RealGurl920 Thank you, DOLLFACE! :-D

[BrotherOftheStruggl1]

Hoes have friends with benefits if you ask me.

[PlanetAbiola]

@BrotherOftheStruggl1 Alot of women don't realize that they are the PRIZE. ;-)

[BrotherOftheStruggl1]

@PlanetAbiola lol,btw you are one fine chocolate piece of women.You have really been blessed.

[PlanetAbiola]

@BrotherOftheStruggl1 Thank you. xoxo

[maxinesjade]

Can you help a young sister out...whats ur advice on actually finding a guy to date...

[101unique]

seems like a good vd but ur background is too loud

[PlanetAbiola]

@101unique True, true -- couldn't turn down the salon unfortunately! But thanks for commenting. xoxo

[hourglas39]

Good Topic Diva !

Nope unless you have the "Samantha" personality from Sex in the City. I was never ever to master separating the emotion from sex personally. Like the lady said with the dreadlocks, the men always get jealous ! They don't want to committee but the moment they hear your dating someone they get jealous, go figure ?

[PlanetAbiola]

@hourglas39 I agree!! xoxo