Hat's off to you Joe - you have done a noble thing - they call it love. Love is when you put someone else 1st, above your own needs & desires. (There was a time when your mom too was able to love you in the same way).
Don't worry, you'll have plenty of time to entertain us with your wisdom & humor.
hey joe, if you really read these comments, the youtube community and the world needs your help. Please check out the latest video from Shawn at UnculturedProject, We are trying to get him to Davos to talk to world leaders so the youtube community can help fight world poverty. We desperately need the help of those with a large audience. I love you both and thought of you...
Hey man. Never commented on one of your videos before, but I've been watching for a little while and just wanted to say you have my support. Keep making videos, keep doing what you enjoy, and just look forward to hen you can go home. I've been in a situation like yours and my advice (like you care) is to jeep your eyes on the light at the end of the tunnel.
Hey Joe, I don't know what to say that would make anything better. You said one way to move forward is work. So my question for later is when/why did the republicans and democrats switch? History shows us that the GOP used to look more like the current democratic party....So what GIVES?
Hang in there Joe, you can do it. Hope you have a Merry Christmas, despite how unlikely it may seem, and that's if you celebrate Christmas. If you don't, then have a Good New year.
I'm so sorry to hear about this, Joe. My grandfather suffered from Alzheimer's and lived with my family for the last 5 years of his life. It really is a terrible disease. Stay strong man.
Sorry to hear about the situation with your mother and father, i know how hard it is to see a parant slip out of what is feelt to be there place, and into some state where it really turns the stakes upside down.
But i have a questions, and i hope its not to personal.
How is your relationship with your parants? Where you close ? The task you have seems to burden you more to the anoying side then the sympathetic side.
And btw, i find it interresting that you are a loner that reach out to youtube:]
Joe, I'm so sorry that you--and your parents--are going through this. What a blessing you are to your parents (as you are to us, your virtual friends), but wow, I can only imagine how difficult this is for you. I truly wish I lived in the same city so I could help in some way; nobody should have to do what you're doing alone. If there's ever anything that people can do long distance to help, PLEASE let us know! You are in my prayers.
I wish you all the best. I remember you discussing this with me when we were at brunch last year. Hang in there. You're a great son and a great person and everything will be better. You gotta keep that smile on for your mom. Be strong.
Remember that heaps of people follow you and your life, and are interested in who you are. Things might not be good at the moment, and I do understand this from a similar experience, but things will get better.
i'm sorry to hear about your parents. they must be special because they gave us you. you're a bright, witty, intelligent individual who has a wonderful perspective on the world. i know you'll find a way to incorporate this experience and grow from it. take care joe.
Hey Joe, I am a true fan of yours and your talents that you bring to all of us. But I think sometimes, especially in situations like yours, we need to do what is right. I'm sure I speak for a lot of us when I say "we understand what you're going through, and you shouldn't feel like you're letting us down by not being able to get your videos out". Family comes first. We're here when you are able to come back. Hope your dad get well now (not soon :)...its a better saying)
Sorry to hear of your misfortune,it must be very sad to experience these things.something that helps me when im in tight situations is to do little mini yoga/calisthenic workouts to keep my juices from stagnating.if you've an Ipod & even just 3 minutes-the duration of one weezer song,turn it on & do jumpingjacks for 1min of the song then headstand for 1min maybe some leg & back stretches,or jogging in place.you can do these mini workouts throughout the day during micro-pockets of in-between time
That has to be tough man, I am praying for you now. Try to stay positive and look for the small joys that you may find. Your work is not going un-noticed by God or man.
Joe, when I was in high school I worked at a Nursing Home on the weekends for extra money. Although it is a relatively sad place, I could always count on a couple of residents to make me laugh, some of them had the coolest of demeanor's and some really funny personalities... With that said, I hope you don't shy away from being friendly and taking a moment to sit down and talk to some people in the dining room, they are sure to give you a good laugh,,, a vlog about your meetings w/them could be+
You are quickly becoming my favorite channel. I love your perspective on things.
This one makes me think about life in nations of poverty and war etc. I'd imagine the same things are true that you talked about, that life is nothing more than worrying about the next immediate action.
Keep up the great vlogging. I expect nothing but the most insightful and thoughtful commentary from you from now on so pressure is on!
Hang in there. When you get to the age where you're the caretaker of your parents you can find things are a little disjointed. You know this won't last forever, and I pray for you and your parents.
Broseph Joseph, great to see an update video from you. hope your dad gets better soon. trying to take over his role is obviously very difficult, so good job on doing your best. i'd love to see a good comedy tuesday from you soon, theres got to be some funny old folks around you. anyways, keep your chin up and your nose clean pardner.
Joe, when the endless chores of taking care of your mom turn from labor of love to exhausting unwanted duty; try to imagine your life without this amazing person who gave you life itself. I too went through this and every day moods went from anger to complete exhaustion and then guilt...... vowing daily to try harder to be compassionate . Now she is gone, 2 years now, and the empty void still fills each day.
I have worked with people in home and trust me I know your pain. Its tough but its worth it knowing you helped out in some small way. Hang in there it will get better and your good con to not leave her with the people at the home alot of them don't give the proper care to the people
hang in there, its a hard, when taking care of my family members, i tried to find every bit of amusement as possible and sharing the laughs as they come.... good luck
It's a hard thing, going back to a place you have plenty of experience not liking. It's a harder thing to live in the moment and know the person who raised you doesn't exist anymore. Alzheimer's is a state of living death, only made more heartbreaking if there are any moments of lucidity to be found. My heart goes out to you Joe. Try to remember it is only through suffering we gain a true appreciation of joy - so they say.
Whether you can or can't I'll still be here. This too shall pass.
One thing that might help is you're getting an opportunity to return in some small measure the care you got from your parents growing up. What I hope I would do in your situation is wrap myself in the love I have for my parents. (Yes, I know, MUCH easier said than done.)
I'll be thinking of you and your parents and wishing all of you the best. Take care.
I think it is wonderful that you have stepped in to take care of your mother while your father is ill, but, you seem to act as though this is all a burden. That's sad. Just think if you were in your mom's situation, wouldn't you want someone to make a sacrafice for you? Why can't you have politics, science and music there? Play your guitar for the residents....read newspapers to keep up on politics, although I know that's not an active roll. It just seems like your down and I hate seeing that.
Thank you for such a poignant update Joe. I can think of no other disease I fear more than Alzheimers. My heart goes out to you my friend. Hang in there.
thanks for sharing! im sorry to hear about the sudden shift in your life. i spent a year with my grandmother who had parkinson's disease. it is a grueling task but I learned so very much about life and passing. it is so natural to feel resentful and angry but don't let these emotions block your ability to experience this important time in your life.
My grandfather has been brain damaged for 15 years and my grandmother who had been taking care of him for most of those year had a stroke a few years ago and now also needs constant attention. My mother and her siblings have to constantly be taking care of them in their new house we bought for them closer to us with a little support from hired healthcare workers. So from an outsider looking in to both our situation and yours I feel for you man.
it maybe hard, but you are truly living the phrase "walk a mile in soeone elses shoes" this is a great learning experience many never experience, and i know you will walk away with valuable lessons from this, take care, and we do miss you, but family comes first!
Hi Joe. I wish you and yours the very best, and I also await your return to normality. I know it all must be extremely stressful, as I have dreaded such events many times. Luckily, it has not come to pass. I have one question, if I may: Do you have animosity towards your parents? You come off as though you feel they are just an inconvenience. Correct me if I am wrong.
Every task you're doing now on a daily basis is enriching the life of somebody else. Every accomplishment enriches your own life.
Every smile you share with the neighbors is a "win win".
You are right where you belong. Nobody in this world could do this job better than you. Anyone can do the physical... you can do it with your heart attached. It means so much more.
Joe my heart goes out to you. We aren't going anywhere......we'll be here when you get back to your life. I send positive energy your way and be strong it's hard when the son becomes the parent but you can do it! I'll be thinking of you!
Hang in ther man, I've always dreaded that transition in life when you end up taking care of the people who have nurtured and supported you their entire life. My grandma had severe Alzheimer also, it was difficult to deal with her at times and I still have difficulty imagining my mother and father like that.
Hey Joe, When my dad died suddenly in a car accident, I found myself in the middle of a lot of responsibilities I never asked for nor wanted. Five years later, I am finally remembering who I am and my creative voice.
Watching your videos over the last year has helped in the process, THANK YOU! I promise your creative spirit will not be destroyed ;-) BUT refined!
Perhaps you will discover the "old biddies" in the cafeteria" have SECRET WIT that surprises you!
I took care of my dad the last year he was alive. I know where you're at right now. Maybe instead of the planned content you could just sort of get stuff off your chest. I know you'll need to. We are here for you no matter what you talk about. Hang in there!
take your time, joe. i love watching your videos quite possibly most out of all things youtube, we need more people like you in the world. good luck with the family
Hey Joe, I can relate to the "putting your head down and getting through it" phase. I was desparately, horribly poor for about four years, and music (I'm a singer) was the last thing on my mind.
Just get through it, man. I wish the best for both your mother and father, and, of course, you!
My Mom suffered a brain injury 7 years ago. My Dad takes care of her 24/7. I asked him how he can do it. He told me that taking care of her fills his heart with love. I went outside and cried.
You're a good man too Joe, as is your father. Just keep in mind how taxing the situation might be for your dad at times, I suppose, as I'm speaking blindly.
Until you have to deal with someone with Alzheimer's, you don't know how shit the situation is. It isn't the person you know anymore. They are a shell of the person they used to be.
Without your father, are you going to be stuck there forever? I mean surely there is another option for your mother than making you get old before you time just to keep her going another day that she will soon forget.....
Our thoughts are with you Joe. You do what you need to do and we will always be here to listen. It is an uphill battle but we don't get to choose these events. We roll with it and whatever happens, happens.
Oh well, a condensed version: I feel for you Joe. My mother got sick some years ago, and died april this year. It really takes something to live with such things. I respect that you speak up about it. Mostly i didn't. I felt guilty complaining about how my mothers illness affected me in my daily life. She was the one going in and out of hospitals you know.
What's wrong with your father? Hope he gets well soon.
I'm sorry all this happened to you, life is harsh when you least expect it. But I can relate to this SO MUCH, it's almost like you are going through the same thing I went through earlier this year.
Thanks for the update. Being a caregiver is arguably life's toughest role...I hope you can keep doing your videos (for YOUR sake, first, like you said). I am not a sugar coater...Alzheimer's sucks.
glad to see a video from you. i've been wondering how it's going, and it's good to hear your reflections about where you are. maybe this part of your life - creating content - can be your outlet to carve yourself a tiny space of your own identity in this life you've been thrust into, but i totally understand if there's not space within that life to create. hopefully there is, though. thanks for checking in.
Hi Joe, Alzheimer's stinks, I'm so sorry your family is going through it. It is very very hard for you to do what you are doing, but You are the best for doing it. I live nearby, so if you need anything, a ride, home made cookies, a break, I'm happy to help. :)
Take good care of your mom , she would do it for you unconditionally . Do that part for awhile and open your eyes to whats around you in there good and bad . Huge hugs <3
Sorry to hear about the situation. I really commend you for what you are doing it takes a big man to swallow this kind of pill especially around this time of year. I don't know how to send comforting messages other than to say the community is behind you. Why not see if you can get a PO box or something like that so we can send you some stuff to take your mind off the banality of it all. Until next time friend Take Care.
Good luck Joe. I feel for you. Just remember that you are going to come away from this experience a better and stronger person. I know that sounds cliché but it's true. We do miss you, but you are doing something selfless and extraordinary for your mother and father. You're getting a taste of how hard your father's life must be. Hopefully it will bring you even closer to your family in the end. I'm sure I can speak for all your fans: We wish you all the best and can't wait until you are home.
My wife and I had to move back to Spain because her parents are quite old and while don't require as much intensive care as your mom, I can tell you dont get angry or bitter.
I can relate. My mom took ill 4 years ago and I had to spend an inordinate amount of time in their retirement community. That said, don't sell the old folks short. There are all sorts of sharp-thinking souls with wrinkled faces that are perhaps more interesting (and definitely better mannered) than our peers.
Joe, you are awesome! To make this sacrifice for your parents, I just want you to know we are all wishing and hoping for the best. Take care and a speedy recovery for Papa Felice.
Hey Joe its Darko. I am sorry to hear that your dad is in the hospital. I hope he gets well soon and take care of your family. Remember there is no greater love than family love.
OMG! Sorry Joe... I just realized I left the wrong video response..... I thought it was the 'straight' version. Now I can't find it. Take care, be strong and we wouldnt be mad if you take some time off
u are there because they need u so don't feel like an intruder (or a prisoner), let them join into this thing u do in youtube, it could be a useful experience, this is the first video I watch from this channel and I'm subscribed, take care
I understand how you feel Joe. I lived with my grandparents and took care of my grandfather while he went through Alzheimers. People forget that the familes of Alzheimer patients need support too. I remember the sadness of realizing the man I knew wasnt there anymore.
Hey Joe if you're looking for a video topic perhaps you could talk about Alzheimer's. I know a lot of people, myself included, are not as knowledgeable about the disease as we should be. You could explain it from a scientific point of view as well as a personal one. Just a thought. Either way take care Joe and try to make the best of the holiday season.
Hey Joe, glad to hear that you're at least still able to function through the day. I'm sure it's overly hard on you.
I agree with you, in the sense of you first, your audience after, because if you're doing this for us alone you shouldn't be doing it at all. And I'm sure it means a lot to all of us who watch your videos, really, to know that it's something you enjoy and do because you want to and enjoy to, and also get the feeling of accomplishment because you do have that audience.
Keep trying to do this, making videos. Maybe not every day, or every two days, but maybe once a week. Something to let you hold onto that one shred of your normal for just long enough.
Best wishes to you and your family. I'll look forward to the next video.
It's really great that you were willing to abandon your existence to go help your mother. Commendable even! I wish you the best, and hopefully we can get you back in your niche soon enough! Good luck Joe!!
I never knew altimeters could get so bad. You should tell us more... how did it start out, how old is your mom?
VivaLaBamEpisodes 1 year ago
Hat's off to you Joe - you have done a noble thing - they call it love. Love is when you put someone else 1st, above your own needs & desires. (There was a time when your mom too was able to love you in the same way).
Don't worry, you'll have plenty of time to entertain us with your wisdom & humor.
saikoza1 2 years ago
Don't worry about loosing viewer ship Joe! We'll still be here when things get back to normal. Good luck in the new year, and I hope things work out.
CGallProductions 2 years ago
hey joe, if you really read these comments, the youtube community and the world needs your help. Please check out the latest video from Shawn at UnculturedProject, We are trying to get him to Davos to talk to world leaders so the youtube community can help fight world poverty. We desperately need the help of those with a large audience. I love you both and thought of you...
DeathOfAFatMan 2 years ago
Just checking in to say hi Joe. I miss your updates.
gstockton 2 years ago
Hey man. Never commented on one of your videos before, but I've been watching for a little while and just wanted to say you have my support. Keep making videos, keep doing what you enjoy, and just look forward to hen you can go home. I've been in a situation like yours and my advice (like you care) is to jeep your eyes on the light at the end of the tunnel.
Rock on. :P
undathebridge 2 years ago
Hang in their Felice!
Only 1 month more!
Hang in their!
Its almost over!
And you will be back to the east coast!
Doing all sort of stuff you enjoy!
y512516 2 years ago
Amd i am gafk
Taratalk 2 years ago
Miss ya joe
ScopeEntertainment 2 years ago
I can relate. My grandma has alzheimer's and I'm really the only family member that spends times with her so I'm there a lot. Stay strong, sir.
imjamesdean 2 years ago
We'll wait Joe.
xAfroMacx 2 years ago
Hope your dad gets better asap
Shoujinz 2 years ago
Hey Joe, I don't know what to say that would make anything better. You said one way to move forward is work. So my question for later is when/why did the republicans and democrats switch? History shows us that the GOP used to look more like the current democratic party....So what GIVES?
Thanks Joe.
MrJy93 2 years ago
your good and unavoidable deeds wil be rewarded :)
rOoziiltd 2 years ago
you are doing right by your folks. chin up!
Flintknappingtips 2 years ago
GOOD LUCK!!
jonasloverist 2 years ago
Hang in there Joe, you can do it. Hope you have a Merry Christmas, despite how unlikely it may seem, and that's if you celebrate Christmas. If you don't, then have a Good New year.
Metroid02099 2 years ago
Hope your situation improves Joe and things get back to the way you want! merry christmas
LiveAndLetDice 2 years ago
hang in there
lornalynott 2 years ago
Joe we love you. My regards to your family. Hang in there.
chchchacos 2 years ago
I'm so sorry to hear about this, Joe. My grandfather suffered from Alzheimer's and lived with my family for the last 5 years of his life. It really is a terrible disease. Stay strong man.
PHL3A 2 years ago
Sorry to hear about the situation with your mother and father, i know how hard it is to see a parant slip out of what is feelt to be there place, and into some state where it really turns the stakes upside down.
But i have a questions, and i hope its not to personal.
How is your relationship with your parants? Where you close ? The task you have seems to burden you more to the anoying side then the sympathetic side.
And btw, i find it interresting that you are a loner that reach out to youtube:]
synonyms 2 years ago
Good luck with your life endeavors and I hope it will all work out in the end!
Keep the faith!
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jackeater1 2 years ago
good luck
jenisoutofhermind 2 years ago
Joe, I'm so sorry that you--and your parents--are going through this. What a blessing you are to your parents (as you are to us, your virtual friends), but wow, I can only imagine how difficult this is for you. I truly wish I lived in the same city so I could help in some way; nobody should have to do what you're doing alone. If there's ever anything that people can do long distance to help, PLEASE let us know! You are in my prayers.
knibbles1882 2 years ago
When life gives you grapes, make wine....
stealthmeth 2 years ago
Joe, my buddy...
I wish you all the best. I remember you discussing this with me when we were at brunch last year. Hang in there. You're a great son and a great person and everything will be better. You gotta keep that smile on for your mom. Be strong.
Lizzy
SupaDupaFlyGirl 2 years ago 2
Hang in there Joe.
willg46 2 years ago
Joe you're awesome for stepping up and I'm sure I speak for everyone when I say we're all behind you and thinking of you.
MrDaraghstokes 2 years ago
Joe you are an inpiration. You are a hero. You are a good man and I wish you the best of luck.
589216001 2 years ago
Remember that heaps of people follow you and your life, and are interested in who you are. Things might not be good at the moment, and I do understand this from a similar experience, but things will get better.
Love from Australia!
nellezor 2 years ago
i'm sorry to hear about your parents. they must be special because they gave us you. you're a bright, witty, intelligent individual who has a wonderful perspective on the world. i know you'll find a way to incorporate this experience and grow from it. take care joe.
hume12345 2 years ago
we'll all miss you joe, and hope for a speedy recovery for your dad. maybe you can have some good music on while you're helping?
sisforshayla 2 years ago
Hey Joe, I am a true fan of yours and your talents that you bring to all of us. But I think sometimes, especially in situations like yours, we need to do what is right. I'm sure I speak for a lot of us when I say "we understand what you're going through, and you shouldn't feel like you're letting us down by not being able to get your videos out". Family comes first. We're here when you are able to come back. Hope your dad get well now (not soon :)...its a better saying)
Jexxin25 2 years ago
Sorry to hear of your misfortune,it must be very sad to experience these things.something that helps me when im in tight situations is to do little mini yoga/calisthenic workouts to keep my juices from stagnating.if you've an Ipod & even just 3 minutes-the duration of one weezer song,turn it on & do jumpingjacks for 1min of the song then headstand for 1min maybe some leg & back stretches,or jogging in place.you can do these mini workouts throughout the day during micro-pockets of in-between time
catgumart 2 years ago
Good luck Joe. Sorry about your dad and, well, your life at the moment.
Best of luck, bro.
ZidaneFTW 2 years ago 3
That has to be tough man, I am praying for you now. Try to stay positive and look for the small joys that you may find. Your work is not going un-noticed by God or man.
matte5299 2 years ago
We're all pulling for you. I hope that it helps to know that.
ivmeer1976 2 years ago 2
Joe, when I was in high school I worked at a Nursing Home on the weekends for extra money. Although it is a relatively sad place, I could always count on a couple of residents to make me laugh, some of them had the coolest of demeanor's and some really funny personalities... With that said, I hope you don't shy away from being friendly and taking a moment to sit down and talk to some people in the dining room, they are sure to give you a good laugh,,, a vlog about your meetings w/them could be+
Fuchs913 2 years ago
Joe, best wishes to you. Sending positive thoughts to you and your family.
eccentricfather 2 years ago 2
You are quickly becoming my favorite channel. I love your perspective on things.
This one makes me think about life in nations of poverty and war etc. I'd imagine the same things are true that you talked about, that life is nothing more than worrying about the next immediate action.
Keep up the great vlogging. I expect nothing but the most insightful and thoughtful commentary from you from now on so pressure is on!
Principalian 2 years ago
Hang in there. When you get to the age where you're the caretaker of your parents you can find things are a little disjointed. You know this won't last forever, and I pray for you and your parents.
rockinmoe45 2 years ago
Broseph Joseph, great to see an update video from you. hope your dad gets better soon. trying to take over his role is obviously very difficult, so good job on doing your best. i'd love to see a good comedy tuesday from you soon, theres got to be some funny old folks around you. anyways, keep your chin up and your nose clean pardner.
MaxBobcat 2 years ago
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nintailedkiller 2 years ago
Best of luck Joe.
fifi580 2 years ago 2
Take care dude, family first. All the best.
realgunslinger 2 years ago
Take Care Brother! God bless you and your Mom.
I am praying for your strength!
magnifyhm 2 years ago
I miss you dude :(
odz40 2 years ago
take a break from youtube if necessary, agree with sigurdnorway
fennel456 2 years ago
Joe, when the endless chores of taking care of your mom turn from labor of love to exhausting unwanted duty; try to imagine your life without this amazing person who gave you life itself. I too went through this and every day moods went from anger to complete exhaustion and then guilt...... vowing daily to try harder to be compassionate . Now she is gone, 2 years now, and the empty void still fills each day.
nuffovu 2 years ago 2
Take a pause from YouTube if you need it Joe!
SigurdNORWAY 2 years ago 2
@SigurdNORWAY absolutely!!!
fennel456 2 years ago
stay strong joe!
Lesser0n3 2 years ago
Meh, just quit bitching and help your mother.
Kekermonger 2 years ago
i'm sorry.... that sounds tough.
best wishes.
JeramizzleJensen 2 years ago
I have worked with people in home and trust me I know your pain. Its tough but its worth it knowing you helped out in some small way. Hang in there it will get better and your good con to not leave her with the people at the home alot of them don't give the proper care to the people
boredwhitegirl 2 years ago
Take care Joe, you're doing an amazing thing for your mom. <3
leefryder 2 years ago 2
Family comes first and it is great to see you have your priorities in order.
DoggBisket 2 years ago
hang in there, its a hard, when taking care of my family members, i tried to find every bit of amusement as possible and sharing the laughs as they come.... good luck
thickredhair 2 years ago
Your a good man Joe. Keep it up and good luck!!
Blackicecold 2 years ago
It's a hard thing, going back to a place you have plenty of experience not liking. It's a harder thing to live in the moment and know the person who raised you doesn't exist anymore. Alzheimer's is a state of living death, only made more heartbreaking if there are any moments of lucidity to be found. My heart goes out to you Joe. Try to remember it is only through suffering we gain a true appreciation of joy - so they say.
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mecrop12 2 years ago
Whether you can or can't I'll still be here. This too shall pass.
One thing that might help is you're getting an opportunity to return in some small measure the care you got from your parents growing up. What I hope I would do in your situation is wrap myself in the love I have for my parents. (Yes, I know, MUCH easier said than done.)
I'll be thinking of you and your parents and wishing all of you the best. Take care.
awollangk 2 years ago
sorry to hear about that joe. your an amazing son. i hope things get better soon for you. hope you have a great christmas.
TheIrishcondor 2 years ago
must be very tough, but i hope for your sake you make videos every once and a while. you're a good son, just hang in there joe.
vissna1 2 years ago
Fine thoughtful videos with humor, personality and warmth.
Merry Christmas to you and your family from Europe, Denmark.
deHekmann
deHeckmann 2 years ago
Your a good son Joe. Family comes first.
OhioDemocrat 2 years ago
i rarely leave positive comments on youtube, but this video makes me want to say thank you for being a positive influence to others.
Any father/parent can only hope their children turn out like you.
rawimpact 2 years ago
Try to stay positive and know that we all are here for you. Wishing you a VERY Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!!!! ****HUGS****
MsDJ79 2 years ago
I think it is wonderful that you have stepped in to take care of your mother while your father is ill, but, you seem to act as though this is all a burden. That's sad. Just think if you were in your mom's situation, wouldn't you want someone to make a sacrafice for you? Why can't you have politics, science and music there? Play your guitar for the residents....read newspapers to keep up on politics, although I know that's not an active roll. It just seems like your down and I hate seeing that.
MsDJ79 2 years ago 2
thankyou for the update, Joe!
You are amazing and awesome, and I hope you have a wonderful holiday season!
FrostyEagle7 2 years ago
Thank you for such a poignant update Joe. I can think of no other disease I fear more than Alzheimers. My heart goes out to you my friend. Hang in there.
gstockton 2 years ago
thanks for sharing! im sorry to hear about the sudden shift in your life. i spent a year with my grandmother who had parkinson's disease. it is a grueling task but I learned so very much about life and passing. it is so natural to feel resentful and angry but don't let these emotions block your ability to experience this important time in your life.
danceandrevolution 2 years ago
My grandfather has been brain damaged for 15 years and my grandmother who had been taking care of him for most of those year had a stroke a few years ago and now also needs constant attention. My mother and her siblings have to constantly be taking care of them in their new house we bought for them closer to us with a little support from hired healthcare workers. So from an outsider looking in to both our situation and yours I feel for you man.
EricsEveryNewDay 2 years ago
don't they have nurses in the care home?
what city is ur folk home @?
& stay strong ur doing a good job...
1mohan 2 years ago
You are a good son. Take care and talk to some of those ole biddies. They usually have some wisdom or storires to share.
NoSaltyPeanuts 2 years ago
it maybe hard, but you are truly living the phrase "walk a mile in soeone elses shoes" this is a great learning experience many never experience, and i know you will walk away with valuable lessons from this, take care, and we do miss you, but family comes first!
cherilyndria 2 years ago
Hi Joe. I wish you and yours the very best, and I also await your return to normality. I know it all must be extremely stressful, as I have dreaded such events many times. Luckily, it has not come to pass. I have one question, if I may: Do you have animosity towards your parents? You come off as though you feel they are just an inconvenience. Correct me if I am wrong.
FONEternal 2 years ago
best wishes to you and your parents. I hope that you can resume your normal life soon...
Chilldogg 2 years ago
Joe our hearts and thoughts are with you! Keep your head up!
redstripe29 2 years ago
Keep your chin up Joe.
Every task you're doing now on a daily basis is enriching the life of somebody else. Every accomplishment enriches your own life.
Every smile you share with the neighbors is a "win win".
You are right where you belong. Nobody in this world could do this job better than you. Anyone can do the physical... you can do it with your heart attached. It means so much more.
Sacrifices can amount to miracles =)
I respect you so much <3
We will wait as long as it takes.
tinkatinkatink 2 years ago
Joe my heart goes out to you. We aren't going anywhere......we'll be here when you get back to your life. I send positive energy your way and be strong it's hard when the son becomes the parent but you can do it! I'll be thinking of you!
texasjean08 2 years ago
You are strong, and I can see that you feel like you are dying inside. My thoughts are with you.
samstress22 2 years ago
Stay Strong.
SurgeonGen3ral 2 years ago
That would drive me nuts.
lazyperfectionist1 2 years ago
Hang in there.
necox5 2 years ago
Have a nice holiday season! This is tough, but in life, you have to roll with the punches.
christinespage 2 years ago
Hang in ther man, I've always dreaded that transition in life when you end up taking care of the people who have nurtured and supported you their entire life. My grandma had severe Alzheimer also, it was difficult to deal with her at times and I still have difficulty imagining my mother and father like that.
tnweber333 2 years ago
Beautiful smile.
shanmoor 2 years ago
Hey Joe, When my dad died suddenly in a car accident, I found myself in the middle of a lot of responsibilities I never asked for nor wanted. Five years later, I am finally remembering who I am and my creative voice.
Watching your videos over the last year has helped in the process, THANK YOU! I promise your creative spirit will not be destroyed ;-) BUT refined!
Perhaps you will discover the "old biddies" in the cafeteria" have SECRET WIT that surprises you!
Blessings in your journey.
frane9r9r 2 years ago 3
I took care of my dad the last year he was alive. I know where you're at right now. Maybe instead of the planned content you could just sort of get stuff off your chest. I know you'll need to. We are here for you no matter what you talk about. Hang in there!
MiRandom13 2 years ago
that's really tough. hang in there.
elffia 2 years ago
been there, done that...
sending good vibes your way, Joe.
stay strong, bro.
cheers
baronmorris 2 years ago
we behind you joe.... lots of <3 from florida
realtalksince89 2 years ago
enjoy the time while it lasts, Imagine how your mother must feel being in there.
mycroft118 2 years ago
take your time, joe. i love watching your videos quite possibly most out of all things youtube, we need more people like you in the world. good luck with the family
andrewnonymous 2 years ago
Hats off to you my friend. I work in a nursing home so I know what you must be going though in some way anyhow. God be with you
JimiHenbricks 2 years ago 2
Hey Joe, I can relate to the "putting your head down and getting through it" phase. I was desparately, horribly poor for about four years, and music (I'm a singer) was the last thing on my mind.
Just get through it, man. I wish the best for both your mother and father, and, of course, you!
Staydol 2 years ago 3
Kind thoughts!
frane9r9r 2 years ago
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nice hair (not)
Troublesome92 2 years ago
nice troll (not)
goodolcrushey1 2 years ago
yes, im a bad troll
Troublesome92 2 years ago
I will be looking forward to every one of your uploads.
But if you don't post a single video while you are there, I would totally understand.
6663000 2 years ago
wow this guy is amazing
oxyvince 2 years ago
My Mom suffered a brain injury 7 years ago. My Dad takes care of her 24/7. I asked him how he can do it. He told me that taking care of her fills his heart with love. I went outside and cried.
joewspanky 2 years ago 2
Good man.
You're a good man too Joe, as is your father. Just keep in mind how taxing the situation might be for your dad at times, I suppose, as I'm speaking blindly.
njcarlos1 2 years ago 2
I hope things work out for you man.
6663000 2 years ago
I like hearing your insight on this situation. I dont think I would have thought about it that way.. but I really enjoyed watching this :)
TheBritbomb 2 years ago
i love you joe. good luck. we miss you.
Chameleam 2 years ago
have the power to get through this period
MeinIchDasBistDu 2 years ago
For the first two minutes, I thought he was talking into a flashlight.
robottentacles 2 years ago
hold in there bud
its difficult and it sucks, but everything happens for a reason - you never know whats around the corner
youtube will always be here - so take as much time as you need :)
GoerzIndustries 2 years ago
good luck and good health to your family..
horhay14 2 years ago
very noble of you to take care of your mother.
Hope your father is feeling better. Best wishes and happy holidays!
phoneboy1234 2 years ago
good luck Joe, best wishes *hugs*
Rehkaify 2 years ago
i dont mean to sound like an ass, but that's your mother! AND it's temporary. but more importantly, that is your mother!
jamiedcc24 2 years ago
Until you have to deal with someone with Alzheimer's, you don't know how shit the situation is. It isn't the person you know anymore. They are a shell of the person they used to be.
Numfarh 2 years ago 3
Without your father, are you going to be stuck there forever? I mean surely there is another option for your mother than making you get old before you time just to keep her going another day that she will soon forget.....
MrDeppness 2 years ago
Hope your father gets better soon.
Best wishes Joe.
OwlDude 2 years ago 2
ok only watched the first few second mom's bed room whaaaattt ????
popcorngirl321 2 years ago
Our thoughts are with you Joe. You do what you need to do and we will always be here to listen. It is an uphill battle but we don't get to choose these events. We roll with it and whatever happens, happens.
300dollarsperhour 2 years ago 2
u need to keep that creative spark going if u put up a 1 min vid it will feed your hunger hope u dont lose yourself in the process
farvejets4 2 years ago
I hate it when Youtube doesn't post my comments.
Oh well, a condensed version: I feel for you Joe. My mother got sick some years ago, and died april this year. It really takes something to live with such things. I respect that you speak up about it. Mostly i didn't. I felt guilty complaining about how my mothers illness affected me in my daily life. She was the one going in and out of hospitals you know.
What's wrong with your father? Hope he gets well soon.
Best wishes to all of you.
jo05dk 2 years ago
I'm sorry all this happened to you, life is harsh when you least expect it. But I can relate to this SO MUCH, it's almost like you are going through the same thing I went through earlier this year.
EvilHero191 2 years ago
Thanks for the update. Being a caregiver is arguably life's toughest role...I hope you can keep doing your videos (for YOUR sake, first, like you said). I am not a sugar coater...Alzheimer's sucks.
TheAppieShow 2 years ago
tough
Wonderboy0046 2 years ago
glad to see a video from you. i've been wondering how it's going, and it's good to hear your reflections about where you are. maybe this part of your life - creating content - can be your outlet to carve yourself a tiny space of your own identity in this life you've been thrust into, but i totally understand if there's not space within that life to create. hopefully there is, though. thanks for checking in.
splicegrrl 2 years ago
Hi Joe, Alzheimer's stinks, I'm so sorry your family is going through it. It is very very hard for you to do what you are doing, but You are the best for doing it. I live nearby, so if you need anything, a ride, home made cookies, a break, I'm happy to help. :)
KimberlyCA1 2 years ago
It will be a challenge, Good luck.
I did it myself for a bit with my grandfather.
MikezJunk 2 years ago
Hi there Joe. I just want to send you a big hug. Everything will get better. You are doing the right thing. Love, Andrea.
andrearozenberg 2 years ago
dont u worry about us well be here waiting for u just think about your family right now =)
GottaGetLay 2 years ago
Good luck to you Joe.
nobudgettv1 2 years ago
You are a good man. This part of our life right now is the most important. My thoughts are for your and your family. Thanks for the update.
bluebjorn76 2 years ago
Kudos for taking responsibility, that can't be easy. Good luck with all this.
Machomatscho 2 years ago
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She has Alzheimers? Would you mind getting some footage of your moms box? She probably wont remember.
doodiethief 2 years ago
good luck and happy christmas!
LaughingLeaf 2 years ago 2
Take good care of your mom , she would do it for you unconditionally . Do that part for awhile and open your eyes to whats around you in there good and bad . Huge hugs <3
isaveu 2 years ago 2
sucks you dont have a younger brother
nickmax123 2 years ago
Hang in there, Joe! You're such a good person to have dropped your entire life to help out your family. I wish you and your family all the best.
kerls23 2 years ago
what matters most is your family, not us. you are doing a big job. dont ever think about letting your subscribers down.
may God help you.
3bucuk 2 years ago
best of luck your mom and your situation will be in my prayers and my wife's
mt51784 2 years ago
I hope the best for your parents, Joe.
DocKro23 2 years ago
god bless you and your dad for taking care of your sick mom.
TheCyoruk 2 years ago
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dude u need a hair cut
ssj4wario 2 years ago
Hi Joe,
Sorry to hear about the situation. I really commend you for what you are doing it takes a big man to swallow this kind of pill especially around this time of year. I don't know how to send comforting messages other than to say the community is behind you. Why not see if you can get a PO box or something like that so we can send you some stuff to take your mind off the banality of it all. Until next time friend Take Care.
ifu06572 2 years ago
what a change.....you're in my thoughts
xenafairy3 2 years ago
take care of your mom man we can wait
WAHSFOOTBALL92 2 years ago
Good luck Joe. I feel for you. Just remember that you are going to come away from this experience a better and stronger person. I know that sounds cliché but it's true. We do miss you, but you are doing something selfless and extraordinary for your mother and father. You're getting a taste of how hard your father's life must be. Hopefully it will bring you even closer to your family in the end. I'm sure I can speak for all your fans: We wish you all the best and can't wait until you are home.
NaienaArygos 2 years ago
Hope things get better for you and your family soon, all the best. x
perkadillo 2 years ago
My wife and I had to move back to Spain because her parents are quite old and while don't require as much intensive care as your mom, I can tell you dont get angry or bitter.
JimmyLikesTrading 2 years ago
I can relate. My mom took ill 4 years ago and I had to spend an inordinate amount of time in their retirement community. That said, don't sell the old folks short. There are all sorts of sharp-thinking souls with wrinkled faces that are perhaps more interesting (and definitely better mannered) than our peers.
Mernie9 2 years ago
Joe, you are awesome! To make this sacrifice for your parents, I just want you to know we are all wishing and hoping for the best. Take care and a speedy recovery for Papa Felice.
mjimmy 2 years ago
your an amazing son^_^your parents are lucky to have you^_^wish your dad a speedy recovery and hope things will get better soon^_^
mydenmel 2 years ago
Sorry to hear about everything, I wish your father a speedy recovery. Also, hope things get better for you.
24olee 2 years ago
I hope everything turns out ok for you Joe.
CinemaGaming 2 years ago
Hey Joe its Darko. I am sorry to hear that your dad is in the hospital. I hope he gets well soon and take care of your family. Remember there is no greater love than family love.
AirPop15 2 years ago
You're showing SO much sadness.
GoHiltyGo 2 years ago
OMG! Sorry Joe... I just realized I left the wrong video response..... I thought it was the 'straight' version. Now I can't find it. Take care, be strong and we wouldnt be mad if you take some time off
Laughing2002 2 years ago
u are there because they need u so don't feel like an intruder (or a prisoner), let them join into this thing u do in youtube, it could be a useful experience, this is the first video I watch from this channel and I'm subscribed, take care
setaconeze 2 years ago
thanks for sharing
Donyvi 2 years ago
Usually seeing people like this.
I usually give them comfort by saying I feel your pain.
But I just can't ......
i have never been in a environment as harsh as this.
But just hang in there....
Stay strong!
We will do this together.
Tell us about your experience .
We will stick together and wait it through
y512516 2 years ago
I understand how you feel Joe. I lived with my grandparents and took care of my grandfather while he went through Alzheimers. People forget that the familes of Alzheimer patients need support too. I remember the sadness of realizing the man I knew wasnt there anymore.
treetopteresa 2 years ago
keep going mate your doing a good thing and i wish you the best
homelesscat1 2 years ago
Hey Joe if you're looking for a video topic perhaps you could talk about Alzheimer's. I know a lot of people, myself included, are not as knowledgeable about the disease as we should be. You could explain it from a scientific point of view as well as a personal one. Just a thought. Either way take care Joe and try to make the best of the holiday season.
TOstevo 2 years ago
hang in there joe u r a good person! GOD BLESS you & your mom & hope your dad gets better i will miss you come back soon PLEASE TAKE CARE!!! =)
shellyrichison 2 years ago
Hang in there.
FATMIME 2 years ago
Hey Joe, glad to hear that you're at least still able to function through the day. I'm sure it's overly hard on you.
I agree with you, in the sense of you first, your audience after, because if you're doing this for us alone you shouldn't be doing it at all. And I'm sure it means a lot to all of us who watch your videos, really, to know that it's something you enjoy and do because you want to and enjoy to, and also get the feeling of accomplishment because you do have that audience.
Kloudness 2 years ago
Keep trying to do this, making videos. Maybe not every day, or every two days, but maybe once a week. Something to let you hold onto that one shred of your normal for just long enough.
Best wishes to you and your family. I'll look forward to the next video.
-Dakota
Kloudness 2 years ago
Thanks for the update Joe. Do what you need to do. Family is forever. Enjoy the video response. Take care mate!
Laughing2002 2 years ago 3
Wow, dude. Take of your mom! my mom's sick at the moment and i really been worried about her
MrSoberSoldier 2 years ago
Good Luck!!!
Gorvena 2 years ago
I feel for you Joe, I hope everything turns out okay :)
You're such a great guy!
eskimokid 2 years ago
The best of luck to you, this is a good thing you're doing for your mom and dad.
papervampire 2 years ago
this is one of the very few videos where you wanna give the content provider a hug.
Hang in there joe, and good luck keeping sane
TheCrimsonLion 2 years ago
I wish the best for you.
almostgodly69 2 years ago
It's really great that you were willing to abandon your existence to go help your mother. Commendable even! I wish you the best, and hopefully we can get you back in your niche soon enough! Good luck Joe!!
FGPTyler 2 years ago 2
hang in there joe patience is a virtue can't wait for your new content
sicario10891 2 years ago
You might get something out of this experience.
Good Luck.