What to do about someone who is fake, cunning and manipulative

[bobslifeanimation]

You are so wise, our advice is golden

[DracoAquarian1]

There are a lot of queens (gay guys) in my town that are exactly like this. It's kind of scary how good they are at smiling and putting on the "bright shiny disposition". Then later on you find they've been waylaying your character behind your back. Anyways, great video !

[TheEchovoices]

Kill em with kindness is what i do, and also be way ahead of them. :))

[Exiletheheretic]

Filmed with camera that was new when she was young =P

[auntstacey123]

This describes my secretary to a tee!!!!

[danixo8]

thanks so much this really helped!

[troydeancarpenter]

I see women like this in church. The advice in this video is right on.

[DracoAquarian1]

@troydeancarpenter Believe you me, they get tons of practice; perfecting their art.

[thetaliaalghul]

I'm so glad I came across this video. Your advice made me realize that I am acting EXACTLY the correct way in response to one of these fake people in my circle of friends. Since I have met this girl, she was sugary sweet to my face, showering me with compliments every day, while there were those little evil daggers in her eyes like she would kill me in my sleep. Sure enough in three years, all she has done is talk behind my back to everyone. I put up a wall and never tell her anything personal.

[Eyrynomos]

It works, you are right. Also these people have deep insecurity issues and play the victim card as their last resort. The funny thing is that they are not too aware of their inappropriate behaviour and they don't generally want to change their ways.When somebody puts them in their place they feel that they are attacked for no reason. These people have A LOT of issues.Absolutely...

[thehantavirus]

@Eyrynomos i agree with you i had this so-called friend that i had to leave the friendship in the last semester.As soon as i question his mistakes or wrongs he pulls out the victim card and makes me guilty, by making himself looking like he was guilty.

[TheSak7171]

What to do if that person is the BESTFRIEND of your boyfriend and she acts nice to me around him...so he cant see or wont believe?

[ash97ify]

you give the best advice ever!!

[jesusfreak1159]

this video made me realize that a few people might think i'm a multiplative and fake. i"m not :( i know my mom is :/ help !!!!!! I odn't want to be MY MOM

[chrisbartley88]

people like that will do ANYTHING to destroy u and i know WAYYYY TOO MANY OF THESE TYPES! i always manage to catch them out also! and there is someone around me in my life who tries to manipulate me and steal my power... so i dont comunicate at all cause i feel as though there using that to feel better about themselfs... oh someone fucking help me lol

[Seagullsflysky]

Great info...Great video.

[pandamadness1]

Super advice!!!

[TheDemiselena12]

@JohnBigmon thanks :)

[hiphiptrippypop]

can you gve me advice about a friend who alwys as me personal things

[TheSchwarz1000]

I wish I had of seen this video so long ago... there was a girl who I used to beat the pants off in hs track.. she was extremely popular and everyone thought she was so nice... but she was always loading me up with backhanded compliments and snubbing me. I snapped... because my parents used to physically and verbally abuse me at home... I couldn't take it anymore. She had her "Amo"... and her friends bullied me shamefully... Everyone hated her after that though... it was all so horrible....

[TheDemiselena12]

There is this girl in my class, she says she is my friend but she only uses me. She tells me do this, do that and she won't leave me. What should I do and I'm scared to say no

[JohnBigmon]

@TheDemiselena12 Well, that sounds exactly like what she is talking about in the video, so I would do what she says here and be polite but back off. Everyone has to find out that in life, there are a lot of people who are absolutely concerned about themselves and don't care at all about how they treat others. Remember that you don't owe them a single thing. Don't fall for the whole 'supernice' charade they try to pull either.

[shalimarsgirl]

Thank you so much! My gut feeling was right. Pity that she's an 'in-law' and I'd have trouble avoiding her presence.

[wateverrr147]

Ur amazing!! U have helped me alot!! Keep it up

[frogjelly2]

wow, I love this lady! thank you sooooooooooo much for this advice. helps me out allot. =DDD

[JeffersonDinedAlone]

Yet again, don't waste your time with them.

[blessloving]

Another great one Rejeane

[qwexas]

Would it help, if you're really clever, to set them up to look stupid? I mean get them to say something that other people will not believe and be exposed. Or if they're talking about you to others, they're probably talking about others to you too, so approach another victim of the person's rumors and say, "X said Y about you, is that true?"

[85Linnie]

Thanks for your advice! Your videos are very helpful (:

[TheChickenRiceBowl]

I love my gut so much! I did all of these things naturally without even knowing I was supposed to. So thank you gut :D! For all the times you've gotten me out of some sticky situations and warned me about everything you warned me about. *pats stomach*

[Josephjr4444]

This describes a narcissist i once knew. Like all predators, they lure you in with sweet...SWEET..talk..seductive and addictive. The a mosquito they drain you of life and god help you when you realize its time to back off. it should be mentioned, it will HURT a lot more if you get sucked in than if you prevent a relationship from starting. It likes trying to rid yourself of sticky gum in your hair...made of acid and burning your brain!

[squatinWorldwide]

Thx!

[TheUnknownnnnn]

Your so cool! and right!

[UncertainAngel]

I wish i had seen this earlier. xxx i love ur videos xxx

[coolbeens21]

you are brilliant, love your advice :D

[jmoonsuede]

Haha what if this person is your freaking mother-in-law?!!! Ugh! Can't avoid her! Hate it!

[Denalynnnful]

Oh yes it is called backstabbing when a person smiles in your face and talks badly about you behind your back a false or a fake friend you can't trust someone like that

[Greensmoothies]

I'm Glad i saw your video,and knowing back then about to just avoid and be polite when around these type was the right thing to do when dealing with this.

Thank you

[Greensmoothies]

I'm glad i was polite and i did ignore them naturaly when i saw there actions after of trying to turn everyone against me years ago,Even when i made new friends and they started to act like nothing happend and acting all nice and telling stuff to my new friends behind my back,which my new friends told me about.I feel sorry for those people who are duped and belived the said manipulative person and not bother to ask me if that was true.

Many prayers to them as they need it

[miketonon]

I have an aunt like this, she acts like an 8-year-old.

[SaturnPhase]

@miketonon Same here. And it happens to be my aunt, too. A complete mental adolescent. No...an infant!

[auntstacey123]

@miketonon Yeah, sounds like my aunt too & she is 65y/0

[SadMemoriesGone4Ever]

Spirituality is most important. G-d is our Greatest Friend if we understand faith and Quran. G-d is only Perfect and the Most Truthful Judge. All Praises be to G-d (Allah), only. And may G-d have Mercy. peace.

[SadMemoriesGone4Ever]

Listening to music can be relieving (peace making). Find good music. Like Pat Metheny (au lait, bat part II, james, follow me, rain river, watercolors.) 36 crazyfists (until my heart, collapse the masses) empathizes with my anger. Rejection and lonliless may be better than acceptance and company. Illusions are common by opinions. YouTube is much better (in service) than fakebook, twizzlers, myspace, etc. Stop materializing and personalizing virtues. Virtues are best when objective and for all.

[SadMemoriesGone4Ever]

Sincerity and grace/cautiousness...

[dopebozoish]

be careful of these people, they can ruin your reputation. stay away from cunning people!

[333handsomesons]

thank you so much!! this is perfect for my situation.

[HappEndings18]

Thank u. This was very helpful :) I have to deal with 3 people like this almost everyday, now i know how to deal with them. Thanks again :)

[101feven101]

helpful video thanks