I wish you guys the best!! I just [ray that one day all prejudice will end and that people will be more tolerant and appreciate the diversity in the human race.
It always makes me laugh when I watch Selena and am reminded some fools think little girls will never learn 'proper gender roles' without a mom. I see dolls, I see shoes, I see pretty pink clothes... I think she's pretty much set!
she doesn't - I certainly didn't. My point was that many people wrongly believe girls need a mother or they will not be able to fit into the gender roles that THEY think are important. As far as I'm concerned, it wouldn't matter even if children brought up in single sex households didn't fit into the standard gender roles - but others would disagree with me there.
Bryan can be self-depreciating about his hair dressing skills all he wants - he's doing a heck of a lot better that I ever could (which I completely blame on my mom - she's not much of a stylist either, so I didn't learn any tips there). Me and all my sisters had shoulder length hair at the longest until we were old enough to do it ourselves. I remember my friend being told that if she complained about tangles during brushing, it would all get cut off. I think the threat mostly worked.
haha...only word i want to say..warm...yeah that's a family without any fake....what's the difference between str8 and gay family...nothing...keep on ! btw: B is so hot!!!haha
ok first of all i love u all for haveing that puch pride and u will always be great parents who cares if god dosent belive in wat u belive nothing agants religon thank you for being strong and haveing some beautiful children.
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I dont want to sound offensive or harsh. But dont you think that wonderful young girl deserves a mother??? Honest question, im not trying to be a smart alek
My daughter is very much loved and happy. My daughter had a mother. Her mother decided that drugs where more important to her then her kids. In a perfect world kids deserve a mother and a father sadly thats not the world we live in. My daughter and son were adopted by us because no one else was willing to step up and show them the love they deserved. If more Straight people would adopt kids gay people wouldnt be adopting as much. My daughter had a lot of female family members.
straight people usually dont adopt because they can have children. gay couples cant have children so they have no choice but to adopt.
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 1 Corinthians 6:9
I understand that you belive that gays are going to Hell I dont belive that. I belive in a Jesus tat loves all gods children and will help all men find the right path to salvation.
bibletruth9, when people use the bible to say those kinds of things, it makes a lot of gay people not want to believe in god. i personally think that someone wrote that in the bible because they were against it at the time. theres no proof that god said it. followers of god wrote it. and i don't think that gay people will go to hell because they are so nice! yep, i am gay too. and proud believer of god. sorry you think otherwise.
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Ok i can see you dont believe the bible. so im gonna put it like this. You believe in God so that must mean you believe hes the creator. Look how he created us man and woman. Man and Woman fit together perfectly. they can reproduce. Thus proving Gods intent and plan for Men and Women. By having a same sex relationship you are going agaisnt GOD and nature.
The Bible does not and should not constitute a valid argument in a nation with freedom of and freedom from religion. Believe what you want within your church, but the law affords these men the right to live in their home together, and adopt children.
If children need a mother and father, why don't you search for some vids of single parent families, & start criticizing them? Ah, but that's not the issue is it? Your issue leads you to find absolutely any fallacious argument you've ever heard to try to prove to yourself that this bible bullshit is fact, and it couldn't possibly be a natural occurence that some members of many many species, including human beings, have an innate characteristic that makes them attracted to their own sex.
Celtic, I was born with a lot of hair, by the time I was 7 it almost hit the floor. Ma believed girls should have long hair and boys have short hair. The washing, drying and combing was a nightmare. I want Bryan and Jay to do a video of Selena when her hair gets a lot longer. If they are having washing and combing issues now, OMG, wait a couple more yrs. You two are going to hope she wants her hair short. Believe me Bryan and Jay, you have just begun your journey on little girls hair. LOL
Bryan, Just one more thing about Selena 's hair getting long. Seeing that she is 4, you still have time to go to beauty school to learn how to do hair styles. When she go's to school and sees all her school friends have their hair this way and that way, you better have a plan. Please don't get scared, I am not trying to put the fear factor in you. Selena will do enough of that. lol. I am just trying to perpare you for what you are in for. Good Luck.
Oh my heaven, you have my cat, Valentino! How'd he get to CA? Seriously, this is one of those totally common, incredibly precious moments. All little girls need a parent who will help them comb their hair and get all pretty. Beautiful.
I am sorry Selena, earlier I watch one of your videos and I spelled your name wrong. Me bad. Bryan and Jay, you have a beautifull daughter. I don't see your son in this one. In other video, very handsome. Thanks for sharing.
True he is shy and would rather not be making these movies. But he understands that if gay people dont start showing the world the truth about gay families. Then we cant complain when laws are passed like prop 8
What a beautiful, wonderful, amazing thing...you guys have an amazing family that happens to be as normal (yes, I said normal..) and as simple and ho-hum/boring (in a good way, trust me) as any heterosexual partnership.
God bless you.
I have decided to to college ; social worker and my area of concentration will be Gay/Lesbian issues, and I plan to become a psychotherapist for the gay/lesbian/bi/trans community.(Will most likely double major with either criminal law or psychology)
Well, your two daddy fam is about as everyday and ho-hum as our two mommy clan. The big difference is that your daughter is WAY better about getting her hair done. Ours is a mass of curls and she used to cry like a madwoman. She's 13 now and does it herself, thank goddess. REALLY cute room BTW. I miss having a "little" girl. Our daughter's room is purple and BLACK now. Emo hell.
Oh... my! Respect. I've always had this awesome respect for police officers and fire fighters. Wouldn't want to do what you do, but I'm glad that YOU do. Although, there are mounted police in our city. I might be a "cop for a day" if I could ride a horse. :)
i loved how your cat just had to show its face on camera...i think you cat is gay too! LOL, my friends i wouldnt change a thing...a suggestion perhaps, put the camera in your kids hands have them ask the questions...i sure that would be a riot, and would give us their POV...u guyz r the best...many happy days ahead for you all!
i think it would be really fun, plus we'd get to see how the children look at you as true role models in their lives not just parents...it already shows, it would just be neat to hear them ask the questions, u know kids, they always ask the hardest questions...lol =) stay well, my friends.
I LOVE you guys! What a beautiful family. Selena is very lucky to have you. Blessings to you and may you soon get all the equal rights you so deserve.
How cute! My mother had no idea how to do my hair when I was little. I loved this video! I think you guys are so adorable with your cute little family. You are so blessed and continue to be blessed! xoxox
I hesitate to say that your vids are inspirational....because what you do is so completely ordinary standard family care. That's what's so great about this. Two guys looking after their daughter.....what could be more touching and innocent. Congratulations guys, you have made the care of the child the issue........that should be the lesson for the haters to learn, if they are capable of learning.
Wow! Just like every other family in America. All the religious folks who are against non-traditional marriage should remember that Jesus himself came from a non-traditional family.
Hi Jay and family, I really enjoy all of your videos- whether it's a small family moment like this or one of your wedding. They all represent something important and you are a great inspiration to viewers. btw I love her room, it's so cute with the flowers in her dressers. =)
It's funny how there's always 1 parent who does hair and one who just DOESN'T. I don't think it matters if the parents are 2 dads or 2 moms or a mom and a dad, it's just one of those things:)
You 2 guve such hope! I am so proud of all of you and you bring tears to my eyes from happiness. I don't know you but I hope one day, we cross paths. You've touched many lives, mine included. Thank you. God Bless all of you. Also, way to comb Daddy Brian!
have you been combing her hair for 10 hours cuz i want to make my hair the same and how there is two men?
fantagia1 1 month ago
THANK YOU FROM ME AND OTHER GAY YOUTH FOR SUCH INSPIRATIONAL VIDEOS AND GIVING US HOPE FOR THE FUTURE
Magic41357 2 months ago
More than a beautiful family!!!
SrBryanoCB 3 months ago
God bless your family!I have a gay friend hes really nice!
CarlaRockz1 6 months ago
What do you do for a living?
aquamarine705 6 months ago
CUTE!!!
FuneralRoses 8 months ago
I always wanted to see how homosexual families worked out. They def. have more style than straight people. Your daughters room is great!
KarinElegance 1 year ago 2
Does Selena have any women inspiration to go off..
bfftiera 1 year ago
@bfftiera yes as gay men our life is filled with women id say she is closests to Grandma Ann
depfox 1 year ago
i love gays!!!!!!!!
bethdominix 1 year ago 5
I wish you guys the best!! I just [ray that one day all prejudice will end and that people will be more tolerant and appreciate the diversity in the human race.
ugboy1 1 year ago
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poor child..............
thebest203 1 year ago
so ur gay?
ribbonchick9 1 year ago
yes
depfox 1 year ago 3
I love your cat how it just nods there...
angelgirl2001 2 years ago
i love how the cat just like nods into the video at 2:29 xD haha. aw this is so cuute.
bellagirl120 2 years ago
Too cute and lol @ the cat taking interest haha!
Love you guys :o)
You give me faith
x
JacobAK1 2 years ago
It always makes me laugh when I watch Selena and am reminded some fools think little girls will never learn 'proper gender roles' without a mom. I see dolls, I see shoes, I see pretty pink clothes... I think she's pretty much set!
Ali68C 2 years ago 5
Why does a little girl need to fit into a gender role?
GoddessGlamor 2 years ago
she doesn't - I certainly didn't. My point was that many people wrongly believe girls need a mother or they will not be able to fit into the gender roles that THEY think are important. As far as I'm concerned, it wouldn't matter even if children brought up in single sex households didn't fit into the standard gender roles - but others would disagree with me there.
Ali68C 2 years ago
I think the social conditioning outside of the family unit is deffinately enough to affect a child.
GoddessGlamor 2 years ago
Bryan can be self-depreciating about his hair dressing skills all he wants - he's doing a heck of a lot better that I ever could (which I completely blame on my mom - she's not much of a stylist either, so I didn't learn any tips there). Me and all my sisters had shoulder length hair at the longest until we were old enough to do it ourselves. I remember my friend being told that if she complained about tangles during brushing, it would all get cut off. I think the threat mostly worked.
Ali68C 2 years ago
i like the room color...
raelenarockz 2 years ago 2
haha...only word i want to say..warm...yeah that's a family without any fake....what's the difference between str8 and gay family...nothing...keep on ! btw: B is so hot!!!haha
rc89757 2 years ago
what pets do you have? that's a cute cat!
xfreshface 2 years ago 2
We have two cats and a jack russel
depfox 2 years ago
Pretty bedroom it looks like mine but my bed is next to the window and i have just a purple wall with miranda posters and demi posters
PuccaLuva2 2 years ago
ok first of all i love u all for haveing that puch pride and u will always be great parents who cares if god dosent belive in wat u belive nothing agants religon thank you for being strong and haveing some beautiful children.
bessy1219 2 years ago
like the video and i saw in one of you other videos you make revenue from people clicking on the ads so i clicked it 100 times :) :)
hitchcockwannabe 2 years ago
I LoVe hEr rOoM!!!!!
karenbahena 2 years ago
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I dont want to sound offensive or harsh. But dont you think that wonderful young girl deserves a mother??? Honest question, im not trying to be a smart alek
BibleTruth9 2 years ago
My daughter is very much loved and happy. My daughter had a mother. Her mother decided that drugs where more important to her then her kids. In a perfect world kids deserve a mother and a father sadly thats not the world we live in. My daughter and son were adopted by us because no one else was willing to step up and show them the love they deserved. If more Straight people would adopt kids gay people wouldnt be adopting as much. My daughter had a lot of female family members.
depfox 2 years ago
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straight people usually dont adopt because they can have children. gay couples cant have children so they have no choice but to adopt.
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 1 Corinthians 6:9
I say this out of love. GOD bless
BibleTruth9 2 years ago
I understand that you belive that gays are going to Hell I dont belive that. I belive in a Jesus tat loves all gods children and will help all men find the right path to salvation.
depfox 2 years ago
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Unfortunently my friend, that Jesus doesnt exist. Please repent and seek him. I say this out of Love. GOD bless!
BibleTruth9 2 years ago
bibletruth9, when people use the bible to say those kinds of things, it makes a lot of gay people not want to believe in god. i personally think that someone wrote that in the bible because they were against it at the time. theres no proof that god said it. followers of god wrote it. and i don't think that gay people will go to hell because they are so nice! yep, i am gay too. and proud believer of god. sorry you think otherwise.
reltoc1 2 years ago 7
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Ok i can see you dont believe the bible. so im gonna put it like this. You believe in God so that must mean you believe hes the creator. Look how he created us man and woman. Man and Woman fit together perfectly. they can reproduce. Thus proving Gods intent and plan for Men and Women. By having a same sex relationship you are going agaisnt GOD and nature.
BibleTruth9 2 years ago
The Bible does not and should not constitute a valid argument in a nation with freedom of and freedom from religion. Believe what you want within your church, but the law affords these men the right to live in their home together, and adopt children.
xothegirlz 1 year ago 4
so what!? Elderly people and infertile couples got married and they can't have kids.
cambotgypsytomcrow 2 years ago
im agree with you Jay,you two doing such great job,and im sure you are allready kind of celebs here :)
xxxx
lailaagrado 2 years ago
If children need a mother and father, why don't you search for some vids of single parent families, & start criticizing them? Ah, but that's not the issue is it? Your issue leads you to find absolutely any fallacious argument you've ever heard to try to prove to yourself that this bible bullshit is fact, and it couldn't possibly be a natural occurence that some members of many many species, including human beings, have an innate characteristic that makes them attracted to their own sex.
xothegirlz 1 year ago
Celtic, I was born with a lot of hair, by the time I was 7 it almost hit the floor. Ma believed girls should have long hair and boys have short hair. The washing, drying and combing was a nightmare. I want Bryan and Jay to do a video of Selena when her hair gets a lot longer. If they are having washing and combing issues now, OMG, wait a couple more yrs. You two are going to hope she wants her hair short. Believe me Bryan and Jay, you have just begun your journey on little girls hair. LOL
3slimdog 2 years ago 4
HEHE I dont do hair I guess bryan will be haivng a lot of fun.
depfox 2 years ago
Bryan, Just one more thing about Selena 's hair getting long. Seeing that she is 4, you still have time to go to beauty school to learn how to do hair styles. When she go's to school and sees all her school friends have their hair this way and that way, you better have a plan. Please don't get scared, I am not trying to put the fear factor in you. Selena will do enough of that. lol. I am just trying to perpare you for what you are in for. Good Luck.
3slimdog 2 years ago 2
Oh my heaven, you have my cat, Valentino! How'd he get to CA? Seriously, this is one of those totally common, incredibly precious moments. All little girls need a parent who will help them comb their hair and get all pretty. Beautiful.
CelticLady44 2 years ago 4
I am sorry Selena, earlier I watch one of your videos and I spelled your name wrong. Me bad. Bryan and Jay, you have a beautifull daughter. I don't see your son in this one. In other video, very handsome. Thanks for sharing.
3slimdog 2 years ago 3
;o) thanks for the nice words
depfox 2 years ago
INSOFGNONSFG THE KITTY!!!!
Beerycee 2 years ago 3
Oh my god, your daughter is adorable!
MwahahaFiresOfDoom 2 years ago 6
its scary how some one so little can crtl your like a puppet
depfox 2 years ago
sheas allergic to cats
frenzycon 2 years ago 2
? who is allergic to cats ?
depfox 2 years ago
shes such a cutie, you guys are doing great taking care of her (=
hollisterrbabex3 2 years ago 4
LOL @ the cat @ 2:28
Big eyes. He/she reminds me of my cat, Moo Moo.
MxAxL 2 years ago 2
Oh, she is so adorable.
MxAxL 2 years ago 2
You guys give me hope
willcamick 2 years ago 3
0:43
"Because he likes to combs hairs." (cue Daddy Bryan's head shake and glance up)
1:57
"It's not like she's getting Princess Leia's hair-buns or anything."
I love your family. This is so precious.
x1games2rock 2 years ago 5
Little girls in gay families are the luckiest little girls in the world because they have their own personal gay stylist :-P
JKJKJK. But this is wonderful. I can't wait to start my own family with my partner.
mote65 2 years ago 5
interesting aspect ratio.
the audio is a bit funny. it might help if you sit in close with the camera as you 'interview' your subjects.
what are you using to edit? i movie?
equalrightswash 2 years ago 3
So sweet. How can anyone see this and think it's wrong in any way? :]
Banerika 2 years ago 7
Simply Adorable, Daddy and Daughter...and Daddy Brian doesn't really love the camera (lol)
jonvcan 2 years ago 4
True he is shy and would rather not be making these movies. But he understands that if gay people dont start showing the world the truth about gay families. Then we cant complain when laws are passed like prop 8
depfox 2 years ago
I wish MY dad was better with girl hairstyles. Lol, lucky for me I was too young then to realise how mortifyingly ridiculous I looked.
nianymue 2 years ago 4
lovely video. it's great to see videos like this here. Nice cat you got too.
timtheloner 2 years ago 3
What a beautiful, wonderful, amazing thing...you guys have an amazing family that happens to be as normal (yes, I said normal..) and as simple and ho-hum/boring (in a good way, trust me) as any heterosexual partnership.
God bless you.
I have decided to to college ; social worker and my area of concentration will be Gay/Lesbian issues, and I plan to become a psychotherapist for the gay/lesbian/bi/trans community.(Will most likely double major with either criminal law or psychology)
TomBurgos 2 years ago 2
So cute
yhuangr 2 years ago
This is such a wonderful video!!! God bless your family! Thank you for taking us into your home! Selena's room is so cute! :)
GayRomanceComics 2 years ago 19
She looks really pretty in that video you got many more years of fixing her hair so you better learn to get use to it hehe have a great day
RainbowPagon1982 2 years ago 9
Well, your two daddy fam is about as everyday and ho-hum as our two mommy clan. The big difference is that your daughter is WAY better about getting her hair done. Ours is a mass of curls and she used to cry like a madwoman. She's 13 now and does it herself, thank goddess. REALLY cute room BTW. I miss having a "little" girl. Our daughter's room is purple and BLACK now. Emo hell.
GrrlzwillbeBoizATX 2 years ago 9
Simply wonderful, you all make a great family, a normal family with all the values that a family must have.
Ohh and she's so beautiful and the way she is so calm shows how much love she as in her life.
Thanks for sharing another great moment of your lifes.
~ Alvaro
AlvaroGoncalves67 2 years ago 16
She's fabulous.
thepaper92 2 years ago 5
Oh guys she is so brillaint, I can't but laugh at the great answers that she gives you.
As Master Yoda said : (Truely wounderfull the mind of a child is.)
This one more vid to add to the history book, great work guys.
Signed ADF1, Peace Yo. :)
2006Admiral 2 years ago 5
Indeed, if you want children, you have to know lots of things.
Ggreetings, Steven
Stevend2be 2 years ago 5
Tx for sharing. Your videos make me want to have kids like precious Selena.
I know they come with HUGE responsabilities and you guys seem to be doing a great job.
My husbie desn't want kids :( but I do.
hugs.
newkillerstardust 2 years ago 3
Ok, I wait so much for your videos. I wanna be part of your family! Jejeje.
So, now I know Bryan is a stay home dad. I guess you're the one that works. Can I know what you do for a living?
MrDaHoff 2 years ago 2
I am a police officer
depfox 2 years ago
Oh... my! Respect. I've always had this awesome respect for police officers and fire fighters. Wouldn't want to do what you do, but I'm glad that YOU do. Although, there are mounted police in our city. I might be a "cop for a day" if I could ride a horse. :)
GrrlzwillbeBoizATX 2 years ago 7
y'all are such a cute family!
cz1992 2 years ago 3
Your family is so lovely... You and your husban are doing a great job... I love your videos, please keep teaching people how we live or life....
brendadm84 2 years ago 3
Thats a blessed moment.
boony68 2 years ago 3
Your family is beautiful. Enjoy each other and thanks for sharing a great moment.
MARRIAGE EQUALITY FOR ALL!
neenerpuss 2 years ago 3
Nice video! Adorable daughter and kitty too lol. :)
20thPaul 2 years ago 3
i loved how your cat just had to show its face on camera...i think you cat is gay too! LOL, my friends i wouldnt change a thing...a suggestion perhaps, put the camera in your kids hands have them ask the questions...i sure that would be a riot, and would give us their POV...u guyz r the best...many happy days ahead for you all!
thedancetuber 2 years ago 3
Hmm cool Idea I think ill try that
depfox 2 years ago
i think it would be really fun, plus we'd get to see how the children look at you as true role models in their lives not just parents...it already shows, it would just be neat to hear them ask the questions, u know kids, they always ask the hardest questions...lol =) stay well, my friends.
thedancetuber 2 years ago 2
it makes me so happy....when i see your videos.....it makes me look forward to the future :)
ekhodavandi 2 years ago 3
I always get so happy inside when I watch your videos. I love what you are doing.
Couver87 2 years ago 3
I LOVE you guys! What a beautiful family. Selena is very lucky to have you. Blessings to you and may you soon get all the equal rights you so deserve.
Love, Sheri
janonda42 2 years ago 3
How cute! My mother had no idea how to do my hair when I was little. I loved this video! I think you guys are so adorable with your cute little family. You are so blessed and continue to be blessed! xoxox
mindya12 2 years ago 3
You inspire and encourage - great simple message - Bravo!
Be Blessed!
K
KeithMantys 2 years ago 3
I hesitate to say that your vids are inspirational....because what you do is so completely ordinary standard family care. That's what's so great about this. Two guys looking after their daughter.....what could be more touching and innocent. Congratulations guys, you have made the care of the child the issue........that should be the lesson for the haters to learn, if they are capable of learning.
rickT5555 2 years ago 3
Wow! Just like every other family in America. All the religious folks who are against non-traditional marriage should remember that Jesus himself came from a non-traditional family.
MidnightChimes 2 years ago
Hi Jay and family, I really enjoy all of your videos- whether it's a small family moment like this or one of your wedding. They all represent something important and you are a great inspiration to viewers. btw I love her room, it's so cute with the flowers in her dressers. =)
minoritydreams 2 years ago
That one stereotype I dont mind "Creativity" Thanks
depfox 2 years ago
Very good vidoe !! And very good intention !
Greetings from Belgium (we can marry and adopt also here).
Anyhow, This ones favourited
Holebis, Holebi's ♥♂♂,♀♀♥
Holebis 2 years ago
It's funny how there's always 1 parent who does hair and one who just DOESN'T. I don't think it matters if the parents are 2 dads or 2 moms or a mom and a dad, it's just one of those things:)
thanks for posting.
hanmelbee 2 years ago
You 2 guve such hope! I am so proud of all of you and you bring tears to my eyes from happiness. I don't know you but I hope one day, we cross paths. You've touched many lives, mine included. Thank you. God Bless all of you. Also, way to comb Daddy Brian!
cool3929 2 years ago