I have a boyfriend and we are arguing very much ! What it means is that we have to calm down or that we cant be together because we dont match or something like that? because we are together for 4 months and i really wanna get this relationship to work..... and he is also telling me the same thing.... what should i do??? (i think that its my fault most of the times when we argue, sometimes he tells me that its me other times he says we are both the fault... please answer and help me... =[[[[[[[[
@gogo0090 You need to talk to him when you're both calm. Discuss that you both need to work out a way in which you become more understanding when the other one is upset, rather than both getting into an argument. It will have to be a joint effort in order for it to work. Remember when you're in the heat of the moment, take a step back to calm down and then act from there (which'll be more rational) and see how it goes from there! It is possible to make it work :) Just communicate more :) x
@gogo0090 - Also, whilst in the heat of the moment, remember to also look at it from both of your perspectives, that way you'll get more of an understanding for how the other person is feeling (and tell him to do the same).
so what do you do when youve been with him for 3 years and then you guys decide not to talk to each other anymore because youve decided its best but youre heart is still with him, i cant move on unless we talk...but everytime we start talking again we get back together. so my heart wants to not neessarily be with him but to still have him in my life while my mind is telling me its not smart to start talking to him again. :(
@NiloofarTorabi11 hello, is normal to feel that but remember everyone born alone can not be attached to something or someone because if you do you will lose the opportunity to meet that person, all the people we meet in our life are for a reason, think of the good things and bad expenriencias left that relationship you not return to do with the person you loved all your life I would like to explain more thoroughly but it is in the comment Have a nice day!
Thanks for the advice... and I tried to go up and talk to a guy and he just looked at me and laughed.... Now all of his friends think I am weird and laugh at me... but one of my friends stuck up and said he was a jerk, and now none of them laugh at me anymore....
@pls455325 Good for you for doing it though! Be proud of that! It just turns out you went up to someone who wasn't worth the time, which may happen in the future, but one day it'll be someone who is actually worth the effort, so don't give up! And it's a good thing you have those friends who will stick up for you, they're valuable to have, so you know you're not alone! Keep going, there will be a guy who appreciates you for who you are, it's just sometimes there are jerks in the way. xx
Also I wanted to say thanks for your advice I am 18 and yet no guys seem to notice I am there... All my friends have boyfriends so when I see there statuses saying they were hang out with there bf or I see them hanging out with I feel left out I know someday I will find my prince charming.... I really hope you get alot of comments......
@pls455325 I'm sure some guys do notice you, but they're too shy to say so! But if you want them to notice you more, why not go over and talk to them? Make sure they notice you for yourself, by taking the situation into your own hands :) Also, why not talk to your friends about it? Suggest times you can hang out just as girls, rather than in couples sometimes, tell them it's making you feel left out, and if they're true friends, they'll listen. Things will get better, keep looking forward! :)
you look kinda like a wanna be
MsLovePink1997 1 month ago
@MsLovePink1997 I am a "wanna be" I "wanna be" someone who can help others and I don't see anything wrong with that.
ribbonsmakebows 1 month ago
I have a boyfriend and we are arguing very much ! What it means is that we have to calm down or that we cant be together because we dont match or something like that? because we are together for 4 months and i really wanna get this relationship to work..... and he is also telling me the same thing.... what should i do??? (i think that its my fault most of the times when we argue, sometimes he tells me that its me other times he says we are both the fault... please answer and help me... =[[[[[[[[
gogo0090 1 month ago
@gogo0090 You need to talk to him when you're both calm. Discuss that you both need to work out a way in which you become more understanding when the other one is upset, rather than both getting into an argument. It will have to be a joint effort in order for it to work. Remember when you're in the heat of the moment, take a step back to calm down and then act from there (which'll be more rational) and see how it goes from there! It is possible to make it work :) Just communicate more :) x
ribbonsmakebows 1 month ago
@gogo0090 - Also, whilst in the heat of the moment, remember to also look at it from both of your perspectives, that way you'll get more of an understanding for how the other person is feeling (and tell him to do the same).
ribbonsmakebows 1 month ago
i'm coming
rizkydekiki 1 month ago
so what do you do when youve been with him for 3 years and then you guys decide not to talk to each other anymore because youve decided its best but youre heart is still with him, i cant move on unless we talk...but everytime we start talking again we get back together. so my heart wants to not neessarily be with him but to still have him in my life while my mind is telling me its not smart to start talking to him again. :(
NiloofarTorabi11 1 month ago
@NiloofarTorabi11 I'll inbox you a reply, because there isn't a lot of space to type on out here! :)
ribbonsmakebows 1 month ago
@NiloofarTorabi11 hello, is normal to feel that but remember everyone born alone can not be attached to something or someone because if you do you will lose the opportunity to meet that person, all the people we meet in our life are for a reason, think of the good things and bad expenriencias left that relationship you not return to do with the person you loved all your life I would like to explain more thoroughly but it is in the comment Have a nice day!
SCCC250785 1 month ago
very true, i love your vids! :)
Hanpan4ever 2 months ago
@Hanpan4ever thank you :)
ribbonsmakebows 2 months ago
Thanks for the advice... and I tried to go up and talk to a guy and he just looked at me and laughed.... Now all of his friends think I am weird and laugh at me... but one of my friends stuck up and said he was a jerk, and now none of them laugh at me anymore....
pls455325 3 months ago
@pls455325 Good for you for doing it though! Be proud of that! It just turns out you went up to someone who wasn't worth the time, which may happen in the future, but one day it'll be someone who is actually worth the effort, so don't give up! And it's a good thing you have those friends who will stick up for you, they're valuable to have, so you know you're not alone! Keep going, there will be a guy who appreciates you for who you are, it's just sometimes there are jerks in the way. xx
ribbonsmakebows 3 months ago
Also I wanted to say thanks for your advice I am 18 and yet no guys seem to notice I am there... All my friends have boyfriends so when I see there statuses saying they were hang out with there bf or I see them hanging out with I feel left out I know someday I will find my prince charming.... I really hope you get alot of comments......
pls455325 3 months ago
@pls455325 I'm sure some guys do notice you, but they're too shy to say so! But if you want them to notice you more, why not go over and talk to them? Make sure they notice you for yourself, by taking the situation into your own hands :) Also, why not talk to your friends about it? Suggest times you can hang out just as girls, rather than in couples sometimes, tell them it's making you feel left out, and if they're true friends, they'll listen. Things will get better, keep looking forward! :)
ribbonsmakebows 3 months ago
Thanks I am new on here so I figured I would comment on your video ... I hope someone comments on my 2 new videos
pls455325 3 months ago