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  • Jo Dee is so hot! Is she still singing??

  • Great song !

    

  • And I want a woman who will let me stand beside her instead of expecting me to lead or follow.

  • @guardianeifie We all need and DESERVE to be stood beside.

  • Står bredvid mig när jag behöver någon.

    Står bredvid mig när jag är lycklig

    Står bredvid mig när jag är ledsen

    Står bredvid mig när jag är svag

    Står bredvid mig när jag gråter.

  • @yayasukunya For those who don't speak Swedish: here's the translation: Stand beside me when I need someone. Stand beside me when I'm happy. Stand beside me when I'm sad. Stand beside me when I'm weak. Stand beside me when I cry.

  • love this song so much. i now know how amazing it is to have a man that stands beside you, supports you, loves you, listens to you, makes you laugh everyday........i could go on and on. there's not many left like him

  • Love this song so much!!!

    

  • this song just makes my day its out there i jnow

  • know

  • Dear JoDee, I know you will never read my comment here but if you do, would you please do Henley and Frey's ALREADY GONE or even SAD CAFE cover on your next album or maybe if Imus puts out another compilation? BTW, you have more God given talent than all the so called talent of today and I am not trying to be mean. Just sayin.

  • If you want to be my man you have to meet the criteria of this song ;)

  • I love this song and thats what I need is a man to stand beside me!

  • To men everywhere ~ Give to a good woman, and watch her multiply your efforts and double or triple what you have given her (good and bad...ahem).

    *Note: I said give to a GOOD woman. Don't waste more than one night in your 20s on dirty little whores...they will mess you up.

  • I found that wonderful man who stands beside me =)

  • @freesitesaccount

    Grow up.

  • Sitting here and thinking for the past two heres i have worked two full time job, and moved three time. Made it from Charleston,WV to Daytona Beach, FL. All over a guy telling me I would never do anything and always live there. I found my stand beside me man. He works just as hard as I do and never breaks me down. Love you David

  • For all that is good and decent in this world... get this woman back into the recording studio!

  • I want a man that stands beside me... <3

  • This song influenced me to keep trying to find that guy that wouldnt put you down or leave you behind and be a different guy in front of his friends and i did hes now my boyfriend and is a US Marines and im happy i have a "Man" and a US Marine that stands beside me when I need him!

  • it's funny how no matter what music we listen to now, we will always still listen to the music we grew up with :]

  • love this song!!!

  • Love this song, I found my man ,I know he will stand beside me!! This song has real meaning!!

  • she's hot

  • This is a great song!! Love it!!

  • I had a girl named Jodi back when I was still in school... I remember going to her front door one afternoon during summer break and a neighbor told me the family had moved away...broke my heart

  • i love u soo much jo dee!!! i've listened to u for half of my life! u truly inspire me

  • I love her! And all her songs. She's an inspiration. And it makes my day to just sit back and listen to these songs.<3

  • This whole album reminds me of my mom way back when she used to listened to it, JoDee is amazing, shel make you strong in her words of heart.

  • love this song!!!

    its old but never gets old!

  • Six years ago at a Texas Road House I sang this song to my sister as to what I looked for in a man. It never has materialized as of yet.

  • I think we all wish for this.....one often wonders and wishes for a man like this.

  • I have always loved this song<3! i wanna MAN that stands beside me!:)

  • Love this song, awesome video too!

  • gurls complain about how they cant find the right guy or a nice guy maybe if you look!!! and another thing good guys dont want gurls that have screwed the whole town

  • nice vid. so true. most men want to stand in front or the wimpy ones behind! i want one to stand beside me. and mine does most the time!!! lol. <3

  • @americanamexicano Im dating this girl and I dont control her. WHY? Im brutally honest but she can head my opinion or not it really dont matter to me. Im not her dad so why should I try to control her?

  • LOVE the song...Jo Dee can sing "Old MacDonald" and I'd listen...:) PLUS, what woman doesn't want this (message)?

  • this song will never get old !

  • YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!

  • First song I ever listened from this woman - I felt like my heart stopped beating...

    beautiful <3

  • Love it love. Song of your life. Grew up with it and lived it a lil. Thanks for sharing.

  • Wooo what woman dosent love this song and if they dont.......WIERD!!

  • @Devilsangelatgarona welll there are some weridos who like guys to control them, its so werid and disgusting, i just dont get it, i rebel..so to speak, if they tell me not to do something ill go and do it just for the fact that they told me not to do it, lols

  • @marinegirlfriend233 So if they told you "Don't drink a gallon of fabric softener," you'd do it?

  • @2wingo uhm thats just common sense there genius; i wldnt be thinking about drinking fabric softner anyways; and anyone who does clearly has issues

  • @marinegirlfriend233 My point is that your whole premise is ridiculously petty and just a little bit stupid.

  • i heard this song for the 1st time on the radio a few days ago and i thought it was new

  • I used to listen to this song as a kid too. I still love it^^ It's so true too!

  • me too

  • Well Done! x

  • :D LOVE IT

  • Wish she would hit again. She has such a great voice.

  • the one thing I am sure of, is JoDee is awesome! She is like a modern Patsy Cline in her attitude and heart-felt style.

  • I think she's great. Reminds us of what we had (good or bad) and how to learn from the experience. Each experience makes us a stronger person. Personal growth.

  • the 17 people who dis-like werent paying ANY attention 2 wat was going onnnn!!!

  • her voice has this emotion to it that makes the song so sad/empowering/relatable/just perfect, she's the best

  • @binky2400; I will not accept comments like this on my page, please keep those kinds of thoughts to yourself. It's not that we're depressed that we DON'T have boyfriends/girlfriends, we're depressed because we've HAD bad relationships and we're only saying we want a man like this in our lives if you don't like what you read here then go somewhere else but I will not let you put things like this on my page. And who says that we don't do anything with out lives?

  • ive always love her style

  • This song still remains one of her best.

  • this song describes the kinda person i am and the kinda guy im looking for. i give so much when im in a relationship. and i want a guy to do the same. (except the whole ex thing in the song...i DONT want my ex back....no way)

  • need my girlfriend beside me right now but shes in calafornis im so sad that shes not beside me because shes in calafornia far away from me so she cant be beside me waaaaaaaaaaaaaa i just want to cry so bad

  • @cuteguy530 i know the feeling drink up thats what im doing

  • need friends stand by me

  • im 44 need someone special stand by me.

  • I love this!

  • i am 25 yr old man and i been looking for a women but every1 i find cheats on me

  • i love jodi i need stability from a man .

  • ...have u ever had to break up wit your boyfriend but thn regret doin it bc u miss him? ha i feel like tht all the time well HALF the time i only did it bc his family just wouldnt shut the hell up and stay out of our relationship. thumbs up if u like this song!!

  • Why isn't there such a man like this in the whole world?????

  • this is the perfect song for mee..:) prolly for all the girls

  • I really need this karaoke version - it is sooooo hard to find.....

  • thats the shit

  • i love this song to and some men are out their that r like this u just got to learn to pick them wisley i have found mine hope u all the best in finding urs

  • Sweetie,

    I am 45. There is a great book...quick to read and funny. The author is a woman doctor who interviewed several hundred men from all walks of life and ages. This book is about dating and gives you men's insight on what they think. The title is "Why Men Love Bitches". Sorry about the title. Bitches just means the women that men really want for a serious relationship are not door mats..nor are they grouchy women. Go to Barnes n Noble or Borders and pick it up and start reading.

  • love this song 

  • Story of my life..like literaly haha..beautiful song<3

  • I just went to the Jodi Messina concert lastnight in Glens Falls NY, and it was THE BEST NIGHT OF MY LIFE!! This song is one of the best in the world!!! GO Jo DEE!!! I will NEVER FORGET YOUR CONCERT!!!! I was in the front row screaming my head off and taking TONS of pics of u!!!

  • This is my theme song!!! I listen to it every morning before work!!!It gives me hope that the right one is somewhere...Im good at meeting the wrong ones!

  • I love this song<3

  • i feel like ive done jo dee a great injustice... im 15 and ive grown up hearing her songs, but i never knew it was her who sang them. i had allways thought it was faith hill or someone,i dont know. but im so glad i found out who it was. she is beautiful and has a beautiful voice.

  • don't lose hope girls!!!! he's out there somewhere don't worry!!!enjoy life and be yourself, he'll show up, i promise:)

  • this s0ng describez the man every girl wants. i'm 15 && still lookn for a man that lives up 2 this song. i'm keepn my head held high

  • I love this song. It is so true. I think this is what every woman wants is a man to stand beside her.Not in front or behind them.

  • Life takes weird turns * u should just breathe blink and know it mite be comin ur way and prepare urself cuz it mite just not be for u, You need to do ur thing be yourself to the fullest and make urself happy, men are nice to have but u don't need them, u need you. so enjoy yourself and if one comes around enjoy them you never know wen deyll be gone, and dont think about the future with a guy. ur the only one who'll be with you for sure look up this song "i belong to me"

  • I love this song! For me the song is very powerful and sends a shiver down my spine... I haven't heard it in ages.. I am glad I looked it up...

  • advice from a man, if you want a man to stand beside you, stop giving up the pooney so easy

  • cool song

  • I wish that I had a man to stand besides me I mean I have a lot of guy friends but none of them even like me they all think of me as just one of the boys

  • @MegaDreamkiss i have the same problem sometimes... guess we have to wait for a good one lol

  • I LUV U JO DEE MESSINA U R DA BEST

  • I love this song, I love the advice and even if I don't find that man who can Stand beside me, I want to have the best life I can possibly have.

  • country music at its best...never mind the lyrics

  • This whole CD is AWSOME!!! Ditch your lable JoDee and put out that new album!

  • @hockeyham3 Yea JoDee, put another awesome album ! ! ! ! ! This CD is great. I play it over and over. I saw you in Austin,Texas. It hailed that day. It was @ Town Lake. Kool Concert.

  • i grew up listening to her love her music it reminds me of my childhood my moms obsessed with her lol

  • This is a Great Cd! This song made me buy it! His hair was longer but his eyes were the" Same old blue!" I've been there!!!!

  • Lets not get GAY about this. She's the most gifted country female singer I've ever heard. Period! Only a retard would turn talent into this cluster F@k. GET A LIFE PEOPLE. Listen to "Burn"...ever wonder why you will never hear a lady try Jo Dee on American Idle for instance?? Cause they can't touch it. This is a dare!!

  • So true how we all want a "MAN" to stand beside Us...:) Love this song...

  • @TalleKeith Im honestly beginning to belive there aren't any MEN out there anymore.. they are all little boys trapped in a grown man's body these. If there is a MAn that wants more than just sex, will treat me with respect, respect me for who I am, and also treat me like a Queen, PLEASE send him my direction!

  • @TalleKeith this song always helps to remind me of where i once was and where I am today. I finally have my man that stands beside me.

  • @MsTmead glad to hear...!!

  • One of my favorite songs, good song!

  • i LOVE this song!! Its one of my all time faves!!

  • I have always really liked these words.

  • I have been listening to her since i wa a baby. My mom, me, well everyone in my family just LOVES her! She is one amazing singer!! I have this kind of man. Ever since I was old enough to actually know what this song means.. I have been looking for the man she describes. :D

  • I absolutely LOVE this song!!!!!!

  • so...i was listening to this song the other day on the radio and i was thinking that this is exactly the man i want especially after the last one I had and how terrible it ended...and then the guy i am talking to kissed me and looked at me in the eye and said he wanted to be there beside me through thick and thin...he told me he didn't want to be behind me or in front just right where i was :)

  • this song is definatly me for real

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  • that's the kinda man I want...great song!

  • omg she good

  • What if im the guy who wants to stand beside her but she doesnt want me.

  • keep trying :)

  • then shes not the right one for you, when its right you will both know it, i hope you dont think im being impertinent answering this, i wish you all the luck in the world

  • This song reminds me of me and my BFF clint. We are going through so much together right now. He is always around me and always have my back. The kids are mad because he and i always have to touch each other enough though he has a gf but he don't care. And i gave him somethign special so nows he's wroth the fight. I love you Clint so much!

  • This song has become my anthem. It's taken me 2 failed marriages to realize what is truly needed from both people to make a lasting relationship.. to my best friend out there whereever you are... this ones for you!

  • took me until I was 40 to find the right person, but what I have learned is that all the others were the path I was meant to take so I would know that when I found the right one, I knew it without reservation. This song does say a lot about what a lot of do want ... that person is out there, so keep your eye on enjoying life, making your own mark on the world, and building friendship that last a lifetime. Do this and the right WILL come along.

  • I am now 17 and i used to listen to this song non stop when i was in elmetry school and middle school and now that i have gone through amount of bf's i think this will be the song the suits me

  • lol im in the same boat i am 17 too. and same with the bf's i have had a great amount but all of them were butts. im with one right now he seems great but its a guy

  • Definitely an awesome song.

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  • lonewolf, youre still a babe- don[t be so impatient! Honey you will have lots of crushes and loves that may not pa n out but hold on the best is yet to come! You haven[ begun to even live yet! Take my word- it[ll come when it[s time. Please don[t rush it enjoy yourself in the meantime All these experiences getting you ready for the big one. So hold on and not give up!

  • GREAT SONG

  • thanks so much for posting friend, I like the song & JDM is GREAT

  • you know who is the man...

  • im only 14 im not looking for the guy to stand beside me forever but i think i found him great job joe dee!

  • me2!

  • I'm 15 and just getting into the dating scene, and I love this song, and although I certainly don't want my Mr. right to come by right now - I wouldn't mind a good guy to stand beside me just for the fun of it now.

  • who wants a man buy a dog!!

  • lmao!

  • Just wanted to say if you like Terri Clark her new album comes out this September!!!!! It's called The Long Way Home. 11 real country songs!

  • everyone will find the one there perfect 4 weather there 7 or 70 everyone will find someone :-)

  • Lonewolf Hi

    Great choice Honey! Love the song, Love the vid ya made,Bliss,Joy yes and you are right about wanting a man like that!

    x x x x Here's hoping you find him!!!!

  • I wish I could believe that and I'm starting to, because I've been looking since I was thirteen and I've had a crush on a lot of guys, once they found out they started ignoring me and hated me. I've only had two boyfriends in my lifetime and I need the hope that I will meet someone who will be my mr. perfect but I'm 19 going on 20 and I'm loosing hope. I pray that I meet him but I can't give up yet.

  • Aw,there's good men out there,ones that will stay friends with you,even if they don't share the feelings back(yet).You'll find someone n.n

    Not that my love life is any better,But I've come across some pretty sweet ones :3

    Good on you for not giving up~

    and thank you for uploading the song,too!

  • You're still very young, lonewolf, and you'ev got plenty of time to find Mr. Right. Trust me on this one, lol. 13 to 20 isn't very long, and usually in those years, you're still discovering yourself and who and what you like and dislike. You're more likely to meet your special someone randomly, or he may even be a friend of yours. Don't try so hard to find him, enjoy life, and don't give up hope. =D

  • have faith!!! patience is the greatest thing you can have and you will be rewarded!!=)

  • Lone wolf, im 25 and going to be 26 in april, i know how you feel, its not easy, but love comes to everyone when its supposed too, you will find it when and where you least expect it, don't give up hope, i haven't and i know i will find that person when i am supposed to, peace and love to you and those you care about.

  • @lonewolf19873 girl dont be in a hurry.... 20 is still plenty young..... i was married by 20 and now at 23 i am alone.... dont settle and dont rush it.... love is patient.... is it possible you may push yourself on guys? ( i did) guys can sense neediness and desperation and they run like the wind..... back off take a deep breath dont go looking for love love will find you.... do your thing dont stop hoping but stop looking.... love pops up in the weirdest places.....

  • @lonewolf19873 I don't know you, but I want to tell you I understand, what you are saying. I'm 26 and have never had a boyfriend, but I do know God has somone out there for me. I just haven't met him yet. :)

  • @lonewolf19873 maybe you need to stop looking... they need to find you and love finds you when you least exspect :) but i'm praying for you

  • @lonewolf19873 you can do it! theres a guy out there for you.

  • @lonewolf19873 chill girl. theres plenty of time. dont rush into anything with just anybody.

  • @lonewolf19873 don't try to chase a man, let it come to you, and you won't care how long you've waited after you've found the right person (:

  • @lonewolf19873 ive found a great guy weve been together for 3 years and well found him in indianna lol best chances look there

  • @lonewolf19873 I know how u r feeling I use to be like that. I thought I found Mr Right. Before and after we had 3 kids and 16 years of marriage I finally found out I was wrong he was Mr Right. I have finally Found the right guy And I am 45 it took me along time to find him

  • @lonewolf19873 you got pleanty of time don't even worry about it till 26 or 27 maybe even 30

  • @lonewolf19873 - Don't focus on men. Focus on yourself. Don't even worry about it until you're closer to 30. lol

  • @lonewolf19873 don't give up sweetie. Having 2 boyfriends is way better than what I went through before finding my fiance.

    Don't give up hope and stay picky. If something doesn't feel completely right, it isn't. Don't settle

  • @bitssybear thanks i need to know that i though it was the end of the world and i only 17 getting ready to turn 18 . thanks alot

  • @lonewolf19873 you aint the only 1 i only had 2 boyfriends i had one in 5th grade and last year in my junior

  • @lonewolf19873 you aint the only 1 i only had 2 boyfriends i had one in 5th grade and last year in my junior year and im 19 going on 20

  • @lonewolf19873 that sounds like me... and im 24 it like all the good guys are taking or gay but there is someone out there for us all we just got to keep our heads up high and just be happy with oursekves...

  • @lonewolf19873 i know that feeling im a 19 yr old man who's about to give up on women but i'm afraid if i do i'll end up like every other man and just use them

  • @lonewolf19873 You're still really young, i'm only 22 and when I was 19 I felt the same way.. you'll be surprised at what life brings.

  • @lonewolf19873 you will meet someone perfict for you.

  • @lonewolf19873 honey Iam 40 and just found true love.... it is true you gotta kiss alot of frogs... but it is worth it!!

  • Men/women are like parking spaces, all the good ones are taken and the rest are handicapped LOL! I'm a guy who's been lookin for Mrs. Right for about as long.

  • good one!!! LMAO!!!!!

  • Thank you!

  • @heartofgold34 of course there is no perfect guy out there; but there is probably a pretty good one that you could be happy with! duh.

  • @heartofgold34 I know how it is to feel you will never find that right one. I've started feeling that way myself, but I'm only 23 yrs old and have time to find Mr. Right. A guy I've known for a couple of years has liked me for a while now. He is having problems with his girlfriend right now, and if he wasn't with her he'd probably be with me. We are just friends, but we like each other a lot.

  • @LilMakwa

    If you don't mind my asking where is the guy u like from? I have a bf now, but its gonna take a lot 2 make things work.Then again any relationship is work, any that are worth having are at least.

  • @heartofgold34 right now he lives in Pine City, and as far a Im concerned he can stay there. I really dont ever want to see him again after what he did. Used me for one thing, and Im not a slut. I have only been with 4 guys, I didnt lose my virginity until a month before I turned 19, and I knew this guy for 2 yrs before we started talking about getting together. I thought he was a good guy, but I was proven wrong. I really liked him, but apparently im not good enough.

  • @LilMakwa Just one thing? I got used for two, sex and money...

  • @heartofgold34 All of this happened about a month ago. I last sent that other one back in like August... he broke up with his last gf 2 days after I officially met him face to face at a powwow

  • Great song - this is what I am looking for!! Mister Perfect..where are you? :)