I love this song, and the video was great. The only part I would have changed was in the last verse, where Ben sings, "And somebody says that it's always been this way..." That line just takes me there - to the funeral - and I hear a phrase out of the low chatter in the rain, "It's always been this way," spoken by someone unseen and faceless, but having a powerful effect on the speaker (of the song) as he comes to realize its truth.
This song is about real life events in Ben Folds' life - though the suicide never occurred this song was written for/about his suicidal girlfriend, and various revelations in between.
Ive come back to this video 10-15 times, whenever i need to hear the song, and im always astonished by the idiotic responces.. i love the video, its very well done and i like it alot dude. kudos..
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Eh, I think your video was done a little too "literally"... like you don't NEED to do everything each lyric says... "Didn't see she was crying.." I don't think you actually needed to show someone crying.
yknow it's really eerie, i'd been planning on doing a video for this song, and it would've ended up pretty much exactly like this. That's pretty weird. Well heh now i don't have to i guess. Might still, i don't know. i mean...REALLY just like it. Good job.
Having depression as part of my life, to hear this song or watch a vid that shows nothing of helping someone really be able to stand on her own 2 feet or deal w/ the obvious mental illness/depression or possibly trauma from early abuse was disgusting. Hugging someone a lot and leaving them in bed is neglect and abuse when they need something utterly different, including talk/movement/drug therapy. I am crying over the ignorance and missed life shown in the song and vids made about it.
dude, a depressed woman who is so depressed she ends her life instead of marrying the man in the video story. Do you know anything about depression?
We are surrounded by "just songs", just movies, video games, advertising, etc. that have made the majority of the people in this country non thinkers and easy to manipulate.
Ok listen. I understand depression, you have no idea but I'm thinking you entirely missed the point of this video. Th point was he WASN'T helping her, and he was too busy to fully understand her problems. Also... it's just a youtube video, crying over the injustice of a YOUTUBE VIDEO just seems a little extreme to me.
hey buddy! you try getting up every morning with a feeling of dread. Try feeling numb and emotionless while in conjuction feeling the smallest jabs intesified and having a brain too overloaded with thoughts to move through the day.
Were parts of this supposed to be...comical?
AnarchalPatriarch 7 months ago
poor cathy :( ben folds always knows what to say.
shewhoroars 11 months ago
i really love this video. everytime the song comes on my itunes i need to come back and watch this. awesome job.
sabxzilla 11 months ago
i think you did a very nice job interpreting this song and the struggle with depression and suicide.
i thank you for posting it.
also-I feel you caught the spirit of the song so well...it was very close to my personal interpretation of the song. cool!
chelseathered 1 year ago
Great tune.
rexspe 1 year ago
Wow, this was a very good rendition of Carrying Cathy! Hope you can make more videos by this band and others. I'll be there to watch them
FrankLotti1 1 year ago
Beautiful.This perfectly shows depression
MisakiModel 1 year ago
Beautiful
MisakiModel 1 year ago
rain was a little cheesy...but all in all very good job. i liked it.
check out my ben folds videos...tell me what you think.
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Ben2DJammin 1 year ago
seriously after watching every other Carrying Cathy video i could find on youtube...this is by far the best interpretation...
taztrexx 1 year ago
good video. great song! good job
Arunyan28 1 year ago
But seriously, thanks to this video I understand what the song means. Very deep. thanks for putting up art
MrTotanes 1 year ago
Selfless cold... and composed... oh wait. D:
MrTotanes 1 year ago
damn.
SchmuckoftheIrish 1 year ago
That was amazing.
kmp2253 2 years ago 2
That was a beautiful interpretation of that song. I had goosebumps the entire song. Wonderful.
jnnfr965 2 years ago
Wow!!! That was excellent, excellent work!!! I think you really captured what this song meant! I give u five stars!!!
TheHolyPlungers 2 years ago
This is wonderful! I also have tears in my eyes.. This song and your video- this is a wonderful story...
SarLei94 2 years ago
I have tears in my eyes. That was absolutely beautiful. It was so literal-that was exactly what I see whenever I play that song.
tinibug28 2 years ago
wonderful vid for an even more wonderful song that moves me to tears. very well done.
sweetfranx 2 years ago
I love this song, and the video was great. The only part I would have changed was in the last verse, where Ben sings, "And somebody says that it's always been this way..." That line just takes me there - to the funeral - and I hear a phrase out of the low chatter in the rain, "It's always been this way," spoken by someone unseen and faceless, but having a powerful effect on the speaker (of the song) as he comes to realize its truth.
flashcat7777 3 years ago
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alphabetgeek 2 years ago
This song is about real life events in Ben Folds' life - though the suicide never occurred this song was written for/about his suicidal girlfriend, and various revelations in between.
subjectivelyperfect 2 years ago
cremains usually have bones in them too. detail. detail.
chronicfatigue247 3 years ago
Good job!
Very nice, indeed!
I won't say i love this song, but i got in on my Mp3 player, and your video, was very good at telling the song. I'm impressed!
Hoped you got an A ;) (i saw it was a school project)
OldZam 3 years ago
always happy to help. : )
mikeybe206 3 years ago
OMG I have 2 make a video clip and I was trying to think of a song and u have just shown me the way! LOL Thankyou! =]
xoxoVittixoxo 3 years ago
F... i love this video !!!
s1v1e1n1d1 3 years ago
MIKE! I randomly came across this video, and I was watching it suddenly realizing, holy shit, I know that guy! Not a bad video btw, GREAT song!
PatrickWatson 3 years ago
This is almost exactly how I pictured it. Beautiful job, I especially love how the video ends--almost made me cry.
SemiColonical 3 years ago
Wow, this was awesome!
Great job, man!
This touched my heart!
southernxgal86 3 years ago
Hey, great job man. ^^
Ah I love this song but it's so sad... : <
Koruji3 3 years ago
WOAH!
wonderful taste in music
AND INCREDIBLE film!
great job, friend
this is amazing
FAVORITED
pleasemallorie 3 years ago
Straight up fabulous, given the media in which you worked.
poserrkids 3 years ago
Ive come back to this video 10-15 times, whenever i need to hear the song, and im always astonished by the idiotic responces.. i love the video, its very well done and i like it alot dude. kudos..
crystalwolfchild 3 years ago 4
thank you.
mikeybe206 3 years ago
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Eh, I think your video was done a little too "literally"... like you don't NEED to do everything each lyric says... "Didn't see she was crying.." I don't think you actually needed to show someone crying.
danielc0307 4 years ago
I liked the video, but I kind of have to agree with this. Love the song though
applepai23 3 years ago
Can you read? He said he had to make a literal music video.
plowus 3 years ago
Great job on the video. I thought the rain effect was hilarious, but I understand you were limited by the program for that. Overall, very good.
rextheovermind 4 years ago 2
yknow it's really eerie, i'd been planning on doing a video for this song, and it would've ended up pretty much exactly like this. That's pretty weird. Well heh now i don't have to i guess. Might still, i don't know. i mean...REALLY just like it. Good job.
SneezyD 4 years ago 3
nice job man, that was really well done
GuceFanatic 4 years ago
Having depression as part of my life, to hear this song or watch a vid that shows nothing of helping someone really be able to stand on her own 2 feet or deal w/ the obvious mental illness/depression or possibly trauma from early abuse was disgusting. Hugging someone a lot and leaving them in bed is neglect and abuse when they need something utterly different, including talk/movement/drug therapy. I am crying over the ignorance and missed life shown in the song and vids made about it.
lg3942 4 years ago
dude its just a song about a depressed girl...
knoxIII 4 years ago
dude, a depressed woman who is so depressed she ends her life instead of marrying the man in the video story. Do you know anything about depression?
We are surrounded by "just songs", just movies, video games, advertising, etc. that have made the majority of the people in this country non thinkers and easy to manipulate.
lg3942 4 years ago
its actually about Ben Folds's friend that commited suicide
tzn27 3 years ago 3
Ok listen. I understand depression, you have no idea but I'm thinking you entirely missed the point of this video. Th point was he WASN'T helping her, and he was too busy to fully understand her problems. Also... it's just a youtube video, crying over the injustice of a YOUTUBE VIDEO just seems a little extreme to me.
padfootprongs15 4 years ago
I did miss that! And, truly, I am very sensitive to suffering and injustice whenever exposed to it. Thanks for the comments.
lg3942 4 years ago
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
hahahahahahahaha
kramer1071 4 years ago
hey buddy! you try getting up every morning with a feeling of dread. Try feeling numb and emotionless while in conjuction feeling the smallest jabs intesified and having a brain too overloaded with thoughts to move through the day.
Then we'll see if your laughing.
PineappleRiot 3 years ago 7
you totally just served him
thumbs up
=]
pleasemallorie 3 years ago 4
Great job. Almost too literal, could've used a little more artistic expression, but excellent job.
jwfergie 4 years ago
I hope you got an "A" for on this. It hurts to watch it...yeah, it's that good. Thanks for posting this.
nubius 4 years ago
Ok. So, I won't lie, I thought that I wouldn't like this video, because I'm picky when it comes to Ben songs, especially this one.
But I think you did an amazing job with it. =]
allstatereject 4 years ago
carrying cathy is also my favourite song, not only just by ben, but ever. a masterpiece.
and this video is very good for it. thanks for making it.
flowerofsilver 4 years ago
Unlike so many videos people make and put up here, this was really great. Good job!
geburtenrate 5 years ago
this is my favourite song and it just got better...beautiful
Loza7777 5 years ago
That was so poetic. I nearly cried!!!
Sarafu 5 years ago
that was a really beautiful video. you did the song justice
katebug7777 5 years ago