First off... enough of the double negatives and negative slurs towards the BLACK MAN. I'm a proud black man and couldn't imagine sharing my heart, money,manhood,time or anything I share with my wife.
Most of all.... ladies who took the time review this video and comments. Black or White, any race of man!!! Ladies remember this if he has no true love for Jesus, and I do mean TRUE LOVE for JESUS.... you always should expect for the worst. One who takes time for Him will take his time with you.....
@sandinyourshoes Maybe if they take partial responsibility for the problems couples go through things wouldn't be as bad. You can't jump into bed with a woman, produce a child with her and then expect her not to say anything when he abandons her. They're both consenting adults, which means they both take responsibility for their own actions. They're both to blame, not just her.
There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
However, since we cannot get good fruit from a corrupt tree, we as a people have become a lost cause. And this revelation is evidence that no other people needs a Savior more than this lost tribe of people now known as black Americans.
THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A BLACK MAN..AND A NIGGA..NIGGA IS NOT ONLY OF THE BLACK RACE...matta of fact i only call folks of other races nigga's...lol. i like the way she brings her points.
Where are all the decent black men you ask? Most of them are avoiding retards like you because they know that your ilk are gonna treat them like crap!
And just what are "you" doing to perpetuate the problem? Oh, I forgot. You black women are too busy finding fault with everybody else except your damn selves. It's called "a Life". Get one...
We talk about uneducated thugs like there aren't any uneducated bitches. It's not a gender issue. These issues exist within every race, creed, and gender. It's just that black people get the shining lights of the media because it entertains people.
blacks are an endangered species and whites will be next. I had sex with black chicks it was similiar to whites, all bitches be crazy. (and possibly dirty)
So in other words, it's always her fault and never his? He will never be responsible for his own actions as long as they have stupid broads like you. Go ahead, give these thugs permission to beat the crap out of their women and abandon their own children. Give them permission to diss their mothers and not want to get a job. Lady, please don't reproduce, because then you will sacrifice your daughter to some useless, lazy, thug that will beat the crap out of her and blame her for it. Nutjob!
That was deep. Just for the record, I am a "bi-racial" male, (Indigenous American & Caucasian) and I think that was deep. Keep writing, this is powerfull. Your voice reminds me of a friend of mine.
the truth is go to porn sites look at a black women and look at white women. To me the genital region of a black women is gross. So we see when a black man bcomes rich he always chooses white. for the simple reason no one wants to see black womens genitalia.
@AdolfWHitler Amazing how so many black men feel like you, but quickly ready to hop in the bed with a black woman. Even more amazing is when a black woman date white men and black guys go into a frenzy. By the way, I worked for the medical field, and those pretty, white giirls (and guys) come in with all kinds of nasty STDs. One was a gorgeous, professional model who traveled the world, but had various kinds of STDs. Looks don't mean a thing - it can actually be deadly, men & women both.
Do any of you people realize that this is a poem! The author is just reciting a poem. Get off of her back! Geez, I hate it when people don't understand what's going on. And she speaks the TRUTH in her poem. If you're not black, you could never understand. You go girl keep STANDING!
Single mothers are disposable units. Unfit to be an wife. Then EXCEPT tha "NEXT MAN" to take that "NONSENSE" from tha Lazt worthless guy, who got no desire to do the "RIGHT THING". So, what does that explain of her personality? She doesnt deserve anything but Old Age. American Women is Trash!
Sweety, date somebody outside your race, if you have to, and quit your bitching! I'm a black woman, who is with a good man, and has been with him for almost 6 years. Every new man you find should NEVER have to pay for the mistakes of your exes. Get a therapist and cope, you bitter cunt!
black woman are angry cuz they aint pretty like white woman you black woman have put baby powder in crack a ya butts cuzz u sweat and leave blacker skin lmao
That statement gets more & more amusing each time it's heard... As an educated African American male ( who's peers feel the same way ). It never ceases to amaze watching African American women, CHOOSE the wrong kind of man to be with, have sex/children with said wrong kind of man, and then blame & complain for the decision they themselves have made.
But this is nothing I nor ANY male ( good or bad ) can change, women have a RIGHT, to choose a thug or an educated man.
Black women never had probelms like this until the mid 70's when they sold their souls to the govt for an avalanche of govt assistance and started to claim that they were never going to need a man of any kind for anything under any circumstances and started claiming that pu**y hungry a** niggers need to get themselves a white woman because white women are weak and need men and today there are videos and books on what has come to be called "The Black Girl Curse" all over the place.
black women should choose love first instead of choosing the guy with the best cars, the best job or the biggest dick! it takes time to build a strong black family but most black women don't have the patience to builld with a man. instead she pushes and pushes until she pushes him away. if your man is washing dishes at red lobster, don't go behind his back looking for the big baller. encourage him to do better, stand by his side and you will be proud when he picks him up and becomes successful!!
While I agree a lot with this commentary…strong truths, however it’s a one sided story We have to get beyond them, you can’t fix one of two broken legs and expect to walk without a limp! Addressing male/female relationship dysfunction must be done simultaneously as it breeds division & blame placing furthering generational dysfunction! Nothing is accomplished and the battles rage on! Balance is required!
Many ppl won't understand this video or agree with what she is saying. Many blk people are not fans of learning the Psychology behind their behavior. Also, understandably, many females resent it when there is talk of bad things having its orgins in the mothers. But I think it is unavoidable to factor in the influence of mothers when we discuss these problems. All agree that blk homes are 'headed' by mostly females, so it stands to reason that mothers bear much of the blame for the decline
@royalcoils100 plus on top of that through all your tough skin you guys forgot how to be ladies...the average dude does not want to date another man. The reason why we demean yaw is becuase yaw like it and becuase you guys disrespect us. With mamas sayin niggas aint shit in front of they son...how is he supposed to feel when he hear that? To me ita black women fault the race is where its at by encouraging thug culture by only giving them play!
@royalcoils100 its not a waiste of time...every situation you learn something new! So right there you come off ignorant to me. My message is I dont want to be around a group of women who only wants me if im thuggin or rappin! And the nerve of black women cryin victim when all they do is demean their men becuase you are mad at all blck men due to what your father did! Look i didnt do wnything so why take this fustration out on me?
It's a pitiful shame that you had to resort to posting disclaimers on this vid since I've been absent from GoogleTube, but it's just as I've been saying both then and since my return to this forum: we Negroes are always sitting on emotional hair-triggers, hyperquick to shoot 1st & fxck asking any questions afterward, bec. we've already passed judgment & executed sentence. I so wish we'd learn to just sit quietly & LISTEN to someone 1st, reserving opinion 'til we're SURE about what we're hearing.
Uneducated Black folks are the death of us. Women pull sway over on others like a show of power but then they turn around and end doing the same exact shit they was bitching about Dealing with the wrong Men. then get on a public Forum an try to gather a Brigade of men hating bytches. , the problems are Evident but the Solutions are Skipped over due to the i want what i want syndrome well ya got it. a life of misery no man and a Old stankin Existence for the rest of time be happy hoe
This is why men should never marry or get women pregnant. Dont to it and they wont have any power over you. Just let em bitch & enjoy your life without them.
Black women got mo brothers locked up then Bull Connor. Sisters keep the black man`s kids away from him, and she calls the police on the brother only when he hits her back. The tell other races that brother aint shit. And theyr`e loud, fat, mean, and always crying victim. They luv thuggs and can`t stand gentlemen, they complain about the lack of black men out their but never have no problem finding a baby daddy. They don`t excercise, and divorce their husband because they can`t control them.
See This Disgrunteld Woman has Thrown us Back 200 years, It Aint in the Black man you Should Be Looking For Greatness in its your self. An If You Find A No Good ass Nigga Then You've Found Exactly What You Ask For.How Will We Ever Rise as a People when Black women openly Discuss There HatredFor Black men white women Dont Do That Because they Stick by There men. How Strong Is Your Faith in Your Self
@royalcoils100 Welll it sounds like an education might be in order Sure i'm sure she has pain but lets deal with Faith it seems she has none The way she expressed her self sounds like self pity rather than the right time for Bitching. Women who dont seek to learn what others have gone thru repeat the mistakes of the past. she looks like a 70s mom on welfare running her flaps about her own fuckups getting people to pity her This shit has been addressed
@thosenuts Well i guess we can agree to disagree, you mention the way she looks, she's unhappy, she's hurt she's bitter,you're saying education is in order,i wld agree bt dnt you kno that educated women suffer the same pain,hurt, and low self esteem as women who've had education, there are a lot of sistas hurting for various reasons, an you say that becuz she's tellin her story she has set us back 200 years, what abt all the deadbeat dads, the grown ass men running around with sagging pants!
@royalcoils100 why do black woman make babies with deadbeat dads, that is not a sign of strength but utter stupidity, oh yeah if i had nickel for how many times i heard a black woman say sagging pants on men are so "sexy and gangsta" i would be a rich man!
@thosenuts. Did you listen to the whole poem? If you have not, listen to it in it's entirety. It is not about downing Black men, it is about illustrating the problem in the Black community.
Then with this attitude yaw get ignorant to the point where Its intolerable....like foreal I dont talk to black women because of this type of attitude....like to be honest I consider you all stupid ignorant unmannered apes....sad but true if you cut the bitterness I would gladly date a sista....but until then you all will only be a loud big lipped over opiniated coon and forever single!! Black bitches aint shit!
@JPOLOKCarson34 Really! LOL! I dnt kno why i wld even waste time responding to you, wtf makes you think that you're doin black women a favor because' "you wld gladly date one" first of all you kno nothing abt black women clearly,you dnt kno why sistas have a tough skin, one reasons our men totally degrade us in music and videos our strengh is our defense mechanism this goes back to slavery and jim crow we had to be strong we are the strongest women on the planet! honestly you sound very unhappy
@royalcoils100 black woman are the first too jump up dance and say "this is my song guurl" when a degrading song come on, black woman are the first too complain and cry why aint no black woman in the videos if they only put non-black woman in videos!!!
strong my left ass cheek, maybe about 50 years ago black woman were strong, but todays black woman are definitely not!
I'm a black man and I'm sick of you black women bitchin and moanin! Yooo the reason why black men act the way they do is because yaw seem to be attracted to the thug, uneducated & lazy negro. Point Blank niggas wouldnt do shit if yaw aint like it..like yaw say yall dont want a thug but yaw drop yaw drawers easy for that thug but a nice guy come a long and he gets nada. Then yall all hurt and bitter like above & take it out on the world..hello its yall fault idiotas!!!
Ok...here's the problem. YOU! Listen to yourself. NIgga this, nigga that! But apparently you have a history with laying down with "niggaz". Apparently you don't know what a "good black man" is cause there are plenty who take care of their kids. The ones who don't, THOSE ARE THE NIGGAZ! I'm sure you just venting and 1 hour later your going to spread your legs wide open to another "nigga". Sleep with niggaz you are likely to have "nigga activity" and "nigga consequences". Disgrace.
@krucial1313 IF you had listened to the whole monologue you would have realized that the first part was just stating what MANY women say and then she goes on to say it isn't true and the role that we as BLACK WOMEN play in how black men behave as we are the ones raising our black boys while we speak poorly of black men. Before you judge and start throwing around insults you should fully listen. Instead of hearing the true message you come off just as bad as the women she is disproving.
Dear Btter Moma, As a White man, I can empathize. Just as the males are the weak link of the Black race, so are the females the weak link of the White race; this is why they attract one another, as water always seeks its own level. All the strength, all the intelligence, all the fortitude lies within the BF and the WM. And this is why BF/WM relationships are awkward, becaus the peasants of two warring nations always connect before the aristocracy.
@jstc2002 fUCK. the White man has used Violence to the point that you've killed all means of bridging any healthy relation ships with any race your not on the black womens level they pity ya honky asses we as black men just want some pussy from white chicks we dont seek to bridge shit with them being that there hoes just like you intended. bLACK males are the weak link only because whity has done muCh to discredit black men are you a retard or what KILL YA MAMA THEN YA SELF
@thosenuts Spoken like a true Black male intellectual. I have long sympathized with Black women, most of whom have to work because the Black bucks who father their children refuse to work. ("To hell wid chile suppoaht - Buy Dem Rims!") White females who take up with Black bucks almost always get exactly what they deserve - just look at OJ's ofay ho.
@jstc2002 I sympathize with white woman who always get abused by white trash inbred rednecks and racist no character having, always feeling entitled for something because their skin is pale, who refuse to acknowledge all those white boys who leads in interracial relations with asian woman who was taught respect by asian men culture( to hell wit feminizm - get an asian chic), but always got something to say about black men white woman relations! u stinking hypocrites
What man would want to commit to some stupid hoe after she's been nasty with all them thugs . I would rather kill the thugs children rather than raise them.
Only "a crazy niggah" would stick around for all the baby-mamma drama. Why should a brother deal with all the attitude of a nutty black chick? White girls are so much easier to date.
shit if your kids are bad and your man doesnt own up to them then why get pregnant shit white women use to complain about white men tell women said you cant get mad at men if you choose the bad in them. Its a shame parents dont own up to their responsiblities
Oh, yeah, blame the bw for everything her grown son commits. If he goes out and robs and bank and kills someone, blame mommy. If he decides to drop out of school and join a gang, blame the bw. In other words, DON'T take responsibility for your own actions; just blame mom and don't appreciate her for raising you. Tell that crappy story to a judge, and he'll send your behind to prison where you belong. Everyone is responsible for your OWN actions. No excuses.
I almost stopped listening after about a minute because i thought it was just another crazy angry person on youtube im glad i listened to the whole thing!!! So many mothers don't realize the power they have to change the world. If all us mothers made a comitment to our children and to raising good humans this world could be so different!!
Take heed to this "black" women....please take heed!.....And to yall dudes who puttin this down...did yall listen to what she said?....I swear man people on youtube lost their thinkin ability or sumn. SMH
@JusTrynaPlzYAH I was raised without a father and none of us turned out to be criminals. Yes, I was raised in the hood with a strict mother, and me and my siblings turned out to be successful in life and happy marriages. It iks me when I hear people putting the blame on women for all their problems. Instead of appreciating what she's done for them, they complain and refuse to take responsilibity for their action. I appreciate my mother and what she's done for us. Men should take heed too.
@goov47 Dont know why commented to me. But I also didnt have a father, but I aint a criminal or drug dealer either. Plus you and me are just tow people. The majority of our people arent like you/me fam. Men should truly take heed, but most black men arent their for their kids. So my question is who is raising these boys who become no good men?
Most single black women should try to either get their boys around men who are willing to teach a boy, or at least learn how to raise a male child.
@JusTrynaPlzYAH I agree with you. There are not too many people like us. What irks me is how so many men refuse to take responsibility for their actions and blaming it on their mom or other women. Like you said, they should take heed too.All my life I have seen men making babies and having nothing to do with them and still blame the woman for everything. Both genders are guilty, but too many guys want to be scott-free from responsibility.Boys need their father, but lots of men just don't care.
@goov47 - There are 2 sides to a story so I blame both "black" men and women. Men need to learn how to either wait till marriage or use a condom and women need to learn how to keep their legs closed because a man cant get so far with a women unless she lets him.
I just heard a story today where a girl got pregnant on purpose because she thought it would make her boyfirend be more serious with her. Now thats her faught because if he was no good then dont expect for him to be after the kid.
@JusTrynaPlzYAH You're right, there are two sides to every story. However, the story that you heard about the girl purposely getting pregnant just to keep her boyfriend is shameful, but both sides are to be blamed. Any man that sleeps with a woman knows there's a chance of getting her pregnant. If he had have refrained from having sex with her this would have not happened. I blame BOTH because it takes two to tango, and they both knew what they were doing.They should have waited till marriage.
@goov47 Yea I feel you man. Now that women know that alot of dudes, not all, but alot, now that they know alot of dudes dont try to be there for their kids, its up to the women to have standards and keep their legs closed.
Just because the man dont take responsibility doesnt mean the woman doesnt have to either. Like I said men cant get to far with a woman unless she want him to. If most women get some standards then it wont really be a issue with dead beat dads....thats the truth.
@JusTrynaPlzYAH I understand that it's up to the woman if she chooses to pick a good-for-nothing thug, but these thugs need to be held accountable as well. They're both guilty, and the child is usually the innocent one. My parents were married and my father decided to abandon us, and left my mother to fend for herself with 7 kids. Meanwhile he was messing around with other women. I know there are good men and women out there but hard to find these days.
@JusTrynaPlzYAH You're right, there are many women who likes messing with bad dudes and till this day I can't understand why. My mother taught us to keep away from those kind of people. She made sure we had a roof over our head, food on the table, kept us clean and had very little friends because she didn't trust too many people. She was a great mother and was always there for us. I have the utmost respect for her and women like her. If only today's men and women were like that.
@goov47 That is a blessing. Women today are far from that. People these days dont know how to be parents and it shows in the children they are raising. Parents need to be more involved with their kids. Your mom must be a good woman!
My mom kept food on the table and stuff, but she really didnt raise me to be what I am now. She really only was there materially you see what im sayin? Who I am now came from The Most High, came from me trynna live for Him.
@JusTrynaPlzYAH Yes, she was a good woman. She taught us right from wrong and was pretty strict about it. Because of the way she raised us, none of us ended up jailbirds and we all live respectful lives and happy marriages. Very few parents are like that nowadays, and the kids are the ones who suffer. They're too lazy and just don't care. Sorry that your mother was there materially only, but it's good to know that you're not living a bad life like so many are.
Awesome.... If you responded before you listened to the entire Poem... then You missed it and your response would be inapropriate... But if you listened then you would know just how awesome these words are to hear and to follow... Gob Bless
Hell with childSupport, my so-call daughter is 19 years old and a mother of a 2 years old..I still have to pay for this piece of shit (Mother of her's) childSupport, while being married and on welfare and on section 8. I've been paying childSupport and while I was with this piece of shit (Mother of her's) since my so-call daughter was 1 1/2 years old. Now is it me? or the piece of shit? or my so-call daughter? or the System with the problem.I still have to pay childSupport until 21. NYC, BKLYN
DID ANY ONE LISTEN TO HER OR DID YOU JUST HEAR 3 WORDS AND RAN WITH THAT YOU GOT TO BE STUPID SHE SPEAKIN LIFE IN TO YOU WOMEN THAT ARE DOING THESE AND SHE IS HEALING THE MEN THAT WERE TOLD ALL THESE THINGS WOW
That is a lie. All Men don't cheat. You are something wrong with you. There is no good Bitch because Don't call me a Nigga I hate that word just like you hate be calling bitch.
Gotta slap all dez brothas wit a negro restrainin' order! Dat's when you tie their dick around their ankle. Dey all just be wantin' to get some skank fo there hang low. Buncha welfare pimps fo' sho'! And whateva y'all do,don't get me goin' on dem white bitches!
These type of comments regarding to our black men are so damn stereotypical and damn sure not true. The ones that fall into this category its certainly clear why and what circumstance lead him to be this way. Our people have been conditioned by the oppressor to believe this bullshit about our men and our people it stems way back from slavery and still exist today, people wake up this is not true every man speaks for himself and this type of descriptions puts a person into a certain mentality.
Way too much anaylsis and diagnosis. I think we've had issues even before the trans Atlantic slavery. We allowed some self proclaimed Arab Prophet to divide ourselves. Those unbelievers who didn't follow Islam were headed for The America's in chains. Captured and sold by the Arab Muslim and his African convert. And they are still doing it today. Blacks have been under Mohammad's spell for 1400 years. Let's not blame it on the white man
BLACK MEN: Break the chains of slavery..get the hell away from Black women. They only exist by spreading white supremist propaganda against Black men. They have been crushed by white supremacy and have taken on the persona of racist white supremist. You bamboozled ass BM are dying and are making easier for the racist institution to kill us all. Pull your head from the shit filled nigger toilet that BW are trying to flush you in. Leave these low crawling rape victims..save the Black man !
Great poem. There is a problem to be solved in our community and this poem's message is, in fact, the starting point. It all starts in the family. Weather their is a father present or not; we need to raise our kids with Love, respect, honor, self worth and dignity. There is no greater responsibility, in terms of dfficulty and reward.
Realist message I have ever heard via a modern poem. This can be utilized as a first step in the healing process of a scorned, bitter, hateful sister. If you love someone who exhibits the behavior demonstrated in the first part of this video, it is your DUTY to allow them to hear this, and discuss this with them. Be blessed.
hell no they don't, my dad is white and american and brought my mom to america had 2 kids and dipped out, yet I found him at age 19 and he made 120k per year and never wanted to do shit for me, his name is RICHARD ALAN KOONS he lives in the Brittany Lakes Subdivision in LEAGUE CITY, TEXAS! its not just black men.
@kingkongrichie Yes but white men dont do that in record numbers. I am not saying all black men are like that. But this lady is pissed off at her black man, but women from other races are doing a lot better and thats fact.
@budfebreze i like how you just told her not to do something you just did. you say "not all men are like nigger men" but not all blacks cheat, lie, steal, etc... And defiantly not all whites, Indians, and Asians are faithful. So if your trying to make a point don't be hypocritical... and but don't use the word nigger because it is a derogatory term use to insult my ancestors, not your ancestors but mine.
@KenjiDubuisson First off,,, niggers call each other niggers all the time BY CHOICE.. so i dont see anything wrong with it. Seriously if u want respect from others mayb u ppl shud have some self respect 1st. Anyway black man falls last in taking care of babymomma in all the races which is a fact. They fuck produce babies and then LEAVE! Black men has lowest sense of family among all races so i dont think she shud generalize it.
@budfebreze you shouldn't generalize whites as faithful because i know pretty that aren't. Black mothers don't put up with cheaters and have the balls to stand up for themselves, white mothers ALWAYS like that your husbands would come around but they never do cuz once you a cheater, your always a cheater. so i conmend nlack mother for letting there man go and playing the father role in their childs life, but white women live with it smh
Very good message. "The women are the first teachers of the child and what she gives to the child it gives to the world," quote from Malcolm X movie. Farrakhan spoke about this too in a video called, "How To Give Birth To A God." I hope black women realize how important they are to our people and start guarding their minds from the nonsense.
i love this,you are what you speak, watch your mouths sisters. humble yourselves and lets uplift our black men they need your positivity,love and support..peace be unto all!
The only thing true about what bittermama is saying is this - ALL Black men cheat. It's not our fault, black women are sexy as hell. Get over it and get used to it.
There are many good black men out there and most will die for their kids.
"If you do not understand White Supremacy (Rascism) What it is, and how it works everything else that you understand, will only confuse you" Dr. Neely Fuller Jr. (1971) "The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept"
Loving this!!!! Girl u did ur thing...keep doing it....i think every "BITTERMAMA" should have a "SMARTWOMAN" as a friend because this is sooo true!! Of course we have ignorant ppl on here who dont even get this.....but I get it and I love it.....stay positive!! Blessings
Big ups to this post. I am glad to hear a little positive toward the black man. I will say this and if you agree good. If not then we agree to disagree. A woman cannot teach a son all that he needs to know about being a man, because she has never been a man. And as the SmartBlackWoman says, we cannot base all men on a few. But as me, we need to listen and take notes on this. There is positive words in her for all. LISTEN BEFORE YOU SPEAK ON IT.
There you heard it from "hate central" all men bad!! All women good!! Boy wouldn't it be nice if life were that simple! The reason so many black men are "loose cannons" ie they will sleep with a woman but not commit, is that they have been told by those same black women how unnecessary they are! It is no wonder why they don't commit, no decent women to commit to, just a bunch of selfish" HO's who want all the rights and choice but don't want a man to have any.
@unclefixer Did you listen to the entire piece? I am almost certain you didn't. Listen to the entire poem she isn't a hate monger really she is teaching truth.
ur right
nisecam 1 week ago
First off... enough of the double negatives and negative slurs towards the BLACK MAN. I'm a proud black man and couldn't imagine sharing my heart, money,manhood,time or anything I share with my wife.
Most of all.... ladies who took the time review this video and comments. Black or White, any race of man!!! Ladies remember this if he has no true love for Jesus, and I do mean TRUE LOVE for JESUS.... you always should expect for the worst. One who takes time for Him will take his time with you.....
craydhiltn 2 weeks ago
Many brothers choose chicks from other races for this reason. Why take baby-mama drama?
sandinyourshoes 4 weeks ago
@sandinyourshoes Maybe if they take partial responsibility for the problems couples go through things wouldn't be as bad. You can't jump into bed with a woman, produce a child with her and then expect her not to say anything when he abandons her. They're both consenting adults, which means they both take responsibility for their own actions. They're both to blame, not just her.
mrql123 3 weeks ago
@mrql123, true, both are to blame. It just seems that people do not learn from their mistakes.
sandinyourshoes 3 weeks ago
@sandinyourshoes You are so right.
mrql123 3 weeks ago
@sandinyourshoes, that is why I like watching how Crazy Brah explains the issue.
sandinyourshoes 3 weeks ago
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There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
pc0p1mp 1 month ago
This was a great video.
However, since we cannot get good fruit from a corrupt tree, we as a people have become a lost cause. And this revelation is evidence that no other people needs a Savior more than this lost tribe of people now known as black Americans.
vincent15641 1 month ago
THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A BLACK MAN..AND A NIGGA..NIGGA IS NOT ONLY OF THE BLACK RACE...matta of fact i only call folks of other races nigga's...lol. i like the way she brings her points.
lutollo 1 month ago
Great videos
rbutler92go 1 month ago
Oh by the way, that was directed at all the black women who bitch about the scarcity of decent black men!
spellbreakerko 1 month ago
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Where are all the decent black men you ask? Most of them are avoiding retards like you because they know that your ilk are gonna treat them like crap!
spellbreakerko 1 month ago
dang boo
diordivavt 1 month ago
And just what are "you" doing to perpetuate the problem? Oh, I forgot. You black women are too busy finding fault with everybody else except your damn selves. It's called "a Life". Get one...
DHigable 2 months ago
Bravo my sister Bravo.
VicNeely1 3 months ago
I think there are some good black men out there, but if we can just leave the uneducated thug ass niggas alone, we be good to go best wishes to you.
MissEbo1985 3 months ago
@MissEbo1985
We talk about uneducated thugs like there aren't any uneducated bitches. It's not a gender issue. These issues exist within every race, creed, and gender. It's just that black people get the shining lights of the media because it entertains people.
Mokurentate 1 month ago
and black women wonder why black men chase white women, look in a mirror
rabidchevy 3 months ago
blacks are an endangered species and whites will be next. I had sex with black chicks it was similiar to whites, all bitches be crazy. (and possibly dirty)
AdolfWHitler 3 months ago
blk people are pathetic
YANAMization 3 months ago
So in other words, it's always her fault and never his? He will never be responsible for his own actions as long as they have stupid broads like you. Go ahead, give these thugs permission to beat the crap out of their women and abandon their own children. Give them permission to diss their mothers and not want to get a job. Lady, please don't reproduce, because then you will sacrifice your daughter to some useless, lazy, thug that will beat the crap out of her and blame her for it. Nutjob!
mrql123 3 months ago
MARVELOUS !!
Tankweti 3 months ago
Wow!! her store is closed.
WecanWinJesse 3 months ago
That was deep. Just for the record, I am a "bi-racial" male, (Indigenous American & Caucasian) and I think that was deep. Keep writing, this is powerfull. Your voice reminds me of a friend of mine.
CrazyBear65 4 months ago
O_o
chsn09 5 months ago
Wonderful wonderful piece of art! I do hope that bittermamas listen to this and take it to heart!
0DigitalGeisha0 5 months ago
the truth is go to porn sites look at a black women and look at white women. To me the genital region of a black women is gross. So we see when a black man bcomes rich he always chooses white. for the simple reason no one wants to see black womens genitalia.
AdolfWHitler 5 months ago
@AdolfWHitler Amazing how so many black men feel like you, but quickly ready to hop in the bed with a black woman. Even more amazing is when a black woman date white men and black guys go into a frenzy. By the way, I worked for the medical field, and those pretty, white giirls (and guys) come in with all kinds of nasty STDs. One was a gorgeous, professional model who traveled the world, but had various kinds of STDs. Looks don't mean a thing - it can actually be deadly, men & women both.
mrql123 3 months ago
Do any of you people realize that this is a poem! The author is just reciting a poem. Get off of her back! Geez, I hate it when people don't understand what's going on. And she speaks the TRUTH in her poem. If you're not black, you could never understand. You go girl keep STANDING!
Notime4awatch 5 months ago
I have already decided to blow my brains before I get with another BW. END THE CURSE, STOP THE CURSE, END THE CURSE....
TheBlackGlenBeck 5 months ago
Single mothers are disposable units. Unfit to be an wife. Then EXCEPT tha "NEXT MAN" to take that "NONSENSE" from tha Lazt worthless guy, who got no desire to do the "RIGHT THING". So, what does that explain of her personality? She doesnt deserve anything but Old Age. American Women is Trash!
UltraDOG17 6 months ago
Sweety, date somebody outside your race, if you have to, and quit your bitching! I'm a black woman, who is with a good man, and has been with him for almost 6 years. Every new man you find should NEVER have to pay for the mistakes of your exes. Get a therapist and cope, you bitter cunt!
gir908922 6 months ago
@gir908922 That's my reply when I hear other women espouse that bitter crap.
gir908922 6 months ago
@MrImsokewl if you have nothing good to say, don't say anything at all. This is real, and this is our lives, there is no joke about it.
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Twoodssax1234567 6 months ago
i love this poem, those females are terrible.
miszreese 6 months ago
yeah most men cheat but good luck to ya girl
wettacos4ever 6 months ago
black woman are angry cuz they aint pretty like white woman you black woman have put baby powder in crack a ya butts cuzz u sweat and leave blacker skin lmao
MrImsokewl 7 months ago
@MrImsokewl are u a black man?
IamDottieDandridge 6 months ago
"Black men are s*it"
That statement gets more & more amusing each time it's heard... As an educated African American male ( who's peers feel the same way ). It never ceases to amaze watching African American women, CHOOSE the wrong kind of man to be with, have sex/children with said wrong kind of man, and then blame & complain for the decision they themselves have made.
But this is nothing I nor ANY male ( good or bad ) can change, women have a RIGHT, to choose a thug or an educated man.
nightpanther79 7 months ago 8
Shiiiiiit.
SollaceLux 7 months ago
This is beautiful. YOUR ART IS BEAUTIFUL.
ariellebellissimo 7 months ago
Black women never had probelms like this until the mid 70's when they sold their souls to the govt for an avalanche of govt assistance and started to claim that they were never going to need a man of any kind for anything under any circumstances and started claiming that pu**y hungry a** niggers need to get themselves a white woman because white women are weak and need men and today there are videos and books on what has come to be called "The Black Girl Curse" all over the place.
pc0p1mp 8 months ago
Amen....
fattygirlnyc 8 months ago
This is deep big sista!
JMoniqueLuvsMusiq93 8 months ago
black women should choose love first instead of choosing the guy with the best cars, the best job or the biggest dick! it takes time to build a strong black family but most black women don't have the patience to builld with a man. instead she pushes and pushes until she pushes him away. if your man is washing dishes at red lobster, don't go behind his back looking for the big baller. encourage him to do better, stand by his side and you will be proud when he picks him up and becomes successful!!
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Mrbabidaddiclothesli 8 months ago
While I agree a lot with this commentary…strong truths, however it’s a one sided story We have to get beyond them, you can’t fix one of two broken legs and expect to walk without a limp! Addressing male/female relationship dysfunction must be done simultaneously as it breeds division & blame placing furthering generational dysfunction! Nothing is accomplished and the battles rage on! Balance is required!
gjack100 9 months ago
Many ppl won't understand this video or agree with what she is saying. Many blk people are not fans of learning the Psychology behind their behavior. Also, understandably, many females resent it when there is talk of bad things having its orgins in the mothers. But I think it is unavoidable to factor in the influence of mothers when we discuss these problems. All agree that blk homes are 'headed' by mostly females, so it stands to reason that mothers bear much of the blame for the decline
jhvenus2004 9 months ago
This ish is dumb!
spierce100 9 months ago
@spierce100 why? lol
JMoniqueLuvsMusiq93 9 months ago
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Mrbigdaddy2361 9 months ago
@royalcoils100 plus on top of that through all your tough skin you guys forgot how to be ladies...the average dude does not want to date another man. The reason why we demean yaw is becuase yaw like it and becuase you guys disrespect us. With mamas sayin niggas aint shit in front of they son...how is he supposed to feel when he hear that? To me ita black women fault the race is where its at by encouraging thug culture by only giving them play!
JPOLOKCarson34 9 months ago
@royalcoils100 its not a waiste of time...every situation you learn something new! So right there you come off ignorant to me. My message is I dont want to be around a group of women who only wants me if im thuggin or rappin! And the nerve of black women cryin victim when all they do is demean their men becuase you are mad at all blck men due to what your father did! Look i didnt do wnything so why take this fustration out on me?
JPOLOKCarson34 9 months ago
It's a pitiful shame that you had to resort to posting disclaimers on this vid since I've been absent from GoogleTube, but it's just as I've been saying both then and since my return to this forum: we Negroes are always sitting on emotional hair-triggers, hyperquick to shoot 1st & fxck asking any questions afterward, bec. we've already passed judgment & executed sentence. I so wish we'd learn to just sit quietly & LISTEN to someone 1st, reserving opinion 'til we're SURE about what we're hearing.
GeneralBacklash 9 months ago
Uneducated Black folks are the death of us. Women pull sway over on others like a show of power but then they turn around and end doing the same exact shit they was bitching about Dealing with the wrong Men. then get on a public Forum an try to gather a Brigade of men hating bytches. , the problems are Evident but the Solutions are Skipped over due to the i want what i want syndrome well ya got it. a life of misery no man and a Old stankin Existence for the rest of time be happy hoe
thosenuts 10 months ago
This is why men should never marry or get women pregnant. Dont to it and they wont have any power over you. Just let em bitch & enjoy your life without them.
onemansrage 10 months ago
No good men what the color !!!
katchkittie 10 months ago
Wow, soo true:)
mekaziona 10 months ago
BEAUTIFUL!!!!!
YoungRaWarrior 10 months ago
Black women got mo brothers locked up then Bull Connor. Sisters keep the black man`s kids away from him, and she calls the police on the brother only when he hits her back. The tell other races that brother aint shit. And theyr`e loud, fat, mean, and always crying victim. They luv thuggs and can`t stand gentlemen, they complain about the lack of black men out their but never have no problem finding a baby daddy. They don`t excercise, and divorce their husband because they can`t control them.
LACraig621 10 months ago 19
I love it ! To many woman set their children for failure. I see it all. Blk woman stop downing are black men !!
LaToya2581 10 months ago
@LaToya2581 Good point. You . How can any one go good if you already gave up.
m109r1800 10 months ago
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@LaToya2581 Good point. You . How can any one do good if you already gave up.
m109r1800 10 months ago
See This Disgrunteld Woman has Thrown us Back 200 years, It Aint in the Black man you Should Be Looking For Greatness in its your self. An If You Find A No Good ass Nigga Then You've Found Exactly What You Ask For.How Will We Ever Rise as a People when Black women openly Discuss There HatredFor Black men white women Dont Do That Because they Stick by There men. How Strong Is Your Faith in Your Self
thosenuts 11 months ago 3
@thosenuts She is speaking from the point of view of a woman that is bitter,these are the feelings that are in the soul of a hurt woman
royalcoils100 10 months ago
@royalcoils100 Welll it sounds like an education might be in order Sure i'm sure she has pain but lets deal with Faith it seems she has none The way she expressed her self sounds like self pity rather than the right time for Bitching. Women who dont seek to learn what others have gone thru repeat the mistakes of the past. she looks like a 70s mom on welfare running her flaps about her own fuckups getting people to pity her This shit has been addressed
thosenuts 10 months ago
@thosenuts Well i guess we can agree to disagree, you mention the way she looks, she's unhappy, she's hurt she's bitter,you're saying education is in order,i wld agree bt dnt you kno that educated women suffer the same pain,hurt, and low self esteem as women who've had education, there are a lot of sistas hurting for various reasons, an you say that becuz she's tellin her story she has set us back 200 years, what abt all the deadbeat dads, the grown ass men running around with sagging pants!
royalcoils100 9 months ago
@royalcoils100 why do black woman make babies with deadbeat dads, that is not a sign of strength but utter stupidity, oh yeah if i had nickel for how many times i heard a black woman say sagging pants on men are so "sexy and gangsta" i would be a rich man!
nutramental 9 months ago
@thosenuts. Did you listen to the whole poem? If you have not, listen to it in it's entirety. It is not about downing Black men, it is about illustrating the problem in the Black community.
KharismaBrown 9 months ago
starting from 3:58......speak, sista speak!!!! 5:38 mmmmmm mmmmm
Daniyaism 11 months ago
Then with this attitude yaw get ignorant to the point where Its intolerable....like foreal I dont talk to black women because of this type of attitude....like to be honest I consider you all stupid ignorant unmannered apes....sad but true if you cut the bitterness I would gladly date a sista....but until then you all will only be a loud big lipped over opiniated coon and forever single!! Black bitches aint shit!
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Daniyaism 11 months ago
@JPOLOKCarson34 Really! LOL! I dnt kno why i wld even waste time responding to you, wtf makes you think that you're doin black women a favor because' "you wld gladly date one" first of all you kno nothing abt black women clearly,you dnt kno why sistas have a tough skin, one reasons our men totally degrade us in music and videos our strengh is our defense mechanism this goes back to slavery and jim crow we had to be strong we are the strongest women on the planet! honestly you sound very unhappy
royalcoils100 9 months ago
@royalcoils100 black woman are the first too jump up dance and say "this is my song guurl" when a degrading song come on, black woman are the first too complain and cry why aint no black woman in the videos if they only put non-black woman in videos!!!
strong my left ass cheek, maybe about 50 years ago black woman were strong, but todays black woman are definitely not!
nutramental 9 months ago
I'm a black man and I'm sick of you black women bitchin and moanin! Yooo the reason why black men act the way they do is because yaw seem to be attracted to the thug, uneducated & lazy negro. Point Blank niggas wouldnt do shit if yaw aint like it..like yaw say yall dont want a thug but yaw drop yaw drawers easy for that thug but a nice guy come a long and he gets nada. Then yall all hurt and bitter like above & take it out on the world..hello its yall fault idiotas!!!
JPOLOKCarson34 11 months ago
@JPOLOKCarson34 TRUE TRUE
jayblac 11 months ago
Stop fuckin with niggaz and get your self and blackman aka the nice guy POINT BLANK PERIOD!
dakingofhearts 11 months ago
Ok...here's the problem. YOU! Listen to yourself. NIgga this, nigga that! But apparently you have a history with laying down with "niggaz". Apparently you don't know what a "good black man" is cause there are plenty who take care of their kids. The ones who don't, THOSE ARE THE NIGGAZ! I'm sure you just venting and 1 hour later your going to spread your legs wide open to another "nigga". Sleep with niggaz you are likely to have "nigga activity" and "nigga consequences". Disgrace.
krucial1313 11 months ago
@krucial1313 IF you had listened to the whole monologue you would have realized that the first part was just stating what MANY women say and then she goes on to say it isn't true and the role that we as BLACK WOMEN play in how black men behave as we are the ones raising our black boys while we speak poorly of black men. Before you judge and start throwing around insults you should fully listen. Instead of hearing the true message you come off just as bad as the women she is disproving.
bklynlady71 11 months ago
Preach on, Sista! Preach on! Halleluja!!! Can I get an amen up in here? Shawty be tellin' it real!
mattrmc19 11 months ago
Dear Btter Moma, As a White man, I can empathize. Just as the males are the weak link of the Black race, so are the females the weak link of the White race; this is why they attract one another, as water always seeks its own level. All the strength, all the intelligence, all the fortitude lies within the BF and the WM. And this is why BF/WM relationships are awkward, becaus the peasants of two warring nations always connect before the aristocracy.
jstc2002 11 months ago
@jstc2002 fUCK. the White man has used Violence to the point that you've killed all means of bridging any healthy relation ships with any race your not on the black womens level they pity ya honky asses we as black men just want some pussy from white chicks we dont seek to bridge shit with them being that there hoes just like you intended. bLACK males are the weak link only because whity has done muCh to discredit black men are you a retard or what KILL YA MAMA THEN YA SELF
thosenuts 10 months ago
@thosenuts Spoken like a true Black male intellectual. I have long sympathized with Black women, most of whom have to work because the Black bucks who father their children refuse to work. ("To hell wid chile suppoaht - Buy Dem Rims!") White females who take up with Black bucks almost always get exactly what they deserve - just look at OJ's ofay ho.
jstc2002 10 months ago
@jstc2002 I sympathize with white woman who always get abused by white trash inbred rednecks and racist no character having, always feeling entitled for something because their skin is pale, who refuse to acknowledge all those white boys who leads in interracial relations with asian woman who was taught respect by asian men culture( to hell wit feminizm - get an asian chic), but always got something to say about black men white woman relations! u stinking hypocrites
nutramental 9 months ago
What man would want to commit to some stupid hoe after she's been nasty with all them thugs . I would rather kill the thugs children rather than raise them.
69Geeforce 11 months ago
Teach Sister,,you hit the nail on the head !
PAYATTENTIONDAMMITT 11 months ago
Speak!
Sassymarkrep 11 months ago
TEACH!!
mssquirrely 11 months ago
Rent a gun....Buy a bullet!
SANTORO61 11 months ago
Only "a crazy niggah" would stick around for all the baby-mamma drama. Why should a brother deal with all the attitude of a nutty black chick? White girls are so much easier to date.
sandinyourshoes 11 months ago
Sounds like a monologue from an off Broadway play.
JackFlanders 11 months ago
shit if your kids are bad and your man doesnt own up to them then why get pregnant shit white women use to complain about white men tell women said you cant get mad at men if you choose the bad in them. Its a shame parents dont own up to their responsiblities
brollicon 11 months ago
Oh, yeah, blame the bw for everything her grown son commits. If he goes out and robs and bank and kills someone, blame mommy. If he decides to drop out of school and join a gang, blame the bw. In other words, DON'T take responsibility for your own actions; just blame mom and don't appreciate her for raising you. Tell that crappy story to a judge, and he'll send your behind to prison where you belong. Everyone is responsible for your OWN actions. No excuses.
goov47 1 year ago
Yes!!!! This is phenomenal!
swarthysavant 1 year ago
I almost stopped listening after about a minute because i thought it was just another crazy angry person on youtube im glad i listened to the whole thing!!! So many mothers don't realize the power they have to change the world. If all us mothers made a comitment to our children and to raising good humans this world could be so different!!
295Green 1 year ago
Take heed to this "black" women....please take heed!.....And to yall dudes who puttin this down...did yall listen to what she said?....I swear man people on youtube lost their thinkin ability or sumn. SMH
Shalom and YAH bless!
JusTrynaPlzYAH 1 year ago
@JusTrynaPlzYAH I was raised without a father and none of us turned out to be criminals. Yes, I was raised in the hood with a strict mother, and me and my siblings turned out to be successful in life and happy marriages. It iks me when I hear people putting the blame on women for all their problems. Instead of appreciating what she's done for them, they complain and refuse to take responsilibity for their action. I appreciate my mother and what she's done for us. Men should take heed too.
goov47 1 year ago
@goov47 Dont know why commented to me. But I also didnt have a father, but I aint a criminal or drug dealer either. Plus you and me are just tow people. The majority of our people arent like you/me fam. Men should truly take heed, but most black men arent their for their kids. So my question is who is raising these boys who become no good men?
Most single black women should try to either get their boys around men who are willing to teach a boy, or at least learn how to raise a male child.
JusTrynaPlzYAH 1 year ago
@JusTrynaPlzYAH I agree with you. There are not too many people like us. What irks me is how so many men refuse to take responsibility for their actions and blaming it on their mom or other women. Like you said, they should take heed too.All my life I have seen men making babies and having nothing to do with them and still blame the woman for everything. Both genders are guilty, but too many guys want to be scott-free from responsibility.Boys need their father, but lots of men just don't care.
goov47 1 year ago
@goov47 - There are 2 sides to a story so I blame both "black" men and women. Men need to learn how to either wait till marriage or use a condom and women need to learn how to keep their legs closed because a man cant get so far with a women unless she lets him.
I just heard a story today where a girl got pregnant on purpose because she thought it would make her boyfirend be more serious with her. Now thats her faught because if he was no good then dont expect for him to be after the kid.
JusTrynaPlzYAH 1 year ago
@JusTrynaPlzYAH You're right, there are two sides to every story. However, the story that you heard about the girl purposely getting pregnant just to keep her boyfriend is shameful, but both sides are to be blamed. Any man that sleeps with a woman knows there's a chance of getting her pregnant. If he had have refrained from having sex with her this would have not happened. I blame BOTH because it takes two to tango, and they both knew what they were doing.They should have waited till marriage.
goov47 1 year ago
@goov47 Yea I feel you man. Now that women know that alot of dudes, not all, but alot, now that they know alot of dudes dont try to be there for their kids, its up to the women to have standards and keep their legs closed.
Just because the man dont take responsibility doesnt mean the woman doesnt have to either. Like I said men cant get to far with a woman unless she want him to. If most women get some standards then it wont really be a issue with dead beat dads....thats the truth.
JusTrynaPlzYAH 1 year ago
@JusTrynaPlzYAH I understand that it's up to the woman if she chooses to pick a good-for-nothing thug, but these thugs need to be held accountable as well. They're both guilty, and the child is usually the innocent one. My parents were married and my father decided to abandon us, and left my mother to fend for herself with 7 kids. Meanwhile he was messing around with other women. I know there are good men and women out there but hard to find these days.
goov47 1 year ago
@goov47 Dag your situation is serious....Yea what ya pops did is wrong man 4real! Thats sumn I totally blame on the man.
I was more focused on those who havent comitted or havent shown any commitment. Those the dudes women need to leave alone.
Thats crazy man!
JusTrynaPlzYAH 1 year ago
@JusTrynaPlzYAH You're right, there are many women who likes messing with bad dudes and till this day I can't understand why. My mother taught us to keep away from those kind of people. She made sure we had a roof over our head, food on the table, kept us clean and had very little friends because she didn't trust too many people. She was a great mother and was always there for us. I have the utmost respect for her and women like her. If only today's men and women were like that.
goov47 1 year ago
@goov47 That is a blessing. Women today are far from that. People these days dont know how to be parents and it shows in the children they are raising. Parents need to be more involved with their kids. Your mom must be a good woman!
My mom kept food on the table and stuff, but she really didnt raise me to be what I am now. She really only was there materially you see what im sayin? Who I am now came from The Most High, came from me trynna live for Him.
Thats whats up though man!
JusTrynaPlzYAH 1 year ago
@JusTrynaPlzYAH Yes, she was a good woman. She taught us right from wrong and was pretty strict about it. Because of the way she raised us, none of us ended up jailbirds and we all live respectful lives and happy marriages. Very few parents are like that nowadays, and the kids are the ones who suffer. They're too lazy and just don't care. Sorry that your mother was there materially only, but it's good to know that you're not living a bad life like so many are.
goov47 1 year ago
Good job sister
Now go out and locate a pro Black social rights leadership organization because they need people like you.The Black Pill is looking for you.
llhillllhill 1 year ago
Awesome.... If you responded before you listened to the entire Poem... then You missed it and your response would be inapropriate... But if you listened then you would know just how awesome these words are to hear and to follow... Gob Bless
angelcc100 1 year ago
she spoke the truth
mscarolinagirl08 1 year ago
LOVE IT!!!
MsLissa5 1 year ago
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smrfr 1 year ago
Good vid.....
ripperduck 1 year ago
ALL YALL FUCKING STUPID SHE'S NOT CURSING US BLACK MEN SHE'S ACTUALLY STANDING FOR US LISTEN TO THE ENTIRE VID
thugz00 1 year ago
DID ANY ONE LISTEN TO HER OR DID YOU JUST HEAR 3 WORDS AND RAN WITH THAT YOU GOT TO BE STUPID SHE SPEAKIN LIFE IN TO YOU WOMEN THAT ARE DOING THESE AND SHE IS HEALING THE MEN THAT WERE TOLD ALL THESE THINGS WOW
62ladyshitme 1 year ago
LMAO! @ these nigggas out here aint shit!
prettyyoungthing90 1 year ago 2
Can someone get a translator please
jasonbear72 1 year ago
Bravo!
diqblaq 1 year ago
LMAO
Mbeebeelove 1 year ago
That is a lie. All Men don't cheat. You are something wrong with you. There is no good Bitch because Don't call me a Nigga I hate that word just like you hate be calling bitch.
MasterOfAllBulldogs 1 year ago
YOU SOUND UGLY! AND YOU ARE UGLY! NO WONDER HE CHEATED ON YOU!!!!
rollin77 1 year ago
Gotta slap all dez brothas wit a negro restrainin' order! Dat's when you tie their dick around their ankle. Dey all just be wantin' to get some skank fo there hang low. Buncha welfare pimps fo' sho'! And whateva y'all do,don't get me goin' on dem white bitches!
liveup5 1 year ago
These type of comments regarding to our black men are so damn stereotypical and damn sure not true. The ones that fall into this category its certainly clear why and what circumstance lead him to be this way. Our people have been conditioned by the oppressor to believe this bullshit about our men and our people it stems way back from slavery and still exist today, people wake up this is not true every man speaks for himself and this type of descriptions puts a person into a certain mentality.
DESIGNSBYNICO 1 year ago
Way too much anaylsis and diagnosis. I think we've had issues even before the trans Atlantic slavery. We allowed some self proclaimed Arab Prophet to divide ourselves. Those unbelievers who didn't follow Islam were headed for The America's in chains. Captured and sold by the Arab Muslim and his African convert. And they are still doing it today. Blacks have been under Mohammad's spell for 1400 years. Let's not blame it on the white man
lemmieatit 1 year ago
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BLACK MEN: Break the chains of slavery..get the hell away from Black women. They only exist by spreading white supremist propaganda against Black men. They have been crushed by white supremacy and have taken on the persona of racist white supremist. You bamboozled ass BM are dying and are making easier for the racist institution to kill us all. Pull your head from the shit filled nigger toilet that BW are trying to flush you in. Leave these low crawling rape victims..save the Black man !
JohantoZulu1 1 year ago
isnt there a mildmama round here somewhere
RICHARDTOMLEY10WHARF 1 year ago
Great poem. There is a problem to be solved in our community and this poem's message is, in fact, the starting point. It all starts in the family. Weather their is a father present or not; we need to raise our kids with Love, respect, honor, self worth and dignity. There is no greater responsibility, in terms of dfficulty and reward.
mdstalla 1 year ago
im sharing this on facebook and twitter!
TheTelesha 1 year ago
I Like This, Poetic
sj4 1 year ago
Powerful
unshutoptic1 1 year ago
I like this. so true
Rieseeify 1 year ago
and finally a black women who say she dont understand shit about her black men!! i ve alawys noticed that!
mddarch2 1 year ago
i was about to say" ANOTHER ONE" ???? but then i heard the rest of the video...and was like ok this is allright!
mddarch2 1 year ago
wow wonderful i like it its ture we put it in our children we need to do better black women
cocomst25 1 year ago
could thing you said to wait before making comments..........Well Done!
oceaneyess67 1 year ago
Realist message I have ever heard via a modern poem. This can be utilized as a first step in the healing process of a scorned, bitter, hateful sister. If you love someone who exhibits the behavior demonstrated in the first part of this video, it is your DUTY to allow them to hear this, and discuss this with them. Be blessed.
cboneofenglewood 1 year ago
started to turn off, but listened to the entire poem. Very good
gayle2020 1 year ago
Like this poem,you go girl !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
melissawoods10 1 year ago
hell no they don't, my dad is white and american and brought my mom to america had 2 kids and dipped out, yet I found him at age 19 and he made 120k per year and never wanted to do shit for me, his name is RICHARD ALAN KOONS he lives in the Brittany Lakes Subdivision in LEAGUE CITY, TEXAS! its not just black men.
kingkongrichie 1 year ago
@kingkongrichie Yes but white men dont do that in record numbers. I am not saying all black men are like that. But this lady is pissed off at her black man, but women from other races are doing a lot better and thats fact.
budfebreze 1 year ago
Hey lady.. not all men are like Nigger men. White man, indian man or even japanese man take good care of their families. So dont generalize men.
budfebreze 1 year ago
@budfebreze i like how you just told her not to do something you just did. you say "not all men are like nigger men" but not all blacks cheat, lie, steal, etc... And defiantly not all whites, Indians, and Asians are faithful. So if your trying to make a point don't be hypocritical... and but don't use the word nigger because it is a derogatory term use to insult my ancestors, not your ancestors but mine.
KenjiDubuisson 1 year ago
@KenjiDubuisson First off,,, niggers call each other niggers all the time BY CHOICE.. so i dont see anything wrong with it. Seriously if u want respect from others mayb u ppl shud have some self respect 1st. Anyway black man falls last in taking care of babymomma in all the races which is a fact. They fuck produce babies and then LEAVE! Black men has lowest sense of family among all races so i dont think she shud generalize it.
budfebreze 1 year ago
@budfebreze you shouldn't generalize whites as faithful because i know pretty that aren't. Black mothers don't put up with cheaters and have the balls to stand up for themselves, white mothers ALWAYS like that your husbands would come around but they never do cuz once you a cheater, your always a cheater. so i conmend nlack mother for letting there man go and playing the father role in their childs life, but white women live with it smh
KenjiDubuisson 1 year ago
@KenjiDubuisson You did a lot of 'generalizing' urself. Watever happened to principles!
fickslaw 1 year ago
@fickslaw No i was showing budfebreze an example of what he was doing
KenjiDubuisson 1 year ago
Very good message. "The women are the first teachers of the child and what she gives to the child it gives to the world," quote from Malcolm X movie. Farrakhan spoke about this too in a video called, "How To Give Birth To A God." I hope black women realize how important they are to our people and start guarding their minds from the nonsense.
sdickens09 1 year ago
Typical "baby mama." Maybe if you stop dating kneegrows u wouldn't be so angry. Date African American men, not niggas.
chiefs816kc 1 year ago
i love this,you are what you speak, watch your mouths sisters. humble yourselves and lets uplift our black men they need your positivity,love and support..peace be unto all!
latonyalls 1 year ago
peace much respect mother sister much love medicinal remedy cure in time perhaps a glimps into the key of turning locks dispelling curses Peace
trueandliving 1 year ago
serioussssssssssss words...thoughts that become self fulfilling
excellent work
MC0090 1 year ago
Whoo, too hot. Very profound prose, outstanding!
imnazhole 1 year ago
stop dealing with niggas
jaygreg50 1 year ago
I really enjoyed this poem thumbs up.. I hope we as a people find some self love before it's too late.
rb0975 1 year ago
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Fuck you bitch
tony3286 1 year ago
The only thing true about what bittermama is saying is this - ALL Black men cheat. It's not our fault, black women are sexy as hell. Get over it and get used to it.
There are many good black men out there and most will die for their kids.
YoungHorusMedia 1 year ago
This is Beautiful.
Respect to Dede Hunt; you bless the world with your words.
Logiatrix 1 year ago
they were raised by black women all of those black men. THE HAND THAT ROCK THE CRADLE RULES THE WORLD. hello baby mama
firefox8192 1 year ago
This sum real shit Big ups
maniacgd66 1 year ago
Aw I jus heard the whole thing I diggs it
maniacgd66 1 year ago
Do they got a bitter man out there cuz for this bitter bitch to say this shit she aint worth a damn
maniacgd66 1 year ago
my's is i been merry w/my's 18 yrs i lve tha poet
redcherry11girl 1 year ago
my's is i been merry w/my's 18 yrs
redcherry11girl 1 year ago
You tell it sistah .Now that's real talk
Socaman20 1 year ago
Nice Poem.
elmafia187 1 year ago
This is beautiful! Much love and many blessings for Bittermama!
FerahDaunielle 1 year ago
"If you do not understand White Supremacy (Rascism) What it is, and how it works everything else that you understand, will only confuse you" Dr. Neely Fuller Jr. (1971) "The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept"
BUY IT, READ IT,THEN SPEAK!
rockbottom23 1 year ago
Loving this!!!! Girl u did ur thing...keep doing it....i think every "BITTERMAMA" should have a "SMARTWOMAN" as a friend because this is sooo true!! Of course we have ignorant ppl on here who dont even get this.....but I get it and I love it.....stay positive!! Blessings
MysFudgie 1 year ago
Shieet.
ShyRobot 1 year ago
Big ups to this post. I am glad to hear a little positive toward the black man. I will say this and if you agree good. If not then we agree to disagree. A woman cannot teach a son all that he needs to know about being a man, because she has never been a man. And as the SmartBlackWoman says, we cannot base all men on a few. But as me, we need to listen and take notes on this. There is positive words in her for all. LISTEN BEFORE YOU SPEAK ON IT.
rockus9112 1 year ago
Good for nothing worthless ghetto trash. Keep your dirty knickers on from now on, you filthy whore.
SirAlexFerguson2010 1 year ago
There you heard it from "hate central" all men bad!! All women good!! Boy wouldn't it be nice if life were that simple! The reason so many black men are "loose cannons" ie they will sleep with a woman but not commit, is that they have been told by those same black women how unnecessary they are! It is no wonder why they don't commit, no decent women to commit to, just a bunch of selfish" HO's who want all the rights and choice but don't want a man to have any.
unclefixer 1 year ago
@unclefixer Did you listen to the entire piece? I am almost certain you didn't. Listen to the entire poem she isn't a hate monger really she is teaching truth.
queenofweaves916 1 year ago