sex on the first date (guide to hot dates part 2)

[AK333333333]

Everything wrong with the dating scene, too much bravado. Sounds like a lot of specific work for a certain type of woman. At the end of the day every woman is different guys just use your common sense better judgement be honest (not overwhelming) trustworthy, respectful approachable. Don't complicate things with these details otherwise your setting yourself up to fail. No wonder guys screw up in dates. Its a freagin date not a chess game, have fun the rest is assumption and social politics. : )

[bboyyen06]

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[Twostones00]

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[adultdating100]

hot advice about dating

[animeloverryan85]

I'm sorry, but allowing the girl to talk to the guy for a short period of time hasn't worked for me. I think if you don't do something about the situation then chances are she feels you don't really want her.

[NDOG95]

thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­

[blkgnuz2007]

4:20 is a good number.  Smoke some weed!!!

[tom01555]

If she start talking to the other guy beat the crap out of that guy and tell the guy if he ever come close to her your going to beat him again and again !

[shawnster44]

people should learn not to play GAMES. Just do whatcha gotta do.

[craneywatch]

People should learn how to trust and love one another, sweet heart.

[nomadic8000]

do you have sex on the first date i would like to know that ha

[craneywatch]

@nomadic8000 I generally don't have sex on the first day unless they insist on that:) One reason: I love and respect women and hate when somebody mistreats them and call them names.

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[delli2011]

here's a trick i learned.. sometimes a woman not as good looking makes a better match.... stupid yah... took me a while to figure it out.

[anghang101]

pahinge naman # mu??

[MrLuisv2]

leave it to the aisian to talk about sex. lol

[MrLuisv2]

@AussieMatters o.0 it was a joke i dint mean to offend anyone, sorry

[delli2011]

@MrLuisv2 ha ha, cause asians are the best. the several womann i've had were all full asian.

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[mrboombasticx]

A good response to a guy hitting on your date, if you end up talking about it together later, is, "Yes, I noticed him. And I don't blame him for wanting to talk to you." It's a positive way to help you realize he simply knows quality when he sees it. It's also a great way to compliment your date.

[playmovingpictures]

is if you let every dude in town chat your women up lol. crap advise, what degree in this do you have.i bet your not married, what makes you an expert. you wanna be Oprah lol

[thebodgod]

The music makes it hard to listen to

[MareeksMareeks]

Times of moving hair out of her face = 62940173

[youshenowa]

hi, thank you for sharing the tips

&

how to date or ask someone out

I do really appreciate that. ^_^

[AllstarHunE]

why do people need some tutorial to sleep with a girl? it should come naturally like breathing. Hence called 'breeding'.

[jermzlecarr]

can i get ur no. so that we can have sex in the first date..

[JASM4collection]

damn, this girl is hot

[pepito3124343]

you look good.. :) i want to have sex with you vanae.. ;)

[worldtravel101]

if someone is obivously together, and some other dude wants to just move in on your girl.... whatever you do to him... he deserves it... HE is the psycho for trying to move in when its obvious shes taken. a real man stands up for himself and his girl. he asserts himself, makes it clear that they are a a couple. if the jerk continues to mess with your girl.... buy him a bottle of bear from the bar, than smash his skull with it hahaha

[kenmasters007]

Shoudn't be teaching this stuff... good relationship shouldn't be about having sex on the first date... As for your date being hit on, I agree, let them be.. but a classy girl would concentrate on her date. The same courtesy applies to answering phones on a date, opening doors, etc. If a girl spent more than 30 secs with another guy on a date, I would drop her !

[ZoMbIxOxO]

I thought you were doing this for other girls for a sec there.

[MyLoyloy]

and now your expert ha

[mentalmetal1]

jim beame, beefeater, kahlua. dang vanae you a party girl!

[AmbroseAmdis1]

humcan somebody rescue mehh from my loneliness really bored today

[CaptainSpork7]

I like the song that was playing. Does anyone know what it's called?

[knueij]

You remind me of Karen O here.

[ltube112]

gay talk

[pinoydl]

not really applicable in all situations... if its there then just dance with the music, :D it depends how you carry the situation

[princekawaii07]

What the Face...:(

[321ozzy]

It appears that you prepare well for your videos, they are interesting, congratulations !

One comment I would like to make is that the back ground music is a bit too loud in comparison to the voice loudness.

For non-native speakers like me, it is difficult to follow.

Keep up the good work, your advice is well-thought : - )

[nmrafie24]

you have nice teeth...

[SamiNami]

lmfao

[hazelhazel1]

hahahaha sarap mo

[bear24rock]

WOW!!

[3636virus]

fuck u ass holeee..

[nahumthebest]

ROFL, i ended up subscribing after watching 2 vids. Great vid, 5/5.

[vincenyahs1]

isa lang masasabi ko.... la lami!!!!

[xXxgLenNriKxXx]

love ur advices, im gonna post in on FB for more people to see, and get some advices from u, hahaha, by the way your beautiful^^

[xXxgLenNriKxXx]

love ur advices, im gonna post it on FB for more people to know about u^^, tnx a lot and by the way, ur beautiful^^,

[crapkerplunk]

4:20 lol

[tuchitochi]

put your hand on her ass...if she doesn't move your hand away, she's yours for the night/s

[monkeyinthetree222]

ugh.

[realtyboy2010]

but if someone hits on my date... shees it makes me want my date even more...

[realtyboy2010]

jeez, if you're hot like vanae dating is easy...

[NathanCollie]

your very wise. thanks for the great video.

[Ninearm]

Plan B would be would be to do the following:

"Hey, excuse me. I gotta go to the bathroom". And then escape when your in the bathroom. Works every time :)

[sexygal17]

OMG yeah & sweaters + the voodoo downlow thing fo sho. If she's preggers, you can snatch her in the nads sandwich shoppe by Donsonesworth D'Archmeal but no, no. Seriously. Ye~ughh... xoStephy :P

[scorpionkings]

I think if you're on a date it's fine to talk to other people but I think it's very rude if she is spending more than ten or even fifteen minutes talking to another man and ignoring you (her date)! In my opinion she blew it and I'm out of there.

[theonthepsi]

You guys are stuck in the Matrix...

Dating sucks and should only be done after sex because it's rigged against men.

It puts the woman in the qualifier position and takes away all the challenge and sexual tension because the girl already knows the guy is into her because he asked her out.

[theincredibledeus]

i would hit to pope to date u!!

[DevyGordy]

End a Bad Date?

How about being honest?

You start off by saying something like

"You don't seem to be having a good time"... "You don't seem too amused"... "I'm getting the vibe that you aren't enjoying yourself. Is something wrong?" and then the rest is up to you, on how to end it

or

You can try to fix it

"You want to go do something else... "

[drummasterxxx]

I think the background music is a little too loud. Sometimes it's hard to understand what you're saying. Thanks.

[NicaLS1]

If the date is going bad just start acting weird. You can fart, start staring at other chicks, talk about your last STD, or last resort just say you are going to the restroom and leave her with the bill. Thats just keeping it real and charging it to the game.

[FateMentality]

what song is that?

[zillygary428]

u rock an ur hot

[TriopsGuy]

Im 11 and this worked. Thx

[vERM1LION]

why so high volume on the music

[suspendmeassholes]

Dating is for women I am already sleeping with.

The programming and brainwashing in the media is making men frustrated. Who benefits? The flower shops, restaurants, cinemas etc. Men have been led to believe that sex is a result of a dating process. They are obsessed with her behavior rather than creating an emotional state of arousal and desire in a woman through WORDS. I am not going to reveal the secrets, but think about what I said. You don't have to invite her on a date to have sex.

[astone08]

is there something wrong with calling her after the date instead of email or text

[abrescj]

if someone hits on ur date and she flirts back.go flirt wit someone else and make sure she sees u.but of course a girl wouldnt tell u that

[scarlettestr]

then there goes that date. Although I agree flirting back is not polite.

[tdipower00]

awesome...

keep up the great work... =)

[majorwoody1az1]

holly shit man all the comments are like long as shit hahah

[NYCEx]

what if she starts to kiss him?

LOL most likely that will not happen

[onerizle]

It's nice to get real honest info and. You're my hero.

[ramir233]

I totally agree

[asian12329]

another guy comes up to ur gf...then u go up to her and say "alright baby we ready to go?...whos that?" (and play it cool)

[balbus25jzz]

i need lesson

[JimmyKudo123]

O ya, Bruce lee always has sex at first sight. lol.

[apathy7]

lol

[mentalmetal1]

@JimmyKudo123 ya mama finally told you huh.

[Darthpsi]

I don't usually part with my thoughts but reading these comments made me want to give my 2 cents. Well, what I see happening a LOT today is people that dunno what to do and are taken as jerks or smth like that, in fact most of these people are only worried about how to get into kissing and how to get her to bed, but in truth focusing in having a good time with her is more satisfying than just sex and kissing (and can get you those 2 things too) Great tips btw Vanae, thank you.

[GhillieMastaFlex]

the good looking part is just a bonus. some girls only go out with hot guys, some girls dont care.

the point is, is that no matter what you can bag a girl with being SMART, and FUNNY.

Smart means you have a good level of vocabulary, you know how to act (gentleman), and you have ambitions and goals.

Funny does not mean being a smart ass 100% of the date. there's nothing wrong with it but you cant abuse it. funny means you know how to make a girl laugh and Enjoy herself every other date =)

[XsoftvoicesX]

don't forget , a girl has to be this way too.

why would an intelligent boy with a good sense of humor want to go out with a quiet , passive , stupid girl?

:D.

[GhillieMastaFlex]

this is all you pretty much need

good-looking

smart

and funny

you have those three things man im tellin you you will be good.

you know why.

im not sayin im mad G, but its happens to me all the time dude.

all i do is take girls out, make em laugh all day and talk. TALK intelligently, and make it seem like im a Nice guy Thats amazing and fun.

you have to be Cool. i know it sounds stupid but you do. girls love guys that are great looking, are smart and have ambition to do things, and funny.

[UniqueeSkull]

You see, for me, as a female, I'm not impressed by silly games. Sometimes too much "funny" is too much, and it takes a lot to actually make me attracted. I have to let loose, and any guy who dates me would know that. For instance, I wouldn't go into a date not feeling on my toes, I also wouldn't make out or anything on the first date. Yes, we like funny guys, but you know, you can't compile all women into one category. I like smart guys, who are confident, but not TOO confident.

[H1PP0S]

your beautiful :P and your soo informational!! i dont see any hate comments ANYWERE on here!! your loved!! :]]

[Kobew00t]

i love u?

[FLOXBETA]

your lookin so hot

[Ebola2k]

lmao... just about everything that u said not to do... happened on this date of mine... yea that wuz the end of that.

so...now that iv pretty much got all this down 2 pat.... im still stuck on this one thing. MOVING IN FOR THAT KISS.... bodylanguage? what to look for? hands...what to do with those.. and setting? settings gotta b huge? right? please... i think if u can help me on this .. im golden =]  thnx

[septimusseventh]

i cant thank you enough i got a date coming up and needed the info ^^

[davyoa]

wow your a legend....

[revolutionday1]

I wanted to say something mean, but you're just too damn cool, and you make too much sense.

[zzzthaoster]

yeah, right...most guy will Ka-pow! Pow! pow the other guy haha.

[kingmaxx]

wait.. wait.. what's wrong with just trying to get in her pants?

[l33tm3s33]

very nice and articulate, this video could use a much lower background music, about half the time it's hard to understand what you a re saying because the music interferes. People will tend not to listen. Other than that, gratz !

[ska8ter4humanity]

omg you like fucking saved m life thank u lol

[stingerscope]

I have read and listened to similar programs and... you know what? you really understand...

Thanks

[Dbong1]

is that a bottle of Jack in the background----game on girl!!

[PersonL124]

Okay so what do i do when shes gettin hit on in the party and she seems into him???

[Passskal]

hey that's a Hot Chip song right? nice

[kevler8803]

HAHAHAH i do have that emergency text line, but the last tidbit was helpful tthnx

[KeroroGunsouTX]

Soooo, when would be a good time to let your date know you're addicted to porn?

[pilotdapunk]

i agree with both of you. Guys have a tendency to just want sex. its just human nature whether we like it or not. Id also prefer a gal who didnt want to put out on the first, but if shes into you and happens to take a stroll down south - it might offend her to reject her "offer". what to do...?

[Fret01]

Now your talking the truth!

[KhmerD0g]

i rather sex u up. give me that chance and it will be a night u never forget.

[revolutionday1]

Easy there, Perv-O....damn.

[mckennydarryl]

+1 sub

[loganmaniamultimedia]

Thanks for the help, I am trying to find out if this girl likes me! This is going to help a lot cuz we r going on a date.

UR SO HOT!

[chuku216]

i just go up to girls and be like u trying to fuck? and they be like dam nigga dats whats up 10 minutes later im hittin yall should try it nuttin to lose

[PancakesForweez]

word.

[Juliansja]

U R GRATE

[aretemantis]

Pt.3

Because U can have actual FUN when other guys talk to her.& the"Don't think of pink elephants"trick can really make it kinda hot."Please have just at least a molecule of mercy on him."request is always doomed.She's gonna through at least a little sensual vibe on the guy cause it's like asking someone to just plain not think of those darn elephants who happen to just be pink.&,it's cool,'cause U not only knew that would happen,U planned it.Then watch out!Purrr.

God I feel like satan.:-)

[aretemantis]

Pt.2& then she'll of course look over too to see how U're doing about the other guy talking to her.Then I'd smile,'cause she's busted, trying to see how I feel.Ha,she cares.She smiles back, 'cause she was testing me, but instead of her busting me being hurt or upset,she's dealing with someone who was able to bust her.And while still in that 2 second eye contact,one may laugh;if the other does too.You just may have found a real catch. To be continued. see Pt. 3

[aretemantis]

That is the best advice I've heard from a Lady. The thing about other guys Talking too/Hitting On your date. I've even said to Dates, "Hey, this guy's got an Eye for you; I think he's coming over to say hi. If it could any any impossible way happen, please just have a little mercy on him. A little mercy? I'll be back.". Then go to talk to another lady. And look over at my Date a couple times; Continued,don't miss pt.2

[iluvairplanes124]

u no u really help alot im glad i watched your video 5/5

[MICHELLEZ2009]

can i ask?

are you Chinese?

[aznfire5]

415? ur from SF?

[Viktir666]

Vanae, what ethnicities are in your genetics?

[Merotimro]

I LIKE THE VIDEO UR LIKE Dr.Love from Hitch

[hotwhire]

badass hair

[qtribal]

thanks vanae..i got it..n i make it!! over n over ^.^

[acked2]

Greatt advice and btw ur hair is hot

[jj10193]

the thing is now adays as girls are in my area that they depend on looks,im not too say ugly but im quite decent looking but a little on the big side,not obese but just a little on the big side as i carry weights and bulk up.seems that i have the exact attitude that you just explained yet i dont get the girls i like because of looks.

[leslhanl]

dont be threatened...maybe think of one..dont be threatened when brad pitt gets on with your girl lols!

[yan04lie12]

hi vanae ur so cute!

i have a crush on u!

[merrick00987]

5 stars- Very good job. I think this will be very helpful to me. I'll have to try out your tips (if I ever get a girlfriend).

[Insomnizack1994]

lol

[yaboykeys]

i stumbled onto one of your videos and i cant stop watching , some anyway i pretty much know who i am all that goodnees i guess i just have a crush on a grl from the internet lol. no but you seem to be really asome , wanting to help an caring for others needs an questions , i think your heart is in the right place an you are a very nice person. i do wish i was more like that and i am trying to be more benevolent then clever. id like to talk to if i may or if you would take the time.

[xxMICxASSASSINxx]

i love it when a girls hair covers part of her face it so cute lol xD

[MegaloBellamian]

Asians and Latinas chicks are smoking hot

[MaksutovCG]

You missed out a few things. If your date gets disrupted by another guy (as the rule goes it takes two to tango) just let them do their thing. And observe how she reacts. Observer her emotions and how she feels, this will tell you many things about her. remember women love attention. If she feels happy then its likely that she will do that again in the future. If she spends too long talking to the guy just be polite and leave. There is probably no hope for you with somebody like that.

[ordep72]

MaksutovCG-LOL yer right, my friend got hit on by some other guy and she ended up having sex with him but didn't tell her b/f or date. Beware alot of girls are sneakier than guys. I was rooting for her date he seemed like a nice guy but I guess thats not what she wanted

[electroreactive]

Agreed... Women love attention... BUT, do you really want to reward her for leaving you? I don't think the video girl missed anything. Dating advice from women is usually flawed, as they can never see it from the guys perspective. That said... I haven't found any flaws in this video, except for the fact that the arm on the outside can also be nonthreatening, but that's an omission, not an error.. The back can be threatening for some women, though. Like she says, see how she reacts. GL all.

[leomartin89]

ur beautiful girl canu be ur sex ?

[kasiag197907]

i dont think u should feel thretined but its still a compleat total cock block

[lkn211271]

great advise!

[Brandonnuby]

you know how you said at the end ..

bout the 2-3 days??

what if she comes/aproches me the next day?

and it was abit hard to hear you since of the background music

[Nederlandac]

What a cute girl.

[shady965]

thnx again alot of very good advices

[sarisarila]

not so bad good liuck

[jackolo]

I've no idea what this video is about but sweet science Vanae is hot!

[Kevinreyan9]

i love you!!! you inspire me with all ure tips... peace out!!

[mended4eva]

wow

[mrfunside]

Damn this dating thing is almost like a whole subject field on its own, and No it will not be taught at school.

But i believe there should be no rules in dating.

[BubblexSoapx]

You know...it's really hard to pay attention to you when I realy like the song in the background. Junior Boys, FTW!

[andrew3656]

where are you from ?

[siukong]

Haha, my housemate would listen to that song ALL the time.

[cross25011990]

damn she's hot^^

[calebcarlito]

...don't have any words to describe your beauty...

[xxslamitemokidxx]

your very beautifull

[flacokiddabi]

ur intresting much ha almost six hundred thousand views

[saltysamuel]

i like this material, THANKS CUTTIE =))

[dawgfansrule]

thank u very much

[loafer]

i love vanae!

[JOELMILLIONAIRE]

Is it okay to get to know her inside the hotel room during the first date ???

[drumfreakx]

u look like a lil bird with ur hair all did.