What To Do When He Doesn't Call... What Happened?

[Annazayla]

So what if you are in a relationship and your boyfriend still isn't calling or texting you as much as you would like...then what should a woman do?

[QtFlOwEr2]

SOME1 PLEASE HELP ME OK I REALY LIKE THIS ONE GUY HE USE 2 CALL ME EVERY NIGHT HE WOULD TELL ME THINGS LIKE IM BEAUTIFUL HE MISSES ME HE LOVES ME THEN HE INVITED ME 2 GO 2 CHURCH WITH HIM SO I DID BUT HE DOSNT CALL ANYMORE AND IT DOSNT SEEM LIKE HE LOST INTREST CUZ WE SEE EACH OTHER SOMETIMES AND HE EGNOLIGES ME ITS BEEN ABOUT A WEEK SO I CALLED HIM NO ANSER I ASK HIM IF HE GOT MY CALL AND HE SAYS YES SRRY WTF HAPPENED I KNOW THERES NO OTHER GIRL DID HE EGNOR MY CALL WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON???

[xbearcanrockx]

@QtFlOwEr2 how would you know there's no other girl?

do you live in the same house? or are you stalking him and tracking every single one of his movements? o_O;

if you're absolutely sure there's no other girl.. then it's possible he's been held captive by an abusive sibling, had phone privileges taken away, doing other things (like homework) or has personal issue he doesn't want to talk about.

[QtFlOwEr2]

@xbearcanrockx thats a good point but hes the type of guy who looks for a veriety of women bcuz he wants his first girlfriend to be the one he merries so hes looking around even when he was calling me he was still looking for other women so ya even if there was someone else he would still call me

[sameer137]

All three of these women are crazy

[hemikalalanika]

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[777Chileno]

If a guy doesnt call you back, its bacuse you are just a girl you fuck once and thats it, or beacuse you were boring in bed, maybe you didnt want to suck hs dick or didnt like when he was trying put it in your ass.

[pupydejz]

it's simple, you're not good enough for him, but he doesn't want to offend you,he expects that you are bright enough to be able to read between the lines, or the non-lines.

[Yobachi2007]

"Victoria has been on more than a hundred 1st "dates" in about a year...year and a half time frame, and more than 98 of those dates asked her on a second date"

Hey, good prostitutes get repeat customers...errrrr...I mean dates.

I mean really, who else goes on a 1st date once every 4 days? She's old and not even that hot...except when you're working the corner, it doesn't matter that much.

[goodolt70s]

LOLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!,jeeeeeez,so­me people don,t have make there lives complicated,don,t do this,don,t do that,do this or do that,the key is to be yourself,even if you were to do all these do,s and don,ts tastes are different so not all women are gonna fall for you.

I,m actually very succesful with women and i don,t follow these do,s and don,t rules!.

[memilybaldwin]

Hello... I wouldn't date someone who doesn't call when they say they will. They LACK INTEGRITY - you can't overlook that.

[repta272]

i find it attractive when a girl wants me if i go out on a date with her and she calls me first i have no problem with that however it cant be too early after the date

[taste4love]

well, my problem is reversed... she dosent send me sms, or any thing like that... and i dont send her either... because we have been sending lots of sms and in all of those sms that we sent to eatch other was the same exact thing... " I LOVE U, i really want to be with u to the rest of my life"... well, i had lots of problems with girls.. but his one... she is difrent ( i think)... but i´ve learned that if we push to mutch, in a point, it will become really anoying... what can i do now?

[trolkal]

That might work in the US. NOT in Europa.....

[poosungee]

if you dont call... and things dont work out, some guy would blame YOU for not showing enough interest for them to step forward and develop something with u. then what? :(

[s3rgio00]

Hi, im a guy, i got this girls # yesturday, and i called her that same night, she didnt pick up, i texted her this morning and still nothing, should i continue persisting or what?

[PLATINUMCASTLE813]

i you have done your part. it's her now ~ if she's interested. no need to show persistence at this point. my opinion, and i am a gal.

[supasonicman]

Nope.

[Crazyup12]

Fuck calling women!

I want them to call me!

[amricanka]

i would never ever call a guy (no meter how much I'm interested in a guy ) ,when all the friends tell me call him --- i say if he wants me he will call and if he doesn't want me Even If I Call won't make him like me more

[kidd13news]

what if I did really lose the number, and I cant find her, I think she needs to call as well.

[RasberryCake]

Then she may assume that ur playing games just like many other guys....

[kidd13news]

but that is the thing not all guys play games.

[missjrockchick44]

i hate it when a guy says he will call me and he doesnt! thats sooo not hot!

[MonkWarrior108]

Women say they hate it when a man says he will call but doenst. How do you think men feel when women hand over their phone number with no intention of going out with the man. Men say they will call out of politeness - just like women give a man their phone number (out of politeness) when they know they will never answer his call. In Most relationships seminars, women find out they are the ones who are usually playing convoluted games.

[lilsweeti13]

@MonkWarrior108 yeah cuz only men do that only women do what you said and said twice. Believe me you are so correct, just replece women with lizards and men with clowns.

[Crazyup12]

Why dont u girls just call?

[amricanka]

cause men want what they can't have

[nikster23]

i think the only reason girls call the guy is that you a celebrity kind of handsome or you have own her a money a big money and the last is you are the father of the baby she had its hurt but the truth hurts alot

[incoldblood12345]

What if the girl doesn't call? I mean if you've already gotten to that holding-hand stage by the first date and she hasn't called back even though she told you ask her something the day after the first date? The boy and girl are both 17.

[sweetsacrifice5]

my boyfriend doesn't call me anymore . he used to call me at least a few times a week. nowadays he says i'm not a priority but he says he still loves me. he doesnt IM me either. what can i do? i'm tired of telling him /calling him about this.

[jolly113]

I hate to say it but its time to move on.  It has less to do with calls and more to do with you not being a priority at all. I know it hurts.

[gnnrdluv]

he is just not that into you anymore dump his as$

[Nakita4U2Learn]

@sweetsacrifice5 It's not that important for him to text you and call you all the time. Yes he's right, you are not his priority, he doesn't have nothing important to discus with you. The reason why he says this is because he wants to see if you will call him if you want to talk to him so bad. He can't just do all the work, you have to do the work too if you want him to call you again. Yes he's still loves you even if he stops calling. Know that man hate talking on the phone. He's now bored.

[Viljarism]

And why can't the woman call the guy?

[TwiSsT3dDr3]

well they could but theyll only call u if you dont call them unless there crazy about u

[TENNSUMITSUMA]

it seems a bit funny (and ironic) that the same bitch thats givin advice in the video "who should pick up the check on the first date" is in a video called "what to do when he dosnt call... what happened"

if anyone saw the other video then this one you know what happened

[anesthetize1me]

2:26 lol

[cw0069]

In the US nearly any woman can get a 2nd date unless she smells rot, or is a fat pig. Beyond that it is up to good sex. I know relatively UGLY women dating 3~4 different guys a week, going to expensive dinners.... and for those days she does not have a date, she goes to 7-11 for fries and a soda. Never ever goes to bed with anyone.

[megustaverlas]

I've been looking up someone I like over the internet hoping he would contact me again and still be interested like he said he was. He seems to be in a happy place in his life right now and that's a good thing (why not me?). However apologetic/polite/nice I've been to him and about the whole thing...my advice is to let go however hard it is whether it take days, weeks, months, or years. Be angry. And it's ok to say F*ck you.

[gansy004]

This is a very common question and an issue for a lot of women. The best solution is to combine a we carrot and a flash light bound together with sticky tape, sprinkle with herbs and bake for 30 minutes in high, then stick it up your ass for ten minutes, then in your mouth for a further 5 minutes, keep rotating and repeat until satisfied.

[dclaflin]

Your a pedophile and a sex offender aren't you...

[gansy004]

...and you're a fat dork without a sense of humor, aren't you?

[PcKSnipE]

bahahahha i do that all the time

[censor48]

Jen would get a second call from me..

Jen has beautiful tits...

[censor48]

if not interested, better to split before kids are born.

so what if either is not interested. quit belly aching and move on, thanking your luck you found out sooner than later.

[highlanderc]

its the same thing from the other side... someone has to call the other one.. this is not a power struggle really. Its just that two people are interested or not...If you care.. show interest... if the other person doesn't show interest.. then its over.. but someone HAS to show interest, either her or you.

[KevinQ]

Guys are messed up?

Exxxcccuuuuuuuse me?

Who's games are we trying to combat with our games?

[tlndofa]

disposable goods hey,i am great at math and her % does make her a real pro,with second dates..love the show guys..

[o0AGE0o]

What if you had a date with that person, and you like her, but she doesnt like you? Do you still call back? I mean jeez. No offense, but all the females I knew lied to me. They werent honest people and they felt they had to lie to me all the time and avoid me. I hate it when females act childish and expect the guy to get a "hint".

We know the hints are there and we know them. BUT WE EXPECT YOU WOMEN TO BE DECENT HUMAN BEINGS AND TELL US THE TRUTH, EVEN IF THE TRUTH HURTS!

[o0AGE0o]

I dont mean to make my statement sound sexist because im pretty sure some guys do that to. But if im gonna be straight up and blunt, then others should at least give me that in return. Sometimes truth hurts.

This one girl I was suppose to date canceled our date and she lied to me and said she couldnt go. I knew it was a lie, most guys can tell when a female lies. I expected her to be honest, so i asked whats the reason? Reason was her friend told her lies, but i didnt find that out til later.

[o0AGE0o]

And when I mean later, I mean a few weeks after.

[tlndofa]

o0AGE0o excuse me but,i just logged in an the first video i watched before this ,my comment was ,childish again...

[DanAndJenn]

You're absolutely right - if she doesn't like you, she should say so. And if the guy doesn't like her, he should tell her that.

But sadly we're not there as a society. Down deep most people will not tell someone they don't like them, they'd rather make up an excuse. Most people don't like confrontation, and they don't want to directly hurt someone's feelings - so they opt to keep that person waiting and "get the hint" rather than telling them the blunt truth (hopefully not in a hurtful way).

[Yobachi2007]

@DanAndJenn

"We know the hints are there and we know them."

I took this girl out once, took her to a class even and then dinner afterwards. All throughout dinner she was pretty much silent. I was given convo, and not just saying dumbshit to fill air, and all she would do is give one word or one sentence answers, and wouldn't forward the convo.

So I took a hint and didn't bother to call her anymore.

Saw her a week later and she had the nerve to be upset I didn't call. I just laughed at it.

[lilsweeti13]

@Yobachi2007 what is your problem?

[Yobachi2007]

@lilsweeti13

I don't have one.

[resilientkid]

What about if it goes the other way around, is it always up to the male to go to the female? Let's say what if he's the one waiting for you to call and he just said "I'll call you back" as a formality? Maybe he could be shy too. Does that make him not worth it because he's "not a man"?

He'd probably call you the next day and YOU'D be the one to act all coy and be dating other men at once, still weighing your options and being picky.

[lavinder11]

Yes it IS always up to the guy in the dating scene. I say don't tell people things if you don't mean it. I mean, the real reason why people don't call back is because they don't want to seem desperate. They want to look as desirable as they possibly can.

This is why I avoid dating at all costs. For the most part, I see it as false advertisement.

But on your last point, I hope you're being "picky" and weighing your options. I would hope the guy is doing the same as well. If you're dating to

[lavinder11]

get married, then you better be picky. Who wants to spend the rest (supposedly) of their lives with some person they chose because they didn't want to be too picky about it.

It's always better to be alone than to be stuck with someone you can't stand.

I guess the call back issue is like asking if a job position is still available, and instead of saying no the employer ignores your inquiry.

It's very annoying. So if you're interested in someone, please call them back!!!

[resilientkid]

I like your points about avoiding dating and false advertisement.

The dating world, to me, has always seemed full of false fronts people put up to look impressive, desirable - I agree with your points of views and that's why I always get annoyed reading those dating sites that tell you how to play mind games, look "hard to get". It's totally ingeniune. Are you trying to have fun or trying to find someone to fall in love with?

[SinnamonS]

ITS VERY HARD FOR ME TO LET THINGS SO WHAT CAN I DO ABOUT THAT? I HAVE COME TO RELIZE TODAY THAT I NAG TO GET AN ANSWER HELP ME PLEASE!!! Dan and Jen

[belail8]

Dan is so cool))

[papiyaray]

u guys r so funny lol....wot u sed u very true though :)