I believe this video applies to certain people im 22 in school and have been in my relationship for 3 years and now we about to celebrate our sons 1st birthday in a few weeks and couldn't be more in love and we still have time for me to hang out with my girls and him with his boys without either one of us having to check in with eachother. But everyones situation is different. I love your videos B you are so funny....
im gonna be 17 in 15 days, i been with my boyfriend for 8 months and i love him, but i'll be DAMNED if i ask him if i can hang with my bitches. if he dont like it, he can *two snaps* GO!
Sorry But This Does Not ApplyTo EVERYONE.. If You're Young And Want To Be In A Committed Relationship And Is In A Stable Situation Then GO FOR IT... Love You Brian But I Disagree... I Am 28 And Have Been Happily Married Since I Was 17...
I don't see the difference between being in love at 24, 25, and 26. I would more so say wait til ur out of or almost out of college even though some people meet there life partners in college, those are the BEST times of your life and you don't wanna waste them being worried about relationships. But at the same time, the silly relationships you go through when ur younger are life lessons and will show you what you DON'T want to be looking for when you're older
im a 20 woman and i was feeling bad about this guy and you said like two of my complaints im laughing at myself now. Thats not true alot of my cousins are still in happy marriage. I love he lol.
Hell Yes! i agree with you so much.. I'm not in love with no boy right now. plus I'm 17 what i know about love anyway.The only thing thats on my mind is school and money.
YES BRIAN! you better tell it boo!! i'm 18 and i'm like the New Boyz, you not gon tie me down!. i tell my peers ALL the time, we too young to be in relationships. get your life together first then go find a bf/gf! how can you love somebody else when you can't even love yourself fully?? #imjustsayin
Me and my friends call each other birds we fly together we do every thing together we fight yes but it's all luv we r all free no man or boy and separate us no mam no gir we party and every thing come to baltimore and will show u how to get down now if he is cute fuck it I'm boo lovin all day ( a month ) then we bac sasha ferce all day lls tru Dow
awww bee, my girl and i have been together since we were 15 and 17......we will celebrate 12 (consecutive) years together come june, so long lasting love before 25 is possible ;)
OK... U R RITE.....I GOT WIT MY BD WHEN I WAS 14 (HE WAS 15)....N GODDAM!!! SHIT WAS CRAZY! DAT IS NOT THE AGE TO BE DOEN SHIT....
BUT....
NOW DAT IM 21 (AFTER ALL THAT STUPID TEENAGE BULLSHIT) WE DONE WORKED SHIT OUT AND BOTH ME N HIM KNOW WE SETTLED DOWN. SO....EVEN THOUGH WE UNDER 25....WE COMMITTED...
Lol yo dis is so true me nd my girlz def b out shoppin nd we jus came bck from miami nd one of my girls couldnt go cuz of her man smh hppy im not tied dwn
HELL YEAH BRIAN I'M 17!!!! Thats the shit i be trynna tell my friends they be all stuck over 1 nigga n shit like its way more fine ass dudes out here to b stuck on that lil dick bastard n e way (excuse my language) I swear im showin my hoes this video
I was with my guy for 8 years, had a baby at 21, now im 25 n we broke up, so now all my friends are married n I have no one, he's 28 n goin crazy wit the ladies n i sit home all the time. I dont know what to do.
Im 21 and my boyfriend is 19 (kinda big age difference) but we've been together goin on 4 years....&& honestly...I COULDNT AGREE W/ YOU MORE BRIAN! U WAS RIGHT ON POINT it is so hard....n i think esp for him cuz he's so much younger n i think he still have alot of growin to do..and so do i...but him way more lol...&& at dis point in the relationship..i often dnt like him! he is jus as u describe possesive, a lil insecure scared ima cheat n so on...and im at the point where i jus wanna do me
@TiaCo08 and have fun..he bugs the hell outta me and he have all his lil minor hoes riding his dick n im like w/e now...i still love him..but i think we need time to do our thing and grow...cuz we may not be as right for each other as we think..we jus neva got the time to go fishing to see wut else out there...(well he did!) AND UR SO RIGHT BOUT SEX MY MA TLD ME "BBY I AINT GNE TELL U TO WAIT TILL MARRIGE TO HAVE SEX..CUX U GOTTA TEST HIM OUT B4 U SPEND YO LIKE W/ BAD SEX!" LMAO
Yesssss Bee ., I Needed To Hear This , I Knw I'm Late Bt, I'm 19 And My Heart Been Broke One Too Many Times. Stressinq , ryinq Benq Depressed. Now I Say Fck It. I'm Livinq Life I'm In Colleqe Dnt Have No Kidds. So I'm Runninq Wild.,*! =) Ily Bee.
"under 25 you shouldnt be in love with nobody".."fuck the potential person to be with you" - WRONG!! wrong wrong. umm some people have something called morals and values and religious beliefs and choose to wait until marriage. and some people happen to fall in love before 25, and it works out and they are happy, some people dont wanna 'date and take applications', some just wanna find that one real person and be happy and be committed instead of running around wit tom dick and harry like a hoe
You are telling the damn truth!! I got married at 18 with a person I had been going with for six years! We barely stayed married for a year!! It ain't no doubt that we didn't love each other, we just were young and not ready!! When you are young you should be out having fun. You have the rest of your life to think about settling down!! CHERISH YOUR YOUTH!!!
speak the mutha fuckin truth im 18 and a agree 100 percent. i tell these chicks every day i dont date i probably flirt but thats all they gettin out of me. these girls in high school need to grow up.
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Hell Yeah But Hell Naw!! I Hear Everything You Saying But Im Under 25 And In A Committed Relaionship..He Put A Ring On It N Got A Baby On The Way..N We Been Together Almost Three Years
Ooo, Brian (hey, girl, hey!), I'mma definitely need for you to make a part 2 about "it happened but it didn't have to happen" because a lot of ppl need to hear that! Cause, honey, with all the birth control available nobody should be a pregnant teen. Okay? Okay!
I'm one of those people under 25... I'm like WAAAAAAAAAAAAY under 25... BUT I FREAKIN' AGREE WITH YOU! I only watched the first 3 minutes but I agree!... Now let me watch the rest lol
YASS BRIANN!!!!!! I'm 19 rite now in college and dewwinn it gir! My friends all got "husbands" and "fiancees" and shit & its like OKAY, why r young ppl in such a rush to grow up?! we gonna be grown FOREVER soon enough.....LMAO u just inspired me to DEWW ITTT even moree! Sheeitt, im taking APPS! LUV U BRIAN!!!
you made some very good points...i'm only 21, so yea, i'm dating but i'm not ready to settle down or anything like that...the only thing i can't relate to is the sexing part...i'm waiting til marriage, which is why i'll probably be single for a hella long time (laughs)....
tell the kids Brian!! 21. i wanted be committed sooo bad in high school but im picky so i never dated. i'd cry at night cuz i thought i needed to be in love to complete my life lol. but i stuck it out and now in college im droppin nxggas left and right ! i smh at how i thought i knew it all back then ! couldnt imagine being locked down at this age. i stay at all the parties wit my girls...dewin it !
@NaeNaeDatChick girl u not late. im 23 only had 3 boyfriends and thats only in the past 3 years. trust me most of those high school dudes are too possessive or loose themselves. i agre with Brian. just date and take applications.
Overall the best advice IMO should of been being in love for the wrong reasons should be avoided.. Life and Relationships and work are not going to be perfect. Some people are meant for a season and some are meant for a longer period. That's life. Not getting into a relationship cause u are under 25 doesn't solve anything. And having sex with people right away definitely doesn't solve anything.
I undertand where you are going, but I can't agree 100%. I think if you are gonna stay uncommitted I don't thinl it should be about going out and being promiscuous(which hiv rates are high now in days). I think it should be about getting your career and life together. That should be the reason for staying uncommited. And alot of the examples you gave on things these "kids" should be looking for are shallow and won't make a great relationship if they do wait. Condoms are great, but not 100.
I totally agree with you although I am the acception. I did all of my partying and youth enjoying between 14 and 17. I'm 18 now and I know what I want to do with my life and I'm engaged. I really couldn't be happier because I have been out there and its not what I like. But I totally agree with what you say because most people are like that when truthfully they should be out and enjoying themselves.
Tell the truth Brian ....and the ones under 25 shouldn't be giving advice about this shit either ................what do they really know ????....with respect!!
Yes ma'am yes girl!!! You hit the nail right on the muthafuckin head with this one Bee. I'm 28 and I've been married for two years but been with the same guy since I was 23 and sometimes I wish I could turn back the hands of time and stayed by my muthafuckin self and had all fun I could possibly have. You were so right on this post. I'll tell anyone who will listen dont get tied down to anyone before ur ready, especially if ur in ur 20's. Enjoy ur youth and have fun.
lOl; i swear iLove me some Bee.!!! Im 21 and I window shop for guys ALL THE TIME.! Even when i do ahve a man, I DO WHAT I WANT. It aint no checking with him...he dnt need to know my every fukin step. lOl. I LOVE the SAFE SEX plug lOl. And the baby situation,..so fuking true.!!! Chicks do think that shxt thinking a dude gone stay w/them....their not. But LOVE THIS VIDEO.!
I think that there is a lot of truth in this video. Some people below are saying that they made it work, and I am sure that some people can make it happen. ("can't put an age on love") I think what Brian is trying to say is that the MAJORITY of young people aren't ready for that. Someone in my family is engaged at 20 and I think it's way too young, because of who he is/how immature he is.
AMEN BRIAN im 22 and im having fun in my past i have gave my heart to someone but i just realized im young no kids in school and have a job im doing me....i will just have a friendlover nothing else but thanks for the advice it was really good...
Brian, I'm still a "kid" and I totally agree with you. I can't even believe how some of my peers are throwing themselves into these relationships and they take it so seriously.
Omg thank u so much Brian I have been sayin that we need 2 treat relationships like job apps and interviews...it needs 2 be a process and I will determine whether u r seasonal, part time, or permanent or even temp to hire but 4 real thank u brian yes u used humor but u gave us the real!
omg i swear u took the words right out of my mind...me bestfriend and I always say that....like ytf r people commiting when u shud be enjoying your youth?
i cant imagine being with someone for like 5 years like sum young people do...like dam.
u need to date around....u find out things about yourself wen u date around...u also find out what u want and dont want from a significant other.
Well B explain the quys who feel the qirls head up with Pipe dreams lol like "oo baby i love u, u the one, i wanna b with u forever!" like wtf B explain dhat BullSh.t..i hear what you sayinq sa\omehow i think U made this Video for me..im in that situation...thanks Biq Bro^_^ ima listen to you and take it slow im to younq for all this stress..Love U!
im 19, been with the same guy (nick) since 2006, yes i was 15 and he 17 wen we started dating!!! we are in love... we share and have shared firsts and moments together!! i love he gir!!! i disagree babe, i appreciate ya opinion though!!
your right i been with the same person since i was 16 im 23 now and no im not bout to go and marry him but i am in love with my baby its just that you have to find the right one the one he is talkin bout is childish and not ready to be with one person but eveybodys not like that so i feel u girl
I agree w/ what u said TO A POINT! U can't tell any1 to not fall in love, or catch feelings if they're under 25(not gonna happen) I say date & be in a relationship w/ who u want at a young age, but if you're not feelin it, unhappy, and they not treating u right, ur only young once, so just Keep It Moving.. don't stay trippin, n heart broken so young! It's okay to be young and in love or have a BF or GF, but no all the drama if it becomes crazy end it and move on! young love is beautiful too B.
I love brian..but he's so fuckin contradictory in this vid... DIGGY is NOT over 25 and he's expecting him to be in love with him?according to his own opinions he may as well leave diggy alone?In all honesty...age ain't nothing but a number...I'm 23 and hold a salaried position, while finishing my undergrad(full-time) and I've been in a committed relationship for 5 years. No infidelities on either part and ALL is well! sounds like somebody done got burned by the one they CHASED like a dope fiend.
Is this a joke video? You sound pretty serious, relatively speaking.
You were obsessed with some guy named Diggy who was ambivalent about you, possibly because you wronged him in some way, and now you are telling people to avoid commitment? Does that apply to you, too, with the way you were chasing that boy down?
You said I need "All of the Abuv" That's me!! Hahaha !!
AlloftheAbuv 4 months ago
I believe this video applies to certain people im 22 in school and have been in my relationship for 3 years and now we about to celebrate our sons 1st birthday in a few weeks and couldn't be more in love and we still have time for me to hang out with my girls and him with his boys without either one of us having to check in with eachother. But everyones situation is different. I love your videos B you are so funny....
briza12231 5 months ago
gir i love he, I LOVE HE GIR, I LOVE HE!
aja0sings 5 months ago
Lmfao @ the quarters from the Laundromat
emilyjob 5 months ago
Yeah I'm 19 and my bf tries to get me to like get on wifey status!! I was about to like do until i saw this vid!!!! I am Saved!!!!!!
TravBful 5 months ago
im gonna be 17 in 15 days, i been with my boyfriend for 8 months and i love him, but i'll be DAMNED if i ask him if i can hang with my bitches. if he dont like it, he can *two snaps* GO!
AngelicaMane 5 months ago 3
LOL IT'S FUNNY THAT THIS POPPED UP, MY MOM JUST TOLD ME LAST WEEK TO STOP FOCUSING ON ONE GUY......OH IM 21 BTW LOL
MzTwEeT1989 5 months ago
TRUE T.... i love it, i love it, ilove it!!!
heyqty 6 months ago
Sorry But This Does Not ApplyTo EVERYONE.. If You're Young And Want To Be In A Committed Relationship And Is In A Stable Situation Then GO FOR IT... Love You Brian But I Disagree... I Am 28 And Have Been Happily Married Since I Was 17...
303Queen 6 months ago 2
@303Queen congrats to you! some people can't maintain a relationship for more than a week these days smh
dislopia 3 months ago
Don't Be Looking For Commitment Under 25 But Don't Be Looking For Commitment After 25 Either.Point Blank Period
DonDivaBitch 6 months ago
say it!!! timeless advice!!
peach307 7 months ago
i heard that!! i agree with tht.. but some ppl just dont understand that shit
bshenique 7 months ago
I don't see the difference between being in love at 24, 25, and 26. I would more so say wait til ur out of or almost out of college even though some people meet there life partners in college, those are the BEST times of your life and you don't wanna waste them being worried about relationships. But at the same time, the silly relationships you go through when ur younger are life lessons and will show you what you DON'T want to be looking for when you're older
dreek89 7 months ago
~15..SiNGlE..lUViN it~
BLaCKBaRBiie205 8 months ago
I used this for my engl paper. I got a B+. THANKS BEE!
aries321 8 months ago
U are so right!
thickesexy123 8 months ago
im 23 & i wanna be married NOW sooooo bad for some reason
trustewiefan87 9 months ago
Thank u for this vid Brian u always speak the truth!
19hiongg 9 months ago
hell yea girl thats y im 22 and single, lovin it!!!!!!!!!!!
dasexy101 10 months ago
im a 20 woman and i was feeling bad about this guy and you said like two of my complaints im laughing at myself now. Thats not true alot of my cousins are still in happy marriage. I love he lol.
wishywashygirl19 11 months ago
Hell Yes! i agree with you so much.. I'm not in love with no boy right now. plus I'm 17 what i know about love anyway.The only thing thats on my mind is school and money.
MzJazzy123100 11 months ago
YES BRIAN! you better tell it boo!! i'm 18 and i'm like the New Boyz, you not gon tie me down!. i tell my peers ALL the time, we too young to be in relationships. get your life together first then go find a bf/gf! how can you love somebody else when you can't even love yourself fully?? #imjustsayin
mzskyhigh 11 months ago
@mzskyhigh hell yes! i agree with you
MzJazzy123100 11 months ago
@MzJazzy123100 yes ma'am, yes girl! lols
mzskyhigh 11 months ago
@mzskyhigh hell yeah! thats my shit lol
MzJazzy123100 11 months ago
@MzJazzy123100 yes lol!! love it!
mzskyhigh 11 months ago
@mzskyhigh haha! i love it too♥
MzJazzy123100 11 months ago
@MzJazzy123100 indeed lol :)
mzskyhigh 11 months ago
@mzskyhigh yeah! you are too funny
MzJazzy123100 11 months ago
@MzJazzy123100 lol u too girlie
mzskyhigh 11 months ago
@mzskyhigh yay lol
MzJazzy123100 11 months ago
Me and my friends call each other birds we fly together we do every thing together we fight yes but it's all luv we r all free no man or boy and separate us no mam no gir we party and every thing come to baltimore and will show u how to get down now if he is cute fuck it I'm boo lovin all day ( a month ) then we bac sasha ferce all day lls tru Dow
Alesia214 1 year ago
awww bee, my girl and i have been together since we were 15 and 17......we will celebrate 12 (consecutive) years together come june, so long lasting love before 25 is possible ;)
melinda6499 1 year ago
8:23 TURE!!! WTF....U DA ONE IM SUPPOSED TO BE FUKEN SO????
betosrose 1 year ago
OK... U R RITE.....I GOT WIT MY BD WHEN I WAS 14 (HE WAS 15)....N GODDAM!!! SHIT WAS CRAZY! DAT IS NOT THE AGE TO BE DOEN SHIT....
BUT....
NOW DAT IM 21 (AFTER ALL THAT STUPID TEENAGE BULLSHIT) WE DONE WORKED SHIT OUT AND BOTH ME N HIM KNOW WE SETTLED DOWN. SO....EVEN THOUGH WE UNDER 25....WE COMMITTED...
betosrose 1 year ago
Lol yo dis is so true me nd my girlz def b out shoppin nd we jus came bck from miami nd one of my girls couldnt go cuz of her man smh hppy im not tied dwn
aaliyah325 1 year ago
HELL YEAH BRIAN I'M 17!!!! Thats the shit i be trynna tell my friends they be all stuck over 1 nigga n shit like its way more fine ass dudes out here to b stuck on that lil dick bastard n e way (excuse my language) I swear im showin my hoes this video
Queenb2560 1 year ago 8
I was with my guy for 8 years, had a baby at 21, now im 25 n we broke up, so now all my friends are married n I have no one, he's 28 n goin crazy wit the ladies n i sit home all the time. I dont know what to do.
mds2584 1 year ago
thats exactly wat i say...
I DNT WNT A SEROUS RELATIONSHIP TILL IM 25
my frends say i say that now...but i know ll stick to it...
21-25 IM PARTYIN BELOW 21 LIKE I AM NOW JUST LIVIN LIFE
mzDEE808 1 year ago
Im 21 and my boyfriend is 19 (kinda big age difference) but we've been together goin on 4 years....&& honestly...I COULDNT AGREE W/ YOU MORE BRIAN! U WAS RIGHT ON POINT it is so hard....n i think esp for him cuz he's so much younger n i think he still have alot of growin to do..and so do i...but him way more lol...&& at dis point in the relationship..i often dnt like him! he is jus as u describe possesive, a lil insecure scared ima cheat n so on...and im at the point where i jus wanna do me
TiaCo08 1 year ago
@TiaCo08 and have fun..he bugs the hell outta me and he have all his lil minor hoes riding his dick n im like w/e now...i still love him..but i think we need time to do our thing and grow...cuz we may not be as right for each other as we think..we jus neva got the time to go fishing to see wut else out there...(well he did!) AND UR SO RIGHT BOUT SEX MY MA TLD ME "BBY I AINT GNE TELL U TO WAIT TILL MARRIGE TO HAVE SEX..CUX U GOTTA TEST HIM OUT B4 U SPEND YO LIKE W/ BAD SEX!" LMAO
TiaCo08 1 year ago
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TiaCo08 1 year ago
YES SIR YES MAM!!! IM 21 THATS RITE NO COMMITMENT..... PARTY!!!
animezlyfe 1 year ago
So so true!!
theconfusion105 1 year ago
U are totally rite
MsBarbados88 1 year ago
yess
poohber2010 1 year ago
"Mmm she don't suck dick, I can't fuck with her"
NZavala18 1 year ago
Yesssss Bee ., I Needed To Hear This , I Knw I'm Late Bt, I'm 19 And My Heart Been Broke One Too Many Times. Stressinq , ryinq Benq Depressed. Now I Say Fck It. I'm Livinq Life I'm In Colleqe Dnt Have No Kidds. So I'm Runninq Wild.,*! =) Ily Bee.
LorMizz09 1 year ago
I "eowwwed" throughout this whole video
TrinitySimone 1 year ago
lmao "O she dont suck dick i cant fuck wit her" LMMFAO
DraeTy 1 year ago
"under 25 you shouldnt be in love with nobody".."fuck the potential person to be with you" - WRONG!! wrong wrong. umm some people have something called morals and values and religious beliefs and choose to wait until marriage. and some people happen to fall in love before 25, and it works out and they are happy, some people dont wanna 'date and take applications', some just wanna find that one real person and be happy and be committed instead of running around wit tom dick and harry like a hoe
lilnycshawty1586 1 year ago
LMBO@ I LOVE HE!
BrittneyJ08 1 year ago 7
ok im ready
*cough* *couch*
uh huh!!!
LMFAO
yungmoney160 1 year ago
girrrl isn't Diggy like 19 years old though? maybe you should take your own advice!
dandotcom1989 1 year ago 3
@dandotcom1989 UH UH HOLD UP...IS HE??? BRIAN......
betosrose 1 year ago
true true
meli111005 1 year ago
SOOOOO TRUE BEE!!! I needed this, I'm 21 and this hit home!!!!!!!!!! LOVE YOU BEE!!!
Nique203 1 year ago
& that's the truth!
sexibabie10 1 year ago
look at you, preachin'.
this is the TRUTH.
I'm favoriting.
soonerGLO 2 years ago
You are telling the damn truth!! I got married at 18 with a person I had been going with for six years! We barely stayed married for a year!! It ain't no doubt that we didn't love each other, we just were young and not ready!! When you are young you should be out having fun. You have the rest of your life to think about settling down!! CHERISH YOUR YOUTH!!!
str8drop3 2 years ago 2
i cant believe im just now seein this video. Brian i truly love u! nothin but the truth in this vid. plz do a prt 2 video for this! asap :)
jusme23 2 years ago
ikr
TRMusic15 2 years ago
i feel ya bra bra thats wat dey do forreal ya'll better get right & tight
TriCountyENT 2 years ago
speak the mutha fuckin truth im 18 and a agree 100 percent. i tell these chicks every day i dont date i probably flirt but thats all they gettin out of me. these girls in high school need to grow up.
bobothefofo 2 years ago
SOOOOO TRUEEEEEEE!
ItzTIFNIBitch 2 years ago
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Hell Yeah But Hell Naw!! I Hear Everything You Saying But Im Under 25 And In A Committed Relaionship..He Put A Ring On It N Got A Baby On The Way..N We Been Together Almost Three Years
MrzThomas100207 2 years ago
Brian your a funny ass bitch, what's your Birthdate boo?
jw90069 2 years ago
just subscribed you're incredible<3
obscurity87 2 years ago
Ooo, Brian (hey, girl, hey!), I'mma definitely need for you to make a part 2 about "it happened but it didn't have to happen" because a lot of ppl need to hear that! Cause, honey, with all the birth control available nobody should be a pregnant teen. Okay? Okay!
paintmelovely 2 years ago 4
wen i say shxt like disz people tell me im wrong!!!
BlaqAngel 2 years ago
I LOVE THIS.!
&& LoveYOU.!
This is so real.
Takin` your advice.!
theeNastyPrettyGirl 2 years ago
Imma Take Ur Advice Cause Dats Mah Whole Situation N Im Only 22. So Thanx.
How U Dewin???
Awwriiight!!!
KeshaB2005 2 years ago
U Is Sooo Right. lol........... U 2 Funni Doe.
KeshaB2005 2 years ago
Lolzzz. I luv how u alwayz use Beyonce 4 ur refernce points. It alwayz makez ur point so much clearer. lmao
tashia11 2 years ago
Lolzzz. So i gotta w8 4 more yearz till I can think about committing 2 someone?
tashia11 2 years ago
i know thats riqht brian...tell them...im only 16 && i know this i try to tell these niqqas this...i aint tryna be tied down
IMJUSSME54654 2 years ago
so freakin true!!!
ehanger23 2 years ago
Brain gir!! I agrees now can you tell my 18 yr old bf that!! urgh im 20 n he wanna marry me!! tell him sumthin! i gotta get him to watch this.
crazicari 2 years ago
oww b u spoke it on this vid! please do an part 2
kydlissa 2 years ago 2
omggg.. i love yu brian..yu da truth 4real..shit i feel betta.
ITSCAMBABII 2 years ago
U R THE TRUTH!!! evrything u sed is 100% rite
deliciouscutie 2 years ago 4
I'm one of those people under 25... I'm like WAAAAAAAAAAAAY under 25... BUT I FREAKIN' AGREE WITH YOU! I only watched the first 3 minutes but I agree!... Now let me watch the rest lol
nikafallenlovesu 2 years ago 2
SO TRUE!!! lol. I need to b single for 4 more years =] . And how u try to do ur trade voice but u were doin a neck roll at the same time lmao
AmaniArk 2 years ago 2
YASS BRIANN!!!!!! I'm 19 rite now in college and dewwinn it gir! My friends all got "husbands" and "fiancees" and shit & its like OKAY, why r young ppl in such a rush to grow up?! we gonna be grown FOREVER soon enough.....LMAO u just inspired me to DEWW ITTT even moree! Sheeitt, im taking APPS! LUV U BRIAN!!!
HahaNiceTryXoXo 2 years ago 4
you made some very good points...i'm only 21, so yea, i'm dating but i'm not ready to settle down or anything like that...the only thing i can't relate to is the sexing part...i'm waiting til marriage, which is why i'll probably be single for a hella long time (laughs)....
0cutenerd 2 years ago 4
yes!! THE TRUTH.
tibbs110 2 years ago
U dropped the knowledge on this one
ddm39203 2 years ago 2
ur so smart bee!
dargankristopherj 2 years ago
OMG i just facebooked him about this, I believe he is talking about me, SHIT!!!!!
someilovesomeihate 2 years ago 2
Lol
mzsuccess10 2 years ago
tell the kids Brian!! 21. i wanted be committed sooo bad in high school but im picky so i never dated. i'd cry at night cuz i thought i needed to be in love to complete my life lol. but i stuck it out and now in college im droppin nxggas left and right ! i smh at how i thought i knew it all back then ! couldnt imagine being locked down at this age. i stay at all the parties wit my girls...dewin it !
MzKayBabesz 2 years ago 61
love is love...age aint nothing but a number cuz people dying early before damn 25 so i say live how you want to
tjsexy 2 years ago 2
lol wat about me...im 17 n never had a bf am i late on the date n lol
NaeNaeDatChick 2 years ago 2
girl u not late lol. im almost 21 and just started dating. i still havent had a bf and i dont want nor need one. keep yo options open!
MzKayBabesz 2 years ago
girl u r so right! im only 15 an people keep sayin i need a bf! im like wtf i dont need one i perfectly fine without one, i have friends
Nellz1luva 2 years ago 5
oh thats good to know i thought it was just me..ppl be lookn all surprised when i say ive never had 1
NaeNaeDatChick 2 years ago 20
@NaeNaeDatChick girl u not late. im 23 only had 3 boyfriends and thats only in the past 3 years. trust me most of those high school dudes are too possessive or loose themselves. i agre with Brian. just date and take applications.
bigdiva4eva 2 years ago
lmfao i love the i am...sasha fierce references.
& i appreciate the advice... /:
though i have no clue what you talkin bout at the end.
smartee16890 2 years ago 3
That is so true. Too often people get married early just to get divorced soon after that. Why the rush to commitment? I swear I don't get it....
valova82 2 years ago
LMFAOOOOOOOO
Markzgurl4eva 2 years ago
I LOVE THIS VIDEO!!!
KThorps 2 years ago
All we do is shop until we drop lol.. Preach
mzmelody1 2 years ago 2
you really gave some good advice. ppl so young are in such a rush to get into these long relationships. i agree have fun till your 25 :)
dollfacebarbie 2 years ago
You are so right! omg now a days teens going around in highschool getting married and wanting babies at age 14, 15 and 16!
textmonsterlm 2 years ago
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trixietomstv 2 years ago
Overall the best advice IMO should of been being in love for the wrong reasons should be avoided.. Life and Relationships and work are not going to be perfect. Some people are meant for a season and some are meant for a longer period. That's life. Not getting into a relationship cause u are under 25 doesn't solve anything. And having sex with people right away definitely doesn't solve anything.
josephjmg18 2 years ago 2
I undertand where you are going, but I can't agree 100%. I think if you are gonna stay uncommitted I don't thinl it should be about going out and being promiscuous(which hiv rates are high now in days). I think it should be about getting your career and life together. That should be the reason for staying uncommited. And alot of the examples you gave on things these "kids" should be looking for are shallow and won't make a great relationship if they do wait. Condoms are great, but not 100.
josephjmg18 2 years ago
:::::BRAVO:::::
Omg...I totally believe this!
I know my vids tell another story... BUT I swear people got it fucked up trying to be "Cuffed" this young!!
Fuck that....
Totally feeling that jamacia comment btw....LOL
Part two please :)
MsInsaneNMembrane 2 years ago
part 2
chocolate1212 2 years ago
please bryan part 2
chocolate1212 2 years ago
I totally agree with you although I am the acception. I did all of my partying and youth enjoying between 14 and 17. I'm 18 now and I know what I want to do with my life and I'm engaged. I really couldn't be happier because I have been out there and its not what I like. But I totally agree with what you say because most people are like that when truthfully they should be out and enjoying themselves.
RoadyDean91 2 years ago
B you need your own talk show straight up
younggoon94 2 years ago 2
@briannawhitman95
he's 28...
younggoon94 2 years ago
Brian...How old are u again??
briannawhitman95 2 years ago
lol.."ugh she don't suck dick"
neshainez 2 years ago
Love this video..... Part 2
lsrcla 2 years ago
LMAOO i love how u used all the titles of tracks from I AM SASHA FIERCE 2 describe the single life
CokeOhMama 2 years ago 2
Tell the truth Brian ....and the ones under 25 shouldn't be giving advice about this shit either ................what do they really know ????....with respect!!
Backatwon 2 years ago
tell them brian im 21 and i was like that for a min but got it 2gether
deka18 2 years ago
damn you right
khyree1688 2 years ago
Im 14, and im really tired of hearin all my friends sayin "i loveeee him/her". We dont even know what dat mean yet!! Couldnt agree more
jevans5145 2 years ago 3
Yes ma'am yes girl!!! You hit the nail right on the muthafuckin head with this one Bee. I'm 28 and I've been married for two years but been with the same guy since I was 23 and sometimes I wish I could turn back the hands of time and stayed by my muthafuckin self and had all fun I could possibly have. You were so right on this post. I'll tell anyone who will listen dont get tied down to anyone before ur ready, especially if ur in ur 20's. Enjoy ur youth and have fun.
Natjoy24 2 years ago
TRUTH Im sick of people my age doing STUPID things or getting depressed for "LOVE"..... Part2 ASAP
VenessaVB 2 years ago
lOl; i swear iLove me some Bee.!!! Im 21 and I window shop for guys ALL THE TIME.! Even when i do ahve a man, I DO WHAT I WANT. It aint no checking with him...he dnt need to know my every fukin step. lOl. I LOVE the SAFE SEX plug lOl. And the baby situation,..so fuking true.!!! Chicks do think that shxt thinking a dude gone stay w/them....their not. But LOVE THIS VIDEO.!
JessicaLatreese 2 years ago
yes bee!! im 25 and i wish somebody told me that shit years ago before the baby daddy and all the other drama ive got. let the kids know!!! lol
locladie 2 years ago
he is telling the god damn truth
preach brian
dimeadozen2 2 years ago
I really needed to this video....Yes ma'am and Yes girl!!!
mochamika 2 years ago
I think that there is a lot of truth in this video. Some people below are saying that they made it work, and I am sure that some people can make it happen. ("can't put an age on love") I think what Brian is trying to say is that the MAJORITY of young people aren't ready for that. Someone in my family is engaged at 20 and I think it's way too young, because of who he is/how immature he is.
chiquen81 2 years ago
AMEN BRIAN im 22 and im having fun in my past i have gave my heart to someone but i just realized im young no kids in school and have a job im doing me....i will just have a friendlover nothing else but thanks for the advice it was really good...
ejdl1920 2 years ago
Brian, I'm still a "kid" and I totally agree with you. I can't even believe how some of my peers are throwing themselves into these relationships and they take it so seriously.
It's so fucking stupid.
omgaw 2 years ago
yes maam.
ladyballer44 2 years ago
I agree with everything but the sex thing. I don't want to be with anyone sexually until I know they're committed.
noevoe978 2 years ago
preach boy preach!!!!!!!!!!!
rosthenurse 2 years ago
1200 views in under 20 hours? Go Brian!
heartbent 2 years ago
LMAOOO I LOVE BRIAN!!! yea mam and yes gir!!
s0tal3nted 2 years ago
AMEN!!!!!
meb025 2 years ago
Real Talk Bee, tell em
HvnsLilQT 2 years ago
PREACH BRiAN!!!!!!!!! OMg i LOve THiSz GUY! HESz SPEaKSz THE TRUtH aT aLL TiMESz!
MiSzPuRPLeCUpCaKESz 2 years ago
*Lady Gaga in Videophone voice*
Tell em B
africanTHEfire 2 years ago
Amen...u spoke the truth...We need 2 spend more time on looking for the right person....not a shirt lol
ONLYrealFAN 2 years ago
You people and your anecdotal evidence... Enjoy being divorcees and single parents at the age of 21.
dayne86 2 years ago
TELL EM BRIAN!
nakeist 2 years ago
Loved this advice! Thank you for speakin the truth! :-)
POETIQPRYNCESS 2 years ago
u so funny lol!
but r u gay cuz u always do that "how u doin" thing its funny but still
wiiboy555 2 years ago
yes wiiboy555 he is gay.
RideauxR 2 years ago
ok he still funny as fuck tho LMAO
if u see his video sista peterson: i dont want all this hip hop in my head, LMFAO
wiiboy555 2 years ago
Omg thank u so much Brian I have been sayin that we need 2 treat relationships like job apps and interviews...it needs 2 be a process and I will determine whether u r seasonal, part time, or permanent or even temp to hire but 4 real thank u brian yes u used humor but u gave us the real!
djmama 2 years ago 5
This has been flagged as spam show
Love your videos.
jaided79 2 years ago
omg i swear u took the words right out of my mind...me bestfriend and I always say that....like ytf r people commiting when u shud be enjoying your youth?
i cant imagine being with someone for like 5 years like sum young people do...like dam.
u need to date around....u find out things about yourself wen u date around...u also find out what u want and dont want from a significant other.
ihatelames90 2 years ago
I Feel You! But, It's Not Just People Under 25. It's People In General!!!
kaimusic87 2 years ago 2
yea no one under the age of 25 should be having those problems, kids don't need to be in relationships at all
nikkidabest812 2 years ago
Do another video and "get all into that one!"
Good vid!
nerocentric 2 years ago
sooooo true brian ain never lieddddd !!!
YUNGLILMAMI 2 years ago
Well B explain the quys who feel the qirls head up with Pipe dreams lol like "oo baby i love u, u the one, i wanna b with u forever!" like wtf B explain dhat BullSh.t..i hear what you sayinq sa\omehow i think U made this Video for me..im in that situation...thanks Biq Bro^_^ ima listen to you and take it slow im to younq for all this stress..Love U!
MiiSSTWEETiiBiRD 2 years ago
spell check???? i promise i wanted to understand what you just wrote.....
sosioh 2 years ago
Um okay u the the Spellinq Police??? like okay whatever "Some how " there! are you happy???
MiiSSTWEETiiBiRD 2 years ago
Great job! I feel the same way...under 25 is not ready for a relationship.
bdt1619 2 years ago
Great vid, Bee!! BTW, you wrong for pointing at your pointer finger. LOL!! I won't tell anyone, though.
mad2msu 2 years ago
lmao i fucking love you! yeah ima need you to do a part 2 to that shit!
ari0701 2 years ago
Amand, and Amand
apictureofruit 2 years ago
im 19, been with the same guy (nick) since 2006, yes i was 15 and he 17 wen we started dating!!! we are in love... we share and have shared firsts and moments together!! i love he gir!!! i disagree babe, i appreciate ya opinion though!!
nickzwifey2006 2 years ago
your right i been with the same person since i was 16 im 23 now and no im not bout to go and marry him but i am in love with my baby its just that you have to find the right one the one he is talkin bout is childish and not ready to be with one person but eveybodys not like that so i feel u girl
yelabne 2 years ago
LOLz not giving oral is somethng that almost any woman can be convinced to do, you shouldn't give up too soon on someone who's biggest flaw is that!
keevi84 2 years ago
um part 2 of this is soooo needed!!!!!
Suchaladybaby 2 years ago
Well...
Isn't Diggy like 18? lol...
bgk4life 2 years ago
I agree...to a certain extent.
iRAWKxMAC 2 years ago
I agree w/ what u said TO A POINT! U can't tell any1 to not fall in love, or catch feelings if they're under 25(not gonna happen) I say date & be in a relationship w/ who u want at a young age, but if you're not feelin it, unhappy, and they not treating u right, ur only young once, so just Keep It Moving.. don't stay trippin, n heart broken so young! It's okay to be young and in love or have a BF or GF, but no all the drama if it becomes crazy end it and move on! young love is beautiful too B.
strike8490 2 years ago
I love brian..but he's so fuckin contradictory in this vid... DIGGY is NOT over 25 and he's expecting him to be in love with him?according to his own opinions he may as well leave diggy alone?In all honesty...age ain't nothing but a number...I'm 23 and hold a salaried position, while finishing my undergrad(full-time) and I've been in a committed relationship for 5 years. No infidelities on either part and ALL is well! sounds like somebody done got burned by the one they CHASED like a dope fiend.
bmk31022 2 years ago 5
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW! like the video
romc2007 2 years ago 2
at 23 ma mom was married with her first kid,and she is still married 30 years later....age aint nutn but a number
MI88YRISSAPOOH 2 years ago 4
Throw dem quarters!!! Its a recession!!!! Brian you hit home real hard tonight. You gots me thinking.
droopyman122 2 years ago 2
Is this a joke video? You sound pretty serious, relatively speaking.
You were obsessed with some guy named Diggy who was ambivalent about you, possibly because you wronged him in some way, and now you are telling people to avoid commitment? Does that apply to you, too, with the way you were chasing that boy down?
PreppyNoir 2 years ago 5
good point but i think he's just giving his opinion for the young crowd.. he's over 25
romc2007 2 years ago
Thanks for clearing that up. I had no idea how old he was. I never would have guessed over 25.
PreppyNoir 2 years ago
I think Brian turned 28 in August, because I remember his friend Tye making a video about it.
chiquen81 2 years ago 2
u shuld learn how 2 edit ur videos lmfao
MattC6Toledo 2 years ago
Yes, you taught me something today!
SosoVish 2 years ago
Lol, about throwing quarters in the strip club....talk about making it hail! lol!
holywomen 2 years ago