Actually, I think this could be so much worse. at the very least, she didn't stab him & shove his body somewhere. The child was fairly safe and not abused.
I was adopted nd i had alot of problems with anger nd emotions but my mom stuck through it with me nd i love her for it. WTF!!! is wrong with that woman.
She couldn't find a child psychologist to find out what was really going on in the kid's head. If all else fails, the church or a psychiatrist is usually the way to go.
My sister has a disability and she was outa control but my parents settled her down and now she is sooo sweet it just takes time and patience! my sister is not adopted but they also didnt give up!
Thats horrible why would you give them back they didnt have anyone to begin with and yes all kids act out and you have to tech them to behave not just to tell them and scream at them!
Now what does the lil boy think or feel about this, is he gonna have trust issues now, will this situation affect his mental stability for the worse, i would assume! I think the woman should be shot!.... sry my oppinion was real lo9ng.
No offence on this toward anyonw, this is simply how i feel as an adult suviver of mental dissabilities, abuse, and neglect. I feel for the lil boy. When ppl adopt children the child is filled with such, idk the word, but they believe yay i have a family, yay someone to love me! And i wouldn't take it forgranted that the lil boy felt that way.
but america needs to adopt their own! I know ppl wanna save other children too, but help our own first, b4 u bring all these other races into out country.
I understand y russia would feel the way they do, same as if it was an american child sent to russsia and was negelected or abused, america wouldnt b 2 happy, I think if ur gonna lay down and make the child u should take responsibility of that child no matter what. I do understand if u cant take care of the child, if ur a serigant mother having a baby for someone who cant,
i agree, once you accept that responsibility, no matter what. What if she gave birth to this child, if it was her's all along, once he turned 7 and started showing mental dissabilities, r u gonna just give ur child away?
Well I've never adopted before and I am childless, but with adoption, shouldn't you include wether or not you are able to take care of a child that's overly violent, or overly anti-social or things along those lines?
I'm not judging her. Neither should any of you. This wasn't just a special needs child; if what the lady said is true, this child was homicidal and intent on murdering the woman and her family in a very painful way. Stop pretending that part of the story doesn't exist.
@xXRubella666Xx I agree...You people need to stop acting like this lady who gave the kid back is in the wrong...This kid seems to have alot of phsycological issues that these people were not prepared to deal with.
it took time & patients & a few hits but i was very consistant w/ him when disiplining him but after i would comfort him & speak to him bout our move & listen to him too
omg! thats horrible!!! kids say mean/ horrible things all the time! ur giving him a new life that he doesnt know of course he's going to act out...my son (3) is VERY well mannered i get compliments literally ALL THE TIME!!! but when i moved 8 hrs away from his aunts/ uncles & my mom he had very bad tantrums & was very agressive he even bit me through my sweater & i now have a scar there...he's so much better now that i have repeatedly talked to him bout us moving.
What must it be like for this kid, coming from the other side of the world where the culture is so different and they speak a language that is not remotely like the one he is forced to learn now, not to mention being sent to people he has never met in his life and being expected to be grateful for all of this?
If I were him I'd be angry too! Especially if my new "parents" were getting more and more frustrated with me.
The reason that people adopt from other countries is that it is easier.
Listening to this I have a couple of questions , firstly does'nt America have children looking to be adopted ? come to think of it , forget about the other questions... but that one does spring to mind , at least that way you get to meet the kid/s and see if you get along , one would think anyway.
That woman is so selfish. You dont just throw a child away like trash! If he had problems, they could have gotten him psycological help! I think the whole adoption thing theyre discussing is sad. You cabt treat children that way, no matter where theyre from. :(
If I was in that situation this is what I would've done: I think I might have helped this poor kid before I shipped out. And let's say I did give the kid back, I definitely would've done it more humanely instead of just throwing a 7 year old on a plane half way across the world all by himself. At the same time I don't want to be too judgmental on that woman because some people just don't know how to deal with situations like that, but she should've expected difficulties!
people underestimate kids, has anyone heard the story of Mary Bell ? she was an11 year old master mind and she murdered 2 little boys.. If this boy was neglected when he was younger or his parents were very violent.. They could develop into a psychopath and by saying he going to burn his whole family to death in there homes.. I would be worried also.
i say shes right hes got problems serious ones dont risk ur life ur family 4 an adobted child with mental isues normal children can b very messed up but dont wanna burn ur shit down with u in it
I don't really have a problem with this. If she wasn't given the correct information i.e. that the child had mental problems, what is she meant to do? She clearly wasn't prepared or qualified to take on such a task. And from what I've read this kid wasn't just a 'wreck' he was dangerous and was mentally unstable.
@111Derek111 Hey man Fuck you they hae every right to be in our country just like we have the right to be in there's! Now grow up 10 year old the cold war is over and quit watching kiddie cartoons and playing call of duty.
What a fucking cunt. She should be put to sleep like the nasty animal she is. When you adopt a kid you are in it for life, you don't send them back on A FUCKING PLANE ALONE WITH A NOTE TAPED TO HIS HAND. Bitch.
90MSWilliams@ A lot of people try to adopt here in the states, but there is so much "red tape" it can take years. People don't want to wait so long so they go to other countries where they have less red tape, restrictions, and lower adoption fees and can have a child faster. I know, our Government is way too big and have their hands way too deep in personal affairs. And that one little infringement will cost a child a good home. But it is mostly just trying to protect the child from harm.
1. Idk why she needed to look outside her own country or state to find a child to love. There are plenty here in the States. 2. If she was deceived, then that's where the orphanage went wrong. Not everyone can deal with a child that has mental disablities. In fact, many people put their kids up for adoption because of it! I don't think she was wrong for sending him back. I think she was wrong for how she did it. Would you prefer she beat the kid near death?
@SidTheLoveRat I agree for some situations but in others, like this one, it can be extremely hard to take care of a child with a mental disability like all that money you have to spend, its best if hes with a family that can meet all his needs.
Im adopted from russia ...this is horrible get help for the child not send him back!!! We aren clothes you cant just return them especially like that!!!!!! It hrrible!!! ily little boy(: youll find ur forever home(:
I was adopted, and I was a wreck. You put up with it because you're in it for the long haul. You don't just give them back and act like it never happened.
I think she was perfectly within her right to send the kid back. People need to get over this nonsensical myth that all children are perfect and innocent. Psychopathology in children is not unheard of. The reporters were particularly inappropriate in stating that the American family was the violent one because of two or three reported cases of abuse by American parents. Generalizing based on a sample of two or three cases is called a stereotype, and it is not a logical argument.
I was with these guys right up until they started taking the Russians side against adopting kids to Americans. You have to be careful, obviously about who you give kids to, but don't make the kids suffer even more by taking away their chance for a normal home-life.
I think it's wrong to return the child, but at the same time it was wrong for Russia to tell them that he was normal but over all the mom fails the most, poor kid
That horrible, horrible woman! D:< You DON'T just send back your child because you judge them to be 'faulty' somehow, you love and cherish them no matter what!
I hope she dosen't have any children, they will suffer so badly...
Also See Child of Rage Docu on the Tube. I think the outcome of the child greatly depends on the ability of the parent to help children with violent disorders.
You know, I'm gonna be honest here. And prolly get trolled for it, but I am on the side of the "mom" if you can call her that. Once you have that disconnect with an ADOPTED CHILD, IN THIS SITUATION, It's time to figure out how to give this child a BETTER CHANCE. Do I agree with HOW the lady did it? NO. But I DO believe that their are better people out there more suited to give this little boy the time, care, and devotion that he needs after the trauma he has suffered. She should have gotten help
@MississippiMo again, She's isn't going to make any effort to love, protect, guide, or HEAL this boy, if she FEARS HIM. Bad parent. Yep. Wrong way to do this? yep. But there are great people in the world who would love this boy, and give ALL THEY HAD to try to heal his heart. Just sayin.
My best friend Alona and her little brother Tyler were adopted from Russia, Alona is very violent but a great person :) and i dont think its right what that "mom" did.
Maybe he was so bad because he was an ORPHAN i mean i would be pretty depressed and stuff and i would probably be real mean of all that i would have to go through you know i mean and new parents and he was unwanted i mean you look as if you were in that boys shoes and i don't think it was his fought or the parents fought you have to look at what he had been through to actually have all of the story so think about what he went through maybe then you will think a whole lot differently or maybe not
Whether or not she was lied to he is still a child!! How can you think of raising any child if you do not have compassion on this one? If you want to give him back fine but to do it the way you did is soo wrong!! Put a note in his hand & send him on his way.
i think the parents r in the right only because they were not informed of the child's state. had they known exactly what they were getting into completely then thats a diff story but i completely understand their discontent
Anyone who judges the woman who wasn't informed of the reactive attachment disorder, should be required to look after a RAD child for ONE day. You'll change your tune quickly.
Yeah that's what you get dirty nasty Russian for being retarded oooooooooooooooooooooooooooh I wish you get beaten by my grandpa in Poland he is really polish
Orphaned children have never been shown love so can't express it or develop emotional attachment. it's not like buying a clean slate! They are not children that got love and care from birth. Some adoptive parents only adopt so they can fulfill their wish of have a child. Not because the child needs rescuing from an orphanage. Just my broad opinion. Every child has different needs
having a kid is a really difficult thing to do. sometimes you cant help but dislike your own.and the're normal. so imagine..u get one that's...not mentally stable.that's not fair....if you're not prepared for that..i say send the little shit bat. he's gonna end up being some skin head....
That mom was either absolutely insane or that kid put her through complete, pure, agonizing Hell. If she was loving enough for adoption and then eventually was cold enough to send a kid away all alone... I feel like he might have had murderous intentions. There's no age for a psychopath... a psychopath is a psychopath and you'll protect your family. They really lack human nature you know... so are they human? Only physically, but there's not enough details to be sure.
need to just relax and get upset at the Russians and be thankful that you didn't see on the evening news that he had at age 8 he had murdered everone in the house anid needed new adoptive parent when he got out of Juvie in a few years. Any of ye who can criticise so easily volunteer to take him
treatment known but his violence continued to escallate. Finally in desperation she tried to give him back through proper channels but the Russians, who lied to her in spite of knowing his psych problem, refused to take him back so she had no recourse except to send him back the way she did, so all you "Holy than thous
A bit more info to the story, this woman didn't raise this boy for 7 years, he had been in an orphanage for years before being adopted, When he started acting out she took him to Dr. after Dr. and the story was always the same. He had Reactive Attachment Disorder, he because of complete neglect at the Russian orphanage, not bonded to humans as a human. The docs advice to her was to send him back before he killed her other children and her. HE COULDN'T BE FIXED!!!!! She tried every (CONT)
if she adopted the kid IS HER KID NOW, and if is HER KID, she needs to put him in a mental institution until the kids is better mentally or for ever, but she needs to pay for it, is like if you don't want anymore your own kid because suddenly he result with schizophrenia!! you can't "return" a kid like if you are talking of a microwave or a ceiling fan!!????
@chunkyjarhead They are very amusing. I think I read somewhere that the captions are an experiment by Google in voice recognition technology that automatically generates captions from videos containing spoken segments. It seems they have a loooooooong way to go. :)
I can definitely understand the mother was in a tough situation but it is completely unacceptable to put a seven year old boy on a flight alone. Plus "returning" the child shouldn't even be an option. People have to understand that this is a human life, and it had to be handled with accordingly and if that means keeping a violent child in your home while the child goes through therapy etc. than that's how it has to be because she took on the responsibility.
The child may have some type of behavioral problem. A lot of children from orphanages develop attachment disorders and they go on without being diagnosed because it is such a difficult and complex disorder. The children are not receiving proper care with very little being given to them(love, food,attention). So this child may have a problem that has not been diagnosed. Although the adoptive mother may have problems herself. Needs to be looked into, not judged by people.
@partygurl21 Hey, smart one, I think you shouldn't be so quick to judge. He didn't mean to make the subtitles so poorly displayed , google audio transcribe was on the video, and it shows whatever IT hears. SO he didn't type all of this. Get your facts straight.
@partygurl21 Omg you and anyone who thumbed you up are idiots. The subtitles weren't made by the user. Its an app that tries recognizing sounds and put them in words. Its the CC button next to the quality button.
wtf 38 yr old Romanian or a dwarf??! I had to replay it a bunch of times since I couldn't believe that's actually what was said, what's the point you were trying to make by connecting a Romanian to a dwarf to a possibly psychologically disturbed child lol it only sounds derogatory to me, and it seems like I'm not the only one here...thought u need more than a mouth to appear on tv.
As a parent, adoptive or biologically you don't just give your child away because something is wrong...you get them help! What's the matter with people? Being a parent is not easy and I'm sure a lot of ppl wish they could send their kids away sometimes but u dnt really do it!!! Sheesh!!! And so what if the kids was biologically hers, what would she have done then? Adoptees should be treated the same as biological children! Ok...I'm done with my rant! That just hit a nerve.
@vanillavino :P he could hurt or kill them I would take both lives in considereation cause I would a kid in the face if he came running at me with a knife and just take him back
@xandru8 its called "The Orphan" its a thriller/horror movie... about a romanian 33 year old dwarf who is posing as an orphan to sleep with the adoptive fathers and kill the mothers..
@morikahjo And certainly putting the child on a plane to the other side of the world with nothing but a note you'd like to return him like a pair of pants that doesn't fit is the right way to deal with it.
@idobelieveinnargles no, its not. i think she should have known what she was getting into....and the people should have prepared her too. if i were to ever adopt, i would never return a kid. to me, adoption would be as binding as birth. she probably should have taken him to a doctor.
I really have to wonder what happens if the child was the mothers and he/ she drew and said what the Russian kid said and did... I don't think you can just shove him/ her out the front door, I would think the parent wouldn't give up trying to help if it was their blood.
I see his point because if she gave birth to the child she probably cant just dump him at the hospital but if the kid actually does have schizophrenia then he is dangerous and may need to be sent to a mental hospital, she could have sent him there instead of sending him back.
@ikram505 Not all schizophrenics are violent. -.- And not all violent people are schizophrenic. Schizophrenics can be violent, but it usually isn't their fault. This child is mentally disturbed, but he doesn't seem schizophrenic, he's not hallucinating.
@kishuismine27 He doesnt need to hallucinate to be dangerous. And we are not psychiatric doctors so we cant diagnose the kid. He still needs to be looked at by a professional is what I meant we cant force someone to take care of a schizophrenic child, schizophrenics can be unpredictable and we cant just assume and hope he wont do anything crazy, I knew a guy that was schizophrenic but no one knew he was until one day he killed his mother, then later he was diagnosed with it.
@ikram505 You ignored most of my comment, clearly... I said not all violent people are schizophrenics and not all schizophrenics are violent. I know we oughtn't force her to keep the child if she can't handle it. My problem is this social stigma on people with mental disorders. You said we aren't psychiatric doctors, but you assume everyone with a mental disorder is a danger to society. I said the child is disturbed. I do think he should see a doctor. But do not stigmatise people.
People are too quick to judge. Assuming what the parents said is true I'm totally on their side and probably would have done the same thing. I sure as hell don't want some unstable kid threatening constantly to burn me alive and spitting/hitting everywhere.
lol the captions are so fucked up. but this is horrible, if you're going to adopt a child, you have to be committed jesus christ.
kaywhyelleh 1 hour ago
Actually, I think this could be so much worse. at the very least, she didn't stab him & shove his body somewhere. The child was fairly safe and not abused.
merrieheart 2 hours ago
@merrieheart this bitch.
Dianity900 2 hours ago
Oh, yeah, because sending him on a plane ALONE to Moscow is really going to help his mental issues.
JOEYnoJUSTU22 3 hours ago 2
I was adopted nd i had alot of problems with anger nd emotions but my mom stuck through it with me nd i love her for it. WTF!!! is wrong with that woman.
Spaznatic 3 hours ago
She couldn't find a child psychologist to find out what was really going on in the kid's head. If all else fails, the church or a psychiatrist is usually the way to go.
Sere324nityMoon 3 hours ago
go to 3:37 and turn on captions, it says: through the test might in the cabinet
cowlickify 4 hours ago
this sounds like orphan
xLUCYxINxTHExSKYx 4 hours ago
All people in Tennessee aren't like this. I promise. I live here, and this disgusts me.
MsMaeUzumaki 5 hours ago
Well, That must tramitize the boy even worse
poor, kid. You don't just do this!
sasukekuun83 6 hours ago
Poor boy, he looks such a cute child
electric7eel 8 hours ago
he was problably fine then the mom saw orphan then got freaked out..
hipposnuggle 9 hours ago 2
My sister has a disability and she was outa control but my parents settled her down and now she is sooo sweet it just takes time and patience! my sister is not adopted but they also didnt give up!
doodlebuggster 12 hours ago
Thats horrible why would you give them back they didnt have anyone to begin with and yes all kids act out and you have to tech them to behave not just to tell them and scream at them!
doodlebuggster 12 hours ago
is that a condom? 0:56
beckiebeckie123 12 hours ago
@beckiebeckie123 hahahaha i dont think so? XD
usernamestelpe 8 hours ago
Now what does the lil boy think or feel about this, is he gonna have trust issues now, will this situation affect his mental stability for the worse, i would assume! I think the woman should be shot!.... sry my oppinion was real lo9ng.
Ladybug122885 13 hours ago
No offence on this toward anyonw, this is simply how i feel as an adult suviver of mental dissabilities, abuse, and neglect. I feel for the lil boy. When ppl adopt children the child is filled with such, idk the word, but they believe yay i have a family, yay someone to love me! And i wouldn't take it forgranted that the lil boy felt that way.
Ladybug122885 13 hours ago
but america needs to adopt their own! I know ppl wanna save other children too, but help our own first, b4 u bring all these other races into out country.
Ladybug122885 13 hours ago
I understand y russia would feel the way they do, same as if it was an american child sent to russsia and was negelected or abused, america wouldnt b 2 happy, I think if ur gonna lay down and make the child u should take responsibility of that child no matter what. I do understand if u cant take care of the child, if ur a serigant mother having a baby for someone who cant,
Ladybug122885 13 hours ago
i agree, once you accept that responsibility, no matter what. What if she gave birth to this child, if it was her's all along, once he turned 7 and started showing mental dissabilities, r u gonna just give ur child away?
Ladybug122885 13 hours ago
Well I've never adopted before and I am childless, but with adoption, shouldn't you include wether or not you are able to take care of a child that's overly violent, or overly anti-social or things along those lines?
knucklesrox100 15 hours ago
The kid had obvious MAJOR psychological & violent issues. Hes LUCKY he got sent back & didnt have his hide tanned til he couldnt sit for a WEEK!
venuslock35 19 hours ago
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xXRubella666Xx 19 hours ago
I'm not judging her. Neither should any of you. This wasn't just a special needs child; if what the lady said is true, this child was homicidal and intent on murdering the woman and her family in a very painful way. Stop pretending that part of the story doesn't exist.
xXRubella666Xx 19 hours ago
@xXRubella666Xx I agree...You people need to stop acting like this lady who gave the kid back is in the wrong...This kid seems to have alot of phsycological issues that these people were not prepared to deal with.
itzsykez 10 hours ago
The thumbnail almost made me cry omg.
allgoodthings3nd 19 hours ago
it took time & patients & a few hits but i was very consistant w/ him when disiplining him but after i would comfort him & speak to him bout our move & listen to him too
theresatorres87 20 hours ago
omg! thats horrible!!! kids say mean/ horrible things all the time! ur giving him a new life that he doesnt know of course he's going to act out...my son (3) is VERY well mannered i get compliments literally ALL THE TIME!!! but when i moved 8 hrs away from his aunts/ uncles & my mom he had very bad tantrums & was very agressive he even bit me through my sweater & i now have a scar there...he's so much better now that i have repeatedly talked to him bout us moving.
theresatorres87 20 hours ago
What must it be like for this kid, coming from the other side of the world where the culture is so different and they speak a language that is not remotely like the one he is forced to learn now, not to mention being sent to people he has never met in his life and being expected to be grateful for all of this?
If I were him I'd be angry too! Especially if my new "parents" were getting more and more frustrated with me.
The reason that people adopt from other countries is that it is easier.
antarette 20 hours ago
I laughed a lot with the subtitles. hahahaha
Sorry.
stellabrazil84 20 hours ago
haha with the subtitles? But that is so mean you can't just give a kid back.
xxAmy231xx 22 hours ago
the mom and grandma are fucking bitches.
Lifeastoldbyheather 22 hours ago
Didn't you learn anything from the movie Orphan? All seriousness though, this is awful.
SkinnedLynryd 23 hours ago
Ah poor thing :(
korikuulei 23 hours ago
Not to be racist or anything but what's with all the adoptions of Russian kids?
MrPandaLovesYou1234 1 day ago
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MrPandaLovesYou1234 1 day ago
why just why
kenfire1996 1 day ago
Listening to this I have a couple of questions , firstly does'nt America have children looking to be adopted ? come to think of it , forget about the other questions... but that one does spring to mind , at least that way you get to meet the kid/s and see if you get along , one would think anyway.
yvonneost12 1 day ago
That woman is so selfish. You dont just throw a child away like trash! If he had problems, they could have gotten him psycological help! I think the whole adoption thing theyre discussing is sad. You cabt treat children that way, no matter where theyre from. :(
RandomandBizarre 1 day ago
If I was in that situation this is what I would've done: I think I might have helped this poor kid before I shipped out. And let's say I did give the kid back, I definitely would've done it more humanely instead of just throwing a 7 year old on a plane half way across the world all by himself. At the same time I don't want to be too judgmental on that woman because some people just don't know how to deal with situations like that, but she should've expected difficulties!
MultiRandomgurl 1 day ago 4
people underestimate kids, has anyone heard the story of Mary Bell ? she was an11 year old master mind and she murdered 2 little boys.. If this boy was neglected when he was younger or his parents were very violent.. They could develop into a psychopath and by saying he going to burn his whole family to death in there homes.. I would be worried also.
kalalynnwoods 1 day ago
i say shes right hes got problems serious ones dont risk ur life ur family 4 an adobted child with mental isues normal children can b very messed up but dont wanna burn ur shit down with u in it
68beanbag 1 day ago
why are people liking this??? this is sad! the like bar has 910 likes!
Beileber5378 1 day ago
all you guys are hipocrits, this kid was completely insane. She was lied to. I would have done the same thing.
chrisshitchens 1 day ago
I don't really have a problem with this. If she wasn't given the correct information i.e. that the child had mental problems, what is she meant to do? She clearly wasn't prepared or qualified to take on such a task. And from what I've read this kid wasn't just a 'wreck' he was dangerous and was mentally unstable.
TheSirPrise 1 day ago
Has anybody noticed how absurd the subtitles are?
FASCISTmusic 1 day ago 4
good on the parents like we need another hammer beater in our country!!
111Derek111 1 day ago
@111Derek111 Hey man Fuck you they hae every right to be in our country just like we have the right to be in there's! Now grow up 10 year old the cold war is over and quit watching kiddie cartoons and playing call of duty.
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zesirra 1 day ago
Several Russian children have been tortured and murdered by their American "parents." So he got off lucky.
TheSkylur44 1 day ago
What a fucking cunt. She should be put to sleep like the nasty animal she is. When you adopt a kid you are in it for life, you don't send them back on A FUCKING PLANE ALONE WITH A NOTE TAPED TO HIS HAND. Bitch.
lilsarahbooable 1 day ago
90MSWilliams@ A lot of people try to adopt here in the states, but there is so much "red tape" it can take years. People don't want to wait so long so they go to other countries where they have less red tape, restrictions, and lower adoption fees and can have a child faster. I know, our Government is way too big and have their hands way too deep in personal affairs. And that one little infringement will cost a child a good home. But it is mostly just trying to protect the child from harm.
MrRsmith1957 1 day ago
1. Idk why she needed to look outside her own country or state to find a child to love. There are plenty here in the States. 2. If she was deceived, then that's where the orphanage went wrong. Not everyone can deal with a child that has mental disablities. In fact, many people put their kids up for adoption because of it! I don't think she was wrong for sending him back. I think she was wrong for how she did it. Would you prefer she beat the kid near death?
90MSWilliams 1 day ago
if you adopt a kid you have to take responsiblity for that child know matter whats wrong with him.
LifeIsSoBeautiful3 1 day ago
@pinkmints haha thx but was I talking to you?
XxCrazyChick16xX 1 day ago
@SidTheLoveRat I agree for some situations but in others, like this one, it can be extremely hard to take care of a child with a mental disability like all that money you have to spend, its best if hes with a family that can meet all his needs.
XxCrazyChick16xX 1 day ago
@XxCrazyChick16xX shut up you're full of it.
pinkmints 1 day ago
Im adopted from russia ...this is horrible get help for the child not send him back!!! We aren clothes you cant just return them especially like that!!!!!! It hrrible!!! ily little boy(: youll find ur forever home(:
russiangirl809 1 day ago
Poor child... :(
maeberry902 1 day ago
the words on the bottom of the screen is a fail
lolsurface1 1 day ago
I was adopted, and I was a wreck. You put up with it because you're in it for the long haul. You don't just give them back and act like it never happened.
PrincessPanFry 1 day ago 53
@PrincessPanFry Until you're fucking stabbed in your sleep. Eat shit, you retarded cunt.
MVelli 23 hours ago
well that is fucked up
ttv0 2 days ago 38
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Pinkwilenn 11 hours ago
So what, if the child had behaviour problems. The woman should have kept the child. Once you adopt a child, you don't send him back, no matter what.
SidTheLoveRat 2 days ago
@SidTheLoveRat Normally, I'd agree, but if he's constantly threatening to murder you all with fire, I don't think you should be expected to keep him.
xXRubella666Xx 19 hours ago
Can't say I've ever seen a movie like that.
DerekBurn 2 days ago
artyom, listen to da seenging pipes!!!!!
camiotron 2 days ago
I think she was perfectly within her right to send the kid back. People need to get over this nonsensical myth that all children are perfect and innocent. Psychopathology in children is not unheard of. The reporters were particularly inappropriate in stating that the American family was the violent one because of two or three reported cases of abuse by American parents. Generalizing based on a sample of two or three cases is called a stereotype, and it is not a logical argument.
rjh2476 2 days ago
I was with these guys right up until they started taking the Russians side against adopting kids to Americans. You have to be careful, obviously about who you give kids to, but don't make the kids suffer even more by taking away their chance for a normal home-life.
CoffeeCupGoodness 2 days ago
I think it's wrong to return the child, but at the same time it was wrong for Russia to tell them that he was normal but over all the mom fails the most, poor kid
ireallydontcare185 2 days ago
russian orphans are usually messed up. love him anyways
rainepanda 2 days ago
That horrible, horrible woman! D:< You DON'T just send back your child because you judge them to be 'faulty' somehow, you love and cherish them no matter what!
I hope she dosen't have any children, they will suffer so badly...
XnadezhedaX 2 days ago
omg that makes no sense one of my bffs wus adopted from the ucrane and he is so crazy but i love him like a brother
IzzyRandomnezz 2 days ago
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msbrowneyes11000 2 days ago
@msbrowneyes11000 racist
fudgemixedwithcheese 2 days ago
this reminds me of orphan
PurpleElephant26 2 days ago
How many days did she have the kid for? Was it past the 14 day return window?
koggi242 2 days ago
horrible little cunt. good riddance.
TheBaronsamedi88 2 days ago
Also See Child of Rage Docu on the Tube. I think the outcome of the child greatly depends on the ability of the parent to help children with violent disorders.
MississippiMo 2 days ago
You know, I'm gonna be honest here. And prolly get trolled for it, but I am on the side of the "mom" if you can call her that. Once you have that disconnect with an ADOPTED CHILD, IN THIS SITUATION, It's time to figure out how to give this child a BETTER CHANCE. Do I agree with HOW the lady did it? NO. But I DO believe that their are better people out there more suited to give this little boy the time, care, and devotion that he needs after the trauma he has suffered. She should have gotten help
MississippiMo 2 days ago
@MississippiMo again, She's isn't going to make any effort to love, protect, guide, or HEAL this boy, if she FEARS HIM. Bad parent. Yep. Wrong way to do this? yep. But there are great people in the world who would love this boy, and give ALL THEY HAD to try to heal his heart. Just sayin.
MississippiMo 2 days ago
OMG bad parent much
selenagomezrocks2001 2 days ago
its normal for russians to be violent.
spitpartyshinner 2 days ago
My best friend Alona and her little brother Tyler were adopted from Russia, Alona is very violent but a great person :) and i dont think its right what that "mom" did.
MakennaTV 2 days ago
Maybe he was so bad because he was an ORPHAN i mean i would be pretty depressed and stuff and i would probably be real mean of all that i would have to go through you know i mean and new parents and he was unwanted i mean you look as if you were in that boys shoes and i don't think it was his fought or the parents fought you have to look at what he had been through to actually have all of the story so think about what he went through maybe then you will think a whole lot differently or maybe not
madiegail123 2 days ago
well if you wanna give the kid back but don't let it travel back alone
tindermo 2 days ago
Reminds me of the movie Orphan, LOL. Psychopathic child from Russia xD
fd3 3 days ago
Whether or not she was lied to he is still a child!! How can you think of raising any child if you do not have compassion on this one? If you want to give him back fine but to do it the way you did is soo wrong!! Put a note in his hand & send him on his way.
funiron 3 days ago
i think the parents r in the right only because they were not informed of the child's state. had they known exactly what they were getting into completely then thats a diff story but i completely understand their discontent
amaykay420 3 days ago
Anyone who judges the woman who wasn't informed of the reactive attachment disorder, should be required to look after a RAD child for ONE day. You'll change your tune quickly.
thinlinebetweenable 3 days ago
Is she fucking stupid? You don't sent the kid back you GET THEM HELP. That's what being a parent is about. It's a lifetime commitment NO MATTER WHAT.
flutterbyeebaby 3 days ago
Take the costco a freakin doctor
Zimba5376 3 days ago
Can they show the pictures of the houses
Zimba5376 3 days ago
Yeah that's what you get dirty nasty Russian for being retarded oooooooooooooooooooooooooooh I wish you get beaten by my grandpa in Poland he is really polish
TimboJuice19 3 days ago
@TimboJuice19 I'm not even russian and i found that really offending
johnedward430 3 days ago
you should love someone for who they are....
ilovemyfuzzyboobear 3 days ago
@ilovemyfuzzyboobear not when they could harm you.
mamal12395 3 days ago
What the..?! Was the job of subtitle writer given to a monkey?? lol
alyhs3 3 days ago
that's awful no wonder the kid is 'mentally unstable' she's so dumb that's just gonna mess him up even more ....... people these days smh
theSbell17 3 days ago
I'd be the same way. I'd be like this kids broke get me a new one.
gupie16 3 days ago
What crazy movie is he talking about???!!!
M0J0J0J077 4 days ago
Orphaned children have never been shown love so can't express it or develop emotional attachment. it's not like buying a clean slate! They are not children that got love and care from birth. Some adoptive parents only adopt so they can fulfill their wish of have a child. Not because the child needs rescuing from an orphanage. Just my broad opinion. Every child has different needs
M0J0J0J077 4 days ago
hahhaahh omg the subtitles
NewWorldZappa 4 days ago
having a kid is a really difficult thing to do. sometimes you cant help but dislike your own.and the're normal. so imagine..u get one that's...not mentally stable.that's not fair....if you're not prepared for that..i say send the little shit bat. he's gonna end up being some skin head....
daffypoop007 4 days ago
That mom was either absolutely insane or that kid put her through complete, pure, agonizing Hell. If she was loving enough for adoption and then eventually was cold enough to send a kid away all alone... I feel like he might have had murderous intentions. There's no age for a psychopath... a psychopath is a psychopath and you'll protect your family. They really lack human nature you know... so are they human? Only physically, but there's not enough details to be sure.
MrTiki7690 4 days ago
need to just relax and get upset at the Russians and be thankful that you didn't see on the evening news that he had at age 8 he had murdered everone in the house anid needed new adoptive parent when he got out of Juvie in a few years. Any of ye who can criticise so easily volunteer to take him
LPB12342 4 days ago
treatment known but his violence continued to escallate. Finally in desperation she tried to give him back through proper channels but the Russians, who lied to her in spite of knowing his psych problem, refused to take him back so she had no recourse except to send him back the way she did, so all you "Holy than thous
LPB12342 4 days ago
A bit more info to the story, this woman didn't raise this boy for 7 years, he had been in an orphanage for years before being adopted, When he started acting out she took him to Dr. after Dr. and the story was always the same. He had Reactive Attachment Disorder, he because of complete neglect at the Russian orphanage, not bonded to humans as a human. The docs advice to her was to send him back before he killed her other children and her. HE COULDN'T BE FIXED!!!!! She tried every (CONT)
LPB12342 4 days ago
some people just do it for the money
y9129 4 days ago
@y9129 That would be fostering a child. You don't get paid to adopt a child, at least not in Canada...
RachelleNukem 4 days ago
she had every right, she was misled.
carrielynngrayson 4 days ago
if she adopted the kid IS HER KID NOW, and if is HER KID, she needs to put him in a mental institution until the kids is better mentally or for ever, but she needs to pay for it, is like if you don't want anymore your own kid because suddenly he result with schizophrenia!! you can't "return" a kid like if you are talking of a microwave or a ceiling fan!!????
Harley6040 4 days ago
Did that women think about how that poor little boy would feel. He can't help how he is!
FireFang1313 4 days ago
This has been flagged as spam show
THe writen words are completley off from the verbal words
BrooklynHill158 4 days ago
after 7years of living with a child,you've brought up..how the hell can you just get rid of him?
if she doesn't feel guilty..then,thats disgusting.
MsScottishandproud 4 days ago
don't put subtitles if you don't understand what does the speaker say, it is really annoying.
BubaMaraFijuFic 4 days ago
i would have done the same thing for my safety
LABERDUDOLE101 4 days ago
thank goodness she kept her receipt!!lol
rozozzy 4 days ago
i dose not matter you took him poor kid i fill for him thing like this is why he is so fuck up
blueeyes77181 4 days ago
stupid woman! It's clear that she doesn't care of him!
crazybeatlesfan1998 4 days ago
Whoever did these captions is a moron
chunkyjarhead 5 days ago 9
@chunkyjarhead They are very amusing. I think I read somewhere that the captions are an experiment by Google in voice recognition technology that automatically generates captions from videos containing spoken segments. It seems they have a loooooooong way to go. :)
sbalogh53 4 days ago
LOL SHE SENT HIM TO WASHINGTON... WHAT?
EyeLoveZebraPrint 5 days ago
I can definitely understand the mother was in a tough situation but it is completely unacceptable to put a seven year old boy on a flight alone. Plus "returning" the child shouldn't even be an option. People have to understand that this is a human life, and it had to be handled with accordingly and if that means keeping a violent child in your home while the child goes through therapy etc. than that's how it has to be because she took on the responsibility.
MariaBernadetteblog 5 days ago
The child may have some type of behavioral problem. A lot of children from orphanages develop attachment disorders and they go on without being diagnosed because it is such a difficult and complex disorder. The children are not receiving proper care with very little being given to them(love, food,attention). So this child may have a problem that has not been diagnosed. Although the adoptive mother may have problems herself. Needs to be looked into, not judged by people.
koalabear800 5 days ago 16
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Chanelysaurus 5 days ago
the subtitles are crazy off
cheergiiiirl 5 days ago 2
TERRIBLE job of the subtitles! Do you even know proper English and grammar?! X'D lol
partygurl21 5 days ago 16
@partygurl21 you do know that the subtitles aren't written by them right?
patchyace 3 days ago
@partygurl21 Hey, smart one, I think you shouldn't be so quick to judge. He didn't mean to make the subtitles so poorly displayed , google audio transcribe was on the video, and it shows whatever IT hears. SO he didn't type all of this. Get your facts straight.
SvenAce3659 2 days ago
@partygurl21 Omg you and anyone who thumbed you up are idiots. The subtitles weren't made by the user. Its an app that tries recognizing sounds and put them in words. Its the CC button next to the quality button.
migueche20 2 days ago
I have a heart for adopting kids... This is horrific.
eleongamgee 6 days ago
I hope some decent and loving Russian family adopted this little boy. The kid was probably scared out of his mind.
Somebody should take the adopted "mother" and take her to Siberia against her will.
Reviewcam1961 6 days ago
wtf 38 yr old Romanian or a dwarf??! I had to replay it a bunch of times since I couldn't believe that's actually what was said, what's the point you were trying to make by connecting a Romanian to a dwarf to a possibly psychologically disturbed child lol it only sounds derogatory to me, and it seems like I'm not the only one here...thought u need more than a mouth to appear on tv.
bdeea1387 6 days ago
@bdeea1387
He was talking about the movie Orphan.
misscoutureland1 5 days ago
no words to explain how terrible this is.
Tink9229 6 days ago
It turned out the kid was psychologically normal too. Its despicable on her part.
loljokesimdumbledore 6 days ago
What the heck is wrong with her? And also as a side note, what is wrong with those subtitles?
Posidengodoftesea 6 days ago
As a parent, adoptive or biologically you don't just give your child away because something is wrong...you get them help! What's the matter with people? Being a parent is not easy and I'm sure a lot of ppl wish they could send their kids away sometimes but u dnt really do it!!! Sheesh!!! And so what if the kids was biologically hers, what would she have done then? Adoptees should be treated the same as biological children! Ok...I'm done with my rant! That just hit a nerve.
JessFoxyful 6 days ago
What the fuck is up with the captions, did you try to lip read or something?
littlemissblonde1231 6 days ago
Even if that is true, have some patience, what about the kids opinion?
vanillavino 6 days ago
@vanillavino :P he could hurt or kill them I would take both lives in considereation cause I would a kid in the face if he came running at me with a knife and just take him back
mamal12395 6 days ago
... EXCUSEME ... ? ROMANIAN ? WTH KINDA MOVIES HAVE YA BEEN WATCHING MAN ? BE CAREFUL WITH YOURE LANGUAGE ... THAT COULD BE INTERPRETED AS RACISM
xandru8 6 days ago
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vintagecrown 6 days ago
@xandru8 its called "The Orphan" its a thriller/horror movie... about a romanian 33 year old dwarf who is posing as an orphan to sleep with the adoptive fathers and kill the mothers..
fayenesse 6 days ago
case39. i thought about that movie during this
rodsam09 6 days ago
ummm!!then why u get him that SAD!!:((
lovkris 6 days ago
the kid that likes fire :)
minecraftwoody1 6 days ago
That is NOT the proper way to return a child.
kasanyan 6 days ago
WOW
7732glam 6 days ago
yeah well if you cannot take care of a child...if your family or you are in danger, you should be able to do something about it
morikahjo 6 days ago
@morikahjo And certainly putting the child on a plane to the other side of the world with nothing but a note you'd like to return him like a pair of pants that doesn't fit is the right way to deal with it.
idobelieveinnargles 6 days ago
@idobelieveinnargles no, its not. i think she should have known what she was getting into....and the people should have prepared her too. if i were to ever adopt, i would never return a kid. to me, adoption would be as binding as birth. she probably should have taken him to a doctor.
morikahjo 6 days ago
If your child has a mental disabilty or any disabilty at all... that means you give them more love.. not throw it away.
lovelylivie14 1 week ago
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IamSecial 1 week ago
thats mean wat if ur kid that u had was mental would u give it away so mean
nini97able 1 week ago
OMG....Orphan! Esther was a 33 year old dwarf from Russia who threatened to kill the mother and father. Maybe the child saw the movie and got ideas?
Mega123justinbieber 1 week ago 66
@Mega123justinbieber no i just think its esters husband dont u think ? XD
RockzFantage 5 days ago
@RockzFantage Haha true that!
Mega123justinbieber 5 days ago
I really have to wonder what happens if the child was the mothers and he/ she drew and said what the Russian kid said and did... I don't think you can just shove him/ her out the front door, I would think the parent wouldn't give up trying to help if it was their blood.
DarkLycanthrope 1 week ago
I would do the same thing. The kid sounds crazy. Judging the parents is bull. You don't know what they have gone through. At least not first hand.
puuchan122 1 week ago
I see his point because if she gave birth to the child she probably cant just dump him at the hospital but if the kid actually does have schizophrenia then he is dangerous and may need to be sent to a mental hospital, she could have sent him there instead of sending him back.
ikram505 1 week ago 28
THAT CHILD NEEDS HELP AND MOTHER IS WISE FOR THAT EXACTLY
cupid4305 5 days ago
@ikram505 Not all schizophrenics are violent. -.- And not all violent people are schizophrenic. Schizophrenics can be violent, but it usually isn't their fault. This child is mentally disturbed, but he doesn't seem schizophrenic, he's not hallucinating.
kishuismine27 3 days ago
@kishuismine27 Not all schizophrenics hallucinate either...
AngelOfDarkness2681 3 days ago
@kishuismine27 He doesnt need to hallucinate to be dangerous. And we are not psychiatric doctors so we cant diagnose the kid. He still needs to be looked at by a professional is what I meant we cant force someone to take care of a schizophrenic child, schizophrenics can be unpredictable and we cant just assume and hope he wont do anything crazy, I knew a guy that was schizophrenic but no one knew he was until one day he killed his mother, then later he was diagnosed with it.
ikram505 3 days ago
@ikram505 You ignored most of my comment, clearly... I said not all violent people are schizophrenics and not all schizophrenics are violent. I know we oughtn't force her to keep the child if she can't handle it. My problem is this social stigma on people with mental disorders. You said we aren't psychiatric doctors, but you assume everyone with a mental disorder is a danger to society. I said the child is disturbed. I do think he should see a doctor. But do not stigmatise people.
kishuismine27 3 days ago
@ikram505 I'm sorry, but not all Schizophrenics are dangerous.....
AngelOfDarkness2681 3 days ago
People are too quick to judge. Assuming what the parents said is true I'm totally on their side and probably would have done the same thing. I sure as hell don't want some unstable kid threatening constantly to burn me alive and spitting/hitting everywhere.
IdarkphoenixI 1 week ago 2