IMO, the older women and younger man relationship doesn't work very well if you want to be treated like a man. You'll be treated like a boy. I lived it (10 year difference) and got divorced to save my masculinity and sanity. Don't do it guys.
Hm, my boyfriend and I are 7 years apart but I don't think that qualifies as May-December lol. I'm 18 and he's 25 but we get along like peas and carrots quite simply. Whoever is right for you, age should not matter as long as you're both legal.
I've always heard the formula as: the younger person should be at least half the older person's age plus 7 years. So a 20-year difference is okay if you're 40 and 60, but not okay if you're 20 and 40.
I do think that people who purposely seek out substantially older/younger partners may have some unresolved issues, though /-: It's one thing to meet someone older or younger and fall for him/her, but to seek an age type out above all others strikes me as a bit creepy.
@MurasakiNeko "...people who purposely seek out substantially older/younger partners may have some unresolved issues..."
Yeah, the unresolved issue is that they're looking for someone young and attractive. What straight guy in his 30's and up is going to run away screaming if a bodacious girl in her late teens or early 20's were to show an interest? If she's not an airhead, has her stuff together I wouldn't push her away.
@pongespob As I said, it's fine if you meet someone younger/older than you & they're interested so you get together. You can't account for feelings.
But it's another thing entirely if you seek out people 10+ years older/younger than you to the COMPLETE EXCLUSION of people your own age. Like if you think that "only an older man can truly understand me!" or "I'm such a hot 50-year-old that only hot women under age 30 deserve a piece of me." I do think that's maladjusted-- and supremely arrogant.
@MurasakiNeko lol what about people who didn't know the man was older and was so attracted that when they found out they were like; eff that, want this person too bad!
While this show is very imformantive. . and I don't mean this in a dissing sort of way at all. . but anyone else think this is remotely like "sex in the city: real life"? XD
The way I look at it, it is not the age gap (number of years) that is the issue, but rather, the maturity gap and life experience in common between the man and the woman. Plus, typically, the man is older by approximately, on average, 2-5 years than the woman in dating relationships and in marriages.
Megan is sure hot, but is a little bimbo. She wants someone 10 years older, but not someone who will "die before". In that case, considering male/female life expectancy - be with a younger man. Also, she thinks she will have babies at 50, but doesn't want a guy to desire a young hot woman. News - you won't be able to have babies at 50, and most guys are watching you only because you are young and hot, and anyway -- a healthy guy will always want young hot girls, no matter age.
Yeah, I agree with all of you. These three are a big hot mess! Furthermore, they seem to have zero respect for men. I'm not going to waste any more time listening to these women!
@Zuyfrog I agree with you. A man who is looking for a woman to be serious with and as a marriage prospect would generally not date women in this video who come across to most men as flaky, non-committal, talk disrespectfully about men, and gossipy.
@Zuyfrog, I agree with you that it is a waste of time to listen to these women for relationship/dating advice. Taking their "advice" will likely lead one to a bad relationship that ends in a bad break-up or a bad marriage that ends in divorce. Either of these 2 results are both very bad, with divorce being much worse than a break-up.
ever hear of the word "stereotypes".. not only do you perpetuate these, but you represent every bad stereotype of the modern 20ish woman.... grow up girls... please.....
I totally disagree about the chivalry, chivalry isn't dead it's just on life support. I take offense to the fact that you pigeon hole "young men" like that. I myself am a 23 year old man and I am extremely chivalrous I don't know how else to treat women on dates other than that. So just keep in mind that we still exist.
I think May December relationships are great as long as both people are on the same maturity level. Its when theres a difference there that you start seeing problems. My boyfriend is 28 and I'm 20 and there are NO problems. He's more courtious, more caring, and he actually cares about how I feel, and think. But the boyfriends I've had closer to my age were nothing like that.
i have had a relationship like that. more extream age difference then that but still i felt far more conected with an older man than one around my age.
But there's not that much difference between 20 & 28. If he were forty or your forty eight, then there would be a signficant difference. That would be a May/December relation. You and your boyfriend have, let us say, a May/August relation
Are there even any men on this planet whom are older than these three women?
My head is spinning from all the random ground being covered here. Stick to one subject and find a writer, who, "like, doesn't like, totally talk like this and junk."
The gal in the pink seems amazingly stupid, in a totally self-absorbed kind of way. I pity the man that she finally hooks up with. Do the two on the ends really need her to make themselves appear intelligent, or what?
I've been married to the same woman since I was 23 years old; I dated her five years before we were married. We're still together after all this time and we now have 2 beautiful children together! Are things so fucked up where you live that you have to make it to middle age before you can decide on a mate? How pathetic! You all think that you are princesses...message to you...I'd take any old country girl over your high maintenance asses!
He finally some comon sense on the subject. As a 41 yr old male I find woman in thier 20's much mroe fun to date than woman my age. They are much more open and and fun in bed and without the years of baggage, and issues.
"Old guys" usually come to the conclusion that drama queens and model's aren't worth the bother. They usually have lived off guys, don't have any life skills and can't take care of themselves. Looks don't last.
Just look at Anna Nichole Smith, married an old rich guy, *****ed him to death, inhearited the fortune and she and her son died from drugs. Sad.
Speak for yourself, my testosterone level is still as high as it was in my twenties, and I'm still as much of a horndog as ever. I think I get it from my Grandfather, he's still a horndog and he's 86, You should have seen all of the women hanging off of him at his retirement party two years ago, unbelievable!
I am married to a guy younger than me and he is a dream come true- he respects me, loves me, pampers me and I think the world of him and feel like he is ages more mature than me. ok, well we are only 4 mos apart
This video actually helped me. I just started talking to a guy who is older than me and I wasnt sure with the age difference. But now I feel much more confident! Thanks =]
I dated a guy who was 5 years older than me when I was 19 and he was even less mature than me, no joke. Then again he was completely nuts. On a broader scale, I do think most men get better with age... they're like wine. ;)
No offense, but you guys seem to lump us guys into big categories without admitting that there are exceptions to the "rules". I'll admit we can easily be put into groups, but I always have a problem when people assume there isn't a deeper side to us. I'm 19, but an old soul. I've always treated younger girls like little sisters, and respected older women. I am by no means perfect, but I don't like hearing that I'll be immature until Im 27... But, I may just be reading too far into this video.
Who knows ... maybe one day You'd find yourself married 2 a guy half Ur Age ...
Besides image if your 40 and single ... I'm sure that you wouldn't choose guy in his early 50s if you have the chance to be with 30 years old hunk with whom you'd feel like your 25 again :P
So I don't think you should put your partners in that kind of frame!
Judge guys for who they really are ... I don't see why their age should bother you .
Girls ... I know what you're trying 2 say ... but don't you think that some guys have different level of maturity then others and it has nothing 2 do with their age ...
However... unfortunately ... in most cases you're right about men acting childish till their 30s.
I just don't think you should put a label on younger guys ... sometimes we can be very surprising and unpredictable..
IMO, the older women and younger man relationship doesn't work very well if you want to be treated like a man. You'll be treated like a boy. I lived it (10 year difference) and got divorced to save my masculinity and sanity. Don't do it guys.
7575047 4 months ago
Hm, my boyfriend and I are 7 years apart but I don't think that qualifies as May-December lol. I'm 18 and he's 25 but we get along like peas and carrots quite simply. Whoever is right for you, age should not matter as long as you're both legal.
missmuggledetector 11 months ago
Meghan - So, having the man "by the balls" is a good thing? Not for men it isn't.
LowWave 11 months ago
why is the video so blurry?
kryptonitebullet179 1 year ago
I've always heard the formula as: the younger person should be at least half the older person's age plus 7 years. So a 20-year difference is okay if you're 40 and 60, but not okay if you're 20 and 40.
I do think that people who purposely seek out substantially older/younger partners may have some unresolved issues, though /-: It's one thing to meet someone older or younger and fall for him/her, but to seek an age type out above all others strikes me as a bit creepy.
MurasakiNeko 1 year ago
@MurasakiNeko "...people who purposely seek out substantially older/younger partners may have some unresolved issues..."
Yeah, the unresolved issue is that they're looking for someone young and attractive. What straight guy in his 30's and up is going to run away screaming if a bodacious girl in her late teens or early 20's were to show an interest? If she's not an airhead, has her stuff together I wouldn't push her away.
pongespob 1 year ago
@pongespob As I said, it's fine if you meet someone younger/older than you & they're interested so you get together. You can't account for feelings.
But it's another thing entirely if you seek out people 10+ years older/younger than you to the COMPLETE EXCLUSION of people your own age. Like if you think that "only an older man can truly understand me!" or "I'm such a hot 50-year-old that only hot women under age 30 deserve a piece of me." I do think that's maladjusted-- and supremely arrogant.
MurasakiNeko 1 year ago
@MurasakiNeko lol what about people who didn't know the man was older and was so attracted that when they found out they were like; eff that, want this person too bad!
cause i have the 20 and 40 thing going on.
LieutenantSparkles 9 months ago
While this show is very imformantive. . and I don't mean this in a dissing sort of way at all. . but anyone else think this is remotely like "sex in the city: real life"? XD
OchipchipO 2 years ago
The way I look at it, it is not the age gap (number of years) that is the issue, but rather, the maturity gap and life experience in common between the man and the woman. Plus, typically, the man is older by approximately, on average, 2-5 years than the woman in dating relationships and in marriages.
kevinwinstonshen 2 years ago
Megan is sure hot, but is a little bimbo. She wants someone 10 years older, but not someone who will "die before". In that case, considering male/female life expectancy - be with a younger man. Also, she thinks she will have babies at 50, but doesn't want a guy to desire a young hot woman. News - you won't be able to have babies at 50, and most guys are watching you only because you are young and hot, and anyway -- a healthy guy will always want young hot girls, no matter age.
mbtbd 2 years ago
@mbtbd You pretty much hit the nail on the head with that. Its nature that has been scientifically researched / proven.
vamtheanomaly 1 year ago
Yeah, I agree with all of you. These three are a big hot mess! Furthermore, they seem to have zero respect for men. I'm not going to waste any more time listening to these women!
Zuyfrog 2 years ago
@Zuyfrog I agree with you. A man who is looking for a woman to be serious with and as a marriage prospect would generally not date women in this video who come across to most men as flaky, non-committal, talk disrespectfully about men, and gossipy.
kevinwinstonshen 2 years ago
@Zuyfrog, I agree with you that it is a waste of time to listen to these women for relationship/dating advice. Taking their "advice" will likely lead one to a bad relationship that ends in a bad break-up or a bad marriage that ends in divorce. Either of these 2 results are both very bad, with divorce being much worse than a break-up.
kevinwinstonshen 2 years ago
if you 3 can have a web show...anyone can
redheadedwoman82 2 years ago
ever hear of the word "stereotypes".. not only do you perpetuate these, but you represent every bad stereotype of the modern 20ish woman.... grow up girls... please.....
FJB3012 2 years ago
I totally disagree about the chivalry, chivalry isn't dead it's just on life support. I take offense to the fact that you pigeon hole "young men" like that. I myself am a 23 year old man and I am extremely chivalrous I don't know how else to treat women on dates other than that. So just keep in mind that we still exist.
johnsmith0133 2 years ago 2
hold on your only 27 and your getting botox already your crazy
kimmiem231 2 years ago
annoying. all of you.
youtubedude 2 years ago
Why are you making relationships sound so superficial?
SpiritedxAway 2 years ago
I think May December relationships are great as long as both people are on the same maturity level. Its when theres a difference there that you start seeing problems. My boyfriend is 28 and I'm 20 and there are NO problems. He's more courtious, more caring, and he actually cares about how I feel, and think. But the boyfriends I've had closer to my age were nothing like that.
StoryFromTheStars 2 years ago 5
i have had a relationship like that. more extream age difference then that but still i felt far more conected with an older man than one around my age.
Marie3rin 2 years ago
@StoryFromTheStars
But there's not that much difference between 20 & 28. If he were forty or your forty eight, then there would be a signficant difference. That would be a May/December relation. You and your boyfriend have, let us say, a May/August relation
SagesseNoir 1 year ago
@StoryFromTheStars
borrrinnggg
I like it when they girls are 12 - 17 and the men 30 - 40
sailorsillystars 11 months ago
Are there even any men on this planet whom are older than these three women?
My head is spinning from all the random ground being covered here. Stick to one subject and find a writer, who, "like, doesn't like, totally talk like this and junk."
1:25 Not something appealing to brag about.
Hear that? That's the sound of a hundred thousand men jumping ship.
hewhohateseverything 2 years ago
I agree... just like a woman doesn't want a man "managing" her life. What would make you think a man would want a woman doing that to them?
SevenDeadliSins 2 years ago
You complaining about this stuff? Hear that? That's the sound of a million men jumping ship. Me included.
nedhenry 2 years ago
I DARE you to make less sense.
hewhohateseverything 2 years ago
just use the 1/2 * (your age) + 7 rule. If you're within that range, it's all good.
bgt2050 2 years ago
why ask why
8poseur8 2 years ago
Ok, there is no WAY the chick in blue is 27! If she is 27 I am 16!!!!
socalgirl666 2 years ago
The gal in the pink seems amazingly stupid, in a totally self-absorbed kind of way. I pity the man that she finally hooks up with. Do the two on the ends really need her to make themselves appear intelligent, or what?
tgcyndi 2 years ago
bitches
djgiga 2 years ago
BORING!
xxstebxx 2 years ago
id bang all of em.... in May and December and every month in between.. hahahahaaa
SolitaryRaf 2 years ago
Whew... i made the cut! LOL Im 31.. :)
ajdonabed 2 years ago
You know, I'm 36 and if the guy has a sense of maturity I'm not averse to dating a young man.
OceanbornAngel 2 years ago
ok i am so sorry i watched this show. i am very opposed to older guys dating younger girls.
snakedave 2 years ago
why
TURBODORK2 2 years ago
I've been married to the same woman since I was 23 years old; I dated her five years before we were married. We're still together after all this time and we now have 2 beautiful children together! Are things so fucked up where you live that you have to make it to middle age before you can decide on a mate? How pathetic! You all think that you are princesses...message to you...I'd take any old country girl over your high maintenance asses!
pds3939 2 years ago
When dumb people talk, I get offend.
Especially true about females -- They don't seem to know that their dumb.
(All this "respect talk" is offensive.)
fitzpatrick2005 2 years ago
seriously?
if you're going to talk about how dumb other people are, make sure you're using the right form of "they're." and it's "offended" not offend.
msponyboy 2 years ago
Proof for god?
Or no sleep.
fitzpatrick2005 2 years ago
He finally some comon sense on the subject. As a 41 yr old male I find woman in thier 20's much mroe fun to date than woman my age. They are much more open and and fun in bed and without the years of baggage, and issues.
GiasJulii 2 years ago
this body will be in only women world ill be the only man in it
andyandyband 2 years ago
"Old guys" usually come to the conclusion that drama queens and model's aren't worth the bother. They usually have lived off guys, don't have any life skills and can't take care of themselves. Looks don't last.
Just look at Anna Nichole Smith, married an old rich guy, *****ed him to death, inhearited the fortune and she and her son died from drugs. Sad.
mahammadabba 2 years ago
oh god more girls talking and not in the kitchen
ShinAkuma21 2 years ago
As an OLDER MALE
You Don't realize How Much of your Live you took for Granted when you were Young.
With Age you Learn to Appreciate the COMPAY of a GOOD Woman Especially when you've com out of a BAD ONE.
Also When you Reach 40 you pretty Much STOP producing TESTOSTERONE!
Life is VERY Different when you're NOT WORRING about GETTING LAID!
((Or a BJ))
probass82 2 years ago 2
Speak for yourself, my testosterone level is still as high as it was in my twenties, and I'm still as much of a horndog as ever. I think I get it from my Grandfather, he's still a horndog and he's 86, You should have seen all of the women hanging off of him at his retirement party two years ago, unbelievable!
Stentor7 2 years ago
i love this show
kontoh99 2 years ago
I am married to a guy younger than me and he is a dream come true- he respects me, loves me, pampers me and I think the world of him and feel like he is ages more mature than me. ok, well we are only 4 mos apart
MAMHOH 2 years ago
You girls need to find yourself a good nerd, they won't hurt you.... just ignore you for video games.
JCragan 2 years ago 8
This video actually helped me. I just started talking to a guy who is older than me and I wasnt sure with the age difference. But now I feel much more confident! Thanks =]
ninja4hollister 2 years ago
I dated a guy who was 5 years older than me when I was 19 and he was even less mature than me, no joke. Then again he was completely nuts. On a broader scale, I do think most men get better with age... they're like wine. ;)
rainkissme 2 years ago
I don't think age matters, I think life experience matters, and you can have a LOT of life experience even as a young child.
AshleyAnnHilderbrand 2 years ago 2
julia your nicer today!!
silviameo 2 years ago
She's always nice. =)
luckyclover012 2 years ago
No offense, but you guys seem to lump us guys into big categories without admitting that there are exceptions to the "rules". I'll admit we can easily be put into groups, but I always have a problem when people assume there isn't a deeper side to us. I'm 19, but an old soul. I've always treated younger girls like little sisters, and respected older women. I am by no means perfect, but I don't like hearing that I'll be immature until Im 27... But, I may just be reading too far into this video.
13RedPanda 2 years ago
Who knows ... maybe one day You'd find yourself married 2 a guy half Ur Age ...
Besides image if your 40 and single ... I'm sure that you wouldn't choose guy in his early 50s if you have the chance to be with 30 years old hunk with whom you'd feel like your 25 again :P
So I don't think you should put your partners in that kind of frame!
Judge guys for who they really are ... I don't see why their age should bother you .
ImmortalBlondSpirit 2 years ago
Girls ... I know what you're trying 2 say ... but don't you think that some guys have different level of maturity then others and it has nothing 2 do with their age ...
However... unfortunately ... in most cases you're right about men acting childish till their 30s.
I just don't think you should put a label on younger guys ... sometimes we can be very surprising and unpredictable..
ImmortalBlondSpirit 2 years ago 3