Ya, good to see you're using those "release forms" for public humiliation and not for acquiring relevant patient information. Saving lives one degrading movie at a time; A+
at the er i work at, there is this girl nicole, maybe 22-23 years old and she has seriously logged like 28 out of 30 days every month for the past year. absolutely pathetic. she just does it for fun cause she doesnt have a life. one day shes hobbling around on crutches, the next shes got a splint on her forearm. we call them costumes. and to boot she has been detained by hospital police in the nicu across town for being dressed up in scrubs and wandering around the nursery... again, pathetic
Beth's assault case was tried in Judge Jim Ammerman's court in the Harrison County Courthouse in Marshall. I attended. The prosecuting assistant D.A. was named Dansby. At one time, Beth was the soccer coach to Judge Jim Ammerman's retarded son. Beth was given time served (6 days) and the charge was reduced from a felony to a misdemenor in return for her guilty plea.
Beth is a violent ex-con felon with a looong history of beating on her momma. I just don't understand what's wrong with the "good" people of Marshall, Texas.
ummmm...NO THANKS I REALIZED WHAT I PUT MY FAMILY THROUGH HELL WITHOUT LOOKING AT A VIDEO...BUT HAVER YOU TRIED TO INTRODUCE HER TO THE SOBOXONE PROGRAM..IT DOES WORK...CHECK INTO IT...I BET IF SHE TRIED 1 SHE WOULD SEE THE DIFFERENCE IN THE FIRST DOSE.I BET SHE WOULD'NT PICK UP ANOTHER PILL..OR DRUG ..U CANT EVEN DRINK ON THOSE U WILL PUKE YOUR GUTS OUT..U HAVE NO DESIRE ANYWAYS.SEE IF U CAN GET HER TO TRY THEM...
That woman is the most evil person I have ever known. Don't be fooled by her act. She has stolen from every member of her family for 4 generations for drugs. She intentionally tries to hurt people with false witness and perjury. Don't be fooled by her act.
@MattyE1987 oh i understand completely!! Addiction is not a joke it really isnt,but for the ones who do make it through this alive,and only if we had someone to show us how big of fools we made of ourselves we might never go back to doing those things again!!LET me ask you this have you ever showed her these videos of herslef?
LOL...I DONT MEAN TO LAUGH...BUT THIS SO USE TO BE ME...IT WASNT FUNNY THEN BUT NOW THAT IAM SOBER I LOOK BACK AND THINK GOD HOW REAL FUC&*ING DUMB I MUST OF REALLY MADE MYSELF LOOK...IT IS BETTER FEEL ME TO LAUGH NOW THEN TO WANNA JUST HIDE UNDER A ROCK FOR HOW I MUST OF MADE MY FAMILY LOOK!!!!!!!IM JUST GLAD ITS OVER...& IM NEVER GOING BACK
You don't know my sister. She is a bad seed. She is sick AND evil. A liar. A thief. A person who enjoys hurting people, especially old people and dogs.
Holy Jesus, you are describing my sister! There should not be room on this earth for more than one such person. Marquis, I hope you find peace and serenity - and space where the she-devil cannot find you. I wish you many blessings.
Stop the HIPPA and privacy crap. This poor excuse for a human being has waived her rights to privacy by personally raping the Health Care System. Our problem is that we keeping treating these people which further enables them to continue wasting health care dollars. She and the tens of thousands of others just like her are why are ERs are overcrowed and why there is not enough health care money to go around. Wake up people.
Damned right! This sociopath gets thousands of dollars worth of "happytime" drugs free from Medicaid, money from SS! for being 100% disabled because of those drugs, plus school grants and unemployment and she doesn't pay a pennyfor rent or utilities or groceries. This bitch is a user & abuser, through & through.
Is this lady truly, mentally Ill or does she overdose on a regular basis, for attention and have an inability of facing the consequences, for her actions. Seriously!!!! Get a life and grow up or get help with antipsychotics. By the way, those sure looked like fake voluntary jerks, while she was sleeping or zoned out on narcs or benzo's.
@marquisdejolie I believe you stated that this was your sister? I feel so bad for you and your poor mother, for having to deal with that crap on a daily basis. Is that why, you continue to record her behavior and stupidity? You seem like a nice guy. I do not mean any disrespect to you at all. I just find this sad. Has she been turned into SRS?
@SuperTraney : If she's overdosing for attention, she needs psychiatric help. Good Lord, if she's zoned out on narcotics or benzodiazepines, she's definitely in alot of trouble which has already been caused by over medicating. This woman is a human being who needs help and needs to be kept away from other people before she kills someone. Judge the behavior, not the person.
Nevermind that this bitch beat up her 75 year-old mother in the front yard, abused her children, abused other people's children and stole thousands upon thousands of dollars to support her drug habits and has destroyed the family over 2 decades, we MUST protect the monsters!
I was int he Er and sent to the behavorial hospital and they treat me like shit and i got let out after 2 days and laughed because I didn't need to stay there anymore and all the other kids were yelling why i got to go home.
I work as a Case Manager with people with concurrent disorders. I'm glad I don't have Bethzilla as a client. She would be a real handful. Please Beth, don't move to Vancouver.
@marquisdejolie that sounds like that... I deal with mania and had a few episodes as a teen but I was put on a medication and it worked well.
I was never too bad except I would try fly off of the roof and thought I could walk on water once... but I was so embarrassed I decide to take the Depakote.
The weight gain isn't a problem if I eat right and work out..
dont feel bad I have chroinc pain for 4 years went to the hospital and they treat me like shit and they humiliated me infront of the nurses ,the doctors and other paitents and i cried all the way home I know how you feel I feel really bad for other patients who needed help I really hate that hippa policy.
UGHHH...... H.I.P.A. Anyone else want to laugh at this lady's problems. I hope a lawyer sees this and wraps your diloma around your thoat. The patient has rights even though you see her as amusement.
Dr Feelgood is writing the script and Beth will slit the throat of anyone getting between her & her pills. She's already beat up momma in the front yard and attacked me with scissors.
Momma general covers up Beth's crimes but she pressed charges once for the brutal beating. Beth got 6 days in county jail for beating the crap out of momma from Judge Jim Ammerman. Apparently he poo poos domestic crime.
Wow, I do feel for you, I had to put up with a drug addicted family member. She's gone now, thanks to the damn drugs....kiddies, pay attention to the "this is your brain on drugs" commercials
These people are adults. There is only so much you can do with an adult addict. Family and friends give up. I gave up. My husband died. There was nothing I could do.
I have videos of him acting like a fool, too. All I could do was make the best of our situation while it lasted.
samandchloesmommy, I've got to agree with Octahoney, you shouldn't judge so harshly. I think, nay, I know there is way way more than dysfunctionality going on in this family, these videos are only a tiny part of that. James doesn't instigate anything, he's a man who's already way past breaking point and it's amazing he's still sane. I think that's admirable of him.
Since Momma owns the house, Beth has no rights to it, therefore you could probably get her outta there and you could be the one to take care of Momma without having Beth's drama.
At first I couldn't comment on this. fiddlestix above has a couple of good points. More sooner than later I think it's best you make some healthy decision. Be the change being pro-active, as you are the strongest there and the only reasonable it seems; if you can't change a conflict, the only solution is to distance yourself from it. I don't necessarily mean leaving them is all what's left. But you gotta make some healthy decision before you'll have your energy all drained away by this.
Sorry, but addict or not, I have no use for anyone who assaults their own mother. U have kids and g'kids who need your love, so why subject yourself to this crap? Ifmama won't "let" u help get her out of this mess, then ;eave 'em BOTH there together, and seperate yourself from this toxic situation. Beth could go NUTS and kill BOTH u and mama, so beware. I know u love them, but people have to WANT to change, in order to be helped. Blessings
I know u pay most of the bills, but I assume mama owns the house? If so, get guardianship over mom, kick Beth's ass to the curb, sell the house and take mama and run. Or at least u YOU were in charge, u could get a restraining order against Beth. Guardianship should be easy, cause your mom has addicitions too, right? They will pull u down with them if mot careful. :(:( God bless.
No More Steve? Beth is available!! Be still my beating heart, I'd sure like a crack at her!! No I donot live in a mental ward, I'm just open minded. LOVE YOU BETH!!!!!!
Beth beat the crap out of momma 3 years ago. The cops took polaroids. That's why I moved here from L.A., to protect momma from Beth. Beth has momma brainwashed that it never happened, but I've seen the pictures and was in court when Beth pled guilty.
And 3 years ago Momma was 75. My Mom is 75 and she's as sharp as a tack. If Momma doesn't think it ever happened, it isn't because she's confused, it's because dysfunction runs rapidly is the family.
So then why are you allowing Beth to live with her? You moved back home to help out the situation you say, so then why aren't just you living with Momma?
I don't think I am judging harshly. If you go around video taping this kind of a dysfunctional lifestyle and it many of videos, you can hear James egging both Beth and Momma on, and then put them on here for a whole world to see, then it's adding to dysfunctional...jmho.
Before James ever arrived, Beth was a convicted felon who had beaten up her mother and nearly bankrupted her so that Beth could continue her alcoholic and drug binging for YEARS. Beth has left a trail of destruction throughout the family. Egging her on to show her true colors is a minor sin compared to THAT.
I've spent A LOT of hours sitting in emergency rooms waiting to take Beth home. A LOT. For my trouble, all I got from Beth was a complaint against me from her to the Adult Protective Services.
Where is she getting this stuff? From a doctor who can't spell, just like she gave all her money to the lawyer with dyslexia??? ;) Best of luck to you my friend.
Yes indeed! I am living proof of a miracle--I pray for your sister, Beth, too, James! SHE CAN BE A MIRACLE too--she has to WANT sobriety though--She has already been to hell....Maybe she will WANT to quit the booze, boys, pills, etc--It AIN'T WORKING for her :(
Best of luck my prayers are with you. Addicts are special persons we do not know very much why someone becomes addict and other siblings in the same family don't. From the look of things she is living her last time on Earth. God bless she was a beautiful baby I am sure and the joy & pride of her parents in those times.
i really hope your sister can clean her act up, my very close friend od'd a few years ago and passed away. she had battled drug addiction for more than half of her life. some times beth reminds me of her in your videos, i miss her terribly. her son is an addict as well, he just got out of treatment for heroin addiction and is going back now for pill addiction. he is only 27, its so sad to watch him waste away.
Beth has been an addict for a long time but I don't really get any sense that she's fighting it....just dealing with the consequences as little as possible.
Patient Confidentiality? Never heard of it.
crapstacker5 9 months ago
@crapstacker5
I walk around with release forms, especially when I'm saving people's life.
marquisdejolie 9 months ago
@marquisdejolie
Ya, good to see you're using those "release forms" for public humiliation and not for acquiring relevant patient information. Saving lives one degrading movie at a time; A+
crapstacker5 9 months ago
@crapstacker5
Thanks! I do what I can.
marquisdejolie 9 months ago
at the er i work at, there is this girl nicole, maybe 22-23 years old and she has seriously logged like 28 out of 30 days every month for the past year. absolutely pathetic. she just does it for fun cause she doesnt have a life. one day shes hobbling around on crutches, the next shes got a splint on her forearm. we call them costumes. and to boot she has been detained by hospital police in the nicu across town for being dressed up in scrubs and wandering around the nursery... again, pathetic
jeffheartscod 10 months ago
@jeffheartscod
"Costumes" Hahahaha! Yeah, my sister would love to run the hospitals but just the places with drugs in the cabinets :)
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
@jeffheartscod i'm not too sure you should be disclosing such identifiable information :)
evarsm 10 months ago
I bet she's in jail for murder right now, if not...she will eventually for sure! CRAZY BITCH!!!!
patriots2185 11 months ago
@patriots2185
It won't be long now. Soon.
marquisdejolie 11 months ago
@patriots2185
Soon.
marquisdejolie 10 months ago
what a loone keep her in the mental ward please
nero670 1 year ago
@nero670
The Marshall, Texas mental health authorities say that this is "Normal behavior" for a Marshallite. Seriously. They call this NORMAL!
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
what month and date was this and what was the outcome....inquiring minds need to know specifics....thanks
bettypro 1 year ago
@bettypro
Beth's assault case was tried in Judge Jim Ammerman's court in the Harrison County Courthouse in Marshall. I attended. The prosecuting assistant D.A. was named Dansby. At one time, Beth was the soccer coach to Judge Jim Ammerman's retarded son. Beth was given time served (6 days) and the charge was reduced from a felony to a misdemenor in return for her guilty plea.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
OMG i forgot about this video...she has done it before!!!!!!!!!! no no no no it needs to stop for good....
bettypro 1 year ago
@bettypro
Beth is a violent ex-con felon with a looong history of beating on her momma. I just don't understand what's wrong with the "good" people of Marshall, Texas.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
ummmm...NO THANKS I REALIZED WHAT I PUT MY FAMILY THROUGH HELL WITHOUT LOOKING AT A VIDEO...BUT HAVER YOU TRIED TO INTRODUCE HER TO THE SOBOXONE PROGRAM..IT DOES WORK...CHECK INTO IT...I BET IF SHE TRIED 1 SHE WOULD SEE THE DIFFERENCE IN THE FIRST DOSE.I BET SHE WOULD'NT PICK UP ANOTHER PILL..OR DRUG ..U CANT EVEN DRINK ON THOSE U WILL PUKE YOUR GUTS OUT..U HAVE NO DESIRE ANYWAYS.SEE IF U CAN GET HER TO TRY THEM...
diamond4063 1 year ago
@diamond4063
I will. Thanks!
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
@thomasbhunter68
Let her die in the street like a dog.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
@kdelkener1
You are fake. I looked you up.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
im sure this isnt real....1st of all theres this thing called HIPPA and secondly theres this thing called HIPPA....
kdelkener1 1 year ago
@kdelkener1
HIPPA is your god? Your moral compass? All things must pass through HIPPA?
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
how can you see invisiable people?
2704heatherwolf 1 year ago
@2704heatherwolf
She does. I don't know how. Maybe all the crack coats her eyes with a special chemical.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
This woman needs help not being made fun of.
MattyE1987 1 year ago
@MattyE1987
That woman is the most evil person I have ever known. Don't be fooled by her act. She has stolen from every member of her family for 4 generations for drugs. She intentionally tries to hurt people with false witness and perjury. Don't be fooled by her act.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
@MattyE1987 oh i understand completely!! Addiction is not a joke it really isnt,but for the ones who do make it through this alive,and only if we had someone to show us how big of fools we made of ourselves we might never go back to doing those things again!!LET me ask you this have you ever showed her these videos of herslef?
diamond4063 1 year ago
@diamond4063
Yes I have. She denies the moving pictures are of her.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
@MattyE1987 SHE IS NOT EVIL JUST SICK!!!
diamond4063 1 year ago
@diamond4063
Can she come live with you? Please?
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
LOL...I DONT MEAN TO LAUGH...BUT THIS SO USE TO BE ME...IT WASNT FUNNY THEN BUT NOW THAT IAM SOBER I LOOK BACK AND THINK GOD HOW REAL FUC&*ING DUMB I MUST OF REALLY MADE MYSELF LOOK...IT IS BETTER FEEL ME TO LAUGH NOW THEN TO WANNA JUST HIDE UNDER A ROCK FOR HOW I MUST OF MADE MY FAMILY LOOK!!!!!!!IM JUST GLAD ITS OVER...& IM NEVER GOING BACK
diamond40631 1 year ago
@diamond40631
Good for you!!
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
I've seen the other videos. This woman is nothing but entertainment to YouTubers.
zoeyjusko 1 year ago
@zoeyjusko
She is evil. She has intentionally hurt 4 generations of her family for drugs.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
@marquisdejolie she isnt evil just sick!!! YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT THE HELL U R DOING WHEN YOU ARE THIS FAr gone!!
diamond4063 1 year ago
@diamond4063
You don't know my sister. She is a bad seed. She is sick AND evil. A liar. A thief. A person who enjoys hurting people, especially old people and dogs.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
@marquisdejolie,
Holy Jesus, you are describing my sister! There should not be room on this earth for more than one such person. Marquis, I hope you find peace and serenity - and space where the she-devil cannot find you. I wish you many blessings.
CattyCatRanch 1 year ago
@CattyCatRanch
Thank you very much! Merry Christmas and have a happy new year!
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
@thomasbhunter68
I'm all for that!
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
Stop the HIPPA and privacy crap. This poor excuse for a human being has waived her rights to privacy by personally raping the Health Care System. Our problem is that we keeping treating these people which further enables them to continue wasting health care dollars. She and the tens of thousands of others just like her are why are ERs are overcrowed and why there is not enough health care money to go around. Wake up people.
cf4477 1 year ago
@cf4477
Damned right! This sociopath gets thousands of dollars worth of "happytime" drugs free from Medicaid, money from SS! for being 100% disabled because of those drugs, plus school grants and unemployment and she doesn't pay a pennyfor rent or utilities or groceries. This bitch is a user & abuser, through & through.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
Wow, this doesn't violate HIPAA at all...
rdpeete19861 1 year ago
@rdpeete19861
No, it doesn't. I have a signed release.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
@marquisdejolie More power to you, then. We don't get to do that sort of stuff in the Navy, we get many of those in our ERs too.
rdpeete19861 1 year ago
Is this lady truly, mentally Ill or does she overdose on a regular basis, for attention and have an inability of facing the consequences, for her actions. Seriously!!!! Get a life and grow up or get help with antipsychotics. By the way, those sure looked like fake voluntary jerks, while she was sleeping or zoned out on narcs or benzo's.
SuperTraney 1 year ago
@SuperTraney
This "lady" is a drug addict welfare cheat, an ex-con, a violent felon and a big time sociopath.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
@marquisdejolie I believe you stated that this was your sister? I feel so bad for you and your poor mother, for having to deal with that crap on a daily basis. Is that why, you continue to record her behavior and stupidity? You seem like a nice guy. I do not mean any disrespect to you at all. I just find this sad. Has she been turned into SRS?
SuperTraney 1 year ago
@SuperTraney
Yes she has. Repeatedly. And repeatedly they do nothing.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
@SuperTraney : If she's overdosing for attention, she needs psychiatric help. Good Lord, if she's zoned out on narcotics or benzodiazepines, she's definitely in alot of trouble which has already been caused by over medicating. This woman is a human being who needs help and needs to be kept away from other people before she kills someone. Judge the behavior, not the person.
zoeyjusko 1 year ago
UUMMM......HIPPA????
yoursolizzy 1 year ago
@yoursolizzy
Nevermind that this bitch beat up her 75 year-old mother in the front yard, abused her children, abused other people's children and stole thousands upon thousands of dollars to support her drug habits and has destroyed the family over 2 decades, we MUST protect the monsters!
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
I was int he Er and sent to the behavorial hospital and they treat me like shit and i got let out after 2 days and laughed because I didn't need to stay there anymore and all the other kids were yelling why i got to go home.
SonidaMarks 1 year ago
@SonidaMarks
Yeah those places have turned into give a shit government money sucks.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
lol i was in the E.R. cause i got cut by a spaghettios can
Xero293 1 year ago
@Xero293
Those spaghettios are homocidal!
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
isn't this a violation of privacy?
zchica720 1 year ago
@zchica720
You don't see her looking directly at the camera? Maybe I should have invaded her privacy when she was beating up her 79 year-old mother for drugs.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
I work as a Case Manager with people with concurrent disorders. I'm glad I don't have Bethzilla as a client. She would be a real handful. Please Beth, don't move to Vancouver.
MainStreetMonochrome 1 year ago
@MainStreetMonochrome
Funny you should mention that. I've been trying to get her to leave the country for years!
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
That piece of trash needs to do it right the next time. What a waste.
frompdiggity 1 year ago
@frompdiggity
Ahyup. I agree.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
sounds like Borderline Personality Disorder....
MrSpieldose 1 year ago
@MrSpieldose
Caused by decades of drug addiction.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
@marquisdejolie that sounds like that... I deal with mania and had a few episodes as a teen but I was put on a medication and it worked well.
I was never too bad except I would try fly off of the roof and thought I could walk on water once... but I was so embarrassed I decide to take the Depakote.
The weight gain isn't a problem if I eat right and work out..
MrSpieldose 1 year ago
@MrSpieldose
Drs wanted Beth to take Depakote but she won't do it.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
i think ive had more no joke i think i beat it...in a yr i think ive been 10 times prob more lol
atvchick09 1 year ago
@atvchick09
That's a lot!
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
haha ya i race ATV lots of injuries and i have a chronic pain disease so i go a lot lol
atvchick09 1 year ago
dont feel bad I have chroinc pain for 4 years went to the hospital and they treat me like shit and they humiliated me infront of the nurses ,the doctors and other paitents and i cried all the way home I know how you feel I feel really bad for other patients who needed help I really hate that hippa policy.
animegirl101able 9 months ago
UGHHH...... H.I.P.A. Anyone else want to laugh at this lady's problems. I hope a lawyer sees this and wraps your diloma around your thoat. The patient has rights even though you see her as amusement.
Correctivemind 1 year ago
What's a "diloma"?
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
@Correctivemind its HIPAA, and calm down
lordice123 1 year ago
Yeah, chill, Corrosivemind.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
@marquisdejolie I loved your response!!! This was priceless.
SuperTraney 1 year ago
Who is WRITING THE RX (md) and WHO is leaving the MEDS available (family) so she can SELF medicate??? ARGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
NOLAinNOOGA 2 years ago
Dr Feelgood is writing the script and Beth will slit the throat of anyone getting between her & her pills. She's already beat up momma in the front yard and attacked me with scissors.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
@marquisdejolie Have you or your mother ever pressed charges? If not you should.
SuperTraney 1 year ago
@SuperTraney
Momma general covers up Beth's crimes but she pressed charges once for the brutal beating. Beth got 6 days in county jail for beating the crap out of momma from Judge Jim Ammerman. Apparently he poo poos domestic crime.
marquisdejolie 1 year ago
eat my bloody rag assmuncher! how is that for idioticism U FUCK !
MSkudlarczyk2008 2 years ago
your an idiot.... tax dollars at mcdonalds isnt much dear...... and they send YOU the bill idiot
MSkudlarczyk2008 2 years ago
That's crossed my mind more than once.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
Wait'll you hear how much her medicaid-paid pills cost the taxpayers: $2000 a month, every month, to keep Beth high. Only in America!
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
hey damn it im on medicaid but for a REAL reason.
MSkudlarczyk2008 2 years ago
Wow, I do feel for you, I had to put up with a drug addicted family member. She's gone now, thanks to the damn drugs....kiddies, pay attention to the "this is your brain on drugs" commercials
IrishEyez01 2 years ago
Seriously. And kids: before the drugs kill you, they make you really really embarrassingly stooopid.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
These people are adults. There is only so much you can do with an adult addict. Family and friends give up. I gave up. My husband died. There was nothing I could do.
I have videos of him acting like a fool, too. All I could do was make the best of our situation while it lasted.
ouisch66 2 years ago
Yeah, Beth is pretty much gone. She just doesn't know it yet.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
samandchloesmommy, I've got to agree with Octahoney, you shouldn't judge so harshly. I think, nay, I know there is way way more than dysfunctionality going on in this family, these videos are only a tiny part of that. James doesn't instigate anything, he's a man who's already way past breaking point and it's amazing he's still sane. I think that's admirable of him.
Bulbie7 2 years ago
Here's hoping Beth finds the help she needs soon if she hasn't found it already...
fehquig 2 years ago
Not yet.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
Since Momma owns the house, Beth has no rights to it, therefore you could probably get her outta there and you could be the one to take care of Momma without having Beth's drama.
samandchloesmommy 2 years ago
You just don't understand codependency.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
At first I couldn't comment on this. fiddlestix above has a couple of good points. More sooner than later I think it's best you make some healthy decision. Be the change being pro-active, as you are the strongest there and the only reasonable it seems; if you can't change a conflict, the only solution is to distance yourself from it. I don't necessarily mean leaving them is all what's left. But you gotta make some healthy decision before you'll have your energy all drained away by this.
chevkoch 2 years ago
My energy and health HAVE been drained.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
My suggestion would be to seek some help, like those meetings you mentioned before. I'd say accept all the help you can get.
chevkoch 2 years ago
:-(
camilorrie2000 2 years ago
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marquisdejolie 2 years ago
Dang!
xjasongarciax 2 years ago
Yep.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
A very troubled person. So hard to watch.
JimmerSD 2 years ago
Beth has no impulse control. She can't drink one beer, she has to drink them all. She can't take one pill or eat one meal. She always goes too far.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
thanks
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
I'm stunned. I can't imagine how YOU feel.
Brennna 2 years ago
Tired. Very tired.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
One of your heavier pieces.
sstteevveesstteeiinn 2 years ago
I'm feeling low because the nuthouse is getting ready to release Beth back into my life. They didn't even know about her heavy drinking until today.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
that is almost more sadness than i can handle...
hallbe 2 years ago
Me too.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
Sorry, but addict or not, I have no use for anyone who assaults their own mother. U have kids and g'kids who need your love, so why subject yourself to this crap? Ifmama won't "let" u help get her out of this mess, then ;eave 'em BOTH there together, and seperate yourself from this toxic situation. Beth could go NUTS and kill BOTH u and mama, so beware. I know u love them, but people have to WANT to change, in order to be helped. Blessings
fiddlestix2006 2 years ago 7
I have thought many times about packing up and moving on. I still may. In a creepy sort of way, Beth and momma deserve each other.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
I know u pay most of the bills, but I assume mama owns the house? If so, get guardianship over mom, kick Beth's ass to the curb, sell the house and take mama and run. Or at least u YOU were in charge, u could get a restraining order against Beth. Guardianship should be easy, cause your mom has addicitions too, right? They will pull u down with them if mot careful. :(:( God bless.
fiddlestix2006 2 years ago
They HAVE pulled me down, down into poor health and chronic anxiety.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
its not fun being in a hospital. i go when i need a shot of morphine. im addicted to it.
VoodooExperiance 2 years ago
Best of luck with this, darlin'
Illuminatta 2 years ago
Thanks :)
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
No More Steve? Beth is available!! Be still my beating heart, I'd sure like a crack at her!! No I donot live in a mental ward, I'm just open minded. LOVE YOU BETH!!!!!!
daddydon48 2 years ago
Please, please, PUHLEEZE, for the love of God, please come get her and sweep her away.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
i dont know what to say..... i just wanted to comment stay in there James take care of momma.... five stars but not five stars for beth.
cbhonda90 2 years ago
Thanks :)
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
What? Am I missing something? Beth assaulted Momma and... why is she living there? Geez.
TheBlueFlamingo 2 years ago
Beth beat the crap out of momma 3 years ago. The cops took polaroids. That's why I moved here from L.A., to protect momma from Beth. Beth has momma brainwashed that it never happened, but I've seen the pictures and was in court when Beth pled guilty.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
How could Beth possibly brainwash Momma that it never happened? She was there.
samandchloesmommy 2 years ago
Momma is easily confused. She's 78.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
And 3 years ago Momma was 75. My Mom is 75 and she's as sharp as a tack. If Momma doesn't think it ever happened, it isn't because she's confused, it's because dysfunction runs rapidly is the family.
samandchloesmommy 2 years ago
Momma has been in and out of sanitariums all of her life. She has has 23 electroshock treatments to her brain.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
So then why are you allowing Beth to live with her? You moved back home to help out the situation you say, so then why aren't just you living with Momma?
samandchloesmommy 2 years ago
Not my house. Not my rules. Momma keeps letting Beth move back.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
Wait. You're not expecting that rational logic will be used down here in the piney woods, are you?
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
That's where you come in. I don't mean to be harsh, but it seems as though you like to instigate things sometimes...it shows in your videos.
samandchloesmommy 2 years ago
This is true.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
You should not judge so harshly. :):) Videos only show a small part of the life he has to live. :)
Octahoney 2 years ago
I don't think I am judging harshly. If you go around video taping this kind of a dysfunctional lifestyle and it many of videos, you can hear James egging both Beth and Momma on, and then put them on here for a whole world to see, then it's adding to dysfunctional...jmho.
samandchloesmommy 2 years ago
Before James ever arrived, Beth was a convicted felon who had beaten up her mother and nearly bankrupted her so that Beth could continue her alcoholic and drug binging for YEARS. Beth has left a trail of destruction throughout the family. Egging her on to show her true colors is a minor sin compared to THAT.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
Seriously
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
: ) you are a good brother
islandGAL7 2 years ago
I've spent A LOT of hours sitting in emergency rooms waiting to take Beth home. A LOT. For my trouble, all I got from Beth was a complaint against me from her to the Adult Protective Services.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
Bummer...Hope she can turn it around.
KIRKIN2112 2 years ago
Me too.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
Where is she getting this stuff? From a doctor who can't spell, just like she gave all her money to the lawyer with dyslexia??? ;) Best of luck to you my friend.
kiashamed 2 years ago
Ahyup, she gets her stash from Dr. Feelgood, who moves from town to town every few months.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
Five Stars!!
MadBadVoodo 2 years ago
Five thanks!!
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
You're a strong person MDJ.
Good Luck Brother.
Eyepix65 2 years ago
Thanks!!
:)
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
There but for the grace of God go I!
katalina2007 2 years ago
God is good!
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
Yes indeed! I am living proof of a miracle--I pray for your sister, Beth, too, James! SHE CAN BE A MIRACLE too--she has to WANT sobriety though--She has already been to hell....Maybe she will WANT to quit the booze, boys, pills, etc--It AIN'T WORKING for her :(
katalina2007 2 years ago
She doesn't want sobriety yet.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
If she doesn't want SOBRIETY NOW, then, when? She is running out of time....
katalina2007 2 years ago
She IS!
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
Best of luck my prayers are with you. Addicts are special persons we do not know very much why someone becomes addict and other siblings in the same family don't. From the look of things she is living her last time on Earth. God bless she was a beautiful baby I am sure and the joy & pride of her parents in those times.
belamoure 2 years ago
Thank you for your kind wishes.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
It`s so sad. :(
fuzzycabin 2 years ago
It is.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago
i really hope your sister can clean her act up, my very close friend od'd a few years ago and passed away. she had battled drug addiction for more than half of her life. some times beth reminds me of her in your videos, i miss her terribly. her son is an addict as well, he just got out of treatment for heroin addiction and is going back now for pill addiction. he is only 27, its so sad to watch him waste away.
xoexo
edenbainbridge 2 years ago
Beth has been an addict for a long time but I don't really get any sense that she's fighting it....just dealing with the consequences as little as possible.
marquisdejolie 2 years ago