'Boy Interrupted' Director Tells Son's Story

[iclandgirl]

I am a bipolar adult- who was a bipolar child. They didn't diagnose kids as bipolar when i was a child.. got into lots of trouble in school- said i just talked too much etc. a morbid kid - a kid w/ way too much energy- . i am still not - stabilized w/ meds. they just don't work- it's hell.

[SouthernRR4501]

I am bipolar and it seems like I'm living with ghosts who taunt me all the time to make me angry, its at its worst when my own family is doing the taunting in my mind, and I start to believe it. I thank this women for making this documentary as I can relate to it somehow. I am still fighting right now and hopefully I won't commit suicide. The only big reason thats keeping me from doing it is that i know I will go to hell if i do it.

[09251925]

Do you even know what bipolar disorder is? If not, read up on it.  It is a chronic illness like diabetes, heart disease, etc. Just like the mentioned diseases, if treated they can be managed, BUT all chronic illnesses are ever-changing and unpredictable. "Self-absorbed" parents you say? Have you lived with someone with mental illness? Try it and it will change your attitude!! YES, I AM A CHRISTIAN and I believe that precious Evan is resting in Jesus' arms. God bless the Perry family.

[crazymiles]

With parents as incredibly self-absorbed as Evan's, it's no wonder the boy had troubles. Poor kid.

May he rest in peace.

[2ladybughippies]

This is so sad. I just can't understand why the shrink would ok him stopping his meds.  The big problem with bi-polar is getting them to stay on thier meds.

[Sirgreaseflick]

Incredibly tactful, much-needed documentary. It's a complex, though prevalent topic: suicide is on the increase; youth suicide is particularly alarming when you look at the statistics. Because, in this case, Evan displayed impulsive behaviour (wanting to jump from great heights), my only quibble is that his bedroom had an unlocked window with access to a building shaft: had it been locked (which it should have, as it had no view), maybe Evan could have been saved. Hard to know. RIP .much love

[beezy272]

Bi polar depression is extremely complex and hard to detect .. I mean Dana could've taken this kid to any therapist or psychologist and he would've still killed himself .. this is sad to say but some kids just can't be saved ... we will never know why Evan did what he did but if something positive can be done for future children because of Even then .. thats a good thing .. RIP to Evan .. his mother is very strong and courageous for sharing her painful story.

[0500666111]

This is real mourning to all of us

rest in peace Evan

[JohanStarDragon]

The film really is a sad story but what's sadder is how indifferent some can be to those who suffer from mental illnesses like bipolar and depression.

Such as if you say that you're suffering from depression, some would say, "Stop being such an emo pussy." And things like that.

It irritates me because they turn a blind eye and a deaf ear to suffering but when someone is at the edge they come to the rescue or when its all over they say that they should have done something.

[Chopinsnocturnes]

I'm wondering if Evan's psychiatrists ever suggested treating him with electroconvulsive therapy (ECT). It has been effective for some people such as the author of Electroboy. This is such a sad movie.

[paulreider]

Such a sad story but so necessary to share with the world. I can empathize with the Ocean vs the tablespoon analogy. My mother committed suicide 26 years ago and I still deal with the grief of her loss. Furthermore, the only people that truly understand what it is like to be a loved one of someone who commits suicide is someone who also has had a loved one commit suicide. The grief process is indefinite and can sometimes be completely overwhelming...miss you mom

[krazypat91]

OMG i knew him he was such a great kid he almost committed suicide at the school i went to with him but his friends helped him RIP Evan ill always remember you.

[Jerzeegurl100]

why was it necassary to add the school incident? its defaming. You were very very privilaged to have known Evan. Take Care.

[krazypat91]

@Jerzeegurl100 actually in the film they also talked about it but i didnt mean that in any way im just sad and shocked about it thats all

[caitlindayrox09]

This documentary made me so sad. I wish he would have gotten better. Rest in peace Evan.

[CosmicDestroyer99]

This movie really changed my life..I have thought and attempted suicide by hanging..But I am glad I am here..I just imagined when Dana was crying in the interview that could have been my Mom or my Dad or my GF..Or my brother..And I can't hurt them like that..I still have serious depression but I don't get suicidal anymore

[viceversusxX]

This movie made me cry so much... you grow up with Evan, and even watch him get better for a while. Gosh- I felt like I knew him. I'm so sorry to Evan's family and friends, you much have loved him so much. And, of course, R.I.P. Evan.

[MusikSoRulez]

this documentary is painful to watch but completely enlightening about the effects of mental illness. may Evan rest in peace

[photo986]

Very Inspiring

[GlorySk8]

Damn...i saw the documentary at HBO....Evan used to be so beautiful!

R.I.P

[lp4ju]

his story inspired me to do research in depressed adolescents...hope I can help someone like Evan one day...

[Citygal521]

omg!!!! he went to my school york prep!!!!!!! soo sryyyy!!!!!! omg I saw hIm n a year book.....he was already dead when I was n 6th grade! omg he was soo sweet(thats what every on told me that were hIs frends! ) soo sad soo sryyyy!!!!!!!!! R. I. P evan perry!!!!!!

[UKRose2]

as the mother of a bipolar child, who at 6 has threatened suicide several tmes, I can, sadly, take strength from Mrs. Perry...No one can understand this unless they've experienced it---it's gut wrenching to watch them struggle with ordinary life...Thank you, Mrs. Perry, for sharing your experience with us...

[supermacfan10]

UKRose2, Make sure you please, PLEASE watch your child as I am sure you do!! I hope You, your 6 year old gain from this film and it gives your family some hope and strength. Bless You and Your Family and Bless the Perry family!!

[UKRose2]

thank you so kindly, Supermac...and we are...We watch him night and day...it's just uncanny how he resembles Evan..in appearance and what Evan says about guns in the clip is what my son has said many times..:(

[supermacfan10]

You are most welcome. As I have sad, this video made me cry so much. I do NOT want this to be your end situation. He is YOUR baby and I hope things turn out well!!! My heart goes out to you!! Best Wishes!!!!

[supermacfan10]

By the way UKRose2, I was so overtaken by this video, it is my featured video on my channel and has been for the last month.

[babyberr1]

:-(...sry 2 hear that

[Morphy009]

@UKRose2 is this genetical disease?

[supermacfan10]

@Morphy009 all I will say is, yes, it is genetic. It runs in the family. It is based on genes and who it gets passed to.

[stillpendingfan101]

wow... i fell so sad 4 her and my dad died the day that this vid was put up ...:(

srry 4 ur loss

[guizuo]

It's heartbreaking when I watched this documentary. Thanks for making this film. Dana, I'm terribly sorry for your loss. But I believe Evan is happy now for living in a peaceful world.

The documentary is such extraordinary and a great contribute to this society, as it brings more and more people to be aware of this mental illness.

[supermacfan10]

Remus, I TOTALLY DISAGREE WITH YOU!!! You are SO WRONG!!! He was an unhappy child from birth. I truly believe he would have committed suicide eventually. Whether it was then or 10 years later, he would have done it. His MOM did NOTHING. I am glad his mom made that documentary. I cried most of the film. God Bless Evan and His family. So sad.

[lp4ju]

yeah...sadly Bipolar people have some of the worst outcomes because it's very hard to keep them on their meds

[shmedelle]

Thank you. I will give my kids extra kisses tonight. i am so sorry for your pain.

[Blackmyeyes1746]

seriously? both of you guys, this video is emotional and deep

why be stupid?

[madg33]

you are a dumbfuck, or careless, insensitive, bitter... don't realize that everyone encountering you thinks you are a dumbfuck, just not saying it. Use yur senses, sorry, i meant yur senseless. Reapn what we sow, is sitting in chambers shackld, tortured, violated, mocked helpless welps. Shocked pity in our eyes cause we are going to get an infinite daily dose of reaping and it is not justify my sowing... damnation replies' SOWhat! i don't give a fuck, I don't know you and if i did' SOWhat!

[SetiRabbit]

you know what WATEVER! He's dead Im alive, RIP yada yada case closed...

[inspire2build]

I'd like to thank the Perry's for 1) showing the incredible brilliance and talent that so often accompanies mental illness; 2) for shining a light on the complications of treatment; and 3) for sharing the beauty of Evan. I feel as if I knew him and grieve for those who did. A story beautifully told.

[no1zgrl4eva]

Your words are a perfect response - exactly how I feel. I have Bipolar II as well, and have been suicidal too many times in my life. I found this documentary very helpful even for me to continue to understand how it affects me. I think many people are ignorant about this terrible disorder and do not understand the implications it has for the person who is suffering with it.

My heart goes out to Evan's family.

[inspire2build]

Keep learning and sharing. It is people who suffer who need to tell the stories. Make us know you. People who marginalize the mentally ill are afraid of what they don't understand.

[no1zgrl4eva]

Thank you so much! I am going through hell right now because of ignorance on my family's part. They see me as an annoyance atbest and think I act the way I do on purpose to specifically hurt them. If I had a broken leg they'd want to help me, but with this they have all totally alienated me. I have to go to court tomorrow to fight them and it is tearing me to shreds. I totally can understand how Evan felt. Again, thank you.

[inspire2build]

Keep your chin up. A member of my family suffers too. Some in my family want to learn and understand. Others are afraid. It hurts us to know we can't fix it. Some are not emotionally equipped to deal with that. I've seen the same when physical illness strikes the family. The same people who cannot cope with the mental illness also can't cope with the physical illness. Different people. Surround yourself with those who know and understand. It may never be your family.

[no1zgrl4eva]

You have no idea how much I appreciate your comment. It is really hard being on this end and seeing the exact people you would hope would help you, walk away from you. It has been going on all my life but is at a crisis point this past year. I know my family can't cope, but they are all viciously blaming me, twisting everything I have done into deliberate acts to caust them pain, when they were just me being sick. I don't have their support at all.

Anyway - thank you.

[sweetytweety21]

He was cute.....=D Rip Evan....i think he needed jesus

[SetiRabbit]

Evan wasnt showing suicidal tendencies I saw the footage he was curious about death but not in killing himself just death in general. Even I had a intense curiosity for death at a young age doesnt mean I wanted to die. But obviously his parents and the idiot psychiatrist turned it into somthig else. And it snowballed from there. But I guess your right grunge bitch, we should all dope our kids up as soon as they start asking questions we dont have answers too...right?

[shadowduck93]

Lol and you're a neurologist? The footage summed up about 15 minutes of his life... they knew all 15 years.

[woody12i2]

after reading your' comment it is clear you didn't see the whole film, which makes any comment you are making on what happened...pointless. please delete your' account form the internet, you don't know how to use it

[purebloodjiselle]

This film moved me so much, i was literally in tears at the end of it. My heart ached for his family and mother in particular. I've attempted suicide and have been in that 'hole' of depression and am so thankful that they were just attempts. It breaks my heart to think that this kid had to deal with that all his life, from the age of five and on. His story has pushed me even more to pursue my degree in pyschology so that I might be able to help those that are suicidal.

[mrdavid889]

Sorry for your loss! RIP Evan

[Tanamarie1]

I haven't felt so much emotion in so long. Dana and your family...God Bless you. You are a beautiful woman and forever your son has a place in my heart. I am praying for you....I know the effects of suicide, my mother commited suicide 3 years ago. Stay strong :)

[radchik09]

I was very moved by the story and glad that I got to watch it even though I thought the psychiatrist was a total tool. What patient with his history would be allowed off meds? That plus the chemical and emotional storms of adolescence could easily set him off. I am bipolar and on meds and sometimes still feel suicidal at 51 yrs old. But i know from life experience now that it will pass and the thoughts and feelings do go away eventually. my prayers to the Perry Family.

[SetiRabbit]

I watched the documentary and Evan started off like any kid but I saw how his parents and his doctors picked him apart to make him into some outcast. He was born an artist with so much potential. But was killed by his family, the doctors, and the drugs.

[amynmiami2]

I agree. Even the way that his middle name is Scott (remember, Scott was his dad's brother that killed himself in the 1970's), and the way the parents keep writing the middle name out, almost as if they wanted him to live up to the name. Something is not quite right with the whole picture. very sad.

[GrungeGirl83]

wow, you are incredibly ignorant. Evan was shoing suicidal tendencies before he was ever seen by a psychiatrist. The medications kept him alive for 10 years. When you deal with a person with mental illness, you'll see that keeping them well is more important than them being artistic.

[SetiRabbit]

Whatever, I saw the footage he showed a curiosity for death, but not for killing himself. His idiot parents saw it as somthing else. And it snowballed from there. But I guess your right we should all dope our kids up on lithium and force them into mental institutes. Grunge Bitch you are like the psychiatrist, a complete fuckin moron...go tke a shower.

[theready]

yeah, attempting to jump off the roof of his elementary school is sure showing interest... he had bipolar you fucking idiot.

[woody12i2]

you're absolutely ignorant and ridiculous. clearly you where playing with your dick or something for the first 30 minutes

[Davidtiko1988]

does anyone have the suicide note that he left behind bc i would love to read it

[CosmicDestroyer99]

@Davidtiko1988 It's in the movie..Watch it and you'll see his note he typed it on his laptop

[mafaldacrumbwitty]

The Perry family is a very strong and courageous one, to be able to tell the tragic story of their son. I saw the movie, and shed real tears for Evan. I hope that this movie can help others.

[BrittanyFeMurphy]

I saw this movie last nite. I cryed so much. If this movie didn't get your emotions, then you must be emotional less...

But i feel for you Hart and Dana Perry

Evan Scott Perry

1990-2005

R.I.P

<3

[Zuece14]

i saw this last night too. i feel like everyday im gana think about what happened to even. and i didnt even know him. but somehow i can feel his parents pain. its strange how we can all connect. to such a tragedy. It was so sad.

[hornellboy]

After watching this film, I just feel sick to my tummy, not in a bad way! but in a emotional sadness. I want to thank The Perry family for teaching, sharing, and educating us with this video. It must be insane to have some of the best and worst times in a family life open to the world to see and be on tape to be reminded of. My thoughts are with The Perry Family and thank you for being bold enough to share Evans and your fight with Bipolarism with the world

[Buddhakins]

I went to elementary school with Evan and was in his class in PS11, and I got to know him and he was so marvelous and such a beautiful person. And I just want to know if there is any way I can see the actual documentary online. And although these clips are heart-breaking, I still want to see it.

[LexSoBored]

GO TO barhoum09's Channel THE FULL DOCUMENTARY IS AVAILABLE THERE!!!

[Buddhakins]

Thanks :]

[MegaKarenful]

Wow, you knew Evan? To you, did he act normal?

[Buddhakins]

Well, supposedly. . . I was in the documentary, so I was told. And yes, I knew Evan and he did have times where he'd be upset, even some incidents. But for the most part he was pretty normal, and he was my friend.

[tdpprocessing]

I have a brother with this illness. I am so sorry for your loss. I think the worst thing that was done was that he went off meds. Off meds, he is intolerable. He's like Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde, seriously.

[letudownbetch]

I actually saw the movie a little while ago, and it hit me hard.

I've never had a movie stir me emotionally like this film did.

I can't stop thinking about which is why i'm here writing this.

It's like you wanted to save him while you were watching it. and youfeel ubelieveable sad and heartbroken because you couldn't.

He was an amazing boy. talented, smart, and beautiful, its such a tragedy.

God Bless your family.

[B0yCRaZyX0xo]

that is exactly how i felt. i wanted save him but i couldn't. he was so smart and amazing and very cute. i know that he's in a better place though and i hope i see him there on day.

[bigragu61]

Dana your movie was fantastic!!!!!! Evan is a beautiful soul, you can just see it in his eyes. My mother, unfortunately suffered the same illness. May your son, my mother, your brother in law and those others who've succumbed to this horrendous disease rest in peace. My only prayer is for the survivors to heal and for other's suffering to receive the correct help in this disorder.

[vamale692005]

But for the record, I am also aware that this very personal documentary is one's own work of art much like the sculpture for Evan's uncle. It's making was healing in the aftermath of tragedy, it stands as a memorial to the loved one, and doesn't necessarily have to be for anything else.

[vamale692005]

I watched the film last night. Truely heart wrenching. I think suicidals who watch it will feel the same way cuz Evan had so much to live for, but for the vast majority of suicidals, they don't have the good looks, talent, friends/family network of support, money, access to top treatment facilities, or vacation homes that Evan had to look forward to. Aside from just being closure and therapeutic for mom, I don't know if it offers help to anyone else. But it is a well put together documentary.

[09jesse09]

is there a place i can watch this online?

[feetsies]

I applaud the parents for making this film and informing people of a mental illness so prominent and filled with stigma. I hope that it opens people's eyes and hearts. This type of thing runs in my family, yet no one accepts it for what it is.

[mermaid1121]

it watched this documentary this morning. i could not get over the sadness and misery that this boy was feeling at such a young age. i could not help but cry throughout this film. this story is truly moving.

[sunammie5]

sad*

[ladielike12]

I just watched this earlier today..wow all i have to say is i wish he didnt do it. I feel bad for his family and i know he didnt want to hurt them. Its truely just sad when a human being has to take their own life. I know he had Bipolar Disorder to and that just made it worse. Man i cried so hard watching this expecially when they showed the suicide note.

[sunammie5]

i just saw it 2 really really ad :(

[ccf1971]

Wellspring is a horrible place. Children have been sent there to be brainwashed and taught how to lie in court. The CIA's Margaret Singer was involved with it. It is closely associated with FACTNET and the Cult Awareness Network.

[ShawnWreck]

I only saw the last 30 minutes of this film on HBO. The thirty minutes I saw was enough to connect me to the story. I never cry while watching movies, but this film is so remarkably personal and real that you have no choice but to feel for the people in this documentary. I can relate to much of what Evan wrote on his suicide. If anything, his note is an example of how society puts so much pressure on your future that it sometimes can lead to drastic measures.

[1800nunyabiz]

I hope his little brother Mikey can somehow learn to see and feel happiness again.

[tellmewhatiKNOW]

i just watched this movie & i was really moved by it.

i sad that he never got to see how talented he was.

rest in peace evan.

[hokies2000]

I do not know Jesus personally, but anyone who blindly lays judgment on a person who commits suicide in such a manner is surely a disappointment to Him.

On another note, this movie was just so, so powerful and moving to me. This is a truly important film, and I hope the family feels vindicated in making this film, because this story needed to be told to help others see.

[LiveLaughLovesss]

thats why there is something called Karma, cause and effect, the feeling of what goes around comes back around....

[nanofroggy]

i just finished watching this, it was sad. he was young and we are the same age. wow it just makes you think. i hope his family finds peace, and if i can tell evan one thing i would tell him he wasn't alone

[swebb1989]

These parents obviously didn't understand the scope of what they were dealing with when they allowed their son to get off medication. It was the medication that was keeping him alive!

[ljscha92]

I watched this documentory last night, and it made my heart melt. I never cry.. But last night I was making a storm with

my tears. I feel so bad for their family,

and especially Evan who may possibly

be...(just saying) in Hell right now. I hope

not. Suicide is murder, and its a sin.

I shouldnt preach to anyone because

Ive tried to kill myself a couple times,

but it was never really a big deal.

Im really sorry..

[hoolamonster]

How dare you post a comment like this? Don't you realize that the families of those who have/ are dealing with suicide may be reading what you wrote, and you are insinuating that the victim is in hell because of a disease they he/she had no control over?  Depression and bi-polar disorder are life-threatening illnesses just like cancer and AIDS. Who gives you the right to pass judgement? You say you were suicidal at one point and it wasn't a big deal? I'm appalled by your words.

[hoolamonster]

My message was in response to the comment posted by ljscha92...

[ljscha92]

Im just saying what I think may have

happend. Im just stating what might be

a fact, and I never judge people...

I really feel for Evan, and I felt in touch

with how he might of felt.

I should have been more soft with

what I said, didnt mean to make it out

to sound like IDGAF. I do..

[1800nunyabiz]

No one gives a damn "what you think may have happened." You shouldn't be "feeling" for Evan, he is no longer here to suffer your stupidity. His little brother is and his friends are, and his parents are......so next time you have a thought....pick up your Bible and read about judging others before you open your hypocritical mouth. Then keep your thoughts to yourself anyway! I just hope none of Evans loved ones read your crap.

[1800nunyabiz]

You are an idiot....it is a shame we lost Evan and somehow you managed to live. Next time, study harder and get it right.

[theready]

Everybody agrees, Evan's passing was tragic, but that was way too harsh. So many people belong to religions where suicide is a sin, but his actions were a result of a severe illness and she just didn't realise. Evan is in heaven, without a doubt. I don't see how you could watch the documentary and wish that fate upon somebody else.

[1800nunyabiz]

Because it pisses me off that people think they have licence to shove Jesus down someones throat, yet they always seem to forget the part where they arent the judges of anyone, and their own beliefs tell them so. Hypocrite assholes who think they have something to say that everyone wants to hear. Yes, I watched the film, and I can only imagine how angry, sad, worried, upset, Evan's little brother Mikey, his Mom,Dad, friends..ect feel after reading that bullshit post.

[madg33]

you are doing the shoving, the pushing, insisting the declaration of the all mighty Lord is rude and selfish... If he is who he says he is... His verdict will be just.

God is long suffering, as in patient, because as 2 Peter 3:9 says

"Jehovah is not slow respecting his promise, as some people consider slowness, but he is patient with YOU because he does not desire any to be destroyed but desires all to attain to repentance." man' I post this from a guilty heart... I need this kind of God.

[1800nunyabiz]

You need to re-read my comment..clearly you have totally missed what is being said. Or maybe you're just an idiot.

[TheAbattoirBlues]

ljscha92, that was one of the most disgusting comments ive read on youtube. youre sickening for thinking such a horrible thing.

[B0yCRaZyX0xo]

suicide isn't a big deal? maybe you think that it's not a big deal because you aren't in that place. if you actually did kill yourself and that was your mom than you'd realize it is a big deal.

[MusicTVComedy]

How can you be so judgmental about this whole thing when you are in no way connected to that family, and have no basis on which to even make that kind of judgment? Or do you know the inner workings of that family, the little things that may have "planted" this boy's end? Don't you think you're putting yourself on a bit of a high horse there?

[1800nunyabiz]

And you got your "Psychology Degree" out of which gumball machine?

[kabris]

best wishes to u n ur family!!!

[mwcmcz]

Best wishes to the film makers!

[xijivuli]

You inconsiderate monster.

[abbandoned]

this is such a sad story but so amazing that the mother has had the strength to highlight such a tragedy

it is a tribute to the memory to her son