I'm sorry for your loss. You video actually inspired me to make my miscarriage video. I saw your video while I was still pregnant and after my miscarriage I made a video and just posted it today.
ER doctors can be very cruel. I know from past-experience. I think you should file for a settlement and teach them a lesson. Otherwise, it will happen to the next woman that has your experience. And again and again. It's sad but true. You need to stand-up for yourself and your baby!
@ThePipweed Maybe your a troll because you have no real friends and have nothing else better to do with your sorry life. Sorry you have no effect on me.Nice try though.
Im so sorry for ur loss. I went throough a similer situation a few weeks ago, although they never saw a baby, They said I had a blighten ovem, where the sac develops but no baby. I also took the medicene an everything went well with some carmping and lots of bleeding . I know I will have a healthy baby eventualy. All the best to u and ur family hugs and kisses xoxo
maybe you had a miscarriage because youre a fucking ugly slut and your womb is so polluted that the baby just fucking died in your ugly dirty crevice of a pussy
@UnclePipweed Why are you so nasty? You must be aleast the most hated person in the world. i find it funny how you treat people like dog shit, you should have never been born. you take the pss out of everything wrong with this world...e.t.c handicapped people, cancer, miscarrges, foreighn people! I do hope that one day you get cancer and feel their pain but just to let you know no one will be at your hospital bed hoping for the best if theres anyone out here...they would hope for the worst.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience.. My husband and I very recently miscarried with our first pregnancy (This Friday to be exact) And it has literally been one of the hardest things I've ever gone through, almost as hard as losing my mom when I was 16. We were also given the 3 options as you and went ahead with the Cytotec. It's just nice to know that we are not alone and that there is hope out there. Thank you again!
I am so very sorry for your loss. I just wanted to clear this up so other people don't freak out...it's not necessarily true that you always find the heartbeat w/ a doppler at 9 weeks. I work for an OB and very often, our doctors can't find them before 12 weeks.
I felt like I was watching my own life seeing you describe your story! I recently went through a miscarriage, very similar and also thought those same things 'why us again'. Our little boy Lucas is visually impaired more so in his right eye also due to extreme prematurity and the eye disease ROP. He wears glasses and is very active just like Jayden. I'm so sorry you had to experience this. I know exactly how you feel and it is the worst feeling in the world. It's right up there with being told
im so sorry for your lost hearing wat you had to go through made me cry im seven weeks an two days pregnant an im freaking out right now because i havent had my first prenatal visit yet an to hear wat happened to you it could happen to anyone but im so happy you over came your fears an shared your experiance because it could happen to anybody an alot of people would just shut down so thank you for sharing your story and my heart goes out to you an your family... god bless
I'm so srry for your loss I know what your going through and its not easy I went through it three times already and I'm 21yrs old with no other kids but I herd the first two heart beat then I started spotting and they couldn't dont it after that.the third misscarrage I didn't haven' no doc but I also started spotting and when I went to the e.r I should have Been 3mths but they say the bby has been dead since 1mth and 2weeks..all 3 losses where so sad and hurts so muchI'm so sry for your loss gbu
The same extact thing happen to me in the emergency room but I got the internal ultrasound but i bleed alot even then they told me everything was fine sent me home I tried to stay calm n lay down not move around to much but then 2 days later I miscarried :( sorry you had to go thru this.
sorry to here abt ur loss, but i also had a misscarriage. i went for my 1st soundagram and there was knw here beat so they told me to come back next week. so the week came and stll no heart beat so i waited on 12-21-11 then told me i have to do the d&c done i did but last night the fetus came dwn.
Your husband is soooo sweet. I am so so sorry for your loss. I am newly pregnant and very paranoid about attaching myself to this new creation. Can I ask you if they mentioned why it happened? Is 9 weeks considered late to have a miscarriage?
@amelie7041 nope don't know why it happened. Most likely from a chromosomal abnormality. Most miscarriages happen sometime before 12 weeks. But miscarriages and still births can happen at any point in a pregnancy unfortunately.
hi hun, I am so sorry to hear about your struggle. i hope that you can see the purpose in your small "grapes" life. Thru your loss you are strengthening others and giving a little hope that those who have lost a baby are not alone. Thank you for sharing your story, and educating others thru your pain. I see that you are trying again and I wish you the best of luck and God's blessings
hi hun, I am so sorry to hear about your struggle. i hope that you can see the purpose in your small "grapes" life. Thru your loss you are strengthening others and giving a little hope that those who have lost a baby are not alone. Thank you for sharing your story, and educating others thru your pain. I see that you are trying again and I wish you the best of luck and God's blessings
I've gone through it 3 times now... so I can definitely relate... sorry you had to go through this, no one deserves this. I know it's near Christmas now but I hope the past months have found you and your family well. Merry Christmas!
I went completely natural with my miscarriage and a week into it I went to the bathroom at my inlaws and was swamped with horrible contractions. I didn't make a peep while in labor with my first and these miscarriage contractions had me writhing. I was pouring blood but it slowed in the ER. I chose to wait 3 months before trying again.
I'm not pregnant and i can't relate but i think it was very brave of you to post something like this after going through such a loss. I know this will be helpful for those who feel like they are alone when they go through something such as this.
I wish you all the best in the future with your beautiful family <3
I'm glad yours was over quickly, mine was drug out for a month after using the cytotec. I was given vicodin and ended up in the er because of the pain. I ended up on morphine. The pain was horrible.
I'm sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage my first pregnancy.. I only knew I was pregnant for 1 day before I started spotting & cramping but. The Dr said I was 6-8 weeks along & I passed a lot of clots & looked for the fetus but could never tell between the colts & bleeding. How could you tell it was the fetus?
@08sarahrangel Oh you could totally tell there was no question about it. I was 9.5 weeks. It was the size of a large grape and I could see the shape of the baby and the yolk sack and the teeeny tiiiny umbilical cord. It was just sitting in my underwear...........
So very very sorry for your loss. I know how you're feeling :( I went though a miscarriage and infertility. I ended up using progesterone shots with my first baby and progesterone suppositories with my second baby, so my uterus could keep the pregnancy. I am sending you some baby dust! Prayers for a healthy pregnancy coming your way!
So very very sorry for your loss. I know how you're feeling :( I went though a miscarriage and infertility. I ended up using progesterone shots with my first baby and progesterone suppositories with my second baby, so my uterus could keep the pregnancy. I am sending you some baby dust! Prayers for a healthy pregnancy coming your way!
Hi hun you are so brave for making this video, it was very hard for me to watch and I had to do it in two parts as I have mc three times myself and my second was a similar experience to yours except when we had the scan at 8 weeks the baby was still alive and the mc still happened the next day. You Thomas and Jayden are a great family and I'm sure it will all work out for you very soon, best of luck for the future :)
I just subscribed and watched this video. I'm so sorry for your loss! I too just miscarried in October. The second LARGE thing was your placenta!! For me that was the only painful part and man was it huge!! Hope your doing well!
when you started spotting, did you feel any cramps/sorta pain in your stomach? im 5-6 weeks & few days ago i started spotting just like you are describing it, the only diff. was i kind of spotted my underwear just a lil tho. that only happened one day n the next day i just spotted orangy then it stopped & today it happened again some my friends said its normal but after watchin this it got me scared. i been crampin a little. :/
Im so sorry you had to go through this. My 16 week mc was SO painful and I was in the ER hemorrhaging and had to have an emergency d&c. I remember the baby being so much larger than I thought it should be - it was crazy to me. I know how bad this sucks, trust me, I have lost 3 - it gets better. The pain never goes away but it gets better. Im so so sorry.
I watched the entire thing :) This video totally broke my heart. I'm so glad you guys are picking yourselves up and trying again though! I've never gone though this, so I can only imagine, but I think I'd have to agree with you by saying that waiting a while to try again would be emotionally hard. I wish you guys all the luck in the world!!! :) Hugs
.....and I am SO SORRYfor your loss (comment box didn't have enough characters). and trust me, saying sorry doesn't take the pain away but it's the thoughts that count. I wish I would have found a video exactly like this before I had my miscarriage because it is almost scene by scene like mine. You will get through this, you seem like you are a strong person and just like me you already have a child to help you deal with the pain. Don't give up trying. I will be praying for you!! Take Care
WOW Jordan, your miscarriage story is EXACTLY like mine, except I didn't go to the ER(and I'm so sorry about your visit there). Watching and listening to you makes me feel like that is me making the video :(. Today marks 27 days since my miscarriage and each day brings healing. I am so glad you made this video, and I will plan on making one soon too. It does help to have this type of support and I want you to know I am here for you if you have any questions or just want to talk. Hang in there :)
Firstly, i would just like to say I am sorry for what happened. Second, to be honest, I was unaware of what happens when there is a miscarriage. When I watched this video, I learned a lot. So, thanks for posting this, although your mission was to help other women who have been through a miscarriage, you helped me be less ignorant about the topic.
I miscarried at 9.5weeks, I let nature take its course and the day after my internal scan when they confirmed there was no heartbeat I began to lose my baby. I also experienced the dreadful cramps you describe for about 3 days and I too could see the yolk sack and the baby! Watching your video brought all those memories back and my heart goes out to you both! Although you never forget, it is true that time heals. Thank you for sharing and good luck when you try again..you deserve lots!
How brave of you to do this video. God will never put more on you than you can bare. I also miscarried. It was my junior year in college. Our experiences are very similar. After that, I was not sure that I could even carry a baby. After 3 months past I found out I was pregnant again. Almost 8 months after that I gave birth to a healthy 8lb 12oz and 22 3/4in baby boy. There is hope!
Yes, so true about learning the value of your babies through a loss. Our loss def helped remind me how precious life is, even though I already felt i had the most value possible on babies/children. When I see other women complaining about their children, or pregnancy. I wish i could just tell them be grateful because they have that. and so many others wish they did. but i realize they just don't understand.
Jordan, you are so very brave for sharing this story with us. I lost our first baby at 20 weeks gestation and had to go through being induced, labor, vaginal delivery and a funeral. It REALLY sucks to lose such a precious gift before you even have time to enjoy him/her. I am still praying for your healing and for a speedy & healthy conception/birth next time!
I am really sorry about what happened to you but why bother posting this video for the public. It's none of stranger people's business your personal life. You could tell the story to your friends but I don't see why u have to let everyone see this. much love
@pqstr Because it is therapeutic for me to get it all out there. Most of my friends and family didn't even know I was pregnant yet so I can't talk about it with them.Plus all the love and support from my Youtube friends and subscribers have really helped me in the grieving process. This channel is my video diary and I share the good, the bad, and the ugly. Plus I think this will help others going through the same thing in the future.
@pqstr Her video could help a lot of other pregnant woman who are going through a miscarriage. It's something that isn't really talked about, and everybody needs support in their time of need! I think she did amazingly well to stay so composed, and it is a great resource for others out there. The community here is fantastic, and as you can see from other comments, she has had a lot of support. Most of these people are considered friends.
Hi jordan, I havent been on youtube in ages so I didnt even know you were pregnant :( All I can say is that I will pray for you because I know that no words are really the right words. god bless you xxxxx
Gosh I'm so sorry, love. That's all there is to say. You will get through this, I know it. And thank you for sharing your story with us, you're so brave. Much love to you and your family. -3
oh honey, i am so so so so sorry to hear this...you are so brave to make this video, i was crying right along with you through the whole thing...thank you so much for sharing your story, you are going to help so many people with your honesty...much much love and thoughts are with you, big hugs!!!!!!!
I'm so sorry for your loss. You are truly brave and amazing for doing this video for the rest of the people who are going through this in their lives.
yeah after loosing my baby girl at 17 weeks I didnt tell anyone but close family that I was preggo the second time until they asked and I didnt post anything until I was 24wks
I am so sorry for your loss, you and your family have been in my prayers since I saw the ER update vid. Miscarriages are usually not something that people talk about so I really thank you for sharing your story, more than likely this video will help someone else in their time of need.
i am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for being strong enough to make this video. my sister misscarried at 18 weeks. she was also sent home from the hospital ( with a fetal hb), and her water broke at work the next night. i haven't wanted to upset her and ask her questions, so thank you so much for this video. it helps famly members to understand what is going on. i wish you all the best for a future pregnancy.
My thoughts and prayers are going out to you and your hubby. The reason God picks people like you to have struggles is that you are so strong! You ca.n handle things much better than most people. You are picking yourselves up and trying again. You will have a beautiful healthy baby when the times right itll happen
when we MC our first pregnancy we were going to wait but everything around me told me not to wait! i hated seeing pregnant people and seeing videos, just like you! so we tried again and it only took one try! we cried afterwards. i just wanted my baby back!
to everyone out there who has lost a lil one. dont give up!! just two weeks after our mc was over, we concieved our daughter, who will be 3 in december! keep your heads up <3
we buried our first lil one! we lost our very first pregnancy. the lil one is buried in a ring box under a stone under a rose bush! i think of the lil one every time i see that stone!
Aw hun! My heart hurts for you & I am so sorry for your loss! I am totally bawling watching this because I just hate that you had to go through this & they treated you like that in the ER. I hate it! Thank you for sharing your story- you have definitely benefited us by sharing your story! Just remember that this doesn't mean you won't be pregnant again. You will, you will get to do the reviews and you will get to take that intelligender test. You will be doing pregnancy vlogs again soon!
continued- I wish the very best for you and Thomas in conceiving in the future. If you're interested in reading anything about this and other women who have been through what your feeling, check out this book. I've owned it since my first loss and still read it to this day
Miscarriage: Women Sharing from the Heart. It's on amazon :-/
Jordan, I am incredibly sorry for your loss. If you ever need someone who just gets it, please message me. I just miscarried for the 6th time last month. :-(
It's scary and hard and now that it's happened it's jaded me and I'll never be able to feel comfortable during a future pregnancy. My daughter (god bless her!) was carried to 41 weeks following 3 miscarriages, one of them just 2 weeks before conceiving her.
I am so sorry for your loss. I went through a miscarriage in May and it was a scary experience for me (first pregnancy). My thoughts are with you *hugs*
Awww I really wished I could of just jumped through the computer and given you a great big hug. I have no idea what you are going through at all , but all I can do is say you have my love and support sending your way. I think you making this video will help a lot of woman going through it and knowing they are not alone. *hugs* let us know how your appt's going and getting the clear. <3
It was hard for me to watch this. I wasn't as far along as you, but I miscarried on Friday also. I was only 4 weeks, I had just found out I was pregnant this last week. I am so sorry for your lose. Hopefully we can share the next pregnancy journey together again. <3
I'm so sorry that this unfortunate common thing has happened to you. Thank you for sharing your story with such a brave face. I cried everytime you did. Hugs and kisses.
I'm so sorry you are going through this. My miscarriage was pretty similar. Unfortunately, miscarriage has a way of taking the innocence out of you when you find out your pregnant....I worry all the time now....I just had my 5th baby (my 4th healthy pregnancy since my miscarriage) and I still worried about miscarriage. As hard as it is, just try not to worry when you finally conceive again. I know its tough...you will start feeling better soon, it just takes time.
I am so hearbroken for you guys, but I am glad to know you are handling this well. :) I know it's hard to describe what you saw, but I know what you mean. Samething happened to me, and I can never seem to explain it....but you will never forget it. I know 3 years later, I still haven't.
i cried with you :( some things just aren't fair, but you already have a beautiful little man so you know you'll be able to make another perfect little bub when you feel your ready xoxo
It took a month for my body to miscarry and it was the worst month of my life. My doctor didn't give me the pills to do so I wish they did. I hope you start feeling better. The only thing I wish I did different is go to a support group or even tall to someone. Prayers are being sent to you Thomas and jayden.
You are very strong :) hang in there jordan . I had to go through it my self before I got pregnant with Draven . It is Very hard :( It will take time to heal , but just know you're still young and you're body will bounce back from this traumatic experience . I wish you the best of luck with trying again. and if you ever need some one talk to , that has gone though it them selfs , feel free to talk to me hun.
Hey I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your story. I know this was extremely hard for you. Again I'm so so very sorry for your loss! Hang in there, if you ever feel like talking I'm here...
I am sooo sorry for your loss. Thank you for this video though. Im sure other ladies who are going through this would appricate the info. I do have one question though..sorry if its personal but i was wondering what your suppose to do with the fetus after you pass it? Do you bring it to the doctor or just flush it? Anyways...i am keeping you and your family in my prayers. Sending you lots of baby dust.
@MissLea922 At the time I just flushed it. I didn't know what else to do. But I wish I would have decided to bury it in our back woods. If I would have had a box or something I probably would have burried it.
I'm so sorry you and your family have had to go through this. You are so brave to have shared your story, hopefully it can someone else in the future that is going through the same thing as you did. And maybe in some way it can help with your healing to tell your story. You're family will be in my prayers, I'm so sorry for your loss, be sure to take care of yourself.
I just feel so bad for you Jordan. I hope you get the all clear from your doctor to try again! I question whether you were somewhat misled by the doctor telling you it COULD take up to 6 weeks for the miscarriage to begin? I think that is RARE! I hated to hear about you going through all that horrendous pain with those pills! My daughter-in-law had a situation very similar to yours. She was 11 weeks. But...she waited for the miscarriage to occur naturally and she didn't have THAT kind of pain!
@amishhorse its really not that rare. People go in for thier appts or scans all the time & find out that the baby died weeks before but still have not miscarried yet. I wasnt interested in it taking 1 week let alone 1-6 weeks so the decision to take the pill was pretty easy for me & I am glad I did. I just wanted to speed the process up so I can begin ovulating again as soon as possible! Plus with school I didn't want the miscarriage to happen while I was in class.
@08jaydensmommy08 I can certainly understand where you're coming from!! Well...let's just hope it was a complete miscarriage and you don't have to have a D&C! I will be looking forward to your TTC vids again! Bless you heart Jordan....I watched my daughter-in-law go through her miscarriage....and it really is tough!
I wish I could take the pain away for you. I had a miss in June of last year & I know how absolutely sucky it is. My story is similar to yours. I was able to conceive again on my 2nd cycle after the miss so it's very possible to have a healthy pg soon after a miss. Thinking of you x
I totally can relate. My sister in law got pregnant like a year after my second miscarriage and I just sobbed. I thought it wasn't fair that she was pregnant when she didn't even want kids and i've always wanted kids and miscarried 2 pregnancies.
I really want to give you a big big hug right now! I'm so sorry, I hope you're doing well and each day brings smiles and happiness and remember that your little angel is watching over you and protecting you <3 much much love and hugs!
This will help so many others. I know after my miscarriage I watched other videos, it's good to talk to other who have been threw it. I am so sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your story. One question would be, would you decide to keep the pregnancy secret next time? (((big hugs)))
@EmTabbysTTCjourney Yep. We don't plan to tell anyone until they start noticing my belly. I will still be making Youtube videos so whoever watches my videos will know. Other than that I'm not telling anyone.
You are so strong, thank you for sharing this, i've never heard someone talk so openly and honestly like this. It breaks my heart for you. I am praying for you and the future ahead!! Thanks again for sharing this.
despite the emotional and physical pain you've had to suffer, i suppose one good thing came of all this: you can find comfort that your choice of OB was the right one. when you conceive again, you will already know the level of knowledge, care and compassion they will be offering you.
You're a brave and strong woman and you have the love, prayers and support of so many people. Thank you for opening yourself to us and sharing something so deeply personal. Blessings to you and Thomas, stay strong!
I am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers for continued healing and strength. You are very strong. May God bless you during this difficult time.
I felt the same way after I lost my baby at almost 13 weeks.I am glad I was able to see my baby& seen it was a boy.We named the baby& took it to the ER for test. My doctor told me that the test could not be done because the ER lost the baby. So I know what you are going through. I feel your pain& know that you are not alone. I am so sorry that you have gone through this, I can not tell you why, but I tell you that I know it makes you a better mother for the 1 you have & the 1 you will have.
Sorry to hear about this! Ive had 3 miscarriages. I think i will make a video response to this tomorrow.. I have totally been here hun!! If you ever need to talk get a hold of me!
I had a miscarriage in Aug of 2009, and I had no clue how physically and emotionally painful it was going to be. I couldn't find anyone (at the time) who had gone through one so I had no clue what was going on. Thanks for sharing so many details of your experience, I know it's gonna help prepare someone. Good Luck to y'all!!!
I am so sorry for your loss. No one should have to go through this. I lost my child at 21 weeks. It was heart breaking, especially since I had to go through labor to pass the child through the birth canal. :(
Thank you for sharing your story. While some of us may not understand it it doesn't mean we really don't sympathize. I couldn't stop thinking about you for days. Ive seen someone personally go through it physically and emotionally(still) and though I havent I truly felt her pain and the same goes to you. Im glad you are doing better and I hope you get the clear soon because Jayden WILL be a big brother and an awesome brother at that!<3
So very sorry you have to go through this. My heart goes out to you. I never went through a miscarriage but suffered from infant loss and third trimester stillbirth and regardless of how soon or late you lose your baby it hurts just the same. Time heals all wounds but like a wound a scar remains. So you will forever be changed even after the wound heals. If you ever need someone to talk to I'm always around. Remember you are not alone. <3
I lost my son's twin at 9 weeks too I feel your pain. May God's Blessing be with you and your family. I dont know if I could blog like this at the time of my MC which was 7 years ago. Keep your head up and Remeber He has a reason and we dont know what it is. God Bless keep us up dated
Oh honey i am so sorry. I know just how you feel. I didn't miscarriage but i had a still born. But losing a child is one of the hardest things I ever went through. I am here for you if you need. It was nice talking to you the other day. <3
im so terribly sorry to hear this.. it broke my heart to watch this because my sister went through the same thing at 9 weeks pregnant... it broke my heart into a million pieces...it was the worst feeling in the world. im so sorry to hear about your miscarriage... stay strong and i keep you and your family in my prayers
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us, I am sure it will help a lot of women going through the same thing. We are here to support you!
I hate to see you go through this. I remember asking myself, "why us" and "what did I do wrong".....it's so hard. When it rains it pours. I'm so happy that you guys are going to try again right away, as you know, we were the same way! It's so true that unless you've been through it, you really don't understand. Just keep your eye on the prize love, it will happen and the moment you hold that miracle is going to be that much sweeter <3
I just googled what a 9 week fetus would look like (someone was holding one in their hand) and I give you props for not freaking the f* out. You are a very strong women! and Thomas is so awesome to be crying right along with you and supporting you. I hope you get pregnant as soon as you can and you'll have a beautiful, healthy baby soon! :)
I had a D & C in 2008 and the cramps from that were like convulsions it was pretty bad but I get extremely bad cramps so I guess I hav ea high tolerance for pain... Luckily they had given me Vicodin or something to that extent to help with the pain .. I had my MC at 10 weeks so I understand what you went through. i never had bleeding but when I went into my appt they couldn't find a heart beat.. I hope your recovery process is quickly and you are a strong woman to come on here .
I don't mean for this to come off wrong. I do have a question though, and that is what did you do with the fetus after you passed it? If you don't want to answer that, I completely understand. I have never seen someone go through a tragedy such as this, and I was just curious. I'm so sorry for your loss, and again, I don't mean to offend anyone by asking this.
@08jaydensmommy08 i flushed down my miscarriage baby also, i know i wasnt even fully mentally there because i was so emotional, but i still hate myself for it ...im so sorry you went through this, no one should have to go through losing a child <3
:(...Im sooo sorry! I know what your going through....i had miscarried last nov...it was very hard to deal with but we did it! Now im due next month..we ended up getting pregnant 3 months after the miscarriage. Hopefully everything gets back to normal for you. Everything happens for a reason hun, take care
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I have to experienced a miscarriage and I so I know the pain you are feeling. You're very brave and I really think your story will help others. It makes me want to share my story. I am so sorry for your lose hun:-(
This video made me cry :( I almost lost our baby girl during our pregnancy several times! :( I really thought we will lose her. Thank you so much for sharing this with us! Our prayers are with you and your family!
Im heartbroken for you. I am soo sorry. I think that you are so brave for sharing this it will help a lot of other women know what signs to look for. You are such a good person and you will get through this in time im praying for you and thinking about you all the time.
your in my thoughts and prayers Jorden, im sooo sorry for your loss, i kno it may not help with all of us saying we are sorry because its not us , and most of us dont really know what to say , but hang in there hun.
I feel your pain sweetie I do. I also had a miscarriage with my very first pregnancy back in 05 and no words can describe the pain. I had a similar situation just like you did. Prayers go out to your family, hang in there sweetie!
You are strong. I know how painful a miscarriage is, and many who have not gone through one can not understand. You will get through this. There are many women who have miscarried and gone on to have a healthy pregnancy. Yet, I understand that those words are not very encouraging when you are mourning for your little one. Much love your way!
Jordan, I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been thinking about you nonstop. You are definitely in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I know this had to be difficult for you to share your story, but it just proves how strong and courageous you are. Sending you a million hugs.
Nathan and I are so sorry for your loss. After 2 miscarriages this year we feel your pain and know just how rough it is for both of you. Knowing there are no words to help you I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your story, I know if I had seen this before our losses I would have been a little better prepared for what I was going to experience.
i had a best friend that went through the same thing you went through you have to stay strong and keep your head up and thank god that you have jayden when the time is right it well happen again it well work out in your favor you have to be ready when the time comes i well pray for you and your family.
My Dear Sweet Jordan .. My heart just breaks for you .. When you cried I cried, When you got choked up I was choked up .. I love you so much !!! My heart is with you .. Thank you for sharing your story .. I love love love you and please know if you want to talk about ANYTHING .. if you want to talk, vent, cry and or just talk you know where to find me !!! Hugs Love and Kisses xoxox
I hate when doctors are so nonchalant about something that is so devestating! Gr.. Makes me so mad. I am so glad to hear that your OB was so great!! He sounds like a great guy.
I know how anxious you were to get to your first appt. and it just breaks my heart!! That is so great that you had Thomas's parents there to help you with Jayden.
This video is going to help so many women who are or will experience a miscarriage. Thanks for sharing your story! Big HUGS for you and Thomas!! <3
You are so sweet. :(( I'm sorry this has happened. But you are so strong for sharing your story with us. Thank you. I'm glad you're doing better emotionally though. You are a great mommy, Jayden is adorable, and you'll have another adorable blessing in your life when the time is right. <3 **hug**
I'm sorry for your loss. You video actually inspired me to make my miscarriage video. I saw your video while I was still pregnant and after my miscarriage I made a video and just posted it today.
MissTwistedCouture 4 days ago
ER doctors can be very cruel. I know from past-experience. I think you should file for a settlement and teach them a lesson. Otherwise, it will happen to the next woman that has your experience. And again and again. It's sad but true. You need to stand-up for yourself and your baby!
Commodore5555 4 days ago
Thank you for sharing
cently1017 6 days ago
@ThePipweed Maybe your a troll because you have no real friends and have nothing else better to do with your sorry life. Sorry you have no effect on me.Nice try though.
08jaydensmommy08 1 week ago
Im so sorry for ur loss. I went throough a similer situation a few weeks ago, although they never saw a baby, They said I had a blighten ovem, where the sac develops but no baby. I also took the medicene an everything went well with some carmping and lots of bleeding . I know I will have a healthy baby eventualy. All the best to u and ur family hugs and kisses xoxo
monique5714335 2 weeks ago
She's not ugly at all she is very beautiful. People make bad comments because they feel like shit themselves so they take them out on pretty people.
xmineyx21 2 weeks ago
I'm very sorry.
tmarie071 3 weeks ago
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maybe you had a miscarriage because youre a fucking ugly slut and your womb is so polluted that the baby just fucking died in your ugly dirty crevice of a pussy
UnclePipweed 3 weeks ago
@UnclePipweed Why are you so nasty? You must be aleast the most hated person in the world. i find it funny how you treat people like dog shit, you should have never been born. you take the pss out of everything wrong with this world...e.t.c handicapped people, cancer, miscarrges, foreighn people! I do hope that one day you get cancer and feel their pain but just to let you know no one will be at your hospital bed hoping for the best if theres anyone out here...they would hope for the worst.
BeeMollyMiss 3 weeks ago
@UnclePipweed You are very stupid asshole
Inquisit0r1 3 weeks ago
@UnclePipweed your trolling has no effect on me sorry you wasted your time.
08jaydensmommy08 3 weeks ago 4
Thank you so much for sharing your experience.. My husband and I very recently miscarried with our first pregnancy (This Friday to be exact) And it has literally been one of the hardest things I've ever gone through, almost as hard as losing my mom when I was 16. We were also given the 3 options as you and went ahead with the Cytotec. It's just nice to know that we are not alone and that there is hope out there. Thank you again!
darkkitten2010 4 weeks ago
I am so very sorry for your loss. I just wanted to clear this up so other people don't freak out...it's not necessarily true that you always find the heartbeat w/ a doppler at 9 weeks. I work for an OB and very often, our doctors can't find them before 12 weeks.
bella3987 4 weeks ago
I felt like I was watching my own life seeing you describe your story! I recently went through a miscarriage, very similar and also thought those same things 'why us again'. Our little boy Lucas is visually impaired more so in his right eye also due to extreme prematurity and the eye disease ROP. He wears glasses and is very active just like Jayden. I'm so sorry you had to experience this. I know exactly how you feel and it is the worst feeling in the world. It's right up there with being told
jennaclayton 1 month ago
im so sorry for your lost hearing wat you had to go through made me cry im seven weeks an two days pregnant an im freaking out right now because i havent had my first prenatal visit yet an to hear wat happened to you it could happen to anyone but im so happy you over came your fears an shared your experiance because it could happen to anybody an alot of people would just shut down so thank you for sharing your story and my heart goes out to you an your family... god bless
MZKimmy22 1 month ago
I'm so srry for your loss I know what your going through and its not easy I went through it three times already and I'm 21yrs old with no other kids but I herd the first two heart beat then I started spotting and they couldn't dont it after that.the third misscarrage I didn't haven' no doc but I also started spotting and when I went to the e.r I should have Been 3mths but they say the bby has been dead since 1mth and 2weeks..all 3 losses where so sad and hurts so muchI'm so sry for your loss gbu
sexybear787 1 month ago
The same extact thing happen to me in the emergency room but I got the internal ultrasound but i bleed alot even then they told me everything was fine sent me home I tried to stay calm n lay down not move around to much but then 2 days later I miscarried :( sorry you had to go thru this.
Honeyxbear23 1 month ago
I WAS ALSO 9WEEKS
aledie0406 1 month ago
sorry to here abt ur loss, but i also had a misscarriage. i went for my 1st soundagram and there was knw here beat so they told me to come back next week. so the week came and stll no heart beat so i waited on 12-21-11 then told me i have to do the d&c done i did but last night the fetus came dwn.
aledie0406 1 month ago
Your husband is soooo sweet. I am so so sorry for your loss. I am newly pregnant and very paranoid about attaching myself to this new creation. Can I ask you if they mentioned why it happened? Is 9 weeks considered late to have a miscarriage?
amelie7041 2 months ago in playlist More videos from 08jaydensmommy08
@amelie7041 nope don't know why it happened. Most likely from a chromosomal abnormality. Most miscarriages happen sometime before 12 weeks. But miscarriages and still births can happen at any point in a pregnancy unfortunately.
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brideofabull 2 days ago
hi hun, I am so sorry to hear about your struggle. i hope that you can see the purpose in your small "grapes" life. Thru your loss you are strengthening others and giving a little hope that those who have lost a baby are not alone. Thank you for sharing your story, and educating others thru your pain. I see that you are trying again and I wish you the best of luck and God's blessings
vik2reoshrt 2 months ago
hi hun, I am so sorry to hear about your struggle. i hope that you can see the purpose in your small "grapes" life. Thru your loss you are strengthening others and giving a little hope that those who have lost a baby are not alone. Thank you for sharing your story, and educating others thru your pain. I see that you are trying again and I wish you the best of luck and God's blessings
vik2reoshrt 2 months ago
I've gone through it 3 times now... so I can definitely relate... sorry you had to go through this, no one deserves this. I know it's near Christmas now but I hope the past months have found you and your family well. Merry Christmas!
addicted0525 2 months ago
I am really sorry for your loss. I`m sending you a BIG HUG :*
ficat 2 months ago
Now I'm pregnant again and 18 weeks along, don't give up hope. I've subscribed so hopefully we can all celebrate that next BFP.
faylew1012 2 months ago
I went completely natural with my miscarriage and a week into it I went to the bathroom at my inlaws and was swamped with horrible contractions. I didn't make a peep while in labor with my first and these miscarriage contractions had me writhing. I was pouring blood but it slowed in the ER. I chose to wait 3 months before trying again.
faylew1012 2 months ago
May I ask what you did with your baby? Or is that too personal? Just wondering how a parent would go about that part of a miscarriage.
sweetness8t5 2 months ago
I'm not pregnant and i can't relate but i think it was very brave of you to post something like this after going through such a loss. I know this will be helpful for those who feel like they are alone when they go through something such as this.
I wish you all the best in the future with your beautiful family <3
HazardousAmusement 2 months ago
I'm glad yours was over quickly, mine was drug out for a month after using the cytotec. I was given vicodin and ended up in the er because of the pain. I ended up on morphine. The pain was horrible.
GonnaBAMom1Day 2 months ago
I'm sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage my first pregnancy.. I only knew I was pregnant for 1 day before I started spotting & cramping but. The Dr said I was 6-8 weeks along & I passed a lot of clots & looked for the fetus but could never tell between the colts & bleeding. How could you tell it was the fetus?
08sarahrangel 2 months ago
@08sarahrangel Oh you could totally tell there was no question about it. I was 9.5 weeks. It was the size of a large grape and I could see the shape of the baby and the yolk sack and the teeeny tiiiny umbilical cord. It was just sitting in my underwear...........
08jaydensmommy08 2 months ago
So very very sorry for your loss. I know how you're feeling :( I went though a miscarriage and infertility. I ended up using progesterone shots with my first baby and progesterone suppositories with my second baby, so my uterus could keep the pregnancy. I am sending you some baby dust! Prayers for a healthy pregnancy coming your way!
Purrrsuasive1 2 months ago in playlist More videos from 08jaydensmommy08
So very very sorry for your loss. I know how you're feeling :( I went though a miscarriage and infertility. I ended up using progesterone shots with my first baby and progesterone suppositories with my second baby, so my uterus could keep the pregnancy. I am sending you some baby dust! Prayers for a healthy pregnancy coming your way!
Purrrsuasive1 2 months ago in playlist More videos from 08jaydensmommy08
Hi hun you are so brave for making this video, it was very hard for me to watch and I had to do it in two parts as I have mc three times myself and my second was a similar experience to yours except when we had the scan at 8 weeks the baby was still alive and the mc still happened the next day. You Thomas and Jayden are a great family and I'm sure it will all work out for you very soon, best of luck for the future :)
bessybaby84 3 months ago
I just subscribed and watched this video. I'm so sorry for your loss! I too just miscarried in October. The second LARGE thing was your placenta!! For me that was the only painful part and man was it huge!! Hope your doing well!
kayw714 3 months ago
hey jordan im sorry for your lost</3
i have a question for you
when you started spotting, did you feel any cramps/sorta pain in your stomach? im 5-6 weeks & few days ago i started spotting just like you are describing it, the only diff. was i kind of spotted my underwear just a lil tho. that only happened one day n the next day i just spotted orangy then it stopped & today it happened again some my friends said its normal but after watchin this it got me scared. i been crampin a little. :/
MfSwagg 3 months ago
@MfSwagg I had no cramps. If I were you I would go to the doctor to get things checked out just to be safe.
08jaydensmommy08 3 months ago
I'm sorry for your lost
And good luck in your next try to have a baby...
But remember just think of you and your future baby first..
Your school can wait...
But I will pray for you just rest and pray
yenyvilla2011 3 months ago
Im so sorry you had to go through this. My 16 week mc was SO painful and I was in the ER hemorrhaging and had to have an emergency d&c. I remember the baby being so much larger than I thought it should be - it was crazy to me. I know how bad this sucks, trust me, I have lost 3 - it gets better. The pain never goes away but it gets better. Im so so sorry.
hazeldream1984 3 months ago
I watched the entire thing :) This video totally broke my heart. I'm so glad you guys are picking yourselves up and trying again though! I've never gone though this, so I can only imagine, but I think I'd have to agree with you by saying that waiting a while to try again would be emotionally hard. I wish you guys all the luck in the world!!! :) Hugs
kadinsmomma07 3 months ago
I'm so sorry this happened to you.
MsSachiaLynn 3 months ago
i am sooo sorry to hear this it must be so hard to go thew this i will be praying for you and sending baby dust ur way
taylormn 3 months ago in playlist More videos from 08jaydensmommy08
.....and I am SO SORRYfor your loss (comment box didn't have enough characters). and trust me, saying sorry doesn't take the pain away but it's the thoughts that count. I wish I would have found a video exactly like this before I had my miscarriage because it is almost scene by scene like mine. You will get through this, you seem like you are a strong person and just like me you already have a child to help you deal with the pain. Don't give up trying. I will be praying for you!! Take Care
mrspunkapoo 4 months ago
WOW Jordan, your miscarriage story is EXACTLY like mine, except I didn't go to the ER(and I'm so sorry about your visit there). Watching and listening to you makes me feel like that is me making the video :(. Today marks 27 days since my miscarriage and each day brings healing. I am so glad you made this video, and I will plan on making one soon too. It does help to have this type of support and I want you to know I am here for you if you have any questions or just want to talk. Hang in there :)
mrspunkapoo 4 months ago
Firstly, i would just like to say I am sorry for what happened. Second, to be honest, I was unaware of what happens when there is a miscarriage. When I watched this video, I learned a lot. So, thanks for posting this, although your mission was to help other women who have been through a miscarriage, you helped me be less ignorant about the topic.
mhraafat 4 months ago
what did you do with the baby afterwards?
aphroditeb1 4 months ago
I miscarried at 9.5weeks, I let nature take its course and the day after my internal scan when they confirmed there was no heartbeat I began to lose my baby. I also experienced the dreadful cramps you describe for about 3 days and I too could see the yolk sack and the baby! Watching your video brought all those memories back and my heart goes out to you both! Although you never forget, it is true that time heals. Thank you for sharing and good luck when you try again..you deserve lots!
IrishCol1only 4 months ago
How brave of you to do this video. God will never put more on you than you can bare. I also miscarried. It was my junior year in college. Our experiences are very similar. After that, I was not sure that I could even carry a baby. After 3 months past I found out I was pregnant again. Almost 8 months after that I gave birth to a healthy 8lb 12oz and 22 3/4in baby boy. There is hope!
sajentle 4 months ago
Sorry 4 ur loss!
NURSERYTIME 4 months ago in playlist More videos from 08jaydensmommy08
Yes, so true about learning the value of your babies through a loss. Our loss def helped remind me how precious life is, even though I already felt i had the most value possible on babies/children. When I see other women complaining about their children, or pregnancy. I wish i could just tell them be grateful because they have that. and so many others wish they did. but i realize they just don't understand.
ToyaandJordann 4 months ago
Jordan, you are so very brave for sharing this story with us. I lost our first baby at 20 weeks gestation and had to go through being induced, labor, vaginal delivery and a funeral. It REALLY sucks to lose such a precious gift before you even have time to enjoy him/her. I am still praying for your healing and for a speedy & healthy conception/birth next time!
nadkinson 4 months ago
(((hugs)))
carleighsmommy 4 months ago 4
So sorry for your loss!
gracenbeauty1 4 months ago
I am really sorry about what happened to you but why bother posting this video for the public. It's none of stranger people's business your personal life. You could tell the story to your friends but I don't see why u have to let everyone see this. much love
pqstr 4 months ago
@pqstr Because it is therapeutic for me to get it all out there. Most of my friends and family didn't even know I was pregnant yet so I can't talk about it with them.Plus all the love and support from my Youtube friends and subscribers have really helped me in the grieving process. This channel is my video diary and I share the good, the bad, and the ugly. Plus I think this will help others going through the same thing in the future.
08jaydensmommy08 4 months ago 15
@pqstr Her video could help a lot of other pregnant woman who are going through a miscarriage. It's something that isn't really talked about, and everybody needs support in their time of need! I think she did amazingly well to stay so composed, and it is a great resource for others out there. The community here is fantastic, and as you can see from other comments, she has had a lot of support. Most of these people are considered friends.
TheKiwiMummy 4 months ago
Hi jordan, I havent been on youtube in ages so I didnt even know you were pregnant :( All I can say is that I will pray for you because I know that no words are really the right words. god bless you xxxxx
sassyandsorted 4 months ago
Gosh I'm so sorry, love. That's all there is to say. You will get through this, I know it. And thank you for sharing your story with us, you're so brave. Much love to you and your family. -3
spearminthappenings 4 months ago
i'm sorry to hear this, but i'm really glad that you got the closure that you needed despite your partner's reaction. good luck on a full recovery.
thebabymuse 4 months ago
oh honey, i am so so so so sorry to hear this...you are so brave to make this video, i was crying right along with you through the whole thing...thank you so much for sharing your story, you are going to help so many people with your honesty...much much love and thoughts are with you, big hugs!!!!!!!
crazymommylife 4 months ago
I'm so sorry for your loss. You are truly brave and amazing for doing this video for the rest of the people who are going through this in their lives.
jcning 4 months ago
I'm so sorry for your loss, and thanks for sharing your story. I cried along with you. Sticky baby dust and hugs for you and your family.
mel4646 4 months ago
My heart goes out to you and your family. I'm am deeply sorry for your loss.
MJozzie 4 months ago
yeah after loosing my baby girl at 17 weeks I didnt tell anyone but close family that I was preggo the second time until they asked and I didnt post anything until I was 24wks
nellyville6502 4 months ago
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nellyville6502 4 months ago
I am so so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of thoughts, hugs and love.
TheKiwiMummy 4 months ago
I am so sorry for your loss, you and your family have been in my prayers since I saw the ER update vid. Miscarriages are usually not something that people talk about so I really thank you for sharing your story, more than likely this video will help someone else in their time of need.
metchick02 4 months ago
i am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for being strong enough to make this video. my sister misscarried at 18 weeks. she was also sent home from the hospital ( with a fetal hb), and her water broke at work the next night. i haven't wanted to upset her and ask her questions, so thank you so much for this video. it helps famly members to understand what is going on. i wish you all the best for a future pregnancy.
new0428mommy 4 months ago
My thoughts and prayers are going out to you and your hubby. The reason God picks people like you to have struggles is that you are so strong! You ca.n handle things much better than most people. You are picking yourselves up and trying again. You will have a beautiful healthy baby when the times right itll happen
MissKristiLee 4 months ago
when we MC our first pregnancy we were going to wait but everything around me told me not to wait! i hated seeing pregnant people and seeing videos, just like you! so we tried again and it only took one try! we cried afterwards. i just wanted my baby back!
lovecanbemagic 4 months ago
to everyone out there who has lost a lil one. dont give up!! just two weeks after our mc was over, we concieved our daughter, who will be 3 in december! keep your heads up <3
lovecanbemagic 4 months ago
we buried our first lil one! we lost our very first pregnancy. the lil one is buried in a ring box under a stone under a rose bush! i think of the lil one every time i see that stone!
lovecanbemagic 4 months ago
Awful doctor!! So sorry for your loss and how you were treated!! ♥♥♥
alandamandamama 4 months ago
you are in my heart. Baby dust coming your way.
TaylorSwiftfan1iever 4 months ago
Aw hun! My heart hurts for you & I am so sorry for your loss! I am totally bawling watching this because I just hate that you had to go through this & they treated you like that in the ER. I hate it! Thank you for sharing your story- you have definitely benefited us by sharing your story! Just remember that this doesn't mean you won't be pregnant again. You will, you will get to do the reviews and you will get to take that intelligender test. You will be doing pregnancy vlogs again soon!
NaturallyThriftyMom 4 months ago
continued- I wish the very best for you and Thomas in conceiving in the future. If you're interested in reading anything about this and other women who have been through what your feeling, check out this book. I've owned it since my first loss and still read it to this day
Miscarriage: Women Sharing from the Heart. It's on amazon :-/
kellybratt 4 months ago
Jordan, I am incredibly sorry for your loss. If you ever need someone who just gets it, please message me. I just miscarried for the 6th time last month. :-(
It's scary and hard and now that it's happened it's jaded me and I'll never be able to feel comfortable during a future pregnancy. My daughter (god bless her!) was carried to 41 weeks following 3 miscarriages, one of them just 2 weeks before conceiving her.
kellybratt 4 months ago
I am so sorry for your loss. I went through a miscarriage in May and it was a scary experience for me (first pregnancy). My thoughts are with you *hugs*
ridleysramblings 4 months ago
Awww I really wished I could of just jumped through the computer and given you a great big hug. I have no idea what you are going through at all , but all I can do is say you have my love and support sending your way. I think you making this video will help a lot of woman going through it and knowing they are not alone. *hugs* let us know how your appt's going and getting the clear. <3
nannerskins 4 months ago
It was hard for me to watch this. I wasn't as far along as you, but I miscarried on Friday also. I was only 4 weeks, I had just found out I was pregnant this last week. I am so sorry for your lose. Hopefully we can share the next pregnancy journey together again. <3
zachsgrl04 4 months ago
I'm so sorry that this unfortunate common thing has happened to you. Thank you for sharing your story with such a brave face. I cried everytime you did. Hugs and kisses.
wastedtears06 4 months ago
You are a wonderful woman and I'm so sad you had to go through this. I wish you the best.
mrowsica 4 months ago
I'm so sorry you are going through this. My miscarriage was pretty similar. Unfortunately, miscarriage has a way of taking the innocence out of you when you find out your pregnant....I worry all the time now....I just had my 5th baby (my 4th healthy pregnancy since my miscarriage) and I still worried about miscarriage. As hard as it is, just try not to worry when you finally conceive again. I know its tough...you will start feeling better soon, it just takes time.
crazybusywonderful 4 months ago
I am so hearbroken for you guys, but I am glad to know you are handling this well. :) I know it's hard to describe what you saw, but I know what you mean. Samething happened to me, and I can never seem to explain it....but you will never forget it. I know 3 years later, I still haven't.
reneeandherlife 4 months ago
i cried with you :( some things just aren't fair, but you already have a beautiful little man so you know you'll be able to make another perfect little bub when you feel your ready xoxo
hanacrawford 4 months ago
It took a month for my body to miscarry and it was the worst month of my life. My doctor didn't give me the pills to do so I wish they did. I hope you start feeling better. The only thing I wish I did different is go to a support group or even tall to someone. Prayers are being sent to you Thomas and jayden.
matthewsmomma07 4 months ago
You are very strong :) hang in there jordan . I had to go through it my self before I got pregnant with Draven . It is Very hard :( It will take time to heal , but just know you're still young and you're body will bounce back from this traumatic experience . I wish you the best of luck with trying again. and if you ever need some one talk to , that has gone though it them selfs , feel free to talk to me hun.
CandyandTy 4 months ago
Hey I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your story. I know this was extremely hard for you. Again I'm so so very sorry for your loss! Hang in there, if you ever feel like talking I'm here...
ChristiansMommy100 4 months ago
I am sooo sorry for your loss. Thank you for this video though. Im sure other ladies who are going through this would appricate the info. I do have one question though..sorry if its personal but i was wondering what your suppose to do with the fetus after you pass it? Do you bring it to the doctor or just flush it? Anyways...i am keeping you and your family in my prayers. Sending you lots of baby dust.
MissLea922 4 months ago
@MissLea922 At the time I just flushed it. I didn't know what else to do. But I wish I would have decided to bury it in our back woods. If I would have had a box or something I probably would have burried it.
08jaydensmommy08 4 months ago
@08jaydensmommy08 Oh ok. Yeah that would have been a good idea.
MissLea922 4 months ago
I'm so sorry you and your family have had to go through this. You are so brave to have shared your story, hopefully it can someone else in the future that is going through the same thing as you did. And maybe in some way it can help with your healing to tell your story. You're family will be in my prayers, I'm so sorry for your loss, be sure to take care of yourself.
jessicarac22 4 months ago
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xoxazurixox 4 months ago
I just feel so bad for you Jordan. I hope you get the all clear from your doctor to try again! I question whether you were somewhat misled by the doctor telling you it COULD take up to 6 weeks for the miscarriage to begin? I think that is RARE! I hated to hear about you going through all that horrendous pain with those pills! My daughter-in-law had a situation very similar to yours. She was 11 weeks. But...she waited for the miscarriage to occur naturally and she didn't have THAT kind of pain!
amishhorse 4 months ago
@amishhorse its really not that rare. People go in for thier appts or scans all the time & find out that the baby died weeks before but still have not miscarried yet. I wasnt interested in it taking 1 week let alone 1-6 weeks so the decision to take the pill was pretty easy for me & I am glad I did. I just wanted to speed the process up so I can begin ovulating again as soon as possible! Plus with school I didn't want the miscarriage to happen while I was in class.
08jaydensmommy08 4 months ago
@08jaydensmommy08 I can certainly understand where you're coming from!! Well...let's just hope it was a complete miscarriage and you don't have to have a D&C! I will be looking forward to your TTC vids again! Bless you heart Jordan....I watched my daughter-in-law go through her miscarriage....and it really is tough!
amishhorse 4 months ago
I am sorry, and sorry to hear this.
I miscarried our first baby, simular situation our bean died around 8 weeks, I had no signs, and found out at my 12 week scan. I had a D&C.
I've never been through something so traumatic, my heart is with you hun.
Thinking of you all x
Pinketter 4 months ago
I wish I could take the pain away for you. I had a miss in June of last year & I know how absolutely sucky it is. My story is similar to yours. I was able to conceive again on my 2nd cycle after the miss so it's very possible to have a healthy pg soon after a miss. Thinking of you x
Hopefultime 4 months ago
I totally can relate. My sister in law got pregnant like a year after my second miscarriage and I just sobbed. I thought it wasn't fair that she was pregnant when she didn't even want kids and i've always wanted kids and miscarried 2 pregnancies.
TrsOfRd08 4 months ago
I really want to give you a big big hug right now! I'm so sorry, I hope you're doing well and each day brings smiles and happiness and remember that your little angel is watching over you and protecting you <3 much much love and hugs!
TheIncredibleLaken 4 months ago in playlist More videos from 08jaydensmommy08
This will help so many others. I know after my miscarriage I watched other videos, it's good to talk to other who have been threw it. I am so sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your story. One question would be, would you decide to keep the pregnancy secret next time? (((big hugs)))
EmTabbysTTCjourney 4 months ago
@EmTabbysTTCjourney Yep. We don't plan to tell anyone until they start noticing my belly. I will still be making Youtube videos so whoever watches my videos will know. Other than that I'm not telling anyone.
08jaydensmommy08 4 months ago
You are so strong, thank you for sharing this, i've never heard someone talk so openly and honestly like this. It breaks my heart for you. I am praying for you and the future ahead!! Thanks again for sharing this.
Jalynn99 4 months ago
i am sorry for ur loss, i will be praying for u and ur family
misaki52008 4 months ago
So sorry for your loss Jordan. Thank you so so much for sharing you story with us xoxox
KaraDaneDallas 4 months ago
I am sorry for ur losse
dolphinlady1980 4 months ago
despite the emotional and physical pain you've had to suffer, i suppose one good thing came of all this: you can find comfort that your choice of OB was the right one. when you conceive again, you will already know the level of knowledge, care and compassion they will be offering you.
You're a brave and strong woman and you have the love, prayers and support of so many people. Thank you for opening yourself to us and sharing something so deeply personal. Blessings to you and Thomas, stay strong!
StoliDassah 4 months ago
I am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers for continued healing and strength. You are very strong. May God bless you during this difficult time.
WithGodsGrace 4 months ago
Oh by the way I had 2 d&c's and that was before I had Zander!
Crystal110987 4 months ago
You're a very strong person. I am so sorry for your loss.
HeartMyKPop 4 months ago
I felt the same way after I lost my baby at almost 13 weeks.I am glad I was able to see my baby& seen it was a boy.We named the baby& took it to the ER for test. My doctor told me that the test could not be done because the ER lost the baby. So I know what you are going through. I feel your pain& know that you are not alone. I am so sorry that you have gone through this, I can not tell you why, but I tell you that I know it makes you a better mother for the 1 you have & the 1 you will have.
hartrose33 4 months ago
Sorry to hear about this! Ive had 3 miscarriages. I think i will make a video response to this tomorrow.. I have totally been here hun!! If you ever need to talk get a hold of me!
Crystal110987 4 months ago
I had a miscarriage in Aug of 2009, and I had no clue how physically and emotionally painful it was going to be. I couldn't find anyone (at the time) who had gone through one so I had no clue what was going on. Thanks for sharing so many details of your experience, I know it's gonna help prepare someone. Good Luck to y'all!!!
crowenessa 4 months ago
i cried with you. Thank you for sharing this, it takes so much courage! You and your family are in my prayers, Please stay strong!!! x
TooSolidToBreak 4 months ago
sorry for your loss :( hope you are doing okay
kaityykid 4 months ago
I'm so sorry for your loss, but thank you for sharing the details of your story. Stay strong. You and your family are in my family's thoughts.
imissjerry87 4 months ago
I am so sorry for your loss
sprouseta 4 months ago
I am so sorry for your loss. No one should have to go through this. I lost my child at 21 weeks. It was heart breaking, especially since I had to go through labor to pass the child through the birth canal. :(
bribrimiller44 4 months ago
Thank you for sharing your story. While some of us may not understand it it doesn't mean we really don't sympathize. I couldn't stop thinking about you for days. Ive seen someone personally go through it physically and emotionally(still) and though I havent I truly felt her pain and the same goes to you. Im glad you are doing better and I hope you get the clear soon because Jayden WILL be a big brother and an awesome brother at that!<3
maria22284 4 months ago
I'm sorry for your loss. I know how difficult it is..I had 2 miscarriages before I had my 1st baby. Good luck with everything.
JulianBrianLinda 4 months ago
So very sorry you have to go through this. My heart goes out to you. I never went through a miscarriage but suffered from infant loss and third trimester stillbirth and regardless of how soon or late you lose your baby it hurts just the same. Time heals all wounds but like a wound a scar remains. So you will forever be changed even after the wound heals. If you ever need someone to talk to I'm always around. Remember you are not alone. <3
carlynicoleelliotte 4 months ago
I lost my son's twin at 9 weeks too I feel your pain. May God's Blessing be with you and your family. I dont know if I could blog like this at the time of my MC which was 7 years ago. Keep your head up and Remeber He has a reason and we dont know what it is. God Bless keep us up dated
Lajohnnahoneybale 4 months ago
*HUGS*
JasonAndCass 4 months ago
Oh honey i am so sorry. I know just how you feel. I didn't miscarriage but i had a still born. But losing a child is one of the hardest things I ever went through. I am here for you if you need. It was nice talking to you the other day. <3
nickiweb21 4 months ago
im so terribly sorry to hear this.. it broke my heart to watch this because my sister went through the same thing at 9 weeks pregnant... it broke my heart into a million pieces...it was the worst feeling in the world. im so sorry to hear about your miscarriage... stay strong and i keep you and your family in my prayers
iloveyoussef 4 months ago
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us, I am sure it will help a lot of women going through the same thing. We are here to support you!
TheChocolatecake101 4 months ago
I hate to see you go through this. I remember asking myself, "why us" and "what did I do wrong".....it's so hard. When it rains it pours. I'm so happy that you guys are going to try again right away, as you know, we were the same way! It's so true that unless you've been through it, you really don't understand. Just keep your eye on the prize love, it will happen and the moment you hold that miracle is going to be that much sweeter <3
Kaylandsky 4 months ago
I just googled what a 9 week fetus would look like (someone was holding one in their hand) and I give you props for not freaking the f* out. You are a very strong women! and Thomas is so awesome to be crying right along with you and supporting you. I hope you get pregnant as soon as you can and you'll have a beautiful, healthy baby soon! :)
creamsodaistasty 4 months ago
I know no words can help right now hun but just know how very very sorry I am for your loss, thinking of you hun!!!
TrulyBlesssed5586 4 months ago
Thank you for being so open and honest, I know you will help others going through a misscarage.
dghrybkf 4 months ago
My heart is broken for you. Please know that my thoughts are with you guys. You are amazing to do this video to help others. Hugs hun.
ThePJmommy 4 months ago
I had a D & C in 2008 and the cramps from that were like convulsions it was pretty bad but I get extremely bad cramps so I guess I hav ea high tolerance for pain... Luckily they had given me Vicodin or something to that extent to help with the pain .. I had my MC at 10 weeks so I understand what you went through. i never had bleeding but when I went into my appt they couldn't find a heart beat.. I hope your recovery process is quickly and you are a strong woman to come on here .
purplespirit79 4 months ago
I don't mean for this to come off wrong. I do have a question though, and that is what did you do with the fetus after you passed it? If you don't want to answer that, I completely understand. I have never seen someone go through a tragedy such as this, and I was just curious. I'm so sorry for your loss, and again, I don't mean to offend anyone by asking this.
ElizabethBrake86 4 months ago
@ElizabethBrake86 We flushed it. It felt so wrong to do though :o(
08jaydensmommy08 4 months ago
@08jaydensmommy08 i flushed down my miscarriage baby also, i know i wasnt even fully mentally there because i was so emotional, but i still hate myself for it ...im so sorry you went through this, no one should have to go through losing a child <3
Darkcharmer1991 4 months ago
@ElizabethBrake86 Generally it'll just look like a blood clot as if you had a heavy period...
kastnmagic 4 months ago
:(...Im sooo sorry! I know what your going through....i had miscarried last nov...it was very hard to deal with but we did it! Now im due next month..we ended up getting pregnant 3 months after the miscarriage. Hopefully everything gets back to normal for you. Everything happens for a reason hun, take care
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You are such a stong, amazing women!! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers! I am so sorry that you had to go through this!
Kelleyatwork78 4 months ago
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I have to experienced a miscarriage and I so I know the pain you are feeling. You're very brave and I really think your story will help others. It makes me want to share my story. I am so sorry for your lose hun:-(
sunietatum 4 months ago
ALSO, I just have to say this, I hate that E.R. Doctor!!!! TRULY!!!!
babybuchug 4 months ago
No words can express how sorry I am for you guys.
Tilly311 4 months ago
This video made me cry :( I almost lost our baby girl during our pregnancy several times! :( I really thought we will lose her. Thank you so much for sharing this with us! Our prayers are with you and your family!
babybuchug 4 months ago
Im heartbroken for you. I am soo sorry. I think that you are so brave for sharing this it will help a lot of other women know what signs to look for. You are such a good person and you will get through this in time im praying for you and thinking about you all the time.
Nicoleveach 4 months ago
your in my thoughts and prayers Jorden, im sooo sorry for your loss, i kno it may not help with all of us saying we are sorry because its not us , and most of us dont really know what to say , but hang in there hun.
thebrave01 4 months ago
I just want to reach through my screen and hug you!! Our story's are identical. Lots of love to you guys!!!
fvnan 4 months ago
I feel your pain sweetie I do. I also had a miscarriage with my very first pregnancy back in 05 and no words can describe the pain. I had a similar situation just like you did. Prayers go out to your family, hang in there sweetie!
dropdeapretty83 4 months ago
You are strong. I know how painful a miscarriage is, and many who have not gone through one can not understand. You will get through this. There are many women who have miscarried and gone on to have a healthy pregnancy. Yet, I understand that those words are not very encouraging when you are mourning for your little one. Much love your way!
nocturne1980 4 months ago
Jordan, I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been thinking about you nonstop. You are definitely in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I know this had to be difficult for you to share your story, but it just proves how strong and courageous you are. Sending you a million hugs.
3MenandaLady06 4 months ago
I'm so sorry this happened! No one should have to go through this. Sending lots of hugs and prayers!
Aliwisha1 4 months ago
Thank you for sharing your story with us. I'm so sorry about the miscarriage. You are in my thoughts.
sendmejuice 4 months ago
aw im so sorry for your loss i know your pain all to well i lost my baby at 37 weeks almost 2 years ago
TheKassy88 4 months ago
Nathan and I are so sorry for your loss. After 2 miscarriages this year we feel your pain and know just how rough it is for both of you. Knowing there are no words to help you I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your story, I know if I had seen this before our losses I would have been a little better prepared for what I was going to experience.
heath2Babigbrother 4 months ago
i had a best friend that went through the same thing you went through you have to stay strong and keep your head up and thank god that you have jayden when the time is right it well happen again it well work out in your favor you have to be ready when the time comes i well pray for you and your family.
babygirl5666 4 months ago
I am so incredibly sorry babe. So incredibly sorry.
abra819 4 months ago
I was so devastated when i found out =( I can't image how you felt Jordan.
The doctors are so frustrating sometimes. Stay strong, you will get pregnant again and everything will be great.
Mileshka22 4 months ago
My Dear Sweet Jordan .. My heart just breaks for you .. When you cried I cried, When you got choked up I was choked up .. I love you so much !!! My heart is with you .. Thank you for sharing your story .. I love love love you and please know if you want to talk about ANYTHING .. if you want to talk, vent, cry and or just talk you know where to find me !!! Hugs Love and Kisses xoxox
CrazyCoolShorty 4 months ago
I hate when doctors are so nonchalant about something that is so devestating! Gr.. Makes me so mad. I am so glad to hear that your OB was so great!! He sounds like a great guy.
I know how anxious you were to get to your first appt. and it just breaks my heart!! That is so great that you had Thomas's parents there to help you with Jayden.
This video is going to help so many women who are or will experience a miscarriage. Thanks for sharing your story! Big HUGS for you and Thomas!! <3
JenNTim509 4 months ago
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.
palaverly 4 months ago
You are so sweet. :(( I'm sorry this has happened. But you are so strong for sharing your story with us. Thank you. I'm glad you're doing better emotionally though. You are a great mommy, Jayden is adorable, and you'll have another adorable blessing in your life when the time is right. <3 **hug**
tygersflowerz 4 months ago
im sorry for your loss.
imayummygirl 4 months ago