From Ms. Remy: Dear TMOT - Keeping My Son from His Father?

[Jarreau24]

I FEEL U ON THIS BRO GREAT VIDEO, JT

[stateofblackmanhood]

My good brother...what is the make and model of the camera that you use for you drive time videos??? It is so clear, and it must be small since you can put it on your dash board. It must be a high definition type of camera, since the picture is not blurry.

[tmotofga]

@stateofblackmanhood

Thanks.

Sony Handycam XR150 Black High Def 120GB Hard Disk Drive Camcorder w/ 25x Optical Zoom

[tmotofga]

@HEAVENLYTRUTH1

Any so called man who abandons his seed is scum. That is far worse than a mother who, like him, made a MAJOR screw up in bringing child into the world under those circumstances, yet is left to raise the child own her own.

The child is here. Damn the circumstances of how it happened at this point. Don't do it again and raise the child for Christ's sake.

I would not have said he was worse IF he was doing his job. Since he ain't, He IS!

[InfiniteMushroom]

@tmotofga Here's some help for you. Leviticus 20:2 "...Whosoever he be of the children of Israel, or of the strangers that sojourn in Israel, that giveth any of his seed unto Molech; he shall surely be put to death: the people of the land shall stone him with stones."

Who was Molech? A god of the Ammonites, to which young children were sacrificed. Molech is worshiped by today's Power Elite in the Bohemian Grove. Millions of babies are sacrificed in America's abortion mills in their honor.

[tmotofga]

@InfiniteMushroom

Although this video has nothing to do with abortion, You should see my video, "I'm gonna keep it, Bitches do better".

Peace.

[InfiniteMushroom]

@tmotofga Sorry if I confused the issue. I saw your reply to HEAVENLYTRUTH1 and misinterpreted what you had in mind.

[tmotofga]

@HEAVENLYTRUTH1

Not gonna debate something so basic. He left his child. If you can't see past the first mistake to observe the second, I don't know what to tell you. She at least is seeking advice so as to make a bad situation better. And several of you have only condemned her in spite of it. We all fall short. The difference is whether we get up. She has.

[WilBarn99]

This was a very good video with great advice.

[wayne21100]

Typical black woman choosing bums as fathers. When she was laying on her back she wasn't complaing about him being a bum. You got to take the bad with the good.

You told her the word Tmot, take a bow.

[LUCANDIS]

Amen brother ...It is what it is....we as women always think they gone to change.. or we going to change him.......now we got to deal with it now.... as you said let him be a part of their childs life....and all will reveal their true self..... Him and Her.... cause as u say we only gettn one side of the story!

[seand67]

We talked about this before. These young Sisters need to think twice about their infatuation with thugs. Her choice to spread her legs for the thug resulted in a baby brought into this world. NOW, she has to live with her decision, as the Father (no matter how bad he is), has RIGHTS. She simply has to reap what she sowed.

[tmotofga]

@seand67

Sean, while I agree with you in principle, this was not a beat up the momma video. In my eyes the bum ass father is worse for he has left his son to be raised by others.

[seand67]

@tmotofga Agreed, and unfortunately this child will probably have an unstabe foundation to grow on. We've seen what happens next. This depressing cycle won't stop until women look for substance in a mate and stop drooling over the 'negative stereotypes' of thugs that are glamorized today. These thug bums are empowered by women's lust and questionable judgement.

[GMPNY]

Hello :-)

Very good comment, This young lady is VERY lucky she has parents to help out. I dont think you were too harsh and I dont think she will either. I DO think a lot of US ask questions of others when we already KNOW what the answer will be, in some small way, we HOPE someone we respect will tell us what we want to HEAR rather than what we KNOW should happen.

[GMPNY]

I agree 100% agree to never down the Daddy in front of the child. They will only turn on you later and then the "Bad parent" becomes the hero. A child will always have "Heart" for the parent who is not in their life and will also be on the defense for that parent so saying things about that parent, true or not? That child's heart will be broken to hear ANY nastiness about their Dad from the mother who chose him to be their father.

[GMPNY]

This can also backfire in other ways. "You thought so little of yourself Mom that you chose a bum to be my father knowing he'd never have a job or be able to take care of us and do nothing to better our lives? WHY Mom would you do that to us?" See what Im saying? Mothers out there, be as kind as you can be when talking about the fathers of your children if YOU want respect from your own child. Choosing to disrespect the childs father will bring the disrespect right back to you!

[GMPNY]

Just as TMOT has said, the child will see and learn for themselves what the real deal it and trust me, you couldnt look better in that childs eyes because you allowed them to see this on their own rather than try to drill it in the childs mind making yourself look like the nasty one to them. Let nature takes its course, let them see the light on their own. Good luck, be safe and above all love your child for the BOTH of you :-) ONE good parent is better than NONE!

[GMPNY]

TMOT, I apologise for running on here but this was a great subject and people, mom's & dads need to be aware of how to play it out to achieve the right outcome which is in the best for their children :-)

Gail