all people use routines last night one of my friends was telling everybody in the room how he allmost got hit by a car. everytime a new person came in he told them the the same story thats routine.
depends how often you practice. i went out 4 nights a week for the first 3 months and got rid of approach anxiety. after 6 months i was able to open any set and get through 3 minutes. after 1 year i was able to get phone number consistently that returned (PUA Status). Now its over 3 years, and I am a sales trainer at the biggest photo retail store in the world. my love life is very nice. and i teach photography in a university and pickup on the side. This stuff will change your life!
@mblackmagico well wouldnt it be easier if she was choosing/looking at u that way u wouldnt be rejected as much and i respect u for taking so many rejections and not leting them destroy u but how many times have u been slapped
yeh but who cares if she rejects me? its not like shes the last girl in the world?
See I don't care because I know shes not rejecting me, shes only rejecting my approach and the logistics. Its all a learning experience, like messing up a math problem. Its better to approach the harder groups because you learn more that way. Not taking it personally was the first skill I learned, without that your bound to fail
@famousmanbearpig wtf is an afc? hahaha yea i seen it happen 2 some dude at a nightclub he told the girl can i ask 4 your opinion then i couldnt hear the rest but the result was the same a slap in the face and he looked nerdy with a weird clothin syle
@darknoob91 Truly high-quality women don't fall for this. Bar sluts do. If you want a bar slut, run "game." If you want the type of woman who makes a food out of a PUA, read my work.
@mblackmagico good job using the possibility that he might not have graduated from high school yet based on his name to insult him. are you proud of yourself? because trying to make him feel like shit shows that your more mature than a high school student. grow up.
But keep in mind to this day, and for 3 years consistently Ive been going out 3-5 nights a week. not always to sarge, but sometimes just to chill, but meeting women is just part of my life. so dont wait for time to change you, change yourself and time will naturally pass....
Does the pua stuff help you get a girlfriend and have a long term relationship? what's your take on this?
I bought DYD some time ago because I needed to improve my interactions with women and because I wanted to get a gf. I experiencied some success and my inner game improved a lot, but at the end after getting laid some times, I felt this empty feeling inside coming from not really having a girl i deeply know with whom I could share my time, things and experiences.
At the same time, I came across some info on the net that reinforced the idea that the pua material is just for getting into women's pants and that's it. What I'm really concerned about is having a great lifestyle, a social circle of friends which allows me to meet a great girl, and having a cool personality. How does the pua stuff help me on that?
I'm not trying to challenge my friend, all my doubts are being delivered with respect
That cool, I'm happy you bring me these concerns because they are very valid. The truth is there are many people that use these skills for evil. Think about the martial arts masters who teach their skills and some students use it to rob and murder. But the masters still teach martial arts as self defense. That's what pick up is also. The gurus say, this is to better your life, not ruin others'. Some people follow that rule and others don't, unfortunately. That being said, you have a
choice to make. Why do you want to get into the pick up arts. Are you just looking to get laid, or do you want a relationship. from your messages it sounds like you want to get in for legit reasons. to better yourself and have a long happy life with your wife. I respect that. The pickup arts will without a doubt help you find that. Just stay with it through the tough times (because there will be) and stay focused. don't get out once you have your first GF, instead teach so you keep...
your skills. Always learn how to understand people better to make decisions that are in both of your best interests. Practice maintaining your self control by staying calm cool and collected. Challenge yourself by applying to schools or jobs you don't feel qualified for, you'll be surprised. Build your social circle from scratch and lead them to happiness and excitement where ever you go. and in 3 years from now look at the person you always were but never knew how to display...
Thanks for answering and claryfing my doubts Mo. You reallly sound like a cool guy and is interested in helping others and not in getting people buy any pua products. You express your points of views and I like your transparency. I look forward to helping other guys to get this part of their lives handled once I get decent at this and start enjoying a more fullfilled life. Take care
if your weak and submissive, no routines will work. if your confident routines will work. if your confident, you don't need routines. therefore, routines are pointless unless your using them as training wheels.
The one problem with the "creepy guy" opener is that they could say that you are the creepiest guy. I prefer "hey, tell me something: so how many creeps have hit on you tonite?" If they point you out, all you gotta do is say: "I didn't hit on you."
While it is true that they will sometimes throw you a shit test and say you are the creepiest, they know you aren't, so if you become defensive you fail the shit test. Now, I use the shit test as an opportunity to pass it and raise my value even higher.
I'll tell you the problem I have with the line, "I didn't hit on you." It's a remark made in defense to the girls accusations. In other words it's an extremely defensive line. And as you know becoming defensive is a great way to fail a shit test. The best response in to this shit test is no response at all. Show that you are completely unaffected. Girls are attracted to that. Just continue on by pointing out guys that you think are creepy.
I even like to point out the really cool guys in the bar and say that they are creepy and give some reason as to why. For example, I'll be like "You see that really muscular guy over there... What a creep, he works out way too much its becoming extremely tacky." and if you are leading the interaction the girls will agree with you. and even if they found him attractive to start he will become creepy. If, however, they are leading the interaction, they will look at you like you have no idea
what you are talking about. The main idea here is don't become defensive, and the best response to a shit test is a wittier response or no response at all. Deff don't make excuses.
yup, you're absolutely right. Most people read The Game, steal the tools demonstrated in the book, then don't use them properly. I see people doing it all the time. I don't think it's a bad thing because at least more people are stepping up to make an attempt to improve their life.. as long as people look back on their situations and try to learn from their mistakes.
haha so true. The Game does NOT make you anything close to PUA, it only...wets your appetite to begin the journey of PUAdom.
I actually read The Game well after learning MM. Everyone who got into the community through The Game but didnt dig deep enough (or quit at "Rules of the Game") have such a surface understanding of how to be a PUA. I notice this mostly in frat houses lol.
If you have to tell someone you're rich, you aren't. PUA material is meant to be a transparent clothing, you have it, and it's there, but it's not you and not meant to cover who you really are. Good points.
What's the name of the book he mentions at 0:37 ???
pakazama 2 months ago
sounds like a very effective line; ill have to try it
mblackmagico 8 months ago
bros, i just say, bitch suck my 12 inch.
bagga95 8 months ago
all people use routines last night one of my friends was telling everybody in the room how he allmost got hit by a car. everytime a new person came in he told them the the same story thats routine.
fracturedfist 1 year ago
wat is a good book to read from mystery? the pickup artist or mystery method... this book is to read just for fun
Sk8ingPimpp 1 year ago
i couldnt say this any better myself.
flame0247 2 years ago
How long does it take to become decently successful with women?
cockyandfunny 2 years ago
depends how often you practice. i went out 4 nights a week for the first 3 months and got rid of approach anxiety. after 6 months i was able to open any set and get through 3 minutes. after 1 year i was able to get phone number consistently that returned (PUA Status). Now its over 3 years, and I am a sales trainer at the biggest photo retail store in the world. my love life is very nice. and i teach photography in a university and pickup on the side. This stuff will change your life!
mblackmagico 2 years ago
@mblackmagico man u must of got rejected 50million times with cold approaching i hate pua bullshit
darknoob91 2 years ago
i did, and that's why I'm able to approach now without problems. It's called learning. Did you graduate from high school yet?
mblackmagico 2 years ago
@mblackmagico well wouldnt it be easier if she was choosing/looking at u that way u wouldnt be rejected as much and i respect u for taking so many rejections and not leting them destroy u but how many times have u been slapped
darknoob91 2 years ago
yeh but who cares if she rejects me? its not like shes the last girl in the world?
See I don't care because I know shes not rejecting me, shes only rejecting my approach and the logistics. Its all a learning experience, like messing up a math problem. Its better to approach the harder groups because you learn more that way. Not taking it personally was the first skill I learned, without that your bound to fail
mblackmagico 2 years ago
@darknoob91 darknoob, your such an afc.
girls wont slap u if u ask them a question.. or even go direct with a compliment.
besides, the idea is, IT DOESNT MATTER IF SHE REJECTS YOU. with all of the BILLIONS of people in the world, there are more to come!!
famousmanbearpig 1 year ago 2
@famousmanbearpig wtf is an afc? hahaha yea i seen it happen 2 some dude at a nightclub he told the girl can i ask 4 your opinion then i couldnt hear the rest but the result was the same a slap in the face and he looked nerdy with a weird clothin syle
darknoob91 1 year ago
@darknoob91 i highly doubt ur tellin gthe truth. i dont know any pua or pua in training that ever got slapped. ur straight up lying.
famousmanbearpig 1 year ago
@famousmanbearpig ok so you know EVERY pua in the world????
darknoob91 1 year ago
@darknoob91 Truly high-quality women don't fall for this. Bar sluts do. If you want a bar slut, run "game." If you want the type of woman who makes a food out of a PUA, read my work.
BettorOffSingle 1 year ago
@BettorOffSingle na I dont need game I know the real shit NOT this fake shit damn nerds and a bar sult would make a trick out of these fools!!!!
darknoob91 1 year ago
@mblackmagico good job using the possibility that he might not have graduated from high school yet based on his name to insult him. are you proud of yourself? because trying to make him feel like shit shows that your more mature than a high school student. grow up.
magepwnzer 1 year ago
But keep in mind to this day, and for 3 years consistently Ive been going out 3-5 nights a week. not always to sarge, but sometimes just to chill, but meeting women is just part of my life. so dont wait for time to change you, change yourself and time will naturally pass....
mblackmagico 2 years ago
Mblackmagico:
Does the pua stuff help you get a girlfriend and have a long term relationship? what's your take on this?
I bought DYD some time ago because I needed to improve my interactions with women and because I wanted to get a gf. I experiencied some success and my inner game improved a lot, but at the end after getting laid some times, I felt this empty feeling inside coming from not really having a girl i deeply know with whom I could share my time, things and experiences.
cockyandfunny 2 years ago
At the same time, I came across some info on the net that reinforced the idea that the pua material is just for getting into women's pants and that's it. What I'm really concerned about is having a great lifestyle, a social circle of friends which allows me to meet a great girl, and having a cool personality. How does the pua stuff help me on that?
I'm not trying to challenge my friend, all my doubts are being delivered with respect
cockyandfunny 2 years ago
That cool, I'm happy you bring me these concerns because they are very valid. The truth is there are many people that use these skills for evil. Think about the martial arts masters who teach their skills and some students use it to rob and murder. But the masters still teach martial arts as self defense. That's what pick up is also. The gurus say, this is to better your life, not ruin others'. Some people follow that rule and others don't, unfortunately. That being said, you have a
mblackmagico 2 years ago
choice to make. Why do you want to get into the pick up arts. Are you just looking to get laid, or do you want a relationship. from your messages it sounds like you want to get in for legit reasons. to better yourself and have a long happy life with your wife. I respect that. The pickup arts will without a doubt help you find that. Just stay with it through the tough times (because there will be) and stay focused. don't get out once you have your first GF, instead teach so you keep...
mblackmagico 2 years ago
your skills. Always learn how to understand people better to make decisions that are in both of your best interests. Practice maintaining your self control by staying calm cool and collected. Challenge yourself by applying to schools or jobs you don't feel qualified for, you'll be surprised. Build your social circle from scratch and lead them to happiness and excitement where ever you go. and in 3 years from now look at the person you always were but never knew how to display...
mblackmagico 2 years ago
Stick with this and you will get the girls, jobs, happiness and success of your dreams!
Good luck,
-Mo
mblackmagico 2 years ago
Thanks for answering and claryfing my doubts Mo. You reallly sound like a cool guy and is interested in helping others and not in getting people buy any pua products. You express your points of views and I like your transparency. I look forward to helping other guys to get this part of their lives handled once I get decent at this and start enjoying a more fullfilled life. Take care
cockyandfunny 2 years ago
Rule number one mblackmagico, and thats leave them better then you picked them up. regardless of style, and routine.
They never picked that up on 'The Game'
Howland20 2 years ago
if your weak and submissive, no routines will work. if your confident routines will work. if your confident, you don't need routines. therefore, routines are pointless unless your using them as training wheels.
tronuD2 2 years ago 6
100% That is their only purpose
mblackmagico 2 years ago
you hit the nail on the head.
Gfresh404 2 years ago
Spot on, man !
LorentJovet 2 years ago
The one problem with the "creepy guy" opener is that they could say that you are the creepiest guy. I prefer "hey, tell me something: so how many creeps have hit on you tonite?" If they point you out, all you gotta do is say: "I didn't hit on you."
Vulture629 2 years ago
While it is true that they will sometimes throw you a shit test and say you are the creepiest, they know you aren't, so if you become defensive you fail the shit test. Now, I use the shit test as an opportunity to pass it and raise my value even higher.
mblackmagico 2 years ago
I'll tell you the problem I have with the line, "I didn't hit on you." It's a remark made in defense to the girls accusations. In other words it's an extremely defensive line. And as you know becoming defensive is a great way to fail a shit test. The best response in to this shit test is no response at all. Show that you are completely unaffected. Girls are attracted to that. Just continue on by pointing out guys that you think are creepy.
mblackmagico 2 years ago
I even like to point out the really cool guys in the bar and say that they are creepy and give some reason as to why. For example, I'll be like "You see that really muscular guy over there... What a creep, he works out way too much its becoming extremely tacky." and if you are leading the interaction the girls will agree with you. and even if they found him attractive to start he will become creepy. If, however, they are leading the interaction, they will look at you like you have no idea
mblackmagico 2 years ago
what you are talking about. The main idea here is don't become defensive, and the best response to a shit test is a wittier response or no response at all. Deff don't make excuses.
mblackmagico 2 years ago
agreed. don't act like what she said shook you up. if your not witty, ignore and talkk about something different.
tronuD2 2 years ago
i cant agree wit u even more dude. are u on any forums?
Jakmehauf 3 years ago
I´m not a natural when it comes to speaking English;as you mentioned it, what was your favourite book again(as opposed to "the game")?
Thank you sincerely
Ph
Rasenkrieger 3 years ago
Mystery Method for sure. I'm a big fan of starting with that and transitioning into natural game. what about you?
mblackmagico 3 years ago
yup, you're absolutely right. Most people read The Game, steal the tools demonstrated in the book, then don't use them properly. I see people doing it all the time. I don't think it's a bad thing because at least more people are stepping up to make an attempt to improve their life.. as long as people look back on their situations and try to learn from their mistakes.
drfoxdrfox 3 years ago
100%
mblackmagico 3 years ago
You're a genius!!!
ebasha24 3 years ago
haha so true. The Game does NOT make you anything close to PUA, it only...wets your appetite to begin the journey of PUAdom.
I actually read The Game well after learning MM. Everyone who got into the community through The Game but didnt dig deep enough (or quit at "Rules of the Game") have such a surface understanding of how to be a PUA. I notice this mostly in frat houses lol.
remusomega 3 years ago
If you have to tell someone you're rich, you aren't. PUA material is meant to be a transparent clothing, you have it, and it's there, but it's not you and not meant to cover who you really are. Good points.
34Lyre 3 years ago
Watch part 2 posted above on video responses
mblackmagico 3 years ago