You shed light on some important issues about how we negotiate and accommodate the world around us through relationships, whether through the relationship with ourselves or others.
I got a lot of from your insights, some of which resonated very strongly with some of my own feelings/ and experiences. Thanks again.
I think if you do some exotic dancing YouTube videos wearing a bikini - it would be very therapeutic. Don't hide your beautiful moving body - anyone can sit on a couch and talk.
Thank you! My daughter hasn't expressed an interest in dancing... of course she is only 11. She has her interests and passions & I am supporting them.
She was obviously mad because I didnt get with her. But I called my friend as soon as I got home to tell him about his girl but she had called him first and told him a bunch of lies that i was trying to get with her and he was pissed at me. So much that it broke our friendship. So I know how you feel in a way. Women can be just as bad as men when it comes to this stuff but your right I have no quite a few guys that cheat on there girls and I have never understood it.
I had an experience like this that destroyed my friendship with one of my friends. His girlfriend called me and asked if i wanted to go to the lake and I said sure and she came and got me. Half way to the lake I realized my friend wasnt with us and was like were is Mike. She said oh its just you and me and the whole time she was hitting on me but thats my best friends girl. Theres no way I was gonna go there. (Cont)
Im not the best looking guy but I have dated some very pretty girls in my time. And I always had a problem with them. I noticed that the really pretty girls I dated were so self absorbed and loved themselves so much I had to break it off with them. They never really cared about others and that bothered me. So now I just try to date women that still look good but have a good heart and personality. The not as hot girls tend to care about me more and thats what im looking for more than looks.
I can totally relate. I am still in my frumpy phase, playing down my attributes and trying to look as homely as possible without seeming completely unkept. I wish I could get past it but I still have so many hang-ups about it, that I don't even know how to begin. I had no idea you went though this. I'm afraid that by the time I get over it, I won't have any physical beauty left.
I felt for you when you spoke about your sister. Similar things have happened in my life and I never knew how to react or feel about them. Thank you for opening up and sharing something that obviously is still painful for you.
I can relate to a lot of the things you address in this vid. I too have insecurities in my appearance and the way I conduct myself. It's so true that you only need to worry about yourself and cannot really take responsiblity for other ppl's behavior. Thx for the vid :)... Now where's pt 2?
Thank you for sharing
jleighm 5 months ago
Thanks for sharing.
You shed light on some important issues about how we negotiate and accommodate the world around us through relationships, whether through the relationship with ourselves or others.
I got a lot of from your insights, some of which resonated very strongly with some of my own feelings/ and experiences. Thanks again.
batsoup 1 year ago
I think if you do some exotic dancing YouTube videos wearing a bikini - it would be very therapeutic. Don't hide your beautiful moving body - anyone can sit on a couch and talk.
RandomWalkTheory 2 years ago
Do you ever worry your daughter will want to be a dancer because you were one
I admire your honesty and think you are brave to put all your feelings out there.
rawvegan35 2 years ago
Thank you! My daughter hasn't expressed an interest in dancing... of course she is only 11. She has her interests and passions & I am supporting them.
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
She was obviously mad because I didnt get with her. But I called my friend as soon as I got home to tell him about his girl but she had called him first and told him a bunch of lies that i was trying to get with her and he was pissed at me. So much that it broke our friendship. So I know how you feel in a way. Women can be just as bad as men when it comes to this stuff but your right I have no quite a few guys that cheat on there girls and I have never understood it.
RedWhiteandBetrayed 2 years ago
I had an experience like this that destroyed my friendship with one of my friends. His girlfriend called me and asked if i wanted to go to the lake and I said sure and she came and got me. Half way to the lake I realized my friend wasnt with us and was like were is Mike. She said oh its just you and me and the whole time she was hitting on me but thats my best friends girl. Theres no way I was gonna go there. (Cont)
RedWhiteandBetrayed 2 years ago
Im not the best looking guy but I have dated some very pretty girls in my time. And I always had a problem with them. I noticed that the really pretty girls I dated were so self absorbed and loved themselves so much I had to break it off with them. They never really cared about others and that bothered me. So now I just try to date women that still look good but have a good heart and personality. The not as hot girls tend to care about me more and thats what im looking for more than looks.
RedWhiteandBetrayed 2 years ago
you should do videos outside and take advantage of the beautiful beaches and scenery in cali for those of us not so lucky
viveleraw 2 years ago
whao it takes a lot share that. Thanks.
yunkies 2 years ago
I can totally relate. I am still in my frumpy phase, playing down my attributes and trying to look as homely as possible without seeming completely unkept. I wish I could get past it but I still have so many hang-ups about it, that I don't even know how to begin. I had no idea you went though this. I'm afraid that by the time I get over it, I won't have any physical beauty left.
thrivesurvive 2 years ago
Hey lori, great video, it can be tough to share these story especially on youtube, so kudos for that.
keep up with your empowering vid
John
ThePrinceOfVideos 2 years ago
I felt for you when you spoke about your sister. Similar things have happened in my life and I never knew how to react or feel about them. Thank you for opening up and sharing something that obviously is still painful for you.
lackingknowledge 2 years ago
I can relate to a lot of the things you address in this vid. I too have insecurities in my appearance and the way I conduct myself. It's so true that you only need to worry about yourself and cannot really take responsiblity for other ppl's behavior. Thx for the vid :)... Now where's pt 2?
jessLUVSdave 2 years ago