I can understand that dark feeling. But it could be a more subtle way for you to prepare yourself. Although you/re never prepared for these things, it may make his passing on a little more bearable. Remember the things he taught you and keep old photos and in a way he'll never die...what he gave to the world will live on forever.
We still need an openly gay president and women president before I will be so easily swayed by emotion. Obama is part white so I think that is why it hasn't meant to much to me.
I know what you mean when you say you don't want to talk about it. My Grandmother just passed in December, and I really haven't said anything to anyone about it, and it does feel strange. I feel like I don't care because I'm not expressing how I feel, but I know I care, and it just goes in circles. I hope you feel better, and find a way that your comfertable, dealing with the hard times, im sure you will =0)
Just wanted to echo Melissa in saying if you have the chance to see your Grandfather now and say goodbye I would grab it with both hands, you can always light a candle and say a prayer at home for the day of the funeral, whatever you decide my prayers and good wishes are with you Nick and your family.
I'm not going to waste words saying your grandfather going to a better place. You know all that. Knowing that someone you care about is about to pass over doesn't prepare you for when it does.
My concern is for you. Emotional stress lowers you immune system. With you already ill, please take extra good care of yourself.
Most airlines have cheaper "Bereavement Fares." Please take someone with you to the funeral to support you.
Chris, Get well soon. I know that it's hard to accept the ending of a life, but you can rest in knowing that your Grandfather loves you and his memory will carry on... through you. Best wishes to you, Nickas, and your families.
Hey Chris, I really respect how candid you are about your grandfather's situation as well as your own. I have no words of wisdom but I wish you all the best nonetheless. Take care.
I hope you read the article about how to fight a cold. Get some sleep. When you come home, just go to bed. Let Nick take care of the house and the pets, and I bet in a couple of days you'll feel better. About you Grandfather-remember the fun times and conversations you had with him. Don't get down about not being able to say goodbye in person.
Times are most definitely tough. It is strange to talk about it as it's happening. I wrote so much in my blog while my cousin was not doing well in the hospital, then he was better, then suddenly worse.. then gone. They are the most random entries ever because what can you really say? It's good you got some words out, though. Feel better.
Aww, I hope you feel better soon! I am very sorry to hear about your Grandfather. Please, for yourself and for him...see him before it's too late! You should tell him you love him one last time! Either way, my prayers are with you. If you need to talk you know I am here!
Seriously you do look like gollum... sorry u had a bad day prrrreeeeccciooouusssssssssssssss -_-
jaydizzle333 3 years ago
I can understand that dark feeling. But it could be a more subtle way for you to prepare yourself. Although you/re never prepared for these things, it may make his passing on a little more bearable. Remember the things he taught you and keep old photos and in a way he'll never die...what he gave to the world will live on forever.
antoniosjourney 3 years ago
We still need an openly gay president and women president before I will be so easily swayed by emotion. Obama is part white so I think that is why it hasn't meant to much to me.
BeautyFrosta 3 years ago
Chris my thoughts are with you, and I hope you feel better soon :o)
Giving you a big hug from across the Sea's
whiteandfluffy701d 3 years ago
my prayers are with you. you should try too see your grandfather if you can.
rawbearar 3 years ago
I know what you mean when you say you don't want to talk about it. My Grandmother just passed in December, and I really haven't said anything to anyone about it, and it does feel strange. I feel like I don't care because I'm not expressing how I feel, but I know I care, and it just goes in circles. I hope you feel better, and find a way that your comfertable, dealing with the hard times, im sure you will =0)
DonnieHoffmann 3 years ago
Just wanted to echo Melissa in saying if you have the chance to see your Grandfather now and say goodbye I would grab it with both hands, you can always light a candle and say a prayer at home for the day of the funeral, whatever you decide my prayers and good wishes are with you Nick and your family.
xxxJoolsxxx
BarrysDaughter 3 years ago
Chris,
I'm not going to waste words saying your grandfather going to a better place. You know all that. Knowing that someone you care about is about to pass over doesn't prepare you for when it does.
My concern is for you. Emotional stress lowers you immune system. With you already ill, please take extra good care of yourself.
Most airlines have cheaper "Bereavement Fares." Please take someone with you to the funeral to support you.
You are in my prayers.
Hug and a kiss on the cheek.
FH
FaithfulHermit 3 years ago
Sorry to hear about your grandfather. I'm sure he knows you'd be there if you could.
mmmplee 3 years ago
Chris, Get well soon. I know that it's hard to accept the ending of a life, but you can rest in knowing that your Grandfather loves you and his memory will carry on... through you. Best wishes to you, Nickas, and your families.
AtheosEthos 3 years ago
Hey Chris, I really respect how candid you are about your grandfather's situation as well as your own. I have no words of wisdom but I wish you all the best nonetheless. Take care.
davidivivid 3 years ago
Hope you feel better soon!!
jadalovelee 3 years ago
I hope you read the article about how to fight a cold. Get some sleep. When you come home, just go to bed. Let Nick take care of the house and the pets, and I bet in a couple of days you'll feel better. About you Grandfather-remember the fun times and conversations you had with him. Don't get down about not being able to say goodbye in person.
slc84101 3 years ago
Times are most definitely tough. It is strange to talk about it as it's happening. I wrote so much in my blog while my cousin was not doing well in the hospital, then he was better, then suddenly worse.. then gone. They are the most random entries ever because what can you really say? It's good you got some words out, though. Feel better.
eyeSIREN 3 years ago
Hope u get well, soon.
God bless
tomboy216 3 years ago
Aww, I hope you feel better soon! I am very sorry to hear about your Grandfather. Please, for yourself and for him...see him before it's too late! You should tell him you love him one last time! Either way, my prayers are with you. If you need to talk you know I am here!
Love,
Your Girl Melissa
TarotLadyLissa 3 years ago
Chris, you sound aweful! I hope you feel better. It seems to be going around. Get some rest! :]
pvampire 3 years ago