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  • Who Is The Woman In The Title Card To This Video ?

  • Hello I am a Chocolate Black woman and I think you are Beautiful.I am sorry to see you caught up in the dark skin vs light skin debate. Honey it is some things that I sadly feel will never get solved and this is one of them LOL. What is crazy is that I DO think that you have experienced what some dark skin females go through due to the struggles with your illness. Anyone who has been teased about something they are born with can understand another person struggling through it. Have Patience

  • stop sending me that nonesense!

  • @BodyByKymXclusive i'm not sending you nothing get lost

  • I DON;T NO WHATS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE, MY BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL!

  • Hello, racism against dark complected Black women pre existed your genetic condition. It has nothing to do with you and people shouldn't take their anger out on you for that. However, this does not diminish the very difficult challenges that dark skinned women face. You might say, "get over it." but the fact is, who wants to be single? You expect dark skinned Black women to just accept the discrimination and be single? Also, being dark skinned is not the same as having a genetic disorder.

  • @shawnmariep yea but a lot of dark skin women act as if it's a disorder

  • @jakesmommy09

    I'm assuming you haven't been constantly teased about your skin when you were little, "reminded" of how "ugly" you are, you'll never be pretty, etc etc. Get a fucking life. It's people like you who make the problems. Not "dark skinned woman with a chip on their shoulder".

  • @jakesmommy09

    You're ignorant as hell, generalizing like that.

  • Some people in various cultures view lighter skin as being better. And it's not always that easy for people to let hurt go and sadly it becomes anger. I won't say that you don't understand but I think the depth of understanding is different. It's the difference between a loved one dying of natural causes and a loved one murdered. Both losses are great and one could probably imagine the pain of the other but neither could truly know the pain of the other w/o having been in the exact situation.

  • um when u r good-looking u r good-looking, period, doesnt matter what your ethnicity is. but that s just the typical beauty that will be agreed by most. and then there is also such a thing as beauty in the beholder's eye which many ppl forget along the way. there is such a thing as an ideal but an ideal exists for every skintone, every shape and every age, it s not singular.

  • Hey put my comment back, boo hoo

  • @thugnast Do you know what Red bone means.. Red is the other term for the Native American race. Which I am part Blackfoot Indian♦. You need your checked. light skin ranges from my color to even lighter. Just because I'm not Alicia Keys complexion doesn't change the fact that I am indeed light skin educate yourself before you comment. and the comment was removed because i'm sick of ppl like you trying to tell me what you think I am

  • I've never had a problem with getting the men i want because of my dark skin.. in fact...They love it..It is ''us''. The black community. We discriminate, we look at each other with jealousy and hatred and teach our children that being light is better. We have to change it, for it to change.

  • @michalovesanime exactly but the sad part it will never change b/c there are to many ignorant ppl in the world

  • Nice lips, and nicer tits!

  • Wow! You're an inspiration!

  • @SteadyFreddy777 Thank you :)

  • Should ANYONE care about what Lil Wayne thinks? He's an ugly, low life who thinks saying the N word and being in a gang is cool. As far as I'm concerned he's the last person whose opinion should matter.

  • @ChocolateCoatedLips So true. Lil Wayne is ignorrant and I am dark skin and I know many light skinned boys that perfer dark skin black girls it's mostly dark skin boys that dislike dark skin girls. I know this light skin boy that only likes dark skin black girls and he says he doesn't like yellowbones or redbones, just dark skin black girls. So yeah Lil Wayne is agnorrant and who cares what he thinks.

  • I always thought that dark-skinned Black people are the most beautiful ones! Their skin is so smooth, and they are so strong! Don't hate the skin you're in, beauty is what you make of it!

  • Focus on the joy in your life. You can adopt. F**K society. Your self-esteem has allowed you to be on youtube: you can be, do or have anything you want.

  • I DONT THINK ITS FAIR FOR ANY RACE OF PEOPLE TO TELL SOMEONE ELSE HOW YOU SHOULD FEEL ABOUT THE SKIN THEIR IN. EVERYONE HAS PERSONAL CHALLENGES & EVENTS THAT MAY FORM THE WAY THEY FEEL ABOUT THEMSELVES. FOR AN EXAMPLE AS A BIG GIRL I THINK I HAVE THE RIGHT ( IF I CHOOSE TO) COMPLAIN AND WHINE ABOUT LIFE EVEN THOUGH THERE ARE PEOPLE IN THE WORLD WHO HAVE MUCH MORE SERIOUS PROBLEMS LIKE THE WOMAN WHO HAS NO IDEA HOW TO FEED AND SUPPORT HER CHILDREN.IM 22 NEVER IN MY LIFE HAD A BOYFRIEND BUT SO WAT

  • is called color , we use to be called that now is offensive but wake up white is a color it just goes to show how messed up their mind is and how they have passed on the disease of ignorance.

  • @modeechic1 I meant to say that im not light or very dark skinned...

  • Really like this vid and im light or very dark skinned bit I love the skin im in .. Im a Black woman and I love being black:D dark and light skinned ppl ROCK... we are are some of the most beautiful ppl created, so lets stop all this hate and appeciate and learn from our differences.

  • @modeechic1 preach

  • 3 boyfriends in your lifetime is allot though.i never even have one:(.

  • LADIES if a stupid black man don't wanna date u most of the time its cuz they insecure about themselves  and the color of there own skin if they don't want u well why cry over it cuz clearly he's a jerk i bet there are plenty of men out there that would find u beautiful

  • But...it's Toya dark??

  • It's not about skin color, its about body type and facial structure.  Grow up people.

  • @LuxurySwag yepp

  • Oh, and the dark skinned woman in the video I was watching said "Dark skinned women have to work extra extra hard in order to get the same recognition as everyone else". ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?! That's the biggest load of shit I've ever heard in my life.Dark skinned women need to get over it, grow up, and stop being so negative and playing the victim. Start thinking positively for a change and maybe you'll all be happier.

  • I couldn't get past 4 minutes watching your video I had to turn it off because the way you were talking and sucking your teeth every 2 seconds was annoying as hell. But I get the idea and I totally agree, I just posted something similar on another video. Dark skinned women create the problem & play the victim in life & act like they got it so hard. It's ridiculous. And since they have a chip on their shoulder, they do nothing but pick on everyone else including light skinned women. GET OVER IT.

  • @QUIKKSTAR thanks for your opinion, on the other hand, Fuck Off.

  • ...you shol got some pretty teeth! lol

  • I LOVE that you were honest enough to share you're story. I am a dark skinned woman and I would say that I am "stereotypically attractive." Pain is pain and people deal with pain differently. I admire your courage and strength. Some people can't just let it go. I'm sure there are people with your disorder that are not as strong as you are. We as women should be able to have empathy for one another. This is by no means an attack. I just hope u can see that people heal differently. Peace & Luv :)

  • I blame black men for devaluing their women by glorifying white women. Willye Lynch's ideology seems to have worked.

  • I remember some girls telling me that i was accepted more by whites because of my skin tone. I was like wow, you guys are crazy ignorant. I generally dont like Humans as they usually can be so confrontational and rude. That was a comment I will never forget because my father is very very light with long black hair, my mom is dark brown skin color. But we never talked about crap like that in my family so it was like a slap in the face to hear it from those complaining girls.

  • All comments that have nothing to do with this video will be removed. The point of this video is stop complaining about your skin tone (if it doesn't apply then let it fly) when there are other people like myself who were actually born with something. The reason why I targeted dark skin women because I received numerous hate mail from them and top of that most videos I've seen are from dark beautiful women complaining about their skin tone. Why I don't know

  • @ambi101 I think a lot of women explain about something, either it their skin, hair, weight, boyfriend, etc. My female friends complain a lot about stuff like that and when i try to encourage them to love themselves, they still complain, so most of the time now, i just ignore them when they complain.

  • All of you mother fucker's need to leave dis girl alone gosh dammit! Go do something worth your time and not sit here and continue to fuck with her and harasse her and stop telling her what she is! I think she knows what she is( personal experience ) and some of you need life's by your ignorant, and childish responses. While you all are over here buying a computer to get on YouTube and harass why don't you buy yourself an education.

  • Yeah i agree the complaining is annoying, but you are trivializing an issue that exists here. People with disorders and what not comprise of a small minority. people with darker skin make up the black majority. If you have a case where a majority of people are being marginalized and discriminated against for something that is not fixable something they can not control you then have problem.

    Moving on or ignoring the issue continues the cycle sweeping the mess under a rug instead of fixing it.

  • @ambi101 Wow your story bummed me out sorry to hear about that... but you had a disorder which you overcame but being dark isn't a disorder and unfortunately majority of blacks are darker.

    The wining is annoying but this bias among blacks is discriminatory that is a serious issue. People wonder why blacks have a host of issues. Blacks can't continue to bitch about being discriminated and marginalized by whites yet continue to support light skin supremacy. It's hypocritical

  • @kesomox I know its not a disorder but I hear so many normal people complaining about their lives. The point of this video is to stop because so many people like myself have been through way worse

  • Quick Question: U ever been rejected because of your skin color?

  • To answer the title question--Hell NO. ;-D

  • I just wanna that dark skinned woman in the pic is lovely. People don't haves lives thats why you have many hate comments.

  • @Sw88tie I forgot her name but the woman in the picture is beautiful 

  • @Sw88tie this is true, the girl in this video is beautiful, most dark skinned women are jealous of other women of color. iam proud to be dark skinned.

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  • @BlueSappho92 yea thanks for removing that dumb ass comment you left

  • People come in all different colors, who cares? I am So pale I have to mix HALLOWEEN MAKEUP with my normal Foundation to get it white enough, and I am damn proud. Because it means god just paid extra attention to what he wanted me to look like, and he had a specific shade of color in mind. Brown Eyes, White skin, Pink hair, and Proud. Accept yourself women! Or else something as petty as Skin Shade will rule your life forever!!! And whoever made this Vid. I think you are GORGEOUS.

  • Black people come in all shades. She is just a paler shade of black. " Sounds like a good idea for a song" There is just a little more Irish in the lighter ones. lol

  • wait, you're dark too...

  • @JanuaryBlack1996 wait you need your eyes checked -_- dark my ass

  • @ambi101 lol all black people are dark skinned and look the same.

  • @damnproudasian898 you sound really ignorant

  • @damnproudasian898 Says the Asian.

  • dear lady, you are not the only women even white girls are rejected even beautiful womens with lovely blue eyes pale skin, blonde hair even i know barbies type rejected by man, really you need to work in your self-esteem..

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  • Dark, light, Brown, chocolate, cocoa or blue. IT DOES NOT MATTER. WE ARE ALL BLACKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK!­!!!! UGH!

  • @AjahDawn agreed. im tired of these people acting like black people skin colour experts shit if your ugly man your ugly period if your beautiful your beautiful its the same for every human race and gender there is ugly,normal and beautfiful most people are normal and they think they are ugly.t

  • Well your not dark skinned so you didn't grow up being teased or always reminded of your skin tone.I'm dark skinned nd I wouldn't trade it for the world although I do have to put up with the ignorance from my own race. I love my skin nd ikno I'm attractive but I do speak on the subject every now and then, not for sympathy or pity .. We don't make this up people bring the bs to us..

  • @naturalhairedhoney yes i am. not even close to being dark

  • you remind me of a younger wendy williams

  • what is your point 'woman?' i'm 1:50 in and you have yet to make one.

  • @researchsiempre Then you're not going to get the point. But everyone else does. Now peace

  • i think dark skin girls light skin girl we all are pretty once u gotta a piece of ass one tit hanging out n u skinny the men call that cute and its really not

  • I don't usually get involved with this kinda mess dark VS light skin. I am new to youtube and I hadn't heard or seen such ignorance! I am dark and I have never been rejected by no man, so please stop this mess and madness!

  • @BodyByKymXclusive If you never been rejected by a man.. than it doesn't apply to you. Thank you

  • @BodyByKymXclusive Thank you my fine chololate princess for that intelligent comment

  • @BodyByKymXclusive thats how i feel

  • @KenyasKarma I'm offended because you are trying to tell me what skin color I am when I'm not brown see my profile pics facebook pics and other vids. I'm light not brown my mother is a dark brown color. And what do you mean light skin doesn't make you beautiful hello all shades of black are beautiful whether its light or dark. now kindly stop trying to tell me what I am. That's what I'm offended by just as would get offended by anyone callin' something other than black

  • @ambi101 True all shades are beautiful but light skinned people think their skin makes them look good, that,s not the case. And I don't get offended when someone calls me another race. Most people even black people ask me if i from the islands or latin and I have a dark brown skin tone. They mistake my husband for puerto rican and he don't get offended. They mistake my children for different races. The only time you get offended about something is when you think it's a bad thing.

  • i agree. who can tell you about your experiences. noone as the right to.we all have our trials in life and endure something. as a dark skinned/brown skinned woman i have never encountered this sort of behavior personally nor had real issues linked to being darker. there were no "hard times" because i was dark skinned but it was just ignorance towards blacks period.. i also didnt realize it was such an issue(stupidity), personally you seemed caramel or brown to me, ur not that light skinned.

  • There are haters every where! you can't please everyone! Don't let the haters get you down!

    I love all black women!! from High Yellow to Blue Black! The beauty comes from within! A woman can look like she stepped out of a magazine; but if she has a bad personality SHE"S UGLY! the reverse is true also she might not look like much but has the most charming personality ever, & I would find her attractive! Just my view on things.

    P.S. I'm white

  • @DrObadiah i so agree couldnt have said it better myself

  • LISTEN UP! THERE ARE NO REAL DARK SKIN / LIGHT SKIN ISSUES! (Don’t get trapped by this pathetic nonsense.) YOU’RE A VICTIM OF WAR! “PSYCHOLOGICAL DIVIDE AND CONQUER". THE FIRST BATTLE WON THE OVERALL DIVISION OF RACES. NOW THE BATTLE HAS MORE PRECISION THAT INCITES DIVISIONS WITHIN “TARGETED” ETHNICITIES. RESULTS? -COLOR NOW MATTERS TO THE “PEOPLE OF COLOR”. (As never before.) DON’T BE SUBDUED! IT’LL CHEW YOU UP, SPIT YOU OUT, STOMP YOU AND SEEK OTHERS.
  • @TheThirdEye20 this is how i see it also, when you truely know yourself; true-self it surpasses the colour/shade of skin, left with essence....

  • I understand what u're saying. However I want to respectfully disagree with u in terms of dark skinned people a hard time because of discrimination. My mom is really fair skinned but is black while my dad is dark skinned and I am brown skinned. I cannot count the time that I have been told "why couldn't u be lighter like ur mother." Hearing derogatory statements about ur being can be rather hard on the psyche. I am happy u got over ur issues but many aren't as strong as you at least not yet.

  • AS A LIGHTSKIN MAN AND WATCHING DARKSKINNED PEOPLE POST VIDEOS OF TALKING ABOUT LIGHTSKINNED PEOPLE IS RESPECT,,,GO MY LIGHTSKIN PEEPS,,BECAUSE IF YOU CAN MAKE A LIVE VIDEO OF LIGHTSKIN PEEPS AND YOUR HATRED FOR THEM,,, THAT RESPECT,,FACT IS WE DONT HAVE TO THINK WE CUTE OR THE SHITT,,,HELL DARKSKIN PEOPLE DO IT FOR US!!! REAL TALK,,,,,,,,,,IS LIGHTSKIN PEOPLE YOUR ONLY COMPETITION!!!!! TRUTH IS WHITEMAN ENSLAVED YOU,,SO YOU WANT CONFRONT HIM,,SO YOU WILL GO AFTER THE LIGHTSKIN MAN THAT RESPECT

  • i can relate to anybody that's been put down for how they look. i'm afro amer. i was put down from day one. even in the house. it was worst there than anywhere.

    people say, how come you don't have this or that girl. they're not looking for a guy like me.

    the people who know me see my personality. women don't want to see it.

    i say, if you look good. stop complaining.

    i've been in all kinds of dating services. i women don't know if they want to keep me or not.

  • Lil Wayne doesn't even think before he speaks. He's naturally very dark-skinned himself, why would he make such comments knowing he's a celebrity? The answer is that he's an idiot.

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  • LITTLE WAYNE IS AN IDIOT!!!! DARK IS BEAUTIFUL!!!! I AN=M A WHITE MAN WITH 4 BLACK KIDS! LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.

  • I agree. darker skinned women constantly complain about people giving them compliments. Their pity parties are annoying. Especially when they start making videos about people saying they look pretty for a black girl. I think their mental at this point. It's like some of them always see the glass as half-empty. I think their skin tones are gorgeous, yet if you tell them that they get annoyed. It's really annoying. Especially when they start attacking lighter toned women. Great video, btw.

  • didn't hear a word that you said, I was too busy looking at your sexy lips

  • for the record you have some cute lips

  • lil wayne is a spade

  • u sound like Wendy Williams!

  • @WizzoPro9476 and???

  • @ambi101 u just do, and u too fine for me. U kno Cecina 23? yall doo this girly thing when yall lay on the bad and talk! Very enticing!

  • @WizzoPro9476 looks like wendy williams!

  • @ambi101

    I'm late responding but YOU ARE CORRECT!

    Whether or not one has likes or dislikes of one’s "SELF" seems to be guided by the social paradigm in which they live.

    Ironically, social influences are indicative to pecuniary influences and human nature seeks social acceptances which likely leans towards the most dominant social status quo regardless of what that may be (quite artificially in this case), at any given moment.

  • i dont have time to do a video response at the moment but i would love to build and conversate with you. i feel everything your saying theres just so much more to the story..When you add in the European aspect of how they think about us and the light skin dark skin treatment of us...anywhoo. peace and love Sis

  • I appreciate what you are saying..I can say that the problem with a lot of our dark and light skin sisters is not being looked at in Context...This issue goes waaaaayyy back. Most of it has to do with Willie Lynch. These problems you speak of have more to the story. My issue with dark and light skinned sisters is they can not accept who they are and Love it. Ex. fake straight hair, relaxers, fake ass eyelashes and so forth..Be who you are if your hair is kinky dont be ashamed .

  • no homo

  • ppl are ignorant um light skin does not make you a better person or better looking.This world is so twisted and some of the dark skin african american men are to.I feel srry for the darker african america women.It bcus of small minded ppl like that our the reason weman think the way they do.

  • no homo

  • can Ijust say that I understand where your coming from but its not only dark skined womaan whodo that I see light skined, white, asian woman who do the same thing (through pity parties, or play the victim). I think you need to work on your confidence an self-acceptance don’t let your disorder dictate your life you’re a pretty girl you just need to believe that yourself

  • Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder so we all need to love ourselves and forget about dark skin and light skin.....................am as dark as midnight and I love myself..........I think am beautiful. If you dont think that I am thats your FUCKING problem.........lets just love ourselves and each other,

  • Girl flaunt your beauty.. Beauty is not in weave, faces, or skin color. If a woman has a nasty attitude she is ugly!! No exceptions... And sweet heart when people stare at you smile and WAVE!! Know you are fabulous in your own way. A daughter of a king!! Look up Genesis 1:27. E-mail me if you ever want to talk. AND I MEANT THAT!!!

  • Fuck all the haters Black women are Beautiful.....Darker the berry sweeter the juice

  • @Iamorton If black people have ugly features why do other races get surgery to get the features most black people have? and some even ruin their bodies dying to look black..spare me the bullshit and keep it moving with your ignorant self

  • @ambi101 girl there is nothing wrong with your features. SMH, that was ignorant as hell of that guy.

  • @ambi101 U have very beautifull lips and from what I could see through your glasses u have beautiful eyes as well

  • @NovaKane78 Thank you very much

  • @ambi101 yw sweetie

  • @Iamorton you need to really go and re educate your self...how ignorant...How dare you state such an ignorant comment ...Theres beauty in all races

  • @Iamorton uhm its not every black girl that straighten their hair and want to look white trust me am proud of my blackness and its funny when i hear black people say O am not black am brown hahah really how many times do you hear a white person say am not white am pinkish white lol that is just some bull right there....

  • @Iamorton your a dick...

  • @Iamorton your a dickhead you need some serious help!

  • @Iamorton Go hide under your bridge, troll. XD

  • wow hope ur not talking about her that was really hatefull

  • @Iamorton what do you mean by brown?

  • @Misana means shes a mexican

  • @ambi101 oh...thank you. Where i'm from that means something totally different :)

  • @Iamorton If black people are so 'ugly', then why is everyone flocking to tanning salons and wearing darker make up and wanting to be darker, huh? Why are all these teens trying to grow out dreadlocks? Why are people wanting to inject their boobs and butts and lips to make them fuller?

    Yeah...black people are ugly. SMH.

  • I'AM A BLACK MAN AND I LOVE THE WOMEN G.O.D. GAVE ME SO WITH THAT SAID SISTERS I LOVE YOU FOR YOUR BEAUTIFUL BLACK SKIN BECAUSE WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT WITHOUT YOU THERE 'S NO ME SO PLEASE BELIVE ME SISTERS LOVE YOURSELF BECAUSE YOUR ''REAL BLACK MEN LOVE YOU''( MUCH LOVE THE BLACK MAN)''......PEACE&LOVE!!!!!!

  • You are Beautiful and Sexy. Keep your head up!!!!!!

  • i am a black man who understands. i know my mother was a bLack, blacker than the blackest african, and she was the prettiest woman i have ever known. its not bout skin color its about culture. allah has created u in different nations and tribes so that u get to know each other not to despise each other,.... accept the guidance from the creator..AL-ISLAM

  • AWW I think you're pretty!

  • Very good video. Appreciate your honesty. God bless.

  • Sista, you made a point. You are beautiful!!!!!!

  • ok girlfriend ... your pretty hot... soo how about you lose that weakass weave and let your TRUE BEAUTY shine, Baby.

  • We are all niggers in crakkkas' eyes. PS when I wore straight weaves and blue contacts you said I was pretty. Now you dont. So you exemplify the self hatred in our community.

  • @HappyHooker83 ummm.... what? smh I never said you was ugly now.. so what are you talking about.

  • your light skin but ur ugly sooooooo....

    ur a perfect example dat light isnt pretty

  • @stilettosdance ugly people are universal and beauty is an opinion not a fact thank you

  • @ambi101 NICE LIPS MA beautiful lady i would tear that up ;)

  • @stilettosdance btw put some vids and pics up before you comment on how someone else looks

  • @ambi101 Dont worry about these fucked up people on this youtube miss ambi. You're very beautiful, have a pretty smile and a solid personality. I got love for ALL my beautiful black women out there. I unlike most people am not color struck. I dont care if you redbone, brownskin, or darkskin, black is beautiful no matter what shade of brown we are. I wish black people would quit feeding into this BS. The white man pitting the lightskin vs the darkskin blacks has been going on SINCE SLAVERY. SMH..

  • @stilettosdance babydoll, looks aint worth nothing. I met a girl many call ugly and at 1st I played with her...took her lightly cause afterall,I thought, I am a attractive man,got cash and can have my pick in women...after playing with her something stranged happened, I grew to love her as her inner beauty came out,she was so beautifull inside but by then,she had became engaged 2 her boyfriend,they are now married,I begged her not to marry him but she went on as a result i was hurt

  • @vernontrumpet2000 I agree and that person has no vids/pics up but they left such an ignorant comment I bet this young woman in this video is 10x better looking than her

  • @stilettosdance But I bet she prettier than you tar baby coon ass.. on top of that you have no pics/vids of yourself LOL go figure!

  • @stilettosdance Bitch stfu with your ignorant ass.. I think this woman is sexy as fuck and would wife her up if given the chance. Now your a prime example of most dark skin women have the ugliest attitudes on the planet 

  • @MrChangeTheWorld08 .. big time looser aint darkskin nor am i light skin thank god ......and if u wanna bitch take a look at ur mom ....cuz 1st of all all this shouldnt even be an issues if every one is black in the first place .....and get out the hood looser stop stereo typing also ......

  • Skin tone is unimportant. The jewish media has done a great disservice to negros by making negros feel like COLOR is the most important thing in the world. Get over it because it just isn't true. Nobody cares who's black, white, blue or yellow! The topic is viewed by white people as BORING, yet to negros, it's extremely important. Why? There's more to life than vanity. And, by having hair extensions, YOU are the one saying that white is better. You are actually a white racist. Stop it!

  • @Jim777ism having hair extensions is not saying white is better. hell even white ppl get hair extensions...

  • @ambi101 But the difference between you and the majority of white people is that you conciously buy hair weave that is the EXACT opposte of your natural hair texture. Most white people buy and wear extensions that are similar to their natural hair texture.

  • @monalisa02 that is an weak argument.. the point is its not the hair that grows out of their heads... idk how natural it is to their hair texture its not their hair

  • Black Archaeologist loves being black

  • But sometimes something will happen and people will try to remind you that "you're JUST a dark black girl nothing special" and they're probably just using you or an easy lay or whatever. And that hurts. So these kinds of thing make me cautious. This type of thing may be the reason for the so-called attitude I've heard people say black women have. It's just this thing that brown skinned and dark skinned black women go through sometimes, it really makes it hard sometimes to not feel different.

  • I agree with all you say ambi101. You make great points. I feel great most of the time about being a brown skinned woman. I mean, most men seem attracted to me. I don't always feel pretty. But I know I'm attractive. I get hit on a lot by men of many different races and have a black boyfriend. And can generally get the one I really want.

  • I love the fact that you are stating your opinion and all but let's be real you're being a hypocrite. You're stating all of your problems and telling us all why you are self-conscious but everything you said: the stares, the fear of your child looking like you, and the fact of you not dating anyone are all things that dark skin women go through. & not to throw shade at your syndrome but their is nothing wrong with us in that sense but we still get passed over just because of our skin tone.

  • @Luvvarika I'm not being a hypocrite.. if you actually listened to what i'm saying you'd understand the whole point of this video is stop complaining about a skin tone when other people have it far worse skin tone aside

  • @ambi101 I commented on the girl who called you a hypocrite. I highly recommend reading the comment.

  • @ambi101 I listened to the whole video ma'am and I understood where you come from. So listen to where I am coming from (since you wanna come on here and state your opinion constantly) what I am saying is you are hypocrite yourself in the sense that you come on here and you crying about what is wrong with you and how you get passed over. but then you have the nerve to tell other people to get over it when they go through the same thing as you. So it is Ok for you to cry and feel bad for yourself

  • @Luvvarika its not being hypocritical because i don't post video after video after video about myself in that manner nor do i see ppl like me on youtube complaining about it.. as a matter of fact I think i'm the only one on youtube with this condition that actually made such a video.. but theres a million and one videos of dark women complaining and coming on my channel complaining and sending hate mail based on my skin color

  • @ambi101 Look Luwarika, the point of her video is not to complain. People are accusing her of not knowing what it is like to be passed over, since she is "light skinned". She clearly knows what it is like to be passed over though. People are coming up to her and telling her what it is like to BE HER, not the other way around. I would say that everyone gets treated unfairly, not just one group or the other. I would also say that this girl should speak up. How would you recommend going about this?

  • @Luvvarika the point of her video is not to complain. People are accusing her of not knowing what it is like to be passed over, since she is "light skinned". She clearly knows what it is like to be passed over though. People are coming up to her and telling her what it is like to BE HER, not the other way around. I would say that everyone gets treated unfairly, not just one group or the other. I would also say that this girl should speak up. How would you recommend going about this?

  • @ambi101 continued just not everybody else. So what if I said stop crying about having a syndrome you could be dead then of course it would be taken completely different than you saying that to dark skin women. & What i am saying in my previous comment is we (a lot of dark skin women) understand that people have it worse but at the same time this is something that is affecting a lot of us personally not just in dating but in the way we view ourselves in society.

  • @Luvvarika so in my opinion its not hypocritical this is just one and the last video I made speaking in this tone.... and how do you not know this is something to is affecting me personally and in a societal way.. if you don't understand that then really think about it

  • @Luvvarika Look, lady, you are being an idiot. All people go through stupid stuff in their life. This girl is being dismissed for being "light skinned". If people are passing you over for being "dark-skinned" it is because they have a fetish, and you probably don't want to talk to them anyway. This video and conversation goes to show that everyone goes through the same thing. The Bible says there is nothing new under the sun.

    I have a "white" appearance. I had a woman who was "black" tell me

  • once that I did not know what it was like to have other people regard me with racist attitudes. I have received racist attitudes though. I have had people pass me over for being "white", for being male, and very often people have viewed me as unintellectual and bigotted, because I subscribe to the Christian faith. Ironically, if you label one group as politically incorrect, it becomes politically correct to treat them with bigotry.

    Don't call other people a hypocrite, people bite bake.

  • @GreenSlugg This was at a commenter, not at the woman uploading the video.

  • @GreenSlugg 1 you have not watched the video fully cause you would no she is addressing the fact she got dismissed because of a syndrome not being light-skinned. 2 you obviously did not read my comment fully because what I am saying is she is trying to put darker skinned women down saying we're always playing the victim when she the one crying on a video 3 you mean preference in you last line so who really is the idiot in this little comment battle

  • mayne i hate this world if people have 2 defend themselves 4 being; black, fat, gay, muslim. seriously y shld some1 defend themselves 4 being who they r.its nature. ppl can b so cruel

  • @MsHomax Dude, Christians and Jews are persecuted a lot harder in this world than Muslims, when it comes to being persecuted for your faith. Muslims are probably more persecuted in general, but it is not persecution from Christians, it is persecution from the Islamic holy books. Koran says that women have half of the mind of a man+ They are also not allowed to cry rape unless 4 men of good standing witnessed the penis head entering into the vagina. The Bible says that men and woman r of = value!