Culture is the identity that groups of humans give themselves to maintain a collective identity - per country and/or nationality. We can change this id. as many times as we want... We can also identify the many people that so-called perpetuate all social institutions to destroy a given race or ethnic subculture... Bottom line, the problem here is not media, politics, racism, hate.... the problem radiates with a departure from God.... The only solution is God, not a social program.
There is nothing surprising to expect of the media.... Satan many times operates through it - to confuse and destroy people.... You must put your sight on Jesus and not believe nothing else..... The solution is not by having all these honesty talks about white suppremacy and the media portraying labels or stereotypes... the solution is Jesus.....
Of coursel, I have problems with Jay Z, Nellie and many other rap crap artists. Do some basic research before you talk from the side of your butt and assume something that is obviously incorrect. Just google "Pearl Jr" and you'll find article complaining about Nellie as well.
Visit my website: BlackWomenNeedLoveToo. com and you'll see for yourself.
You all dont seem to have aproblem when Nellie and Jay Z , and 50 Cent call you nappy head hoes, and female dogs and toilet stools, and the baby aint mine.Most of those women look like lesbians.
Oh so all of a sudden Don Imus is a bad guy when the only reason we aren't walking around in chains is because of an ammendment. Ha!! Don Imus is the voice of America- they donb
't want us here! If thwey could put us all on9 a boat and send us back to africa they would beleive me. I hate America and everything she stands for. Black Power
Is not the fault of whites that you are how you are... Is the fault of yourselves that you are how you are... Stop blaming innocents - you do that all the time... Stop crying about how others are so racists w/ you and start becoming functional / succesfful people for crying out loud.
i see what u are saying ....at first! dont u dare call u or any white person "innocent" because that is a stupid misconception brought up more by the media showing u guys as pussies and little whore virgins - as opposed to black people as aggressive and lazy and whores in general(dirty ghetto whores)...now when u step outside of the boob tube and possibly ur community u see most of this is not even true and just cause some fit the mold since when do some represent an entirety?
ky mace says it best on here -"why cant people just see people as people"? seriously! look past certain neighborhoods! look past media! dont blame every people for some people! and the hip hop community is fucked up! but many in the black community have tried over and over again to mend it and their have been improvements- what u need to think about is who controls the air waves? media? just cause u dont see a white dude in a rap video dont mean he aint got nothing to do with it! u got to think!
Racism sucks. Sexism sucks. Black women have it the worst cuz they've got to deal with both. Some of the strongest ppl in the world must be black women. Why can't people just see people as people.
when you count for how many hours you thought and talked about this issue and account for that invested time=it will be zero a result.
for that you will continue your useless laziness as this is a save way to get angry at the failures of others.i promise you-you will get no where with this talk.
your kids will ask you when they grow older "why black people don't do nothing"-what will you answer? "well, sweetheart we did do something-we came together in the past and talked about it."
obviously just sitting around and talking isn't going to be enough. But what do you propose-- not even talking about it? Dialogue is the first step to any change. It rallies ppl together, it affects the way we think, it helps us understand why things are the way they are, how we want them to be, and what is necessary to achieve this... it brings us to strategy and effective action. So what do you propose as a solution?
I think the biggest problem is that the newer generations of young minorities actually believe that the music videos and rap songs are what life is supposed to be like for a black person; it is also admittedly a major failure of the parents of these minorities for neglecting their minds. There was a disconnect somewhere in the home and the evidence is in the test scores and grades. It saddens me to see a child with failing grades, sing a rap song as though they'd studied it for hours.
Well if that's the case, I'm so sad. This is why govt. shouldn't allow these rappers to start playing their music using such lyrics. NOW, iS TIME TO PAY... Look at our current generation... Its all lost.
What would these rappers say to that? They will probably do what they do all the time, just point the finger at parents... Sure it is parent's fault (99 %), but when they turn the T.V. on or turn the Radio on... What do they hear? What is there available?
yes pants - many young people follow these music vids but u know just to say that is stupid because what did we follow when we were youth? our parents? we all had rebellious music that scared our elders and while i think rap of today is completely bonkers its not far from what was said about elvis and his gyrations in the 50's! or boy band groups in the 80's! what we need to do is not blame our youth - we need to educate them! speak to them on their level-remember when u were younger
whoelseneedspants: AMEN, it's sad to see these kids behave in this manner...BM/ we gotta do better, we're not doing what we're supposed to be doing...look at the videos, that's all these youngsters see, and the white owned labels are telling them to put that bullshit out...they claim to be thugs but will jump up and down for a cracker...they're boys, not real men...
4:50 - 5:23, You said it sister. I say this to shut down the sterotype. I've said almost those exact words. "Those images are lies". These Rap Artist don't talk the the women in their lives like this! It's Crap. This is a FANTASY for some. The men that were raised along with me (my brothers) treat women with respect. Simply because they witnessed our Dad treat our MOM with respect. We were raised in church participated in family outings, & 'get togethers'. They knew better. Now they're married
media aint done shit. this is what brothas go through and experiences. Don Imus is she stating the obvious. a black woman said to me, white men speak that language.
the irony is that the Don Imus fiasco has offended alot of BW, but for the most part, it was offended by bw that, they, themselves dont even wear their own hair natural, alot perm and/or wear weaves and extensions as if it is their own hair, so they too must believe the hype that something is wrong with the hair that grows out of their scalp...
and quite frankly there are more pressing matters effecting the black comm. today that whole matter was so trivial
i'm natural trust, and the most negative comments I get are from black/asian people. The compliments I get are from white people...I'm not looking for compliments but thats what I get when i wear my hair natural (no relaxer, no press, no extensions or weave). It just makes me realize that whites saw the beauty in black women so they tried to disguise that admiration with insults and slurs. Whites know the truth, black people just have to find it now.
be mindful whites see the natural hair and dont think beauty they think that's one less person to compete with becasue natural black hair is not VALUED in western society so they are in fact patronizing you. You will see more ww envious of beyonce than india ire thats for sure noone complements if they are threatened by you.
I never thought of it like that. You make a really good point, but at the same time, for me to go around thinking like that would be too jaded. I'll take the compliment and keep it moving. Once again, I don't seek out the compliments, they are unsolicited. At the same time, I do what I can and let G-d take care of the rest. :D
Stop responding to the recessive mutant queens!!!!!!!!That's where they get there strength from you paying attention....leave the devil to the GODS time is ticking we will deal with the mutant
It's that easy, the music no longer represents us, it represents corporate interests not ours!
Just turn it off! Reject it! tell others to reject it!
Use yourself as an advertisement for new positive music and growth. It is that easy! TURN OFF THE RADIO! We've come up with other forms of music, we'll do it again!
The Sis. @ 4:46 hit the nail on the head for me. The hip-hop on the radio doesn't represent Hip-Hop, the REAL African-American MEN, or African American culture. It is the capitalistic culture that is sexually focused to the point of operating w/o morality, that is the catalytic culprit.
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so called black women are monkeys and monsters. they are the most hideous looking women on the planet....and the truth is they aren't even real black women...they are a monstrous mixture that should be avoided at all cost by black men
no you're the fool blackman....if you keep fuckin around with these monster women aka so called "black women" you need to learn your history.....and understand.....these women are not your women.....but were given to you by the slave masters who conquered you when you were black moors. then raped your women to produce and enhance his woman's features
you mixed with them so long you've forgotten what a real woman looks like....and how a real woman acts like. these mosnters are not to be mixed with they are the lowest of life forms
waffleiron is white why are you responding to him and giving him credibility as a human with human thoughts and ideas. Only inate evil doers can think it is normal to talk like it is doing. dont respond to things like it and it will not even exist. Peace
actually bastard she isn't one of those monsters i'm speaking about....but what's that got do to with anything? you lowlife cocksucker. she has the videos i want bitch...it's not like i'm dating her you simple son of a bitch. your whore mother on the other hands that's someone that clearly needs to be wiped off the planet you lose
Thisis the truth. Why force on people what will never happen anyway? Enough already! If blacks wanted to unite we would have done that already! Time is and has been ticking away! LOL
It amazes me how BW go to college to get these plush government jobs so they can move far from the hood but they love hood niggas. In other words they don't want 2 deal with the consequences of hood life but love 2 help perpetuate it for other people to deal with. We sow as individuals what we wouldn't want to reap as a community. So she thinks when chooses 2 have kids by a (Thug) or guy with no upward mobility that it dont effect no one else, but we (da community) pay da welfare foodstamps, ect
You know whats sad... that song about black brother strong brother, I will love ya... you know that song by angie stone, i think. That song was written by a black man.
Don't you guys see the propaganda?! Gosh, has black people let 'white' statistics basically rule their thought processes? This 70% crap was said so that we can all turn on each other and increase the gap between the black male and female. WTF!! Both genders are to blame as to why the community is in an uproar. Instead of attacking each other, why don't you put more effort into the communities and teaching the young ones to love and embrace their blackness. This blame game is really dumb...
I think the root of the problem stems from the way black women wear their hair. The "Fried" look emulates whites, clear and simple. That's disrespectful to black men on a very basic if not subliminal level. Get it ? Don't respect black men and they will never respect you. Want to sleep with you - yes...respect you ? No.
The problem does not stop there but the hostility you are talking about begins there. Why not strive to look more like yourself and therein honor the black man ?
I think many Black women r afraid 2wear their hair in its normal afro natural state bcos they fear that noone wil find them attractive especially a black man.
Plus we dont hear men (of any colour) in their droves lamenting that 'Ah yeah I wanna find a black woman with the thickest short afro, so beautiful'
We just do not hear or see anything tht wud substantiate those kinds of comments (i no media white owned) what we do c alot of is Black men dating & wanting WF specially wen theyre sucessful.
There's no excuse for any man to call women disrespectful names in music no matter cal kind of music it is and to the women no matter what your situation is,appearing in a video dancing like a you know what is not a real job.
I wrote the book, Black Women Need Love, too! It's all about what we are talking about here and why I do what I do.
No matter what BM MUST do better for the sake of saving the race. BW already do too much of YOUR work--child rearing, career, getting educated, domestic duties, etc. Didn't your mother do all that plus love and nurture you?
yes she did but it was not because she had felt that it was someone job it was because she knew that she didn't have 2 relie on a man 2 do it 4 her as any women should a women love/devotion should not be won/$bought$ over by a man(supposite)obligation BW are able individuals have u read the civil rights act.remember less control=more respect the more control u give some man,education,domestic,career, aka:stroke,etc.over u then the less u will be respected
I have A, One, singular BM. Thank God ALL are not terrible, but too many are--to the tune of over 60 percent, which is a FAIL! BM must take responsibility for being men, which is to provide and protect and when they do this, the entire Black community will benefit, not just a few. Most BM with anything have come to realize that yes, it's natural for a woman to be attracted to a man who can provide and protect--stop whining about it--it's just nature!!
well u know alot about the BM role &responsibities,so 4rm your point of view was the BW role &responsibities?,what do u have 2 offer? whats ur compatibility? what is meaning of equality between BW & BM? im not whinnig im just picking ur brain so"educate me"
im just penpointing&helping"U"2understand blkmen a little better but by ur comment,it helps 2 reinforce fact that u have hidden/selfish agendas which there is nothing wrong with looking out 4urself.but women have a bad habit of not holding themselves accountable 4 their own acts,otherwise it would of been alot easier 4u 2 decphire my?(<)&thus learning i wasnt bein racsist 2my own,i wasnt talkin about all blk women&i worked toward making myself a better blk man,soTHANKS 4avoiding my?.DEE,DEE,DEE
when i was 18yrs old &was making $4.75hr women wouldn't get at me because i didn't make enough$(even though i keeped a job),now fastward 4yrs 2 10yrs later now im well situated &the same women that put me down is now steping 4 a chance,why now?why not then?if u seen my potential why wait until u see that it now paying off 2 acknowledge me?that shit makes me fill used.&thats were the blk women losses their respect.
STEREOTYPICAL! BW, more than any other women, will accept a BM with nothing. Be real, White, Asian, & Jewish women live the BEST off their men's wealth. Those men know to make something of themself so they can have a wonderful family. BW are the least provider for women in the country!
You are being a racist against your own kind.
BM need to grow up! EVERY woman wants a man that can provide for them, their children & community--DAH!
+plus pearljr sense u brung up the jewish,chinese,whites takin better care of their women/kids they also beat ,enmotionally mistreat,curse, tell them how 2 dress,&speak 2 them like trash but im guessing that's what u want. so baby im already grownup but i'll let u know something if u want a blkman 2 respect/love/provide then show him ur independents/unity/love is earned ¬ $bought$ then maybe u'll grow up.LATER!!
Did I hurt your feelings by telling you the responsibilities of a man. I have a wonderful man, who loves, honors and cherishes me. Women who have men provide for them are NOT mistreated--how twisted.
More BW need to learn that if a man cannot provide then he gets no sex, love, or attention--then maybe the Black community can finally be equal & not filled with poverty and crime--men are supposed to keep that at a minimum! Stop Whinning and putting down BW!
im not whinning whaww!whaww! im just sharing opinion/guestions unlike u (have u readed what ur sayin)u just contradicted ur last comment so basically ur argument is totally indisputable cause ur trying 2 lead upon the notation that BM are irresponsible &need 2 grow up but yet look who ur wit?(ex)-that like me sayin i like talking 2 u but i cant stand ur voice !!come on now!! ur not winning this
I am more concerned with the choices Black women make when it comes to relationships. It seems like a lot of Black women choose assholes instead of Black men that are trying to treat a Black woman with respect. If they do "date" a "nice" Black man, they treat him like a doormat.
black women stop making excuses, loose the attitudes, weave, learn how to cook for your damn man, leave the thugs alone, loose some weight, loose the loud mouths, and stop blaming black men for all your problems
I am going to be honest about this. I have been waiting for that so called good bw to show in my life. If there are so many then where are they? Being a very capable bm, I can jump to stability or whatever in a heart beat. I find that finding attractive, shed her blood for me as I would shed mine for her, building a life together bw just isn't out there. She use to exist I mean use to.
Bullshit, you are not looking. Try book clubs, spa's, gyms, the library, political parties. There are more black females getting educated than black men. So there are more good black women than good black men.
Why is that some people are not seeing the truth why 70% bw are single when their is a shortage crisis with bm. Prison, prison prison, killing each other, gayism/dl style and bm dating outside his race. Black women are realizing that they got to be do better.
Yeah maipai101, we black men are terrible aren't we? I think a white man is best for you. We educated black men don't want you, you are too arrogant just like the people in this video. I love my black women best believe that! Esp the one like the person that started speaking at 4:45. Now that is a real black woman, unlike you I am afraid
Sadly you don't know me so you have no right to make judgments on me. I'm just being honest. The women in this video aren't arrogant they are just trying to tell you something and you are NOT LISTENING! Black women have heard enough from black men. Now shut up and listen.
identity crisis is at the heart of this issue. black women cannot accept themselves (ie they straighten their hair) if they don't love themselves why does it become the man's job?
if black women worked there ears, as much as they work there mouths, they wouldn't be single, and least diserable. sistas shut your mouths, for one damn second, and let brothas say what they got to say, and actually listen, instead of acting like little 10 year old babies, bitching & moaning. You sistas got talk show, radios, magazines, internet blogs, doggin bm. do sistas feel they're superior to brothas? of course..
i'm sorry to see amanahill7 had to resort to name calling and i apologize to my peers who notified me of this, as we seek the empowerment of black people period. feminism which was established by jews to suggest to the black woman it was her gender not race that was keeping her down. to bad that argument can't be applied to the black man. remember it was always about color. nothing has changed.
And why is it even necessary for you to bring the jews into a discussion about black women? Why does it matter what the jews said or did? We need to worry about finding solutions for the problems brought on by our own black people in the black community and not blaming the jews.
I agree. I notice everytime our people speak of growth, eventually someone else will be blamed. It is not until we take 100% resonsibilty for our lives, communites, familes, finances that we will rise. The Jews have nothing to do with why we can't balance a check book or why we drop out of school, etc.
Not 100% true. Gender has played a HUGE part in the degrading of women. Men have seen woman as less than for years. Still do, I talk with Bm everyday about this. So sexism is another factor that devides us.
you don't and will not have ownership of our community the jews have it, every pre packaged food item you purchase goes to jewish org. jewsrun the media which shapes perception, jews held majority of slaves, jews owned most of the slave ships, jews committed the most heinous crimes (hanging/lynching/castrations/torture/rape/murder)thats our problem and nothing is gonna be done until they are dealt with
Blame blame blame. Is it the jews who tell us to call each other these names, or are you going to feign brainwash? I really think you should read either a history book or remain behind a computer because, your stupidity is safer there.
no need to try and degrade, try to be intellectually your best when posting it doesn't become anyone to call names like you are in elementary school. now back to facts, the jews were the first to use a deragatory term for blacks, they replaced blackpower for black women with jewish established feminism
I hate shit like this...if your going to make a show everybody has to be well mic'ed. Every who speaks needs a microphone to be heard clearly.When making a video always have the viewers experience in mind!
Appropriateness is judged by the surrounding circumstances. I wish I could have mic'd everyone, but it was not happening with 35 women in the room. Who carries around 35 mics or will wait until everyone gets mic'd--come on man--we aren't a multi-million dollar company, yet.
None of these women would qualify as hos, even the younger ones. Too many people are believing the hype lie that hip hop music videos has spread all across the world.
Simply shameful and disgraceful! Where there are hos, there are also a huge number of dawgs.
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Most black people in America are so lost. Both the men and women are horrible creatures, incapable of getting along in relationships and in this world. Black women are seen as hos because they have horrible, materialistic attitudes.
What I notice that black people who are on youtube are the real troopers. They're the one who takes time to make videos either uplifting us. I feel that the blacks on youtube or any other media outlet should get together.
why do you think black women are the least married in america and black men in third only behind white women and men, there's not that many more black women then men, you need to teach these girls you can't act like a ho and expect to get treated like a women.
I think older women need to school alot of these younger girls on that because the amount of ho's 18 to 26 is out of control especially at colleges. The way I see it there's alot of good black men the amount of good black women is very questionable,
I am not being naive. The amount of good black men is not high but many Black women think they are so great. REality check, men do not think this. A 70% singularity rate amongst black women is a clear indicator all is not well.
No its not. You have been watching too much Oprah. That 70% implies that these women are single because the numbers are not there. Black men killing each other,AIDs,gayism,down low, imprisoned,low paying jobs,thugs on the street and other problems make it difficult for a sistah to come in contact with a good black man. Besides, some of these women have been divorced. Some BW are happy (Oprah) with being single. Others are too busy (Condelisa)with their career right now.
Another problem is women just being ho's, if you're a women and your having sex with alot of guys your a ho,that how it is with every race, no one will change that,and if your a ho men are not going to have any respect for you and will treat you accordingly(that goes for white,black,whatever).
Its funny to me the way feminist always want to blame men for things that are under females control.I think if you want more respect you have to start with yourselves, you see I have this theory womens greatest enemy is yourselves, I don't understand why women come to the club dressed like ho's dance like ho's and don't expect to get treated like ho's.
bmorris, your mentality is one of the major reasons why the Black family is so broken up, because you have no knowledge or respect for the value of love between a man and a woman.
If any of you beautiful sistas need a man (or just want one) holla at me. I have a job. I have a car. I have goals. I'm disease free. I'm not on the down low. And I'm single as hell. Oh and I'm kinda smart too.
Culture is the identity that groups of humans give themselves to maintain a collective identity - per country and/or nationality. We can change this id. as many times as we want... We can also identify the many people that so-called perpetuate all social institutions to destroy a given race or ethnic subculture... Bottom line, the problem here is not media, politics, racism, hate.... the problem radiates with a departure from God.... The only solution is God, not a social program.
jesus7es7dios7 8 months ago
There is nothing surprising to expect of the media.... Satan many times operates through it - to confuse and destroy people.... You must put your sight on Jesus and not believe nothing else..... The solution is not by having all these honesty talks about white suppremacy and the media portraying labels or stereotypes... the solution is Jesus.....
jesus7es7dios7 8 months ago
most of these girls mixed and they complaining about being black! damn the dark skinned girls must be really depressed!
kg062007 1 year ago
we're all red on the inside
lilgogohead 1 year ago
Those are some beautiful women.
MANDAWAH 1 year ago
Of coursel, I have problems with Jay Z, Nellie and many other rap crap artists. Do some basic research before you talk from the side of your butt and assume something that is obviously incorrect. Just google "Pearl Jr" and you'll find article complaining about Nellie as well.
Visit my website: BlackWomenNeedLoveToo. com and you'll see for yourself.
Lesbians are women, too!
Pearljr 1 year ago
You all dont seem to have aproblem when Nellie and Jay Z , and 50 Cent call you nappy head hoes, and female dogs and toilet stools, and the baby aint mine.Most of those women look like lesbians.
tbursee 1 year ago
Oh so all of a sudden Don Imus is a bad guy when the only reason we aren't walking around in chains is because of an ammendment. Ha!! Don Imus is the voice of America- they donb
't want us here! If thwey could put us all on9 a boat and send us back to africa they would beleive me. I hate America and everything she stands for. Black Power
latashalee94 1 year ago
why doesnt BET show talks and programmes like these? other tv channels are not gonna promote things like this because they dont care for us
afrakomahateshaters 2 years ago 2
Go to school and learn that in order for slavery and continual oppression to exist, Black MUST be taught to hate themselves.
You are one ignorant, shallow thinking racist fool.
Move on, if you dont' like it! Why are you even interested!
Because your racist evil mind needs a place to vent all you hatred.
Get on!!!!! You are stupid, dumb, and too ignorant to know it!
Pearljr 2 years ago
Part 3:
Is not the fault of whites that you are how you are... Is the fault of yourselves that you are how you are... Stop blaming innocents - you do that all the time... Stop crying about how others are so racists w/ you and start becoming functional / succesfful people for crying out loud.
criticalage 2 years ago
i see what u are saying ....at first! dont u dare call u or any white person "innocent" because that is a stupid misconception brought up more by the media showing u guys as pussies and little whore virgins - as opposed to black people as aggressive and lazy and whores in general(dirty ghetto whores)...now when u step outside of the boob tube and possibly ur community u see most of this is not even true and just cause some fit the mold since when do some represent an entirety?
brebre1920 2 years ago
Part 2:
So, here we have people (black women) saying that Imus was racist... What about rappers... that use bulgar and obscene language?
Moreover, WHere would our children be getting these neg. stereotypes about blacks?
a) Rap / Hip Hop
b) T.V.
c) Don Imus
d) Mom
e) None of the Above
f) Both a & b
The commercialization of hip hop due to white society? Are freakn kiddin' me? How did white society FORCED hip hop down your throats?
criticalage 2 years ago
ky mace says it best on here -"why cant people just see people as people"? seriously! look past certain neighborhoods! look past media! dont blame every people for some people! and the hip hop community is fucked up! but many in the black community have tried over and over again to mend it and their have been improvements- what u need to think about is who controls the air waves? media? just cause u dont see a white dude in a rap video dont mean he aint got nothing to do with it! u got to think!
brebre1920 2 years ago
Racism sucks. Sexism sucks. Black women have it the worst cuz they've got to deal with both. Some of the strongest ppl in the world must be black women. Why can't people just see people as people.
KyMace 2 years ago
when you count for how many hours you thought and talked about this issue and account for that invested time=it will be zero a result.
for that you will continue your useless laziness as this is a save way to get angry at the failures of others.i promise you-you will get no where with this talk.
your kids will ask you when they grow older "why black people don't do nothing"-what will you answer? "well, sweetheart we did do something-we came together in the past and talked about it."
exploited222 2 years ago
obviously just sitting around and talking isn't going to be enough. But what do you propose-- not even talking about it? Dialogue is the first step to any change. It rallies ppl together, it affects the way we think, it helps us understand why things are the way they are, how we want them to be, and what is necessary to achieve this... it brings us to strategy and effective action. So what do you propose as a solution?
KyMace 2 years ago
it's a system of racism
05311990frog 2 years ago
I think the biggest problem is that the newer generations of young minorities actually believe that the music videos and rap songs are what life is supposed to be like for a black person; it is also admittedly a major failure of the parents of these minorities for neglecting their minds. There was a disconnect somewhere in the home and the evidence is in the test scores and grades. It saddens me to see a child with failing grades, sing a rap song as though they'd studied it for hours.
whoelseneedspants 2 years ago 2
Part 1:
Well if that's the case, I'm so sad. This is why govt. shouldn't allow these rappers to start playing their music using such lyrics. NOW, iS TIME TO PAY... Look at our current generation... Its all lost.
What would these rappers say to that? They will probably do what they do all the time, just point the finger at parents... Sure it is parent's fault (99 %), but when they turn the T.V. on or turn the Radio on... What do they hear? What is there available?
How terrible!
criticalage 2 years ago
yes pants - many young people follow these music vids but u know just to say that is stupid because what did we follow when we were youth? our parents? we all had rebellious music that scared our elders and while i think rap of today is completely bonkers its not far from what was said about elvis and his gyrations in the 50's! or boy band groups in the 80's! what we need to do is not blame our youth - we need to educate them! speak to them on their level-remember when u were younger
brebre1920 2 years ago
whoelseneedspants: AMEN, it's sad to see these kids behave in this manner...BM/ we gotta do better, we're not doing what we're supposed to be doing...look at the videos, that's all these youngsters see, and the white owned labels are telling them to put that bullshit out...they claim to be thugs but will jump up and down for a cracker...they're boys, not real men...
slickkapone 2 years ago
4:50 - 5:23, You said it sister. I say this to shut down the sterotype. I've said almost those exact words. "Those images are lies". These Rap Artist don't talk the the women in their lives like this! It's Crap. This is a FANTASY for some. The men that were raised along with me (my brothers) treat women with respect. Simply because they witnessed our Dad treat our MOM with respect. We were raised in church participated in family outings, & 'get togethers'. They knew better. Now they're married
filmtress 2 years ago
media aint done shit. this is what brothas go through and experiences. Don Imus is she stating the obvious. a black woman said to me, white men speak that language.
champcarkoolmild 2 years ago
the irony is that the Don Imus fiasco has offended alot of BW, but for the most part, it was offended by bw that, they, themselves dont even wear their own hair natural, alot perm and/or wear weaves and extensions as if it is their own hair, so they too must believe the hype that something is wrong with the hair that grows out of their scalp...
and quite frankly there are more pressing matters effecting the black comm. today that whole matter was so trivial
onyxxx101 2 years ago 2
i'm natural trust, and the most negative comments I get are from black/asian people. The compliments I get are from white people...I'm not looking for compliments but thats what I get when i wear my hair natural (no relaxer, no press, no extensions or weave). It just makes me realize that whites saw the beauty in black women so they tried to disguise that admiration with insults and slurs. Whites know the truth, black people just have to find it now.
NaaAdjoa 2 years ago
be mindful whites see the natural hair and dont think beauty they think that's one less person to compete with becasue natural black hair is not VALUED in western society so they are in fact patronizing you. You will see more ww envious of beyonce than india ire thats for sure noone complements if they are threatened by you.
dlfunky 2 years ago
I never thought of it like that. You make a really good point, but at the same time, for me to go around thinking like that would be too jaded. I'll take the compliment and keep it moving. Once again, I don't seek out the compliments, they are unsolicited. At the same time, I do what I can and let G-d take care of the rest. :D
NaaAdjoa 2 years ago
That was a coon statement. Whites know the truth, what truth? Are you serious?
kmg0330 2 years ago
Tell them Sister Onyxxx!
EV
Evens1 2 years ago
Stop responding to the recessive mutant queens!!!!!!!!That's where they get there strength from you paying attention....leave the devil to the GODS time is ticking we will deal with the mutant
bornready79 2 years ago
To hell with hip hop!
It's that easy, the music no longer represents us, it represents corporate interests not ours!
Just turn it off! Reject it! tell others to reject it!
Use yourself as an advertisement for new positive music and growth. It is that easy! TURN OFF THE RADIO! We've come up with other forms of music, we'll do it again!
LANSING52 2 years ago
The Sis. @ 4:46 hit the nail on the head for me. The hip-hop on the radio doesn't represent Hip-Hop, the REAL African-American MEN, or African American culture. It is the capitalistic culture that is sexually focused to the point of operating w/o morality, that is the catalytic culprit.
LadyLibraNMore 3 years ago
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so called black women are monkeys and monsters. they are the most hideous looking women on the planet....and the truth is they aren't even real black women...they are a monstrous mixture that should be avoided at all cost by black men
waffleirontmacsplat 3 years ago
You poor sick little easily manipulated weak-minded man who has fell for the bamboozle of conquer and divide.
I feel so very sorry for you!
Pearljr 3 years ago
no you're the fool blackman....if you keep fuckin around with these monster women aka so called "black women" you need to learn your history.....and understand.....these women are not your women.....but were given to you by the slave masters who conquered you when you were black moors. then raped your women to produce and enhance his woman's features
waffelirontmacsplat 3 years ago 2
@waffelirontmacsplat
you're obviously threatened by us black women. i dont blame you
darealistist 1 year ago
you mixed with them so long you've forgotten what a real woman looks like....and how a real woman acts like. these mosnters are not to be mixed with they are the lowest of life forms
waffelirontmacsplat 3 years ago 2
waffleiron is white why are you responding to him and giving him credibility as a human with human thoughts and ideas. Only inate evil doers can think it is normal to talk like it is doing. dont respond to things like it and it will not even exist. Peace
xanmere 2 years ago
I find it funny that the one person you are subscribed to on youtube is clearly a women of mixed heritage. I guess you like that "monstrous mixture".
Ha, Ha, HAAAAAA
wensou 3 years ago
actually bastard she isn't one of those monsters i'm speaking about....but what's that got do to with anything? you lowlife cocksucker. she has the videos i want bitch...it's not like i'm dating her you simple son of a bitch. your whore mother on the other hands that's someone that clearly needs to be wiped off the planet you lose
waffleirontmacsplat 3 years ago
Of course you're not dating her. You can't date anyone from your mothers basement.
wensou 3 years ago
i dont see no other solution, but to go back to africa!!!
WE-BLACKS need to BOYCOTT dem celeberties that dosent promote BLACK UNITY !
PROMOTE BLACK UNITY !
OR DIE !!1!
MMAJISTY 3 years ago
no such thing as black unity, it's not possible. You're humans not Borg.
xxShannonGreenxx 3 years ago
Thisis the truth. Why force on people what will never happen anyway? Enough already! If blacks wanted to unite we would have done that already! Time is and has been ticking away! LOL
jrmetmoi 2 years ago
It amazes me how BW go to college to get these plush government jobs so they can move far from the hood but they love hood niggas. In other words they don't want 2 deal with the consequences of hood life but love 2 help perpetuate it for other people to deal with. We sow as individuals what we wouldn't want to reap as a community. So she thinks when chooses 2 have kids by a (Thug) or guy with no upward mobility that it dont effect no one else, but we (da community) pay da welfare foodstamps, ect
ajw21778 3 years ago
OMGoodness I thought I was the only one that thought Michael Jackson looked like Speed Racer and some of those anime cartoons.
lalachanel 3 years ago
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brickwood 3 years ago
the only way my sistas can win is by promoting " POSITIVE BLACK MALES "..
" WHERE TO FIND POSITIVE BLACK MEN "?
WELL ?, INSTEAD OF NIGHTCLUBS , we need to start a BLACK CULTURAL TRADITION in a HOOK-UP organization , where POSITIVE BLACK SINGLES CAN MEET !
NO HIPHOP GANSTAS ALLOWED !
IM A BLACK MALE , SUPPORTING BLACK UNITY MINDED SISTAS !...
BLACK UNITY ALLOWED !
MMAJISTY 3 years ago 2
You know whats sad... that song about black brother strong brother, I will love ya... you know that song by angie stone, i think. That song was written by a black man.
stoldgar 3 years ago
Don't you guys see the propaganda?! Gosh, has black people let 'white' statistics basically rule their thought processes? This 70% crap was said so that we can all turn on each other and increase the gap between the black male and female. WTF!! Both genders are to blame as to why the community is in an uproar. Instead of attacking each other, why don't you put more effort into the communities and teaching the young ones to love and embrace their blackness. This blame game is really dumb...
momobyon 3 years ago
I think the root of the problem stems from the way black women wear their hair. The "Fried" look emulates whites, clear and simple. That's disrespectful to black men on a very basic if not subliminal level. Get it ? Don't respect black men and they will never respect you. Want to sleep with you - yes...respect you ? No.
The problem does not stop there but the hostility you are talking about begins there. Why not strive to look more like yourself and therein honor the black man ?
doncollins197 3 years ago
I think many Black women r afraid 2wear their hair in its normal afro natural state bcos they fear that noone wil find them attractive especially a black man.
Plus we dont hear men (of any colour) in their droves lamenting that 'Ah yeah I wanna find a black woman with the thickest short afro, so beautiful'
We just do not hear or see anything tht wud substantiate those kinds of comments (i no media white owned) what we do c alot of is Black men dating & wanting WF specially wen theyre sucessful.
Applebaum 3 years ago 2
There's no excuse for any man to call women disrespectful names in music no matter cal kind of music it is and to the women no matter what your situation is,appearing in a video dancing like a you know what is not a real job.
mightyblack1 3 years ago
Micheal jack son did it
his going in foreclosure behind borrowing money from paying lawyers and stuff
also r kelly to paid out alot of money too
heres22 3 years ago
I wrote the book, Black Women Need Love, too! It's all about what we are talking about here and why I do what I do.
No matter what BM MUST do better for the sake of saving the race. BW already do too much of YOUR work--child rearing, career, getting educated, domestic duties, etc. Didn't your mother do all that plus love and nurture you?
Check out the website: BlackWomenNeedLoveToo. com
Pearljr 3 years ago
yes she did but it was not because she had felt that it was someone job it was because she knew that she didn't have 2 relie on a man 2 do it 4 her as any women should a women love/devotion should not be won/$bought$ over by a man(supposite)obligation BW are able individuals have u read the civil rights act.remember less control=more respect the more control u give some man,education,domestic,career, aka:stroke,etc.over u then the less u will be respected
bluntsligginer 3 years ago
I have A, One, singular BM. Thank God ALL are not terrible, but too many are--to the tune of over 60 percent, which is a FAIL! BM must take responsibility for being men, which is to provide and protect and when they do this, the entire Black community will benefit, not just a few. Most BM with anything have come to realize that yes, it's natural for a woman to be attracted to a man who can provide and protect--stop whining about it--it's just nature!!
Pearljr 3 years ago
well u know alot about the BM role &responsibities,so 4rm your point of view was the BW role &responsibities?,what do u have 2 offer? whats ur compatibility? what is meaning of equality between BW & BM? im not whinnig im just picking ur brain so"educate me"
bluntsligginer 3 years ago
im just penpointing&helping"U"2understand blkmen a little better but by ur comment,it helps 2 reinforce fact that u have hidden/selfish agendas which there is nothing wrong with looking out 4urself.but women have a bad habit of not holding themselves accountable 4 their own acts,otherwise it would of been alot easier 4u 2 decphire my?(<)&thus learning i wasnt bein racsist 2my own,i wasnt talkin about all blk women&i worked toward making myself a better blk man,soTHANKS 4avoiding my?.DEE,DEE,DEE
bluntsligginer 3 years ago
when i was 18yrs old &was making $4.75hr women wouldn't get at me because i didn't make enough$(even though i keeped a job),now fastward 4yrs 2 10yrs later now im well situated &the same women that put me down is now steping 4 a chance,why now?why not then?if u seen my potential why wait until u see that it now paying off 2 acknowledge me?that shit makes me fill used.&thats were the blk women losses their respect.
bluntsligginer 3 years ago
STEREOTYPICAL! BW, more than any other women, will accept a BM with nothing. Be real, White, Asian, & Jewish women live the BEST off their men's wealth. Those men know to make something of themself so they can have a wonderful family. BW are the least provider for women in the country!
You are being a racist against your own kind.
BM need to grow up! EVERY woman wants a man that can provide for them, their children & community--DAH!
Pearljr 3 years ago
+plus pearljr sense u brung up the jewish,chinese,whites takin better care of their women/kids they also beat ,enmotionally mistreat,curse, tell them how 2 dress,&speak 2 them like trash but im guessing that's what u want. so baby im already grownup but i'll let u know something if u want a blkman 2 respect/love/provide then show him ur independents/unity/love is earned ¬ $bought$ then maybe u'll grow up.LATER!!
bluntsligginer 3 years ago
Did I hurt your feelings by telling you the responsibilities of a man. I have a wonderful man, who loves, honors and cherishes me. Women who have men provide for them are NOT mistreated--how twisted.
More BW need to learn that if a man cannot provide then he gets no sex, love, or attention--then maybe the Black community can finally be equal & not filled with poverty and crime--men are supposed to keep that at a minimum! Stop Whinning and putting down BW!
Pearljr 3 years ago
im not whinning whaww!whaww! im just sharing opinion/guestions unlike u (have u readed what ur sayin)u just contradicted ur last comment so basically ur argument is totally indisputable cause ur trying 2 lead upon the notation that BM are irresponsible &need 2 grow up but yet look who ur wit?(ex)-that like me sayin i like talking 2 u but i cant stand ur voice !!come on now!! ur not winning this
bluntsligginer 3 years ago
Back then they didn't want you now hot they all on you? LOL, you a paycheck worthy of paying child support. Piss them off and wear a condom
stoldgar 3 years ago 2
Well what do ya know? More black women kissing the white man's ass and doing everything in their power to please them.
ImmortalBlackThunder 3 years ago
Where are the Black women in this video?
All I see is a bunch of Red Bones!
Bigleedog7 3 years ago
THE MIND IS SOMETHING ELSE
wE HAVE HISTORY TO REMEMBER...
bUT WE FORGET.
wE CAN HAVE THE FAMILY & UNITY WE NATURALLY DESIRE...
bUT AFRICAN RELATIONSHIPS ARE POISONED WITH "IDEOLOGIES AND EGOs, FEMENIST AND REVERSE ROLES."
AFRICAN WOMAN YOU CAN HAVE THE RELATIONSHIP YOU WANT WITH AN AFRICAN MALE, UNEMPLOYED/DISENFRANCHISED OR NOT, IF YOU...
IMPROVE YOUR TRUTH.
equationoracle 3 years ago
What???
mikecockrell 3 years ago 2
Learn how to cook for your man.
Order out...
Fake hair??
Who in the hell cares...
Attitudes??
Please be more specific.
I am more concerned with the choices Black women make when it comes to relationships. It seems like a lot of Black women choose assholes instead of Black men that are trying to treat a Black woman with respect. If they do "date" a "nice" Black man, they treat him like a doormat.
WTFLosAngelesHi 3 years ago
black women stop making excuses, loose the attitudes, weave, learn how to cook for your damn man, leave the thugs alone, loose some weight, loose the loud mouths, and stop blaming black men for all your problems
Washanen07 3 years ago
learn to cook for your man?
kaaramel 3 years ago
I thought a lot of black men blamed black women for THEIR problems as well. HMMMM. Noticing a pattern here?
EyeoftheSun110 3 years ago
this is whta wrong with black women
ashonpar 3 years ago
That Queen at 5:06 was RIGHT ON!!!!!
blacktigerwu 3 years ago
I am going to be honest about this. I have been waiting for that so called good bw to show in my life. If there are so many then where are they? Being a very capable bm, I can jump to stability or whatever in a heart beat. I find that finding attractive, shed her blood for me as I would shed mine for her, building a life together bw just isn't out there. She use to exist I mean use to.
soulnblack 3 years ago
Bullshit, you are not looking. Try book clubs, spa's, gyms, the library, political parties. There are more black females getting educated than black men. So there are more good black women than good black men.
maipai101 3 years ago
Why is that some people are not seeing the truth why 70% bw are single when their is a shortage crisis with bm. Prison, prison prison, killing each other, gayism/dl style and bm dating outside his race. Black women are realizing that they got to be do better.
nyatlorl 3 years ago 2
GET A WHITE MALE AND MOVE TO IDAHO.
redn40 3 years ago
Exactly, black women do have their problems but at the end of the day they are progressing. Black men really aren't.
maipai101 3 years ago
Yeah maipai101, we black men are terrible aren't we? I think a white man is best for you. We educated black men don't want you, you are too arrogant just like the people in this video. I love my black women best believe that! Esp the one like the person that started speaking at 4:45. Now that is a real black woman, unlike you I am afraid
alwaysclever 3 years ago
Sadly you don't know me so you have no right to make judgments on me. I'm just being honest. The women in this video aren't arrogant they are just trying to tell you something and you are NOT LISTENING! Black women have heard enough from black men. Now shut up and listen.
maipai101 3 years ago
identity crisis is at the heart of this issue. black women cannot accept themselves (ie they straighten their hair) if they don't love themselves why does it become the man's job?
doncollins197 3 years ago
if black women worked there ears, as much as they work there mouths, they wouldn't be single, and least diserable. sistas shut your mouths, for one damn second, and let brothas say what they got to say, and actually listen, instead of acting like little 10 year old babies, bitching & moaning. You sistas got talk show, radios, magazines, internet blogs, doggin bm. do sistas feel they're superior to brothas? of course..
Washanen07 4 years ago
washanen
if black men would undertsand statistics they wouldnt misinterpret the "70%" stat
single in that case means unmarried. in that 70% stat, if halle was all black she wouldve been included in that. and oh yeh, she got a man.
ps LEARN how to talk a woman b4 you try to dish out advice
iriewitstyle 3 years ago
Why do you ONLY attack the Rappers about "Soft-Porn" and never the white internet HARDCORE XXX porn pimps?
Please explain this someone?
Black children are watching our women degraded
for cash by white men's fortune 500 filth!
xXNubianQueenXx 4 years ago
i'm sorry to see amanahill7 had to resort to name calling and i apologize to my peers who notified me of this, as we seek the empowerment of black people period. feminism which was established by jews to suggest to the black woman it was her gender not race that was keeping her down. to bad that argument can't be applied to the black man. remember it was always about color. nothing has changed.
rckbttm14 4 years ago
And why is it even necessary for you to bring the jews into a discussion about black women? Why does it matter what the jews said or did? We need to worry about finding solutions for the problems brought on by our own black people in the black community and not blaming the jews.
amanahill7 4 years ago
I agree. I notice everytime our people speak of growth, eventually someone else will be blamed. It is not until we take 100% resonsibilty for our lives, communites, familes, finances that we will rise. The Jews have nothing to do with why we can't balance a check book or why we drop out of school, etc.
nosugarcoatn 4 years ago 2
Not 100% true. Gender has played a HUGE part in the degrading of women. Men have seen woman as less than for years. Still do, I talk with Bm everyday about this. So sexism is another factor that devides us.
nosugarcoatn 4 years ago
Black women raise Black boys and often give them no encouragement to succeed at all, while pushing their daughters to go for higher
and higher heights. The women make the men through nurture and educating the babies.
xXNubianQueenXx 4 years ago
you don't and will not have ownership of our community the jews have it, every pre packaged food item you purchase goes to jewish org. jewsrun the media which shapes perception, jews held majority of slaves, jews owned most of the slave ships, jews committed the most heinous crimes (hanging/lynching/castrations/torture/rape/murder)thats our problem and nothing is gonna be done until they are dealt with
rckbttm14 4 years ago
Blame blame blame. Is it the jews who tell us to call each other these names, or are you going to feign brainwash? I really think you should read either a history book or remain behind a computer because, your stupidity is safer there.
amanahill7 4 years ago
no need to try and degrade, try to be intellectually your best when posting it doesn't become anyone to call names like you are in elementary school. now back to facts, the jews were the first to use a deragatory term for blacks, they replaced blackpower for black women with jewish established feminism
rckbttm14 4 years ago
No body called anyone a name; I didn't call YOU stupid I said the way you spoke and the ideas you spoke of showed stupidity!
amanahill7 4 years ago
I hate shit like this...if your going to make a show everybody has to be well mic'ed. Every who speaks needs a microphone to be heard clearly.When making a video always have the viewers experience in mind!
BlackFinanceTV 4 years ago
Appropriateness is judged by the surrounding circumstances. I wish I could have mic'd everyone, but it was not happening with 35 women in the room. Who carries around 35 mics or will wait until everyone gets mic'd--come on man--we aren't a multi-million dollar company, yet.
Pearljr 4 years ago
None of these women would qualify as hos, even the younger ones. Too many people are believing the hype lie that hip hop music videos has spread all across the world.
Simply shameful and disgraceful! Where there are hos, there are also a huge number of dawgs.
Pearljr 4 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
Most black people in America are so lost. Both the men and women are horrible creatures, incapable of getting along in relationships and in this world. Black women are seen as hos because they have horrible, materialistic attitudes.
saskhub 4 years ago
Amen.
lafemmefidele 4 years ago
What I notice that black people who are on youtube are the real troopers. They're the one who takes time to make videos either uplifting us. I feel that the blacks on youtube or any other media outlet should get together.
Bloodsport1 4 years ago 3
Read top to bottom, its all one comment that I had to break up in four different parts.
bmorris00 4 years ago
why do you think black women are the least married in america and black men in third only behind white women and men, there's not that many more black women then men, you need to teach these girls you can't act like a ho and expect to get treated like a women.
bmorris00 4 years ago
I think older women need to school alot of these younger girls on that because the amount of ho's 18 to 26 is out of control especially at colleges. The way I see it there's alot of good black men the amount of good black women is very questionable,
bmorris00 4 years ago
There are more good black men than women.
saskhub 4 years ago 2
lmfao have u turned on the tv u cant be that naive
DivaAwwKrazy 4 years ago
I am not being naive. The amount of good black men is not high but many Black women think they are so great. REality check, men do not think this. A 70% singularity rate amongst black women is a clear indicator all is not well.
saskhub 4 years ago 2
No its not. You have been watching too much Oprah. That 70% implies that these women are single because the numbers are not there. Black men killing each other,AIDs,gayism,down low, imprisoned,low paying jobs,thugs on the street and other problems make it difficult for a sistah to come in contact with a good black man. Besides, some of these women have been divorced. Some BW are happy (Oprah) with being single. Others are too busy (Condelisa)with their career right now.
SamsCall 4 years ago
Thank you for being so open minded and speaking the truth.
SpecialSecret 4 years ago
Sad fact is the older women teach that mentiality to the young women. when the older women finally gets it together sometimes its too late.
Bloodsport1 4 years ago 2
Another problem is women just being ho's, if you're a women and your having sex with alot of guys your a ho,that how it is with every race, no one will change that,and if your a ho men are not going to have any respect for you and will treat you accordingly(that goes for white,black,whatever).
bmorris00 4 years ago
Its funny to me the way feminist always want to blame men for things that are under females control.I think if you want more respect you have to start with yourselves, you see I have this theory womens greatest enemy is yourselves, I don't understand why women come to the club dressed like ho's dance like ho's and don't expect to get treated like ho's.
bmorris00 4 years ago
bmorris, your mentality is one of the major reasons why the Black family is so broken up, because you have no knowledge or respect for the value of love between a man and a woman.
Backwards thinking for sure!
Pearljr 4 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
A very nice racist, anti-white video. Keep up the bad work, you worthless piece of shit.
suggarshawnray 4 years ago
Yo Spykes, your a pussy.
bmorris00 4 years ago
If any of you beautiful sistas need a man (or just want one) holla at me. I have a job. I have a car. I have goals. I'm disease free. I'm not on the down low. And I'm single as hell. Oh and I'm kinda smart too.
SpykeSpillberg 4 years ago