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  • I have the opposite problem with guys. . Im always off doung my iwn thing.. working and stuff and my bf thinks im purposely blowing him off/: help

  • @xoxoxoTaylorSwift either you need to give him more attention, or he needs to change his mindset to stop being so clingy. I don't know how old you are, but as you get older, guys will generally prefer girls like you, so don't worry so much.

  • I've had an extremely clingy girl who would text me 10 times every day from work and would want to spend every minute of her free time with me, but I didn't mind at all. We may act like we don't care but honestly I really appreciate the fact that you're thinking about me 24/7... means there is no other guy for you in the world ;)

  • I'm not the clingy type, actually wen I have a boyfriend or I lik a guy I try to spend as little time as possible with him but then he gets really clingy:/ oh and jet ur makeup is REALLY pretty I think u girls should do a video on how to do makeup becuz both of ur girl's makeup is just gorgeous:D

  • clingy bitches are so annoying

  • @12345camz dont call them bitches, their not female dogs.

  •  I like clingy girls.

  • I spend alot of time with my boyfriend but now because he complained that I went from this tough independent girl that he fell in love with to this girly wimpy girl that just isnt his type any more so for me I started taking Brazilian Jui Jitsu classes so I become tough and not so clingy anymore (:

  • Hii.. I'm 13 years old. My boyfriend lives in another town which is like 25-30 minutes away. So I only get to see him like once every 2 months. And I miss him all the time! So I text him everyday. And i always tell him I miss him. Is that being to clingy? How can I make plans to see him with out being to clingy because this video made me actually think for once "Am I being to clingy???" Any advice?????

  • In England it's fairly common for girls to not take an interest in guys until they are about 12/13, and plenty of people go to all girls schools like myself so you CAN'T spend every minute with your boyfriend.I just have fun when I'm with my boyfriend when I see him, and text him to see how he is etc.I think they help me to not be as clingy as some girls. I think it's a good idea to simply have fun when you can and keep in touch and you won't feel as pressured to be with him ALL the time.

  • i get over being clingy by playing video games. you just can't step away from your computer once you start gaming hardcore. gotta level up!

  • I used to be super clingy with my boyfriend. but after seven months he decided we should take a break. (i cried, ALOT) But seeing him with other girls changed me. after only a week we got back together. now i dont get as jealous and paranoid seeing him hand out with other girls as before. (=

  • I always go out of my way to see him in the hallways Or When I text him and he doesn't respond, I always text back like 8 times. Is that annoying and to much.???

  • @jensenjones10 Yeah, if he doesn't respond I'd wait a few hours and then reply saying like "Hey, what's up?" or ask him if he wants to hang later or this weekend or something. Or you could just be completely random and say you ate a banana or something. :)

  • round Big and white...

    nice....

  • I love you girls♥ you always make such helpful videos and they're cute and funny at the same time♥ I used to kind of have this problem but then I did what you girls just listed and it was going great until I found out he liked another girl and got friendzoned lol. But yea thanks for making this video it is very helpful and it works. You guys are awesome♥

  • What if your boyfriend is clingy and you're not??

  • Sometimes if I just wait for my boyfriend to text me, he'll get mad for me not texting and he'll think i'm avoiding him :S

  • Thank you so much for making this video!!!! I'm horrible about being clingy and it has about broken up my fiance and I several times but thankfully he keeps giving me another chance because we both love each other a lot! But I want to seriously stop being clingy so I don't have to keep worrying and stressing that I'm going to lose him. Our 2 year anniversary is tomorrow and he is the most incredibly amazing guy in the whole wide world and I never want to lose him! :)

  • I think this guy is really cute and i've never talked to him, and i want to start talking to him. Everyone tells me to just walk up to him and say hi, but it's awkward! What do i do?

  • @jennzjennz1023

    just walk up to him and say hi.

  • Not gonna lie. I don't mind clingy girls as long as it's in person. Text clinging gets annoying as hell. But I'm a picky guy and only date girls I really like

  • if your with a person that cares about you, they wont care if your clingy.

    I have been with the same guy for a year and i have been clingy the entire relationship and he doesn't mind it at all

  • Jet and Starr

    I like this guy who has a gf. They have been dating for a while but he deserves a girl who treats him better. We are friends and talk everyday at school but we don't text anymore. he doesn't respond to me. I think he know I like him too. I've told him I thought he was hot when he asked....this is when we used to text. Please help and tell me what I should do?!?!?

  • my boyfriend wants to makeout with me but i dont know if im ready yet because that will be my first time what do i do?

  • why be something your not :l be yourself.. thats what a real guy likes

  • I'm a guy , and to be REALLY honest, Clingy girls aren't so bad . Maybe i'm more of a emotional romance type of guy, but i'm usually the one that appears clingy To girls i like.

    But i think , if you really liked a person , You wouldn't mind them being clingy, because you would always be thinking about how they would think of you - and i dunno. If you date a really clingy person, That girl/guy would be so loyal to you , the relationship would be hard to break, right ?...

  • I'm too shy to be clingy. And to be clingy you have to have a boyfriend lol

  • Wing Girls you have helped me in more ways then you know. Thank you for this vid.

  • @tataliana, what were the rules. Cause god knows I need some lol if you could inbox some to me. I would greatly appreciate it. Please and thank you.

  • I dont mind clingy girls for the first month because it is natural. but after a while it gets anoying. i know im not a girl but i whould appreacate if yuo ansered if guys can be clingy

  • i used to be clingy with this guy and i called him every afternoon. i could tell he was getting annoyed with me but i kept trying to make him like me by hanging around him even more. i realised that i was losing myself and my own personality, infact I had a complete personality change because i was always trying to think of him and wut he wants. in the end he wasn't even worth it. its always good to try and stay true to yourself and follow your instincts, cus mine were right.

  • I'm a tomboy, so I get to chill with the guys a lot. And yeah, I learnt that's ONE thing they hate. When the girl is ALWAYS there and not giving them space.

    It's just like... bluergh :S! (If that's even a word!)

  • Dear wing girls, My crushes best friend likes me and I don't know how to make my crush think of me like a person he could date. Please help

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  • But if im not contacting them then they think im not interested in them! and they wont contact me back :(

  • @raspberryeri then thats not the person for you b/c if he cant take one min out of his time to text and say hi,how r u,i miss u, lets hang out l8r than he's not worth your time im married and while i was at work i would call my girl witch is now my wife

  • Me and my ex kissed and then the next day he dumped me, he was my first kiss aswell and i was so upset, can you do a video on somethin like that :) x

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  • @AdrianEaston thats the hole point man

  • I just broke up with my girlfriend because she was being too clingy. Now she's going around saying i'm the worst person ever. It didn't work out, Get over it! A lot of relationships don't work out.

  • ugh... wingirls....two superficial bitches who guys dont give a fuck about and just want to fuck them. yeah. definately the people to be asking advice too. 

  • @CarlosWolfVillage Why would you say that? Just trying your best to be as unpleasant as possible huh? You should crawl up your own ass.

  • @SurferMan127 Aye Half of the comments on their videos are disrespectful comments from dudes that see them as objects, sooo I'm just saying,if you want to take advice from them, they're superficial as fuck too. I've watched their crap, done with it.

  • I'm naturally not clingy, so idk..

    

  • ugh the Fran Drescher twins strike again..

  • Guys don't like clingy girls just like girls don't like clingy guys.

  • Yay

  • Wait a minute where has your wing girl insignia gone its just not the same if your not in uniform.

  • Um well it's kind of annoying when a girl is clingy yeah. At first it doesn't seem that bad, but after a few weeks, you just want to get away

  • I immediately start to hit on another girl

  • @GreenGnome00 i agree with you nothing more to say

  • girls does that apply to boys as well...

    i think am way too clingy but am not a girl :/

  • @Metaoutlander same here

  • Is that stars natural hair!?

  • I love clingy bfs!:P Lol its soooo cute! Nd I get over being clingy by limiting myself from the guy. If ur rly worried or obssesed with him then stalk his facebook!!!:P xD ik that sounds weird and creeperish, but its a way to find out what hes up to without annoying the piss outta him!

  • @hotstuff10121 hehe...even i do the same thing...;)

  • What if the guy is sort of clingy too?

  • Dear Wing Girls, I`m in 7th grade and I have a major crush on this super cute guy. Except one of my best friends likes him and I haven`t told her that I like him too because she told me that she LOVES him (as do i) and since around 2 months ago i`ve been forcing myself to NOT like him because I feel like a terrible friend if I did. I love my best friend and I love him. What do I do?

    P.S. I love you Jet and Star , you're both so beautiful♥

    -Worried

  • clingy is good up to a point. As a guy, I think it's sweet that she likes you so much.

  • I HATE CLINGY GIRLFRIENDS.....THERE'S NOTHING MORE ANNOYING THAN A GIRLFRIEND WHO IS CALLING YOU EVERY 30 MINUTES,24HRS A DAY, 7 DAYS A WEEK. SO SMOTHERING THEY SUCK OUT THE VERY AIR YOU BREATHE...

  • Hey Wing Girls,

    What's your advice on letting a guy down gently? A friend is really loving my work at the moment, but I see him as just that: a friend. This has happened before, and despite being as up-front yet considerate as possible, I lost a great buddy. Thanks xxox

  • kind of the reason it don't worked out between me end my ex........

  • love the new dress starr

  • I hate the whole klingy thing, I have been one of those klingy girls before, but then i also realised that klingy was so not cool, it was like yark (i got a klingy boyfriend who i dumped after two weeks top for beeing that klingy) so i realised that if ihated that so much myself how would the guy not feel if i was like that?! that was when i started just wanting to have those partners for just the fun things and not a full blown relatinship, so i made rules for myself to follow beeing with a guy

  • I love clingy boys. Well, at least to a point. It makes me feel loved for once.

  • nice rack ladies

  • Thank you Wing Girls for this video, I hate when a girl is clingy: biggest turn off ever! I like a girl who has her own life outside the relationship: she hangs with her friends, has a job, is in some clubs/extra curriculars, etc. That's how my life is too, I don't have 24/7 to spend with a girl either

  • I like clingy girls... mainly because i know MORE than likely they are not cheating and i get to be around them more =3

  • people always say star is finer. but in my opinion jets got them tig old biddies and thats just great in my books.

  • my boyfriend texts me first every day in the morning :$

  • Clingy girls just makes me wanna like guys.

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  • @paui1 I know what you mean. He boyfriend gets completely creeped out by her too! It. is. obnoxious! It was nice at first but it has gotten out of had. She needs an intervention or something!

  • Can you do the same thing, but for guys ?

  • what if the guy is clingy??

  • Clinginess is ok in the beginning (at least in my book), but after a little bit it is good to know that she doesnt depend on me for her happiness. contributing to her happiness is more satisfying than BEING her happiness

  • Yeah, what about clingy boys?

  • I couldnt pay attention cuz I was staring at Jet's cleav the whole time

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  • Oh, Jet's lips...

  • fucking amazing cleavage.

  • How i feel about clingy girls?

    Well the thing i hate the most is them texting if i doesnt answer my god damn phone they're like omgomgomg somehting wrong ?? u mad?? pls baby answer.... makes me sick sometimes :/

  • star is so hot!!

  • Both of you are so cute.

  • What about clingly boys?

  • I like clingy girls but in a limit too much clingy is a NO NO. I'm saying this if a girl is clingy it makes me realize that she is wants to really hang out and do stuff otherwise if a boy or I get clingy with my girl I start getting the feeling that I called her and she might not what to hang out with me and she said YES just not to make me sad or make me feel lonely. Its either ways for both boy and the girl but it should be in limit :)

  • I like clingy girls personally but that's just me :p

  • I tend to run from boys I like or have been with I avoid them, and never look at them and I never start the conversations but I actually have been trying talking now so I feel I am the opposite

  • I like clingy girls :P

  • can you do a video and what girls should do for sex and kissing

  • can u do what a girl is supose to do during sex and how girls kiss??

  • lol. rule number one: NEVER text a guy first.

  • It OK with me if a girl likes to b around me,but if they r around all the time, it may get kinda annoying.

  • If I really want someone, I dont really get clingy, I get desperate, from what I've heard. But only if needed, if they're about to end relationship, I try my "best" to save it. But I mostly leave them to their own choice.

  • Well a boyfriend or a girlfriend should be your bff so... theres nothing wrong with always hanging with them or texting them!

  • i can tell when he gets pissed coz im being too clingy and want to talk all the time, so i stop talking to him for a few days (takes a lot of effort!)...but then he asks me later on if im mad at him coz im not talking to him but im thinking then why did u sound so pissed when talking to me when i wanted to talk to u??? :S

  • sounds like they are just trying to give girls advise to "take control" Just dont be clingy. simple as that. Its ALL ABOUT TRUST! :)

  • omg star is sooo damn cute <3

  • I think clinginess really comes from stress. If you can find a way to relieve your stress, it helps a lot. Personally, I like going to the gym with some of my girlfriends everyday. It gets your mind off things for a while and you feel SO good about yourself afterwards. : ) Give it a shot.

  • What about clingy guys?

    My boyfriend is very clingy, and it bothers me so much!

  • @Lovelyistalia44 Tell him to watch the video maybe he will learn something

  • I have a lot of guy friends this year since it is freshman year of high school and I don't know if 1 of them has a crush on me or not. I like people way 2 easy so I can't tell if I like him that way either. He invites me 2 the movies all the time with 1 other person but I can never go since it's after school and it's so last minute. How can you tell when you like a guy when you hang out with a lot of guys?

  • I don't have a problem with a girl wanting to be around me just find a away so it not all the time u kno

  • guys dont like shit up there but

  • wow this video is really high def

  • First of all, Girls: ask yourself why you are doing this? I mean being "Clingy". Once you find the answer for that work your way to satisfy the need of the answer. Always!! and I mean ALWAYS find the reason behind the situation and try to fix it. There is a saying "Too much of a good thing turn it to bad", it's good if you ask about your bf but too much is NO GOOD. And try to involve someone to help you, your bf will be an excellent choice let them know so they could help you. Hope that helps ;)

  • i just say be yourself. if the guy truley loves you, he wont care if you clingy, retarded, crazy, nothing like that.

  • I linked this to my friend alycia...this video sums her up

  • clingy girls are annoying, its like they have nothing else going on in there life, so I become the only thing they care about. I prefer a girl who is a little more self-sufficient and self-involved.

  • how do you make a guy laugh?

  • clingy-ness can be a result of some psychological issues too, so in some cases i don't think it can be dismissed so easily, i would suggest therapy.... if its super out of hand, or understand why you are clingy in the first place

  • how to not be shy

  • As a guy and a Wing Girls subscriber all I have to sayL]

    "Top 10 signs shes crazy: #10 - She latches on real fast!"

    You can fix crazy tho...

  • clingy girls are horrible. girls, if u are clingy listen to what the wingirls are saying in this video, every last word

  • so basically for calling and texting them think to yourself "have i texted him yesterday or today?" if you did then put down the phone or talk to someone else :) thats what i do and it really helps :)

  • if i dont want to be clingy ill change is name in my phone o something like uncle mike or somethng like that so i would feel weird like dirty texting them or anything. then when they text me first i change it back to their real name. :)

  • Are the wing girls clingy?? Mmm... I kind of hope so,.just a bit, and a bit more

  • How do you get over someone!?

  • Lol jets blank stare at 3:50-4:00 and her boobs are a bit distracting

  • I've never been in a real relationship before but with guys I like I try not to be clingy by spending more time with other friends and staying busy with sports and homework

  • I had a clingy boyfriend once. It sucked....

  • jet your boobs are so distracting

  • I myself, a guy get clingy to some girls, but after this, I learn how to be independent, do my own thing :)

  • get your boobs are destracting me

  • like clingy girl that like wana hang out all the time but its better when they like have a life and give her self somefrre time from me

  • What if the guy is also trying not to be clingy and neither person ends up contacting the other?

    O_o

  • The universal answer to all girls ask boys questions: Blowjobs.

  • HEY WINGIRLS!!!!!!!!!!!!! love you guys. I'm in highschool, and i recently got into a breakup of after 3 years. i didnt lie or cheat, he just wanted some space. i still have a lot of feelings for him, i even wrote him a 3 page letter since he doesnt talk to me anymore and said he will come to me with if he wants to try again later or not. i could replace him in an instant, but should i wait around? he is very special to me...

  • I have never had this problem...normally the opposite. Not the complete opposite! I have a friend who is way to clingy to her boyfriend and it is SO OBNOXIOUS! She's great but she needs to chilll. I actually told her and she got defensive... it was kind of funny ^.^

  • @OhLaurenBaby got the same situation. she talks about him ALL THE TIME and its kinda tiresome for me and others around her but she does not grasp any of that. and you can tell that her boyfriend gets irretaded at her often for that :o annoying!

  • You should teach guys not to be creepers! I don't know if they think they're being smooth or whatever, but if I just met you, or whatever, DON'T follow me around and always be talking to me. Creepers and weird guys can't really read body language or social situations well, so I guess they can't tell that when I'm working nicely by myself or with a group of coworkers, I do NOT want you to pull up a chair and start yammering in my ear about your favorite bands. UGH.

  • i really like clingy girls- it means they care

  • I've never dated clingy girls. They don't seem to exist where I live. I'd prefer a clingy girl over some bitch that has no intention calling me at least once or twice a day.

  • i prefer a cligny girl to a withdrawn one :S

  • Wing girls- Hey guys, I'm jet, I'm star..

    Me- and i got a great view!!!!!!!! XDXD

  • Hey wing girls!

  • I'm a girl, and I hate clingy guys, soo... Yeah... Hi!

  • >:( You should do this for the boys channel. I am actually not clingy at all, but the boys in my life ALWAYS are super clingy -.-

  • What the heck.... This was posted on a mondaayyy :O For me anyway....

  • Some girls are clingy some girls arent.

    And some guys are clingy and some aren't.

    Usually being who you are naturally will find you who you fit with naturally.

    So don't completely suppress being clingy if it feels natural to you, because someone who likes you for you will be okay with that.

  • I like a girl near my butthole. ;)

  • As a girl, I am not very clingy. A lot of my friends go nuts when they have boyfriends but when they break up, I realize that it was a fairly SHORT relationship they had and they get really depressed over it. I don't want to let that happen to myself because when I get upset, it really brings me down and a guy shouldnt have that control over me and my emotions.

  • I really like this guy, but I have never really talked to him. He's in a lot of my classes and I think he's been into me, but I don't know how to flirt with him. Lately I've noticed that he's kinda forgetting about me because I haven't shown any signs that I like him back. I don't want to lose him, but I don't know how to flirt. What do I do?!

  • This is like baggage advice...baggage that gets in the way of ever actually having a relationship

  • I think your going too far. If a new girlfriend acted like that I would think she wasn't interested, especially if I always had to call her first!

  • i love liberty and i want to miss her i little bit

  • another thing girls: if u call your fling/boyfriend once and he doesn't answer, don't call aagain, and again and again...!!!! when he has time he will see that you have called, once, and get in touch with u.. otherwise when the guy sees like 7 missed calls from one girl he will not feel like calling u back.. at all.

  • I like clingy girls since I am a nerd!

  • I like clingy girls. I can get them to do my bidding. *evil LOL* (J/K) :)

  • I always end up with a clingy guy and I hate it! I hate clingy. I myself am not clingy and treasure my alone time just as much as I would treasure a date or a good time with friends. So this definitely goes both ways. Space from people is a good good thing, and most often is what keeps a relationship going. You need seperation from one another in order to keep things from getting stale, or to just have time to yourself. To keep the peace, keep your space.

  • I once dated a clingy girl... .. didn't work out. Once dated a girl who was trying to suppres her clingynes... ...didn't work out either :D! You'll have to find the balance, because it's not good to be too withdrawn either. That just makes a guy sispicious and confused :(

  • most cingy girls get clingy whit my dick

  • @1996reza1996 eew haha

  • Guy: well i haven´t really have had a problem with girls being clingy but i would say it´s the other way around.. They´ve been to easygoing i guess that i felt like i was the only one trying to contact her.. But that´s just me

  • Making candles.. Sounds hot.. LOL..

  • Anyone else willing to bet most of these questions come from teenage girls

  • Honestly, I think if he loves you, he's going to love spending time with you and he's going to love and even need the attention that you're giving him. On the other hand, if he's not that into you, it doesn't really matter if you're clingy of not, chances are the relationship is not going to work anyway.

    You don't have to change into something that's not "you". I think it's a matter of finding the person who loves it when you're clingy; that's when you know they really love you back.

  • Hey, I am really lost... The guy I like is outgoing and friendly with everyone (including other girls) except me. He actually acts like I do not exist - avoids talking directly to me, but when he does it he actually stares into my eyes. And when I talk with other friends he soetimes comes up to me and says something competely off the wall but it is something that lets us all understand that he was actually listening. Also when we are in a group he stands right across from me. What can I do?

  • @welovechocolatte From what you have said, the way I see it is that he probably likes you back, but maybe doesn't know how to act around you/tell you this. I know it sounds cliche and it's probably hard to do this, but the best way to find out what is going on is to talk to him. You don't have to be straight forward like: "hey, i like you, why are you ignoring me?", but maybe you can strike up a conversation about this and see where it goes. I wish you good luck! :)

  • @welovechocolatte

    Talk to the dude, alone if possible.. Try to get into the subject of him looking at you, into your eyes and such without scaring him

  • im posting this question again and i really hope you guys do this video please:) dear wing girls.. how do you make guys notice your appearance? people say that beauty captures the eye but how do i make myself look beautiful? guys always comment saying how gorgeuss you guys are and i like to know what way to dress or do my hair and makeup to get myself noticed by guys :) PLEASEEEEE ANSWER<3 loveyouguysssss!

  • @xoxReviewGrlxox If you want me to answer as a boy- you can pm me and i can say what most boys like in appeareance

  • @xoxReviewGrlxox Guys don't notice small things like "omg your makeup is so pretty" or "your shoes are stunning!" BUT they do notice "the big picture". They like it if you show that you are taking care of yourself, like having a nice body shape, taking care of your skin/hair, putting on some makeup, etc. You don't need the attention of all guys, you just need the attention of the right one(s). ;)

    PS. Guys tell Jet and Star that they're gorgeous because they're freakin HOT! XD

  • @xoxReviewGrlxox A guy can like you for your appearance. But he can fall in love with you for your personality. ;)

  • I wasnt clingy and he dumped me after 6 months =_= he wanted me to be clingy