Boyfriend/Girlfriend in Islam? Halal or Haram?

[MAKT1111]

May My Allah Bless bless bless bless this person doing speech and created of this video

[Saeema1001]

bt i don get that is it forbidden to have a boyfriend even if i know he is the one n if i know that i won't have xxx with him n all before marriage?

n another Q. that i really love someone its been 3 years bt he doesn't love me (though i never told him that i do,he loves someone else n i will still love him even if i die) n even if he did does that mean i won't be able to be with him!?

i have many friends those had many bf please answer these questions so i can help them...please....

[ummIbraahim1]

@Saeema1001

if you feel that you cannot marry no one else apart from him than some scholars agree that to marry that person as its better rather than marrying someone whom you don't love. I'm not a knowledgable individual, i am still learning so my advice to you is to contact your local imam and discuss this, May Allaah help you in all your difficulties and lead you to the straight path ameen

[Ahmed12Khan]

Mashallah

thumbs up if you think dating is Haraam and you have never dated before like me!

I have been trying to convince my muslim friend to not date but he doesnt believe.

I LOVE ISLAM!!!

[Umukulthum1]

Mashallah the video is soo intresting n the subject is soo intresting too mashallah!!! May allag uide us n for giv us may he also grant us in paradise. allah is a forgiver may he forgiv us ameen.

[youngtooldweaktobold]

What is the nasheed in the beginnning of this video?

[ummIbraahim1]

@youngtooldweaktobold

talib al habib - kalimatan

[motengr]

@coconas56

the meaning of verse 25 of surah Al-nissah (not cmplt)

. . . therefore marry them with the permission of their masters, and give them their bridal money according to custom, they becoming (faithful) wives, not committing mischief or secretly making friends; so when they are married and commit the shameful, for them is half the punishment prescribed for free women; this is for one among you who fears falling into adultery; and to practice patience is better for you. . . .

[chestezzz]

may Allah swt give us the ability to be pure as a baby when we meet him in Jannatul Firdous Ameen

[sweetmuskaan]

Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu sister. Do you have the full video of Dr Zakir's lecture (the one in 1:34). Can you please upload it?

[ummIbraahim1]

@SwiftbeatProductions

to find a spouse in islam is when a profile of a groom/bride been sent to the groom/bride. if she likes his profile then the groom goes to the bride's house and meets her and they both can ask any questions they would like to know in the presence of her bride's father/brother. Some families have more than one meeting which is ok. and if they are happy with the person theyr going to marry they get married. other options can be internet dating...which some think its wrong.

[IshiBhoi]

Beutiful background song, may i knw the name? and a simply beutiful quran recitation starting at 2:36

[855Jamal]

"You and your boyfriend are not alone, Shaytaan is the 3rd party"

[RebeLW0rM]

What is song? I don't understand lyric but i like.

[ummIbraahim1]

@RebeLW0rM

salam, the nasheed is called Kalimatan by Talib Al Habib

Abu Hurairah reported that the Prophet, peace be upon him, said, "There are two phrases that are light on the tongue but heavy on the scale of rewards and are dear to (Allah) the Gracious One. These are, subhanallah wa bi-hamdihi (All Glory is to Allah and all Praise to Him), and subhanallah al-azim (Glorified is Allah, the Great).'' (Muslim, Bukhari, and Tirmizhi)

[RebeLW0rM]

@ummIbraahim1

Thank You So Much ! :) From Turkey

Çok Teşekkürler.

[7MJ4EVER]

I cried. 

[TheTenners]

@7MJ4EVER LOL.

[7MJ4EVER]

@TheTenners What? I couldn't help it. I'm so scaaaaaaaaared from Allah. 

[rockabdechafi4ever]

@7MJ4EVER i cryed to brother !

[TheTenners]

I know I'm bad for saying this, but I dislike this rule... but it's when I read into it I understand why's it's against islam and now I kinda like it...

Awesome background music, btw.

[ummIbraahim1]

@TheTenners

Salam brother, do not feel bad that you had disliked the rule, you may have not understood this before and now that you have masha'allah that is really good. My video doesn't really go into much depth, so I advise you to read books/articles on about this relationship and what Islam says about this in more detail. btw the background is a nasheed. jazakhallah for commenting, much appreciated :)

[Ages15]

@ummIbraahim1 WHat is name of the nasheed in the background?

[ummIbraahim1]

@Ages15

Salam, the nasheed is Kalimatan - By Talib Al Habib

[SuperMaryam16]

that was what i did. I didnt dump him, i talked to him and boke u with him and i emailed him this video and i immediately deleted my facebook account.. I love Allah more..

[ummIbraahim1]

@SuperMaryam16

Masha'allah sister, May Allah guide you to the straight path and make you amongst righteous Ameen!

[ADIMM0]

@SuperMaryam16 mashallah sister may allah reward you in this world and the hereafter and may Allah keep you chaste and free from the filth of zina and free from any fitna

ameen

[insightlyricist]

@SuperMaryam16 may Allah reward u sister

[sirajsgc]

Ameeeen.

[SIKM4N]

Subhanallah! wonderful vid on this subject as we as Muslims!! take it sooooooo lightly nowadays.. as u go around as you see Muslims being like the non Muslims, havin no hayaa and going around malls with their boyfrends / girlfrends ... Astagfiruallah!

May Allah guide us and purify our hearts and let us go by doing these things the right way , i.e. through "marriage" AMEEN!

I strongly advice my bros and sisters to watch this vid at 1:00, called :

"Murtaza Khan - Menace To Society"

[pinkilinks]

Really Good Job :) We're Living In Such A Westernised Society Where This Is Happening. This Video Is Really A Reminder For All Of Us.

[mujahidfisabillilah1]

allahu akbar great video brother

[ummIbraahim1]

@mujahidfisabillilah1

jaza khalla khayr brother

btw i am a sister