nice new hair man, and I want to say thanks for everything man. I am still struggling with even coming out and I thank God that my sister is supportive, and knows but she is still to this day the only person who knows. Your videos are an inspiration man.
i know where you are coming from, i am 42, married, 2 grown children and i have known i am gay since i was 16 and i have only come out to 4 people i know. i am tired of the married life but i've been married for 22 years and i cant get out of the relationship without her finding out because she will try to destroy my life, i think that's whats wrong with it so hard for you to tell your close friends, your afraid they will turn their back on you or try to destroy you. good luck, love your clips
hey - you are are such a beautiful person- anyone is lucky just to know you- brother like or not - if they don't except you then you don't need them in your life- can't imagine you having friends like that though
the same thing still happens to me. even though I'm out to friends I still feel like I have to be on the lookout to not "get caught" in a sense. I think w/ reflection, self-acceptance, and time it'll get better
first off, Nice haircut. I actually had to step back and ask "who's this? lol re: the ones u haven't told. As I have stated in one of my vids. "You never stop coming out". for so many they experience the decision of what to do over and over. becoming easier every time. I Personally just had to come out to my cousin a couple yrs ago, even though I came out 25 yrs ago. It's never ending it seems. And then there is always new jobs/ new friends. u will have to deal with it then. Never ending.
Baby, you are SO strong. You have nothing to worry about. The fact that you came to visit me in the first place was a massive commitment. You have no reason to not be confident in yourself. SO many people (including myself, of course) support you in anything you do (like your haircut). You are a fantastic human and friend and more. Thank you, Jesse. Thank you.
Jesse "Il Mio Amico Bello", or my beautiful friend! That young, possibly "Angst Ridden" folks struggling with the "Coming Out" process, might happen upon a young "Uomo Bello Caldo e Molto Forte" is awesome!
And you are one "Beautiful, Hot and Strong Young Man"! To watch a young "Out Guy" going through the the ordinary things that one does and should in this life, will be invaluable! As for your friends, I'm convinced if they're all worth their salt, they'll react in a similar fashion to how the lovely Chelsey did! Please do give her my compliments!
And I, Bobby Griffiths'(Prayers for Bobby) old lover/boyfriend "Blaine" here, am so f**king proud of you for this! BTW, the "ROTC or Grunt" cut is very flattering! I mean......."WOOF" Buddy!
Tuo Zio Nuovo Gay e Amico Per Sempre! (Your New Gay "Uncle" and Friend Always)
Blaine
PS As you might imagine "Mambo Italiano" is among my favorite "Gay Themed" comedies as well! And you are f**king "Molto Coraggioso" or very brave!
Hears how I look at it: My two best friends who I see every other day are going to be the hardest to tell, as well as my family. But when it comes to making new friends and telling people who I might run in to every now and then, I have really gotten to the point where I just don't care anymore. I have stopped thinking about what they might think about me because at the end of the day the new friends will stick around if they want to and the other forgotten people will go back to being forgotten
nice new hair man, and I want to say thanks for everything man. I am still struggling with even coming out and I thank God that my sister is supportive, and knows but she is still to this day the only person who knows. Your videos are an inspiration man.
flcb90 4 days ago
Hey Jesse, really related to this video, thanks for posting it and being so candid about how you felt.
RegularGayGuy 2 weeks ago
i know where you are coming from, i am 42, married, 2 grown children and i have known i am gay since i was 16 and i have only come out to 4 people i know. i am tired of the married life but i've been married for 22 years and i cant get out of the relationship without her finding out because she will try to destroy my life, i think that's whats wrong with it so hard for you to tell your close friends, your afraid they will turn their back on you or try to destroy you. good luck, love your clips
ipeepoc 1 month ago 3
Dude, no way haha thank YOU !
Cmdelorenzo27 1 month ago
haircut looks awesome! Also good luck telling your friends!
gostanford1 1 month ago
hey - you are are such a beautiful person- anyone is lucky just to know you- brother like or not - if they don't except you then you don't need them in your life- can't imagine you having friends like that though
z2u 1 month ago
I like the hair cut man.!
moereyes17 1 month ago
it shouldn't matter what other people think of you!! keep up the vlog jesse!!
krelhntklerhbg 1 month ago
Make sure you go back tho bro!
FallenAntiHer0 1 month ago
I like the new style :) good luck in telling your friends, I hope everything turns out okay for you. I'm sure it will.
LeKayFace 1 month ago
the same thing still happens to me. even though I'm out to friends I still feel like I have to be on the lookout to not "get caught" in a sense. I think w/ reflection, self-acceptance, and time it'll get better
lizamem 1 month ago
The new haircut looks good on you. :-)
bp30123 1 month ago
first off, Nice haircut. I actually had to step back and ask "who's this? lol re: the ones u haven't told. As I have stated in one of my vids. "You never stop coming out". for so many they experience the decision of what to do over and over. becoming easier every time. I Personally just had to come out to my cousin a couple yrs ago, even though I came out 25 yrs ago. It's never ending it seems. And then there is always new jobs/ new friends. u will have to deal with it then. Never ending.
jwo92911 1 month ago
@jwo92911 too true.
jayunit85 1 month ago
Baby, you are SO strong. You have nothing to worry about. The fact that you came to visit me in the first place was a massive commitment. You have no reason to not be confident in yourself. SO many people (including myself, of course) support you in anything you do (like your haircut). You are a fantastic human and friend and more. Thank you, Jesse. Thank you.
jallard2014 1 month ago
@jallard2014 This guy... jeesh. Thanks babe. You are the best.
jayunit85 1 month ago 5
@jayunit85
Ciao Bello!
Jesse "Il Mio Amico Bello", or my beautiful friend! That young, possibly "Angst Ridden" folks struggling with the "Coming Out" process, might happen upon a young "Uomo Bello Caldo e Molto Forte" is awesome!
blainebill39 1 month ago
@jayunit85
And you are one "Beautiful, Hot and Strong Young Man"! To watch a young "Out Guy" going through the the ordinary things that one does and should in this life, will be invaluable! As for your friends, I'm convinced if they're all worth their salt, they'll react in a similar fashion to how the lovely Chelsey did! Please do give her my compliments!
blainebill39 1 month ago
@jayunit85
And I, Bobby Griffiths'(Prayers for Bobby) old lover/boyfriend "Blaine" here, am so f**king proud of you for this! BTW, the "ROTC or Grunt" cut is very flattering! I mean......."WOOF" Buddy!
Tuo Zio Nuovo Gay e Amico Per Sempre! (Your New Gay "Uncle" and Friend Always)
Blaine
PS As you might imagine "Mambo Italiano" is among my favorite "Gay Themed" comedies as well! And you are f**king "Molto Coraggioso" or very brave!
blainebill39 1 month ago
Once you just tell these people you'll feel great. You really don't have anything to worry about. It's all in your head : )
roryyooooo 1 month ago
Hears how I look at it: My two best friends who I see every other day are going to be the hardest to tell, as well as my family. But when it comes to making new friends and telling people who I might run in to every now and then, I have really gotten to the point where I just don't care anymore. I have stopped thinking about what they might think about me because at the end of the day the new friends will stick around if they want to and the other forgotten people will go back to being forgotten
OldNewsThinker 1 month ago
I'm in the same position bro! I still feel weird and care about what people think of me which is silly. But good luck man.
AsianQT562 1 month ago