NOT EVERY WOMAN WANTS TO SHARE YOUR NAME, WASH YOUR DAMN LAUNDRY, AND REMIND YOU TO PAY YOUR OWN DAMN BILLS.
I don't want to be too graphic, but I find this topic and people's take on it kind of funny. Let's say that you like to PLAY SCRABBLE with this guy, you've played scrabble on and off for years because you just like the way he plays scrabble. By all means PLAY SCRABBLE. But keep your eyes open in the meantime for a Real Relationship because that guy is never going to commit to you.
my mother and father were both married to other people, they both lived in two completely different countries and only saw eachother one time before the day that got married a year later. they have been together for 27 years now.
Honestly, I get so tired of the whole crucification of the other woman deal. The other woman gets blamed by the wife, by the men, and no one seems to care that the husband is out there 'busting' as you so articulately put it. I'm not trying to justify the actions of the other woman, but damn, the husband is the one who is breaking his marriage vows! To the wives out there blaming the other woman: She didn't promise you a thing, honey, your husband took vows to you and broke them, not her. HIM.
Look with all do respect...Although you make a valid point. There are some guys that dont look at these women as "pieces of ass" or whatever you want to call them. Some guys just TALK and I do mean TALK to other women bc the one's they got aint got sense enough to pour piss out of a boot. So if you are going to elaborate on this subject elaborate from every angle instead of just one. Thank you and have a wonderful day.
This guy is real talk., But I feel it's more about Love, feeling love, being loving and having physical connection which we as human need and is important to reproduction. It has little to do with self respect and respect and love are not in the same category. If a man is loyal to his wife then it is his respect for her that matters, not the other womans. He is the one who promised to love and cherish. He is disrepecting his wife and himself by showing himself disloyal and dishonourable.
Some women R never going to find a man unless he already somebody elses, this will be because 1) she is ugly, a man aint going to make her first choice, even if hes is ugly too..2) Some men R too scared to ask out women or ask out women out of their league.. A married man aint gonna have problems with points one and two..3) there R more women than men & women live longer so the older you get the less likely you R going to meet a single man. 4) Women R loving so more easily fall in love.
quite entertaining yet soooo 1 dimensional. Pleasure principle is way more attractive then "nigga u gon take out the trash". I could give a fuck about another woman if i was the woman. Men need to quit lying to themselves thinking they can b monogamous. F what society indoctrinated us with. Thats where the real problems lie. If you like more than one pussy, own it MF! If u understand that a woman is by nature emotional then you understand that is y she is fucking w/ u and y u need to b honest.
I personally feel sorry for the desperate woman who stay sleeping with a man. When they know he got a wife and kids at home.. It's like you have no respect for yourself cause at the end of the day, and the holidays. He's is nowhere to be found and aint thinking about you. It's also mind boggling how they think of if he leave her for me. He not gone cheat on me.. It's like you dumbb ass @#%$% how do you think you got him?? By him cheating on him woman.
@tasha1985 lmao!!!! .... but just to back some of the " other women " up.. its not that their desperate for some other persons husband.....i personally think its more about the thrill..something different.....truthfully the sex gets boring with the same person day after day.. year after year.. and so on....
Honestly, I've been the other woman and it is not fun! It's stupid, it doesn't go anywhere, and more than likely if he breaks up with his girlfriend you are not the next runner up. I was the other woman to this guy who broke up with his girlfriend and then pick up a new one a month later. It was not me, and not only was it not me, but I began to be the other woman to the new relationship. *Peace
You, know i really like this video. Next topic, say why do men feel the need to have affairs, is he really a man, or is he trash!!! loved to hear your thoughts on this!!!
what's funny is that a relationship that begins with cheating will most likely end with cheating. it would be very stupid to think that a guy that is cheating on his wife with you would, would not cheat on you. that's a sign of a weak man that can't handle his manly responsibilities. i know a guy that has been married three times and is now on his fourth, and he's already looking at other woman because he feels neglected. i just want to vommit
It is all about him, and getting his sexual jollies off seeing his wife and other women cry, beg, get frustrated all over him as if he is a god or something. It is a sick ego of his to see women crawl at his feet trying to convince him that they are the one for him to and to leave his relationship with whomever, for him. A lot of men find this dynamic of women crying over him quite funny. It is a cruel game and sick game for everyone besides him.
This is not The Other Woman problem. This is a male ego problem with insecure men who get power trips trying to juggle 2 to more women around, because he likes to see women fight and be stressed out over him. He is a Narcissist and enjoys seeing his wife, and the other woman feel insecure them not knowing where they stand in a relationship with them. This is all fun and games to him. He hates his wife as much as he hates his mistress.
And don't give me that "Oh, but he was a good man when we dated, but he turned out to be an asshole and cheat on me once we got married." Yeah, right. A jerk off as a husband was a jerk off as a boyfriend. So therefore, many of you married wives get what you deserve, because you married a man who didn't have a good character in the first place. You saw the signs but ignored it. Thinking he will change. Or you were too desperate and slap happy to get married to ANYBODY. That you married a fool.
And you keep on boo-hoo about some other woman seeing your man, because you don't have the guts to leave an emotionally and psychologically abusive relationship, so you sit there being pissed at some other woman, instead of being pissed off at your man. While what you out to be doing is get a divorce like any other smart chick, but wait...ya'll ain't smart. The reason why you married an asshole in the first place.
It is not another's woman's job to save your marriage. That is your stupid ass husband's job. Obviously he chooses everyday to say "I don't give a sh*t about my wive's feelings. I am going to do whatever, even if it hurts her." How is that another woman's fault? And you very same women who blame the mistress are the very stupid ones that stay in the marriage with a jerk off who disrespects you.
Ask your self the question, what is your problem for marrying a guy like that in the first place? I bet you have a good reason to excuse that. And it could be legitimate. As legitimate as these women being lied to by men with them saying they ain't married in the first place. Don't blame another woman, because your man has the inability to do the right thing by cheating on you in the first place.
Why do women not own up to their stupidity for marrying assholes? Maybe the wives are just as retarded with low self-esteem with mental issues, because obviously her husband don't love her either.
@TheAleska1987 who wrote to me in private message. ok here is a question for you then. What business does this other woman have sleeping with a married man? Who's fault is it that the woman caught feelings. So what is she has genuine feelings for this man...she is still just a fuck because he never wanted her in that capacity in the first place. People need to own up to their own stupidity and stop trying to pin the blame on others.
How about?? If i was with someone for 5 yrs and he obviously seeing someone and left me and two weeks later he got married to the girl with three kids and NOW thinking im gonna be the other woman...Says he loves me still and blah blah blah.....Yeah ok, b@#ch please...Oh and ol girl thought all the jokes and s#@t was funny when he was at home with me...Tried to tell her lol and let the games begin...
the judgment is ill placed. 'the other woman' is NOT violating a trust between two other people. the man who has 'the other woman' without the knowledge/consent of his main woman is just playing himself. in a sense, he is lying to both himself and her by pretending the main relationship is meeting all his needs. most primary relationships benefit from 'strange' on occasions. it's not the sex that destroy relationships, it's all the lies people tell themselves and one another. - the other woman
@Mokurentate, The Other Woman has it good only if she doesn't love the guy, and he is nothing to her but a bootcall. If she loves him, then she is in a hell hole. Unless, the married couple are open-minded enough to have a polygamous relationship or open marriage where the man takes responsibilities for both women in a loving manner. But many men don't want responsibility of having 2 women. They just want the sex.
Hahahahhaaa - LOVE IT when a DUDE admits the OW-Ho is just that - a "pipe" ... something to f*ck! Nothing more. Nothing less. TOTAL RAW TRUTH & I love it!
@VenusNails, but the wife must be the same thing if he is disrespecting her in every way. Don't see how the so called "ho" is worst off than the wife who gets cheating on by her husband. You act like the wife won't have any feelings of embarassment and dishonor from the situations. What is the point of marriage if a man isn't sexually satisfied with his wife where he needs to go find someone else?
Men think they are fucking slick playing these psychological games on women.
2010 is a new era. Let's show these dudes how crazy a bitch can get on their asses. I don't care if the you are the wife or girlfriend being cheated on, or if you are the other women.
Show these nigga who they be playing with. Make their asses wish they have never been born.
Got some damn nerve making this video. I hope that all men with Other Women trying to pull this stunt makes the Other Woman made enough to try to destroy these men's lives for trying to make them feel worthless to their advantage. Slash their car tires. Go up to their jobs and their wives jobs and cause a scene to where they lose their jobs.
And their wives should be taking these dumb ass men to court to get every fucking dime they got out of his bank account for cheating on them.
turn around and say "You are a useless ho. I got me a wife. I don't need you. You were just a good fuck." Yeah, you got a wife alright. Why did you go try to fuck her instead of trying to find, beg, seduce, romance and sex up other women then? What part of you and "having a wife" made you want to get up all in another woman's pussy?
Then want to get all holier than thou and shit like a saint by telling the woman that she is immoral. WHAT ABOUT YOUR ASS MOTHER FUCKER?
@blacklightfreakout So very true. Discovery day of the affair (which always happens) should be the biggest deterrent against an affair. The married guy I dated turned into a little bitch all to protect his Luenell looking illiterate hippopotamus wife. Even though I chose to end it with him, she stalked me relentlessly until I filed a restrainer order against her lunatic azz. Women, its so not worth it. If he is married, RUN! Married men who cheat are all weak, conflict avoiding, cowards!
@carmenjones411 I mean seriously, if you saw me and saw my ex-mm wife, you'd know everything said in this video is true, otherwise my ex-mm would have fought for ME instead of that violent obese cow. They never leave, they use beautiful women to feed their sagging egos. And the wife will not give him up, they are usually too stupid and will use hating you as a energy force to rebuild their marriage, like they've won a prize. When u kno better u do better. I will never do that mess again!
@blacklightfreakout It is seriously pathetic. The men never stop to think that maybe, just maybe, they're to blame also ( GASP )...the wives think along the same line, and everyone acts like it's all the other woman's fault ( damn her and her supernatural powers of seduction ), and the song remains the same. And I just love how all the men assume that these women even WANT more from *them* than a lay, too.
@blacklightfreakout It is seriously pathetic. The men never stop to think that maybe, just maybe, they're to blame also ( GASP )...the wives think along the same line, and everyone acts like it's all the other woman's fault ( damn her and her supernatural powers of seduction ), and the song remains the same. And I just love how all the men assume that these women even WANT more from *them* than a lay, too.
It is always the (other) women who is made to feel bad, while these men can go guilt-free trying to fuck everybody butt his wife like he suppose to do.
Most women are in a relationship with a man, because she truly loves the man and hopes that he would do good by her. These men are the ones playing games on women by telling them they are miserable in their relationships and want to leave their girlfriend or wife to be with you. Just lying in order to get pussy. And have the nerve to turn...
@blacklightfreakout ok here is a question for you then. What business does this other woman have sleeping with a married man? Who's fault is it that the woman caught feelings. So what is she has genuine feelings for this man...she is still just a fuck because he never wanted her in that capacity in the first place. People need to own up to their own stupidity and stop trying to pin the blame on others.
Actually I think that GurlTalkkTV is an asshole and he is part of the problem. Another stupid ass black man talking down on the Other Woman that he had no problem sleeping with and using her for sex then goes to turn around to say that she is nothing, but his wife is so fucking precious and special.
What GurlTalkTV is doing is helping all his male friends have mistresses and dump them at THEIR CONVIENCE (the men).
He never stated how the men who do this are assholes and jerk offs.
@ereyes28 DUDE. omg Same situation!!! It was a Japanese person too. Watch my video, it's all in there. :D :D :D No, I'm serious. I wish I could show this video to the Other Woman too, but her English is shit. I chose to stay with my boyfriend though.
i like both women not as whores but as two women i like ,i like feeling like a champ and being treated good at multiple ladies homes atleast two,and i dont mind helping out , i dont want to just lay up matter of fact i want too be with both women ,i dont ever want just another woman for physical pleasure alone , i feel thats low i like to enjoy the whole woman not just her body,hey better yet why lie why not just tell the women how u r str8 up and see if theyll except it speak truth not a lie
keepin it real...it is what it is....maybe she is not looking for him to commit to her....it may just be a matter of "convenience" for both of them.....yes it is wrong to cheat but it becomes something totally different when one goes so far as to make her presence known to the "main girl"....if you are going to be the other woman....don't get too emotionally attached to him....and dont make a "career path" of it either....i'm just sayin....
Usually when someone cheats. The relationship was already ruined, maybe the OTHER person did not know about it, but it was RUINED. Many people cheat because they are NOT happy and an opportunity arises, and they go back to the other person sometimes out of guilt. The relationship is not a "real-lationship" its a fraud and doesnt mean a damn that is why the person cheated to BEGIN with. When I say cheat, I mean LONG term, not a one night stand fiasco (which is wrong also) but long term is diff.
I don't know......... I know men that have cheated on their S/O, and they are totally in love with their S/O. I think its thoughts like that that keep the sideline business booming. Some men don't think with the top hat, they think with the bottom, so I would be nothing for them to cheat
To all the women out there: you deserve a man that's devoted to loving you, and you alone. Don't settle for less. If he already has a girlfriend/wife, then you will always come second, AND YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT. Same goes for the wife of the cheating husband. But also, don't place all the blame solely on your husband. If he's in a loving relationship, he probably won't cheat. But if they do, for whatever reason, then f*ck him (not literally, lol). I will say it again, you deserve better!!
The wife becomes the pain in the ass and the other women is more appreciated because she is simply there to take the edge off. Ohh this makes so much sense.... reminds me of when I got a call from the other woman and she actually lied for him and told me she was a different person who dogsat for him. There was that one day when I went to kiss him and his mouth smelled like tuna.... I have to go now....my crotch burns.
Being the Other Woman is will not gaurantee happiness, or sadness just as much as being a man's wife won't gaurantee you happiness, or sadness. There are a lot of miserable wives out there as much as there are miserable Other women. Some happy wives as much as some women can be happy as being the Other Woman.
What we just got here is two women trying hard to keep a man who most likely ain't making neither of them happy. If the Other Woman is unhappy, most likely his wife is too. That's fact!!
Now people are saying the Other Woman is nothing but pussy and a whore to the married man. But that is not really true. I mean, she is no more of a whore and a piece of pussy than what his wife was to him before he married her. Men use women for sex regardless of being a wife, girlfriend or other woman. There are plenty of wives out there who feel or know that they husbands want them nothing but sex, plus cooking, doing his laundry and ironing his shirts.
I agree once again. I think many wives and girlfriends also need a slap in the face. It is almost as if they justify the man cheating with the fact that they have a TITLE!! To me, if the title of (wife,b.m, gf) meant anything in the first place to the guy, then cheating would not even occur. As a woman, if I am with a guy in a relationship and other guys try to hit on me (I OPENLY) decline that offer out of RESPECT for my relationship and LOVE for my guy.
If a husband really loved his wife, he wouldn't be cheating. If the man truly loved the OW (other woman) he would be married to her. So basically, they both are getting crumbs. And I am so sure that his wife isn't having the best relationship with him as well. Probably not sexually just as much as the other woman is not having an emotional relationship with the married man. It goes like this, the Other Woman gets the good sex but the wife gets the bills being paid by her husband.
@blacklightfreakout Being with a married man is just for the excitement honestly. If anyone believes otherwise they are just fooling yourself. Theres no way the ow is respected look how the relationship started. Men just want that extra bit they arent getting. Women want to change the guy and for them its the taking factor. They feel good having bested another women. Thats how I feel anyways
I think this video has some good points, but overall it is kind of flawed. The "Other Woman" is no more of a worst positions than his wife. Here is why, just because a man stays in a marriage does not mean he is happy in that marriage, or he wouldn't be go looking for a women besides his wife. The only reason he is staying in that marriage is because he doesn't want to get a divorce which makes him lose lots of money. But overall his wife on an emotional level is just as much 2nd place as the OW
Exactly my thoughts. Just because he runs back to his wife/gf/baby mom does not mean that he is doing it because he LOVES her. In fact, it is more about the familiarity of the relationship and probably the fact that he can get away with it, that pulls him to that person. Many men are actually not dogs, who just want to cheat for sex. The # 1 reason is because something is LACKING. Just bc he crawls back doesnt mean he loves her ONE bit. The other woman and the mistress are BOTH on the same level
man brotha - a little hard on the "other woman" . ima thinken maybe yours is pressuring you.LOL! if there is the other woman. this is a huge role in a cheating man's relationship - come on....SEX encompasses 75% in a marriage - what is left - food, shelter...additionally friendship is important - rest assured this other woman is also their friend. you know he is venting his life stressors on this lady too...albeit each are owed little respect; afterall he sought her.
Good topic, good delivery....I am too serious for the other woman BS. I am also happy with myself and don't feel I have to be with a man at all cost, so none of them will get away with that when dealing with me.
the other woman has a chance when the wife/girlfriend finds out about her. Now that is saying that when the present woman is out of the way...he actually wants to continue a relationship with you...(the jump off). It has happen but the new chick is never happy because now she doesn't trust him and he is back in the same boat he was before....a nagging wife or girlfriend.
I was with you up until about 5:44. I don't think there is a way to have some respect for the person your already disrespecting. Thats just some gray shit in between the clear black and white. Assuming she already knows, then there is no way she can be any more disrespected and the marriage was over the moment he made the choice to have sex outside of the marriage.
I think it all comes down to how much you value yourself and how much you believe you deserve. By you even becoming the other woman, this man has said loud and clear by his actions, "I will lie to a person who expects the truth from me. I will decieve this person and I have no respect for the relationships I build with a woman."
So the obvious next question is, why would you EVER want a man that would do that? Is that an admirable character trait?
Why people always talk about what wives or women should do to keep a man????? such backwards thinking. If there was more pressure placed on men to do things to keep a woman they would behave differently. People talk about how women are treated in Afghanistan etc but women here are not in much better situations, it's just down played because of the freedom to wear whatever etc
i know somebody who was cheating on his wife of 11 years (and three kids) to be with the other woman. this other woman claimed she didn't want 2 disrespect the wife, but "he just wouldn't leave her alone." when he physically left his wife after a year of cheating, he ended up getting the other woman pregnant (who already has a child by another man) while he was still married to his wife. the strange thing: the wife ended up being the other woman to another married couple who she was friends wit
even if by some great chance he leaves his wife for you why would you want to be his wife when if he did it to her, he'll do it to you. which means just like he dogged her for you, he will dog you for someone else!!
I am the other woman, and I have been for the past 9+ years. We have a 6yr old daughter together and the one thing that hurts me, is that his family has never seen her. Being the other women has a bad side to it also...... My daughter, I love her with all my heart, but we made her together, she has the right to know her fathers people side....Being the other women is coming to an end...... And what he said in the video is so, so, true....
um well maybe it seems nice now but wont it be u who ends up being hurt ? i dont think your a slut but i do think u must be lonely. maybe even if its just alittle beacause in the end the person your shareing so much with isent yours please take care of yourself you r very much worth loveing and you deserve someone who will give him self fully every woman needs to know she is more than a toy and you should be with someone that makes u feel that way
I dont take money from "married" boyfriend.. That would be like prostitution,
Why can't we just all live our lives accordingly. Whats works for me, might not work for you.
Once pppl get married, its seems the husbands miss out! No more blow jobs, not much sex and you can forget about anything freaky. Maybe wives should invest more time into their husbands & then maybe they wouldnt stray.
We are all individuals. We are all different. Let's stop the fighting!
You just confirmed that the "other woman" is like a sperm receptacle, nothing more or nothing less...doing all the freaky things, yet not considered worthy enough to be showcased. Pleasure principle like the guy in the video said. you seem to have very low self-esteem.
OK, I have great self esteem. When I was younger I had none, going from one abusive relationship to the next. Finally, I have 'found' myself and am totally comfortable with who i am and what i want out of life. Its hard to say all i want in this limited space, but i wish ppl would stop puttin me down for 1)bringing a different perspective and 2)being different. Im not a slut, Im not out to hurt anyone, Im just doin what we r all doin..tryin to be happy...
It's true what he's saying, but he never once mentions what the man does wrong. Just because men have a sex drive and can't control it does not give him to right to have an affair. He mentions how the "other woman" is being disrespectful to the wife, however, the husband is being just as disrespectful.
@LadyPhoenix1987, That is because men for centuries have always put the blame on the woman and has excused his own actions for his convenience. Men will never admit when they are wrong. Just like to be little bitches and blame women for the actions they, the men , to part of . Them blaming women takes them off the hot seat and give them a position of superiority in matters where they are very inferior at. Just them being assholes at a woman's expense.
@LadyPhoenix1987, i'm not justifying men who cheat and saying it's right. but, you gotta remember that women do not have to "chase" sex like men do. for most women, sex comes natural to them and that's the main reason it's a bigger deal for us men than women. women basically symbolize sex in a better light then men do too. for men, that's why it's limited in a physical sense, where women can see sex beyond just that and mainly through anything.
Funny vid, but I do think it was a bit easy on the guy involved. If my guy was cheatin, ok Id wanna kill the girl but ultimatly its him thats doing the wrong. That girl has no actual responsibility (if shes not in a relationship) to not go with anyone. He does however. Its him that made the commitment, its him thats in the wrong.
I'm 23, I got married 9/27/08. I am a Proud WIFE, I love my husband,but I am smart enough to know that stupid lil sideline hoez are all after him but guess what...I got the ring,I got the last name and his heart so he won't ever leave me for any of them lil sidelines...they can do whatever they want but they can't be me...thanks for trying though sidelines........good video!
sometimes u r manipulated into being the other woman.this man hid his ring from me until he knew i was in love with him then he told me he was married.most men know that when you're in love it'll be hard to fight emotions and say no.needless to say i was the other woman for 2mnths.since then i always ask 2 questions"are you married?"and"do you have kids?"i may be lied to(at least i asked)but will take things slow and if his desperation shows to have sex too soon then i know he's not a keeper
All the married men I know are cheating or have cheated on their wives. I think it is an animal instinct men are born with and getting married and wearing a ring will never change that. I recently found out that my husband has cheated on me for all our time together. Bottomline is as long as their are women who will open their legs for a free lunch or a cheap watch, their will me married men piping them.
As long as there are immature men who don't honor their vows, respect themselves, their wives and families they will always play games with their own mind making it okay to cheat in their minds. Married men know that they are married. The ones who cheat, don't care that they are married. They won't leave their wives, but why should they when they can get away with it?
Women may ultimately open their legs but men are usually the instigators. I have never been the other woman but we have to be careful about laying blame (both parties are to blame). Also, a man will cheat if he wants to, it is not instinctive to want to sleep around. Only male rapists can use that argument as they clearly can't control themselves e.g. these types jump out of bushes and attack women. Normal men can exercise restraint if they respect their women.
honestly when you start off as friends and it was not something that was meant to happen it makes it a lot more difficult to just walk away. you then feel as though he has no rerason to lie to you because of the friendship that is there.i feel bad for those who have fell victim to getting themselves hurt by believing in such a complicated situation.
I've been the other woman, but he wasn't married it was in high school. I will never do that again bcuz i feel like if it had lasted i wud be happy at someone else's expense. Women need to put themselves in the situation and fight emotions sometimes.
thank you for letting "the other women" or what i like to call them (ignorant nasty disrespectful side hoes)know whats up. if "the other woman" gives you shit about your video and your comments about them, then they really are dumb itches because you are coming at them in a man's perspective.
The other woman is stupid... Cheating men are evil... Women are not that emotional =-(... You don't pay your taxes? You shouldn't say that on youtube.
I think he meant he doesn't pay your taxes, so he won't tell you what to do.
Cheating men AND women are grimey. If you feel you still want to be single, then be single. Yeah, marriages get boring. But that in no way is just the wife's fault. It's the fault of BOTH people.
Married people get comfortable. They think the job is done once the wedding's over. If you stop doing the thing that attracted them in the first place, of course you'll lose interest.
Women get tired too. We want something young, something new, but we're the ones worrying about the kids and what will happen to them if we ruin this relationship.
Men do what they THINK they need to do, and think about it later (like when the wife finds out).
Honey if he was in a happy home he wouldnt be looking to get into my pants in the first place. Being the other woman means that i dont have to look after him and cook for him, why would i wanna keep him all the time? And im single hes the one thats in the relationship so he needs to have respect.
You are trying to justify what you're doing by making it sound like you're not guilty because you're single. You have absolutely no right whatsoever to sleep with another woman's husband under any circumstances. Reality check. What was that Temple said about the other woman? Do the words "Your offensive, disrespecful ass", ring a bell? And if you believe he needs to have the respect, that means throwing you out on yours.
Yeah! To whomever you were leaving that comment for... sleeping with someone in a relationship is totally irresponsible. The mentality that it is not your problem is highly immoral.. Whether you like it or not, you are now involved in the emotional pain and suffering of two people. You're guilty.
so true...hahaha dat was so stright up guy dam felt like u was talking stright at me..been through that been da ada women, but then i realized...but ur vid help me to understand more tank u so much
You said that the "other woman" shouldn't do things to try and take a man away from his "happy" home, but I'd like to know how happy of a home it really is if he feels that he has to have a woman on the side?! I enjoy your videos and the advice that you give I'd just like a little clarity on this.
Ok I know I'm not Temple Christian or anything but maybe I can help to shed some clarity on the topic haveing done the whole other women thing myself. So It might not always be the case of an unhappy home that makes a man seek out the other women It might just be that he's had difficulty giving up the "chase" of other women he can have a good women she can even be fufilling he's sexual needs but in the words of the great method man "the only thing better than pussy is new pussy."
While this is 100% true I will never be anyones mistress.. you should do a video on STUPID BITCHES WHO THINK ANOTHER WOMEN WNAT THIER MAN YET THIER MAN WANTS THE OTHER WOMEN AND IS OBSESSED OVER ANOTHER WOMEN..That is true I went through this..I messed with her man once had em SPRUNG and he started stalking me and harassing me me when and my man was broken up..MAKE A VIDEO ABOUT STUPID BITCHES WHO think its impossible for their man to want may like other women
I totally agree... could never knowingly be the other woman.
MsNJohnson 1 month ago
NOT EVERY WOMAN WANTS TO SHARE YOUR NAME, WASH YOUR DAMN LAUNDRY, AND REMIND YOU TO PAY YOUR OWN DAMN BILLS.
I don't want to be too graphic, but I find this topic and people's take on it kind of funny. Let's say that you like to PLAY SCRABBLE with this guy, you've played scrabble on and off for years because you just like the way he plays scrabble. By all means PLAY SCRABBLE. But keep your eyes open in the meantime for a Real Relationship because that guy is never going to commit to you.
CandlesnKisses 1 month ago
Lol WHOOOOO cares!!!
muajc22 2 months ago
**Life Changin'** Thanx 4 DIS real talk
upendo08 5 months ago
my mother and father were both married to other people, they both lived in two completely different countries and only saw eachother one time before the day that got married a year later. they have been together for 27 years now.
kitktlov 7 months ago
***REAL***
MzSkribble 8 months ago
Guys do not leave their woman for the other woman.
datingwomensex 9 months ago 2
Honestly, I get so tired of the whole crucification of the other woman deal. The other woman gets blamed by the wife, by the men, and no one seems to care that the husband is out there 'busting' as you so articulately put it. I'm not trying to justify the actions of the other woman, but damn, the husband is the one who is breaking his marriage vows! To the wives out there blaming the other woman: She didn't promise you a thing, honey, your husband took vows to you and broke them, not her. HIM.
CherryPrincipessa 9 months ago 6
this didn't really help me out any, but i fucking love it lmao!! damn, its hard to find help. maybe i'm searching for excuses. hmmm
bestchiina 11 months ago
Look with all do respect...Although you make a valid point. There are some guys that dont look at these women as "pieces of ass" or whatever you want to call them. Some guys just TALK and I do mean TALK to other women bc the one's they got aint got sense enough to pour piss out of a boot. So if you are going to elaborate on this subject elaborate from every angle instead of just one. Thank you and have a wonderful day.
princessnmg 11 months ago
This guy is real talk., But I feel it's more about Love, feeling love, being loving and having physical connection which we as human need and is important to reproduction. It has little to do with self respect and respect and love are not in the same category. If a man is loyal to his wife then it is his respect for her that matters, not the other womans. He is the one who promised to love and cherish. He is disrepecting his wife and himself by showing himself disloyal and dishonourable.
odieshaPI 11 months ago
Some women R never going to find a man unless he already somebody elses, this will be because 1) she is ugly, a man aint going to make her first choice, even if hes is ugly too..2) Some men R too scared to ask out women or ask out women out of their league.. A married man aint gonna have problems with points one and two..3) there R more women than men & women live longer so the older you get the less likely you R going to meet a single man. 4) Women R loving so more easily fall in love.
odieshaPI 11 months ago
It's not like I had sex with him cuz I didn't anyway I just made the mistake of hanging out with him while I knew he wanted me and was married =\
Afraid0fGhosts 1 year ago
@Kiera843 if he really loved her he wouldn't have been looking for me...he told me himself he made a mistake by marrying her. It's sad really.
Afraid0fGhosts 1 year ago
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I'll be using you video on my blog which is all about relationships. cluelesstolove.blogspot.com. check it out, this video is f'n hilarious!
cluelesstolove 1 year ago
Men should really stop cheating. There should never be another woman in the first place.
prettyLibra2010 1 year ago
quite entertaining yet soooo 1 dimensional. Pleasure principle is way more attractive then "nigga u gon take out the trash". I could give a fuck about another woman if i was the woman. Men need to quit lying to themselves thinking they can b monogamous. F what society indoctrinated us with. Thats where the real problems lie. If you like more than one pussy, own it MF! If u understand that a woman is by nature emotional then you understand that is y she is fucking w/ u and y u need to b honest.
pleasework1 1 year ago
.......I did a mistake last night...but his lady should have been taking care of him or else he wouldn't have called me. It won't happen again
Afraid0fGhosts 1 year ago
@Afraid0fGhosts damn guess he was there to BUST then get back to who he REALLY love!
kiera843 1 year ago
hahaha i love the ending remarks of your video! i love you dude! :-)
MsLoveadore 1 year ago
this is a very patriarchal -point of view he seems to neglect the fault of the husband
aylix89 1 year ago 3
v. cool
EmitBloch 1 year ago
dammmmnnnn hahahha this guy is straight out.... but its all true.. every word he said.... thanks for ur advice.....!
Peace16Girl 1 year ago
I personally feel sorry for the desperate woman who stay sleeping with a man. When they know he got a wife and kids at home.. It's like you have no respect for yourself cause at the end of the day, and the holidays. He's is nowhere to be found and aint thinking about you. It's also mind boggling how they think of if he leave her for me. He not gone cheat on me.. It's like you dumbb ass @#%$% how do you think you got him?? By him cheating on him woman.
I'm glad I'm out of the dating game.
tasha1985 1 year ago
@tasha1985 lmao!!!! .... but just to back some of the " other women " up.. its not that their desperate for some other persons husband.....i personally think its more about the thrill..something different.....truthfully the sex gets boring with the same person day after day.. year after year.. and so on....
Peace16Girl 1 year ago
@Peace16Girl
Ok so just cus the sex get boring that means go fuck somebodys husband....
tasha1985 1 year ago
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Honestly, I've been the other woman and it is not fun! It's stupid, it doesn't go anywhere, and more than likely if he breaks up with his girlfriend you are not the next runner up. I was the other woman to this guy who broke up with his girlfriend and then pick up a new one a month later. It was not me, and not only was it not me, but I began to be the other woman to the new relationship. *Peace
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evapitts 1 year ago
You, know i really like this video. Next topic, say why do men feel the need to have affairs, is he really a man, or is he trash!!! loved to hear your thoughts on this!!!
Hoshi88 1 year ago
@Hoshi88
I'm a try and do a video on that would be good, and have several upset men.
tasha1985 1 year ago
THANK YOU
hypedd007 1 year ago
what's funny is that a relationship that begins with cheating will most likely end with cheating. it would be very stupid to think that a guy that is cheating on his wife with you would, would not cheat on you. that's a sign of a weak man that can't handle his manly responsibilities. i know a guy that has been married three times and is now on his fourth, and he's already looking at other woman because he feels neglected. i just want to vommit
TheCurious253 1 year ago 2
It is all about him, and getting his sexual jollies off seeing his wife and other women cry, beg, get frustrated all over him as if he is a god or something. It is a sick ego of his to see women crawl at his feet trying to convince him that they are the one for him to and to leave his relationship with whomever, for him. A lot of men find this dynamic of women crying over him quite funny. It is a cruel game and sick game for everyone besides him.
blacklightfreakout 1 year ago
This is not The Other Woman problem. This is a male ego problem with insecure men who get power trips trying to juggle 2 to more women around, because he likes to see women fight and be stressed out over him. He is a Narcissist and enjoys seeing his wife, and the other woman feel insecure them not knowing where they stand in a relationship with them. This is all fun and games to him. He hates his wife as much as he hates his mistress.
blacklightfreakout 1 year ago
And don't give me that "Oh, but he was a good man when we dated, but he turned out to be an asshole and cheat on me once we got married." Yeah, right. A jerk off as a husband was a jerk off as a boyfriend. So therefore, many of you married wives get what you deserve, because you married a man who didn't have a good character in the first place. You saw the signs but ignored it. Thinking he will change. Or you were too desperate and slap happy to get married to ANYBODY. That you married a fool.
blacklightfreakout 1 year ago
And you keep on boo-hoo about some other woman seeing your man, because you don't have the guts to leave an emotionally and psychologically abusive relationship, so you sit there being pissed at some other woman, instead of being pissed off at your man. While what you out to be doing is get a divorce like any other smart chick, but wait...ya'll ain't smart. The reason why you married an asshole in the first place.
blacklightfreakout 1 year ago
It is not another's woman's job to save your marriage. That is your stupid ass husband's job. Obviously he chooses everyday to say "I don't give a sh*t about my wive's feelings. I am going to do whatever, even if it hurts her." How is that another woman's fault? And you very same women who blame the mistress are the very stupid ones that stay in the marriage with a jerk off who disrespects you.
blacklightfreakout 1 year ago
@blacklightfreakout You really should have your own page because you're comments are right on point...
downtownchicagobarbi 1 year ago
Ask your self the question, what is your problem for marrying a guy like that in the first place? I bet you have a good reason to excuse that. And it could be legitimate. As legitimate as these women being lied to by men with them saying they ain't married in the first place. Don't blame another woman, because your man has the inability to do the right thing by cheating on you in the first place.
blacklightfreakout 1 year ago
My response to @TheAleska1987,
You can say that about the wife then, too.
Why do women not own up to their stupidity for marrying assholes? Maybe the wives are just as retarded with low self-esteem with mental issues, because obviously her husband don't love her either.
blacklightfreakout 1 year ago
@TheAleska1987 who wrote to me in private message. ok here is a question for you then. What business does this other woman have sleeping with a married man? Who's fault is it that the woman caught feelings. So what is she has genuine feelings for this man...she is still just a fuck because he never wanted her in that capacity in the first place. People need to own up to their own stupidity and stop trying to pin the blame on others.
blacklightfreakout 1 year ago
How about?? If i was with someone for 5 yrs and he obviously seeing someone and left me and two weeks later he got married to the girl with three kids and NOW thinking im gonna be the other woman...Says he loves me still and blah blah blah.....Yeah ok, b@#ch please...Oh and ol girl thought all the jokes and s#@t was funny when he was at home with me...Tried to tell her lol and let the games begin...
LoriLLC 1 year ago
@LoriLLC, Don't worry. He will give her hell, too. Just get your popcorn and laugh.
blacklightfreakout 1 year ago
the judgment is ill placed. 'the other woman' is NOT violating a trust between two other people. the man who has 'the other woman' without the knowledge/consent of his main woman is just playing himself. in a sense, he is lying to both himself and her by pretending the main relationship is meeting all his needs. most primary relationships benefit from 'strange' on occasions. it's not the sex that destroy relationships, it's all the lies people tell themselves and one another. - the other woman
FuchsiaShock 1 year ago 2
FOOLISH!
shesofillmoe 1 year ago
i love u!!!
socajem 1 year ago
AMEN!
Blackardis 1 year ago
Other women have it good: ALL the pleasure and NONE of the responsibility! <3
Mokurentate 1 year ago
@Mokurentate, The Other Woman has it good only if she doesn't love the guy, and he is nothing to her but a bootcall. If she loves him, then she is in a hell hole. Unless, the married couple are open-minded enough to have a polygamous relationship or open marriage where the man takes responsibilities for both women in a loving manner. But many men don't want responsibility of having 2 women. They just want the sex.
blacklightfreakout 1 year ago
Wow! Every 'other woman' should see this message. This is brilliant! I'm subscribing!
mssonji1969 1 year ago
Blacklightfreakout, you are a fucking GOD!!!
tomomichan2 2 years ago
Hahahahhaaa - LOVE IT when a DUDE admits the OW-Ho is just that - a "pipe" ... something to f*ck! Nothing more. Nothing less. TOTAL RAW TRUTH & I love it!
VenusNails 2 years ago
@VenusNails, but the wife must be the same thing if he is disrespecting her in every way. Don't see how the so called "ho" is worst off than the wife who gets cheating on by her husband. You act like the wife won't have any feelings of embarassment and dishonor from the situations. What is the point of marriage if a man isn't sexually satisfied with his wife where he needs to go find someone else?
blacklightfreakout 1 year ago
Men think they are fucking slick playing these psychological games on women.
2010 is a new era. Let's show these dudes how crazy a bitch can get on their asses. I don't care if the you are the wife or girlfriend being cheated on, or if you are the other women.
Show these nigga who they be playing with. Make their asses wish they have never been born.
blacklightfreakout 2 years ago 9
Got some damn nerve making this video. I hope that all men with Other Women trying to pull this stunt makes the Other Woman made enough to try to destroy these men's lives for trying to make them feel worthless to their advantage. Slash their car tires. Go up to their jobs and their wives jobs and cause a scene to where they lose their jobs.
And their wives should be taking these dumb ass men to court to get every fucking dime they got out of his bank account for cheating on them.
blacklightfreakout 2 years ago
turn around and say "You are a useless ho. I got me a wife. I don't need you. You were just a good fuck." Yeah, you got a wife alright. Why did you go try to fuck her instead of trying to find, beg, seduce, romance and sex up other women then? What part of you and "having a wife" made you want to get up all in another woman's pussy?
Then want to get all holier than thou and shit like a saint by telling the woman that she is immoral. WHAT ABOUT YOUR ASS MOTHER FUCKER?
Men like GurltalkTV...
blacklightfreakout 2 years ago 9
yeah. it's like when men cheat, they forget they have a wife @ home to fuck or something. XD lol
Mokurentate 1 year ago
@Mokurentate, so true. No one is the winner here. The wife and mistress both loose, if you ask me.
blacklightfreakout 1 year ago 4
@blacklightfreakout So very true. Discovery day of the affair (which always happens) should be the biggest deterrent against an affair. The married guy I dated turned into a little bitch all to protect his Luenell looking illiterate hippopotamus wife. Even though I chose to end it with him, she stalked me relentlessly until I filed a restrainer order against her lunatic azz. Women, its so not worth it. If he is married, RUN! Married men who cheat are all weak, conflict avoiding, cowards!
carmenjones411 3 months ago
@carmenjones411 I mean seriously, if you saw me and saw my ex-mm wife, you'd know everything said in this video is true, otherwise my ex-mm would have fought for ME instead of that violent obese cow. They never leave, they use beautiful women to feed their sagging egos. And the wife will not give him up, they are usually too stupid and will use hating you as a energy force to rebuild their marriage, like they've won a prize. When u kno better u do better. I will never do that mess again!
carmenjones411 3 months ago
@blacklightfreakout It is seriously pathetic. The men never stop to think that maybe, just maybe, they're to blame also ( GASP )...the wives think along the same line, and everyone acts like it's all the other woman's fault ( damn her and her supernatural powers of seduction ), and the song remains the same. And I just love how all the men assume that these women even WANT more from *them* than a lay, too.
CherryPrincipessa 1 week ago
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@blacklightfreakout It is seriously pathetic. The men never stop to think that maybe, just maybe, they're to blame also ( GASP )...the wives think along the same line, and everyone acts like it's all the other woman's fault ( damn her and her supernatural powers of seduction ), and the song remains the same. And I just love how all the men assume that these women even WANT more from *them* than a lay, too.
CherryPrincipessa 1 week ago
It is always the (other) women who is made to feel bad, while these men can go guilt-free trying to fuck everybody butt his wife like he suppose to do.
Most women are in a relationship with a man, because she truly loves the man and hopes that he would do good by her. These men are the ones playing games on women by telling them they are miserable in their relationships and want to leave their girlfriend or wife to be with you. Just lying in order to get pussy. And have the nerve to turn...
blacklightfreakout 2 years ago 4
Man! I hope you start making videos! <3 <3 <3
Mokurentate 1 year ago
@blacklightfreakout ok here is a question for you then. What business does this other woman have sleeping with a married man? Who's fault is it that the woman caught feelings. So what is she has genuine feelings for this man...she is still just a fuck because he never wanted her in that capacity in the first place. People need to own up to their own stupidity and stop trying to pin the blame on others.
TheAleska1987 1 year ago
Actually I think that GurlTalkkTV is an asshole and he is part of the problem. Another stupid ass black man talking down on the Other Woman that he had no problem sleeping with and using her for sex then goes to turn around to say that she is nothing, but his wife is so fucking precious and special.
What GurlTalkTV is doing is helping all his male friends have mistresses and dump them at THEIR CONVIENCE (the men).
He never stated how the men who do this are assholes and jerk offs.
blacklightfreakout 2 years ago 3
Well it did seem a bit condescending, but he ain't stupid. He knows exactly what he's talking about! =]
Mokurentate 1 year ago
To be honest the guy is worthless and doesnt deserve a wife or an OTHER woman. True story
Lalachicki 2 years ago 2
you should do one for when they are the the other man ;)
khadiyahDhaiti 2 years ago
I wish i could send this to my husband former whore...but she doesnt speak english..lol
ereyes28 2 years ago
@ereyes28 DUDE. omg Same situation!!! It was a Japanese person too. Watch my video, it's all in there. :D :D :D No, I'm serious. I wish I could show this video to the Other Woman too, but her English is shit. I chose to stay with my boyfriend though.
ragebot666 11 months ago
u definatley have smacked sense into me !
THANKYOU
chanelleisme 2 years ago 3
i like both women not as whores but as two women i like ,i like feeling like a champ and being treated good at multiple ladies homes atleast two,and i dont mind helping out , i dont want to just lay up matter of fact i want too be with both women ,i dont ever want just another woman for physical pleasure alone , i feel thats low i like to enjoy the whole woman not just her body,hey better yet why lie why not just tell the women how u r str8 up and see if theyll except it speak truth not a lie
poohlu 2 years ago
keepin it real...it is what it is....maybe she is not looking for him to commit to her....it may just be a matter of "convenience" for both of them.....yes it is wrong to cheat but it becomes something totally different when one goes so far as to make her presence known to the "main girl"....if you are going to be the other woman....don't get too emotionally attached to him....and dont make a "career path" of it either....i'm just sayin....
SoftandBeautiful77 2 years ago
what if the relationship was already in ruins?
ninimeru 2 years ago
Usually when someone cheats. The relationship was already ruined, maybe the OTHER person did not know about it, but it was RUINED. Many people cheat because they are NOT happy and an opportunity arises, and they go back to the other person sometimes out of guilt. The relationship is not a "real-lationship" its a fraud and doesnt mean a damn that is why the person cheated to BEGIN with. When I say cheat, I mean LONG term, not a one night stand fiasco (which is wrong also) but long term is diff.
Lalachicki 2 years ago
@Lalachicki
I don't know......... I know men that have cheated on their S/O, and they are totally in love with their S/O. I think its thoughts like that that keep the sideline business booming. Some men don't think with the top hat, they think with the bottom, so I would be nothing for them to cheat
ayisiennumero1 1 year ago
@Lalachicki Amen and agree...
downtownchicagobarbi 1 year ago
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DDA121 2 years ago
To all the women out there: you deserve a man that's devoted to loving you, and you alone. Don't settle for less. If he already has a girlfriend/wife, then you will always come second, AND YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT. Same goes for the wife of the cheating husband. But also, don't place all the blame solely on your husband. If he's in a loving relationship, he probably won't cheat. But if they do, for whatever reason, then f*ck him (not literally, lol). I will say it again, you deserve better!!
meiaaiem 2 years ago 4
The wife becomes the pain in the ass and the other women is more appreciated because she is simply there to take the edge off. Ohh this makes so much sense.... reminds me of when I got a call from the other woman and she actually lied for him and told me she was a different person who dogsat for him. There was that one day when I went to kiss him and his mouth smelled like tuna.... I have to go now....my crotch burns.
MimosaGroove 2 years ago 3
Ouchhhhhhhh!
mjbgifts1 2 years ago
Being the Other Woman is will not gaurantee happiness, or sadness just as much as being a man's wife won't gaurantee you happiness, or sadness. There are a lot of miserable wives out there as much as there are miserable Other women. Some happy wives as much as some women can be happy as being the Other Woman.
What we just got here is two women trying hard to keep a man who most likely ain't making neither of them happy. If the Other Woman is unhappy, most likely his wife is too. That's fact!!
blacklightfreakout 2 years ago 7
@blacklightfreakout : VERY WELL SAID!!
Nergy4life 2 years ago
Now people are saying the Other Woman is nothing but pussy and a whore to the married man. But that is not really true. I mean, she is no more of a whore and a piece of pussy than what his wife was to him before he married her. Men use women for sex regardless of being a wife, girlfriend or other woman. There are plenty of wives out there who feel or know that they husbands want them nothing but sex, plus cooking, doing his laundry and ironing his shirts.
blacklightfreakout 2 years ago 6
I agree once again. I think many wives and girlfriends also need a slap in the face. It is almost as if they justify the man cheating with the fact that they have a TITLE!! To me, if the title of (wife,b.m, gf) meant anything in the first place to the guy, then cheating would not even occur. As a woman, if I am with a guy in a relationship and other guys try to hit on me (I OPENLY) decline that offer out of RESPECT for my relationship and LOVE for my guy.
Lalachicki 2 years ago 3
If a husband really loved his wife, he wouldn't be cheating. If the man truly loved the OW (other woman) he would be married to her. So basically, they both are getting crumbs. And I am so sure that his wife isn't having the best relationship with him as well. Probably not sexually just as much as the other woman is not having an emotional relationship with the married man. It goes like this, the Other Woman gets the good sex but the wife gets the bills being paid by her husband.
blacklightfreakout 2 years ago 22
@blacklightfreakout
She also gets the chores, cooking, chauffeuring, nagging, and the responsibility of making sure he's not cheating. Oh! and kids too. XD lol
Mokurentate 1 year ago
@blacklightfreakout ..... omg... this is so true!!!!! i dont think anyone could have said it better ! ur words were very helpful... : )
Peace16Girl 1 year ago
@blacklightfreakout Being with a married man is just for the excitement honestly. If anyone believes otherwise they are just fooling yourself. Theres no way the ow is respected look how the relationship started. Men just want that extra bit they arent getting. Women want to change the guy and for them its the taking factor. They feel good having bested another women. Thats how I feel anyways
ZephyrsBell 9 months ago
I think this video has some good points, but overall it is kind of flawed. The "Other Woman" is no more of a worst positions than his wife. Here is why, just because a man stays in a marriage does not mean he is happy in that marriage, or he wouldn't be go looking for a women besides his wife. The only reason he is staying in that marriage is because he doesn't want to get a divorce which makes him lose lots of money. But overall his wife on an emotional level is just as much 2nd place as the OW
blacklightfreakout 2 years ago 14
Exactly my thoughts. Just because he runs back to his wife/gf/baby mom does not mean that he is doing it because he LOVES her. In fact, it is more about the familiarity of the relationship and probably the fact that he can get away with it, that pulls him to that person. Many men are actually not dogs, who just want to cheat for sex. The # 1 reason is because something is LACKING. Just bc he crawls back doesnt mean he loves her ONE bit. The other woman and the mistress are BOTH on the same level
Lalachicki 2 years ago 3
@Lalachicki well said.....
16msjasmine 2 years ago
man brotha - a little hard on the "other woman" . ima thinken maybe yours is pressuring you.LOL! if there is the other woman. this is a huge role in a cheating man's relationship - come on....SEX encompasses 75% in a marriage - what is left - food, shelter...additionally friendship is important - rest assured this other woman is also their friend. you know he is venting his life stressors on this lady too...albeit each are owed little respect; afterall he sought her.
ernfrn40 2 years ago 4
Good topic, good delivery....I am too serious for the other woman BS. I am also happy with myself and don't feel I have to be with a man at all cost, so none of them will get away with that when dealing with me.
Caribbeanprincess1 2 years ago
What is Temple Christian's email address and website. How do I add him as a friend? I agree with this video.
mindyourbizok 2 years ago
I was the other woman... for a night...
without knowin it at the time though, then I was pissed
Cause I'm not down for that, I dont condone it. The guy was a dick.
DaisyThorn 2 years ago
"Now that shit was so offensive it aint even funny, so why the hell would anyone wanna marry your offensive disrespectful ass."
LMAO!
PreCurSeD 2 years ago 2
"Slap the shit out of you with English" that's hilarious!
nospaces08 2 years ago 2
the other woman has a chance when the wife/girlfriend finds out about her. Now that is saying that when the present woman is out of the way...he actually wants to continue a relationship with you...(the jump off). It has happen but the new chick is never happy because now she doesn't trust him and he is back in the same boat he was before....a nagging wife or girlfriend.
blackeee1 2 years ago
well said...
1sweetcanderella 2 years ago
hmmm...yeah he dont even respond by txt. he thinks messin with my login counter is love but he can go drinking and texting other girls.
littlesailboat 2 years ago
Oh my goodness, at the 4 minute mark, when you were letting it simmer, were you sucking your thumb!!!! Hahahhahaha
madika1 2 years ago
I was with you up until about 5:44. I don't think there is a way to have some respect for the person your already disrespecting. Thats just some gray shit in between the clear black and white. Assuming she already knows, then there is no way she can be any more disrespected and the marriage was over the moment he made the choice to have sex outside of the marriage.
mzG216 2 years ago 4
And the MOST obvious question after that is do you think you deserve that?
And if he did it to her......c'mon people, say it with me........what on this green earth makes you think he won't do it to you?
mzG216 2 years ago 2
I think it all comes down to how much you value yourself and how much you believe you deserve. By you even becoming the other woman, this man has said loud and clear by his actions, "I will lie to a person who expects the truth from me. I will decieve this person and I have no respect for the relationships I build with a woman."
So the obvious next question is, why would you EVER want a man that would do that? Is that an admirable character trait?
mzG216 2 years ago 2
i was the other woman to an ex and i had some bitch be the other woman to my recent relationship. i see both sides of the coin. thanks for the video
cchagdes 2 years ago
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641asagi 2 years ago
thank you for this video
Ineasie 2 years ago
Damn...that shit hurt. The hardcore truth but....damn lol
Bgirl07 2 years ago 7
You R right. The other women is the pleasure principle. Married women try and keep ya man pressure free!
Ilikehismuscles 2 years ago
Why people always talk about what wives or women should do to keep a man????? such backwards thinking. If there was more pressure placed on men to do things to keep a woman they would behave differently. People talk about how women are treated in Afghanistan etc but women here are not in much better situations, it's just down played because of the freedom to wear whatever etc
Caribbeanprincess1 2 years ago 5
i know somebody who was cheating on his wife of 11 years (and three kids) to be with the other woman. this other woman claimed she didn't want 2 disrespect the wife, but "he just wouldn't leave her alone." when he physically left his wife after a year of cheating, he ended up getting the other woman pregnant (who already has a child by another man) while he was still married to his wife. the strange thing: the wife ended up being the other woman to another married couple who she was friends wit
lilegyptian83 2 years ago
even if by some great chance he leaves his wife for you why would you want to be his wife when if he did it to her, he'll do it to you. which means just like he dogged her for you, he will dog you for someone else!!
mahdsmom 2 years ago 4
I am the other woman, and I have been for the past 9+ years. We have a 6yr old daughter together and the one thing that hurts me, is that his family has never seen her. Being the other women has a bad side to it also...... My daughter, I love her with all my heart, but we made her together, she has the right to know her fathers people side....Being the other women is coming to an end...... And what he said in the video is so, so, true....
302FLel 2 years ago 4
What the hell is wrong with being "the other woman"???
I get only the good times with my married man..I dont have to answer to anyone.... i can do, say, wear, see, whoever WHAT ever i want to do..
Dont feel like we are all sittin around waiting for him to leave his wife.. Hell no, his wife can keep him! I dont want him all up in my business lmao
Im not disrespecting his wife.. i dont know her & if its not me he is fukin, its someone else..
raveness78 2 years ago
you are just seflish an nasty
joshuewife2010 2 years ago
sounds like u enjoy being a slut
Senator1 2 years ago
im not a slut.. Im only seeing one man..think what you all like... it works for us... enjoy today cos you may be gone tomorrow...
raveness78 2 years ago
um well maybe it seems nice now but wont it be u who ends up being hurt ? i dont think your a slut but i do think u must be lonely. maybe even if its just alittle beacause in the end the person your shareing so much with isent yours please take care of yourself you r very much worth loveing and you deserve someone who will give him self fully every woman needs to know she is more than a toy and you should be with someone that makes u feel that way
jenaluvsinuyasha 2 years ago
and the thing no one likes to mention is that there are some financial perks to being the other woman...just keeping it real
poetree2000 2 years ago
I dont take money from "married" boyfriend.. That would be like prostitution,
Why can't we just all live our lives accordingly. Whats works for me, might not work for you.
Once pppl get married, its seems the husbands miss out! No more blow jobs, not much sex and you can forget about anything freaky. Maybe wives should invest more time into their husbands & then maybe they wouldnt stray.
We are all individuals. We are all different. Let's stop the fighting!
raveness78 2 years ago
You just confirmed that the "other woman" is like a sperm receptacle, nothing more or nothing less...doing all the freaky things, yet not considered worthy enough to be showcased. Pleasure principle like the guy in the video said. you seem to have very low self-esteem.
Caribbeanprincess1 2 years ago
OK, I have great self esteem. When I was younger I had none, going from one abusive relationship to the next. Finally, I have 'found' myself and am totally comfortable with who i am and what i want out of life. Its hard to say all i want in this limited space, but i wish ppl would stop puttin me down for 1)bringing a different perspective and 2)being different. Im not a slut, Im not out to hurt anyone, Im just doin what we r all doin..tryin to be happy...
raveness78 2 years ago
Some men just justify their reasons to be dogs
LadyPhoenix1987 2 years ago
yes.
Some
not me
PreCurSeD 2 years ago
It's true what he's saying, but he never once mentions what the man does wrong. Just because men have a sex drive and can't control it does not give him to right to have an affair. He mentions how the "other woman" is being disrespectful to the wife, however, the husband is being just as disrespectful.
LadyPhoenix1987 2 years ago 13
@LadyPhoenix1987, That is because men for centuries have always put the blame on the woman and has excused his own actions for his convenience. Men will never admit when they are wrong. Just like to be little bitches and blame women for the actions they, the men , to part of . Them blaming women takes them off the hot seat and give them a position of superiority in matters where they are very inferior at. Just them being assholes at a woman's expense.
blacklightfreakout 1 year ago
@LadyPhoenix1987, i'm not justifying men who cheat and saying it's right. but, you gotta remember that women do not have to "chase" sex like men do. for most women, sex comes natural to them and that's the main reason it's a bigger deal for us men than women. women basically symbolize sex in a better light then men do too. for men, that's why it's limited in a physical sense, where women can see sex beyond just that and mainly through anything.
92680BOYD 1 year ago
Very intrestin!!! Itz not only men that find it hard 2 control onez ergez when in a commited relationship!!! Let me tell u!!!!!
BlaqWidowz 2 years ago
Funny vid, but I do think it was a bit easy on the guy involved. If my guy was cheatin, ok Id wanna kill the girl but ultimatly its him thats doing the wrong. That girl has no actual responsibility (if shes not in a relationship) to not go with anyone. He does however. Its him that made the commitment, its him thats in the wrong.
LittleBittyOne 2 years ago 7
I'm 23, I got married 9/27/08. I am a Proud WIFE, I love my husband,but I am smart enough to know that stupid lil sideline hoez are all after him but guess what...I got the ring,I got the last name and his heart so he won't ever leave me for any of them lil sidelines...they can do whatever they want but they can't be me...thanks for trying though sidelines........good video!
nickyjones08 2 years ago
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nickyjones08 2 years ago
Great response. This was very straight to the point. Question: How could a woman keep things more interesting? (Sexually)
aquarius0903 3 years ago
i have been the other woman. but i didnt know.. i was lied to! lol.
jaleyna 3 years ago
HELL yeah...respect yourself ladies, he knows what he wants
cocoacute 3 years ago
nice video..tell the dumb bitches a thing or two.....women need to stop settleing for less....!
jadeisback 3 years ago 3
sometimes u r manipulated into being the other woman.this man hid his ring from me until he knew i was in love with him then he told me he was married.most men know that when you're in love it'll be hard to fight emotions and say no.needless to say i was the other woman for 2mnths.since then i always ask 2 questions"are you married?"and"do you have kids?"i may be lied to(at least i asked)but will take things slow and if his desperation shows to have sex too soon then i know he's not a keeper
cherryboboc 3 years ago 6
All the married men I know are cheating or have cheated on their wives. I think it is an animal instinct men are born with and getting married and wearing a ring will never change that. I recently found out that my husband has cheated on me for all our time together. Bottomline is as long as their are women who will open their legs for a free lunch or a cheap watch, their will me married men piping them.
brikcellnichole 3 years ago
As long as there are immature men who don't honor their vows, respect themselves, their wives and families they will always play games with their own mind making it okay to cheat in their minds. Married men know that they are married. The ones who cheat, don't care that they are married. They won't leave their wives, but why should they when they can get away with it?
TheGodWoman 3 years ago
Women may ultimately open their legs but men are usually the instigators. I have never been the other woman but we have to be careful about laying blame (both parties are to blame). Also, a man will cheat if he wants to, it is not instinctive to want to sleep around. Only male rapists can use that argument as they clearly can't control themselves e.g. these types jump out of bushes and attack women. Normal men can exercise restraint if they respect their women.
seculley 3 years ago 2
honestly when you start off as friends and it was not something that was meant to happen it makes it a lot more difficult to just walk away. you then feel as though he has no rerason to lie to you because of the friendship that is there.i feel bad for those who have fell victim to getting themselves hurt by believing in such a complicated situation.
MIAzye123 3 years ago 3
that's how i got caught up..being friends...never knew he had a committed girlfriend until a year later. You live and you learn right? :0)
blacklily624 3 years ago
"I feel if i dont slap the shit out of you in english you may not understand" ROFLMAO!! You are the greatest!!!
Melieverafter89 3 years ago 2
PREACH.
justcrystalle 3 years ago
I've been the other woman, but he wasn't married it was in high school. I will never do that again bcuz i feel like if it had lasted i wud be happy at someone else's expense. Women need to put themselves in the situation and fight emotions sometimes.
LyssaGB 3 years ago
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7lwa83 3 years ago
thank you for letting "the other women" or what i like to call them (ignorant nasty disrespectful side hoes)know whats up. if "the other woman" gives you shit about your video and your comments about them, then they really are dumb itches because you are coming at them in a man's perspective.
all you dumb side hoes get no respect from me.
kimsofabulous 3 years ago
The other woman is stupid... Cheating men are evil... Women are not that emotional =-(... You don't pay your taxes? You shouldn't say that on youtube.
hollyhollyrose 3 years ago
I think he meant he doesn't pay your taxes, so he won't tell you what to do.
Cheating men AND women are grimey. If you feel you still want to be single, then be single. Yeah, marriages get boring. But that in no way is just the wife's fault. It's the fault of BOTH people.
Married people get comfortable. They think the job is done once the wedding's over. If you stop doing the thing that attracted them in the first place, of course you'll lose interest.
lavinder11 3 years ago
Women get tired too. We want something young, something new, but we're the ones worrying about the kids and what will happen to them if we ruin this relationship.
Men do what they THINK they need to do, and think about it later (like when the wife finds out).
But I appreciate and honesty of the video.
lavinder11 3 years ago
Lavinder11, I couldn't have said it any better.
tanyatmr 3 years ago
"I think he meant he doesn't pay your taxes" Okay Iget it now.
hollyhollyrose 3 years ago
what about the other women that us there for a man he needs emotional stability that he cant get from his wife no sex involved?
TrillzMisses 3 years ago
Honey if he was in a happy home he wouldnt be looking to get into my pants in the first place. Being the other woman means that i dont have to look after him and cook for him, why would i wanna keep him all the time? And im single hes the one thats in the relationship so he needs to have respect.
LaurenRoseDarlling 3 years ago 3
You are trying to justify what you're doing by making it sound like you're not guilty because you're single. You have absolutely no right whatsoever to sleep with another woman's husband under any circumstances. Reality check. What was that Temple said about the other woman? Do the words "Your offensive, disrespecful ass", ring a bell? And if you believe he needs to have the respect, that means throwing you out on yours.
Terrigm45 3 years ago
Yeah! To whomever you were leaving that comment for... sleeping with someone in a relationship is totally irresponsible. The mentality that it is not your problem is highly immoral.. Whether you like it or not, you are now involved in the emotional pain and suffering of two people. You're guilty.
quitejaded 3 years ago
wtf this shit is funny. Thx.
ErikaDedon 3 years ago
no nigga no hahaha
addddavis13088 3 years ago
so true...hahaha dat was so stright up guy dam felt like u was talking stright at me..been through that been da ada women, but then i realized...but ur vid help me to understand more tank u so much
nonarapozo 3 years ago
You said that the "other woman" shouldn't do things to try and take a man away from his "happy" home, but I'd like to know how happy of a home it really is if he feels that he has to have a woman on the side?! I enjoy your videos and the advice that you give I'd just like a little clarity on this.
PEACE & BLESSINGS!
ThaLuvLyOne 3 years ago
Ok I know I'm not Temple Christian or anything but maybe I can help to shed some clarity on the topic haveing done the whole other women thing myself. So It might not always be the case of an unhappy home that makes a man seek out the other women It might just be that he's had difficulty giving up the "chase" of other women he can have a good women she can even be fufilling he's sexual needs but in the words of the great method man "the only thing better than pussy is new pussy."
DaGboroDon 3 years ago
While this is 100% true I will never be anyones mistress.. you should do a video on STUPID BITCHES WHO THINK ANOTHER WOMEN WNAT THIER MAN YET THIER MAN WANTS THE OTHER WOMEN AND IS OBSESSED OVER ANOTHER WOMEN..That is true I went through this..I messed with her man once had em SPRUNG and he started stalking me and harassing me me when and my man was broken up..MAKE A VIDEO ABOUT STUPID BITCHES WHO think its impossible for their man to want may like other women
DivaAwwKrazy 3 years ago
Any mistress who thinks they are going to be number 1 is an airhead..lol trust me
DivaAwwKrazy 3 years ago