sadepayne- if a wife is not loving her husband sexually she is rebelling against God, and it makes it very hard for the husband to keep up the loving.I know from experience. i have not strayed though after14 years. She isloving in allother ways buteven though I am always romantic with her, she is not. She almost never initiates lovemaking nor anything romantic, and when i do suggest lovemaking sheis mainlyagreeing to it (never enough) because sheloves me.She won't tryto beintimate any othertime
I agree 100% with you sister!!!! I went through that very same situation with a man, and I was relieved when God brought me up out of that. I think that men do cheat because they are enticed. We as women need to demand and present our selves with more respect. That way, maybe, black men will treat us better. Afterwards, when we meet a man, we need to put God in that relationship.
@misscaramellicious every women always ask, why do men cheat? but maybe you can answer these questions, why do women cheat? why do women steal? why do women murder their own children (and yes that has happened before ive seen that shit on the news)? actually i have a better question, why does any one (men and women) do stuff to hurt or harm another human being?
Hey lady D, thank you for posting this video, it is so true what you are saying and God bless you for caring enough to post this and that is the love of God expressing itself through you. People that do not wanna take blame exist from the time life was created but they will only be setting there self up for serious consequences because even though adam and eve had excuses they were still not excused for there sin or misbehavior.
Men cheat because they do not receive much or any physical attention; much like women cheat because their man doesn't have much success or money. Plain and simple.
First and for most people should not be shacking or engaging in sexual relation's before marriage. the reason why is because your telling GOD , HA!!! I don't have to be in a union to reep the benefit's. That's a poor mind set. Steve Harvey is a fool and no sane mind should be listening to him. Besides he does not represent Jesus Christ. Men and women cheat because they are insecure, selfish and they lack loyalty. They lack the true knowledge of the real Jesus Christ! They are lost sheep!
Wat you said is so True and I agree 1000%. Tell it girl, Bcuz Steve Harvey reason is Bull$%# and when a men loves a women like the song goes. He will not stray because he has so much love for that women, that his love wont let him. But, when he for one isn't really mature and really can't love his women then of course it will be easy for him too.
Relationships are hard. The greatest problem is that people just don't want to be honest... with themselves or other people. Honesty is a very VERY hard thing, but it is the best choice to prevent drama that you don't want to deal.
Alotta Men cheat becouse,their women dont treat them how they wanna be treated:-( Alotta women in realtionships think its all about pleasing their feelings,and not their man feelings too
I agree with Steve in this sense. A man can't have sex with a woman unless she gives him the green light. If he does and he has sex any with her that's called rape. However, just because a woman says yes does not mean a man has to take her up on her offer. We men have to stop being lead by the flesh and start being lead by the Lord. Myself included.
Thats the truth. People are tempted by their own desire/lust, because they dont deal with what is in their hearts. Most people cover sin up, until it grows up and becomes obvious. That's why we must work on ourselves daily, live holy, tear down the strong holds in our minds and guard our hearts. Now I understand. Its simple. The word of God is clear, but it took the Holy Spirit to make it this plain.
You had me cracking up at 5:00..6 pack, 12pack, 20 pack muscles all over scrumptious..POW POW LOL!!!!!!!!!!! U got me crying over here!!! Thank u I needed that!!!!
Your r right I was married for 17 yrs and my ex left me and my 3 children while we were in Germany.. He blaned me for his unfaithfulness but I held on to God's word raised my children and God brought me through.. Recently I received over 20,000.00 after kids grown and my trusting God... God is good always
And I just DANCED FOR YOU RIGHT THERE ON THAT NOTE!!!!!! What the devil meant for evil, God turns it for our good and His glory! Ain't He alright? Better than alright....He's hmmmmm mmmmmm good. ;0)
Ok I think this is your calling girl! lol Men cheat and think nothing of it but let their wife or girl do it and they lose it! Both cheat for various reasons but lust is #1. Your hair looks great! BTW, are you hiding out in the bathroom at work? lol
Thanks! LOL...hiding out in the bathroom at work! ummmm NO (atleast not this time...LOL) I just recently moved and I was in my undecorated bathroom taping this.
You are right, somehow it is realized as wrong when the woman does it...and all h e double hockey sticks break loose!
Welcome back! Missed ya. You came back with the truth as usual. Steve Harvey was soooo wrong for trying to put men's cheating on women. I am not surprised though, I've seen this before, some men have this warped idea that because they are men they are expected to by nature to want to lay their seed as many places as possible and it's up to women to be responsible and/or regulators for their philandering.
LOL at ....fricka frack.... butt naked... better not lay a finger, love it :-)
Hey Girl! I'm glad you're back as well! Yes, that is very warped and you know what for some odd reason, when the tables are turned the woman is wrong and called everything but a child of God....imagine that...
LOL@ your preacher like riffs! You know that callin's on ya girl! But I do agree that they gave a LAAAME excuse. That's like saying I'm fat because food is readily available. Foolishness. See the common thread between cheating and gluttony?? GREED.
WHO ME??? rifffs noooooo...LOL. Yes, it is a VERY LAME excuse!!!! I was shocked that this was mentioned as the number one reason why men cheat...and the women on the show were the co-signing choir members...
Maybe we missed the point he was makin....I'm sure Bro. Harvey didn't mean the FOOLISH thing he said...;)
GREED...whew....that's another video. That's why we got to make sure WE ARE SHO NUFF SAVED with the HOLY GHOST living on the inside working & bringing about a change in US!
The number one reason that anyone would cheat on their significant other is because it is our nature to sin. Until we allow the Holy Spirit to give us a new nature we will continue to follow our own nature that we are born and shaped in. God bless you and keep you forever.
I'm sorry but many males shift blame. Real men are honest w/ themselves & others; real men are compassionate; real men can say: "I'm sorry." Real men LOVE Jesus! And His ways.
It's so good to see you Lady D--Have a blessed 2009 full of His Peace & Joy!
I'm shouting! You're right. Maturity is it. There are brothers that don't have the patience to wait for a woman with all the right qualities then they feel there is something else out there. "I don't care if there 100 of them.....he better not!"...haha. Preach it.
Happy new Year to you. You have been missed! (((HUGS))) and blessing to you in 09!The whole cheating thing blows my mind, because it is such a disrespect to yourself and God!! not to mention the one you are cheating against. Then for Steve who has claimed to be a Christian man on more than one occasion to make light of this, is truly sad, given the fact that he is married also. Sign of the times.
I have to agree with you on this one. People so often don't want to be accountable for their actions, so they try to find ways to justify their behavior. I believe that applies across the board, not just with cheating. Great video. God bless, and Happy New year sista!
it's so true: the same reason you steal because you are a thief, you cheat because whether you like it or not, you are a cheater. It all comes from within. It has nothing to do with anything anyone on the outside does.
sadepayne- if a wife is not loving her husband sexually she is rebelling against God, and it makes it very hard for the husband to keep up the loving.I know from experience. i have not strayed though after14 years. She isloving in allother ways buteven though I am always romantic with her, she is not. She almost never initiates lovemaking nor anything romantic, and when i do suggest lovemaking sheis mainlyagreeing to it (never enough) because sheloves me.She won't tryto beintimate any othertime
steventhr 1 year ago
I agree 100% with you sister!!!! I went through that very same situation with a man, and I was relieved when God brought me up out of that. I think that men do cheat because they are enticed. We as women need to demand and present our selves with more respect. That way, maybe, black men will treat us better. Afterwards, when we meet a man, we need to put God in that relationship.
misscaramellicious 1 year ago
@misscaramellicious every women always ask, why do men cheat? but maybe you can answer these questions, why do women cheat? why do women steal? why do women murder their own children (and yes that has happened before ive seen that shit on the news)? actually i have a better question, why does any one (men and women) do stuff to hurt or harm another human being?
RickySouthwell 8 months ago
The lust of the eyes and the pride of life is one of the downfall of people but they all sum up to one thing, sin.
jg95mia 1 year ago
Hey lady D, thank you for posting this video, it is so true what you are saying and God bless you for caring enough to post this and that is the love of God expressing itself through you. People that do not wanna take blame exist from the time life was created but they will only be setting there self up for serious consequences because even though adam and eve had excuses they were still not excused for there sin or misbehavior.
1dontBmad 1 year ago
Men cheat because they do not receive much or any physical attention; much like women cheat because their man doesn't have much success or money. Plain and simple.
JBthree24 1 year ago
Thats sooo true. Thankyou thankyou thankyou for putting it up. You said it it is a lame reason. Speak your mind. BTW love the lauryn hill.
cheytown41187 2 years ago
You should watch my video about men (Have Your Cake and Eat it Too) cheating. watch?v=_bBOhf2aHuc
Leave Comments Please. Thanks ; )
philopadaumus 2 years ago
Amen sister!! Isn't Steve on marriage number 3? Due to infidelity if I'm not mistaken.
redbonegal 2 years ago
First and for most people should not be shacking or engaging in sexual relation's before marriage. the reason why is because your telling GOD , HA!!! I don't have to be in a union to reep the benefit's. That's a poor mind set. Steve Harvey is a fool and no sane mind should be listening to him. Besides he does not represent Jesus Christ. Men and women cheat because they are insecure, selfish and they lack loyalty. They lack the true knowledge of the real Jesus Christ! They are lost sheep!
gynuwyne1 2 years ago
Wat you said is so True and I agree 1000%. Tell it girl, Bcuz Steve Harvey reason is Bull$%# and when a men loves a women like the song goes. He will not stray because he has so much love for that women, that his love wont let him. But, when he for one isn't really mature and really can't love his women then of course it will be easy for him too.
sadepayne 2 years ago
I listen to Steve Harvey radio, it be some crazy things said.
sadepayne 2 years ago
Relationships are hard. The greatest problem is that people just don't want to be honest... with themselves or other people. Honesty is a very VERY hard thing, but it is the best choice to prevent drama that you don't want to deal.
c00lwatter 2 years ago
Amen!!!! You hit the nail on the head....
tastycoco22 2 years ago
Alotta Men cheat becouse,their women dont treat them how they wanna be treated:-( Alotta women in realtionships think its all about pleasing their feelings,and not their man feelings too
theslimf 2 years ago
Good Video.
hourglas39 2 years ago
'Whatever the lord has for me, its mine in 09.'
Thanks for the wonderful words!
Adahondeayenh 2 years ago
Alright now. Preach.
LOJETE85 2 years ago
send this as a vid response to me WHY MEN CHEAT vid please
tpindell 2 years ago
Wonderfully said!!!
GRLNXTDR06 2 years ago
i need A-MAN...lol but AMEN
iLuv3Converse 2 years ago
Preach preach preach I do agree!
joshuaofjericho 2 years ago
Your Amazing! Praise God
JesusLovesme1981 2 years ago
Praise Him sis!
LadyLovelyLocs 2 years ago
I agree with Steve in this sense. A man can't have sex with a woman unless she gives him the green light. If he does and he has sex any with her that's called rape. However, just because a woman says yes does not mean a man has to take her up on her offer. We men have to stop being lead by the flesh and start being lead by the Lord. Myself included.
bjnt922 2 years ago
Amen. Thanks for commenting!
LadyLovelyLocs 2 years ago
Aman!!!!
jedarby 3 years ago
Whoo.......Amen!
BubbleGumDreamz 3 years ago
Thats the truth. People are tempted by their own desire/lust, because they dont deal with what is in their hearts. Most people cover sin up, until it grows up and becomes obvious. That's why we must work on ourselves daily, live holy, tear down the strong holds in our minds and guard our hearts. Now I understand. Its simple. The word of God is clear, but it took the Holy Spirit to make it this plain.
MrsJackieBrown 3 years ago
AMEN!
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
you understand what i'm saying? ha ha!
baby287girl 3 years ago
LadyLovelyLocs~
You had me cracking up at 5:00..6 pack, 12pack, 20 pack muscles all over scrumptious..POW POW LOL!!!!!!!!!!! U got me crying over here!!! Thank u I needed that!!!!
broken2bmadewhole 3 years ago
:0P
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
Preach sistah!!!! GOD BLESS
dell1nell 3 years ago
Your r right I was married for 17 yrs and my ex left me and my 3 children while we were in Germany.. He blaned me for his unfaithfulness but I held on to God's word raised my children and God brought me through.. Recently I received over 20,000.00 after kids grown and my trusting God... God is good always
msdwilliams57 3 years ago
And I just DANCED FOR YOU RIGHT THERE ON THAT NOTE!!!!!! What the devil meant for evil, God turns it for our good and His glory! Ain't He alright? Better than alright....He's hmmmmm mmmmmm good. ;0)
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
Ok I think this is your calling girl! lol Men cheat and think nothing of it but let their wife or girl do it and they lose it! Both cheat for various reasons but lust is #1. Your hair looks great! BTW, are you hiding out in the bathroom at work? lol
v8diva 3 years ago
Thanks! LOL...hiding out in the bathroom at work! ummmm NO (atleast not this time...LOL) I just recently moved and I was in my undecorated bathroom taping this.
You are right, somehow it is realized as wrong when the woman does it...and all h e double hockey sticks break loose!
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
P.S. Would that Calling be.....lol...to do Youtube Videos? LOL
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
LOL hey a women's online youtube ministry sounds good to me! lol You are passionate for truth. Hey daughters will prophesy!
v8diva 3 years ago
Welcome back! Missed ya. You came back with the truth as usual. Steve Harvey was soooo wrong for trying to put men's cheating on women. I am not surprised though, I've seen this before, some men have this warped idea that because they are men they are expected to by nature to want to lay their seed as many places as possible and it's up to women to be responsible and/or regulators for their philandering.
LOL at ....fricka frack.... butt naked... better not lay a finger, love it :-)
FabulousSamone 3 years ago
Hey Girl! I'm glad you're back as well! Yes, that is very warped and you know what for some odd reason, when the tables are turned the woman is wrong and called everything but a child of God....imagine that...
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
Sadly we live in a society of entitlement, and if it goes wrong, theyre victims.
danandamy 3 years ago
You are right and thats very SAD!
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
happy new year!
livinmybestlife 3 years ago
Hey SIS, HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
I've Missed You!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are soooooooo right on this.
22frosty 3 years ago
I've Missed You!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are sooooooooo right on this.
22frosty 3 years ago
:0)
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
LOL@ your preacher like riffs! You know that callin's on ya girl! But I do agree that they gave a LAAAME excuse. That's like saying I'm fat because food is readily available. Foolishness. See the common thread between cheating and gluttony?? GREED.
dymond06 3 years ago 2
WHO ME??? rifffs noooooo...LOL. Yes, it is a VERY LAME excuse!!!! I was shocked that this was mentioned as the number one reason why men cheat...and the women on the show were the co-signing choir members...
Maybe we missed the point he was makin....I'm sure Bro. Harvey didn't mean the FOOLISH thing he said...;)
GREED...whew....that's another video. That's why we got to make sure WE ARE SHO NUFF SAVED with the HOLY GHOST living on the inside working & bringing about a change in US!
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
You betta preach!!!! Preach!!!!
CreeBee 3 years ago
The number one reason that anyone would cheat on their significant other is because it is our nature to sin. Until we allow the Holy Spirit to give us a new nature we will continue to follow our own nature that we are born and shaped in. God bless you and keep you forever.
Rdardenea 3 years ago
TRUTH!
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
I'm sorry but many males shift blame. Real men are honest w/ themselves & others; real men are compassionate; real men can say: "I'm sorry." Real men LOVE Jesus! And His ways.
It's so good to see you Lady D--Have a blessed 2009 full of His Peace & Joy!
btw, you look very pretty in this video ")
GodEqualsLove4ever 3 years ago
REAL MEN ARE... You summed it up right there!
Thank you :)
Happy New Year, may yours be blessed full of Peace and Joy also. I always appreciate your comments ;)
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
THANK YOU!!!!
cleanheart25 3 years ago
:0)
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
Great video. It takes a real woman or a real man to stay committed to one person.
Seedcovers 3 years ago
That's the TRUTH!
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
WOMAN!!! YOU BETTA SAY THAT!!NOT EVEN A TWELVE PACK CAN BREAK ME....but we might need to talk about that twenty pack..LoL GOD Bless
kingdomkidd3 3 years ago
LOL....might have to pray about that one eh?
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
I'm shouting! You're right. Maturity is it. There are brothers that don't have the patience to wait for a woman with all the right qualities then they feel there is something else out there. "I don't care if there 100 of them.....he better not!"...haha. Preach it.
Troxler1911 3 years ago
Thanks Brother! Always good to have a male's prespective! Helps to balance things out! ;0)
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
Happy new Year to you. You have been missed! (((HUGS))) and blessing to you in 09!The whole cheating thing blows my mind, because it is such a disrespect to yourself and God!! not to mention the one you are cheating against. Then for Steve who has claimed to be a Christian man on more than one occasion to make light of this, is truly sad, given the fact that he is married also. Sign of the times.
shelleynalls 3 years ago
((((((((HUGS))))))))
Happy New Year!
I agree total disrespect for self and God. Unfortunely, many dont see it like that. (Blinded)
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
I have to agree with you on this one. People so often don't want to be accountable for their actions, so they try to find ways to justify their behavior. I believe that applies across the board, not just with cheating. Great video. God bless, and Happy New year sista!
mztmack2708 3 years ago
I agree that it goes across the board on my levels and situations. Blame Shifting is not the answer. Thanks. Happy New Year to u2!
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
it's so true: the same reason you steal because you are a thief, you cheat because whether you like it or not, you are a cheater. It all comes from within. It has nothing to do with anything anyone on the outside does.
butterflyze 3 years ago
That's right! Thanks for sharing!
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago
Preach...glad to see you are back!
cbranch76 3 years ago
Girl, it's GOOD to be back! Happy New year!
LadyLovelyLocs 3 years ago