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  • I REMEMBER THIS FROM BACK IN THE DAY!!!

  • Yes he is! Fine as shit!

  • OOH HE'S SO FINE

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  • So true

  • smooth ass track right here! Only real playaz can dig it!

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  • Dats real nigga n real words rite dere

  • nothing like a william bell sample

  • @jrosey yep. I'd like to hear "Trying To Love Two" sample by him.

  • when this first came out...i was 13

  • @badboiswagga77 omg im watchiing this and im 13

  • @badboiswagga77 Wow, you were a baby. I think I was 19. lol

  • i remember this i was like prolly 4

  • @Maggot23100

    u too damn lie, u weren't no damn 4. lol

  • @MrMostwanted32 shid im 15 now so ion even know lol

  • Love this song!

  • in the words of the immortal Kanye West, "Damn, they don't make'em like this anymore!"

  • I NEED YOU TO STAYYYYYY ! my favorite part !

  • some niggas out there don't know a woman's value because they are cowards and stupids boys and guys. this is the reason why i am married to a lovely whity husband who truly loves me for who i am.

  • i love this song and for my situation its the other way around...

  • aight, you could put her first....thats how they take advantage and become golddiggers

  • FACTS KUZ MOST NIGGAS DNT DO DHAT !

  • this songs BUMPS ! even on February 3, 2012 

  • shout out 2 marcos burgos i will always have a place in my heart 4 you realtalk !!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • please bring this music back!!!!!!!!!

  • track is too smooth <3

  • A PERSON CAN MAKE MISTAKES BECAUSE NOBODY IS PERFECT BUT LEARN FROM THEM AND TRY NOT TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE OVER AGAIN!!!

  • THAT'S RIGHT JAHEIM!!!! YOU ARE THE TRUTH!!!!

  • If any of yall know of a track with this beat except, William bell- forgot to be your lover, cormega- intro, bishop lamont - the name, dilated peoples. worst come to worst and ludacris- grownin pains, let me know!

  • i wonder how much time this guys done for sellin crack?? lol

  • women; cant live with em, CANT JACKOFF FOREVER!!! HAHAHAH

  • my homeboy knows her.. shes got clamydia!!!

  • my homeboy knows her.. shes got clamydia!!!

  • thats that ugly pigion from Belly movie, huh. yuuuuck.

  • love this!!

  • YO THATS THAT GIRL FROM BELLY HUH?

  • @nyc914  yeah the ugly nigger mongoiloid...; correct ghetto trash!!

  • man were r all da men dat look like dis one lol he could sing me to sleep

  • DONT READ THIS CAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS. YOU WILL GET KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE.TOMMOROW WILL BE THE BEST AY OF YOUR LIFE. HOWEVER IF YOU DO NOT POST THIS TO AT LEAST THREE VIDEOS YOU WILL DIE WITHIN 2 DAYS.NOW UV STARTED READING THIS DONT STOP.THIS IS SO SCARY.PUT THIS ON AT LEAST 5 VIDEOS IN 143 MINUTES WHEN UR DONE PRESS F6 AND UR LOVERS NAME WILL APPEAR ON THE SCREEN IN BIG LETTERS.THIS IS SO SCARY CAUSE IT ACTUALY WORK

  • THUMBS UP if its 2011 and your playing this :D:D!!!!

  • VERY NICE SONG!

  • the girl in this video played in tyler perry movie "madea family reunion" and that movie that playing on bet called "leprochan in the hood" i know its more but those two came to mind

  • i love this song i wake up to this i could remember

  • Oooooooooh. Here comes the baby making music

  • i would think this is one song that doesn't need to be explained, are people getting dumber ? 

  • wooooooooo old skool tune

  • When i find the girl for me. I'll put her first :D Skoola say so!!!

  • makes me think of my ex....

  • The reason we all get hurt, we don't put G_D FIRST. No women, men or children comes before him. This is why relationships fail, it's only temporary, but G_d is 4 ever, and ever.

  • God I love the Early 2000's & Late 90's Music

    Music today Is so Awful

  • @MsSwaggaonamilli so true, I think the era from 1995 to 2003 were the best ever for music.

  • @MsSwaggaonamilli  luv dis song

  • i like more calvin richardson's loving you.. :-)

  • Love it. Put me first.

  • IM MAD!!!!!!!!!

    BECAUSE THIS SONG SHUD HAVE WWAAAYYYYYYYYYYY MORE VIEWS AND LIKES THAN THIS!!!!!!!!!!!

  • If you forget about the one you love someone else will lover for you. He forgot aabout what he had.

  • I love this song so badly!

  • what year did this song come out?

  • @LovinLola96 2001 or 2002

  • what he is saying is that he is so busy doing everything but giving her the quality time that she deserves and he dont realize it until she start doing the bullshit and she is ready to leave pay attention!

  • GOOD song havent heard it in awhile almost forgot about this one, heard it yesterday & had to look this up! i love it lol !!!

  • love this song...its sooo true

  • Haven't heard this since 03. Good but no William Bell

  • he is a bad lip singe cuz he puts to much facial expression into it. im not saying that this is fake CUZ HIS VOICE IS AMAZING!! but singers lip sing to there song making the video

  • @TBHtruth the video is a sec fast

  • 61 HATERS. point,blank,period.

  • G... you can tell his ass smokes. lol.

  • I went to 8th grade promo on this song I still remember this like yesterday @bishopbeve man I've did wrong to in my pass but my next woman will have the crystal stone... I luv this song

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  • I love this version, but i swear i've heard a faster version like 10 years ago... anyone know which remix/version i'm talking about?

  • very good song. the original is from William Bell I Forgot to Be Your Lover (for everyone who is wonderin')

  • JAHEIM MAKE SOME MORE SONGS LIKE THIS-WE MISS YA MAN

  • 61 dislikes are cheating on their spouse

  • thi is my jam, and thiks my favorite songs .

  • nearly 10 years later and this song is still my favorite song. While there will always be 'new songs' I listen to more at the time. No song will ever catch this one in 'play count' I just love this song.

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  • wow i forgot all about this song lol. love it

  • these "essays" though (-___-)

  • Jaheim Jaheim Jaheim HotDamn Jaheim! There are no words...! TALENT!!!!!!!!!!

  • Dem niggaz u fuckn wit jus like dat

  • fuck men thats all i got to ssay they dnt do shit but hurt you and ussally the ones saying there not are the ones that r! the ones that dont say shit....its cuz they kno it

  • @britneykopshaw1234 someone's gunna love you right girl. don't stress.

  • yo wtf? my comment had way more likes then both these^^^^ where the hell did it go??

  • so sad but very true ppl get comfortable and forget bout being there for their loved one's

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  • its such a shame how rnb and hip has gone down the pan, this was when music was real and according to mr. rock we cud defend this shit, now its a bunch of no talent douchebags...what the hell happened?

  • jaheim is the best...can't help but love that man....and this song!

  • Nigga betta get his Act Ritee lmao

  • 100%'Good.

  • Love this song - it never gets old!!!!!!!!!!

  • william bell - i forgot to be your lover, this is suck a tacky fucking rip off but i suppose it'll help him fool all u teenage girls that he's an amazing, visionary and romantic poet. fuck this crap

  • @gurrae99 you sound real childiss

  • wonderful vocalist & song

  • Lalalalaa

    I Cant Even Talk About Myyyy Sistuation !

  • Best song ever!!!! not about some crap that's never going to happen but something that happens everyday :D

  • I dont give two fucks how old jah gotta get to finally get some recognition from these stupid ass kids.....he gon always be the main man

  • i think some people are getting the song twisted. Hes pretty much saying that if your lady is running around on you, going to the club not being truthful ect. You NEED to pay attention to her cuz something else is wrong. "I forgot to be your lover". You want to make a relationship work, you forgive, communicate and fix the problem. You dont just leave the person you love because they start making mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes, some larger then others but still.

  • @sagex89 ....... I totally agree with you

  • @sagex89 i agree 100000000000000000000000000000­000000000000000000000000000000­000000%

  • @sagex89 very true

  • @sagex89 thats excatly what he is saying I Love this song

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  • Couldn't have said it better myself. Fellas if you put us first, Guarantee we will do the same. You get what you put out! :)

  • I want to marry him!!

  • jaheim rock he is the best R&B artist

  • its 58 men who didnt put that woman first now they hatin cause jaheim speakin the truth smh #Haters

  • @FKB2k11 yeah let me put my bf as on of dem

  • If it wasent for the sunday all start weekend game girl, i could remember!

  • - dysss iss myy FREAKiN sonqq dudee fhaa'real -3 !

  • This made me want to go downstairs and talk BAD to my Husband! lol

  • you always put a women first

  • this is a guy singing a song about a relationship but all women doing here are complaining about how men are gay .

  • Why is he your fiance...if he does all that?

  • This was one of my favorite videos when I was little

  • Anyway, you know she's a keeper, if you let her in the car first, and then she reaches over to unlock your door...

  • thats the chick from a bronx tale all growed up

  • love this song

  • some people just going around disliking shit just for noticing ... whats in this song not like huuuh

  • is that Keisha From Belly?

  • @Mosiemo7911 Yeah, she play in more movies too.

  • I love this 

  • WELL HELL HIS HOMEBOYS AND THIS DAMN PITBULL IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN ME. SO I HAVE TO KEEP IT MOVING. ONE MANS TRASH ANOTHERS MANS TREASURE

  • We've all had our fair share of unlucky and unhealthy relationships. Eventually we will find someone who won't be full excuses, someone who won't abuse time, someone who knows how to treat us right without having to lose us.

    Just because one person of the other gender treated you wrong doesn't mean they make up the whole entire gender. Most likely if you were treated badly in the past, he or she's sitting right now listening to this song thinking about how they should of put you first.

  • jaheim the bossssssssssssssssssssssssssss­ssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @marvinsmiley1 thats my name m ymother named me after him LOL u said IM boss

  • im listening to this in 2011 !

  • @jaykimmiex me too!!!

  • I love this song never gets old

  • This is the jam...all day... all night..no matter how old it is<lol

  • hell yea 

  • Hey every guy on here seems to forget that women are Gods gift. they will cheat, they will take advantage but we cannot live without them. So unless all you men are contemplating being gay you better "PUT THAT WOMAN FIRST"

  • @SJAYize i now right

  • an outher rapper has the same beat...

    know some one how it is??

  • @vinztoni dilated people worst come to worst

  • @notoriousgeek yes ...but the original is from william bell -i forgot to be your lover

  • @hoppi36 i know

  • lol wow. the commenters here all sound like they have been hurt. I think people need to face the fact that there are cheaters in BOTH sexes. One needs to learn that if you have the misfortune of hooking up with one, you shouldn't take out your pain on somone else. All of this he/she bashing sounds like an effort and an excuse to hurt someone else like another person hurt you....and guess what, IT'S NOT FAIR. Simple as that.

  • Love this song!! @mford7600, u so right!! Ya better put that woman first or another man will!

  • He is saying truth.. I took the ring off what my ex fiance gave me.. Just wanna say "Put That Woman First"

  • i love this song so much :)))

  • Luv an romance should be a two way street. If ya man brings home roses an rubs ya feet when u cum home from work u should too. LOL.....

  • fellas it wont be long til she start comin in late if u not treatin her like a lady.fellas when was the last time u bought her home roses and a card from work tellin her how u fell just because or rubbed her feet when she said they hurt its the little things that count.what u wont do trust another man will

  • Men, we've gotta put our women first.

    Women, when you've got that right man, tell him how to love you (seriously - knowing you & KNOWING you are two different things!)

    Just love and support each other ~ & that's about it!

  • This just goes to show how well William Bell's work holds up.

  • I maybe 17 but I know what the man means and what he says is true "put your woman first"

  • I'm a man and i truly agree. Thats a man's backbone. If you don't believe me ask a real man, like me.

  • 51 people dont no how to put there woman first :P

  • i wish ma boyfriend would understand... i cant loop this song enough times

  • I NEED A MAN THATS GONE PUT ME AND HIS KIDS FIRST

  • To me it goes both ways. some women out there dont put their man first either. Men need their equal attention too. Love goes both ways, The man can put his woman first all day, but if the woman truly loves the man, they will also put him first as well.

  • Like If You Still Listening To THIS Song In 2011

  • The man is simply speaking the truth sand you would have to gain life experience inorder to understand where he's coming from

  • 50 people didn't put their woman first.

  • Not all men are bad not all women are evil. There are couples who have made it work. Respect in a relationship is so important. Once the respect is broken whoever is at fault it will never be the same no matter what. I spend my time not worried about what the next woman has to offer my man, but what I can do that no other woman can do to make him happy. If it's a hot plate to eat & a cold beer when he comes in the door so be it.

    Respect will make or break anyone :)

  • @9142133 totally agree! i finally have a REAL RELATIONSHIP with a REAL MAN who RESPECTS ME!

  • Aleskia....the original song is by Gladys Knight, but Ludacris used it in 'Growing Pains' also

  • Omg please i hope that anyone know if this beat is used in any other track? i serach for that beat like over 2 years but it was just like that not exactly like this jaheim used.. but the same melodie.. please and excuse my bad englisch :) thanks

  • @Alleskla12311

    Dilated Peoples - Worst Comes To Worst

    hope this helps

  • @hitsugayaaaaa Omg homie

    I love u! i looooove u!!!! thats it!!! :D:D:D:D

    now im happy thanks :) rlly thanks x3

  • @Alleskla12311 I know it's used in Growing Pains by Ludacris

  • my fav song of the decade

  • TRUST**

  • So f*n tiered of hearin how females r bitches and dudes r pricks..save urself the trouble n dont put TRUIST in em that quick..duhhh its as simple as that smfh...now jus enjoy the beautiful song

  • Lov disz sonq witta passion

  • i can see its a hot topic everybody writing paragraghs.

  • SO SEXY!