Hey hon, Just be patient. I have a guy I really like too. He doesn't live in another country just another state. It is still hard, because we can't talk as much. When I do get an email from him I get very happy, but it is sometimes weeks before I get another one. I hope you hear from him soon.
One thing that I wish I had done when I was single was be more assertive with guys. It took me over a year to let my husband know how much I liked him and it turned out that he liked me back and was just scared himself. If I had it all to do over again I would be more aggressive and let guys know that I like them a lot rather than hide my feelings a little. Have you actually told him that you like him and are interested? I would go that route if I were you and let things play out from there.
Yes, actually I wrote him a msg letting him know that I do like him and that I would like to be with him. So now I am nervously awaiting the reply. Yikes!
So, I am a navy wife, and if there is one thing I have gotten the hang of, is having my man over seas, and no communication for weeks, or months. It's hard, but it makes love so much stronger. It's tough, but once you get a job, money and time, go see him! I have a friend who has a man in Germany, and they have lasted 4 years. So it can be done! Keep your head up. It's tough, but worth it! Hope it all works out! Love ya, and if you need to talk to anyone, message me! I am always here to listen
YOU are simply fantasterific. Yes, I just made that up because you're that awesome! lol. You give me the hope I need, and it means a loooot! I can't thank you enough :) Love youu
ugh, men right? And to them either they are stupid and dont see how much it hurts, or they are jerks and just dont care. I dont get them! At all. *hugs* I hope things work out for the best with you!
I'm happy u got his number now :) I hope everything works out for the best, I feel you. There are a number of great people in the internet who are miles and miles away. Easy to fall for their wit, charisma or just them being them. When ur ready, ask him the questions ur heart desires so that in the end u know you did everything u can to know everything u wanted to know. hope this helps! :)
Ahhh the world of the internet. One of the draw backs of living in a world where we can talk to people across seas in an instant is that we can fall for people in other parts of the world. I feel for you. Bu tI really have no advise sorry except to ask him outright how he feels about you and tell him how you feel.
Take care hope it all works out for the best for you.
does he know how you feel? do you know how he feels/did you ask him?
i used to be like that but i realized that you just need to get it all out there and do things even if you're scared. some amazing things can happen if you just do it and don't think about what COULD happen. i was so scared to meet this boy. i was scared he wouldnt like me after we met. but i said what the hell... and i'm still with him today. :D
He knows I like him, and I know he likes me. You're right, I need to stop thinking of the risks and live life! haha.One problem, he lives in LONDON *cries* But I wioll save up, and I will get there, some how or another. lol.
The only thing he doesnt know is that I am scared. But I think he is scared too, because he says he always gets hurt in the relationships. So maybe... maybe we could make it work :)
yeah, that kinda sucks but you have his number now. :) yaaay. and you'll get there eventually. you guys could definitely make it work. i hope you get to see him soon!
arent they though? I could jump him here and now LOL jk. well he's in a band, soo, its going to be complicated. But I am going to save up, as soon as i get a job, and go see him when we have some free time. I have another friend in london, who has offered to let me stay there for a while. So that way I only have to worry about food and my plane ticket, and cab fare :)
Don't stress it. I believe maybe you think this way because you're not feeling well. Sometimes I can over analyze things waaay out of proportion. After a few days you'll see this video and feel completely different. Focus on you and getting better and the rest will fall into place. Mrs.Everyday :)
You are 110% right. Infact I recieved a msg from him shortly after posting this and he even gave me his number :) I feel much better, aside from wanting to throw up! lol.
Hey hon, Just be patient. I have a guy I really like too. He doesn't live in another country just another state. It is still hard, because we can't talk as much. When I do get an email from him I get very happy, but it is sometimes weeks before I get another one. I hope you hear from him soon.
~hugs~
Kat71 2 years ago
One thing that I wish I had done when I was single was be more assertive with guys. It took me over a year to let my husband know how much I liked him and it turned out that he liked me back and was just scared himself. If I had it all to do over again I would be more aggressive and let guys know that I like them a lot rather than hide my feelings a little. Have you actually told him that you like him and are interested? I would go that route if I were you and let things play out from there.
jullpete 2 years ago
Yes, actually I wrote him a msg letting him know that I do like him and that I would like to be with him. So now I am nervously awaiting the reply. Yikes!
WMSummer2009 2 years ago
I hope his answer comes back quick and is good news!!
jullpete 2 years ago
me too! :)
WMSummer2009 2 years ago
So, I am a navy wife, and if there is one thing I have gotten the hang of, is having my man over seas, and no communication for weeks, or months. It's hard, but it makes love so much stronger. It's tough, but once you get a job, money and time, go see him! I have a friend who has a man in Germany, and they have lasted 4 years. So it can be done! Keep your head up. It's tough, but worth it! Hope it all works out! Love ya, and if you need to talk to anyone, message me! I am always here to listen
TheImpatientDieter 2 years ago
YOU are simply fantasterific. Yes, I just made that up because you're that awesome! lol. You give me the hope I need, and it means a loooot! I can't thank you enough :) Love youu
WMSummer2009 2 years ago
girl i've been feeling similar lately - but with an ex that we were trying to work it out with, then he disappears for 3 weeks like it's nothing...
beautyequalshate 2 years ago
ugh, men right? And to them either they are stupid and dont see how much it hurts, or they are jerks and just dont care. I dont get them! At all. *hugs* I hope things work out for the best with you!
WMSummer2009 2 years ago
I'm so bad at advice. I hope this works out for ya! *HUGS*
xf89 2 years ago
aww thanks! Its just nice to know you care :D Huuugs
WMSummer2009 2 years ago
sad song sad eyes.. **HUGS **
mollybcutie2000 2 years ago
huuugs :D
WMSummer2009 2 years ago
I'm happy u got his number now :) I hope everything works out for the best, I feel you. There are a number of great people in the internet who are miles and miles away. Easy to fall for their wit, charisma or just them being them. When ur ready, ask him the questions ur heart desires so that in the end u know you did everything u can to know everything u wanted to know. hope this helps! :)
tingamez 2 years ago
You are so sweet, and this is great advice that I will definitely put into play :) *hugs*
WMSummer2009 2 years ago
Ahhh the world of the internet. One of the draw backs of living in a world where we can talk to people across seas in an instant is that we can fall for people in other parts of the world. I feel for you. Bu tI really have no advise sorry except to ask him outright how he feels about you and tell him how you feel.
Take care hope it all works out for the best for you.
TravMcTavish 2 years ago
Thanks Trav!
I definitely need to find out if he's thinking and feeling the same way I am. I think the advice you gave right there was just what I needed :)
Thanks again.
WMSummer2009 2 years ago
does he know how you feel? do you know how he feels/did you ask him?
i used to be like that but i realized that you just need to get it all out there and do things even if you're scared. some amazing things can happen if you just do it and don't think about what COULD happen. i was so scared to meet this boy. i was scared he wouldnt like me after we met. but i said what the hell... and i'm still with him today. :D
explosiveyou 2 years ago
He knows I like him, and I know he likes me. You're right, I need to stop thinking of the risks and live life! haha.One problem, he lives in LONDON *cries* But I wioll save up, and I will get there, some how or another. lol.
The only thing he doesnt know is that I am scared. But I think he is scared too, because he says he always gets hurt in the relationships. So maybe... maybe we could make it work :)
WMSummer2009 2 years ago
yeah, that kinda sucks but you have his number now. :) yaaay. and you'll get there eventually. you guys could definitely make it work. i hope you get to see him soon!
<3
explosiveyou 2 years ago
aww you're sweet. :) thanks! Me too :D
WMSummer2009 2 years ago
london guys are so hot =) i love there accents
i know how you feel though but how are you soppose to see him im just curious? is he going to come over here or you going to go there ?
nightgangl7 2 years ago
arent they though? I could jump him here and now LOL jk. well he's in a band, soo, its going to be complicated. But I am going to save up, as soon as i get a job, and go see him when we have some free time. I have another friend in london, who has offered to let me stay there for a while. So that way I only have to worry about food and my plane ticket, and cab fare :)
WMSummer2009 2 years ago
Don't stress it. I believe maybe you think this way because you're not feeling well. Sometimes I can over analyze things waaay out of proportion. After a few days you'll see this video and feel completely different. Focus on you and getting better and the rest will fall into place. Mrs.Everyday :)
MrsEveryday 2 years ago
You are 110% right. Infact I recieved a msg from him shortly after posting this and he even gave me his number :) I feel much better, aside from wanting to throw up! lol.
WMSummer2009 2 years ago
Yay!
MrsEveryday 2 years ago