Ok ni me commin from a young man straight outta high point of view id say yes (ive experience this) bc dating a lady with a child or children will give them that eye opening experience of what to come, tha how to handle situations, So if they ever make that choice of having a child of there own they will have that first- hand experience of whats about to happen
@SheBlakkPanther, then why did you have sex with a dude that didn't want you & didn't want you to have his kids? You are the one stuck with the kids. Wake the heck up ladies. You have to make better decisions instead of blaming shhht on the guys afterwards. Like it or not, it takes 2 to make a baby unless you went artificial. So don't act like you didn't know him, cause if you didn't then that makes you look even dumber!
LOL. My man doesnt put his baby mama first. He didnt want HER and he didnt want the kids...he just couldnt FORCE her to get an abortion. It is what it is.
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Baby mamas always come first. so if you meet a guy with kids or just one kid..RUN! trust me its not worth it. Especially if you have a good head on your shoulders and you know what you want in life. He has baggage & that will jus slow you down.
number one im a babymama and me and my babydaddy aint got no drama. just cuz he put his family first dnt mean he cant do him. i do me and he does him i cant stop hi mand he cant stop me so dnt say there babymama a hoe or he pay da bills cuz im a babymama and i aint no hoe and he dnt pay my bills i take care of my self. its dumb ass hoe like u dat judge fa no reason until u either be in my shoes u cant say shit cuz i guys suppose 2 put his kid before any gurl
my baby mamma was court order to pay 100 in child support. She doesn't even pay that. The child support office said she doesn't have to pay any child support because she is on welfare and ssi. If i didn't pay child support i would go to jail. But she gets a free pass.
I'am sick and tired dead beat moms and the government that support them!!
I think women need to start lookin at the love of their lives with their eyes wide open instead of only seeing them with their heart,these men and some women show you who they are up front but we see what we want to see!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I actually had to break off the 2 year relationship with my ex because she was verbally and twice physically abusive towards me. She was the controlling type and I couldn't let our son be subjected that environment. She takes care of our son but she still does things out of spite. I have to deal with her not answering my texts when I ask to see my son on such and such day. I'm 24, I only have one child. Despite all of the drama I'm happy to have a son. I'm trying to better my life.
Plain and simple. Women keep ya legs closed before marriage. Perfect solution. I know whats up. I have 4 kids by 1 woman and ain't having no more. I have never told a woman some BS to deceive her and get between her legs. I have never got a woman drunk to have sex. You know why? Because I want my word to mean somethin. I want people to respect me. I want you to know if you fuck with me yo ass is grass. I am a man.
I just want to say that its really sad that some of us feel the way we do about dating someone with kids.Personally I don't C anything wrong with dating someone with kids.Kids are precious and are a gift from God and there's nothing wrong with more than 1 person being apart of a childs life.The only thing that could be bad is if the 2 of u broke up and you and the child or children actually gotten close then u and the kids will B hurt.Though there are boundaries that shouldn't be crossed.
1st of all. alot of you that are making these statements need to be educated. i have kids. no i do not let them meet anybody i date. it's not all the woman's fault. i myself only get into an arguement with a baby daddy if he's not doing right by his child. alot of women only go at it with them when everything else is more important than the child. i don't care what goes on n my life my kids come 1st.
never. the minute i find that out i am gone. and i hate how people with children lie or never mention right off the bat that "hey. i have children". are they thinking they won't eventually get found out? do they just forget they have children? they tell you in minute by minute detail about their day everyday and at no point do they mention their child. they let you know everything about them down to what their favorite color is on tuesdays but they somehow omit the fact they have children.
This is so sad,I feel so sad for kids born out of wedlock,because women stoop so low and open their legs up to anything,I cant help but to laugh at the one who make this mistake and put Jesus in the mix.We got to do better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dont put the blame on the woman. yes she plays a part of it but its these boys who refuse to take care of their responsibilities also need to be addressed. Its common to see males these days not take care of their children and us women having to take up where they left off.
it is sad that kids are left behind, but trully the drama cames from both. when a man ends the relationship w his BM and dates other woman, and if she's is NT educated or civilized she will get confused and dramatic everytime BD tells her lies, just to see his kid. Man keep it real you got another woman, get your custody. Woman, let it go, never use your child to get him, use kindness change your atittude. who know. at the end of the day THE CHILD SUFFERS NT U OR HIM.
they don't attempt to get custody rights and visitation. wanna know why? because they don't want to have to pay any child support and they know they contribute zero money to the kid. it's just child support avoidance. they need to keep up with dodging financial responsibility for the child. they also don't want to keep up with regular scheduled visition. they just want to rock up and come in and out of the kids life infrequently and randomly whenever they choose. they don't think about the kid.
I feel sorry for the kids and the mom who has a child with waste-mans... Then because im limited edition (no kids, no record, good job, good education) waste pure waste... and i don't think us good men should take em down the isle in a white dress more like black or purple. just be real you tripped up on a waste-man...
The funny thing willfagbone has to recognise is that white people come from black people, they were our albino's until they went into the caucus mountain and thus name caucasion, so we are all niggers if you really want to be technical about it. Read more and stop spewing ignorance behind a computer. Learn how it took us 25,000 years to become white, and you can blame your white scientist for that piece of information, everyone (our ancient ancestors) comes from africa.............
put a ring on it ! Ladies have some self control and buy a toy if you get an erge!!!! Those who have no self control make it bad for the rest of us who go to school, and get education and make our lives better.....seriously
I cant date a woman with children when I dont have my own yet.Some women will get their tubes tied then expect you to marry them and you will never have children of your own without cheating.
I like ur pount of views on this issue because its strek home see im the kinda guy who would date a woman with a child one at the most if she as a mother who has all ready installed in that child a sense of morals and respect George Messer 11/1
They will tell you in the beginning that there's no drama and that the kids and the prior relationship are not going to effect yall in any way and wonk wonk wonk wonk wonk!!!! whatever! women deserve to have a man that is 100% there for her point blank! and if that means dating other races then so be it!!! i'd rather be respected and attended to like I deserve to be then to deal with some broad's b.s. just b/c she decided to pop open her legs without a rubber!!! So I wouldn't do it PERIOD!!!
all ex's with children are not like that to me it's not about me anymore the children are what matter no im not a crazy female who stalks every woman that my ex is with because im bigger than that like i said it aint about me whats important is my child and that is what matters! She has to except my child because he was there before her as long as the other woman respects my child ad excepts him im cool with her but if she mistreats him oh then i will be a real problem
I would NEVER be serious with a guy who had kids or even just a kid!!! b/c it's like the girl said: the baby moms always comes first and that's bull!!!! b/c a lot of the time they will pull the strings they know how to pull just to start shit on purpose so whatever!! and EVER MAN who has kids already has some type of bullshit with the baby moms! if that bitch keeps quiet and doesn't complain it's b/c a: he pay her bills still or b: he still fucks the ho!! or both!
you know what that is not always true! it's all about having respect for each other you respect me i'll respect you PERIOD! It's not about her keeping quiet because i pay my own bills secondly if that man has respect for his new lady he wouldn't sleep around on her PERIOD!
@msaphrodite23 absolutely untrue I wish my daughter's father would find a girlfriend because i haven't slept with him in years! if a man still sleeps with his child's mother when he is with you that means he don't care about nor respect you!
@Duttywhinequeen I hear you. I haven't slept with my son's mom (my ex) since two years ago before she got pregnant. After that there was no sex, even after our son was born, and it won't be any sex now either. I don't think of her in that way. I just see her as a partner for raising our son. You'd have to have feelings for the ex to sleep with them. Something just isn't right with that picture. I'd rather find someone else who has more to offer me, and who understands that I have a son.
I had a chick who was pregnant when I met her. at first i didn't know and when she told me i felt bad because i really liked her but i couldn't be with her because she made a home with another man. say what you want, i'm married now to a woman who has no children and we can come and go like we please. i think women who are in a position try to justify and encorage others to make those mistakes so they will have company in thier misery. I am a man and i want my kids and wife with me 24/7
baby mama drama can be reflected throughout all races... don't pull ya statistics, the statistics from your hood! it's pure ignorance to say it's all one race that has problems with ex spouses... people dont know how to deal with there control issues as well as what love really is... say i can go for days i've been on both sides of the fence!
i dont date women with kids or teenagers cause with kids like the guy said they grow attached to every man that mom brings over,and with teenager they naturaly become rebelious angainst you because they know your doing there mom and they may think you might be there dad and they wanna get the upper hand.
the question i'm wondering about is, why do women choose to have these sort of men in their life? and decide to have children with them? I could be wrong about this be i believe that these women are having any extreme self confidence issuse.
As someone who doesn't have kids,I have no probs dating a man with kids,however all I ask is that you have all your emotional ties with your babymama sorted.Bringing us in2 a situation where feelings arent yet fully resolved isnt fair to us.You have a bond together we understand that and we luv it that your there for your kids but if you dont have boundries set with the mama you have no business entering a new rel8nship i.e shes in constant contact and it has nothing to do with the kids you shar
These negroes need to stop having all these kids by different fathers then living off welfare. When a black person says "lets be honess (honest).You know BS is coming.Blacks need to grow up and start raising their own kids like Bill Cosby said the blacks are their own #1 enemy.
Are you White? What do you mean why dont You People get off welfare and stop wanting Whites to pay more taxes for it. Statistics show DUMBASS that way more white people are on welfare than blacks! So go fuck yourself.
I laugh when nigs say "more Whites on welfare" While this was ONCE true it was only because Whites were 78% of the total USA population. Real stats shows us that the negro % speaking is on welfare to a rate of 4/1 MORE than Whites so if there were as many niggers in America than their would be 4 TIMES the nigs on welfare.Nigs make up 39% of welfare and they are only 12% of the population.Now consider yourself "schooled" boy or should I call u bitch like your man does or is it ho? Damn dirty apes
White people stop hating already!The only reason u racist muthafuckaz are talking all this "nigger" shit is because ur on the internet.U don't have the nuts to say it in public alone...As u would get dat ass beat like u were a slave. And u know it.Envy us bitches, even with our flaws.What about all the years u were scratching ur nuts and did no work and got all the benefits?!Ur race enslaved people!Don't talk that fuckin shit u ignorant asshole! By the way 99% of stats are fake.So, grow a dick.
No its the negro that talks shit & is the coward.Without an advantage of 3 on 1 or a weapon you negroes fold like a cheap suit. Dat? ebonics for that? It's your negro people that sold your brother as skaves,but I bet you are ignorant to real history.Blacks call each other nigger all the time & nigga is just ebonics for nigger,you nigs have a hard time with the ENGLISH language with your ebonics.The nig is always talking about kickin ass but never does,damn u dirty apes damn u all to HELL.
you are a racist peice of shit. I just sit back and laugh at your cracker ass.You are a low life, your mom must be real proud of the racist peice of shit she spat out of her womb.I have a lot to say but your not worth my time. Now let me get back to work so I can help pay taxes on white peoples welfare asst.
you only wish you could accomplish what I have in life you damn dirty ape. The negro is the bottom feeder in society. I leave for vacation Saturday where kneegrows will be waiting on me hand & foot and calling me Sir and Boss and I will have them stepping and fetching. To bad you do not know who your father is you damn dirty ape
'Willnobackbone'go back to your typical COWARD NATURE,because i know you 'NETTOUGHGUYS',get bold behind the computer when everyones knows that your a fucking Coward,We know the white man has a lotta fustration because he`s not as prosperous as he use to be,and he`s reproducing less kids and is the oldest race in the U.S,thats why suicide is up among Whitemen like you,so before you kill yourself make sure you kill your family to,"Remember, no child left behind",and "White is the color of fear".
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It is the negro that is always talking about kickin ass but never does.W/out an 3/1 advantage or a weapon a negro folds like a cheap suit.Ever wonder why 90%+ of the murders in most Big cities are commited by negroes? It is because they are cowards and won't settle it with their fists.You see the black man is the bottom feeder of society not only in the US,but world wide,name ANY black lead goverment that flourishes,there is NONE.While my WHITE European brothers flourish your african ones do not
okay white boy,theirs a lotta blacks out their and since your so angry why dont you take your 'peckerwood ass' out there an kick their ass?i know why you wont,because your a coward like your dad is a coward and everybody in your cracker family are cowards.
'Willienobackbone',is just angry,and black people have been walking around angry for years,just enjoy his fustration,thats shows that were winning,because the white man is only angry when he see us happy,thats why his cracker ass is on here trying to bring us down,when in fact he`s down.Educated whites down act like this,its the white mans trash who actS like this,"will" is just the white man trash,probably unemployed,and uneducated,so just ignore him,i love when the white man is fustrated.
The White man doesn't have to "keep negroes down" Like Bill Cosby says you people do a fine job of that yourselves. 70+% of black kids are born out of wedlock. Blacks are 4/1 more likely to be on welfare. Don't give me the lie "more Whites on welfare" while once true it was only because Whites were over 70% of total USA population. Now blacks make up 39% of welfare and Whites 38% and blacks are only 12% of USA population. The White man is not frustrated we still run everything and will continue.
The white man is just frustrated because he`s not only the Oldest Race in the U.S.A,he`s also producing less children,he`s less financially productive then he was,say about 10yrs ago,whites have increased their numbers in prison,gangs,and they lead the'entire world'in divorce and suicide,the white man is ten times more likely to murder not only his parents,and wife but his children also,for financial gain.
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Thats why we are still all 500 of the top CEO's of the fortune 500. The negro is on the bottom of the ladder so he has no where to go but up. Now tell me of a black lead nation that flourishes? maybe the Sudan or Nigeria, no they are all shitholes. Now look at my homeland the Netherlands as they flourish as does places like Sweden and Vienna, Austria. There are few almost no negroes there go where there are a lot of nigs & u will see poverty & a failed society.The nigga is a failure as a society
if the europeans wouldn`t have been so lazy and uncapable of doing their own labor maybe africa would be the riches continent in the world,but the whites 'evil nature' has been responcible for the destruction of africa,so never the less despite white intrusion,black have prospered,despite racism,black have prospered,i can name over 100 black millionares,the only way you could name over 100 white millionares was if you had a book,and rich whites are ashamed of white trash like you and you family.
You are an ignorant ass piece of shit. All you have done on this site is watch us...Like you ALL do. Don't be angry because the main word your race used against us, was picked apart and reassembled without the (HATRED). And is now used at OUR discretion....with rules! We are the only race to ever attempt and achieve this. Try to change CRACKER overnight bitch....you can't do it. Educate yourself on something useful like..hmm...stopping tha wet dog smell after it rains! And really help your race!
There are a lot of things I look at on YT. Still I enjoy showing the ignorance of the black negro ape. The term nigga is just ebonics for nigger. You nigs drop the "er" off a lot of words.Actually u fuck up a lot of words its the darkie that says "ax" not ask. Funny Whites don't call each other cracker but blacks call each other nigger.I call them boy and bitch. Funny when a nig says we smell like wet dogs because dogs & Whites have real hair not that nappy shit blacks have on their burry heads.
you claim the rich whites,but the rich whites dont claim nobody but other rich people no matter what color they are,and if they saw you and your underachieving disfunctional cracker family they`d turn their heads in shame,because there`s nothing that sucessful whites hate more then unsucessful whites,like you and your disfunctional family.so go committ suicicide,but make sure you get the kids first.
You were stupid enough to get pregnant by him, so deal withit. Next time say 'No' or use contraception. If you find yourself unable to talk about using contraception, take it as a sign you're not psychologically ready to be having sex.....
For one i applaud u all who is bein respectful,to all of u that have something negative to say,yall need to shut the fuck up until yall r in the shoes of those men/women with children.None of yall know wat the hell yall r talkin about so just b quiet and if yall dont have shit nice to say then dont say anything at all,damn havent yall mom said that,yall just dont know wats goin on in peoples lives,im tired of seeing these bullshit comments yall leave on here.
I am a father whom loves his children very much... The mother of my children chose to leave for her own reasons... We were together 4 years on our way to being married but now I dont think I will ever have a stable relationship again because I have a family outside of the one I would be living with..... Child support and time consume me Im only 28 and I feel that my life is over that sux BUT ITS REAL>>>>>
I do feel for you,ive been seeing a guy and was really fallin for him but ended it because i really dnt want to feel like i come second to another woman,its not really the kids that are a problem, but i think alot of women avoid men with kids because they are concerned he will go back to the baby mama or be sleepin with her behind your back. I hope you can either sort things out or find someone who will accept you and your kids.
I have children myself so I wouldn't mind dating someone who had kids. But I would not introduce the kids into it until I knew this was going to be a stable realtionship.
yes yes yes way too many children are being exposed to men who aren't going to stay why? i have children too my kids cannot tell you mommy had this man and that man over why because i carry myself as a lady and two that's not moral to do so you hit it right on the nose!
this is a serious problem in the black community. why do so many chicks just lay up & have babies w/every guy they date w/o expecting or demanding any type of respect or committment? it's sad because it's mostly underaged, undereducated people who continue to breed w/o any plan of action for the future. damn, it's 2007 & there are all kinds of contraceptives out there. some people choose to be poor ass idiots!
women and men alike needs to take into consideration that your children remember more than you do, so unless you are willing to make that person a part of your childs life dont bring them around, your child may just ask you one day what happened to mommy/daddy(enter name here) they get attached b4 you do.
Ok ni me commin from a young man straight outta high point of view id say yes (ive experience this) bc dating a lady with a child or children will give them that eye opening experience of what to come, tha how to handle situations, So if they ever make that choice of having a child of there own they will have that first- hand experience of whats about to happen
MrDaylon10 2 weeks ago
I'm a single mother of a 20yr old lady. If I had it do over again Id be married first, before having children!
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@SheBlakkPanther, then why did you have sex with a dude that didn't want you & didn't want you to have his kids? You are the one stuck with the kids. Wake the heck up ladies. You have to make better decisions instead of blaming shhht on the guys afterwards. Like it or not, it takes 2 to make a baby unless you went artificial. So don't act like you didn't know him, cause if you didn't then that makes you look even dumber!
theluvlounge 7 months ago 2
LOL. My man doesnt put his baby mama first. He didnt want HER and he didnt want the kids...he just couldnt FORCE her to get an abortion. It is what it is.
SheBlakkPanther 7 months ago
@SheBlakkPanther and ur proud that he doesnt want his kids,,,,
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Moneys527 7 months ago
Baby mamas always come first. so if you meet a guy with kids or just one kid..RUN! trust me its not worth it. Especially if you have a good head on your shoulders and you know what you want in life. He has baggage & that will jus slow you down.
cocojazzle 8 months ago
number one im a babymama and me and my babydaddy aint got no drama. just cuz he put his family first dnt mean he cant do him. i do me and he does him i cant stop hi mand he cant stop me so dnt say there babymama a hoe or he pay da bills cuz im a babymama and i aint no hoe and he dnt pay my bills i take care of my self. its dumb ass hoe like u dat judge fa no reason until u either be in my shoes u cant say shit cuz i guys suppose 2 put his kid before any gurl
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my baby mamma was court order to pay 100 in child support. She doesn't even pay that. The child support office said she doesn't have to pay any child support because she is on welfare and ssi. If i didn't pay child support i would go to jail. But she gets a free pass.
I'am sick and tired dead beat moms and the government that support them!!
johncoolgun 1 year ago
Baby mommas is a disgrace to the black race.
DONTA9231 1 year ago 4
Tha'ts right the baby mama is always first
KarinaR28 1 year ago 4
I think women need to start lookin at the love of their lives with their eyes wide open instead of only seeing them with their heart,these men and some women show you who they are up front but we see what we want to see!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MsBabydoll50 1 year ago 2
I believe that once your a single mother that you should not bring a guy into the picture of your life
dcinsane87 1 year ago
I actually had to break off the 2 year relationship with my ex because she was verbally and twice physically abusive towards me. She was the controlling type and I couldn't let our son be subjected that environment. She takes care of our son but she still does things out of spite. I have to deal with her not answering my texts when I ask to see my son on such and such day. I'm 24, I only have one child. Despite all of the drama I'm happy to have a son. I'm trying to better my life.
bedllama 1 year ago
Plain and simple. Women keep ya legs closed before marriage. Perfect solution. I know whats up. I have 4 kids by 1 woman and ain't having no more. I have never told a woman some BS to deceive her and get between her legs. I have never got a woman drunk to have sex. You know why? Because I want my word to mean somethin. I want people to respect me. I want you to know if you fuck with me yo ass is grass. I am a man.
WhoCaresWhatUThink1 1 year ago 4
That's why I don't have kids and I don't fuck around with these ghetto whores.
bryanferryfan 1 year ago
Here we go with this shit again attack on fathers
MrWorldbefree 1 year ago
I just want to say that its really sad that some of us feel the way we do about dating someone with kids.Personally I don't C anything wrong with dating someone with kids.Kids are precious and are a gift from God and there's nothing wrong with more than 1 person being apart of a childs life.The only thing that could be bad is if the 2 of u broke up and you and the child or children actually gotten close then u and the kids will B hurt.Though there are boundaries that shouldn't be crossed.
BeccaLovesVictor 2 years ago
HOLY SH*T
nflores23 2 years ago
1st of all. alot of you that are making these statements need to be educated. i have kids. no i do not let them meet anybody i date. it's not all the woman's fault. i myself only get into an arguement with a baby daddy if he's not doing right by his child. alot of women only go at it with them when everything else is more important than the child. i don't care what goes on n my life my kids come 1st.
yolandasjohnson 2 years ago
never. the minute i find that out i am gone. and i hate how people with children lie or never mention right off the bat that "hey. i have children". are they thinking they won't eventually get found out? do they just forget they have children? they tell you in minute by minute detail about their day everyday and at no point do they mention their child. they let you know everything about them down to what their favorite color is on tuesdays but they somehow omit the fact they have children.
airbrushedhottie 2 years ago
This is so sad,I feel so sad for kids born out of wedlock,because women stoop so low and open their legs up to anything,I cant help but to laugh at the one who make this mistake and put Jesus in the mix.We got to do better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
CamLuvJosh 2 years ago
dont put the blame on the woman. yes she plays a part of it but its these boys who refuse to take care of their responsibilities also need to be addressed. Its common to see males these days not take care of their children and us women having to take up where they left off.
itscubaDUH 2 years ago 9
it is sad that kids are left behind, but trully the drama cames from both. when a man ends the relationship w his BM and dates other woman, and if she's is NT educated or civilized she will get confused and dramatic everytime BD tells her lies, just to see his kid. Man keep it real you got another woman, get your custody. Woman, let it go, never use your child to get him, use kindness change your atittude. who know. at the end of the day THE CHILD SUFFERS NT U OR HIM.
claudilicius7 2 years ago
they don't attempt to get custody rights and visitation. wanna know why? because they don't want to have to pay any child support and they know they contribute zero money to the kid. it's just child support avoidance. they need to keep up with dodging financial responsibility for the child. they also don't want to keep up with regular scheduled visition. they just want to rock up and come in and out of the kids life infrequently and randomly whenever they choose. they don't think about the kid.
airbrushedhottie 2 years ago
I feel sorry for the kids and the mom who has a child with waste-mans... Then because im limited edition (no kids, no record, good job, good education) waste pure waste... and i don't think us good men should take em down the isle in a white dress more like black or purple. just be real you tripped up on a waste-man...
Bisconcb 2 years ago 2
The funny thing willfagbone has to recognise is that white people come from black people, they were our albino's until they went into the caucus mountain and thus name caucasion, so we are all niggers if you really want to be technical about it. Read more and stop spewing ignorance behind a computer. Learn how it took us 25,000 years to become white, and you can blame your white scientist for that piece of information, everyone (our ancient ancestors) comes from africa.............
kaiyeem 3 years ago
put a ring on it ! Ladies have some self control and buy a toy if you get an erge!!!! Those who have no self control make it bad for the rest of us who go to school, and get education and make our lives better.....seriously
njoimi 3 years ago
I cant date a woman with children when I dont have my own yet.Some women will get their tubes tied then expect you to marry them and you will never have children of your own without cheating.
rakkfatha 3 years ago
I like ur pount of views on this issue because its strek home see im the kinda guy who would date a woman with a child one at the most if she as a mother who has all ready installed in that child a sense of morals and respect George Messer 11/1
79563RUB 3 years ago
They will tell you in the beginning that there's no drama and that the kids and the prior relationship are not going to effect yall in any way and wonk wonk wonk wonk wonk!!!! whatever! women deserve to have a man that is 100% there for her point blank! and if that means dating other races then so be it!!! i'd rather be respected and attended to like I deserve to be then to deal with some broad's b.s. just b/c she decided to pop open her legs without a rubber!!! So I wouldn't do it PERIOD!!!
msaphrodite23 3 years ago 2
all ex's with children are not like that to me it's not about me anymore the children are what matter no im not a crazy female who stalks every woman that my ex is with because im bigger than that like i said it aint about me whats important is my child and that is what matters! She has to except my child because he was there before her as long as the other woman respects my child ad excepts him im cool with her but if she mistreats him oh then i will be a real problem
mayalakishadennies 2 years ago
excuse me but my comment was not meant to be taken personally....i was stating what happens majority of the time when a woman dates someone with kids
msaphrodite23 2 years ago
I would NEVER be serious with a guy who had kids or even just a kid!!! b/c it's like the girl said: the baby moms always comes first and that's bull!!!! b/c a lot of the time they will pull the strings they know how to pull just to start shit on purpose so whatever!! and EVER MAN who has kids already has some type of bullshit with the baby moms! if that bitch keeps quiet and doesn't complain it's b/c a: he pay her bills still or b: he still fucks the ho!! or both!
msaphrodite23 3 years ago 13
you know what that is not always true! it's all about having respect for each other you respect me i'll respect you PERIOD! It's not about her keeping quiet because i pay my own bills secondly if that man has respect for his new lady he wouldn't sleep around on her PERIOD!
mayalakishadennies 2 years ago
@msaphrodite23 absolutely untrue I wish my daughter's father would find a girlfriend because i haven't slept with him in years! if a man still sleeps with his child's mother when he is with you that means he don't care about nor respect you!
Duttywhinequeen 1 year ago
@Duttywhinequeen I hear you. I haven't slept with my son's mom (my ex) since two years ago before she got pregnant. After that there was no sex, even after our son was born, and it won't be any sex now either. I don't think of her in that way. I just see her as a partner for raising our son. You'd have to have feelings for the ex to sleep with them. Something just isn't right with that picture. I'd rather find someone else who has more to offer me, and who understands that I have a son.
bedllama 1 year ago
@msaphrodite23
why not i got 7 kids and 8 baby mommas. you do the math.
you're selfish. give me a chance. you could be number 9.
huh? i love you.
flymarinesoldier 1 year ago
@msaphrodite23 AMEN!!!!!!
musicpassion254 2 months ago
I had a chick who was pregnant when I met her. at first i didn't know and when she told me i felt bad because i really liked her but i couldn't be with her because she made a home with another man. say what you want, i'm married now to a woman who has no children and we can come and go like we please. i think women who are in a position try to justify and encorage others to make those mistakes so they will have company in thier misery. I am a man and i want my kids and wife with me 24/7
215rephard 3 years ago 2
good choice.
craigblast 3 years ago
baby mama drama can be reflected throughout all races... don't pull ya statistics, the statistics from your hood! it's pure ignorance to say it's all one race that has problems with ex spouses... people dont know how to deal with there control issues as well as what love really is... say i can go for days i've been on both sides of the fence!
Lacey1Spytfiyah 3 years ago 2
i dont date women with kids or teenagers cause with kids like the guy said they grow attached to every man that mom brings over,and with teenager they naturaly become rebelious angainst you because they know your doing there mom and they may think you might be there dad and they wanna get the upper hand.
craigblast 3 years ago
the question i'm wondering about is, why do women choose to have these sort of men in their life? and decide to have children with them? I could be wrong about this be i believe that these women are having any extreme self confidence issuse.
00dev 3 years ago
As someone who doesn't have kids,I have no probs dating a man with kids,however all I ask is that you have all your emotional ties with your babymama sorted.Bringing us in2 a situation where feelings arent yet fully resolved isnt fair to us.You have a bond together we understand that and we luv it that your there for your kids but if you dont have boundries set with the mama you have no business entering a new rel8nship i.e shes in constant contact and it has nothing to do with the kids you shar
phattylumpkins 3 years ago
The women in green and brown tops are talking sense. I hate the term baby mama or baby daddy.
uniqueandbeautiful 4 years ago 2
I hate that term too with a passion. When people say that to me I say my son's dad.
natval1974 3 years ago
These negroes need to stop having all these kids by different fathers then living off welfare. When a black person says "lets be honess (honest).You know BS is coming.Blacks need to grow up and start raising their own kids like Bill Cosby said the blacks are their own #1 enemy.
WillBackbone 4 years ago
and whites need to learn to stf and get their own life why dont yall jus go kill yall selves in some fuckin corner
milf124 4 years ago
Why don't you people get off welfare and stop wanting Whites to pay more taxes to raise your kids. Raise your own kids.
WillBackbone 4 years ago
Are you White? What do you mean why dont You People get off welfare and stop wanting Whites to pay more taxes for it. Statistics show DUMBASS that way more white people are on welfare than blacks! So go fuck yourself.
LeisaJ4sho 3 years ago
I laugh when nigs say "more Whites on welfare" While this was ONCE true it was only because Whites were 78% of the total USA population. Real stats shows us that the negro % speaking is on welfare to a rate of 4/1 MORE than Whites so if there were as many niggers in America than their would be 4 TIMES the nigs on welfare.Nigs make up 39% of welfare and they are only 12% of the population.Now consider yourself "schooled" boy or should I call u bitch like your man does or is it ho? Damn dirty apes
WillBackbone 3 years ago
White people stop hating already!The only reason u racist muthafuckaz are talking all this "nigger" shit is because ur on the internet.U don't have the nuts to say it in public alone...As u would get dat ass beat like u were a slave. And u know it.Envy us bitches, even with our flaws.What about all the years u were scratching ur nuts and did no work and got all the benefits?!Ur race enslaved people!Don't talk that fuckin shit u ignorant asshole! By the way 99% of stats are fake.So, grow a dick.
nonipooh1 3 years ago
No its the negro that talks shit & is the coward.Without an advantage of 3 on 1 or a weapon you negroes fold like a cheap suit. Dat? ebonics for that? It's your negro people that sold your brother as skaves,but I bet you are ignorant to real history.Blacks call each other nigger all the time & nigga is just ebonics for nigger,you nigs have a hard time with the ENGLISH language with your ebonics.The nig is always talking about kickin ass but never does,damn u dirty apes damn u all to HELL.
WillBackbone 3 years ago
oh, and another thing BIIIIITTTTCCCCHHHHH HA HA HA.
LeisaJ4sho 3 years ago
What does your man call you ?
(a) Ho
(b) Bitch
(c) Triflin Skeezer
(d) Trick
(e) All the above
WillBackbone 3 years ago
you are a racist peice of shit. I just sit back and laugh at your cracker ass.You are a low life, your mom must be real proud of the racist peice of shit she spat out of her womb.I have a lot to say but your not worth my time. Now let me get back to work so I can help pay taxes on white peoples welfare asst.
LeisaJ4sho 3 years ago
you only wish you could accomplish what I have in life you damn dirty ape. The negro is the bottom feeder in society. I leave for vacation Saturday where kneegrows will be waiting on me hand & foot and calling me Sir and Boss and I will have them stepping and fetching. To bad you do not know who your father is you damn dirty ape
WillBackbone 3 years ago
'Willnobackbone'go back to your typical COWARD NATURE,because i know you 'NETTOUGHGUYS',get bold behind the computer when everyones knows that your a fucking Coward,We know the white man has a lotta fustration because he`s not as prosperous as he use to be,and he`s reproducing less kids and is the oldest race in the U.S,thats why suicide is up among Whitemen like you,so before you kill yourself make sure you kill your family to,"Remember, no child left behind",and "White is the color of fear".
craigblast 3 years ago
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It is the negro that is always talking about kickin ass but never does.W/out an 3/1 advantage or a weapon a negro folds like a cheap suit.Ever wonder why 90%+ of the murders in most Big cities are commited by negroes? It is because they are cowards and won't settle it with their fists.You see the black man is the bottom feeder of society not only in the US,but world wide,name ANY black lead goverment that flourishes,there is NONE.While my WHITE European brothers flourish your african ones do not
WillBackbone 3 years ago
okay white boy,theirs a lotta blacks out their and since your so angry why dont you take your 'peckerwood ass' out there an kick their ass?i know why you wont,because your a coward like your dad is a coward and everybody in your cracker family are cowards.
craigblast 3 years ago
why dude where is that lala land!
mayalakishadennies 2 years ago
'Willienobackbone',is just angry,and black people have been walking around angry for years,just enjoy his fustration,thats shows that were winning,because the white man is only angry when he see us happy,thats why his cracker ass is on here trying to bring us down,when in fact he`s down.Educated whites down act like this,its the white mans trash who actS like this,"will" is just the white man trash,probably unemployed,and uneducated,so just ignore him,i love when the white man is fustrated.
craigblast 3 years ago
The White man doesn't have to "keep negroes down" Like Bill Cosby says you people do a fine job of that yourselves. 70+% of black kids are born out of wedlock. Blacks are 4/1 more likely to be on welfare. Don't give me the lie "more Whites on welfare" while once true it was only because Whites were over 70% of total USA population. Now blacks make up 39% of welfare and Whites 38% and blacks are only 12% of USA population. The White man is not frustrated we still run everything and will continue.
WillBackbone 3 years ago
i love angry racist,their just mad because there not black.
craigblast 3 years ago
The white man is just frustrated because he`s not only the Oldest Race in the U.S.A,he`s also producing less children,he`s less financially productive then he was,say about 10yrs ago,whites have increased their numbers in prison,gangs,and they lead the'entire world'in divorce and suicide,the white man is ten times more likely to murder not only his parents,and wife but his children also,for financial gain.
craigblast 3 years ago
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Thats why we are still all 500 of the top CEO's of the fortune 500. The negro is on the bottom of the ladder so he has no where to go but up. Now tell me of a black lead nation that flourishes? maybe the Sudan or Nigeria, no they are all shitholes. Now look at my homeland the Netherlands as they flourish as does places like Sweden and Vienna, Austria. There are few almost no negroes there go where there are a lot of nigs & u will see poverty & a failed society.The nigga is a failure as a society
WillBackbone 3 years ago
if they negro was here first why does he lag so far behind Whites?
Now go get your shine box
WillBackbone 3 years ago
if the europeans wouldn`t have been so lazy and uncapable of doing their own labor maybe africa would be the riches continent in the world,but the whites 'evil nature' has been responcible for the destruction of africa,so never the less despite white intrusion,black have prospered,despite racism,black have prospered,i can name over 100 black millionares,the only way you could name over 100 white millionares was if you had a book,and rich whites are ashamed of white trash like you and you family.
craigblast 3 years ago
You are an ignorant ass piece of shit. All you have done on this site is watch us...Like you ALL do. Don't be angry because the main word your race used against us, was picked apart and reassembled without the (HATRED). And is now used at OUR discretion....with rules! We are the only race to ever attempt and achieve this. Try to change CRACKER overnight bitch....you can't do it. Educate yourself on something useful like..hmm...stopping tha wet dog smell after it rains! And really help your race!
nonipooh1 3 years ago
There are a lot of things I look at on YT. Still I enjoy showing the ignorance of the black negro ape. The term nigga is just ebonics for nigger. You nigs drop the "er" off a lot of words.Actually u fuck up a lot of words its the darkie that says "ax" not ask. Funny Whites don't call each other cracker but blacks call each other nigger.I call them boy and bitch. Funny when a nig says we smell like wet dogs because dogs & Whites have real hair not that nappy shit blacks have on their burry heads.
WillBackbone 3 years ago
you claim the rich whites,but the rich whites dont claim nobody but other rich people no matter what color they are,and if they saw you and your underachieving disfunctional cracker family they`d turn their heads in shame,because there`s nothing that sucessful whites hate more then unsucessful whites,like you and your disfunctional family.so go committ suicicide,but make sure you get the kids first.
craigblast 3 years ago
You are IG-NANT! Read some history to know the reasons behind things, racist.
cdechols 3 years ago
Your ignorant. Your mixed also btw. Theres no pure any race get a life.
ThatDamnWhiteGirl 2 years ago
All i know is my baby dad aint worth 2 shit n a fuck!
shithousebandett 4 years ago
You were stupid enough to get pregnant by him, so deal withit. Next time say 'No' or use contraception. If you find yourself unable to talk about using contraception, take it as a sign you're not psychologically ready to be having sex.....
PositiveNature 4 years ago
For one i applaud u all who is bein respectful,to all of u that have something negative to say,yall need to shut the fuck up until yall r in the shoes of those men/women with children.None of yall know wat the hell yall r talkin about so just b quiet and if yall dont have shit nice to say then dont say anything at all,damn havent yall mom said that,yall just dont know wats goin on in peoples lives,im tired of seeing these bullshit comments yall leave on here.
queentjw 4 years ago
I am a father whom loves his children very much... The mother of my children chose to leave for her own reasons... We were together 4 years on our way to being married but now I dont think I will ever have a stable relationship again because I have a family outside of the one I would be living with..... Child support and time consume me Im only 28 and I feel that my life is over that sux BUT ITS REAL>>>>>
franco2869 4 years ago
I do feel for you,ive been seeing a guy and was really fallin for him but ended it because i really dnt want to feel like i come second to another woman,its not really the kids that are a problem, but i think alot of women avoid men with kids because they are concerned he will go back to the baby mama or be sleepin with her behind your back. I hope you can either sort things out or find someone who will accept you and your kids.
uniqueandbeautiful 4 years ago 3
A lot of pregnant females needs their stomach machine guns. Just kidding...NOT!!!!!
Bloodsport1 4 years ago
Too many ignorant have kids these days. Grew up with no home training so what they going to teach their kids?
Bloodsport1 4 years ago
everyone should stop having children... it's a pointless endeavour
mattavina 4 years ago
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mattavina 4 years ago
I have children myself so I wouldn't mind dating someone who had kids. But I would not introduce the kids into it until I knew this was going to be a stable realtionship.
spartangirl 4 years ago
hey this is something u have to see in refrence to the topic. It's real talk.
youtube. com/watch?v=o7Qo-6-eQPA&mode=related&search=
coachbagqueen 4 years ago
yes yes yes way too many children are being exposed to men who aren't going to stay why? i have children too my kids cannot tell you mommy had this man and that man over why because i carry myself as a lady and two that's not moral to do so you hit it right on the nose!
mayalakishadennies 2 years ago
this is a serious problem in the black community. why do so many chicks just lay up & have babies w/every guy they date w/o expecting or demanding any type of respect or committment? it's sad because it's mostly underaged, undereducated people who continue to breed w/o any plan of action for the future. damn, it's 2007 & there are all kinds of contraceptives out there. some people choose to be poor ass idiots!
glamazon67 4 years ago 4
it takes 2 to tango! the men are just as much if not more 2 blame. Its there sorry ass that get off and cant take care of the child.
malone1985 4 years ago
hey this is something u have to see in refrence to the topic. It's real talk.
youtube. com/watch?v=o7Qo-6-eQPA&mode=related&search=
coachbagqueen 4 years ago
hey this is something u have to see in refrence to the topic. It's real talk.
youtube. com/watch?v=o7Qo-6-eQPA&mode=related&search=
coachbagqueen 4 years ago
This is whats up! i Learned alot today.
treecheetahdolo 4 years ago
i got 2 kids with my baby daddy and he still gettin it.
jaykrystle 4 years ago
you're a ho
riffplayer88 4 years ago
you should be a shame of yourself!!!!
Bloodsport1 4 years ago
hey this is something u have to see in refrence to the topic. It's real talk.
youtube. com/watch?v=o7Qo-6-eQPA&mode=related&search=
coachbagqueen 4 years ago
More fool you if your not with him but still lettin him hit it, basically he is having his cake and eating it.
uniqueandbeautiful 4 years ago 3
guys be lyin about fuckin witt dey baby momma,,and they still be creepin ova there hittin her ass,,thats y they be all crazy and shit
msfloydmayweather 4 years ago 3
agree
chickwitthagoodies 2 years ago
Thanks for uploading such a video. It's nice to see something serious and important on youtube.
edwinho8 5 years ago
women and men alike needs to take into consideration that your children remember more than you do, so unless you are willing to make that person a part of your childs life dont bring them around, your child may just ask you one day what happened to mommy/daddy(enter name here) they get attached b4 you do.
ltink77 5 years ago