Please don't make comments that you don;t know about - I'm a birth Mother who just found her child on Facebook - I haven;t met her yet - and I want to say that this song helped me a lot - more than you can imagine in fact !!!! So thanks (and I'm sure your natural birth Mother would love this song!!!)
i miss my parents so much i cry about them everyday i have 8 foster brothers and sisters who miss theres to but then they found there mom and dad now im all alone so she adopted another child
Why do adoptees thank us for not aborting them? Most mothers loved and wanted our babies. They were taken from us illegally. In 1970, three years after my baby son was stolen, I worked in a women's health center that did underground abortion referrals. Thousands of women went there, married and single. The sister of a rich frat boy I knew (a "birth father") was a Catholic and engaged but insisted on abortion. Pro-liars do NOT save babies from abortion! Read Shotgun Adoption online.
Omg you are pussy fuckign americans ohh mom i love bc my other mom and dad got me a tv in my room and you would probleay say no. you are all sad really sad
@DjPetrov did this make u feel any better? NOPE! wondering what pushed u 2 this point (being rude)...I honestly don't get it with this world we're all diff yet others lash out if its not wat he/she thinks ok
Nice video, but it still does not take the place of not knowing... My birth mother was simply young and foolish. I feel certain that she matured, and has had a family, that I will never know.
So not only were you abandoned by your mom, but you were also lied to for 30 years ... and yet you're grateful for all of this? I want some of what you're smoking, seriously!
this is okay, but read the girls that went away or adoption healing or join a chat group. You might be surprised to find that many many first moms fought like crazy to keep and were forbidden!
im 13 and i was adopted.. i found out in 2nd grade.. ik a lil young... but i sorta feel alone and like a part of me is missin. i want to find my birthmother so bad but shes in south carolina and im in new york... :( idek her last name....
I hope you actually sang this song to her. Otherwise, it's meaningless. There's no way your birthmother could know whether you lived or died, got the kind of home she wanted for you or ended up in multiple placements or worse. Singing the song into the wind gives your birthmother no peace whatsoever. As a birthmother, I had to search for years to gain that peace. Find your birthmother and tell her in person!
I produced a video that also had pictures of me from birth, which is when she gave me up, to graduation and GAVE IT TO HER IN PERSON. This was placed here hopefully to encourage others who have been adopted to find GRATITUDE FOR BEING BORN. So even if I hadn't given it to her directly and I did, it wouldn't have just been in the wind because it may bless someone else. I also continue to visit periodically. Thank you for listening.
@alexys72904 Yup, I'd've rather have had scrambled brains and belated abortion at the seven months old I was abandoned at - at least then the agony would've been over in minutes (or hours if they dragged my murder at 7mths old out), but they all would've been shorter and less painful than the agony that I've been living with for decades.
@7rin LOL, get over yourself. Lets all throw a pity party because you weren't murdered after you were conceived. In that case you should just go off yourself right now, because you are waisting precious resources. I think you are just so busy feeling sorry for yourself that you haven't even taken a moments notice to respect the people that love you in your life. Children are "abandoned" all the time by their parents, the sad thing is that they live in the same home and eat at the same table.
my friend was adopted and i feel sad for her but happy that i have her because if it werent for her mother, she wouldnt be here. And also, i think her mom or any mom has a good reason to leave a child for adoption.
Every thought of it? I mean, what kind of cruel creature would hate a child. Maybe the mom couldnt make a good life for her. and thought it was better to leave her with another family.
Try your best to start focusing less on the why and more on the result - YOU ARE HERE. I had to thank her for HAVING ME. She could have ABORTED ME like so many, but she didn't. I didn't find out until I was 30 yrs old.
@drrlshaw Some would say they'd rather have been aborted as have suffered due to what you say everyone should just be 'greatful' for. Some give up their babies not for the babies but their selves. Not ALL women who have given up their children are good people and do not deserve any thanx. Some didn't even wish the child to be born so don't be so quick to judge people who choose abortion, as weither you see it this way or not sometimes it really is for the best.
@drrlshaw ...Why people are excepting of people who give away their babies to people who make the choice in attempt of avoiding heart-ach altogether? They are still making the decision based on caring for that life!
@drrlshaw Personally, I'd've rather've been aborted - at least then the agony would've been over in minutes, instead of the decades I've been suffering for.
I've been searching for as long as you are old. Hang in there, hopefully, one day, the politicians will get out of OUR business and allow the opening of all sealed records! We have a RIGHT to know. Just get on all the registries you can! GOOD LUCK!
there was no decision of adoption vs abortion. My child was stolen. This woman sounds brain washed.
barabinom 4 months ago
Please don't make comments that you don;t know about - I'm a birth Mother who just found her child on Facebook - I haven;t met her yet - and I want to say that this song helped me a lot - more than you can imagine in fact !!!! So thanks (and I'm sure your natural birth Mother would love this song!!!)
janetmackcoh 4 months ago
@IrisHoney13 me too ;( i wonder if there looking for me
keshagurl228 4 months ago
i miss my parents so much i cry about them everyday i have 8 foster brothers and sisters who miss theres to but then they found there mom and dad now im all alone so she adopted another child
keshagurl228 4 months ago
Why do adoptees thank us for not aborting them? Most mothers loved and wanted our babies. They were taken from us illegally. In 1970, three years after my baby son was stolen, I worked in a women's health center that did underground abortion referrals. Thousands of women went there, married and single. The sister of a rich frat boy I knew (a "birth father") was a Catholic and engaged but insisted on abortion. Pro-liars do NOT save babies from abortion! Read Shotgun Adoption online.
asynkronos 7 months ago
Omg you are pussy fuckign americans ohh mom i love bc my other mom and dad got me a tv in my room and you would probleay say no. you are all sad really sad
DjPetrov 1 year ago
Oh My! this touch me in such a mighty way! Thank You (JESUS)
SGToney 1 year ago
@SGToney Fuck you
DjPetrov 1 year ago
@DjPetrov did this make u feel any better? NOPE! wondering what pushed u 2 this point (being rude)...I honestly don't get it with this world we're all diff yet others lash out if its not wat he/she thinks ok
SGToney 2 months ago
@SGToney my comment has a year ago i dont even remeber anything lol!
DjPetrov 2 months ago
Nice video, but it still does not take the place of not knowing... My birth mother was simply young and foolish. I feel certain that she matured, and has had a family, that I will never know.
1toscany 1 year ago
So not only were you abandoned by your mom, but you were also lied to for 30 years ... and yet you're grateful for all of this? I want some of what you're smoking, seriously!
7rin 1 year ago
this is okay, but read the girls that went away or adoption healing or join a chat group. You might be surprised to find that many many first moms fought like crazy to keep and were forbidden!
nadeseh 1 year ago
wow! I love this! its perfect!
heavensentprincess1 1 year ago
im 13 and i was adopted.. i found out in 2nd grade.. ik a lil young... but i sorta feel alone and like a part of me is missin. i want to find my birthmother so bad but shes in south carolina and im in new york... :( idek her last name....
ashleyyyluvsu100 1 year ago
I hope you actually sang this song to her. Otherwise, it's meaningless. There's no way your birthmother could know whether you lived or died, got the kind of home she wanted for you or ended up in multiple placements or worse. Singing the song into the wind gives your birthmother no peace whatsoever. As a birthmother, I had to search for years to gain that peace. Find your birthmother and tell her in person!
BlessedForReal 2 years ago
Not so easy to find them, nearly impossible..there are a few lucky ones though!
anne102462 2 years ago
I think it may give the adoptee some peace.
Sammicsno 2 years ago
I produced a video that also had pictures of me from birth, which is when she gave me up, to graduation and GAVE IT TO HER IN PERSON. This was placed here hopefully to encourage others who have been adopted to find GRATITUDE FOR BEING BORN. So even if I hadn't given it to her directly and I did, it wouldn't have just been in the wind because it may bless someone else. I also continue to visit periodically. Thank you for listening.
drrlshaw 2 years ago
@BlessedForReal Well I guess it is better then scrambling the brains and having a partial birth. Would you rather that?
alexys72904 1 year ago
@alexys72904 Yup, I'd've rather have had scrambled brains and belated abortion at the seven months old I was abandoned at - at least then the agony would've been over in minutes (or hours if they dragged my murder at 7mths old out), but they all would've been shorter and less painful than the agony that I've been living with for decades.
7rin 1 year ago
@7rin LOL, get over yourself. Lets all throw a pity party because you weren't murdered after you were conceived. In that case you should just go off yourself right now, because you are waisting precious resources. I think you are just so busy feeling sorry for yourself that you haven't even taken a moments notice to respect the people that love you in your life. Children are "abandoned" all the time by their parents, the sad thing is that they live in the same home and eat at the same table.
alexys72904 11 months ago
my friend was adopted and i feel sad for her but happy that i have her because if it werent for her mother, she wouldnt be here. And also, i think her mom or any mom has a good reason to leave a child for adoption.
Every thought of it? I mean, what kind of cruel creature would hate a child. Maybe the mom couldnt make a good life for her. and thought it was better to leave her with another family.
~ismary1216
Ismary1216 2 years ago
i am a 27 years old and adopted - and i think about her everyday - but still i cannot find her- and all i want to know is why
rekoneyezz 2 years ago
Try your best to start focusing less on the why and more on the result - YOU ARE HERE. I had to thank her for HAVING ME. She could have ABORTED ME like so many, but she didn't. I didn't find out until I was 30 yrs old.
drrlshaw 2 years ago
@drrlshaw Some would say they'd rather have been aborted as have suffered due to what you say everyone should just be 'greatful' for. Some give up their babies not for the babies but their selves. Not ALL women who have given up their children are good people and do not deserve any thanx. Some didn't even wish the child to be born so don't be so quick to judge people who choose abortion, as weither you see it this way or not sometimes it really is for the best.
TellsHowItIs 1 year ago 2
@drrlshaw ...Why people are excepting of people who give away their babies to people who make the choice in attempt of avoiding heart-ach altogether? They are still making the decision based on caring for that life!
TellsHowItIs 1 year ago
@drrlshaw Personally, I'd've rather've been aborted - at least then the agony would've been over in minutes, instead of the decades I've been suffering for.
7rin 1 year ago
I've been searching for as long as you are old. Hang in there, hopefully, one day, the politicians will get out of OUR business and allow the opening of all sealed records! We have a RIGHT to know. Just get on all the registries you can! GOOD LUCK!
anne102462 2 years ago
@rekoneyezz I know how you feel i am adoptied to and i think of her to but i can't find her I am to young to go off and find her myslef.
lenoer1077 8 months ago
just thank you /ljs3
LJASONSMITH3 3 years ago
Can you believe I just saw this comment. You are more than welcome
drrlshaw 2 years ago