what if u tell them what u want and they deny..then u would not even stay in the friendszone..
one more question...i saw a girl today and she looked at me i gave her a look then looked away cuz she wasnt that preety so then she turned around and was walking away somewhere and I just fell for her ass..i couldnt resist that...now i already gave her a no..kindof ..how can i get her to be mine and give me an instant way to get her booty..thats all i want...not really want any relation. just the ass
I'm going to get a fucking massive tirade of abuse from whiteknights for this, but fuck it, it needs to be said.
Generally speaking, men should not take dating advice from women. They will almost always steer you wrong. Don't get me wrong, they aren't doing this to spite men. They don't mean for it to go wrong, but it generally does, anyway.
Ask a woman what she finds attractive in a man and she'll most likely tell you what she thinks she wants or should wnat, not what she actually responds to.
If you know a guy that obviously likes you but he seems not sure if you like him or not, maybe you should realize that and do something about it? hints, signs, ANYTHING? women should do the move too, SPECIALLY when the guy gives you hints/sign but isn't sure about you. Men are human too you know? it's definitely not easy to ask without signs from the other person, there is psychological risks involved in situations like that.
So, women know that men aren't naturally good at the subtle signals, so instead of them just not demanding them, we now have an industry dedicated to forcing men to learn it. What is this? Something every mans needs to do is learn to accept failure. According to this vid, as soon as you like a girl, she knows, so why not just go over and ask them out? This dating coaching boggles my mind, sometimes.
Women want people they can "change" to prove themselves its sad but true i got dumped and basically friend zoned for an ugly fat drummer douchebag that fucked with my relationship whos going no where with his life im about to be certified as a damn nurse for Christ sake and part of why i did that was for her. Womens choices are not logical; that's the first thing you must realize they are emotionally based nothing more and nothing less learn psychology only way to compete and survive friendzone.
Girls/women seem conditioned to think that guys are into them. All you have to do is just like them, or appreciate and have respect for them...and somehow, this is often taken in the wrong way. I have some news for you ladies... for some of us, being hot doesn't get you very far at all.
If you women know when a guy likes you, don't lead him on. Either let him know that you like him, or tell him that you want to be "just friends." That way he can move on and stop wasting his time on you. It is that fucking simple! If you are so adept at reading people and can tell when a guy likes you, and you don't share his feelings, then put him out of his fucking misery! Seriously, you women think men have to make all the fucking moves, which is fucking ridiculous! I'm fed up with this shit!
If ur in the friend zone, say this to the girl next time u see her: "U know what's great about us hanging out together? The fact that there is zero sexual tension between us. I don't find u in the slightest bit attractive, not even remotely. Don't u love that?"
Watch her face drop. Suddenly, u will find she wants to be around u all the time. Just act aloof, she'll play right into ur hands.
True....they don't know what the hell they want.... nice nice guy my ass. I couldnt do enough for this one and was screwing around while I was paying her mortgage to keep a rooff over her head and other necessities of life.....in her mid- forties and can't keep a job....isn't that great.
it's so sad what us men have become. Just think about it. How many blogs, youtube vids and books are there on these type of topics? How much money is made off of this for example PUA, Ask men and these types of vids? All because of our Libido that carried over from our Neanderthal days ie; the need to procreate. Why don't women ask men out? Why don't nice girls lose too? Why is it so one sided? Dating sites have male to female ratio's of at least 7 to1.
Yeah, and people aren't seeing that dating sites are the best living case study there is, showing us exactly what the problem is in dating culture today. Women's selectability has gone beyond biological standards to something contaminated by Madison Avenue thinking. The 80-20 rule is in effect: 80% of women are going after the top 20% of the men. Let's face the cold hard truth: at a dating site if a guy isn't 6 feet tall he's eliminated from 90% or greater of the women there.
If the man and the woman both want to be more than friends, then ladies, meet the guy halfway. If you know when the guy likes them, why won't you do anything about it?
Then you enter your 30's, you start to become bitter because you wonder why you're not married.
40's. Even more bitter.
What the hell...is up with this ingrained false belief that guys need to do all the work? Where did that come from? From my understanding, a relationship is sharing the burden. Apparently I'm wrong.
clearly women are so good at sensing emotions thats why i was dumped when i would do anything for the girl and when i was hurting and down she says yes to dating one of my really good friends.....girls are emotionally tiring and terribly spiteful and fickle creatures.....worst part is i dont hate her for it tried being angry at her i just couldnt be. still women are fickle spiteful creatures that dont know whats good for them half the time look at where the people whose husbands are in jail are.
How to get out of the friend zone: Pop your collar, disrespect her, ignore her, call her names, make sure she see's you beat up someone smaller than you, and hit on girls while you're around her --> Instant bj.
Don't ask a woman for what you want. Tell her. Set the parameters for the interaction immediately. Despite women being perceived as more social than men, it is the the man that is the social instigator within heterosexual male/female interactions.
FELLAS, you know what this means. Show NO EMOTION. Get on your hitman shit. Let that music play in your mind. No smiles, nothing is funny, str8 face all day, dry words. Even the dating coach wouldn't know how to react, and she seems very professional I must say.
@Moneymarkmathematics i like this approach...you should go further with this i think you've got something here. the hitman approach...it's pretty dope.
@ELECTRICCLOCK you are so crude and vulgar!, maybe you are looking for thumbs up, there's gotta be some dicks down there who will like your comment, dont get discoraged
Guys you have to understand once they see you oozing with masculinity of all forms you will be sought after. It's not being a good guy or a bad guy its about being true to your masculinity. Masculinity is not about sports, farts, beer or any of that media shit. It's about knowing your duty.
The friend zone is a world of playful games, comfort and useful place to seduce a woman. Once your friends the tension lowers ,barriers are lowered. Now you can really tease her, flirt with her and lower your nice guy mask. You should of been interacting like that with her in the first place.
See im young like middle school and i like this girls for 4 years and just and the star of the year she started not breaking eye contact and she giggles at everything i say. When i sit next to her she continues to try to get my attention and i like it. What should i do she knows i like her but what do i do?
You know what--this is women's logic, and it is really all screwed up.
It's like saying: I see this guy on the ground and he's bleeding and I know he needs help, but I'm not going to render him any assistance because he did not ask me for help directly.
It's just another psycho-bullshit game that women play--that's all it is.
Huh? So you know that he likes you that way but because he's not coming right out and saying it you put him in the friends zone? Thats sounds like leading him on to me...
@mrlove1961 It is. Women might not call it that, but that's what it is. And it's deceitful.
Woman do it because their "friend" guy fulfills a need in them be it validation or emotional support. But it's a parasitic relationship, for the woman feeds off the guy without giving him anything in return. And then she exonerates her behavior by holding the guy responsible for his wussy behavior.
In other words: He didn't behave like a man, so he had it coming.
@mrsolofeo Man you should write a book on this shit if you haven't already, cuz not only are you ROT with everything but are articulate and funny as all Hell!!
hello, in bible in the book of First Corinthians Chapter 11 verses 8 and 9 it says: The man did not come from woman, but the woman came from man; neither was the man created for the woman's benefits, but the woman created for the man. What does it mean to be a man and a woman in a relationship or marriage? The man a master and the woman a slave or property? I read that many macho jerks or thugs treat women somewhat like property, domestic animal or pet, or slave.
@x89codered89x Hi there. My point in the video is that the guy SHOULD ask for what he wants as apposed to simply letting it show. Does that make sense?
@MyDatingCoach eh, nope :) d'you mean he should tell her he wants a relationship instead of just showing it?? I'm sure thats not it, but wat DO you mean then? great channel btw ;)
LOL ok i get you're video but men can actually pick up on intuition like this ALOT quicker than you think we can... CtB ever heard that 1... Next morning that's all i'd be saying for you : )!! Of course then you were ok c ya. =-)
last year 7th grade i crushed on a girl and after a few months i asked her out but she said no and i asked her out whenever we were alone she would still say no and I would hug her, but on her birthday i tried to make a move but she is going out with my BEST FRIEND and now they've been dating since that day up till now! But, my eyes are on the two cutest girls at my school but they both got out of a relationship. (we're good friends but i wanna ask one of them out) please help
Emma said, "It's not as much a matter of not making your intentions clear; it's a matter of not asking for what you want in the beginning." But, the thing is: if we let the girl know "from the beginning" that we like her, that's just going to put us straight into the Friend Zone!! She wants a challenge and if she senses (or worse, we tell her) that we like her, it's not going to create feelings of attraction within her.
Good video, though. That's the only part I didn't really agree with.
Girls nowadays have a fantasy situation in their minds and if it doesn't play out that way your SOL I've seen this many times, we are constantly being tested men. Why do you think a shitty song like we found love is number 1, because it's a huge fantasy of women to find a guy in the club seduce him with her dancing and fall in love with him soon after. If Rihanna was singing about the grocery store, the song would have bombed...
Most girls only see actions, not intentions. Do something big!
You cited studies...I want to see your sources. Im willing to bet they arent academically sound... As for everything else...fell into the background of me not caring...not like women deserve opinions.
Sad isn't it? That a kind and loyal friendship can be so sexually disarming with women. I think it's just the opposite for me. Ah well, you like what you like. All of you girls insisting on the same tired sexually manipulative games. I will be here waiting, in the friend zone.
you know what is even worse than being friend-zoned?................ being friend-zoned while the chick complains to you about never finding a nice guy as she continues to date complete douchebags........
@Darkslasher22 Omg I know how you feel. I'm a girl, though and I've had to be my friend's shoulder to cry on whenever another girl friend-zones him. Such sad irony :(
@Darkslasher22: Then complain to her about never finding a good girl while dating floozies. Play her game; be each others' therapists for a change. I do that with my bestie a lot and we both enjoy the convo. Think I'm being Captain Obvious here but being a registered sex offender could possibly be worse than being in the friendzone lol
@Sean021122: Think you missed the part about being each others' therapists instead of it being one sided. Playing therapist at best puts you in the friend zone. So why not friendzone her at the same time and have her be your therapist too?
i told this chick that i wanted her to her face and she said she would prefer to just be friends and later down the track i ended up sleeping with 1 of her friends and then she wouldn't talk to me for like a month WTF! she said she just wanted to be friends.. its done my head inn
So women would rather sleep with the guy that could care less about her then the friend who at least tried to be nice and caring. girls your methods and ideas are F*ucked up.
This is why men look at porn. No hassles, no confusion, no broken hearts. Masturbation is the primary sexual activity of human beings. You're in the friend zone? Have trouble impressing the women? Empty your balls and watch these "problems" go away. It doesn't matter whether you screw that girl in your head or in your bed. Either way, tomorrow you're going to be horny all over again.
@Jayce1712 Dude, it's not about mistreating women, but putting yourself above the girl and not letting your attraction for her control your actions. Just treat her like any ordinary woman.
@Mrarmageddon8 Ahhh you're back with more manly bits of wisdom. Aka sexist drivel. You can treat her right in the middle of all that and elicit the feelings you want in her an dget the results you want. Just don't go to far in either direction.
@Mrarmageddon8 U must be a Tom Leykis listener lol. What do u and Tom Leykis meant by "treating them like crap". U mean like don't have feelings for them?
A piece of advice fellas, if you want to meet a reasonable girl, avoid bars and clubs, that's where women dress up go to REJECT men. Coffee, shops, book stores, and cozy eateries are better. Being a friend is ok but being a friend who is expected to behave like a boyfriend without the sex is not.
American men are frequently put into a catch 22 He's either too clingy/suffocating or too distant. he's either emotionally overbearing or emotionally vacant. Some woman expect men to navigate a hypocritical minefield of unsaid, inarticulate gestures, obscure references, and subtle subtexual often ambiguous signs from which if he misinterprets automatically renders him invalid Like if a woman won't commit she's being careful and exercising her options if a man doesn't he's emotionally immature
So how do you ask for what you want from the beginning?
Something like: I want to fuck you, so don't even think of me as a friend.
But women want to be respected. Bullshit.
If you don't engage a woman in a sexual way right from the start, she will regard you as either a little faggot or a sorry-ass mama's boy.
That's the lowdown. Woman want sex, but they won't do a damn thing to make it happen. So they allow themselves to be seduced. That way they can save face and avoid feeling like sluts.
@TookanArrow2myASS I have found that when a woman rejects, it's not so much as rejection as it is a test. They want to see if you are persistent but they also want to see if you are a tool or not. I never pursue one woman at a time and I make sure they know and see that. That way it turns the tables and makes her realize that it is up to YOU to decide if she is worth YOUR time or not. Sometimes mind-fucking them is just a part of the seduction.
Fuck the friend zone. The only good thing about it is possibly meeting some of her friends and that isn't a guarantee. If you like a girl and you can't get with her you gotta get out. A guy who stays with a girl just to be her friend is either asexual or gay and has no balls. Sorry, but it is the truth. Girls don't understand when they tell a guy we are friends they are saying you aren't good enough/unattractive and bruise the ego 1000 fold
A woman put me into the "friend zone" after knowing her for about a week. I then started having sex with one of her girlfriends on a regular basis. Now she always asks me why I never put a move on her and I say, "because we are such good friends".
Why do guys hang around in the friend zone for one chick anyway? She's always going to date the losers, so why not ditch her and find a girl who actually WANTS a man who will treat her with respect? Btw, girls use the 'friend zone' as it's an easier way of saying 'I'm not interested in being with you, ever, but you seem to bend over backwards for me so I want to keep you around'. As soon as a girl says you're in the 'friend zone', run a mile.
If a girl tries to put you in the friend zone or puts you there she is a HUGE Bitch.
Why?
Because women only want male friends for emotional support they don't really give a shit about you or how you are doing with girls. All she is doing is emotionally draining you and using you to feed her ego.
Leave the bitch, but before you do, tell her she is just a manipulative bitch and because of that she is a shitty friend and nothing more.
These same wanna-be dating coaches are the same ones who sabotage international dating agencies and any man who seeks to have a female companion. I've met so many of these dating/PUA coaches who'll trash any American or western guy if they look otherwise for their woman.
In fact, let it be commonly known that Russia has 12 million more women than men & we'll see how long these "dating" coaches will stick around.
So the saying goes "You marry your best friend". Should they not be your friend until after you're married?
Dating is too complicated. I'm sorry, let me rephrase that to make it correct, women are too complicated. Soon I'm not gonna put up with their childish games and say HELLO mail-order-bride!
Pretty sure you're wrong... I get the signals better than a female... maybe you meant the averege male sucks at that... and averege female is more sensitive etc. NOT everyone...
@kokocipher the f**k are you even talking about, you're commenting @ the wrong person. What you said has nothing to do with what I said. Thats a buttload of wild assumptions you're throwing around there though, of which have no substance besides the divorce rate (which is a useless statistic, this video had nothing to do with marriage). With all that anger you got I can only assume you got "friend zoned" AND "blowjob-but-no-sex-zoned" 1 too many times ululul umad bro.
Blondes giving dating advices? Yea, let's get down and dissect this "friend zone" bullshit. What's next, the Blowjob-but-no-sex zone? Stop giving advices, the divorce rate of white couples is higher than 60% now.
Basicly a number 1 thing to remember I suppose. If a girl tells you she never really thought about it or knew you liked her, she's either BSing you or REALLY not interested (and doesnt care enough to humor you with your infatuation or even acknowledge it). Don't have a go at her because youre dumb.
@MarquisGemini If girls don't approach you, then you're not man enough to be approached. That had always been my philosophy. If a man chases the "girl of his dreams," that girl will never respect him. She'd probably cheat on him.
How to get out of the FZ ?? Fuck her girlfriends.... and just don't give a shit about her she will come around wanting some tubesteak also because that's all her girlfriends are talking about !!
uhmm if this guy was put in the friend zone he does not need to ''make his intentions clear'' to not be in the friends zone.. if he was hot he wouldn't have to do anything. she's obviously just not interested!.. a guy doesn't need to make his intentions clear before he's put in the friend zone.. wtf that's horrible advice.
what if u tell them what u want and they deny..then u would not even stay in the friendszone..
one more question...i saw a girl today and she looked at me i gave her a look then looked away cuz she wasnt that preety so then she turned around and was walking away somewhere and I just fell for her ass..i couldnt resist that...now i already gave her a no..kindof ..how can i get her to be mine and give me an instant way to get her booty..thats all i want...not really want any relation. just the ass
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MrJimssinclair 2 days ago
I'm going to get a fucking massive tirade of abuse from whiteknights for this, but fuck it, it needs to be said.
Generally speaking, men should not take dating advice from women. They will almost always steer you wrong. Don't get me wrong, they aren't doing this to spite men. They don't mean for it to go wrong, but it generally does, anyway.
Ask a woman what she finds attractive in a man and she'll most likely tell you what she thinks she wants or should wnat, not what she actually responds to.
obglobgablob 3 days ago
If this is true why do they play all these dumb games if they are so sure we like them why cant they approach us?
Kanonite 3 days ago
If you know a guy that obviously likes you but he seems not sure if you like him or not, maybe you should realize that and do something about it? hints, signs, ANYTHING? women should do the move too, SPECIALLY when the guy gives you hints/sign but isn't sure about you. Men are human too you know? it's definitely not easy to ask without signs from the other person, there is psychological risks involved in situations like that.
Warrax22 3 days ago
Respectfully disagree with this whole video.
Darkone225 3 days ago
I was looking at the like/dislike bar and wasn't sure if i should stay
MrAuvae91 4 days ago
get out of friends zone by not being too close idiot!
flameout12345 4 days ago
@flameout12345 haha more like get out from the friendzone by forgetting that chick and moving "on to the next one" .
ladygodia 4 days ago
@ladygodia haha thats one way. What i'm saying is that you can be close but don't over stay
flameout12345 3 days ago
...her teeth urmmmmm im scared. Dracula.
xSniperBrandon1 5 days ago
So, women know that men aren't naturally good at the subtle signals, so instead of them just not demanding them, we now have an industry dedicated to forcing men to learn it. What is this? Something every mans needs to do is learn to accept failure. According to this vid, as soon as you like a girl, she knows, so why not just go over and ask them out? This dating coaching boggles my mind, sometimes.
1stKimozabi 5 days ago
Women want people they can "change" to prove themselves its sad but true i got dumped and basically friend zoned for an ugly fat drummer douchebag that fucked with my relationship whos going no where with his life im about to be certified as a damn nurse for Christ sake and part of why i did that was for her. Womens choices are not logical; that's the first thing you must realize they are emotionally based nothing more and nothing less learn psychology only way to compete and survive friendzone.
newbrandomness22 5 days ago
Girls/women seem conditioned to think that guys are into them. All you have to do is just like them, or appreciate and have respect for them...and somehow, this is often taken in the wrong way. I have some news for you ladies... for some of us, being hot doesn't get you very far at all.
kahtuh 5 days ago
she's cute...but then she opens her mouth.
ColorfulRainbowsInc 6 days ago
If you women know when a guy likes you, don't lead him on. Either let him know that you like him, or tell him that you want to be "just friends." That way he can move on and stop wasting his time on you. It is that fucking simple! If you are so adept at reading people and can tell when a guy likes you, and you don't share his feelings, then put him out of his fucking misery! Seriously, you women think men have to make all the fucking moves, which is fucking ridiculous! I'm fed up with this shit!
clumpofdirt77 6 days ago
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If ur in the friend zone, say this to the girl next time u see her: "U know what's great about us hanging out together? The fact that there is zero sexual tension between us. I don't find u in the slightest bit attractive, not even remotely. Don't u love that?"
Watch her face drop. Suddenly, u will find she wants to be around u all the time. Just act aloof, she'll play right into ur hands.
mikelorenz121 1 week ago
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Funniest movie ever :D
Big comedy here
Ayceeis 1 week ago
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Ayceeis 1 week ago
True....they don't know what the hell they want.... nice nice guy my ass. I couldnt do enough for this one and was screwing around while I was paying her mortgage to keep a rooff over her head and other necessities of life.....in her mid- forties and can't keep a job....isn't that great.
So don't give me the BS on what they want.
laz99ify 1 week ago
it's so sad what us men have become. Just think about it. How many blogs, youtube vids and books are there on these type of topics? How much money is made off of this for example PUA, Ask men and these types of vids? All because of our Libido that carried over from our Neanderthal days ie; the need to procreate. Why don't women ask men out? Why don't nice girls lose too? Why is it so one sided? Dating sites have male to female ratio's of at least 7 to1.
This shit has to change it's killing us.
fredguy2 1 week ago
@fredguy2
Yeah, and people aren't seeing that dating sites are the best living case study there is, showing us exactly what the problem is in dating culture today. Women's selectability has gone beyond biological standards to something contaminated by Madison Avenue thinking. The 80-20 rule is in effect: 80% of women are going after the top 20% of the men. Let's face the cold hard truth: at a dating site if a guy isn't 6 feet tall he's eliminated from 90% or greater of the women there.
AllPro777 1 week ago 3
If the man and the woman both want to be more than friends, then ladies, meet the guy halfway. If you know when the guy likes them, why won't you do anything about it?
Then you enter your 30's, you start to become bitter because you wonder why you're not married.
40's. Even more bitter.
What the hell...is up with this ingrained false belief that guys need to do all the work? Where did that come from? From my understanding, a relationship is sharing the burden. Apparently I'm wrong.
DashOfRainbow 1 week ago
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looks like you have no arms.
eaglei22 1 week ago
WHATS WITH THE BLEEPING NOISE ARRGHGHGHHHGHGHGHGHHGHGHHHHHHHH
eddp777 1 week ago
Well, I'm a girl. I'm oblivious AND I over think everything. It's a terrible combination.
ubertasticupcake 1 week ago
@01louis10 word! You read my mind dude, I think the same way
joshua50101 2 weeks ago
clearly women are so good at sensing emotions thats why i was dumped when i would do anything for the girl and when i was hurting and down she says yes to dating one of my really good friends.....girls are emotionally tiring and terribly spiteful and fickle creatures.....worst part is i dont hate her for it tried being angry at her i just couldnt be. still women are fickle spiteful creatures that dont know whats good for them half the time look at where the people whose husbands are in jail are.
newbrandomness22 2 weeks ago
@MISTERMARKBRAZIL youre a idiot
mArQuZ550 2 weeks ago
How to get out of the friend zone: Pop your collar, disrespect her, ignore her, call her names, make sure she see's you beat up someone smaller than you, and hit on girls while you're around her --> Instant bj.
TheMachanga 2 weeks ago
Don't ask a woman for what you want. Tell her. Set the parameters for the interaction immediately. Despite women being perceived as more social than men, it is the the man that is the social instigator within heterosexual male/female interactions.
Phranky 2 weeks ago
if ur teeth wasn't so noticible I would find you good looking...im so mean
arcanecraft2011 2 weeks ago
I couldn't watch more than 15 seconds of it. Nothing against the video except that ringing in the background
madmouse43 2 weeks ago
FELLAS, you know what this means. Show NO EMOTION. Get on your hitman shit. Let that music play in your mind. No smiles, nothing is funny, str8 face all day, dry words. Even the dating coach wouldn't know how to react, and she seems very professional I must say.
Moneymarkmathematics 2 weeks ago
@Moneymarkmathematics i like this approach...you should go further with this i think you've got something here. the hitman approach...it's pretty dope.
dopewords 2 weeks ago
When I heard her say client....I thought she was an escort.
ELECTRICCLOCK 2 weeks ago
@ELECTRICCLOCK you are so crude and vulgar!, maybe you are looking for thumbs up, there's gotta be some dicks down there who will like your comment, dont get discoraged
joshua50101 2 weeks ago
@joshua50101 Your confused.
ELECTRICCLOCK 1 week ago
well, you are hot.
MaliceVieria 2 weeks ago
woodhouse indeed...sorry im not a perv im just tired and have know idea how i got to this video
vampirezeth 2 weeks ago
YOU ARE BENEATH THE SALT
MrMichael396 3 weeks ago
Friend zone? What the hell? More like fuck and forget zone.
can06 3 weeks ago
Guys you have to understand once they see you oozing with masculinity of all forms you will be sought after. It's not being a good guy or a bad guy its about being true to your masculinity. Masculinity is not about sports, farts, beer or any of that media shit. It's about knowing your duty.
Truththinker77 3 weeks ago
@Truththinker77 Duty? What is my Duty? As long as I have and show RESPECT then I should be able to just be myself, anything else is insincere...
mrlove1961 3 weeks ago
The friend zone is a world of playful games, comfort and useful place to seduce a woman. Once your friends the tension lowers ,barriers are lowered. Now you can really tease her, flirt with her and lower your nice guy mask. You should of been interacting like that with her in the first place.
Truththinker77 3 weeks ago
i cant believe you make money from doing this...
TheShnitster 3 weeks ago
how do i get closer as a freind without making her think i want to date?
ImTanzeey 3 weeks ago
what if she really beleives that im just a freeind
mrcoolguy148 3 weeks ago
@mrcoolguy148, sounds like you need to move on to someone else.
can06 3 weeks ago
See im young like middle school and i like this girls for 4 years and just and the star of the year she started not breaking eye contact and she giggles at everything i say. When i sit next to her she continues to try to get my attention and i like it. What should i do she knows i like her but what do i do?
Angelberry08 3 weeks ago
You know what--this is women's logic, and it is really all screwed up.
It's like saying: I see this guy on the ground and he's bleeding and I know he needs help, but I'm not going to render him any assistance because he did not ask me for help directly.
It's just another psycho-bullshit game that women play--that's all it is.
mrsolofeo 3 weeks ago 40
Huh? So you know that he likes you that way but because he's not coming right out and saying it you put him in the friends zone? Thats sounds like leading him on to me...
mrlove1961 3 weeks ago
@mrlove1961 It is. Women might not call it that, but that's what it is. And it's deceitful.
Woman do it because their "friend" guy fulfills a need in them be it validation or emotional support. But it's a parasitic relationship, for the woman feeds off the guy without giving him anything in return. And then she exonerates her behavior by holding the guy responsible for his wussy behavior.
In other words: He didn't behave like a man, so he had it coming.
mrsolofeo 3 weeks ago
@mrsolofeo Man you should write a book on this shit if you haven't already, cuz not only are you ROT with everything but are articulate and funny as all Hell!!
mrlove1961 3 weeks ago
@mrlove1961 Thanx. I consider myself to be a mini dragonslayer, and words are my Excalibur.
mrsolofeo 3 weeks ago
SHUT UP AND SUCK, YOU HOE!
MISTERMARKBRAZIL 3 weeks ago
If every girl had the same opinion as that one, We'd have a bunch of uncaring jerks running around impregnating vulnerable teenage girls. Oh wait. .
MrKALISHNIK0V47 3 weeks ago
NEVER take dating advice from a woman: MANHOOD101. COM
thenfm 4 weeks ago
hello, in bible in the book of First Corinthians Chapter 11 verses 8 and 9 it says: The man did not come from woman, but the woman came from man; neither was the man created for the woman's benefits, but the woman created for the man. What does it mean to be a man and a woman in a relationship or marriage? The man a master and the woman a slave or property? I read that many macho jerks or thugs treat women somewhat like property, domestic animal or pet, or slave.
Flxiblemetro 4 weeks ago
@01louis10 well said. sooo true
TheGr33nNinja 1 month ago
I'ld zone your friend. Yeah that's right.
AceBean27 1 month ago
Well, they know if you like them, sh**
LEGOdude965 1 month ago 4
@LEGOdude965 Haha... I know what you mean... But it's better that YOU know that THEY know... You know? ;)
MyDatingCoach 1 month ago 2
wait wait, don't state your needs immediately? wtf? Why wait? I thought that was the manly thing to do.
x89codered89x 1 month ago
@x89codered89x Hi there. My point in the video is that the guy SHOULD ask for what he wants as apposed to simply letting it show. Does that make sense?
MyDatingCoach 1 month ago
@MyDatingCoach eh, nope :) d'you mean he should tell her he wants a relationship instead of just showing it?? I'm sure thats not it, but wat DO you mean then? great channel btw ;)
b0575urnside 1 month ago
@MyDatingCoach It makes no sense, because it's mincing words--it really is.
mrsolofeo 3 weeks ago
@MyDatingCoach And how, specifically, does a guy ask for what he wants?
Is it like asking for ice cream in an ice cream shop?
mrsolofeo 3 weeks ago
A client? I don't think someone like you should be giving advice.
norxcontacts 1 month ago
She's lying: the friend zone means to men that your will never be intimate with me and I have no chance period. Just move on to someone else.
MrJohnboy006 1 month ago
if your in the friend zone get the fuck out of there!!! no seriously, literalry get the fuck out..GTFO!!
21iunie 1 month ago
LOL ok i get you're video but men can actually pick up on intuition like this ALOT quicker than you think we can... CtB ever heard that 1... Next morning that's all i'd be saying for you : )!! Of course then you were ok c ya. =-)
Therealjustice1 1 month ago
@WeAreAll0ne1 ikr!
ImadeSamantha 1 month ago
@ImadeSamantha get out of my inbox.
WeAreAll0ne1 1 month ago
stop the beeping!
robocock100 1 month ago
omg i thought you had no arms
WeAreAll0ne1 1 month ago
what the fuck happend to your teeth, damn thats fucked up
Koryo8 1 month ago
@Koryo8 thats cold
WeAreAll0ne1 1 month ago
@WeAreAll0ne1 yeah sure, and saying 'omg i thought you had no arms' isn't - have you no heart?
Koryo8 1 month ago
@Koryo8 your shirt blends into the chair, i wasn't trying to be mean. i was happy you had both arms. but yeah, the other person was just mean
WeAreAll0ne1 1 month ago
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last year 7th grade i crushed on a girl and after a few months i asked her out but she said no and i asked her out whenever we were alone she would still say no and I would hug her, but on her birthday i tried to make a move but she is going out with my BEST FRIEND and now they've been dating since that day up till now! But, my eyes are on the two cutest girls at my school but they both got out of a relationship. (we're good friends but i wanna ask one of them out) please help
weegee90000 1 month ago
is friends with benefits considered friend zone?
DaBlindKungFuMastuh 1 month ago
So HOW can you GET OUT of the Friend Zone if you are in it? PLEASE HELP!!!
jarden69 1 month ago
@jarden69 Don't want to give you some false hope. It's quite difficult to get out of the friend zone. 95 out of 100 times, you'd fail to do so.
Best bet? Find another chick and make sure that you NEVER enter the zone in the first place with her. There are fish galore in the sea. Happy fishing!
Imrankniazi 1 month ago
@jarden69 Look up Ladder Theory.
clumpofdirt77 6 days ago
Do you have arms, they seem to be blending in with the chair :/
Sproductions703 1 month ago 2
Emma said, "It's not as much a matter of not making your intentions clear; it's a matter of not asking for what you want in the beginning." But, the thing is: if we let the girl know "from the beginning" that we like her, that's just going to put us straight into the Friend Zone!! She wants a challenge and if she senses (or worse, we tell her) that we like her, it's not going to create feelings of attraction within her.
Good video, though. That's the only part I didn't really agree with.
txfreethinker 1 month ago
@Mrarmageddon8 Let me revise that a little. I know what you're saying, but since we should never treat women like sh!t, then I'd put it like this:
Treat them like goddesses= Friend Zone
Treat them like bratty little sisters= Sex
txfreethinker 1 month ago
Why aren't you in the kitchen?
A man wants his meal.
machinaking 1 month ago
mh mh mh ... what u doing out of the kitchen ?
YoSiRestulLumii 1 month ago
Girls nowadays have a fantasy situation in their minds and if it doesn't play out that way your SOL I've seen this many times, we are constantly being tested men. Why do you think a shitty song like we found love is number 1, because it's a huge fantasy of women to find a guy in the club seduce him with her dancing and fall in love with him soon after. If Rihanna was singing about the grocery store, the song would have bombed...
Most girls only see actions, not intentions. Do something big!
cappa917 1 month ago
OMG! She has no arms!
incaayoub 1 month ago 8
@incaayoub hahahahahahahhahahahahahahhaahhahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahhahahaha
joshua50101 2 weeks ago
Not asking what you want?... Didn't that get me in the friend zone? :/
rorshachfan 1 month ago 4
You cited studies...I want to see your sources. Im willing to bet they arent academically sound... As for everything else...fell into the background of me not caring...not like women deserve opinions.
rgoldsmi20876 1 month ago
so basically i have to tell her straight up that i would like to have sex with her? wouldn't people call that disrespectful though?
realtalk293 1 month ago
Mrarmageddon8 u r spot on mate.
partymanau 1 month ago
Sad isn't it? That a kind and loyal friendship can be so sexually disarming with women. I think it's just the opposite for me. Ah well, you like what you like. All of you girls insisting on the same tired sexually manipulative games. I will be here waiting, in the friend zone.
dayvconsir 1 month ago
at first i didn't think she had arms....
Ohsnapitzbritt 1 month ago 11
VAMPIRE!
ricardonupo 1 month ago
was listening until she said "women pick up on these things more than guys do"...i must know an extreme amount of oblivious and dumb women then..
royal4life 1 month ago
you know what is even worse than being friend-zoned?................ being friend-zoned while the chick complains to you about never finding a nice guy as she continues to date complete douchebags........
Darkslasher22 1 month ago 18
@Darkslasher22 Omg I know how you feel. I'm a girl, though and I've had to be my friend's shoulder to cry on whenever another girl friend-zones him. Such sad irony :(
strtthshw 1 month ago
@Darkslasher22: Then complain to her about never finding a good girl while dating floozies. Play her game; be each others' therapists for a change. I do that with my bestie a lot and we both enjoy the convo. Think I'm being Captain Obvious here but being a registered sex offender could possibly be worse than being in the friendzone lol
bigjew899 1 month ago
@bigjew899 Playing 'therapist' is never going to get you any closer than just 'friend'. So if that is what you want, by all means ;)
Sean021122 1 month ago
@Sean021122: Think you missed the part about being each others' therapists instead of it being one sided. Playing therapist at best puts you in the friend zone. So why not friendzone her at the same time and have her be your therapist too?
bigjew899 1 month ago
All these comments are suggesting, if you are in the friend zone, leave? obviously you didn't like the girl anyway... pfft
MrStokesy1 1 month ago
This doesn't have to do anything with the video, but you look like you're missing both your arms with that black chair and sleeves.
jholowka87 1 month ago
btw, Emma out of 10 what are the chances of me making a baby in you?
rapid303 1 month ago
i told this chick that i wanted her to her face and she said she would prefer to just be friends and later down the track i ended up sleeping with 1 of her friends and then she wouldn't talk to me for like a month WTF! she said she just wanted to be friends.. its done my head inn
rapid303 1 month ago
So women would rather sleep with the guy that could care less about her then the friend who at least tried to be nice and caring. girls your methods and ideas are F*ucked up.
11lolsauce 1 month ago 4
WOMENS LOGIC IS FUCKED UP THATS WHY INSECURE MEN EXIST
jambrandon531 1 month ago 16
Did you lose your arms in a lightsaber accident?
Cap285 2 months ago
This is why men look at porn. No hassles, no confusion, no broken hearts. Masturbation is the primary sexual activity of human beings. You're in the friend zone? Have trouble impressing the women? Empty your balls and watch these "problems" go away. It doesn't matter whether you screw that girl in your head or in your bed. Either way, tomorrow you're going to be horny all over again.
jantaj8 2 months ago 6
@jantaj8 so true.
StraightOuttaVanCity 2 months ago
where are your arms ????
dedenapraia 2 months ago
treat them with respect = friendzone
treat them like shit = sex
Mrarmageddon8 2 months ago 85
@Mrarmageddon8 man you coudlnt have been more simplicit
jambrandon531 1 month ago
@Mrarmageddon8 So u mean if i treat a girl like dirt i could get sex?
R u sure bout that? I gonna try this immediately after u give me a confirmation :)
Jayce1712 1 month ago
@Jayce1712 Dude, it's not about mistreating women, but putting yourself above the girl and not letting your attraction for her control your actions. Just treat her like any ordinary woman.
1990maverickhunter 1 month ago
@1990maverickhunter Do u actually have a girlfriend cuz ive tried it and it does not lead anywhere :(
Jayce1712 1 month ago
@Mrarmageddon8 Ahhh you're back with more manly bits of wisdom. Aka sexist drivel. You can treat her right in the middle of all that and elicit the feelings you want in her an dget the results you want. Just don't go to far in either direction.
Sean021122 1 month ago
@Sean021122
Nigga please. He's right. Treat them like garbage if you want sex.
MrHav1k 1 month ago 3
@Mrarmageddon8 U must be a Tom Leykis listener lol. What do u and Tom Leykis meant by "treating them like crap". U mean like don't have feelings for them?
kgp8 1 month ago
@Mrarmageddon8 I think it depends on the person... I go for guys that treat me well... I'm not a fan of the "bad" persona
august22CATS 1 month ago
@Mrarmageddon8 Grandmaster.. *bows head*
MikaelBetancourt 3 weeks ago
@Mrarmageddon8 Haha so fucked up. But true
juicediesel94 3 weeks ago
@Mrarmageddon8 ROTLMFAO!!!
mrlove1961 3 weeks ago
A piece of advice fellas, if you want to meet a reasonable girl, avoid bars and clubs, that's where women dress up go to REJECT men. Coffee, shops, book stores, and cozy eateries are better. Being a friend is ok but being a friend who is expected to behave like a boyfriend without the sex is not.
blackburn9 2 months ago 5
American men are frequently put into a catch 22 He's either too clingy/suffocating or too distant. he's either emotionally overbearing or emotionally vacant. Some woman expect men to navigate a hypocritical minefield of unsaid, inarticulate gestures, obscure references, and subtle subtexual often ambiguous signs from which if he misinterprets automatically renders him invalid Like if a woman won't commit she's being careful and exercising her options if a man doesn't he's emotionally immature
blackburn9 2 months ago
So how do you ask for what you want from the beginning?
Something like: I want to fuck you, so don't even think of me as a friend.
But women want to be respected. Bullshit.
If you don't engage a woman in a sexual way right from the start, she will regard you as either a little faggot or a sorry-ass mama's boy.
That's the lowdown. Woman want sex, but they won't do a damn thing to make it happen. So they allow themselves to be seduced. That way they can save face and avoid feeling like sluts.
mrsolofeo 2 months ago 2
are you Ana Kasparian's sister?
cycober 2 months ago
ur eyes are pretty & bright
AtlantiXYL 2 months ago
oh REALLY? women realize faster if a man likes them?
then its funny how a women rejects a man faster when he has the courage to ask them out. At least give him a chance.
women are judgemental to the point thats even hard to date them.
TookanArrow2myASS 2 months ago
@TookanArrow2myASS I have found that when a woman rejects, it's not so much as rejection as it is a test. They want to see if you are persistent but they also want to see if you are a tool or not. I never pursue one woman at a time and I make sure they know and see that. That way it turns the tables and makes her realize that it is up to YOU to decide if she is worth YOUR time or not. Sometimes mind-fucking them is just a part of the seduction.
OBXmp9 2 months ago
ore like gay zone
garbageday99 2 months ago
Fuck the friend zone. The only good thing about it is possibly meeting some of her friends and that isn't a guarantee. If you like a girl and you can't get with her you gotta get out. A guy who stays with a girl just to be her friend is either asexual or gay and has no balls. Sorry, but it is the truth. Girls don't understand when they tell a guy we are friends they are saying you aren't good enough/unattractive and bruise the ego 1000 fold
Vertigo2903 2 months ago 2
@Vertigo2903 amen bro amen!!
TookanArrow2myASS 2 months ago
Are you a fucking vampire?
Redo97 2 months ago
beautiful girl with no arms. so sad :(
SteveDutchy 2 months ago
@SteveDutchy Watch the last 5 seconds lol, you see arms xD its just black against black^^
RockahD91 2 months ago
A woman put me into the "friend zone" after knowing her for about a week. I then started having sex with one of her girlfriends on a regular basis. Now she always asks me why I never put a move on her and I say, "because we are such good friends".
OBXmp9 2 months ago 122
@OBXmp9 Wow! You told her! I should remember that.
TheHRchannel 2 months ago
@TheHRchannel Thanks, it just kind of played out that way.
OBXmp9 2 months ago
@OBXmp9 Teach me your knowledge, master.
GodSince1994 1 month ago
@OBXmp9 NICE
DaBlindKungFuMastuh 1 month ago
Why do guys hang around in the friend zone for one chick anyway? She's always going to date the losers, so why not ditch her and find a girl who actually WANTS a man who will treat her with respect? Btw, girls use the 'friend zone' as it's an easier way of saying 'I'm not interested in being with you, ever, but you seem to bend over backwards for me so I want to keep you around'. As soon as a girl says you're in the 'friend zone', run a mile.
Kittywhiskers1000 2 months ago 5
That answered nothing, bitch.
DJuron96 2 months ago 3
im not gonna explain what the friend zone is....
...*proceeds to explain what the friend zone is*
MrGdawg818 2 months ago 6
In this video, she clearly explains why girls are so good at manipulating and using the poor friendzoned guys. She even put the
Emphasis on the 'girls know' part. As soon as you try to do anything bout those feelings, Bam. She wont need you anymore and its not gonna work out.
neglect3d 2 months ago
Y U HAVE NO ARMS BITCH!!!
thedarkkey 2 months ago
If a girl tries to put you in the friend zone or puts you there she is a HUGE Bitch.
Why?
Because women only want male friends for emotional support they don't really give a shit about you or how you are doing with girls. All she is doing is emotionally draining you and using you to feed her ego.
Leave the bitch, but before you do, tell her she is just a manipulative bitch and because of that she is a shitty friend and nothing more.
QuirkyGengar 2 months ago
These same wanna-be dating coaches are the same ones who sabotage international dating agencies and any man who seeks to have a female companion. I've met so many of these dating/PUA coaches who'll trash any American or western guy if they look otherwise for their woman.
In fact, let it be commonly known that Russia has 12 million more women than men & we'll see how long these "dating" coaches will stick around.
ApollosInsight 2 months ago
So the saying goes "You marry your best friend". Should they not be your friend until after you're married?
Dating is too complicated. I'm sorry, let me rephrase that to make it correct, women are too complicated. Soon I'm not gonna put up with their childish games and say HELLO mail-order-bride!
VawdstheFirst 2 months ago
@VawdstheFirst
Unless you mail order a man, you'll be stuck with the same issues... lol.
But honestly, sometimes women have guy friends we're interested in - and they don't make their move so we assume they're not interested...
ThePinkHeel 2 months ago
@ThePinkHeel Maybe I will be lol. Sounds like an eternal impasse due to guys not knowing what to do and girls not making a move.
Luckily I've only been in this situation once and seem to be pretty good about making my intentions clear from the get go since.
VawdstheFirst 2 months ago
WHERE ARE YOU ARMS WEAR A LIGHTER SLEVES GET IN THE KICTHEN1!!!
1LFT1 3 months ago
Pretty sure you're wrong... I get the signals better than a female... maybe you meant the averege male sucks at that... and averege female is more sensitive etc. NOT everyone...
Clavsicus 3 months ago
@kokocipher the f**k are you even talking about, you're commenting @ the wrong person. What you said has nothing to do with what I said. Thats a buttload of wild assumptions you're throwing around there though, of which have no substance besides the divorce rate (which is a useless statistic, this video had nothing to do with marriage). With all that anger you got I can only assume you got "friend zoned" AND "blowjob-but-no-sex-zoned" 1 too many times ululul umad bro.
MarquisGemini 3 months ago
Blondes giving dating advices? Yea, let's get down and dissect this "friend zone" bullshit. What's next, the Blowjob-but-no-sex zone? Stop giving advices, the divorce rate of white couples is higher than 60% now.
kokocipher 3 months ago
Basicly a number 1 thing to remember I suppose. If a girl tells you she never really thought about it or knew you liked her, she's either BSing you or REALLY not interested (and doesnt care enough to humor you with your infatuation or even acknowledge it). Don't have a go at her because youre dumb.
MarquisGemini 3 months ago
@MarquisGemini If girls don't approach you, then you're not man enough to be approached. That had always been my philosophy. If a man chases the "girl of his dreams," that girl will never respect him. She'd probably cheat on him.
kokocipher 3 months ago
So what's the infomation in your statement ???
T4u3r 3 months ago
Lol Im a dude and I put a girl in the friend zone cos I didnt want to get serious with her... lmao! Hows that for irony BITCH!
SWIFTzTrigger 3 months ago 4
How to get out of the FZ ?? Fuck her girlfriends.... and just don't give a shit about her she will come around wanting some tubesteak also because that's all her girlfriends are talking about !!
SubaruWRXtreme 3 months ago
uhmm if this guy was put in the friend zone he does not need to ''make his intentions clear'' to not be in the friends zone.. if he was hot he wouldn't have to do anything. she's obviously just not interested!.. a guy doesn't need to make his intentions clear before he's put in the friend zone.. wtf that's horrible advice.
lifeisgolden41 3 months ago
what if your just being a friend and she gets the wrong idea you self centered retard
Zombie13Wierdo 3 months ago
your arms are invisable
FredDummiDokiWinbii 3 months ago 2
@FredDummiDokiWinbii lmao!
lifeisgolden41 3 months ago