He left his wife to be with me. He told me he loved me. It worked out great for 3 months. We lived together, slept together and spent time together. Then he said he doesn't think it's right for two men to be together and he left me and went back to his wife.
So, regardless the love interest by the man. The ways you make him leave his wife if your a female vying for his affection are myriad. You know, ring his home ask his wife if he can come to the phone. Guys are always guilty right, what man ever turned down a lovely young lady that likes to play? Whats that Chris Isaac song...has to do w/games?
'Okay lets get this straight...you can't MAKE anyone do anything THEy don't want to do.' I'm not trying to say anything, my observation being, if a woman falls in love with a married man, she doesn't have to make him do anything to cause a split. Just a perception thing, you might consider. Point in fact, post by girlwithexperience...'I know its wrong but I loved him first' ..
Some ladies don't consider right or wrong, hey her odds improve if she splits him from his wife. Happens....alot
That old refrain "no one can make you...oops lets stop here for a reality check.. Nobody is going to make you do a thing, you are personna non grata, the end justifies the means and she will turn your wifes pretty little head around. It's easier to wreck a good marriage than a prudent person would imagine. Nothing will be required of you, it's not inconceiveable that you are even aware, think a thing like that would make some kind of noise. Your spouse is "how'' in love or no! Luv ladies..
My reaction is one of righteous indignation. Lets simply take the question above and make it declarative. Chaste, true to his vows, won't get you your day in court. Whether you love the the interloper is academic . Blonde, the one w/too much make-up, loud...the one at the office all the other girls despise, can have you standing in a corner babbling. Regardless what your parents told you about correct choices, consequences, dictating your lot in life...sorry kids it won't wash.
Okay lets get this straight...you can't MAKE anyone do anything THEy don't want to do. If he doens't leave his wife he doesn't want to..therefore wake up dumbo!!
I'd like to add a fact....she may not be able to make him leave and guys I'm talkin to you...no matter how strong your relationship is with your spouse....if a lady wants you unattached, you really don't get a vote, through no fault of your own...it'll happen.
I am in love with a married man, but I feel in love with him WAY before he had a wife. I can't stop loving him. He tells me he loves and misses me too. We were like high school sweethearts. We never went out, he's my bestfriend, I love him so much, but he's married now... I know it's wrong, but I loved him first!
@Girlwithexperience Listen, I met my first boyfriend since we were 12 and even high school sweethearts on and off for years. now am married and even though her waited for me to leave my husband in the end I stayed with my husband.
@Girlwithexperience similar issue but we couldn't figure out how to get married because of cultural and religious issues so he finally married because its expected for him to...and were not over eachother..we don't love each other any less...we've been together for years...so this is rough.
Couple of things you can do
biswita 2 weeks ago
He left his wife to be with me. He told me he loved me. It worked out great for 3 months. We lived together, slept together and spent time together. Then he said he doesn't think it's right for two men to be together and he left me and went back to his wife.
WeHoActor 4 months ago
So, regardless the love interest by the man. The ways you make him leave his wife if your a female vying for his affection are myriad. You know, ring his home ask his wife if he can come to the phone. Guys are always guilty right, what man ever turned down a lovely young lady that likes to play? Whats that Chris Isaac song...has to do w/games?
rd1550 6 months ago
'Okay lets get this straight...you can't MAKE anyone do anything THEy don't want to do.' I'm not trying to say anything, my observation being, if a woman falls in love with a married man, she doesn't have to make him do anything to cause a split. Just a perception thing, you might consider. Point in fact, post by girlwithexperience...'I know its wrong but I loved him first' ..
Some ladies don't consider right or wrong, hey her odds improve if she splits him from his wife. Happens....alot
rd1550 6 months ago
That old refrain "no one can make you...oops lets stop here for a reality check.. Nobody is going to make you do a thing, you are personna non grata, the end justifies the means and she will turn your wifes pretty little head around. It's easier to wreck a good marriage than a prudent person would imagine. Nothing will be required of you, it's not inconceiveable that you are even aware, think a thing like that would make some kind of noise. Your spouse is "how'' in love or no! Luv ladies..
rd1550 6 months ago
My reaction is one of righteous indignation. Lets simply take the question above and make it declarative. Chaste, true to his vows, won't get you your day in court. Whether you love the the interloper is academic . Blonde, the one w/too much make-up, loud...the one at the office all the other girls despise, can have you standing in a corner babbling. Regardless what your parents told you about correct choices, consequences, dictating your lot in life...sorry kids it won't wash.
rd1550 6 months ago
Maybe she is JUST a piece of arse ?
mba2ceo 7 months ago
OR he's scared to get his NUTS CHOPPED OFF/Tires slashed/pictures exposed, list goes on...
AeonFlexMusic 10 months ago
OOOORRR he's lying and telling you he loves you when he doesn't but benefits from *something* you offer and doesn't want to cut ties with that.
luckyducky224 1 year ago
Okay lets get this straight...you can't MAKE anyone do anything THEy don't want to do. If he doens't leave his wife he doesn't want to..therefore wake up dumbo!!
osodelicious25 1 year ago
@osodelicious25
I'd like to add a fact....she may not be able to make him leave and guys I'm talkin to you...no matter how strong your relationship is with your spouse....if a lady wants you unattached, you really don't get a vote, through no fault of your own...it'll happen.
rd1550 6 months ago
@rd1550 This doesn't make sense? who doesn't get a vote? And what will happen? Who are you talking to? What are you trying to say?
osodelicious25 6 months ago
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Judithgerwarth1 1 year ago
I am in love with a married man, but I feel in love with him WAY before he had a wife. I can't stop loving him. He tells me he loves and misses me too. We were like high school sweethearts. We never went out, he's my bestfriend, I love him so much, but he's married now... I know it's wrong, but I loved him first!
Girlwithexperience 1 year ago
@Girlwithexperience r u hot?
TheKingHowardStern 1 year ago
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MGLYTV 1 year ago
@Girlwithexperience Listen, I met my first boyfriend since we were 12 and even high school sweethearts on and off for years. now am married and even though her waited for me to leave my husband in the end I stayed with my husband.
ilovecandles24 1 year ago
@Girlwithexperience similar issue but we couldn't figure out how to get married because of cultural and religious issues so he finally married because its expected for him to...and were not over eachother..we don't love each other any less...we've been together for years...so this is rough.
cymbeli 1 year ago
@Girlwithexperience that doesnt make a difference. He loves another woman enough to marry her...You dont see him married to you do you?
aldowaldo05 11 months ago